When Does The Breakup Hit The Dumper or Affect Your Ex?

[@RealCoachLee]

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[@wessica7645]

Hello coach lee, how can I talk to u in private? I have a 5month old and my boyfriend left the house 7 weeks ago. I did no contact and I feel like I ruined it.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

​@@wessica7645 myexbackcoach.com/coach-lee

[@SamuelMcGregor-sn7df]

This is No good for any break up .😢

[@rinanuryani]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😅😊😊😅😅😊😊😊

[@kralpetarkrescimeriv.terpi6043]

2months and 17 days, full no contact, working on my self, workout, reading book, enjoying myself, praying.. I am reborn! Relationship failed (she didnt respect me and i gave 101% of myself for her while she gived me only breadcrumbs).. I will not be someone option while she was my priority. THANKS Coach Lee your videos reborn me ❤️

[@splitzyentertainment7995]

Would you take her back

[@grigorirasputin425]

Did prayer help?

[@farisfaraway4229]

mine just 3 week no contact… and im focusing myself with workout and focusing myself and my family… i also made huge decision to buy a new car.. n further study…

[@farisfaraway4229]

im joining sprinting class to make me feel stronger internally, i buy new car to boost my ego and confident… i decided to further study because i want to grow… i know i cant force him to like me… he wants break up .. yeah he can have it… i try to change my way of thinking if he is meant to be it will be mine… if not… just keep the faith.. n live … i know i can live without him…

[@giovannimorgan8728]

Update???

[@nadinegregorio4439]

Do not stay where you are not wanted, valued and loved unconditionally.

[@rickylevi8961]

Remember it’s not your fault they have been thinking about the break up before you even know.... they found new excitement it will only be short lived and they will come running back. Focus on yourself hit the gym get them gains reconnect with friends family to keep you afloat and remember you have a beautiful soul inside and out!!

[@nieczerwony]

Well I agree partially. If you didn't provide them with what they need, then they decided to leave. And I am not talking about money. I am talking about emotional safety, support and understanding.

[@YvetteZapien]

Your comment made my day, thank you.

[@joyjitsu]

Absolutely devastated at the moment. To anyone watching this, just heed the warnings and lessons in these videos. If you truly love the person you must respect their decision, and respect yourself enough not to beg. If you beg now, they may say yes, but it will be short lived and poorly repaired. If you cease contact, reflect and work on whatever you think you did that was wrong, IF they come back, you will have a solid foundation to work from. Do not make the same mistake as I did. If you're fortunate enough to watch this early, just pay attention to it. There is nothing so special or different about your relationship that this principal will not apply.

[@Awais63966]

Did she come back?

[@MVProfits]

While men can sure do it too, it's typical for women to be quickly with another man... if it' s not done already as they often breakup when another guy is already in her life. So if she comes back, it's partly because of No Contact, no doubt, for sure, but also simply because that new guy wasn't the 'magic man' she thought he would be. Move on. For your sake. Fast.

[@JoshP86]

Sadly I didn't knew about NC after 2 months of the break up but I never begged. She monkey branched me and that sh¡t killed my entire soul.

[@bigcitydreamz4444]

I believe the person have to actually have feelings for you. If they only needed you once that need is over they're not coming back. I've been a stepdad to her children it hurt to move on but it is what it is.

[@TheDepiano]

What if you cheated?

[@stevedavetas1059]

Reality is that no one that puts us through this misery deserves our time ever again!

[@heartymcdurianz]

I disagree. My recent ex (We broke up on the 8th of this month, she dumped me) has been highly pressured by her toxic family, including her schizophrenic sister. She is extremely close to all of them, and they are all mentally unstable, really crazy, and unfortunately very good at manipulating her, since my ex is a massive pushover with no personality except "Yes I can do that to please you! Don't be mad at me!" due to a crap ton of trauma and manipulation. This, along with me not really wanting to listen to her needs, pushed her to break up with me. Yes, I'm at fault, but her family has played a HUGE role too. She broke my heart, yet I completely understand what she's going through. I am practicing no contact right now, with 14 days left before I reach out to her and try to rekindle what we have, since I know she still has feelings and from mutual friends, she's really struggling. I guess I went on a rant about myself, but what I'm saying is that sometimes there's way more to it than "Oh I was hurt, I should excommunicate them with no regard to their feelings or struggles" Having an open mind will REALLY help you out Steve. I hope you're taking it easy and healing if you gotta heal. :)

[@jeffrey2003]

That is a B*** slap of truth right there! They don’t …. But sometimes we love them enough to try to hope their heart will feel the loss and pain too in time. But yes they are lucky if they will ever even hear the sound of our voice again, if the relationship was a good one and they were the person that had the meltdown. As coach Lee would say let them have a long talk drink of regret. Time will serve it up right nice like with a little fancy cocktail umbrella on the side.

[@nakkazibakiyah8215]

U know

[@tomboy931]

@@heartymcdurianz update?

[@ellamedic8963]

@@heartymcdurianz you must really love her. That’s so sweet. Hope it worked out for you. And yes you’re right. Sometimes girls push their partner away when they feel overwhelmed by their own life’s problems.

[@S3113jshb]

I hate when people get on here with their negative comments. We’re here because we love our ex and want them back! Don’t come on here with your negativity.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Grace Marie. I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which is excellent. It will help you immensely and it has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

[@burnzz100]

Well she’s kinda right!?

[@mikejester7136]

Thank you!!!

[@verarobinson6759]

Totally agree so many negative people

[@vivahate100]

You were my lifeboat when my relationship sank 6 months ago. I learned a lot from your videos and more so, how my ex displays vulnerable narcassim traits. I went no contact and re-built myself. You videos, along with Jess Reynolds, Dr. Ramani and Narc Unscripted lay the foundations for my recovery. 6 Months later, she's reached out just as you said, pleading for another chance. Turns out the Grass wasn't greener! I was ready. I ignored her. I will always ignore her. I'm in a better place in my life now. Thanks Lee!

[@aminusale6405]

Hola amiga por que no le mandas un mensaje a este hombre que te puede ayudar a recuperar a tu pareja, el fue quien me ayudo a atraer de nuevo mi amor hacia mi. doctor gabriel

[@aminusale6405]

Puedes conectarte con él en watsap para obtener ayuda 👇

[@christiannilsen2835]

This makes me happy to hear from your strenghts. Sadly not result in you get together again. Sometimes I wish my love for her would go away and never look back, but it still linger after years. I know cause we have strong passion every time we meet, but to the expense of great pain and rejection always… not worth it. Proud of your strenght and feel respect for your choice!

[@dacampernoob]

Me and my ex got back together 6 months ago but I still watch the videos. But the man is right for most part. When I ignored my ex and never broke contact she came back wanting to work. Just give them time to think and begin to worry. At the same time just live your life and have fun and go do stuff u enjoy.

[@DeadMysticx]

how long did you do no contact, until she came back?

[@dacampernoob]

@@DeadMysticx it was on and off for like 4 months but I kept texting her. So I left her blocked and went out meeting new girls and working on me. I went no contact for about 6 weeks not texting at all

[@nita_alva]

Let's just be real If someone leaves you, it's cause they think they can get someone better. They're not coming back, they're gunna be chasing what they think they can get. Usually they can't get better though 😂 but they will leave a good person trying to get someone they think is better for all the wrong reasons (usually just youth, sexiness or resources).

[@davidchristian2368]

Exceptional counsel. Thank you sir. For those of you in emotional turmoil, one of the keys to staying in logic mode is to stop replaying the tapes in your mind and wallowing in your imagination. Keep your focus on what’s right in front of you. Your emotions and your imagination are not your friends right now. Deal with what’s right in front of you. This takes discipline and practice, I know, but you can do this. You must. Be busy about the things you do have in your life and that you do have control over. Stay focused on the next 5 minutes. Every time your mind starts to drift to the other person whether remembering some fondness or imagining them enjoying themselves without you, STOP! Grab hold of your mind, your thoughts, and yank them back to what’s in front of you. And keep doing it, over and over and over again. Don’t let your mind drift. Don’t let your emotions have rule over your mind. It must be the other way around. You can do this. Tell yourself that. Repeatedly. For some of you, you may be exercising mental muscles you’ve never used. Do the work. It will serve you extremely well not only in this but in your entire life. This is where you build wisdom and character and emotional control. And I promise you’ll be very glad you did regardless of what happens with whoever broke your heart. Rock on!

[@stephenn77]

Easier said than done especially when I’m laying down! The mind ruminates because it replays the events to find logic and reasoning in why it is over! Being dumped is like coming down off a very addictive drug. The withdrawal period is horrible! I cried for an entire week after my last break up… Felt like my soul had left my body.

[@madgestye1325]

I love the mental muscle part.

[@davidchristian2368]

@@stephenn77 it is easier said then done. Most worthwhile things in life are. I would still encourage you to do it.

[@freesoul1812]

I pleaded, begged and suffered depression. I did it for a year and it’s time call it a quit. Best thing happened to me is I’m in a better shape and I’m now processing my paperwork’s to join in Canadian Arm Forces. I never cheated on her we have arguments just like any other relationships. I guess when your partner is not matured enough to be in relationship it’s hard to fight for it. I hope you guys will find ways to keep moving forward. Work on yourself and the right person will join in your journey in life. Stay hard! -DG

[@sanjeevkumarbagarty3180]

Believe me guys....never ever break no contact....if you do... you will regret.....if they care about you love you then they will come back fight for you...it is so hard but we don't hae any option....be strong....and improved as much as possible...... you will feeel more confident....

[@giovannimorgan8728]

Update????

[@Rigoletta53]

No actual announcement but plenty of actions louder than words! Nobody breaks up without a backup.

[@ShmoofWB]

Hitting the one month mark of staying true to no contact. Go me!

[@awhiskyintheevening8408]

Good job! Keep up the hard work!

[@ShmoofWB]

@@awhiskyintheevening8408 Thank you. Every hour of the day can be different but I'm doing what I can. Not only did she let me go, but I'm now estranged from the majority of my friends and the hobby I've done for more than two decades. I've started working on my own physical fitness for the first time in many years and it's quite a good feeling. Now I just need to find some new hobbies.

[@WallDigital_]

How’s it going mate

[@surajmishra596]

Update

[@RuiMaradona]

Coach Lee thanks for being there for us in such a difficult times, i come from a breakup of a 13 years relationship, 2 months ago, been in NC for 2 weeks, somedays i feel i'm getting over it, some days it seems the relationship ended yesterday. You're the reason i'm staying strong and rooted, every time i think of send her a message, i see one of your videos and they calm me down, i don't have much hope that she will contact me but i'm working on myself to get through, for all my brothers and sisters outhere stay strong and trust the process, with our exes coming back or not, we all gonna be ok. Peace ♥️

[@yassyblue2328]

True statemente keep the good work!🥰

[@RuiMaradona]

@@yassyblue2328 Thanks for the kind words ☺️

[@Grufflehog]

I left my partner of 14 years back in March. We didn’t go no contact as I tries my best to support her and be there for her. I felt terrible throughout the whole break up. I met someone else who broke my heart so I got my karma and I’m still feeling it today! Saw my ex a few weeks ago and she was very happy, looked amazing and we are still friends

[@Markdaamannn]

I hope u guys get back that’s along time together just pray and have faith!

[@tristanrc11]

Update? She reach out to you ?

[@TylerSmith-dx8pb]

Whatever you’ve got going on guys, it will get better. For the first two months I was devastated, but I’ve gotten to the point where I’m kinda over it. Just keep doing the work on yourself, go to the gym and lose that extra weight, just become a better you and chances are you’ll just feel it one day

[@giovannimorgan8728]

Update???

[@TylerSmith-dx8pb]

@@giovannimorgan8728 Hello mate, to be honest I barely think about it anymore. She didn’t reach out and it’s actually been 12 months to this day exactly, how weird 😂 but yeah I’m fine now, I went on a few dates and I’ve been dating the girl I’m seeing now since like November

[@TheJohnnyrack]

16 weeks no contact Killed at first. Has got easier Take the time to work on yourself. I’ve got my gym body back, stopped binge drinking and partying and left the job I didn’t like by landing a far better job with lots of big prospects Concentrate on yourself and put the emotion, upset and energy you have for your ex into yourself Now when I post a story I see all my ex’s friends and her “work” page viewing it Change yourself and you’ll feel better

[@aminusale6405]

Hola amiga por que no le mandas un mensaje a este hombre que te puede ayudar a recuperar a tu pareja, el fue quien me ayudo a atraer de nuevo mi amor hacia mi. doctor gabriel

[@aminusale6405]

Puedes conectarte con él en watsap para obtener ayuda 👇

[@emanuelazote8988]

Got mine back thanks to Coach Lee. You do nothing and time will do it for you. Stay strong people 👍

[@RealCoachLee]

Emanuela, would you please email [e-mail] with your story?

[@emanuelazote8988]

@@RealCoachLee I have send you the email coach👍

[@splitzyentertainment7995]

@@emanuelazote8988 well done how long was you in nc for

[@emanuelazote8988]

@@splitzyentertainment7995 2 months

[@splitzyentertainment7995]

@@emanuelazote8988 oh was it hard?

[@JulesZone]

I love these motivational videos coach Lee. My ex wants to come back, but my attraction for him fell to zero, I have no feelings at all anymore. I moved on and I am happily in a relationship with someone else. Thanks for these videos, they gave me strength, courage and hope to move on, made me realize my worth and not to settle for less. I can't thank you enough.

[@jeanboy8322]

How long did you two date?

[@CiluhStyle1]

Unhealthy

[@antilaw9911]

Who broke it off?

[@johnscott7937]

Good day, everyone! Just wanted to encourage you all to continue to grow, don't worry about them. Stop watching their social, asking people, calling, etc. Analyze the situation and learn about what mistakes you made and how you can be better as a person, but don't put the ex on a pedastle. After about 4 months (been over 2 years now) I realized that I put her on a pedastle she didn't deserve, but also understand my short comings. Re-connect with real family and friends, and humble yourself. I should actually thank her for the breakup, best thing that happened to me. Pray, see a psychologist/counselor, etc. Build up your tool box and build a new life for yourself. You got this!!

[@calvinking976]

Holy crap man, you hit my situation on the HEAD !!! It makes me feel better that what I'm going thru is so common. Definitely pulls me out of the gutter. Thank you.

[@odalysgarcia7073]

I guess this is very common. This video was directed at my situation too. I just wish I would have seen this video 3 months ago. I would have done so many things differently.

[@MrTadow99]

Listen to Coach Lee. After 70 days post breakup I no longer want her back and have worked on myself so much I know I deserve better. Take time to heal and move on. Choose someone who chooses you.

[@DannyB-t6k]

Coach, I had a weak moment and broke no contact with my ex who dumped me. I’m disappointed in myself but I’ve committed to never making that mistake again, no matter how bad the anxiety gets.

[@Amai__]

Don’t feel mad at yourself, we all are only humans so it’s normal. I’m in same situation and it feels so hard sometimes, I just keep reminding myself that only time will help- no words can change it, only time can. Maybe it will be helpful! :)

[@MarceloRodrigues-cn1is]

It's dificult. But you can do it! Stay strong!

[@CR19917]

Same here, broke it after 12 days. Disappointed with myself, thought we'd both feel better if I cleared the air about something but I think it made things worse. Told her I'd let her initiate the next contact (another mistake). It's been five days..

[@andrinawanero6043]

After how many days???

[@MarceloRodrigues-cn1is]

@@CR19917 I broke up a few days too. I'm in no contact. Just remember: nothing you'll say will work! Nothing! It must be her iniciative to comeback. That's the only way. I keep reminding myself of that to not break NC. Hope it works for you too!

[@aidanbrampton2797]

Last year I went thru a stage of watching coach lees videos everyday and night because of a break up and a year later I’m now in a happy relationship with someone new :) lees videos are to help you guys get over the person there is a chance they may come back but it’s much better to try and move on. sometimes you may think about the ex but you have to power on it’s worth it 🙂

[@royalrenk]

Turst me its been 1 year since the break up and you get over her fast , so much wonderful women out there that will treat you better

[@official_nick_knight]

Day 1-3 You want to die. You think you can't go on. Week 1: You feel betrayed, abandoned, alone, scared. Week 2: Grieving. You start working on yourself. You join a gym. Reconnect with old friends. Week 3: You start to accept things a little more. You start to sleep and eat a little better. You start to wonder if this was mutual. Week 4: Not there yet. Will update... Update Week 4: She calls. Why, you don't know. It hurts to hear her voice but it's nice at the same time. You don't make the mistake of getting angry or being bitter. You make sure YOU end the conversation and don't let it go on too long. You cry after. Then you do anything healthy to make yourself feel better. Hit the gym, get a haircut, see a movie, buy a new outfit, pick up a new hobby (for me it is flying drones and I'm seriously considering trying to learn electric guitar). This is also a sad week because it's officially time to have a separate bank account, separate life insurance, and separate cell phone plan. Be ready for her to blame you for what she's doing! "The one that's accusing is always abusing." You start to look at other girls but it's not right because you're heart is still with your ex. Will keep updating if anyone cares! I know she's with someone else. I hate myself for still wanting her! Edit: Reached out to Coach Lee Team... I had a call with one of Coach Lee's guys "Johnny" and the dude was kinda rude! Like he just wanted my $! $3k to be exact!!! No way would I spend $3k on "coaching"🤣 I would feel so pathetic if I spent that money on coaching instead of myself! I could get a couple dental crowns I have wanted for awhile, LASIK eye surgery, cool sculpting on my belly, even a rhinoplasty would all be more reasonable then coaching, at least for me! IDK if I even want her back! She needs to chase and convince me at this point. I will be ok! I think I wanted the coaching for the wrong reasons anyways. I want to make her jealous and feel stupid more than I want her back and that's just stupid but it's how I feel right now!

[@Bonzmae]

Any update yet? 😊

[@devontebroncas4967]

Updates?

[@danielweber2610]

Update?

[@official_nick_knight]

Things got very scary for me week 6 and I was revived by paramedics. Not sure if I should update anymore...

[@devontebroncas4967]

@@official_nick_knight hey man -- I hope you're doing okay, and please please take care of yourself. You were already going on the right path of improving yourself and getting over the breakup. Please don't hurt yourself over her, your life matters much more than how *anyone* thinks about you. Please take time-off for yourself, and if you'd think that updating your situation on this comment section will always bring you back to square one, then by any means, please just delete this comment so you won't have any reminders on updating here. Take care of yourself man -- I see you're already on the right mindset of doing it for yourself. You're strong enough to stick with it and let time do its healing. Much love!

[@dirtysouthtiger]

It’s even more confusing when your spouse leaves without any communication and just leaves you in the dark.

[@MVProfits]

I got that treatment. And I had never seen her do that to anyone so it was doubly shocking. And my first time experiencing it. I was devastated then. But since, I learned how it's typical. Read the many comments on channels like this one. They don't want to confront y ou, have an emotionally charged tough meeting, or second guess their decision and all that. Plus it's typical for women to be quickly with another man... if it' s not done already as they often breakup when another guy is already in her life. So if she comes back, it's partly because of No Contact, no doubt, for sure, but also simply because that new guy wasn't the 'magic man' she thought he would be. Move on. For your sake. Fast.

[@jessicapoole529]

This is what I am going through we separated the end of April this year he was with another woman 1 and half weeks later well she cheated on him twice and on the fourth of July I took him back then on the 13th he left with no word and ran to her all the lies and games he played I fell for his lies and manipulation and I blame myself it is my fault for letting him come back and destroy me when I was starting to feel like me again so next time she cheats on him and she will once a cheater always a cheater he has nothing to come back to this time he had it all we were together for 22 years and he threw it away for someone who doesn't even love him she is using him but one day he will see what a terrible mistake he has made but its to late now he lost his kids his grand kids and me the people who have loved him forever and he doesn't care not right now anyways but karma she is real and I can't wait for her to get him. He couldnt even tell me the truth and thats what hurts the most but I'll be okay I know one day he will see the truth. I feel bad for anyone who is going through this right now because it hurts like hell.

[@beardlong8235]

cheating

[@_Diaryofwealth]

I get excited like a little child when coach Lee uploads a new video 😀

[@jimmythrowoff]

day 15 of NC here. i binge watch coach lees videos whenever i get severely anxious about her. i wont lie this is really tough. We where so happy together. I really hope she comes back and sees how much growth and change ive made towards myself and her. sending love to everyone out there that is hurting and just wants to be a better partner and not rushing into a rebound. Its shows a lot about the person you are.

[@stephenn77]

We lose ourselves in the devastation following a break up. I’m going on more than three months now of NC and it feels like he is a part of my past now. I still think about him and ruminate on occasion, but most of the pain is gone assuming I don’t dwell on how things were too long. I may have just created a fantasy about how I wanted it to be! Thought I met my soulmate of sorts. After this amount of time I’m not thinking as emotionally as before, more realistically. Wish me luck in finding the right partner!!

[@mamziemay1575]

Good for you, what a great attitude you have. You will find someone who is the one! I'm in a similar situation, still gutted, but the betrayal was so spectacular, that I will never love him again or get back with him, in any event. It was as if he murdered the love I had for him, and it will never return. I'm just healing now from the trauma of his betrayal. Best wishes for you!

[@stephenn77]

@@mamziemay1575 You too!

[@mamziemay1575]

@@stephenn77 Thank you. The Universe has our back ! Shine on !

[@giovannimorgan8728]

@@stephenn77 update???

[@torontoraptors6607]

I did everything right and stopped contact immediately. didn't bag and gave her the space she needed. Closer to 4 months I reached out. She answered but was very cold. Told me she has a new bf. Now a month since I reached out her b-day is coming up and everything in me wants to reach out. But it's time to move on. I wish everyone the best with there situations and it will be okay. Stay strong kings 💪

[@jeremiahabreu9616]

Had a weak moment and reached out after 31 days of no contact. Thought if I just said what was on my heart it might warrant a response. Needless to say there was no response, even after I dropped off some belongings at her house when she was not home. Absolutely devastated with not so much as even a thank you or even an acknowledgment. So disappointed and upset with myself for thinking that breaking no contact would trigger a response. I’ve likely only pushed her farther away and solidified why she left in the first place. I guess after two years together I wanted to believe and have hope that I could fix it. Sick to my stomach.

[@Sj-ux7vb]

Keep your head up. Just focus on yourself. As hard as it is truly put that focus on yourself and trust the process

[@aliray1165]

Maybe that’s your lesson. They make you feel sick to your stomach. It’s not you…..it’s THEM. Work on healing yourself, you gotta feel GOOD about yourself and happy. Get fit, work out, sleep well. Get stable. Then….even if they try and make you feel bad by giving you nigh on jack shit, you’re untouchable. And that my friend is very attractive. Funny isn’t it? I think you can see what I’m trying to tell you. You’re the most important one. When you’re ready, your potential partner will find you irresistible.

[@Borderlandsurvivor]

Focus on the no contact now! Don’t ever give up on her though. If you truly love her, believe!

[@aliray1165]

@@Borderlandsurvivor it’s fine to give up on someone if they are no good for you. It’s worth waiting sure but sometimes you gotta say enough is enough.

[@jeremiahabreu9616]

I have been investing in myself now more then ever. Back in the gym going harder then I ever have, started therapy three months ago to work on and through DBT (Dialectal Behavior Therapy), involved in church and serving others, and just landed a really good job that I never saw coming. All things I truly had hoped to share and have her be a part of with me. I won’t ever give up hope, and I truly pray for her healing and growth daily. I want her to be restored with joy and to see her smile shine bright again. I miss my best friend and that’s what been so difficult, not getting to share the day in day out joys and struggles of life with her. I know in this season my growth is just as important and guys thank you for the support. It’s been a hard road, one I never knew I would ever walk down. I put a lot of expectations and pressure on myself and feel like I let her down. That is the disappointment I have in myself.

[@vishalsomaiya3156]

Love you coach lee after 3.5 months of nc you brought her back and your not wishing on her birthday was super duper hit thankyou ❤️

[@solarsauce]

Good for you dude! How do you know the birthday thing worked?

[@andrinawanero6043]

Didn't you feel like wishing her? 🥺

[@dziri9237]

it’s weird that ex acting out of character after the breakup .I mean they said they don’t post publicly this and that during the relationship and after the breakup posting so many Ig stories and acting sexy when that person was never like that before or during the relationship.It’s like they want validation from guys on social media.Been broken up for 5 months with 4 months no contact so far (friends told me about ex posting a lot ).Thanks

[@SuperMan-ho9de]

Lucky you ....god bless both of you

[@ryanjames3260]

This guy keeps me from having a breakdown I swear!

[@OcAirsoft]

Ex contacted me to meet up and that she missed me… that night canceled the plans and blocked me and later emailed me to never contact her again

[@Button2527]

My Ex is disabled, he relied on my health insurance from work. As soon as I retired, he filed for divorce. Then later, I started to realize that this has been planned. I talked to him about our grown up Son and looking forward to see his future in order to keep our family together. He always told me that he doesn't want any body,, Only 2 months later he met someone online and moved in together. 36 yrs married, he used me for his benefits, I was naive, full support and loving, did not know that everything has been planned. It's very hurtful, I thought he loved me all 36 yrs together.

[@intesarsalim8312]

Coach Lee...I totally agree with your human psychology and about knowing your dignity and self respect..to give the dumper what she wants .. to let her feel the loss ... and give yourself a best chance.. .

[@betherealdeal]

Respect yourself / take your power back! This dude is spot on! Remember this: the grass is always greener over a septic tank. Let them go! That green grass has foulness that will soon be discovered!

[@yogihaughton]

Coach Lee helped me through a break up. We got back together. I now watch him to try and help me understand why I dumped the most incredible woman I had met, up until this point in my life. Be knows his shit inside out

[@hm3622]

Hey Martin how long did it take?

[@jeffheflin4819]

Still feels awkward not having a wife after 28 years but it gets easier every day. From what I hear through the grapevine things aren't going her way. I'll give her kudos for chasing her happiness and not trying to come back after that failed. She'll always have a place in my heart but not in my house. They say it takes a third of the time you spent together to get over it completely, I've only got 6-7 years to go.

[@stevecampbell7620]

Stay Strong, for me it was 40 years but you can heal. It does leave a scar but you will be a better stronger person.

[@awhiskyintheevening8408]

Stay strong, brother. It gets easier with time.

[@mutechannel13]

Word up bro..... She got a place in you heart but not your house 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@510kid9]

I felt this. I hope you take it easy on yourself. Not much makes you feel better after all that, but do whatever it takes to feel any kind of peace. The effort itself is worthwhile.

[@dennisray8904]

Praying for you bro

[@1InvisionProductions]

This video hit home for me, because you’re 100% correct.

[@twiistnutter]

Hey Coach Lee, I just wanted to tell you how positively you've helped my emotional stability and strength over the last 3 weeks. I've watched over 10 of your videos now, and feel guilty about not purchasing your kit. I just want to sincerely thank you for having this INCREDIBLY helpful information available for free. Thank you so much for what you do for people

[@jasongabb1671]

Hi Coach Lee, been 7 months since the split, i have stayed in NC since the end of December. Had breadcrumbs from her via text in Jan, Feb & April. I bumped into her in May at a local restaurant, where she downloaded stuff on me(About her life and kids, she had been drinking), i was polite and courteous and listened to her for a few minutes. Anyway, from wanting her back at the start, i no longer want her in my life.I have fond memories but the bad times and the gaslighting that i got from her, make me more objective about the toxic relationship that we had. Although she didn't come back, i am now glad that we haven't reconciled our relationship. NC hasn't worked in saving the relationship, but it has saved me as a person with self respect and i know i will find someone else who will value me, and treat me as the prize as you say. I still watch your videos CL, as i find them fascinating and i might need your advice when the next lady comes along. Thanks again CL, you were a savior in the first few months of 2022. Guys, trust in Coach Lee.....

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Jason Gabb. She sounds like a narcissist, and I would stay far away from her. I've been there! DO NOT GO BACK TO A NARCISSIST. YOU WILL DEFINITELY GET HURT BADLY. Good luck to you. Hugs to you..❤️⚘️⚘️

[@jasongabb1671]

Thanks Jean, it has been tough. Hope you are well?

[@RealFinalCionide]

I believe that if they don't contact you within 2 weeks, even if you disagreed and wanted to fix it, after 2 weeks its time to move on fully. But try to move on now. Because if they come around you will be a more positive person.

[@bonafiddde]

I just wanted to thank you coach for being there for all of us in the times of need,because you say a lot of things to us that people said in a different way that didnt have that much effect in the way you have said it,personally me who got dumped,even thought it was a short one (two and a half months) i grew fond of it and we even had a trip together and i thought that sort of it was it,but after that it all started falling apart,and no matter how hard i tried to sort of fix and repair the damage it was all in vain.I began wathcing a lot of your videos,from the steps the ex goes through a breakup,dumpers remorse and now this one,i kept blaming myself and doing things that were affecting me badly,just because someone that wasnt really even up for the fight for us left.And after a while i understood that in the end she wasnt even there,that it was a sort of a one-sided relationship and that i almost made myself lose everything i had for someone that i was just a stepping stone for.If anyone gets this far,i do understand it is hard,and it keeps getting harder as the day passes,but if anything listen to what this man has to say and i hope you will understand that the best love you can give to is for yourself,and as coach lee has said in one of his videos,if you do not get your ex back,or if she does not return you get something even better in return,you heal yourself and you become a better,brighter person.And ive had a lot of alone time to understand that you dont have to blame people for things they have done,because sometimes it is the only thing they are able to do,for they do not know better..I really hope that you read this coach lee and i hope you understand how much you are doing to so many people around the globe that are going through tough times and that you and your voice is the light at the end of the tunnel that we got ourselves in! Thanks a lot once again and godspeed Coach Lee!

[@Julie-le5me]

I love this man! Spot on...tough love mixed with empathy

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Hi Lee, this is a great video. I don't know HOW I missed one. The Love I felt was real, hell, I was ready to marry him. I got tired of 5 years of being USED ,& being FUTURE FAKED. I had that GUT Feeling that he's too good to be true. RUN from him. He had no friends, and my friends disliked him immensely. They saw right through him. Yes, I was confused and broken hearted when I said goodbye to him, and Lee, you helped me see right thru him. I suffered for about 2 years, but I'm fine now. This was one breakup (for me) that was justified. Have a nice wknd. Love you..❤

[@malcolmeatman-goode8201]

You guys please listen to Coach Lee. I promise in time it gets better. If you had a significant relationship (a year or better) they WILL reach out. Without getting into details I was an absolute jerk at the middle to end of my 3 1/2 year relationship. She left, I never chased and the game was on. She tried to hurt my friends feelings, she had her rebound reach out at condescend me, she tried to keep control by keeping my phone in her name. I never once disrespected her, her rebound (who left her for someone else after about 3 months) nor most importantly myself. A lot of immature things. I continue to work on myself each and everyday. Well last month I got a text out of the blue. Bread crumbing if you will. The point is it been a year and at this point if she wants to try to reconcile, she will have to do the heavy lifting. She will have to earn the 2.0 version of me IF I’m willing to see the improvement in her to take her back. Guys time is fragile & life is delicate. You can absolutely move forward.

[@ordinaryguy815]

She sounds toxic. You both need to work on yourselves or everything will repeat itself. Check out Eckhart Tolles work, especially his take on relationships.

[@jayjaytornea7132]

Now im on a 1month of NC Im also losing hope that were gonna be together again. But each and everyday I am healing and taking care of myself and still watching coach lee’s videos because it always helps me move forward and to focus on myself. Thank you coach lee.

[@vickysk9681]

Been over a year since breakup, about 2 months since last contact. I wish I become stronger and this hellish period ends. Everyday is a battle.

[@brianhefley9147]

Same

[@disgruntledgoatiam]

You should have released the ties after 2 or 3 months. 1 year is toilet much time.

[@vickysk9681]

@@disgruntledgoatiam knew her since I was a kid. We were dating for more than 11 years. But I agree. you're right.. I wish I knew all of this then!

[@brianhefley9147]

@disgruntledgoatiam after 10 years easier said then done and when there's kids involved

[@vickysk9681]

@@brianhefley9147 no kids bro. I'm 27.

[@danovic7822]

Thank you for all the footage you share, recently started getting back together with my ex after a harsh breakup. (Even though she told me we would never get back together). I did some pleading right after the inital breakup, but after your videos went into NC. She reached out, I reacted calmly, friendly but with some distance. The amount of her reaching out kept increasing up untill the point she asked to meet. We noticed we both improved some negative points when we met up, and agreed to focus on good communication in the future. We shared some intimate moments and are on our way to a more healthy relationship. Thanks again!

[@shimmywow3613]

how long was your no contact period?

[@danovic7822]

@@shimmywow3613 Short actually, typically after we broke up, she could only stay away for 3 days or so before contacting me again.

[@Swizzyj303]

I hope I can relate to this one day …💔

[@danovic7822]

@@Swizzyj303 Well, we still ended with another fight, and still split up. I didn´t plead this time, ignored her for 2 weeks. She hit me back up again, she wanted to talk. When we did, she became really angry after me being critical on her behaviour which she literally asked for me to share lol. Then we decided to leave it like it is.

[@odalysgarcia7073]

Coach Lee, I've been looking at your videos for a week now and just wanted to tell you that this has been one of your best videos that i've seen so far. It hits my situation right on the head. I just wish I could be as confident as you speak about getting my ex back. He's a bit stubborn and has a big ego so I don't expect him to come back, but I still continue to see all the videos. Thanks for the help.

[@gabriellex6142]

Thank you coach lee!!! Watched this video six months down the line (he dumped me like trash), and you were literally speaking my language!

[@Deathmetaldaddy79]

It has been a rough 8 months. This video definitely was to listen to. We have children together so no contact can't happen. However, minimal contact is being achieved. Thanks Coach Lee. I only discovered these videos a few weeks ago and it has helped a great deal. YOU THE MAN!

[@paulmac3176]

Hey man, how did minimal contact go? I am currently going through a break up with 2 children and my heads a bit all over the place if I am being honest. Don’t know if I am doing things right or not and if it’s working or not. Any advice be great man cheers. 👍🏼

[@tb87670]

@@paulmac3176 Same, breakup with 1 kid. Dumped, devastated, have to keep some contact. What works? What helps the most in this situation? We made a little progress but still "no promises" from her.

[@eraserrainlantier3040]

Doing NC. Lost her after nearly 4 years. Sadly I have to move across the state this week. Leaving no chance of working things out. This just helping me deal with the loss. Thank you so much for the advice.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

eraserrainlantier I am so sorry for your pain. Let me help you by recommending Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit. I know it's very tough and I've certainly been there. I want to suggest that you consider Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit." It's such a good guide to help you so that you aren't just wondering on your own. It covers a lot of situations and has strategies that you probably haven't thought of. The link for it is myexbackcoach.com/ebk. I wholeheartedly recommend it and wish you the very best of luck.

[@MrMarco7259]

This sounds spot on! She seems so cold towards me now! 10 years of marriage. I helped raise her now adult children and now have 2 grandchildren. She's having an affair with a man that's young enough to be her child. He is only 1 year older than her oldest child. I'm devastated!!

[@emanueltavares353]

This is by far the realist video ive ever seen on breakup situation

[@williamdietz6944]

YOU ARE TOTALLY ON POINT ! EVERY SINGLE BIT OF THIS VIDEO IS ON THE MONEY, BRAVO COACH LEE

[@MrKM09]

Videos worked, I smashed no contact and whilst she reached out a lot. The the most important part is to realise if they do not respect your boundaries it’s not acceptable. She came back, we had a very emotional night however mixed signals and whilst she tried to make a move on me multiple times, she voiced she was scared about what she wanted. I will pull away now as I know what I want and sometimes you need to let it go. I keep pushing on my own journey!

[@giovannimorgan8728]

Update???

[@MrKM09]

@@giovannimorgan8728 update, cold silence and I went on to date other people. One of which it turns out was mutually connected (both had no idea), she then blocked me on social media.

[@mascotlove7411]

My ex sabotaged the relationship didn’t want to take accountability so they chose to leave me high and dry.. but don’t worry I’m giving her no contact I’ve been in photo shoots and now acting in small rolls I’ve been on social media posting my come up and she has been watching.. guys do better level up and they will come to you eventually

[@prestonrein5500]

Pursue excellence!

[@beardlong8235]

dis she come though?

[@mascotlove7411]

@@beardlong8235 no what I got was her friends and sisters viewing my Instagram stories.. but no response so I decided to block them all

[@beardlong8235]

@@mascotlove7411 so all of the things u did, didnt reactract her. Maybe, she had lost attraction and respect for you cause you begged. However, the good news is that you are now strong and you are over her for good. So congrats

[@mascotlove7411]

@@beardlong8235 no it did not but who knows maybe the future will or not but I’ve learned my lesson.. I’ve tried to see potential in her but she didn’t see potential in herself.. why should I chase when she left me.. these last 6 months I’m good without her bc I was the only one putting in effort and had the resources to see her.. and all she did was start petty little arguments.. I loved her more than me but I will never love someone more than I love myself that’s what I learned.. she left you mate she left me there is no point of fighting for someone who doesn’t see you a valuable please heal bc the woman I was with will never hear or see from me again I blocked all traces of that

[@benhartart9487]

I didn’t marry my ex, then 6 years later she dumped me, 12 years invested, but it’s been 2 years and for anyone going through a breakup, trust me it gets easier, value yourself and level up in life, then many other people will see your value and you will find happiness 👌🏻🙌🏻😚😘

[@artix86]

Thank you my friend.

[@tennispennis7579]

Value is odd thing, they decided I had no value to them then in no contact , days , weeks months then years passed and it became crystal clear. Their actions in the break up and how they broke up suggested they were the ones with no value, no respect , no integrity , no love and no basic human emotions for someone that cared deeply for them. Nasty bitter cold self centered cruel damaged people are everywhere and I needed this lesson to reinforce who I am and what value I have. I would not want to be that other person as I dont understand how they can live with themselves treating people family and even their pets the way they do. I would not wish that person on my worst enemy.

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Tennis Pennis, there are all kinds of people in this world. I think the WORST are the NARCISSISTS! They have no empathy, no love, they cheat, lie, etc...I know I was with one for 5 years and never knew he was that way. Coach Lee's videos helped me. Good luck to you. ⚘️

[@hsafranify]

Coach Lee - "mic" drop! I This was your best '1" yet. I cannot believe how you articulately crammed an entire college semester class on relationships into this "1" KZbin video!

[@keepgrowing9941]

Attendance check: PRESENT 🙋🏻‍♀️🇵🇭 I agree, i forgot, Coach, to update you, and everyone. Eversince i got to know your channel, and follow your tips, he is the one chatting me and telling me how he misses me, and how he regrets dumping me. He also told me how he is hurting because i told him i cant see him anymore because i have a new bf already. 🙂 Once we, dumpee, walk away and move on, they will turn around and get back to you. Thanks coach. Cause you help me turned the table. ❤️🇵🇭✨💋

[@DeadMysticx]

after how many days, did he conact you?

[@keepgrowing9941]

@@DeadMysticx less than a month, he never stop communicating with me, right after the break up, i beg and plead. Then nothing happens. Then suddenly i searched here on youtube on how to move on, less than a month, gladly i found coach lee’s channel. So less than a month he is always contacting me.

[@mrnobody1909]

My ex-gf broke up with me yesterday. When we fought she always says: "Let's break up" "I want space" And i always insist that "No let's talk we can fix this and i say sorry" then we are good. After a week. we fought again she wants break up again i say sorry again. And yesterday i decided to give what she want. her space. Even we didn't fought she's just bad mood. But i put a last message that i say "im sorry if i did something wrong that makes she feel upset or tired in our relationship, when she's okay she can come to my house so i know she's ready to continue our 2 and half yrs relationship". This is my Day 1 in NO CONTACT. And i'm doing well but yeah i miss her. I'm doing my best right now to not to think of her, keeping myself busy.

[@giovannimorgan8728]

Update???

[@cwigg7728]

I’ve been dedicated to no contact, it’s been very hard. But, she reaches out for no real reason all the time and it frustrates me. I don’t know why she does it, and I’m sure she doesn’t know either. I went into no contact w the idea it would bring her back to me, but now I do it for my own growth. I’ll let her continue to reach out, and I’ll respond at my leisure. It would be easier if she just stopped reaching out, and maybe one day I’ll ask her to stop. Hope is a drug, and I’m hooked.

[@adrienne3682]

They have someone lined up before they dump you

[@untamedheart6820]

Ikr, ex husband already secure my replacement when he ask for divorce because of codependency issues he’s got

[@Greggymcgregerson]

Currently on 75 days of no contact, definitely losing hope that I’ll hear from her again:/

[@ags835]

Update?

[@covid-2031]

After 1 week of NC I'm now in the sheer HELL that is Wanting to ring her but at the same time terrified of breaking NC as Coach Lee warns against...I am searching high and low for the strength to persevere 😣.....its terrifying

[@maksymilianm6924]

Take a look at Coach Craig Kenneth and the rest of the Coaches, they are great too and also give good advice and power.

[@hm3622]

Hey, do you have any updates?

[@johanvanderlinden4331]

After a month of no contact my ex's son reached out to me. I love both of her kids, I was happy to talk to him, and we never even mentioned his mom, but I'm almost dead certain she put him up to it, because it was very unusual for him to reach out. I was upbeat, casual and positive with him, which is exactly how I was feeling, so if he reports back to his mom he's going to tell her I'm doing fine and didn't ask about her. Hopefully I did the right thing.

[@brandonohara4122]

You did Hows it going?

[@johnbaker2966]

Update?

[@iAdroitnessGaming]

Thanks so much for helping me. I’ve struggled a lot and miss them. It’s been months and nothing yet. Pretty sure she’s seeing someone though. No contact is the only and best option to do. It does work, but not in all situations. People need to understand that. Thank you

[@abhijitsingh8811]

Found everything very logical in all the videos you present …coach lee you’re doing a great job helping people …eagerly looking forward for a response from your side

[@010804jefte]

7 months no contact, after a relationship of almost 3 years. She was without a doubt the woman I liked the most. I was 38 and she was 25 when we first met. I never imagined that I would like her the way I do. It wasn't anything serious... But time passed and today I'm sad to like her. I noticed that she was losing interest and I walked away, as I didn't look for her, she didn't look for me either. I dated 6 women in those 7 months, but she stayed in my head. Today, I didn't even want to have her back... I just wanted to forget about her. But sometimes I think I'll love her for the last of my life.

[@Renren625]

Updates?

[@clintonsthilaire]

Coach LEE = THE GOAT

[@CiluhStyle1]

Damn you spot on...my wife said everything you said when it came to her thinking about breaking up. She kept trying to fix herself and have patience with me but I was too emotionally detached to see....I messed up but she contributed as well but in her mind, this woman really said to me, "I was perfect in our relationship, there was nothing I could have done to make it better". She doesn't take any accountability but out the blue shes actin like she said none of those things and is now trying to work on us lol smh women are so confusing. I'm learning though

[@bsexboy]

yall work it out?

[@Mr1tobo]

My ex broke NC today after 5 weeks NC and 7 weeks post break up. She said I hope you been doing good. I replied I’ve been good, hope you are as well. I just let the conversation die. If she reaches out again then I’ll see if she wants to meet up for coffee.

[@Fullsalvoathlete]

I am sitting around single on purpose. I broke it off 7 months ago. I’ve dated but have zero interest in getting involved with someone now. When I broke up with my ex I was still deeply in love with her. I felt a huge loss, I have thought about her every day since, but there was to much damage and loss of trust. Regardless there was nobody else and I had no and still have no interest in being in something exclusive.

[@os3688]

Sounds exactly like my ex… she told me she couldnt picture her life without me…. I bet she has thought of me everyday since as well. I miss her so much

[@arianjohnson272]

Did you sleep with anyone you dated or did it not get that far?

[@jacqui8392]

Thank you Coach Lee for getting me through the past month...you're a blessing x

[@MrPTR91]

Coach, you've cured me, man. Wow! Here I am thinking I'm losing my mind and now I know that I was right all along. This is my situation described to a T! I've been with my wife for 16 years, but we've only been married for 5. She sprung this on me very quickly. Out of the blue. I knew we had some issues to work on, but she lowered the boom without warning. As you said, she planned this out and she is firm in her stance. In no way, shape or form has she mentioned working this out. At all! We have a 15 yr-old son, so we have a lot of history. But your description of the events is EXACTLY how it happened, and I know I was right to assume that she's probably already been with another man and if not, she's preparing to be with one at our marriage's conclusion. She won't even let me touch her. It's ok, though. The truth hurts sometimes but it will surely set you free. Thank you so much! Take care, brother.

[@MrPTR91]

Thank you again, Coach.

[@MrPTR91]

@Tony Guark It's just the straight talk. No BS. He keeps it real with the people.

[@TeKNiQ50]

Devastating this happened. I'm sorry to hear. Did she try to come back? If so, how long did it take? How are you now?

[@MrPTR91]

@@TeKNiQ50 I'm doing well. Now she won't stop blowing my phone up, but we're done. Most of the time I don't even respond back to her messages. When someone betrays you, if you let them back in, they'll do it again. They will. It would only be a matter of time. I don't have anything to say to her unless it's pertaining to our son, but some people don't understand that you don't get to blow stuff up and then think " sorry " is going to make it all better and there not be any fallout. I lost my home and everything. I'm doing a lot better though. Thanks for asking.

[@asiamiller6833]

So Nice it’s not over you can regain power over the one who dumped you

[@abbythomas688]

Coach Lee ...We just broke up ..and the funny thing is that we both subscribe in your videos😭 And I think he's a good follower of what u coach.😔

[@RealCoachLee]

Believe it or not, no contact is still the best thing to do. Show him you can stay away and actually do it.

[@atharva1656]

Coach Lee almost describes my personal situation..hats off to you sir

[@VandZST]

Now what if you got involved with a woman who truly has too much baggage and responsibility for a relationship? No doubt she loves me but she said she's emotionally unavailable to everyone and wants a year to herself to focus on work, a masters degree, family issues and more. Much more. We love each other but you can't heal a broken women and I was trying. She dumped me once and came back after I did NC for 4 days. Foolishly accepted. Not even 1 month later she ends it again due to not being able to reciprocate the same energy and respects me enough to not waste my time and waste her energy for something she's not ready for. Truly doubt she'll find another guy who compromised and loved her frailties like me, but i'm in so much pain and currently 9 days into NC again and i see her relief online. My trust is so fucked up idk what to do. Thanks for all the videos

[@intesarsalim8312]

coach Lee ..all ur advices are based on human psychology. ..and I can relate ur every single word with me. I watch different coaching videos. ..but the way u analyse and say it with the confidence. .is all make u the best of all.

[@bryananthony8822]

This video describes my situation to a tee, my gf I would describe as a person that loves feelings reciprocated and if they aren’t (Which I’m guilty of) they will venture out, and honestly I don’t blame her. She made it known early on that the “break” wouldn’t be forever and that if the “universe” wanted it to happen again she’d be up for it. It wasn’t until I reached out like 2 or 3 times just seeking answers that she became more cold with me and shut down the idea of it ever happening again. I feel she’s in a cloudy spot within her mind and her brain can’t comprehend “Forever” so I think she’s acting based on how she feels in the moment.

[@odalysgarcia7073]

Bryan, I can relate. This video also describes my situation to a tee. My relationship of 14 years is over and I felt that the video was being done for me. Everything that Coach Lee said has happened to me. The only thing that Coach Lee didn't address is that my ex said he wanted to stay friends. He called last Friday and said he needed time and maybe in the future we could rekindle our relationship. After seeing this video, I don't see any hope. I miss him dearly but I have to move on. I've written a "goodbye" letter for me right now, maybe i'll send it in the future. Hope things get better for you.

[@bryananthony8822]

@@odalysgarcia7073 Oh my, I hope your situation teaches you something so you can come out a stronger person.

[@Wildanimal864.]

Understand that they don’t care about you or they wouldn’t leave, they don’t care about anything sensitive or personal you’ve ever told them, the people you’ve lost……they don’t care. They care about their selfishness.

[@marguskiis7711]

Like most women.

[@changkk81]

Not always true about choosing to be single on purpose. I chose to be single for 12 years as my focus was 100% on grad school (masters degree and doctorate degree) and then excelling in my industry to where I felt both mature enough and financially free enough to focus my undivided attention to nurturing a relationship. So, sometimes, depending on the stage in a persons life, we do choose to be single because we built a rule and a belief that we need to be or have xyz before we can jump into a relationship. And for me, that belief was to have finished school, got a job, built savings, and buy a house.

[@mamziemay1575]

Yes, I do not agree with him on that. I've broken up with guys in the past, and I just wanted to focus on me and taking my life in different directions, careers, moving across country, on and on.

[@OnderHassan]

Relationships aren’t for everyone. My life is a drama-free zone and prefer to keep it that way.

[@gorgonia1207]

It has been a rough two weeks since he broke up with me. We’ve been in long distance relationship for almost 3 years. We facetime every day, and every thing was just fine until we have few argument in row of 3 days, at then he’s decided to break up with me because as for him he wasn’t happy anymore compare to the first and two years of our relationship. I respected his decision even it pains me to the bones. I applied the no contact rule. Whenever I feel the urge to chat or call him, I went straight to your videos and it gives me a vivid view that he was the one who left me. I shouldn’t chase and plead him for my worth. I will continue the no contact rule until I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. If he returns, I’m open, if he’s not, life has to move forward with or without him. I will update this comment if ever I had moved on completely. Keep fighting.😇

[@jannlewandowski5540]

gorgonia1207, Let me offer you some help. understand it can be incredibly challenging, and I can relate from personal experience. I suggest that you look into Coach Lee's "Emergency Breakup Kit." It’s strong guidance and prevents you from feeling lost in this difficult time. It addresses a wide range of scenarios and teaches strategies that may not have even crossed your mind. You can access it at myexbackcoach.com/ebk. I wish only the best for you!

[@anthonyraymond4933]

Coach Lee you are really helping me get through this

[@Ryansmith-x2l]

This only stimulated my hatred. Thank you.

[@vitorinaldi5038]

Looked at old texts today accidentally hit the call button hung right away so I broke no contact on accident.

[@sitmengchue4077]

Strength is mostly attractive. Thank you, Coach.

[@ianwhitehair2610]

I've begun no contact in the hopes that she'll eventually come back. If she doesn't I have to live with it but I still hope for the best.

[@rydstallion75]

This is exactly what my ex did. She had another relationship lined up before she broke up with me, told me she was just friend zoning everyone, and thinks she maybe wants to stay single now, and is now seeing him constantly. I loved her. This is one of the worst emotional pains a human can feel.

[@rydstallion75]

@@Nahdontthinkso2000 I feel your pain....you invested more time in that relationship then I had with mine so it must hurt even more. Mine left over a month ago and I'm still feeling the affects and I don't think she'll come back either. I'm starting to believe I deserve better than to be treated that way by someone. Hopefully you'll be able to discover that too. But there are still times where I want her back. Feeling that loss is very powerful.

[@TheM0B11]

im there too it sucks beyond words can describe.

[@darrellao5101]

Day 6 of no contact now from being dumped, I feel afraid my feelings are fading for her, that if she reach out I might hurt her by not accepting her again. But I also I think that love is not about the feelings alone but of commitment and a decision.

[@pridechitumba9745]

How far, did it work?

[@giovannimorgan8728]

How are you doing

[@Rene.A.D]

so she hurt you and left you, and you're afraid of healing yourself because you want to still love her IN CASE she regrets and comes back one day? That makes no sense, mate.

[@jimihendriixx]

@@Rene.A.Dmake it make sense.

[@BillyBob-dv1rd]

I will send her a sympathy card for losing me the day she contacts me.

[@lakshitareddy44]

Hello Coach Lee... He just broke up with me on 12th of July'22. He was rude, and ignorant for almost 2 months when he finally broke up. He denied his feelings ,did insulting things with me bcoz i was clingy somehow. I was into an LDR for 4 years... And now I'm into no contact since That day (our 4th anniversary) Hoping for the best.....🥺🥺

[@dziri9237]

For me it’s weird that ex acting out of character after the breakup .I mean they said they don’t post publicly this and that during the relationship and after the breakup posting so many Ig stories and acting sexy when that person was never like that before or during the relationship.It’s like they want validation from guys on social media.Been broken up for 5 months with 4 months no contact so far (friends told me about ex posting a lot ).Thanks

[@thenightprincess1730]

Well same sis, my ex brokeup with me 11th july'22..😅 So the world kinda weird many people got breakup at the same time. We got this girl, we can trough this 😤 prove it we are quality women, we deserve better. I feel sometimes I'm happy, sometimes still miss him/want him to regret but I'm not cry anymore like the first month. after reflect, I realize the relationship not gonna work. I realize only love in relationship is not enough.

[@oye_hoye_mickey]

Hey Lakshita same here. My problem is she is narcissist. I love her but can't say yes if she comes back. I don't know what to do

[@Renren625]

@@dziri9237updates?

[@Renren625]

Updates anyone?

[@clipz4430]

Could ypu do videos on building attraction and qualities IN a relationship?

[@rubicatalan648]

Omg this makes so much sense!