What Is The Dumper's Experience During No Contact?

[@ehko2418]

Every time I start stressing during no contact and wanting to break it, I come here to listen to Coach Lee. It really helps me stay calm.

[@i_nez9649]

Don't break it trust me ... I regret it. It just made me more confused even if there's still a chance, coz it makes me stress that there's not

[@ronaldedward2929]

My dear if you seriously want to recover your relationship / get ex back or a specific person Mr wilson is the best when to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you

[@ronaldedward2929]

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[@teachercharidel5074]

Same here.

[@petrafranca6242]

me too! I want to contact my ex so bad

[@gilbertarellano4079]

I was in a committed relationship for 29 years and I was able to follow the no contact and hold back on reaching out. It took 2 months of no contact and we are now doing amazingly good! During those two months of no contact, I was able to lose 22 pounds, gain strength, stopped drinking and smoking. By the end of the two months, I was able to run a mile under 7 minutes, I worked on myself for me!

[@Seren2010kinder]

Happy for you my friend hope it’s still all good for you

[@gilbertarellano4079]

@@Seren2010kinder currently out in Maui, doing better then ever ❤️🙌🏽🙏🏼

[@sheppy001]

Man that’s such good news! Really happy for you!

[@alexzygarewicz1625]

Did she contact you first? I was in 2years 5 month relationship trying to give her space and time 37” but she did break 2 weeks showing arrogance, jealousy, passive aggression. I replied to her only about the important matter that’s it. May 6- June 12 Break up April 6

[@gilbertarellano4079]

@@alexzygarewicz1625 She did, after month 2 when she heard and saw that I went from 210 to 187lb, stopped drinking and smoking while walking every night. Little by little I was coming by and we are now stronger then ever and back in love! I learned to love my life without her and she did the same, but at the end of the 2 month no contact we realized we wanted to be with each other again ❤️🙏🏼🙌🏽

[@phillyd6302]

My dumper has been absent three months now. I have maintained no contact throughout that time. It’s given me the opportunity to really examine our relationship. I no longer feel that I want him back. It still hurts, but not as much. I’m not angry with him, just disappointed in him. I’m happy to move on and leave the old relationship behind 💪

[@SJ-nw1ym]

Update?

[@abhishekgautam9233]

@@SJ-nw1ym you are also going through it right?

[@renubaldeo2102]

I totally agree, I do have some days of restlessness and then I watch these videos for comfort and strength. Thank you

[@sapridayaniharahap9016]

What happened now?

[@farisfaraway4229]

any update?

[@Any4cards]

Imagine breaking up with coach Lee. You would stand no chance as an ex

[@noiroblivion6565]

Makes me want to get back with him and we aren’t even dating.

[@lyngdohfx]

Dayumm😂 ....

[@Cristina-go5cx]

😂😂😂😂 shitttttttttttt....

[@priyankamukherjee6950]

Lmao

[@ballison1716]

Lol

[@bosslady991]

Anyone can seem ok with a breakup when they keep buisy.. but when they are alone with their mind..that’s when it all comes back to bite them in the ass 😂

[@Focus293]

Wisdom from the Boss Lady herself

[@iarmandov2]

Say it louder for those in the back!! This is spot on!

[@blancaarriaga98]

yes! once im in bed ready to sleep, all the thoughts and sadness comes out

[@bosslady991]

@@blancaarriaga98 very true indeed only the pillow knows the tears one sheds

[@olangmartin]

For sure

[@easypeasy9485]

I don't even want my ex back but just love watching your videos. It taught me about self-love & knowing my worth. Thanks, coach Lee 😊

[@omokheowaabdulhameed4181]

I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want

[@omokheowaabdulhameed4181]

Tex† him on What'sapp

[@omokheowaabdulhameed4181]

[phone]

[@bleu7734]

I agree I am the dumper I do not want him back so watching his videos about getting him back and him reaching out to me I don't give a damn I want him to move on with his life he has no access to me whatsoever and my experience is that it hurts that I had to dump them because I wanted it to work but I'd rather be the dumper than for me to be dumped I seen the signs I held on too long I had to go and I didn't even tell them I had to go I just blocked them and moved on

[@pattyleighty2210]

Same here

[@ksubi7562]

The best way to get your ex back is to stop caring. See your worth. If that person can walk out on you with no second thought, no explanation or no care in the world, unfortunately that person does not love you. Boss up and make them regret the break up! I promise you it’ll help and you won’t want them back. Self love is everything

[@ElainaDosch]

Boss up if they break up... nice 👍🏼 I’ll keep that one in mind :)

[@omokheowaabdulhameed4181]

I just got my relationship fixed and my ||ex|husband is •back• to me and we are living happily like never before I got help|from apowerfu|l spiritualist and his spe|ls works effectively just as you want

[@omokheowaabdulhameed4181]

Tex† him on What'sapp

[@omokheowaabdulhameed4181]

[phone]

[@peppermarie0203]

@Vance Alfredo wouldn’t give them the satisfaction

[@oreoluwasworld9875]

I’m here to tell you that NO CONTACT REALLY WORKS🙂 you just have to try your best to move on and they will come back begging.

[@lols5851]

After how long did It work out for you?

[@oreoluwasworld9875]

@@lols5851 2 months and a week. We are presently working things out. I hope it works out.

[@lols5851]

@@oreoluwasworld9875 so what was your ex reaction after she reached out? And How were YOU feeling at that point of time....?

[@shatzedr8760]

I hope it works for me.

[@JohnDoe-id1es]

Works for girls when a guy dumps them. Girls rarely come back after they've dumped u.

[@lourdesandzachary13]

Listen to him! He is so right . I got my ex back in 2019 and we are still together .

[@joaofilipegoncalves9849]

How long did it take?

[@lourdesandzachary13]

@@joaofilipegoncalves9849 it took 2 months of no contact and then my ex texted me and then we went out for lunch and then everything got better from there

[@joaofilipegoncalves9849]

@@lourdesandzachary13 thank you very much. Your story give me hope. Wish you the best.

[@ramesh6497]

It's been 2 weeks an it's so hard 😫...I miss her so much 😔

[@Its12AM]

Ramesh same bro been Two weeks for me

[@Th3N3wY0rk3r66]

Unknowingly went into nc from day 1 without knowing it was an actual term. My ex dumped a “I thought I was ready for a relationship but I’m not” text while I was at work, and I never got a face to face. We had an amazing relationship we never fought once, shared life goals, supported eachother which is what really blindsided me. She’s reached out to me multiple times, sometimes revealing guilt of how it was handled, sometimes just doing the whole check in. I’ve kept the conversations very appropriate which reflect my current position. I don’t know where this will go but I know I’m the bigger person on the otherside of this with alot of potential in life.

[@brittany8868]

How long until she reached out

[@Th3N3wY0rk3r66]

@@brittany8868 After the first few days after the breakup and then now she’ll contact me every few weeks or so.

[@thezosokid]

Update?

[@Th3N3wY0rk3r66]

@@thezosokid She’s in a rebound, going the extra mile throwing it around social media.

[@thezosokid]

@@Th3N3wY0rk3r66 its not gonna last bro, I promiss. I give them 3 months then she’ll be crawling back to you. Be strong my friend. And sleep around.

[@caoskin]

Why no contact works 100%? simply because your dumper ex lose the attraction from you months prior to the breakup day. That’s why it is so important that you should stop initiating conversations with your dumper ex. If your ex breaks your no contact, you can casually reply to their messages; that doesn’t break your no contact. Do not ignore your ex. Just reply casually just dont go deeply emotionally on your conversations because it goes nowhere. Just engage in your ex’s conversations if your ex makes a grand gesture like they regret the breakup, they want to get back together or they are willing to make it up to you and make the relationship work the 2nd time around. And also dont forget to compromise

[@Yeshuaseekinggirl]

I agree with this.. what do you do though if your ex writes you a 4 page letter that involves emotions. How do you just respond casually?

[@cipryan96]

@@Yeshuaseekinggirl ask him why he got dumped by other chick 🥴

[@andrasziegenham6766]

@@Yeshuaseekinggirl yeah, you just reply "k" (just kidding lol)

[@sophiastella212]

@@Yeshuaseekinggirl I think that's the "grand gesture" he was referring to

[@Lilmonke_586]

I’m really glad I found Coach Lee’s videos. Although I’m the one who dumped my ex (she had an affair & I don’t want her back) I have done no contact since we broke up and even though it’s only been a month I feel so much stronger. I didn’t look pathetic trying to get her back and I’ve realized that I don’t need her. There’s still more healing to do but I’m shocked at how well I’m handling losing my 6.5 year relationship. Thank you Coach Lee!

[@grovest.villain8859]

Coach lee you have made me feel so much better in a time of need when nobody is here for me, I am the one who got dumped and it’s a hard pill to swallow. It’s been 2 and a half months and I have been in no contact for about 3 weeks. I hope it’s working on her because I know my value and wish and hope she sees it too. God bless you sir. You’re easily my favorite relationship coach and give me such comfort in a time of need it’s like you’re here with me. Thank you for you’re time and care for others coach lee you’re a blessing to have access to for free.

[@RealCoachLee]

That you for your kind words GSV!

[@Kreuzheben123]

Update?

[@grovest.villain8859]

It’s been 8 months since the breakup, I feel much better but think about her often, the pain isn’t nearly as bad, she reached on my sons birthday and told me to wish him happy birthday. That’s all. As of now I’ve excepted the fact she’s probly gone for good. But I did lose the girl I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I hope she is happy that’s all I wish for her.

[@kagamitaiga9167]

​@@grovest.villain8859that's sad man. 😢

[@Bryan_Lion]

Coach Lee’s advice actually works. I went radio silent on my ex and she came back after her rebounded relationship ended. Her coming back was everything I wanted, but I didn’t take her back because she kept the other guy around on a string like she did to me when she was losing feelings for me, and didn’t tell him she was about to leave him for me. She apologized and said she was wrong about everything. Also learned that women break-up with you mentally, at least 1-2 weeks, before they go through with. Now I know my strength and value. Thanks coach!

[@matiastrinidad_]

hello buddy! how much time after the BU she came back?

[@Bryan_Lion]

@@matiastrinidad_ she came back eight months later, apologizing for everything. However she said she became obsessed after I went no-contact. She would stalk me at my house and said she could never get her mind off me. All because I left her alone. I’ve went no-contact on other women and they came back a lot sooner in as little as a few days

[@SirenaSpades]

2 months before...not 1-2 weeks before. But he could make changes, contact and try.

[@pointlank]

My ex broke up with me 8 days ago, 2 days after i still trying to reach out but after that i saw your channel and i watched a lot and started doing the nc. Its been 6 days since nc now and i feel so much better after watching all of your vid. Thanks Coach for all the inspiring words and tips!

[@deeyadaya]

Any updates?

[@hmanfilms]

I used to get so heartbroken when people would dump me. Struggled with attachment issues and trauma/PTSD from abandonment wounds my entire life. Had a lot of emotionally/verbally abusive traumatic events as a kid. I'm learning to walk away at the first sign of emotional abused. If a girl walks out on me, that's it. It's over. I don't plead. I don't negotiate. I tell them I don't agree with their decision, but wish them the best. Block and move on. No one gets to walk out on you and for you to take them back. If you take someone back who leaves you or dumps you, they are setting you up to do it again. They want control and abuse.

[@natashagold6316]

I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.

[@sociisokolie4279]

Hello! I understand how you're feeling going through breakup I can recommend you to the same man who help me get my ex back permanently after 3 years of separation... I will advise you seek his help thanks.

[@sociisokolie4279]

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[@natashagold6316]

@@sociisokolie4279 you be mumu

[@constance6761]

Amen. A man walked away bc I told him about my traumatic experience with violence. We had a great peaceful evening full of hugs and kisses. We were dating for 4 weeks and he seemed like a gentleman but fr day two he reacted angry when I expressed my feeling or boundary. He walked away saying 'you blow my mind'. Then blamed me for slamming the door behind him when he left my apartment.the issue was that I said stop during an intimate moment and he said I can't enjoy and then say stop. I said I can always say stop just like you you are disrespectful. That was the first time he went from warm to cold and angry. So last week he was annoyed and left once more. I cried all night, feeling shamed and abandoned. Now 5 days later it still.hurts but it is better. He mistreated me. Periodt. If he ever texts me again I will try to ignore but it's in my nature to communicate finish issues by talking about it equally Manipulative ppl are not open to look beyond their view. He said I was overthinking. I was hurt angry, confused and shocked bc he suddenly said I'm going home and I won't talk to you anymore. I think it's emotionally abusive. He could have said it in a respectful way. He was annoyed bc I talked about my traumatic experience. Instead appreciating all our romantic evenings he was focussen on this part of me. Tbh I'm still hoping he will call me tell me that he misses me but looking at what happened, I deserve someone who will not walk away everytime he wants to start a fight or criticize me and then blame me.

[@jasonfernee2401]

Trust Coach Lee's methods. It worked for me despite many odds stacked against me. The man is a relationship genius and wise way beyond his years.

[@yihaw149]

Can you elaborate on your situation?

[@jasonfernee2401]

@@yihaw149 All I'm going to say, is follow Coach' Lee's advice to the letter regarding No Contact if you can. I did purchase his kit.and also utilise his tutorials on how to get through it of which there are many that will probably apply to you. Took me six weeks of No Contact to get to the end result, back together and even better than before. Good luck and just trust Coach Lee. Truly, if I had the power to give him a Knighthood, I would.

[@AngeloVloggs]

Thank you for everything coach lee, without you the breakup would’ve gotten to me and I would’ve done something so stupid

[@theory2314]

same man, thank god i found these videos

[@ronaldedward2929]

My dear if you seriously want to recover your relationship / get ex back or a specific person Mr wilson is the best when to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you

[@zahiraalicea7655]

I can see how you talk about weeks or months to see this. I was married for 21 years and my husband left me. After 6 years of being divorced and without any contact he finally told me how much he miss me and how much he understands now that what he did was wrong. Go figure, six years, but finally I heard the words, " I miss you and I still love you". Now, he's still living with his rebound and now I am moving to another state. We are not getting back together.

[@albertodeulofeu5277]

Men come back far more often than women. Studies have shown that men tend to think back more fondly about their exes. And women tend to think back less fondly of their exes.

[@FlamingCockatiel]

@@albertodeulofeu5277 That is so interesting. I wonder why it works that way.

[@bibialia7312]

Don’t worry! They always comeback. Mine I was go crazy when he broke up with me. I beg and plead and he become nasty. Then I went crazy for months and shut myself completely. But then after 4 months he coming back crawling and I kick him to the curbs. I already moved on and get disgusted.

[@SAMEntalhealth]

Bro I reported about 100 spam comments today. I got your back lol

[@luissantiago6077]

You are a godsend. It pisses me off so bad

[@supportmarxism4072]

while I was in no contact, I woke up and realized when she cheated on me for 6 months and chose her rebound boyfriend was not worth getting back and repairing the relationship (15 years and 2 kids). Now I'm free, thank you.

[@td2968]

As you have said, it usually took months for someone to leave someone. People need to just come to terms that their ex left them, and its over, no contact is great, move on and if they reach out months later and want to come back and IF you even still want them, then great ! If not, well, you have accepted from the beginning they left and had the mentality that they are never coming back. Dont think about them, don't dwell dont hope. Go live !

[@brad3258]

Im in my 4th month of Nc , you helped me a lot , she didnt contact me and i am okay with that The reason we broke up is that she wasn’t ready for a relationship, she is still single so i cant say that she lied to me Thank you again coach Lee !

[@MrSamoannn]

Whats happened to me honestly. We had a great dating time and got into a relationship but once we got into a relationship and got into our first hiccup(like a problem) and we solved it together. She gave me a silent treatment the next day then decided to break up abruptly after all the good times we had. She told me she liked being single and noticed that she was changing herself for me and it was exhausting. She said she was turning into a Yes Girl. But i dont get it because ive always told her to be herself all the time. I always would tell her before we did anything if she was okay and felt safe and felt comfortable whenever we planned something. Our dating foundation was built on trust, communication, honesty, and good vibes. So its hard to understand her reasoning. She also blocked me on all social media and phone number. Now obviously she basically helped me to start no contact but any chance she will want to comeback? I have my own goals and dreams to focus on myself. We're broken up now since 5 days ago now and no contact from her since. Any tips?

[@HibiTeamQueso]

@@MrSamoannn any updates?

[@MrSamoannn]

@@HibiTeamQueso i moved on. It honestly depends on the amount of time and the quality if that time well spent. If it was genuine and honest. Then there's a chance. But if it just started and the foundation wasnt established by both people. It won't work. Hope this helps

[@brandonohara4122]

This video isn't about getting your ex back. It's about moving on and becoming a better version of yourself, for you and the next gf or bf you're with. It might not make sense now but it will and you will look back at this and feel happy it happened.

[@patricial8753]

It’s 7:12 am I wake up listening to your videos and fall asleep listening to you , you are so helpful during this hard time .

[@MsTahB]

Me too. I alternate with Aaron Doughty because he moves the focus to MY world not the guy's world. Coach Lee seems so reality based and provides clarity that way.

[@keoki37]

Coach Lee is so in depth, his 20 years experience in relationship coaching shows. Thank you sir !

[@kennats1654]

NC really works lol I begged for months then finally found self-respect and cut contact. After a month, they reached out, and I couldn't care less.

[@davidmowbray7885]

That’s good mate I begged and now am on 3rd day NC she just changed her profile picture.

[@ZamoraksApprentice]

@@davidmowbray7885 If you know she changed her prof pic, you're not on no contact, you're still keeping track of her

[@LuckC5GO]

@@ZamoraksApprentice but it is fine as long as that girl dont know you are still looking for her.

[@somewhiteguy4607]

@@LuckC5GO no

[@Nimbus3690]

@@somewhiteguy4607 bruh chill, it's still no contact. You don't have to unfollow and blind yourself to them. Just coexist happily without acknowledging each other is the most powerful form of no contact

[@elainenilsson5472]

Once someone gets away with leaving you, they will use it as leverage. Don't take them back because it's something you want. That will only set you up for abuse. They already abused your love for them abandoning you.

[@karenyim1200]

Agree

[@arvindsharma-yf7wh]

Absolutely spot onnnnn

[@vincejones3965]

Exactly

[@tinkerbellUK]

Agree with this

[@clintonsnider9741]

Lesson I learned to a T

[@jarettesuikowsky6742]

To everyone on here, I know these situations can be very hard, and traumatic. Stay strong, and focus your time on self love, and self improvement. Love yourself! Your happiness should not be based on another person. Get a dog, hit the gym, hit the books, hit the tinder, bumble, and all dating apps. You will be ok. We can not force someone to love us. At the end of the day it comes down to self respect people. All love! ✊

[@leizlsvlog9398]

Yes indeed

[@hiimgerly]

❤

[@MysTerry317]

Coach Lee, drawing strength from your experience and wisdom. Much more thanks I owe you!

[@curious_gage]

I tell ya, this can only work when: they genuinely cared about you, things ended on relatively good terms, you truly accept their decision and you stop trying/wanting to fix things. Hopefully, you will eventually realize that you really don’t need anyone else to feel validated/wanted. Furthermore, you don’t really want a relationship with someone if you have to constantly convince them to stay-that’s not fun for anyone. Guilting someone into pretending to love you is actually pretty selfish if you think about it, so just do the honorable thing and release them without resentment.

[@cynthiaerasmus177]

They say hindsight is 20/20 after 3months NC, I'm beginning to understand - sometimes it still hurts - but yea, c'est la vie!!!

[@Ella89zxx]

Exactly. Only want my ex back because he was really good to me for 10+ years and I was very happy with him, and the reasons for our breakup were due to him being overwhelmed with other issues in his life that caused him to shut down emotionally and not want a relationship anymore. He said he was in survival mode. He experienced a lot of loss and I didn’t go no contact because I felt it was wrong to leave him while he was so broken and I thought he needed me to show him more love and support, but after watching Coach Lees videos and other coaches I finally realized I needed to leave him alone and let him figure his life out without me and maybe when/ if he is in a better place he will come back to me some day. It depends though he could find someone else in the meantime and I could too. Maybe he really left me for someone else and didn’t want to tell me? I don’t know. Its been 18 months now since he dumped me and my love for him has definitely faded. I still want him back in a lot of ways but I also don’t know if I could ever truly forgive him or trust him again now. He has hurt me so much. In some ways I feel better for having suffered so much I am stronger now and I am a better person I think and I have watched so many relationship videos I think I have a much better understanding of relationships now then most people, but I also think it has ruined me in some ways too. I will always be afraid to trust any man again I think and be afraid they are suddenly going to turn on me one day too and not want me anymore. I was at a point with my ex after 11yrs with him I never thought he would shut me out like he has. I always thought we could still be friends if we ever broke up and be open and honest with each other about why we were breaking up. Even if we found someone else but he wouldn’t tell me. He made up dumb excuses and I have found out he has been with other women since then even though he has told me he is not dating anyone many times so I don’t know what the truth is anymore. I want him to come back but I need to know the truth about everything for me to decide if I could ever be with him again and as of now he doesnt want to talk to me or tell me anything so I have nothing to decide with him. I just need to stay no contact and if he does ever come to me saying he wants to talk or try to see me I will see how I feel then. I want to have the upper hand though and not make anymore mistakes with my ex. I want him to be chasing me and regret leaving me and I want the chance to get to decide if I want him back because he is actually wanting me back

[@worldwide123]

@@Ella89zxxI’m in basically the same situation

[@99craziichick]

Thank you for giving us this valuable free information and not making us pay for it. This alone was very helpful

[@edwardmark4073]

Hello do you need help why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back

[@edwardmark4073]

Text him on whatzapp

[@edwardmark4073]

[phone]

[@stugrimson7851]

If your ex is dead set on seeing other people, she won’t come back to you unless she gets tired of failing.

[@JD_BigBLANKETS]

Wife left Friday Nov 13th 2020 after being together for 10 years married 2 & man... I found your videos a few weeks later. When you say “20 years of experience” you’re not lying about that. You literally mapped out everything that happened. How I felt blind sided but she had been thinking it over for at least a month. My mistakes after the breakup and her anger. Then you advise finally sinking in and me only going into reply mode (we have two young kids together). Now when we speak there’s no tension, more on a friend lvl but I don’t play a “friend” role, especially in person. We’re not back together or putting the “married” label back but there’s been progress. Note to self: don’t speak things into existence - don’t even mention divorce cause we both clearly care for the other

[@remyd1984]

what's your update mate? cheers

[@ralph4370]

I enjoy the learning of the behind the mental scenes. We have a family saying "We don't beg/force anyone to be with us" I also have a personal motto "Don't do 2nd chances". I have explained to many exes this upfront. Most have comeback. After they left. The last ex, She lost her job early on and I was her rock. A year later I lost my job and she walked out. Why would I take someone back who walked out? I don't reward bad behavior. If I did take them back, it would only show them they can do it again and get away with it. Pass.

[@bigceasar169]

After 22yrs of marriage, she is treating me as though I am a total stranger, so I am moving on and looking towards the future. True colours show in the long run.

[@elizabethclarke2005]

Hope it all worked out for you in the end.

[@almightytwee1188]

So I’m here for my most recent break up, I’m kinda over it but listening helps me when I’m feeling weak, but I just wanted to share. My ex gf of 10 years ago just added me on Snapchat and messaged me. It was an add by search. The dumper does think of you, even 10 years later. She has a kid and is married now but she was thinking of me and wondering how I was. Some people will leave you but still care so don’t think you weren’t worthy, you just might not have been suitable for them. Everything will be okay. You got it 💪🏻

[@paaul028]

Just want to say thank you im watching these on loop, will be 4 weeks on Sunday since i started no contact and 4 weeks since they offered friendship and ghosted since. One thing I have decided is no matter how much it hurts, if there is no contact from them by week 8 I'll not respond to them after that and stay away from them for good. I don't want them to be in a position to possibly do this again in the future. I know you say 3 to 4 months but i think 2 months is generous enough to them.

[@priyankapatel5199]

Accuracy level of this video 10000 ❤️

[@abdullahimuhammad9481]

he is the one who help me get my ex back

[@abdullahimuhammad9481]

contact him on WhatsApp.

[@gloriakuhn8670]

I reached out to my ex after 17 years. He was the dumper. We are now back together going on 7 months and things are better this time around.

[@justinclark1182]

Amazing xxx

[@mamako7325]

Coach Lee I love you ! I am almost a month of no contact. We had the perfect relationship for many years, he suffered grief and totally changed towards me. Acted really badly and left me. He even said to a friend I was the perfect woman, but he didn’t‘ feel it ‘ anymore. I cut all communication with him, let’s see what happens. Sending love to all of you ! ❣️

[@sociisokolie4279]

Hello! I understand how you're feeling going through breakup I can recommend you to the same man who help me get my ex back permanently after 3 years of separation... I will advise you seek his help thanks.

[@sociisokolie4279]

WhatZapp hiM NOw🌹🌹🌹

[@Hangrytaco]

Please update us !

[@Hangrytaco]

Wishing you the best of luck. Stay strong

[@mamako7325]

@@Hangrytaco thank you dear ! Still no contact, he said to the same friend the home felt empty and weird without me and he was showing him pictures of some woman he saw in a magazine who looked like me. I met someone and we are currently just talking online and taking things slowly, he makes me smile and makes me focus on other things than the trauma I lived. So let’s see what happens ! Thank you for being so sweet ! 💖

[@Wildanimal864.]

Tbh these guys kinda know our chances are slim. But they know we are probably messed up and suicidal etc . They want use to keep hope and want us to stay calm and in reality move on. These people are literally life savers I’m certain ways.

[@Ella89zxx]

Thats true but he also really knows what he is talking about it. I have seen it work more then once. My coworker recently broke up with her situationship and since it just happened I was able to guide her with Coach Lee’s advice and he was begging her to talk to him in less then a month apologizing and willing to offer her more. I think there are a lot of variables with breakups though so it can also depend on your specific situation and reason for your breakup how to handle it exactly and whether they will come back or not. Sometimes its better not to go back to them. I think no contact is always the best thing to do though for you both to get some clarity and get a better hold on your emotions

[@nasattatsakhamtatnadjartat6892]

My ex's behavior was so irrational that I'm floored. We just moved in together in December. Been friends over 5 years and our 1 year anniversary as a couple would have been in April. We never fought, argued and there was no disrespect or disloyalty. Few days ago I text him cuz he was late coming home and I always cook before I leave for work in the evening. There's usually about an hour we have together before I leave, which I enjoyed. So I text him to ask him to let me know if he's not coming straight home. He says to me that he's not out doing wrong, he's either at his kids house or at his old place getting more of his stuff to bring to our new place. Then he adds "and I think I'll just return there"... What? Literally NOTHING adverse happened between us to warrant that response. This was 3 days ago and I still haven't gotten an explanation for his irrationality! He came last night and packed his things and left. Then tells me today that "there's much to discuss" and once he gets his head together he'll open up and we can talk. To me, that's BS because why do I have to suffer and yield to his timeframe! It's not like I'm some new chic in his life. And his attitude is cold and uncaring, COMPLETELY uncharacteristic of this man. He moved all his stuff in, including renting a truck, emptying out his storage unit and bringing his furniture, appliances etc... Then weeks later he just up and leaves and wants to put me on the back burner as far as some clarity about his insanity. I feel like someone ripped out my guts. No contact on this dude probably wouldn't even work because he acts as if he couldn't care less. 5 years of a bond broken and violated by a text! I am 44 and he's 49. More than old enough to know better than to make childish moves like this! I'm starting to hate him and all men. Never thought I'd be that girl.

[@SongSingsSoprano]

Any update? Did he tell you why he left? Did y'all get back together? Are y'all still together?

[@camillytunnell2879]

Ughhh!! This is so hard! Almost Day 5 of no contact!! 💪🏽

[@spmunda9197]

Trust me you can do this. And all the very very best

[@camillytunnell2879]

@@girl-oq2ek whew!! How you making it? Any tips?

[@camillytunnell2879]

@@spmunda9197 thanks 😊

[@brielleharmony7568]

hey the no contact worked for me but it didn’t end well he contacted me after 4 days of no contact asking if I’m ok I replied “I’m good u?” He replied “yeah I’m good” I never replied back after that as you need to just keep it short and not express yourself as that will push them away . On day 7 he contacted me again and said “I miss you and I know it sounds stupid and crazy coming from me but I miss you “ he face timed me we spoke but when I spoke to him I acted like my life was going great even though it wasn’t I could tell that bugged him lol as he said “wow you seem to be doing fine without me living it up “ I said “what did you expect me to die I would be fine regardless” it’s funny because I was crying every second of the day literally crying on the stairs crying when I woke up crying on the train I didn’t care who saw LOOL but I would never let him know that .anyway we arranged to meet at the weekend I went to his house and he was treating me like we were in a relationship but in the back of my mind I felt uneasy about him not talking to me for a while so when he was sleeping I went through his phone and saw the time he wasn’t contacting me he was talking to this 55 year old woman( nothing wrong with older women ) me and him are 26 by the way he was wishing her good morning everyday and chasing her to come and see her and saying he misses her . This women was barely replying to him she was giving one word reply’s while he was fiending for her saying he could come her literally begging she replied “I can’t” LOOL from the texts she not interested in the slightest the way he was speaking to her was the exact way he would speak to me when he was chasing me in the beginning .Imagine the day I left his house before I started no contact he was messaging her while he wasn’t contacting me he was begging to see her while she kept saying she’s busy he told her his been thinking about her . I did come to realise I must of been a rebound because he was messaging this women when we were in a relationship also but he said he would delete her but obviously still contacted her when he was no longer interested in me . It’s crazy how he wants someone that pays him no mind at all looking at the text between him and her made me cringe how he doesn’t see she doesn’t want him . I went home like nothing happened then he started messaging me good morning suddening everyday we met again at his house and while he was sleeping I went through his phone again he was messaging this same women and begging to see her again she left him on read and never replied . Like a idiot I went to his house again after a week and I went thought his phone again and she still never replied to the last message and that’s the reason he was all over me kissing and cuddling because clearly he couldn’t get who he wanted so he was just using me for female company I spend four days at his house when I left I wasn’t trying to give him a kiss goodbye and he said fine then I ended up giving him a kiss he hasn’t texted me since not to see if I got home or anything I left his house at 11pm . He hasn’t texted me in 8 days at all and I’m not going to text him either because I’m clearly just a ego boast and just used till someone he wants comes alone .I was clearly the rebound for the whole 6 months I should have seen the signs he was so full on and told me he loved me after a month he couldn’t resist me . then we started arguing on the fourth month and he wouldn’t even want to work it out so I definitely the rebound because after the honey moon phase they leave . This is the same guy that said he wouldnt date anyone with kids but this women has kids that are me and his age this is the same guy that said he wants kids . He seriously just lives in the moment and wants what he can’t have . When I went through his phone the first time there was also another girl he was talking to way back and she said to him “I hope you find what you’re looking for “ which clearly shows he does this to women he is full on then disappears and finds another to be with and can’t get over his 55 year old ex so jumps to women to women I’m in pain right now because we spend four days and night together last week and has now ghosted I shouldnt gaf because he is a asshole either the women has replied back to him or he doesn’t gaf probably bother. but I’m still really upset and l hoping he texting . The heart wants who it wants . I’m defiantly healing as the days go by it feels easier I don’t wake up with the heavy pain in my stomach anymore 😩 I hope it works for you girl

[@barflin]

stay strong! over 2 months for me.

[@TravellingMalik-xb8vy]

To everyone hurting at this moment remember the tables are about to turn soon. It's just a matter of time.. give yourself that time. Go no contact.. first few days may be difficult but after that it will be easy.. say positive affirmations daily that will help too

[@juliet3227]

The video just popped up and its 6.55Am over here.ill leave everything to watch all of Lee's videos.

[@juliet3227]

I realized that Lee has received over 20K more subscribers in just 2 months. This only proves that the content he gives is much more logical than any other & that covid 19 restrictions have led to further breakups. Had I known about Lee 10months ago,I could still be with my ex

[@Hannah2265]

Julie, there's still hope if you love him, don't give up. Follow coach Lee's rules & pray. God answers prayers! I feel everyone deserves a 2nd chance, if they're good men who've just made a mistake.🙏🙂

[@juliet3227]

@@Hannah2265 ohhh dear,you're so sweet.Thanks for your kind words.

[@staggies6001]

Coach Lee & Dating Guy 👌 both very helpful.

[@bellakim2057]

My bf just ghosted me and blocked me last Sunday. That's why I'm getting some comfort watching coach Lee videos.💔

[@alphablaqog]

update?

[@quintenverbist6443]

The thing that’s killin me is that i can’t share the stupid mundane stuff in my life with her anymore. That’s the hardest part for me

[@Bubba77777]

I get that too❤

[@spacekitten9337]

It hurts to find a meme i know he would like and i can not send it to anyone ever again....

[@dmanleboeuf1115]

Week 2 of no contact she added me back on everything and went back on her word, asked me how I was doing and I said I was doing good and I’ve been working on my self. My birthday is Monday and I’m going to get my stuff from her place. Thank you coach lee for the encouragement to keep my mind busy and not think about it too much!

[@barflin]

i got this wonderful idea!....you should find a new girl and take her with you when you go to pick up your stuff. tell your ex....thanks have a good one.

[@dmanleboeuf1115]

@@barflin I would do that but I do want her back, and with COVID I can’t have another person from a different house hold in my vehicle

[@barflin]

@@dmanleboeuf1115 ....i understand. I had to work on myself to get to that point of not wanting her back. a lot of thinking about everything and all the red flags i missed in the 4 years i was with her.

[@dmanleboeuf1115]

@@barflin so update she texted me today, we’re going out to get food and drive around, just gonna play it cool be my self and not bring anything up about to relationship or the breakup.

[@barflin]

@@dmanleboeuf1115 Whoa!....congratulations!!! Seriously That's really good news for you. I didn't get so lucky.

[@poppajohn6575]

I have watched this video many times. It keeps me calm. We had a breakup and did no contact and she came back. We broke up again 2 weeks ago. The problem is she does not communicate what she is thinking about at all. She is a only child and suffers from anxiety. Trying to be strong.

[@devontebroncas4967]

how are you now?

[@poppajohn6575]

@devontebroncas4967 Gm. I'm actually doing awesome. We got back together and things have been great. No contact really was what made the difference. How are you??

[@devontebroncas4967]

​@@poppajohn6575 thanks for the reply, that's good to hear! she broke up with me a month ago and I went no contact right away. I'm doing NC for myself, her coming back would be a nice benefit (though it's easier said than done...) Congrats again, and I wish you all the best man!

[@djockom]

​@@poppajohn6575Hello, I am very glad that things worked out for both of you, I wish you longlasting and loving relationship

[@memel3154]

He broke up with me but still texting me everyday. I cant be his friend, “take me or leave me” and he choose to leave. He deleted all my pictures in social media already. And now i’m on day 4 of no contact. He showing sign that he always stalking me or keep online on whatsapp until late night which is out of his ordinary behaviour. But I would just stay silence and ignore that. Thanks coach Lee. Your video always remind me to stay strong on NC

[@momocyrine]

Yes never be his friend. And cut him off completely . As long as you stay away he will absolutly miss you . So distant yourself as much as possible

[@BOO-sy2oz]

Tell him you aren’t interested In being friends and to let you know if he ever changes his mind. Watch coach lees video on how to stay out of the friendzone

[@cipryan96]

Good, leave him for good. He will be back, do NOT take him.

[@brielleharmony7568]

hey yeah the no contact worked for me but it didn’t end well he contacted me after 4 days of no contact asking if I’m ok I replied “I’m good u?” He replied “yeah I’m good” I never replied back after that as you need to just keep it short and not express yourself as that will push them away . On day 7 he contacted me again and said “I miss you and I know it sounds stupid and crazy coming from me but I miss you “ he face timed me we spoke but when I spoke to him I acted like my life was going great even though it wasn’t I could tell that bugged him lol as he said “wow you seem to be doing fine without me living it up “ I said “what did you expect me to die I would be fine regardless” it’s funny because I was crying every second of the day literally crying on the stairs crying when I woke up crying on the train I didn’t care who saw LOOL but I would never let him know that .anyway we arranged to meet at the weekend I went to his house and he was treating me like we were in a relationship but in the back of my mind I felt uneasy about him not talking to me for a while so when he was sleeping I went through his phone and saw the time he wasn’t contacting me he was talking to this 55 year old woman( nothing wrong with older women ) me and him are 26 by the way he was wishing her good morning everyday and chasing her to come and see her and saying he misses her . This women was barely replying to him she was giving one word reply’s while he was fiending for her saying he could come her literally begging she replied “I can’t” LOOL from the texts she not interested in the slightest the way he was speaking to her was the exact way he would speak to me when he was chasing me in the beginning .Imagine the day I left his house before I started no contact he was messaging her while he wasn’t contacting me he was begging to see her while she kept saying she’s busy he told her his been thinking about her . I did come to realise I must of been a rebound because he was messaging this women when we were in a relationship also but he said he would delete her but obviously still contacted her when he was no longer interested in me . It’s crazy how he wants someone that pays him no mind at all looking at the text between him and her made me cringe how he doesn’t see she doesn’t want him . I went home like nothing happened then he started messaging me good morning suddening everyday we met again at his house and while he was sleeping I went through his phone again he was messaging this same women and begging to see her again she left him on read and never replied . Like a idiot I went to his house again after a week and I went thought his phone again and she still never replied to the last message and that’s the reason he was all over me kissing and cuddling because clearly he couldn’t get who he wanted so he was just using me for female company I spend four days at his house when I left I wasn’t trying to give him a kiss goodbye and he said fine then I ended up giving him a kiss he hasn’t texted me since not to see if I got home or anything I left his house at 11pm . He hasn’t texted me in 8 days at all and I’m not going to text him either because I’m clearly just a ego boast and just used till someone he wants comes alone .I was clearly the rebound for the whole 6 months I should have seen the signs he was so full on and told me he loved me after a month he couldn’t resist me . then we started arguing on the fourth month and he wouldn’t even want to work it out so I definitely the rebound because after the honey moon phase they leave . This is the same guy that said he wouldnt date anyone with kids but this women has kids that are me and his age this is the same guy that said he wants kids . He seriously just lives in the moment and wants what he can’t have . When I went through his phone the first time there was also another girl he was talking to way back and she said to him “I hope you find what you’re looking for “ which clearly shows he does this to women he is full on then disappears and finds another to be with and can’t get over his 55 year old ex so jumps to women to women I’m in pain right now because we spend four days and night together last week and has now ghosted I shouldnt gaf because he is a asshole either the women has replied back to him or he doesn’t gaf probably bother. but I’m still really upset and l hoping he texting . The heart wants who it wants . I’m defiantly healing as the days go by it feels easier I don’t wake up with the heavy pain in my stomach anymore 😩Sorry this is so long . It will get bettef

[@cipryan96]

@@brielleharmony7568 looool, he's into grandma's. Gross 🤢

[@javaidmahmood6432]

Love you so much coach Lee. I got lot of stability in my life because of your videos, your insight on the issues is so deep, and voice is so assertive and sympathetic. Can't thank you enough. Please keep your good work continue🙏

[@prettyyu315]

thank you coach. love you for being here with us during tough moments

[@its_dermo5588]

Thank you Coach, we broke up 12 days ago and I begged and annoyed her like crazy after the break up. I blocked her on everything and unblocked so I wouldn’t contact her. I didn’t block her phone number so if she ever wants to reach out she can. Let’s go day 1 no contact, starting today! Will keep this updated.

[@jarrodoberg2078]

I’m on day 11… it gets easier my man. Hang in there

[@BlahYouBeezy]

How’s your NC going now?

[@jarrodoberg2078]

@@BlahYouBeezy she texted me 2 days ago asking for her apartment key back. I told her I want my stuff back so we are meeting next week to exchange item. I can imagine she’s going to be cold and non receptive to anything I say. I am alittle nervous as I’m not sure how I should go about doing this.

[@Yano222]

I am on day 2

[@kriminalkartik]

almost 35 days NC . stay strong

[@samuelngunjiri3475]

Watching your videos have really helped me, motivated me. I've been dumped but i still love her. If im going to give up, ill utilize every tool before i give up. I believe its worth it. Thanks coach Lee

[@Itsdabutler]

same, my girl dumped me and is trying to get into a new relationship with a new dude that she just met maybe a week ago

[@jamesmatthew4346]

He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏

[@jamesmatthew4346]

Whats!!!!!app!!!him!!

[@jamesmatthew4346]

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[@WikingNordlan]

@@Itsdabutler I need update did you get back with her or what?

[@davefujikawa3780]

my exes are all in that 30% range that dont want to come back lol

[@JohnDoe-id1es]

Me, too.

[@bullenbaloo]

I feel you and think my wife are in the same mode now, at least is it what she says. And I’m not sure if I’m looking deep inside that I honest want here back when this is done. But the vlog is good to listen to, good pointers. She just treated me cold for to long. And she’s to proud to show that’s she have make a mistake I think to.

[@mx.j262]

then let them go ... and do a favour to yourself

[@vasiliskoutsokostas]

Well I’m usually the one who breaks up with his gf and let me tell you, all my exes did use no contact to me 😂 I came back only to the one I cared and it was a year after. She didn’t want to do anything with me by that point, logical I broke her heart. The last thing I want to put out there is I always knew that my exes still want me. So… If you can make your ex realise that you are as valuable as them, you got a really good chance. Especially if they are insecure.

[@jimmydeats9901]

Me 3👍

[@Saander92]

I questioned his silence 3 days after we had a fight. Then I reacted out maybe 3 or 4 more times to see how he was doing. He did answer all times but it was a cold person. He stopped watching my stories and I just had it. I went to watch these no contact videos and I started to get silent against him. 2 weeks of no contact now and everytime I feel sad I comfort myself by watching these videos. And I really decide to never ever rrach out to him again unless he does.

[@allthingsjana7870]

Did he ever reach out to you? I went through this and had to walk away. Been NC about 23 days now. He sounds like an avoidant attachment like my ex.

[@Camcam75]

Any update?

[@allthingsjana7870]

In my situation, still NC. He's a narcissist and just wants to flirt and get attention from other women. I never ever reached out and won't ever do so. He's dead to me.

[@dantimo5506]

Nearly 5 months no contact,8 since we broke up,made lots of mistakes begged and pleaded etc she called me two weeks ago I answered said hello twice and she hung up 🤷🏻‍♂️ I didn't respond to the bread crumb,nothing so far but stating strong and feel alot better! Keep going people time does heal things and you will get stronger,I'm now in the position where I don't know if I would go back! And she's calling me not the other way round

[@remyd1984]

what's your update mate

[@dantimo5506]

@@remyd1984 moved on met someone else

[@iok21a]

@@dantimo5506lovely, stay safe brother

[@vickyblahh]

NC Day 42. Seeing some signs. Hard to stay away, but these videos help me a lot.

[@terael5637]

@Gunisigi Aydogan Hello! How are you doing 2 months after this comment? Did your ex reach out? Have you moved on? Hope everything is going well!

[@vickyblahh]

@@terael5637 Hello! I haven't received a direct reach out. But I keep seeing my ex stalking me and asking about me. The less I care, the more info she tries to get. I guess that's what life is. I'm really good indeed. I've improved myself in every possible way. How are you?

[@terael5637]

@@vickyblahh I'm glad you are doing well. I'm doing well, missing her everyday. It's been 4 and a half months since the breakup, 41 days in NC. Been focusing on myself, rock climbing a lot, exercising every day, been on a few dates. Still hurts daily, but I'm moving on with life the best I can. I'm better today than I was yesterday, so things are well.

[@vickyblahh]

@@terael5637 I'm also glad that you're doing well. Things always soothe as the time passes. I used to miss her a lot as well. But as the time went on, I faced everything on my own and mourned the relationship. And now I'm better. People don't get better when they refuse to mourn. One way or another fate finds its ways around when something is meant to be. Stay safe, much love to you!

[@aristocats_x]

it’s my 21st day of NC. my ex decided to break up with me a long time ago but told me 21 days ago. it was kind of mutual because he started lying to me and i didn’t feel the attraction anymore. we were living together and i gave my 100% to him, selflessly. he gave his all to me too. i really hope to get married to him someday, because we broke up due to misunderstandings & miscommunication. putting this here and i will give an update once he texts me.

[@semanavidi8694]

Absolutely brilliance the way that coach Lee hits all the right notes, he is the best.

[@Ronintados]

I have been using no contact for 10 months now since the day she kicked me out of her apartment. I returned from abroad to be with her and tried to fix our issue but it didn't worked out. I was really hurt when she dumped me. I still haven't heard anything from her but I trust sir Coach Lee's advise. Thank you sir for your videos, it really helps me to understand the situation and what's the best thing to do.

[@harrisonbovington729]

“Then, you find one of my videos” Omg he can read minds 😱

[@lokeshthakur5715]

Coach Lee is the best..... He knows everything perfectly and the advice given by him is so effective and soothing..... Love u coach lee♥️♥️

[@ronaldedward2929]

My dear if you seriously want to recover your relationship / get ex back or a specific person Mr wilson is the best when to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you

[@susufis]

Interesting video. It is reinforcing my decision to keep in my cero contact posture. 36 days of NC and stronger than ever. What I loved more was the simple logic of coach Lee’s explanation. Thanks and best regards.

[@zairadosal9714]

I’m on week 3 of no contact…. I still have this like scare that my ex is going to find someone quick… tho I know it’s just me

[@susufis]

@@zairadosal9714. Well, I truly believe fear is your worst enemy. Be positive my friend!!!

[@godspowerobinna692]

I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48hours without no delay

[@godspowerobinna692]

He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏

[@godspowerobinna692]

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[@Katie-ht7bt]

Coach Lee is the perfect mix of kind and strong. So encouraging.

[@godspowerobinna692]

I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48hours without no delay

[@godspowerobinna692]

He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏

[@godspowerobinna692]

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[@bilalanwarb3]

Wish I listened to this man, I was practicing no contact and after two months I called her, she was talking about me and how she still thinks about me, I moved too fast and told her I do too and want her back. At first she was polite but still rejected and then I begged again and she got angry and blocked me. Now I'm deeper in the hole and have to restart. Lost significantly so please learn people

[@edwardmark4073]

Hello do you need help why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back

[@edwardmark4073]

Text him on whatzapp

[@edwardmark4073]

[phone] ✅

[@B1GK1NG]

that what you get for being a simp. You should never contact a ex unless she initiate it first.

[@ElainaDosch]

Looking good, Coach Lee!

[@massfury11]

Thank you Coach Lee. My Fiance told me she was pregnant and after 4 years she "Ghosted" me. I was so upset that I tried pleading because of the baby and being there to support her, She would not respond no matter what so I've gone no contact. Today marks a week for me of no contact and the pain is still there. There is so many questions and unanswered questions. Hope she will contact me. Thank you for these videos Coach Lee.

[@SongSingsSoprano]

How are things now?

[@wanharrysanjaya7259]

Any update?

[@sirg-had8821]

They feel absolutely nothing. Mine never did and she never will. I'm giving myself the closure.

[@manyadhankani8409]

I hope this works..fingers crossed..am currently on day 26..Somwhere in my heart, I know that my situation is hopeless but on the other hand a part of me believes that he will come back against all odds because we had a solid relationship..Will update in a month update:- guysss this absolutely workssss just keep going... he contacted me after 2.5 months of no contact and 3 months of breaking up..He told me that he missed me and was too scared to contact me...we're taking it slow atm ❤

[@melissa_8308]

Same here…. 15 days so far on my part

[@manyadhankani8409]

@@melissa_8308 have faith sweetheart..we got this..we'll come out of this stronger..have faith in yourself and most importantly have faith in the love that you offered while you were with him...let the dust settle and he'll be back..Also, this time you'll have a stronger foundation compared to what it was previously..keep faith..good luck 💕

[@melissa_8308]

@manya dhankani thank you for your kind words. It goes to the heart 🌸🫶 I am with you. Let’s stick together 🎈

[@manyadhankani8409]

@@melissa_8308 indeed we are together in this...Some days I just lose hope..but I pick myself up and trust the process and thats how it should be..I believe that everything happens for a reason..maybe this time apart will bring us even more close than we were..Being optimistic is the only way to survive a heartbreak..and honestly I dont blame anyone..sometimes situations and circumstances bring us to a point where we lose the ability to decipher between whats wrong and whats right and most importantly what we want and whats best for us..so I dont blame him either..I give him the benifit of doubt and I know we'll come out much stronger this time..I'll keep you in my prayers..take care love 💗

[@melissa_8308]

@@manyadhankani8409 i will have you in my prayers as well 🙏 today was hard and your support means the world xx

[@gigi5310]

""You're different..... you're unexpected!"" Love it! Best advise as always!! Thank you Coach Lee!

[@susane945]

Gee, wow! You really hit the nail on the head when you say 'it's just like they have spent weeks studying for the test, whereas you have only just found out there IS a test'!!!!! It so reminds me of my ex. Yes, yes, YES!!!!! After this relationship I really feel like swearing off men for life.. It's been really horrible being dumped. Really truly horrible. In fact I have really hated his guts. And got so depressed I didn't want to live. I question myself Can I be single? It's really hard. I can't watch these videos anymore. I think I have come through the worst and I don't want to be reminded of it anymore. He's such a bastard. Really is. Which brings me to the word Forgiveness. I haven't got to that stage yet!!!!

[@carmensmith1453]

Hi Susan I feel the same he's such a coward he humiliate and abuse me for so long why? Why

[@jamesmatthew4346]

I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48hours without no delay

[@jamesmatthew4346]

He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏

[@jamesmatthew4346]

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[@veronicac.4272]

I’m noticing majority of videos on the dumper are negative. I ended a situation because the person I was with was putting in no effort and showing no affection. It was probably the most painful decision ever because I really liked them. I wish there were more videos on having to make that tough decision as the dumper

[@allthingsjana7870]

Yes, I has to do the same. Sad when we dump them and they don't fight for the relationship. I'm on day 23 NC. I blocked him out of anger and a few days later he blocked me back. I am just gonna keep letting go and doing me.

[@45ghhjd]

​@@allthingsjana7870you should not have blocked him

[@Submarine69]

That is my exact situation right now, everyone tells me to basically not feel the guilt or pain but I wanted us to work. I thought we needed space but now I realized I handle and said everything wrong. I want them back but like the coach said, we need to go slow, anyways, I never felt the relief stage, this was the last thing I wanted to do but here I am…

[@Submarine69]

@@michaelmich00 unfortunately they are seeing someone else so🤷‍♀️

[@veronicac.4272]

@@michaelmich00 it’s about to be a year since this happened. I can say that I’m proud of myself and my decision because the old me would have stuck around a tolerated what I was dealing with just to be with someone. I don’t want that. I want to genuinely be happy with someone who wants the same things and I have no problem with being alone until that happens. Yes, people change and if they change for the better that’s good for them but I’m going to continue to move forward

[@mariotibbrine1]

Stay no contact forever!

[@mcmproductons]

I blocked her everywhere after finding she had a rebound four days after we split. She blocked me back on that account. She reached out before randomly on twitter saying she got earings. But I ignored it after remembering her telling me to move on and take a hint. It’s been a month since any contact but I left her blocked cause I don’t want to see her if we are not together

[@ira4600]

Coach Lee said don't block ex if you want them back

[@mcmproductons]

If she wants to I left her phone number unblocked so she can text me or call still I don’t want to play games with her on social media

[@shubhamkumar984]

Accurate bro..

[@jdubs2351]

@@mcmproductons I did the same thing... blocked for self care, but kept text message/phone number available

[@krash6951]

@@jdubs2351 you dont want to do this because it eliminates any chance of hypergamy, so she can never see when you boss up in life or when you have other women.

[@sesenwingtips]

I like the way you film your video Coach Lee. It’s like you are talking to me face to face.

[@ericparker3432]

This guy is great. This is one of his greatest videos he’s ever made. I don’t have relationship problems now. But when I did, the guy got me to success. I just watch his videos from time to time now, because I think it helps a bit, even when you’re not having any problems. Anyway, this is one of his very best videos. He hits all the key points so well. I think it’s better than his more recent ones on it.

[@ericparker3432]

I’ll say one more thing. I got his breakup kit, in maybe 2021, and I would recommend it. But I want to point out why this video is so badass. From 11:30-20:00, personally I think is the best part, and there are several points made. But look at about 14:38, look at the delivery on ‘but they’re going to be curious.’ That’s just one example of why I think this is maybe his best video. There is another one, it’s like right after it happens, ‘just broken up with’ or something like that, and he’s trying to calm you. That one helped me really handle it. You watch his videos for a while, and then check out the other ‘so-called’ coaches on KZbin, some of their videos, you’re going to bust up laughing at some of this stuff. Just hilarious, and the advice also sucks. I guess they’re trying, but most, if not all, are a bunch of clowns. And you’ll see what I mean. You kind of become a mini-expert on dealing with relationships after watching him over and over, and it does keep you in the box, instead of f**king up the rule. Just focus on the rule. But back in focus, you watch his stuff, then watch other ‘so-called’ coaches stuff, and you’ll start to feel that ‘they’ could be your student. I’m not kidding you. I wish he’d do a video about a woman, in this case, who breaks up with you. Then stares into your eyes for minutes, makes out with you for an hour in front of her house, asks a bunch of curious questions (immediate curiosity phase), and won’t get out of your car! 😂 All right guys, my final comments, but hang in there and follow what he says 100%, do not deviate. You’ll get your best result. That’s it, peace. And Coach Lee, I salute you!

[@Itiswhoitisayyy]

The relief stage is full of physical contact with others so far in my experience on her end. It is brutal.

[@BlueRidgeJ79]

I agree with this to a point. I'm separated almost 3 months from my wife of 12 years. We have a daughter, so intelligent no contact is all I can do. During this time, I'm working on myself and how I contributed to the failing of our relationship, and that's regardless of whether she chooses to come back. If she does at some point I will be able to sincerely say, "let's build something new together." If your partner comes back and there has been no growth on either side, guess where you will ultimately find yourself again?

[@jaykaskian5865]

I made every mistake after the breakup. I begged, pleaded, and even was super mean to her, she packed her bags and moved out that same day. Trying NC now. I'm terribly broken. I messed up bad.

[@ira4600]

I also said terrible things after being dumped however he unblocked me after a few months and we have messaged a bit

[@xMikeyHardyx]

Yo Jay give updates in the future bro

[@Garrrrrishere]

Me too. He’s being an ass now. I can’t see him ever changing his position. I’m standing but probably all in vain

[@jorda_n_]

2 days. I don’t know if this says much about how much I cherished our relationship but here’s the story. My car had broken down and was in the the shop overnight, she lives about 18 miles away and she was working late… long story short she was eager to see me and I got out my old bike with flat tyres and no oil…. Cycled all the way after pumping up the tyres, I cooked food and worked on my digital marketing course before she got home. She was driving back and normally would call me after teaching pole dancing, her dog barked and she was stunned that I was over… she came in gave me the biggest kiss and her eyes lit up with joy. 2 months later boom ‘I don’t feel the spark’, ‘it’s not you it’s me’ yadda yadda yadda she ended it. I say good luck finding a guy who would go to that extent to make your night easier and love you the way I did. She’s unfollowed me now as have I, I guess out of sight out of mind but I say good luck to her finding someone that would go to that much effort just to cook and have a night in. I know she’s feeling relieved right now but when it’s quiet and lonely I know she’ll look back into our adventure book and think ‘I don’t know if I’ll find someone that good to me again.’ Now I’m on top of my fitness and socialising with the boys and about to take up Boxing 🥊 word of advice - unleash the beast within. Work on your finical, mental and physical well-being. Have a plan, travel and work on you. Action action action, it’s hard when it’s quiet but I’ve got a roof over my head, a nurturing mother and the best support group. I give it 8 months, she’ll try some f*** boy and get hurt then come crawling back. But I know that I’ve got myself to love and a fortune to make. Good luck to my men out there and strive to be the best you can, then do better. Peace ✌🏼

[@MariamJacobs-b6c]

Thnx a lot coach Lee! Ur the one who gave my comfort through my exrutinating pain & anger!... ur the best coach!!✅️👌💯

[@hehe7061]

Hey coach lee I’d appreciate if you do more videos about when you’re in touch with your ex

[@DavidGonzalez-pj3zi]

Absolutely!

[@autumnself2713]

Yes, that would be helpful what to do when they do reach out to you especially, if he doesn't say anything about getting back together???? Yet

[@cydionaldo8495]

@@autumnself2713 yes that would be a great help.

[@darcilyles6542]

def... I am so confused. we broke up 2 months ago, however he has texted me one a week since, wished me a merry Xmas, invite to he groups, recently message two days ina row upset about a dream..view my stories and recently like two pics.. I respond but only when text or approaches idk so confused, is this good or bad

[@gopinathsairam]

@@darcilyles6542 I would suggest stay calm..follow coach lee's advise

[@deanalucas1706]

My ex is the dumper,,,,now he's the dumpeeee 💪💪💪😇😇😇😇🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@roikaew]

Thank you coach Lee. I broke up with my ex a couple months ago. We were in a relationship around 13 years. In the first month after break up, i kept begging him to come back. In second month, i kept contacting him. But I feel that he does not value me anymore. So i just started doing no contact a few days ago. Now i am so confused and feel the painful.

[@beefireTV]

any updates?

[@fayclark5569]

I needed this at 5am 🤣 literally jumped for joy at the notification! Thank you for keeping me sane and composed right now coach! I see him in a few hours to collect more of my stuff from the house. Since I went in to nc he's reached out a lot. Worried seeing him in person could ruin any progress but... has to be done. This was the perfect video for what I'm feeling rn about today

[@barflin]

any updates??? you're kinda lucky....my ex is on the opposite side of the country and it makes it hard to go pick up my stuff like one of my frikin guitars🎸 she's probably thrown away by now! 😔

[@fayclark5569]

@@barflin ok so. He is a wreck. Absolutely a wreck. He isn't taking care of himself or doing anything at all. It felt amazing to go in and be positive and determined. He said I looked good and seemed happy. He kept saying how nice it was that we could just talk etc and how it should be ok to so I said I don't want to be his friend. I told him I respect his decision but I disagree and still believe we were good together so I can't be his friend because it would just hurt me and be a falseness 8 years together doesn't deserve. I told him he can contact me if he wants to talk about us but other than that we can't just... be mates. He cried. He said he isn't coming out the other side in a positive mind set. He kept bringing up old times. He kept reaching out to me etc. I was nice. Friendly. Polite etc. But I was literally doing everything with coaches voice in my head and it gave me the confidence to have self respect and I could see he could see it and it really effected him. I don't know if he will change his mind but nc has certainly changed things between us and given me the control back even though its still in his court. I feel better after today than I have since we broke up and its absolutely from binging these videos lmao Good luck to you 😊

[@barflin]

@@fayclark5569 It makes zero sense about wanting to be friends especially like you said after 8 long years together being intimate! No way for me as well....would never wanna be friends with her after our 4 years together getting her pregnant twice also and talking about marriage for a while. Plus I'm pretty sure she's been with another guy so Yuck No to that! No sloppy seconds and ball juices for me. Thanks for the update Fay....and Good Luck to you as well. be safe

[@fayclark5569]

@@barflin ngl I absolutely messed up when I went back yesterday 🤣 we erm... yea. So basically its all out the window

[@HibiTeamQueso]

Update?

[@theforgotten9512]

My ex dumped me almost a month ago. Saying he was done and nothing was going to change his mind. But said he would still talk to me and be my friend. But i decided to cut off contact and delete social media’s i had him on and made new ones. I really doubt he’ll come back. But not like i really want him to. He was the one who gave up on us.

[@Angelique__Renee]

What happened?

[@sabajanjua9323]

Hi Lee! A lot has happened. Still no sign of him! Ive been doing all the right things.

[@cordeliapendergrass7222]

It seems they have to care or love you for no contact to work.

[@sheppy001]

My ex started taking medication which has an emotional side effect. She ended our 6 year relationship out of nowhere. She wasn’t willing talk mention any problems or willing to work on things. It’s so painful.

[@wompwomp1099]

I honestly never knew men could feel like this..

[@iAmplify7]

same here. ex started taking SSRI's around the time she started contemplating ending things. stupid fucking therapist threw drugs at her to make more money. breaks my heart, she's not the same person anymore. you're not alone.

[@godspowerobinna692]

I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48hours without no delay

[@godspowerobinna692]

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[@jerescot]

Yup, my ex started taking that fucking evil shitty anti depressants mertazapine, she experienced emotional blunting and ended it with me!

[@BooTanner]

Snake venom is such a good metaphor for love.

[@RealCoachLee]

I thought so.

[@tesfay3]

New subscriber here. Day 8 of breakup. Your videos helped me a lot.. boost my self esteem. thank you 😌

[@james.black981]

Hi Lee. Just bought the kit, working through it as a means of getting over the break up and learning about myself. Your KZbin content has kept me hooked for hours. Keep up the great work. BTW, Greetings from Australia.

[@Liz-dragon-street.]

You can run .. but you can't hide! If the dumper loves you, one day the hamer hits the face and the brain so so hard... I was a dumper and he ignored me and did the no contact on me! First i felt so relieved.. But than one day, around 52 days i woke up and i was going crazy.. What did i do, what can i do? It started 2 hunt me, and the hunt became my nightmare! We both have no facebook, insta or what so ever. So i went 2 his house late at night with a letter if he was open 2 talk. It took 3 weeks for a respons. We had 3 dates afther that, and than he dumped me same way i dumped him! Its now 38 days and i am feeling sick. I really can feel now what i did 2 him afther 2 years of love and realness, he was my best friend and yes he was also my lover.. I am so sorry for my behave and i am working hard 2 be a better person 🙏❤️ Thanx Coach Lee you are helping us 🌍

[@melisasmith9485]

Wow Liz, thanks for letting us know what the dumper goes through. My ex finished it after 5,5 years. Sold out house within 6 weeks. From sept to Dec we have been seeing each other (staying over etc) but once the house sold I didn't see him for 2-3 weeks. He called new years to say that his head is spinning and it went quickly but then said he hasn't changed his mind and is going to delete my number because its hard for him to see me hurting. NC day 3 since this. Any advice for me? Am doing me and focusing on my new house and job. Does this sound familiar though his actions? Hope your doing okay.

[@marcoaurelioa.4394]

You're a so smart and wise man! I've been enjoying your videos for a year now! They were soothing and illuminating then, they're funny and informative now. PS. She came back. Thanks, coach.

[@marcoaurelioa.4394]

@@darlintonwhite1300 Have you read my comment Darlinon? Try again!

[@marcoaurelioa.4394]

@@thankgodeddy1083 Thanks Doctor! what can you do for me?

[@marcoaurelioa.4394]

@@thankgodeddy1083 what do you mean?

[@marcoaurelioa.4394]

@@thankgodeddy1083 I need someome to cut my lawn, can you help me?

[@gamegirl8945]

Hey man glad to hear it worked out, how long were you in NC for? And how long did it take to get them back?

[@hullinvation]

for a fact... coach lee explained exactly what happened to me about the break up and the excuses my ex gave. A bunch of bullshit excuses. I gave her space before the break up ... but end up i was the one who got dumped

[@jasongabb1671]

On day 5 of no contact, still feels weird but i trust coach Lee. Eating and sleeping, working out and keeping fit. Still feel sad, but i guess only natural. I know i did nothing wrong & treated my lady well, lets see what happens in the next three weeks.

[@jasongabb1671]

@@Bazinga11228 Stay in contact mate, lets see how it goes. Stay strong!!

[@jasongabb1671]

@@Bazinga11228 On phase 2 of no contact, she finished it again just after xmas..

[@jasongabb1671]

Hi Sonia, that's kind of you to ask! I had one text from her on day 9, I replied politely and casually. Nothing from her since, so back into NC. Feeling much stronger and now on day 29. How about you?

[@jasongabb1671]

@Sonia Fernandes Hi Sonia, hope you are keeping well? I am now in 29 days of no contact. She reached out on day 9, i replied back politely and casually as per the video. Nothing back since from her, i wont reach out unless she does. However, i do feel much better and stronger in myself, i still get low moments. How about you, what's your story? Jason

[@jasongabb1671]

@Sonia Fernandes That seems strange, you can see mine?

[@mcmproductons]

If she wants too she can still call me or text me to work things out I’m not going to play games on social media. I’m going to try avoiding posting and using social media for a few weeks

[@luissantiago6077]

How are you doing now?