OMG! guys my ex just contacted me exactly one month today. We had a nasty break up on October 23rd, he literally walked away after a fight we had. I thought he was never coming back and we were done for good. Guys No contact WORKS, I haven't thought about why he contacted me or any possibility of reconciling but I'm just shocked at the fact that No contact works. Guys please coach Lee is a pro at what he does, I listen to his videos almost every day and it got me through this very difficult time. I am still healing..
@a.d.b535 Жыл бұрын
I'm the dumper because my ex would not step up to the plate. If I were the one to go back to him, we'd be back at square 1.
@kawsarsahebzada3590 Жыл бұрын
Thnx to Allah u r happy
@glasysmabada1984 Жыл бұрын
I know i shouldn't love him,because he is a sociopath.i try to hate him but i love him so much
@callmemei8745 Жыл бұрын
he texted me almost one month after no contact ( 27 days) and i didn't reply to the last message because i didn't know what else to say. + it was on dec 30. i don't know what to feel or think ?? he did check if i replied but that's it. we didn't greet each other happy new year either :( thinking if i should because i saw he removed my name on his fb account today.
@juliedaly2381 Жыл бұрын
I don't want him back
@rickmartin6817 Жыл бұрын
Also, during no contact, you might well realize you don't want your ex to return and that you are better off without them. You win either way.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Rick Martin, if 2 people really love each other, a breakup won't happen. However, if 1 of you does not LOVE the other any longer, they will just move on to someone else.
@elliotjames1273 Жыл бұрын
@@jannlewandowski5540 two people can really love each other and still breakup. Life is complicated.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
@@elliotjames1273 why don't you get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which is excellent! It has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@elliotjames1273 Жыл бұрын
@@jannlewandowski5540 oh. I’m in the recovery phase of grief at this point. My therapist basically said my ex has BPD, and at this point I’m just glad I don’t have to go through that rollercoaster anymore.
@petevonstettina8627 Жыл бұрын
AGREED!
@Sokkama Жыл бұрын
Edit: I moved on
@carlissable Жыл бұрын
I couldn't have said it better myself. Thanks. I will. 🙏🙏🙏
@e.eadventures4330 Жыл бұрын
Yessss❤
@tappingintuit5977 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@howtosnatch Жыл бұрын
This is literally it bro. They're O-U-T OUT.
@christophermoody-stuart2197 Жыл бұрын
@@tappingintuit5977 yhggn
@relaxationvault99742 жыл бұрын
It’s been 8 months since my breakup. I’m in a new relationship and feel happy, and just yesterday my ex showed up at my door. Funny thing how they come back when you don’t want them anymore. When they go off to see if the grass is greener, they risk someone moving in to help you water your own grass. I think most people who move on from their ex will soon realize that they deserve better and will get better as long as they let go.
@brandonohara41222 жыл бұрын
Wow thats amazing bro and I like the analogy. Seriously that's great bro
@pj8624 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Awesome story!! I sincerely hope all works out well for you and that your ex learns a huge life lesson. Not meant to be mean in any way! :)
@sukritirai3101 Жыл бұрын
Damnnn!!! Happy for you..
@lisabaughn Жыл бұрын
What did you say when they arrived? What happened?
@janebraun4482 Жыл бұрын
@@relaxationvault9974 I'd say probably go with your heart, where your heart is. People can get better.
@marionwilson8982 Жыл бұрын
So , he did come back 5 months later asking to start over. I can’t tell you how good it felt to reject him.
@fr33fall777 Жыл бұрын
That way of thinking is pretty immature. Be better than that.
@marionwilson8982 Жыл бұрын
I have enough experience to know without a doubt, that when someone loves you, they don’t ghost you and disappear. That has never happened in my serious relationships with men who are self aware and don’t play immature games. I am better than that. Once someone shows you who he really is, believe him.
@jordanepistola5085 Жыл бұрын
But isn't that what you are doing yourself with no contact?
@TheSpiritRoom23 Жыл бұрын
@@marionwilson8982 gurl don’t listen to these men crying about your decision!! Good for you!! I bet if it was the other way around they’ll be under his post congratulating him. No one knows what you been through but you and it’s good you didn’t take him back. Women needs to learn how to walk away without being judged or manipulated.
@zyllik Жыл бұрын
@@TheSpiritRoom23 what does it matter if it’s about men or women? We’re watching these videos to improve and heal ourselves, gender doesn’t matter at all! If she’s happy, I’m happy for her, that’s it. The fact you bring up the gender issue indicates you probably have some matter to resolve about yourself and I hope you will be able to do it and be happy
@indoplusnetwork97102 жыл бұрын
"No contact" is teaching us the willingness of letting it go, to have a strong personality, and most important thing is don't look back.
@tearthangel373 Жыл бұрын
Being single is so peaceful! No more betrayals
@teem59457 ай бұрын
But no sex as well. No morale support etc
@alettebochere33407 ай бұрын
@@teem5945you don't get moral support from intimate relationship only.
@Wildanimal864.2 ай бұрын
@@teem5945hookups
@BjManberries2 жыл бұрын
No contact works! I did it for me, not to get her back. Met a better girl that doesn't need to be chased, is stable, appreciates me, and gives back. Do it for you, not to get them back. As soon as the ex found out I was seeing someone, amazingly, she contacted me. I never responded, just as she did to me.
@azoz15818 күн бұрын
👏👏👏
@tommykaira8775 Жыл бұрын
I hate the fact that when you tell your feelings passionately in your truest form they can't take it and decides to take the easiest way out by breaking up.
@faridaaali6170 Жыл бұрын
So true some cases their so coward pushes you away ignore so u breakup
@hmanfilms Жыл бұрын
If they don't value and appreciate you when you are with them, give them the opportunity to value and appreciate you without you. When someone pushes you away or wants to breakup, they are showing they are showing how easy it is for them to walk away. And they will do it again when times get tough. Run like hell and be glad they're showing you their abilities and maturity for a relationship.
@wamunyimaimonda6965 Жыл бұрын
My ex really treated me horrible when we were together and I did absolutely everything to be there for them and make them happy. They called me very bad names when he broke up with me and told me I was gonna go back begging him. I just want to completely move on from them whether they realize my worth or not.
@chriskwasniewski2727 Жыл бұрын
❤damn right
@shivatecs Жыл бұрын
Ego says love me or I'll be unhappy. Spirit says love is everywhere, cultivate an eye for it. My ex ending things has been the best thing for me.
@beerussama6376 Жыл бұрын
Your comment. ❤️
@shivatecs Жыл бұрын
@@beerussama6376 your name. ❤
@StoneColdFox172 ай бұрын
Well put!
@theseattlegreen1871 Жыл бұрын
I knowI know this message might not be what you want to hear but I was with my ex fiance a total of 7 years together before she walked out of my life back in November 21st 2019. I immediately did no contact and haven't heard from her since that day and today is December 26th 2022. It will be 2023 in a few more days. It's been over 3 years now. Although I am 99.9% over her I still think about her at least once a day because she was perfect for me. I loved her in every single way shape possible. It's too bad she didn't feel the same about me. I just want to let anyone know who's reading this that although no contact is the best chance you have it may not always work in your favor. Coach Lee is just giving you the facts and his best opinions which I agree with. Good luck to all you broken hearted people out there.
@MultiGeetesh2 жыл бұрын
I don't care if I can get back my ex or not, but I've learnt how to deal with Breakups from Coach Lee 😌 Thank You!
@jannlewandowski55402 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear it..
@johnpodlesnik1030 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@tahminagaforova66552 жыл бұрын
Hey coach Lee, just an hour ago my ex and I got back together !!! it’s all because I’ve been following your advice and giving him space and time to miss me, we had 1.5 months away from each other and both worked on ourselves and grew up tremendously! I wanna thank you Coach Lee for giving us a correct direction and helping people to go through difficult times with dignity and strength 🙏
@doublea1252 жыл бұрын
The system works!
@pj8624 Жыл бұрын
I'm so very happy for you! I sincerely hope all goes well and wish you the best!! :) :) Coach Lee's advise is awesome!!
@1970anfield Жыл бұрын
Happy for u! I'm at day 22 now.. waiting patiently and working on myself
@lucywood4988 Жыл бұрын
Boyfriend has blocked me on everything what to do when want him back because half my stuff is at his still :(
@Liz-dragon-street. Жыл бұрын
💞🙏
@bonnano5815 Жыл бұрын
After Giving Youre All, Never Look Back. Walk Away, Regret Nothing The Best Is Yet To Come.
@petevonstettina8627 Жыл бұрын
AMEN!!
@ah25522 жыл бұрын
Leave them alone. If you have to do all of this she isn't worth it.
@Maijn2345 Жыл бұрын
Lol exactly
@goldenlifelove7251 Жыл бұрын
All what? All ur doing is not contacting someone. It's literally 1 thing.
@Americanpatriot-zo2tk Жыл бұрын
I hate that, but your correct!!!
@Travelwithsins9 ай бұрын
Not true. I fck up and she left me so i still hope that she will give me another chance
@chriscoleman80152 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee’s videos have been phenominal during my last 2.5 months of No Contact. Sadly, I now believe that No Contact didn’t work on my end, but what did work was the time to self improve. Today was the 70th straight day of going to the gym.. I feel amazing and have more self confidence now. Also, Saturday I was offered a new job in the oil/gas industry that will require a relocation and a HUGE raise. I’m looking forward to moving and getting a fresh start because honestly, this is what I’ve needed for years. In hindsight, I can see where attraction was lost on her end.. BUT, that’s ok now. I’m closing that door and stepping through the new one that just opened! And for all those watching Coach Lee’s videos, here’s my tip for you when you know you’re finally moving on… when you quit going to KZbin or his website daily or hourly and you move to “just occasionally”… that’s when there’s light at the end of that tunnel!! Good luck everyone!!! And thank you Coach Lee!
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
Mine is basically 2.5 months also bro. August 22nd was last contact. I'm okay with it though. Honestly I don't watch these nearly as often anymore.
@Yarnover_PullThrough Жыл бұрын
Wow that's awesome. I am so happy for you. I got goosebumps. Congratulations and keep up the amazing work. 🙏💪♥️
@clickthis4000 Жыл бұрын
for guys women rarely come back, women stand more chances of their men coming back. because when a woman is done she is done.
@e3itz254 Жыл бұрын
Good for you. After 13 years my now ex was caught cheating. I left him, went NO contact....it's only been 28 days but let me tell you, I'm feel better about myself
@sirninjaraiden Жыл бұрын
@@clickthis4000 That's all I keep hearing and it's scaring the hell out of me. My ex left me and it was an ldr, and something in my soul tells me she isn't coming back. I don't know why women hardly go back
@CapsFan2 жыл бұрын
I was broken up with about 4 months ago after a 2.5 year relationship, went into NC about 2 months ago and tbh, I don’t even care anymore. I found a new girl who I’m starting to get to know who seems way better, even if this doesn’t go the way I want it to, I’ve realized I can move on and will move on. She rebounded, blocked me on everything and hasn’t talked to me since. Our breakup wasn’t rage filled either, I was upset, but it was no hard feelings - I didn’t chase, I didn’t name call, or burn bridges, I didn’t do anything that would have gotten me blocked due to spite. That made me realize she couldn’t care less about me, so why should I care about someone who is like that. 🤷🏻♂️ Even if she did come back, I don’t want her back now. Especially due to the fact that she was in a new relationship within 2 months - 2 and a half months after our breakup. I’m not trying to sound gross, but knowing she was having sex with a new guy after 2 months of having gotten out of a 2 and a half year relationship made her VERY undesirable to me.
@lottofever3061 Жыл бұрын
Good job man. I'm in a similar position. She blocked me everywhere and found a new guy within a month and I know she's having sex with him too 🤷 a pretty terrible feeling but I hope with time I can have the same mindset you have towards your ex.
@alenovialenovi-hunter9053 Жыл бұрын
Almost the same thing happened to me. Been together for 1 year and 4 months and after the breakup i went into the no-contact after 3 weeks! 7 months later i found out that she was actually cheating on me for 4 months while been in the relationship with me! It hit me hard. Lucky i started to heal slowly. So i block here every where and i don't want her back or see her ever again in my life. It almost make me vomit that she had sex with another guy, before even breaking up with me! And whats even more painful pill to swallow is that she needed fucking 5 months to had the first sex with me! Even those she was a virgin, but still! It's crazy!
@jessie70172 жыл бұрын
Almost 6 months of no contact and still going strong!! 💪🏻🧠 Trust your journey and the wisdom of Coach Lee!
@larryclay88752 жыл бұрын
Proud of you, Jessie. Don't give up. One full year of No Contact and I'm already much stronger than before.
@vishnuprasadk6450 Жыл бұрын
Me too 🤝
@jambogb Жыл бұрын
are you still single?
@Janeintheok Жыл бұрын
🎉👏🥳
@TinfoilHatGirl Жыл бұрын
OK but after 6 months you can stop counting
@jeromearthur755 Жыл бұрын
The world has change dramatically. We get free counseling now. Thx to KZbin.
@tearthangel373 Жыл бұрын
Don’t go back to someone who doesn’t have your back
@mwakachuulu1103 Жыл бұрын
Two days ago I got back with my ex after a month of no contact...thank you coach Lee,I followed your advice religiously
@RealCoachLee Жыл бұрын
Mwaka, I’m very happy for you! Would you please email myexbaxkcoach@gmail.com about your situation so that we can use your testimonial anonymously to encourage others?
@anamascarenhas6469 Жыл бұрын
whats the stage now ?
@gkum6067 Жыл бұрын
Really
@emerald15413 ай бұрын
Now how's it going ?
@keepgrowing99412 жыл бұрын
I always remember coach Lee said: “your ex didnt loss you, they leave you” it opens my eyes. That’s the reason i always love watching your videos, Coach. Cause i need to take back my power. And you help us a lot! 🙋🏻♀️🇵🇭✨
@volantcord2210 Жыл бұрын
My situation seems like it’s flowing both ways. We didn’t fight when we broke up, and I went and worked on myself, because I was hit with the infamous’ “I want to take a break to figure things out” line. Some stuff happening in between, but a month later she got with somebody else and she called me to tell me about it. “I’m with somebody else, he makes me super super happy. He’s everything I could’ve asked for.” I just said only one word. I said, “ok” and she sounded like she was caught off guard. Almost as if she wasn’t expecting it. All I did was say, “bye” and hung up the phone.
@mutechannel13 Жыл бұрын
Good job bro.... He's everything she ever wanted for now. See if she going to be singing the same song 6 months to a year from now. My Ex told me the same $#!+... then she contacted me 4 months later saying she's not what she thought he was. She ending 8 years for this guy. It's been 8 months after the break up and she sends pics and messages to me all the time. I just ignore her and keep focused on myself.
@solodad001 Жыл бұрын
304s everywhere.
@trevorkelly5036 Жыл бұрын
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@RealCoachLee Жыл бұрын
Trevor, watch this video all the way through kzbin.info/www/bejne/b6vbnpp7h5uXmqs
@rousseautr Жыл бұрын
My prayers for you, my stranger friend take care.
@elisadian3815 Жыл бұрын
Time will heal everything. My husband also left. We just need time to heal.
@phylicialeak26817 ай бұрын
You control your thoughts. Fill your mind like a cup full of peaceful happy thoughts and you will soon be happy 😊
@user-hi8ig6me4t Жыл бұрын
The main purpose is knowing who you are have a purpose for your life focus on your life knowing that your better never settle for less
@May71234 Жыл бұрын
34 days and going strong! Thanks coach Lee! Whenever I feel demotivated I always come back to your videos.
@veronicabass9174 Жыл бұрын
Ikr
@veronicabass9174 Жыл бұрын
Im going 1 week plus weekend he pop up thinking i had a man over to my house just watching T.V.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Sun Beam, keep up the good work!
@cherryt1790 Жыл бұрын
Awesome! Keep it up!
@Respawn_nexus Жыл бұрын
hows now
@pj86242 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, you've been my Rock since I discovered your channel, after my ex gf walked away last early December 2021! Thank you, and God Bless You!!! I'm in a much better place now and you played such a huge role in my recovery!!! I'm so grateful for the support and hope that you offer everyone!! You are a messenger of god!
@Road2Jannah4162 жыл бұрын
For real, I used to watch your videos back to back to back, the same ones over and over just because you were so comforting in her absence as well as insightful. You helped heal my pain. I’m still healing. It’ll be a year since she left me on my birthday, coming up on the 15th of November. I’ve found someone else now, who I’m very into, who I’ve developed feelings for, things are moving ever so slowly as she’s healing too, but I found the one I want, the one who I think can help ease that pain.
@brandonohara41222 жыл бұрын
@@Road2Jannah416 so glad to hear that. Today is 3 calendar months since. I miss her as a person but idk how much further it goes. I do miss her at times.
@pj86242 жыл бұрын
@@Whoeverwhateverwhenever I never got an honest answer why she walked away. I was totally blindsided. Never at anytime during our relationship did inform me that she wasn't happy so that I may have had an opportunity to fix whatever she felt that she was missing. I know that overall, I can walk away knowing that I loved her and was always there for her. I treated her so very well. I had to come to my own conclusion. I remain in total radio silence, no contact. She knows nothing about me anymore and will never hear from me again!!
@pj86242 жыл бұрын
@@brandonohara4122 I do understand your missing her!! It's very painful, and each day sometimes seems to last forever. I promise in time you'll be able to feel better. I went OCD on coach Lee's videos for support and hope. Do what you need to do to work through whatever pain you may feel. I didn't jump into any new relationships during this time as I really was damaged goods. I'm in a much better place now. The storm is finally clearing. Dec 5th will be 1 yr since she walked away, blindsided. If I hear from her I do, and if not, it doesn't matter anymore. If she was to reach out, I'm not sure how I would react or if I would want to respond! Stay strong, each day will get a little better. Best wishes!!!
@brandonohara41222 жыл бұрын
@@pj8624 amen bro Nothing but great things on the horizon ✨ 🙌
@marquettamiller608 Жыл бұрын
This man is correct . Im 69 and this system really worked for me. Thank you so much coach. It has been exactly on time. It was the only hope i had of getting him back. Until he found out that i wasnt coming to back and kissing his ass things changed. It took a couple of trial runs but we are figuring it out. I wish everyone on this line the best of luck. Jut keep listening to the coach. He is not stirring you wrong, If anyone would like to chat with me and yalk about our journeys. Best of luck to everyone, dont give up hope
@Cameroll Жыл бұрын
This is one of my absolute favorite Coach Lee videos. My breakup was so strange and abrupt. He ghosted and blocked me. There seemed to be a lot of unnecessary anger and I didn’t understand why… I always had an inkling that he was punishing me with the breakup for not responding to his liking to give himself more power and control in the relationship. I may never know for sure unless he reaches out… Binge watching CL videos has gotten me through 31 days of NC so far. If my ex never reaches out, then he walked away from an amazing woman, and I hope he lives his best life, because I know I am regardless of the outcome.
@Camcam75 Жыл бұрын
Update?
@nanbanjinchannel57168 ай бұрын
i know what u mean, like a punishment, 'you don't do what I want you to do then i dump you'😅
@lankdup2 жыл бұрын
88 days of no contact, my experience i still think about her, my subconscious mind still dreams of her and yes i still think of what could've been if the road stayed how it was. Somedays are better than others. Lately i've been focusing on hitting the gym more and just being more in tune with my self. but at the same time i still feel depressed and emotional i'm only human and its ok. hope this helps anyone who is new to no contact.
@jannlewandowski55402 жыл бұрын
You're doing GREAT! EVERYTHING You're doing, and the dreams, etc are NORMAL. I went thru the same thing. You'll be fine. I'm PROUD OF YOU...⚘️
@larryclay88752 жыл бұрын
@@Whoeverwhateverwhenever Sometimes, you can't help it but your own brain remembers things. You'll be surprised.
@Markdaamannn2 жыл бұрын
Man bro I feel u on that. I feel the same and have experienced the same. And idk I feel like it’s mental Torture. Like by the time it goes away we already experienced everything we didn’t think we would.
@rnbsteenstar2 жыл бұрын
Normal and there is no use in denying it. Plus, the soulmate's are no joke.
@h078932 жыл бұрын
Go to gym , hit em deadlifts you are good
@NK-ek3kt2 жыл бұрын
He was dating someone else, I gave him space and backed off he felt my loss. He ended things with her and now wants me back, but I’ve told him he will have to work at it! It will happen - have faith 💪🏽
@sunnyday9281 Жыл бұрын
Did you look at his social media or contact him at all? I'm guessing looking at social media is the kiss of death.
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
NK, be very careful this time bcse he could possibly leave you again. You're doing the RIGHT thing by working on it. Good luck to you..⚘️
@s.elizabeth1753 Жыл бұрын
How are things now?
@mmt2310 Жыл бұрын
Update?
@NK-ek3kt Жыл бұрын
@@mmt2310 my initial comment i spoke into existence, due to his ways I kinda realised I didn’t want him back, which obviously made him want me more. I’m still not sure how I feel about him, but if he could have me back he would, but not sure if I trust him anymore
@stephenbotwe19922 жыл бұрын
She wants to come after her new relationship didn't work for her. But I think it's over. I don't want her anymore. She's selfish
@davidwoosley86703 ай бұрын
@stephenbotwe1992 update?
@SeymourKitty Жыл бұрын
No contact only says you're not that person if they're not the right person for you.
@OsunaEdu2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. As always. If anyone needs to read this: I thought I wouldn't be able to stay in no contact, but even I (believe me, I had 0% will power) can make it, so YOU can make it too! Just stay strong. Whether you get them back or not, no contact is the best strategy for YOU.
@pamwoods93672 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this
@Pugsrules12 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you, Coach Lee. When this whole thing started for me I reacted in every way you say not to react; begging, pleading, etc. I snapped out of it after about a month and we went into no contact. It’s been 3 weeks now, and some days are harder than others, but your videos really help me get me through the tougher days. I’ll make sure to update if anything changes. Thank you again!
@noarainc5344 Жыл бұрын
How are you doing today? I trust the process for the sake of healing. Keep it up, trust your instincts and your heart.
@chrismaejoselaolao-ux1wx Жыл бұрын
Keep it up, my ex reached out exactly after 5 weeks. Not to propose to get back together, he wants stay in touch. Maybe he's the selfish ex Coach Lee talked about in another video.
@beingfree7172 Жыл бұрын
Any update?
@Hermit2033 Жыл бұрын
Update???
@nikolapetrovic3150 Жыл бұрын
Any update on your situation friend?
@ReleaseTheKraken_2 жыл бұрын
No contact for me took exactly 3 weeks when she drunk called. She’s been reaching out every now and then occasionally on my social media stories. I believe I’m on stage 2 of no contact. Be strong and don’t give up on no contact!
@jasmijnkribbe7867 Жыл бұрын
I give him the real break up now! Your message is so clear and resonates exactly with my situation. No more mind games 🙏!
@JustMe-ew9uj Жыл бұрын
That what I'm also going to do! Much love and light to you! 🙌🙌❤️❤️
@pandorastokoe4201 Жыл бұрын
'But you're not making any moves, it's a thing of beauty' love it, you really cheer me up!
@victorianorris19162 жыл бұрын
I learnt a lot from this video I’m in Nc for 1 week and 3 days now trying be strong, focusing on me lost 25 pounds feeling great about myself.😍
@RealCoachLee2 жыл бұрын
Way to go on the weightloss Victoria! Good job!
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but did you say you lost 25 lbs? Was that in 10 days? That's not healthy to lose 25 lbs in less than 2 weeks. Actually, you might wanna go get that checked out.
@victorianorris1916 Жыл бұрын
@@brandonohara4122 what I lost 20 pounds in over a year Yes you read it wrong!!
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
@@victorianorris1916 lmao how did I read it wrong???? Read what you wrote! You said you been doing NC for 1 week and 3 days. Then you go on to say that you lost 25 lbs. Nowhere did you say 1 year. So no I didn't read it wrong, you just didn't type it out right lol
@harmonychannel5129 Жыл бұрын
@@brandonohara4122 ❤
@thtkp5 Жыл бұрын
What these videos do is giving me hope and make me calm for a moment. Then I breakdown crying and feeling weak. And then I come back here for that dopamine dose. I don't know when this is gonna end. I'm suffering and nothing can meke me feel better than hearing his voice and holding his hands. 😢😢😢😢
@nathanchua78572 жыл бұрын
Hey guys, I thought today would never come. Commenting on Coach Lee’s videos after moving on. Guys and gals, try your best with your ex. If they don’t come back, let them go. This too shall pass, stay strong!
@rivalchavez9250 Жыл бұрын
5 months mine hasn't. We co parent and hang out with each other she got upset when I told her I still really love her. She said is it to much for you should I take a step back. She made it clear she doesn't want me back.
@veeoby3364 Жыл бұрын
Every single word in this video is as Real as it can get. Coach Lee, I just want to say thank you for this masterpiece. My ex contacted me after one month of no contact but I want to concentrate on my growth and healing for now.
@noarainc5344 Жыл бұрын
So beautifully and truthfully well put.. your growth and your healing is an ultimate pathway towards a better life for you.. I understand this more and more by time, how healing lays the path for growth.. it just takes time, it takes perspective and consistency in small steps ..
@SolidusRob452 жыл бұрын
Coach, you are the damn man. I appreciate you're realistic take, I appreciate your transparency. 3 weeks post break up of a 9 year relationship, you help keep me strong. Not even for her, but for me. Thank you, Coach.
@reymyleficentvlogs3723 Жыл бұрын
Any update?
@crystalaras2657 Жыл бұрын
Its unbelievable, my ex come back chat my family n said sorry for the late replies, i tried to be nice he kept saying sorry.. I couldn’t belive i been so hurt n he is finally come back.. But nowdays im enjoying being single i was not even thinking about him again.. i went for dates and share my time to friends which i never meet before when i was in my relationship Its unbelievable that this guy finally said terribly sorry .. i cried like hell but not bcause i want him also its coz i did it right
@PeggyShingleton Жыл бұрын
Wow! This sounds painful. I have a question? DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS WHEN COACH LEE PINS A MESSAGE, like yours, IN WHAT LOOKS LIKE MY REPLY SECTION? Or maybe is not related to my content. Sorry to bother you.
@PeggyShingleton Жыл бұрын
@@johndemario8173 it’s hard to tell if this question is directed to me or the other women above. I did see him. He seemed grateful and voiced his wishes that I didn’t see anyone else. But in a little over a week he’s responding back to simple message I sent. So are we back?? I’m not feeling I’ll ever have any security.
@PeggyShingleton Жыл бұрын
He’s not responding to simple message.
@Sebastian-mn4gp Жыл бұрын
My ex dumped me about almost one month ago, I don't know if we are starting over soon, she's the woman I loved the most so far, and wanted to make my entire life with her, when watching your videos, I was afraid of no contact, but you gave me the strength enough to be reserved if she reaches out or stop caring if she moves on, yet I love her, now I'm stronger than never before, yesterday she tried to manipulate me, but didn't achieve anything. Thank you for everything!
@jaredvaughan16652 жыл бұрын
Be the father in the parable of the prodigal son.
@twarner2996 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Coach Lee for the continued encouragement. Its been 30 days for me. Sometimes I get weak and think of contacting but then I pray and play one of your videos. Thanks for being here!
@Camcam75 Жыл бұрын
Update?
@sassy4226 Жыл бұрын
It’s almost 2 months for me
@sheilatuohy9664 Жыл бұрын
16 years of on-off relationship years apart, Through tragic circumstances in both of our lives. Support each other in every way. I always left him know I was there no matter what, depended on eachother. So he ghosted me for a few weeks to hide from me that he found someone younger. It was a disaster with them so toxic. Now I am gone into sudden no contact. I know he is feeling shame but this time I am raising my value. I suffered pain of rejection but as days are going on I'm so confident and stronger . Two weeks now but I will be the more attractive woman by walking away. Not looking back but I welcome the day the No contact will work. Coach Lee videos are getting me through every day. Building me up to a standard of self respect. Thank you
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Sheila Tuohy, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you it's awesome! It has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@fatumaraafle50982 жыл бұрын
Coach lee you have been so helpful to me during my lowest moment of my life when I was so heartbroken I have tried no contact almost 2 years and start changing myself for the better and look now I don't even need my ex I'm over him now and meet my new person dating him for 7 months now thanks to you sir for your vedios it really helped me Alot appreciated you I'm your fun from Kenya
@sylviaroldan77582 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@sipzc-dj2 жыл бұрын
Please just move on, self love and not sleeping about is so much more powerful
@rooty4017 Жыл бұрын
If your partner breaks up with you, se it as a sign. You don't want to b a option. Run with no contact as fast as you can don't reach out or answering messages ever! Do not ever chase. Let her go. Protect your energy. She is not worth it.
@Sayaka25 Жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, thank you very much for the advice. I'm currently binge-watching your videos. I feel a lot better because I know I did my best. My ex reached out to offer breadcrumbs (let's talk just on weekends) and it felt wrong to me to accept that when I can meet a wonderful man who will give me lots of love and attention every day. And even if I don't find such a man, I see a lot of qualities in me and really don't need a man who doesn't value my time and energy. Thank you for strengthening my confidence
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Sayaka Mukai, I'm sure Coach Lee would recommend his Emergency Breakup Kit for you. It's excellent and it has strategies for every situation. It will help you. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
@brandonmoskos9149 Жыл бұрын
This guy is a genius. And everything he says is spot on. This is exactly how my ex is at the moment.
@RealCoachLee2 жыл бұрын
Here is the video I suggest you watch AFTER this one! kzbin.info/www/bejne/i3e1m2OqaLV3m5I
@TheJavierTrejo2 жыл бұрын
I can’t find the LIVE . Is there a link?!
@astrapete12 жыл бұрын
Hi Coach Lee, I'm now 2 months on from my ex breaking up with me, we are soulmates and she has been in a previous abusive relationship/marriage, the ex husband caused her to believe she wasn't good enough for me, she became cold, and now we are in no contact. Someone I know mentioned they saw her on a dating site already, she told me she loves me and isn't looking for anyone else. What's the chances of this being fixed in the future.
@jannlewandowski55402 жыл бұрын
@@ElaCanessaMusic After 4 months, I personally would believe my ex would call me, but that's my opinion only. However, if he doesn't call in another 30 days, then I would give up on him. Who knows, down the pike there could be someone else for you. Take care of yourself. I ⚘️
@jannlewandowski55402 жыл бұрын
@@astrapete1 If she loves you so much, WHY is she on a dating site? That's what I don't understand. When I was with my ex, I loved him and I never cheated on him or even tried a dating site. If you're the man she loved, and you were TRUE to her, you can do a lot better. You sound nice, and she'll be sorry she lost you. Let her go. You can do better...⚘️
@lolmeercatz102 жыл бұрын
167 days no contact, feel way better but do think about them from time to time, the relationship was shorter than the no contact, I sometimes feel the temptation to reach out but usually let the wave pass because I know I'm probably better off without them. She sometimes views my tiktok profile so hasn't forgotten me so you never know but I just hope the right person comes along.
@michellesingleton331 Жыл бұрын
After 1 year without a narcissist I sleep so good at night!!! No Contact Works ❤
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Michelle Singleton, I've been there too. Yes, it feels GREAT when the narc is gone.
@Pangea1earth4all Жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, I was the one doing the break up after he broke up with me 6 times in 18 months for no reason at all! I feel I finally gave him the break up he so wanted. Now seeing your videos I am more convinced that he used the break up to make me chase him. I know he is feeling the loss in every fiber of his body. I have gone strictly NC for 2 months already, I blocked him and ghosted him (he used to ghost/Ignore me all the time). He really thought I would never go anywhere. I still miss him and a part of me wants him to grow and understand the basics of relationships. Either way if he comes back or doesn’t I understand relationships heaps better now. Thank you for your sound advice.
@sarabibi7812 Жыл бұрын
Just broke up and whatever you are saying is happening and I was in pain initially but now that he is getting a reality check it makes me feel better.
@cherrylane792 жыл бұрын
My ex came back. Holy moly.
@ao5624 Жыл бұрын
Coach Lee. Thank you for being there for me during this very difficult time. Your videos kept me calm and grounded. I am getting stronger day by day. Thank you.
@april31622 жыл бұрын
Ignoring and blocking and Ghosting is very bad Idea, it is causing emotional Trauma and damage to the other person. Before doing this to anyone, will you accept if someone will do that to you? Instead be kind be understanding and use communication to solve your problems not by ignoring and hurting.
@mkmateos Жыл бұрын
I bought the kit and I am very pleased .. my situation is complicated because I was very insecure throughout the six year relationship. I kinda sabotage my happiness but he also wasn’t very understanding, he also did and said some pretty messed up things to me that broke my heart and made me even more insecure. Towards the end of our relationship I came to apologize convicted and owning to my own mistakes but he never did apologized but kept treating me bad saying it was me who changed him .. I decided to brake up even when I still love him because I realized that he would never forget me . He has reached out but never apologized..
@Missy-d9q4 ай бұрын
Omg same here whatever ge did he said its my fault that i made him like that. Its manipulation i promise u
@Brad7Harrington Жыл бұрын
I hope my ex one day asks for me back. So I can tell her no 😂
@wawajumio Жыл бұрын
big NO 😂
@robinthompson8480 Жыл бұрын
I'm want that with my ex!
@nazmifatima24833 ай бұрын
🤣
@FirstNameLastName-bg9vp2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much coach lee. My ex reached out after about 3 weeks of no contact to catch up about work. She said the workplace is boring without me and wants me to come work with her for a day or two. She said please multiple times and asked multiple times for me to come back. I kept it cool and said I would think about it. She made a sad playlist with our favourite songs on it. I feel like she does miss me a lot but there’s still work to be done. I will stay in no contact until she reaches out again. Thank you so much you are the best and I cannot thank you enough. You are saving lives.
@veeoby33642 жыл бұрын
She already reached out multiple times like you said. I think you should give her a chance but yeah be cautious and don't move too quickly.
@aayushitakte652811 ай бұрын
Hey i’m keen to know what happened next!
@ilarryshe6861 Жыл бұрын
Listen to Coach Lee. Everything he teaches is true, proven, tested and trusted. His lessons built my mental muscles so well that I’m revelling in my newly found self. Trust me, they’d notice it too.😉
@dargeo1406 Жыл бұрын
It was 7 years ago. He left on a whim and I told him to “never contact me again”. He did- a year later but with ZERO APOLOGY ( narcissist red flag 🚩), and I ghosted him. He had given me some player vibes already, so I had to do it anyway. But…If he had apologized soon after he left, I may have taken him back. But a year? Nah. He tried again later, including recently ( still no apology, just sleazy flirting) but I don’t trust him. Moved on awhile ago and married a real man I don’t have to play any stupid games with.
@serenitygilles7064 Жыл бұрын
Omg ikr its all your fault and the flirt is🤮
@dannykrueger3112Ай бұрын
Go on and do what coach is saying. You have nothing to lose. Treat yourself to their pain. It’s okay sit back down nothing and enjoy. You have earned it. God knows she has earned it. Live a little my brother.
@annapamelagarcia9352 Жыл бұрын
3weeks of no contact and I feel so strong thanks for inspiring me
@guitargod632 жыл бұрын
I started no contact the moment my gf tried to blow up our relationship when she told me she was in love with someone else, I pretty much said “go be with him” and blocked her on everything, just don’t know what she’s probably thinking but right now I’m more focused on myself and my future
@pepe21932 жыл бұрын
Day 8 of NC , I’m focusing on myself , thanks to Coach Lee 🙏 your videos are amazing
@dylanmatipa1362 жыл бұрын
Same here
@pepe21932 жыл бұрын
@@dylanmatipa136 so difficult but we should pass this time 💪🏼
@pepe21932 жыл бұрын
@@dylanmatipa136 day 9 and she followed me again on IG but still NC ✌🏼💪🏼💪🏼 be strong focus on yourself if they deserve they gonna back , with Coach Lee it’s easier
@larrylenox7191 Жыл бұрын
@@pepe2193 im just on day 4 yet and i feel better already
@anamascarenhas6469 Жыл бұрын
how is going ?
@kalanimanloloyo4958 Жыл бұрын
Omg i followed all the advice coach Lee - after one month he contacted me 😅 He told me -he very depressed his mind and he wants to meet up in middle at night so said to him I can’t because I have my yoga very early morning Very powerful all the advice from coach Lee ❤ Thank you side ❤
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
kalani, that sounds pretty good. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.
@redpilldownunder4845 Жыл бұрын
Gents don't take them back.
@dannykrueger3112Ай бұрын
Go on and do what coach is saying. You have nothing to lose. Treat yourself to their pain. It’s okay…sit back do nothing and enjoy. You have earned it. God knows she has earned it. Live a little my brother.
@Astrid_Grace Жыл бұрын
A friend’s husband dumped her for basically selfish reasons. He was so cold in that, that it did seem final. We proceeded to go on a friends weekender, and he lost his damn mind. She’d never gone away from him that long before. It was a little reality slap. Yet, she wasn’t in the wrong - he left her.
@sassy4226 Жыл бұрын
I’m going through this now any updates
@anthonymedina5809 Жыл бұрын
Wow! She left me two weeks ago and we talked up until three days ago. I told her I’m gonna accommodate her space so basically no contact for three days and while I was watching this video I shit you not she message me on messenger I’m not gonna open it up. I’m gonna remain no contact, this technique really does work! Keep up the great videos.
@morpheus31902 жыл бұрын
After 4 months trying to stay strong, she hasn’t contacted me and she is also in no contact. I just wish I knew what she is thinking, would make it easier to move on . Thanks for this encouragement Coach Lee!
@Markdaamannn2 жыл бұрын
I am on the same boat my friend it’s hard and mind exhausting
@Markdaamannn2 жыл бұрын
@@morpheus3190 thank you brother. I hope it can pass or atleast some type of reconciliation between me and my ex and I hope the same for you my bro. But it sucks cause all this time passed and by the time we get that out of our mind or when or if they do ever decide to come back it’s gunna be just pointless. But send nothing but positive vibes to you bro and I hope thinks work out in your favor 🤝🙏🏼💯
@TheBcrlove2 жыл бұрын
How do you know she’s in no contact also?
@Duncanexgirlfriend2 жыл бұрын
Sorry Bro,when a woman decides they’re done, they’re done
@MB-ss1nq2 жыл бұрын
Just move on dude. She is now past tense. Finished.
@Muttey202410 ай бұрын
Thanks for your videos mate, I’m in NC first few days, 45 year old man she was the love of my life. Done the crying win her back stage now acceptance stage and working on me 💪 - I got this
@thispartysover_9 ай бұрын
Update? Today is 20 days since my breakup... im still hurting... but im also fighting for me
@adelmarwashington31182 жыл бұрын
Why is always about them? I decided to be the best version of myself, there is nothing wrong staying single for some time. Life is beautiful and we have deserve to be happy, with or without them.
@adelmarwashington31182 жыл бұрын
I'm not looking for getting my ex back, what I want is to get myself back and be able to live a better life. We lose the best of our life by getting back what shouldn't be ours.
@ladybee19092 жыл бұрын
I've decided to change my numbers and just start afresh, let's call it "Forced No Contact" ....this phase is so damn painful 💔😢
@michaelrobert91152 жыл бұрын
She has moved on and has a new boyfriend. I have applied the no contact rule completely. I guess that's how it goes. I will not even try to fix this. She has demonstrated she has no interest in repairing this relationship.
@michaelrobert91152 жыл бұрын
I have given up on her completely. Maybe the best thing I can do. I still love her. Hard to understand but it is what it is. I am single and am gone with that.
@michaelrobert91152 жыл бұрын
I don't feel she will ever contact me. LOL
@oye_hoye_mickey2 жыл бұрын
The Proffesor has spoken. Class Dismissed. 🙃
@Layla-hg4ux Жыл бұрын
I don't want him back!! This is the 3rd time, no more playing games! He Stays in the past and never in the future
@jordanmartin38052 жыл бұрын
5 year relationship.. Started no contact sept after a couple weeks/month of chasing.. she reached out to give me updates on her house buying journey first 2 weeks of my NC I kept it short and sweet, We haven’t spoke since. Tryna stay strong
@scootknight Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video coach, it’s been 4 weeks today. It’s been almost a week since I haven’t reached out. I’m struggling with this so much. I miss her beyond words. I’ve lost hope.
@danksinatra5977 Жыл бұрын
As time passes, it'll get easier bro. Been there done that..Stay strong💪
@jarrodoberg2078 Жыл бұрын
How’s it going man?
@lesleymiller8446 Жыл бұрын
He didnt have any feelings to start with, he lead me on and strung me along to see what he could get from me...
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
I was engaged to a guy like that for 5 years. I found out he was a narcissist. I finally left him after being used.
@albertrivera5443 Жыл бұрын
Great advice!!!!! 👍🏼 wish I did this right after my separation... until one day I said to my self "thug life" and pushed forward and started working on myself and she came back when I wasn't chasing anymore!!
@CiluhStyle1 Жыл бұрын
Pray that goes my way...do yall have children?
@albertrivera5443 Жыл бұрын
@@CiluhStyle1 yes
@fifihashmust7170 Жыл бұрын
How did it take
@timpope1745 Жыл бұрын
Listen, first of all dont be waiting for them to come back, learn to be glad there gone, go on with life, its so short and precious , dont have any contact with them, block their number, zero contact, if they try to come back, never, NEVER, take them back ,whatever reason they left for, remember, you meant nothing to them, it was easy fod them to leave, if you take them back, they will do the same thing again...be greatful they are gone, learn, live, and be strong.
@Stedemn Жыл бұрын
About 10 years ago I was dumped by a girl and she went no contact. I got angry and reacted. I said some really horrible things that put the nail in the coffin and thought to myself, I'm never going to hear from that girl again. Well to my surprise she made contact a year later!!.
@matthewjohnson3729 Жыл бұрын
Got left 5months ago from a 8 year relationship....2 months ago i was told she is seeing someone new ...i went straight into nc after she saw i met a new friend she started to contact and then asked if we could speak she showed she still loves me but didnt state she was over the new guy ....but now continuing nc hoping more
@perthforme Жыл бұрын
I love coach Lee. My girlfriend recently dumped me. It was a good relationship as in no real bad arguments etc but we had issues. It is 3 weeks no contact and I came very close to texting her on Boxing Day but I didn't. I am so glad I didn't. I'm not even sure I want my ex back I watch coach Lee because I get strength from him.
@loca5140 Жыл бұрын
Update?
@pek-pp7fl2 жыл бұрын
5 years relationship,,,,i reached out when i was in 22 days of no conatct,, and i now regret it so much ,, and i am now on my second no contact period for 22 days again, and i m sure this time i wont ever reach out again ... we are still married im sure he will reachout in the future even if he wants to file the divorce :( we will see what happens....
@mystrength5640 Жыл бұрын
I will only take my ex- Back if he goes for Spiritual/ Emotional/ Psychological/ Psychiatric/ assistance and treatment for at least a year, and continues for rest of his life! I heard a psychiatric professor say recently that after age 40 certain mental illnesses are too difficult to change😮especially if some of their baggage is from Childhood!
@MojRa2 жыл бұрын
NC almost 4 months. It was like hell. I give him all and my needs never been priority for him. And then he left me. Someone special found me and we go slowly, but I can say, this man done for me more in 2 month, then ex in 3 years. I learned I’m worth loyalty, be the only one for my love one. Thank you from heart ❤
@m.alexander78652 жыл бұрын
Been almost 8 weeks now.. a few soft reach outs.. nothin substantial losing a bit of hope.. but at the same time feeling better bout moving on myself... The video about how no contact is always affective is accurate
@zb54362 жыл бұрын
Believe in yourself , you got this ! It will work trust me
@m.alexander78652 жыл бұрын
@@zb5436 thank you. I appreciate that.. there was a lot of love. Lot os respect... Little loss in emotional attraction. I saw it. Working on me... Not even sure I want her back 🤣
@KamilJan95s2 жыл бұрын
@@m.alexander7865 why did you break up?
@m.alexander78652 жыл бұрын
@@KamilJan95s emotional attraction... Just like coach Lee says .. that always the issue
@zb54362 жыл бұрын
@@m.alexander7865 personally for me , I also thought I didn’t want him back but he reached out and we spoke for a bit and then it made me realize that my heart is truly with him and he feels the same ❤️distance can do so much wanders either way
@zanevolk6810 Жыл бұрын
This is life saving advice. This man is a wise man.
@albertkroker54032 жыл бұрын
9 months no contact for myself 1.5 year relationship. I still miss her but don't want her back anymore she's had to many farmer sausages after I'm in a good place right
@justafrog7645 Жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship with a borderliner for almost a year. After 6 month we had the first breakup for about 3 weeks. she reached out to me every few days. She was sorry, i should treat my self good and work on myself. Some texts on the other hand were full of hate towards me. Our last breakup seems final. She was impulsive and and cold at the same time. She cried and said she does not feel me anymore. 26 days alomst no contact for now. Its so weird. 1 week before the break up she told me that she cant think of somebody else for both of us. Than break up.. borderline is such a cruel thing.. i will trust the universe and coach lee's wise words
@darrellborland119 Жыл бұрын
@justafrog7645...did anything good happen since 2 weeks ago? Sounds like some serious couples' therapy is in order. 😇
@cefarther3945 Жыл бұрын
Men have to win, win a woman--work for her, test her, love her love, it's not that difficult. Love these videos, good psychology is being taught to all of us.
@Katrina-z1c Жыл бұрын
I think this is the best. I just don’t talk with him in anyway. I blocked him on Facebook and on my phone. No emotions going his way, I just moved on made myself do good stuff for myself. And continuing…even meet a few new people lm talking with right now, feels guud.