Mystery & Beckster Podcast (MASSIVE Value)

IG/WEBSITE: ASKMYSTERY IG:ROBBECKSTER, KZbin/WEBSITE: THEBECKSTERLIFESTYLE

[@BecksterLifestyle]

It was only meant to be an hour podcast, but we had so much fun we went over double. Looking forward to coming back. Great chat, great subjects like minded people. Game on gentlemen. Beckster 🕺

[@indianpe624]

Yeyah! Thank you for coming on

[@brianmeen2158]

I’m just glad you guys made it onto his podcast! 👍🏻

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Yeah man it was an awesome chat, I easily could have gone for another 3 hours in terms of questions. Look forward to having you guys on again

[@nicholasingratta423]

How do,we become clients ?

[@BecksterLifestyle]

@@nicholasingratta423 find us at Beckster lifestyle and askmystery 🎩🕺

[@bohemiancasanova5538]

Mystery has such a calming presence and a lot of wisdom and knowledge as well. Amazing to listen to. Thanks for doing the interview Alex.

[@Neil-pf3pk]

lol

[@Rocketman0407]

@@tambourinedmbyea he is Bipolar so he needs it to stay stable

[@felipearaujo7815]

Damn... Mystery was granddaddy of them all. The father of PUA.

[@brianmeen2158]

“If your thinking about that, your inner game is dented” Beckster nails it when it comes to the biggest problem with the black pill.. if a short guy goes around obsessing about his lack of height he is going to carry that negative energy around either him and most women will sense that from miles away.. I just wish the black pill folks could understand this

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Yep it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy

[@Rocketman0407]

On top of that they do not believe they are self sabotaging if you point that out. Some even have the stupid attitude of "Chad does not need game, so I will not give it a chance" If these guys actually went out and was able to be a little openminded they would see some average and even kinda ugly dudes getting the girls and it could change their mind. Game is powerful as hell and it is mostly the energy you project outwards.

[@DivineLogos]

Yeah and girls will usually shit test you on your biggest physical flaw. Like height or baldness. Blackpillers fail the shit test because they are brainwashed that it matters more than it truly does. And then they think its proof that the blackpill is true. Self fulfilling prophecy. We see what we believe.

[@TheSongofSaya]

Ah yes, the "women are only into looks and money" type of incels, the blackpillers. I see those guys as just lazy, they never study the psychology of female attraction yet they are so bought into the myth of looks and money. Hell, my parents are a perfect example; my dad's a househusband and my mom's the provider, but because my dad's game is so good, their attraction is still as strong as ever.

[@Rocketman0407]

@@TheSongofSaya it shows lack of experience on their part. Like have they never seen or known a “ugly” dude with game? They are coping about being lazy and not taking action. I have suggested some to go do plastic surgery if looks are everything and they start to backpedal so it’s clear they don’t 100% are sure about their philosophy on looks either. Some of them I read are actually opting for plastic surgery though and they are in for a rude awakening if they think it’s the magic pill.

[@brianmeen2158]

Great job Alex in getting these guys on your podcast - they are legends at pick up

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Thanks man, it took a few years, but I'm glad I could organize this

[@curiousconsultant7922]

Seeing Mystery as this calm, soft spoken, well mannered Canadian really flies in the face of everything he's represented in the past. Ironically, most of the bad press that pickup gets from the mainstream links to him. People say PUAs are these nerds in funky outfits, hats, makeup... Trying to manipulate girls via corny techniques in order to get sex. Yet here is the guy who invented the whole outfit and hat thing talking about how pickup is a simple love story that is ultimatly about a boy who walks up to a girl, talks to her, gives her good memories, and ultimatly get intimate with her. The very opposite of what people thing Mystery does and teaches. Happy to see PWF finally getting all the stams of approval from the legends of the game. I remember when I started getting into all the PUA stuff this crossover felt inconcievable yet here we are and the value is undeiable (as expected). It would be amazing if we got a panel with Mystery to do infield breakdown. I realize it might tough to put together and I don't know how open he would be to giving out some free value when his expertice usually comes at a premium, but if the idea works it would be the most epic stream on this channel easily

[@user-ov3qh2nc3j]

"We lived it. Why apologize for the life we live?"

[@lawrencepetruzzelli]

The Pick Up Artist on VH1 is what got me into the whole pick up thing and honestly saved me from suicide and depression

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Oh wow man that's awesome. I was also in a really bad place before I discovered pick up

[@DivineLogos]

Mystery is definitely the most Iconic PUA ever and has perfect speed and tone of voice.

[@bellofigoitaliano5038]

Also I think , Keanu reaves would play mystery perfectly . He even looks like mystery with a beard.

[@JD2jr.]

He'd do a great "now" Mystery, but he's too old for the story they are talking about.

[@bellofigoitaliano5038]

@@JD2jr. they can CJI keanus face for the early arc then use the real face as the story progresses

[@upgrade1015]

Truth

[@ChicagoJ351]

Really great stream choice. Mystery is always going to have that allure that draws people in. He’s the OG of pickup. It’s must see TV. I haven’t watched the full stream yet, but I appreciate Alex getting these guys on.

[@indianpe624]

Tonality and charisma on point

[@brianmeen2158]

Mystery has so much wisdom of pick up

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Thanks bro

[@JamesO-cj3dp]

Wow Mystery is a legend! Great content. Definitely bring him on again and give tips on speed dating. Fantastic value in this video. Thank you.

[@Neil-pf3pk]

lol

[@mikec9070]

Mystery sees everything through the lens of cold approach and his method. Even when asked about social circle, he says you have to go out and do cold approach to merge people together on the next outing. It's pretty weird. What about being a normal person and joining activities and meeting people through shared interest. Seems like a much better strategy to meet a like minded girl you can actually connect with. He still seems to be searching for that special person.....Maybe that's a better strategy than constantly approaching random strangers in superficial clubs.

[@lischeatsandbeatsonjohntra4827]

JAL just bought another 1k subs to surpass PWF 188k subs and console himself from the Mystery snub. LOL

[@levelup2014]

Such an insecure man he his

[@JerseyDevil187]

I don’t know why John Anthony Lifestyle get’s so much hate

[@lischeatsandbeatsonjohntra4827]

JAL just went to 190k as of today and only 9 comments on his recent video. Two of them his own. I guess the recent 5k subs he's gained only decided to sub and only 7 comment. What a pathetic little excuse for a man that Johnny is.

[@tayburns4316]

@@JerseyDevil187Well how do you explain his sub count? Was at 185k for like a year then suddenly gains 5k? 😂

[@lischeatsandbeatsonjohntra4827]

He's now at 190k. 5k subs in a week that aren't the commenting type. I saw his excuse to a commenter in his comment section on why he was only at 185k at the time and not growing. His excuse was he was "shadowbanned". Lol. As if no one could find his channel even if they were logged out of their accounts. The dudes lies are so ridiculous it's never-ending comedy!

[@vesuvius2444]

Something I've noticed with people who become really good at something is they are usually very chill about it. Mystery definitely gave that vibe off in this.

[@Neil-pf3pk]

the vibe he gives is a creepy old guy with insecurities

[@Rocketman0407]

@@tambourinedmbwas that a way of trying to put him in a bad light? If so it was very low. Of you . He is Bipolar, the medications can be the change between deleting yourself or not

[@Rocketman0407]

@@tambourinedmb yes because he has ups and downs that are so strong he wants to commit suicide sometimes. He has Bipolar Disorder.

[@timothystokes6337]

You're conducting an interview with the greatest pickup artist of all time, which could become one of the most popular videos on the channel. And you can't pay, I don't know, 10 dollars to a dude just... to any dude, to make timestamps for this video at least, so that people can understand what to watch. I mean, why..

[@kyleleblancvlogs3820]

Im really liking mystery. He seems to be genuine. No red pill bullshit. Turn the pickup artist when you need it. When you get the relationship you turn it off. Talking about your story and how it conveys who you were and who you became. Top notch. That is on point. Far more reasonable then most of the community

[@khairt1731]

This is massive value

[@Multi407D]

lol John fuming

[@lischeatsandbeatsonjohntra4827]

John rapid fire spamming Alex with F bomb texts from a burner phone.

[@brianmeen2158]

Who is John?

[@emman141]

thats his optimised text follow up system 😂

[@scorpionenergy6256]

@@emman141have you actually tried his program

[@emman141]

@@scorpionenergy6256 nope have you ? I’ve never seen an impartial/non bias review of it that’s not controlled by him so seems very red flagish.

[@kyleleblancvlogs3820]

56:55 so on point !!! Wow. Thank you. Its the story you are writing in your book. Whats you're book going to read like ? The story is so much of the process that makes it enjoyable.

[@sirij8784]

How does mystery look younger than Alex wtf? That guy has aged amazingly

[@Project-Masculinity]

Great Content, would be great to have Neil Strauss on sometime

[@indianpe624]

We actually did try to get him on quite sometime ago. He said he doesn't do collars anymore. Has a lowkey life now

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

Yeah I've tried actually, one of his ex fuck buddies is a fan of my channel. She tried to set it up but he politely declined I believe

[@Project-Masculinity]

@@PlayingWithFireChannel Shame, how about David de Angelo ?

[@beezowdoodoozoppitybopbopb9488]

Good chat. Thanks for touching on Alan Roger Currie. Alex, Nitin, appreciate you guys 👍

[@indianpe624]

Appreciate you too

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

For sure man, it was a good question

[@gaza10]

Jesse Eisenberg should play Mystery in a film - kind of nerdy look but develops over time.

[@5kulk3r73]

Mystery is based. Interesting to hear his responses to PWF's style and theory. Value content dump.

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

thanks man

[@nameless.greyceo]

Never would you guess Mystery is 52, look how young he looks

[@mjdfrr]

Mystery channels, 1: www.youtube.com/@askmystery 2: life-style channel I couldnt find :)

[@Jason-qn8gu]

jal gotta be mad asf rn

[@lischeatsandbeatsonjohntra4827]

JAL pummeling his Mystery body pillow and using his Alex PWF voodoo doll as a pin cushion.

[@seriouscash]

mystery has waaay better game than JAL. JAL has pump and dump game. fake af not sustainable

[@SufianM]

@@seriouscash lol u smoking too much

[@billusher2265]

@@lischeatsandbeatsonjohntra4827 LOL

[@lischeatsandbeatsonjohntra4827]

JAL just made a video on Mystery today on his downfall and him being a complete sellout. I'm sure it's because Mystery never went on JAL channel first to endorse him as the best to ever do it so he could then run rampant claiming Mystery even knows JAL is the best ever. JAL is in Misery over Mystery. RIP

[@successbyanymeansnecessary]

Mehow was the first person to put out infield video of popular PUAs of the time. Like Hypnotica.

[@devs.4254]

Awesome, I'm going to watch this fully later. I first started reading Mystery Method in 2007, but my friends convinced me PUA was cringe so I stopped. Picked it back up a few years later and found it very well done, but by that time I'd already read other stuff on game. Still a great book with lots of useful material for a night out, and the first 5 chapters on what attraction is and why should be required reading for all boys.

[@gilbertsevdays]

5:30 12:08 40:16 Gutter Game (night game at street) 53:12 Beckster 😂 1:52:50 IVD (Magic) 1:55:55 mind reading & levitate stuff ⭐ 1:56:58 Additional Keys to proficient pickup 2:00:00 "you see the girl who fight outside?" opener 2:04:04 level 0 2:08:08 How Mystery pickup a girl by herself 2:09:00 cut corners other PUA 😅

[@Abz124]

i like these guys, but am i the only one that finds them a bit ...off/weird? i cant imagine them doing all this stuff they claim without massive rejection rates, even the infield on becksters channel is so much of just magic tricks... idk i just got a weird vibe of them

[@dzim8822]

You should go back and watch the VH1 tv show "The Pickup Artist". Also, there is infield of Mystery online if you look for it. In other words, there is a lot of evidence that they are successful and know what they're doing. Mystery was Owen Cook's mentor and teacher. I would also recommend reading Mystery's book "The Mystery Method" and the book "The Game".

[@benjaminmcgrand8252]

Weird vibes galore. Calculated approaches vs spontaneous approaches. Strange way to start.

[@JD2jr.]

To me it felt like they were doing a press conference for their programs more than just being real people, like they were trying to sell people that they were worth listening to, but... we were already here to listen to them. Mystery seemed cool, but the other guy definitely just felt like a hypeman interrupting any time it started to seem like they were getting to the real person. Second half was definitely better.

[@nicholasingratta423]

Of course it’s high but they won’t advertise rejections

[@3runrob]

Everything about them is a carefully constructed facade. They believe their own lies because if they were to admit their whole personal lifes and careers are based on false ideas it would likely be devastating. Look at how Tom Torrero ended up. Living in this Peter Pan fantasy is not healthy. With that being said not everything they say is wrong, it does work to some degree, and especially for people on the spectrum or very logically oriented people that lack the intuition for socializing. But it probably still causes more harm than good given that it lacks a proper moral compass, or the ability to think long term in terms of developing personal releshionships, it's why none of them seem tp be able to maintain a relationship even tho they are self proclaimed experts of the field.

[@PlayingWithFireChannel]

IG/WEBSITE: ASKMYSTERY IG: ROBBECKSTER KZbin/WEBSITE: THEBECKSTERLIFESTYLE

[@P0ETICsin]

Theres a term in the community.. I came up with it.. such a G .

[@psychedelictacos9118]

Its kind of weird seeing Mystery wear normal clothing!

[@1928zxcv]

Owen getting the interview before anyone else is still epic and my fav. This is my 2nd fav. Just old school pick up guys , no dumb *** podcasters or Red Pillers involved

[@josephstrings7413]

Tyler ruined it by not letting mystery talk about pickup

[@oldmedstudent1750]

Nah I'm sorry but Alex was being straight up disrespectful to the OG, Mystery. Constantly trying to say he knows better. Bro been doing this since forever and Alex is trying to talk down to them like he knows better.

[@oldmedstudent1750]

Alex was listening just to respond. It didn't feel like a conversation. Halfway through and just pure trash interview.

[@LuisGutierrez-xu8co]

The Man Himself

[@JerseyDevil187]

Mystery is a sellout

[@xg.55555]

Why is Alex so emotionless. I think it makes the interview worse... But thank you for the content. Maybe just not clicking with Beckster or a bit tired

[@Christopher-hv3xj]

Reminds me of my autistic self 😅

[@DEADLY-LURES-AU]

Alex you totally nailed this interview so many great questions

[@assezzen194]

Superb interview. But I suggest never interrupting the guests. Would love another interview with more stories, anecdotes, tips after the Helsinki Bootcamp in April.

[@colombianspanish]

Greetings from Medellín, Colombia 🇨🇴

[@bellofigoitaliano5038]

Alex can you try and get the producer Alen Bubich from keys to the vip ?

[@osc8310]

Dude said use raya lol anything to not cold approach

[@Ynkno]

Mystery making the rounds!

[@wtfischer]

Fantastic to finally see this colloquy... the originator meets the modern Prometheus

[@upgrade1015]

At the bar if she offers Don’t say “you pick” . Be a man , be decisive but don’t make it extravagant . Middle of the road . That’s my only peanut gallery comment ( seriously love these guys and they are awesome )

[@1st_agent]

Mystery is always drinking Coke haha

[@TheSongofSaya]

So Mystery is the master of attraction but not the right person to ask about a long-term relationship? Then I would love to request that you invite Bobby Rio on a podcast. That guy along with Rob Judge are the best at giving advice about long-term relationships.

[@DubstepRacing]

Letsss gooo! Mystery is a legend!

[@theredlens]

Mystery. The more you listen to him, and how he explains things and brings up. Examples is expert level even Alex here. PWF had nothing to say. He probably was writing notes down while he was talking the difference between an expert in the field and everyone else.

[@oldmedstudent1750]

Alex couldn't have looked more disinterested the entire time. Not sure if its a smug or arrogant thing, but I expected a little bit more respect to the OG's themselves.

[@osc8310]

This guy is the problem w the community constantly wants to see the conflict in the differences of game like using dating apps vs social game vs etc etc if you’re not lazy cold approach is the best.

[@fordford514]

Great interview. Many gems. Thanks!

[@aelfredrex8354]

Value in listening how to pick up drunken barflies? No.

[@andre-px8rv]

My brother and I in college had a game in college when we went out we’d get girls to buy us drinks haha it’s easier than you think😂

[@supernova4life1]

I wonder what happend with Discovery ?

[@handleking1]

Everyone has been playing level 0 doing sniper approaches 😂

[@bellofigoitaliano5038]

Since mystery is from Toronto . How come he never went on Keys to the VIP? The timing was perfect as well , 2008-2010

[@josephtorres1406]

this podcast is historical, as I consider Alex to be the very best at phone & texting pickup, Mystery is not really a mystery anymore as his memory is gotta be pretty darn good to recall every detail in step by step interaction, at least from when he started out, right lol. and as almost every young or old male that is interested in romantic education has read his book I really want to know what Matador is doing nowadays, I sure enjoyed his charismatic attitude & smoothness in all his romantic educational content. I think Matador was the original that started w/ Mystery in Hollywood. Beckster is animated and charismatic and I can see why Mystery enjoys his wing man. I've become a one good woman man after all my years picking up women, and this year I picked the most beautiful & submissive that I could find, and she's mine all mine !

[@TC-yx1qt]

Alex text game is trash, for those of who know better, there's a huge, huge, huge flaw in his text game know, and why he's missing out on 2x more girls than he is.

[@josephtorres1406]

Get off @@TC-yx1qt

[@josephtorres1406]

keep lying to yourself @@TC-yx1qt

[@josephtorres1406]

stop lying to yourself @@TC-yx1qt

[@josephtorres1406]

keep lying to yourself=@@TC-yx1qt

[@youngvillain1198]

TIMESTAMPS PLEASE!!!?

[@marksoberay2318]

This is kinda inspiring

[@JohnnyBg2905]

Respectfully, they don't know about Alan Roger Currie and directness he talks about, which if fair enough. You can see that by answers they gave about him. Mode One is much more than grabing girl by wrist or hand and creeping them out. He is VERBALLY direct and bold, not by weird touching and stuff, plus special type of sexual tension created with dirty talk and close proximity with: 1) RECEPTIVE*, yet firstly a little bit negative girl (wholesome pretenders) or 2) RECEPTIVE, but much more negative, borderline antagonistic (erotic hypocrites) *doesn't show signs of wanting to leave ("I have a boyfriend", "Sorry, I'm not interested"), just testing your balls - it's mostly unconscious game Great guests though 🙏

[@Juan_rivera]

OH SHIT

[@ugandanfinesse8543]

I miss Tom Torero ❤😢

[@tonychauvet9334]

what was the App they mentionned , Skello ?

[@paulfitness5157]

Playing with fire speaks too fast and is just promoting online game as it seems .

[@diamond.d2320]

John anthony lifestyle made a exposed video about mystery yesterday right after this livestream

[@TheAlphahot1]

I don’t know guys I’m grateful for the content but it’s the same shit from 15 years ago plus I never ever went into a set totally indirect, dhv etc. Come on, the moment you speak to a girl she knows

[@ronxt4843]

what are the 5 levels of game for mystery?

[@Ynkno]

online is -1 lol

[@ChicagoJ351]

It’s in the video.

[@Abz124]

lvl -1 : online game lvl 0: direct game on lone women lvl 1: indirect group game lvl 2: merging & short-term entourage game lvl 3: throwing parties lvl 4: building social circle lvl 5: fame game

[@paulfitness5157]

Playing with fire is not funny either ,seems very boring

[@furtrapper11]

Becster is funny

[@benjaminmcgrand8252]

How can I trust a man with wireless headphones?

[@TC-yx1qt]

you're worried about the wrong things, the best guys aren't even on YT lol

[@jhonsnow5304]

@@TC-yx1qtwhere are they

[@TC-yx1qt]

@@jhonsnow5304 meeting women in real life, not talking about it on KZbin.

[@poochieshomeplanet1649]

1:18:32

[@alchemyhendricks725]

Soulmate = cringe

[@Barbarian646]

Beckster? Oh jeez

[@Alexlinnk]

I got regected harshly in the past. Now approaching is too scary. So I don't do anything anymore.

[@indianpe624]

How exactly were you rejected?

[@TheAlphahot1]

Man if it was harsh you haven’t wasted much time. If you came in more smoothly, you may not had been rejected but you wasted time if you spoke for 20’ take and number which led to nothing

[@Alexlinnk]

@@indianpe624 Mmh, like 4 girls turned around when I said the opening. And another girl said something like I wasn't pleasent to be around 10 min into the interaction. Although It might be bc I opened an fat girl in the group and moved on to her. Well that's what I like to tell myself haha

[@berndstromberg1586]

@@Alexlinnk You serious? Do you know how many times I got rejected? I guess at least 3000-4000 times. Thats not exadderated, obviuosly I dont have the concrete number, but this is my best estimate. If you just quit after 4 rejections you will waste your whole life. Remember that you only got one Chance in this

[@MaikalAmadeus]

Brother I'm reading your comment now and you need some thicker skin. Those rejections are some of the most common and meaningless rejections i've ever seen. I seriously question whether the four that "turned around" even heard and understood or noticed you. And if they did hear you, how the F is "turning around" a harsh rejection??? That's one of the tamest nicest ways she will reject a man on a cold approach at night, if you were expecting a cordial "No thanks for the compliment but I'm not interested" you drank the koolaid. That's a line reserved for the guys in her social circle. "You're not pleasant to be around [or something like that??? you don't even remember and you're using it as a reason not to approach.]" depending on the context isn't even rejection unless she's turning around and physically leaving or asking you to leave. Either you said/did something socially uncalibrated in which case: 1) Step back, 2) Empathize, 3) Reframe, 4) change subjects. i.e. Sorry I know my humor can be kind of 'out there,' [empathy] I just think to really trust someone you have to express your whole personality so you can see how you relate most [reframe]. When I was in South America... [Change subjects/stack into story telling]. The other possibility is that was a shit test and you failed.

[@paulfitness5157]

He sounds inauthentic coz he speaks too fast

[@bedadays1763]

Alex any way to contact you?

[@ZootedInc]

Whats alex gf @