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Erik von Markovik aka Mystery ( IG @askmystery ) was the first live, in-field pick up instructor in the world. He's the subject of the NY Times best seller, "The Game" by Neil Strauss. He was the star of "VH1's The Pickup Artist" and he was the creator of the "Mystery Method" and "The Venutian Arts Handbook" @askmystery
After an almost 10 year hiatus, Erik and his partner Rob Beckster are conducting live in-field training again.
Attraction Unleashed Forum on SKOOL ----- www.skool.com/attraction-unle...
KZbin: youtube.com/@BecksterLifestyl...
Mystery & Beckster BARCELONA Master Bootcamp bit.ly/Barcelona-Bootcamp
Pick up in paradise, BROCHURE ----- www.pickupinparadise.com/
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0:00 Intro
0:58 Having children
2:27 Meeting Mystery
5:10 Neil Strauss & Jessica Alba
6:08 Becoming famous and mainstream
7:29 *The changes in game in the last 20 years
12:19 *Direct vs indirect game
14:12 *“Don’t sexualize the conversation”
15:56 Integrating dating apps
17:42 Using social media to help your dating
19:11 Text messaging vs DMs
20:39 The pillow pit era
23:11 Using pre-selection
25:31 The dual-induction massage
26:46 *Instructing your girl pivot
29:47 *Can men and women be friends?
31:49 Knowing Mystery is alive and well
34:57 Doing panel shows and podcasts
35:40 How many people Mystery has helped
36:17 The Red Pill and the Manosphere
39:39 The concept of qualification
42:25 Attraction is hardwired in our psychology
44:16 Expressing DHVs
48:06 *Being a leader of men
49:43 *The willingness to walk away
51:26 *Reward compliance, not attention
53:34 Correlation between sales and pick-up
54:42 *The M3 Model
56:37 *Logistics
59:48 Having a delusional belief in yourself
1:00:35 Competence over confidence
1:01:20 Favorite places to travel
1:04:25 Fascination with AI
1:06:21 Issues coming back into the US
1:07:09 *Best US cities to go out
1:10:40 Matador
1:11:51 Goals for later on in your life
1:13:04 The secret infield videos
1:15:23 Living with Courtney Love
1:17:05 Social media makes girls not go out
1:18:19 What makes a good wingman
1:19:52 Attraction is not a choice
1:22:03 What to look for in a long-term partner
1:25:34 *How to get out of the friend zone
1:28:18 Working with Lovedrop
1:29:49 Working with Beckster
1:31:34 Doing more content
1:32:32 How Beckster met Mystery
1:34:08 Dividing up the business responsibilities
1:46:08 Attending podcasts and panel shows
1:37:05 Moving into a private life
1:39:00 Travel plans
1:40:03 Having a community forum
1:41:51 The first to create the pick-up industry
1:43:17 Social media