So well said Elsiye….. I agree with almost all of your points. Thank you for your insight and for being willing to share your experience. I have been thinking about you lately and I was happily surprised to see your post today. I have gleaned a lot from it. I want to share a couple of things before I close my comment. 1st) It is on the point of forgiveness. When you said how it is good not just for the people who did us wrong but for our own good also, I remember an example I heard a long time ago. It goes like this:- when we are wishing the worst thing to happen to those who have hurt us and we couldn’t let go of the experience but marinate in the situation night and day; we are like a person who is drunk with poison yet expects his/ her enemy to die. Isn’t that ironic. They’re living their lives without any interruptions not knowing what we are wishing against them, but here we’re loosing our sleep and rest over the issue. Who is paying the price them or us? The people who did us wrong or we ourselves who were wronged but chose not to forgive? The lesson of forgiveness is so godly and biblical as well. It will only do us good if we follow its pattern. 2nd) point is actually a portion of the Scripture that has helped me live a life that brings peace to myself and to the people around me. It’s quoted both in the Old and New Testament. I hope it blesses someone out there. May God bless you Elsiye. ❤ መዝሙር 34:12፤ ሕይወትን የሚፈቅድ ሰው ማን ነው? በጎንም ዘመን ለማየት የሚወድድ? መዝሙር 34:13፤ አንደበትህን ከክፉ ከልክል፥ ከንፈሮችህም ሽንገላን እንዳይናገሩ። መዝሙር 34:14፤ ከክፉ ሽሽ መልካምንም አድርግ፤ ሰላምን እሻ ተከተላትም። መዝሙር 34:15፤ የእግዚአብሔር ዓይኖች ወደ ጻድቃን፡ ጆሮቹም ወደ ጩኸታቸው ናቸውና። መዝሙር 34:16፤ መታሰቢያቸውን ከምድር ያጠፋ ዘንድ፡ የእግዚአብሔር ፊት ክፉን በሚያደርጉ ላይ ነው። መዝሙር 34:17፤ ጻድቃን ጮኹ፥ እግዚአብሔርም ሰማቸው፡ ከመከራቸውም ሁሉ አዳናቸው። መዝሙር 34:18፤ እግዚአብሔር ልባቸው ለተሰበረ ቅርብ ነው፥ መንፈሳቸው የተሰበረውንም ያድናቸዋል። 1 ጴጥሮስ 3:10፤ “ሕይወትን ሊወድ መልካሞችንም ቀኖች ሊያይ የሚፈልግ ሰው፥ መላሱን ከክፉ ከንፈሮቹንም ተንኰልን ከመናገር ይከልክል፤ 1 ጴጥሮስ 3:11፤ ከክፉ ፈቀቅ ይበል፥ መልካምንም ያድርግ፥ ሰላምን ይሻ ይከተለውም፤ 1 ጴጥሮስ 3:12፤ የጌታ ዓይኖች ወደ ጻድቃን ናቸውና፥ ጆሮዎቹም ለጸሎታቸው ተከፍተዋል፥ የጌታ ፊት ግን ክፉ ነገርን በሚያደርጉ ላይ ነው።” 1 ጴጥሮስ 3:13፤ በጎንም ለማድረግ ብትቀኑ የሚያስጨንቃችሁ ማን ነው?
The fifth one hits me hard! I was one of those people and from where I grew up that is the character of a respectful person, but not in the western world. So I prayed so hard to God for him to give a wisdom and to teach me how to understand the culture and the norms,So now I’m teaching my kids all of this stuff! But thank you Elsi for raising the issue! It showed me that I am not alone for thinking this way!🙏🏽😊
🙏🏽 what helped me in my life my parent they respected & loved us never touched us 8 children it is rare I did the same to my children respect start from home think always there is the Spirit of God inside each of us
Elsyee, please do vitamin supplements for women's / and vitamin d 🙏🏾 for us and the children... as cold is coming .... Just give us a reminder and updates with your kimim explanation . Thank you Sister ❤
You are absolutely right about that. The personality of most Ethiopians is like you expressed it.
@MuluembatWorkalmh6 ай бұрын
መጨረሻ ያልሻት ናት እኔን የጎዳኝ😥
@saragbramariam41166 ай бұрын
ትክክል እሕቴ 🌹❤️
@hulebaye9746 ай бұрын
ihhh..... wey elsiye ,tebarekilign
@ethio44216 ай бұрын
This is for me!! Thank you yene asteway
@achashmanberihun84456 ай бұрын
Thank you. I agree with all the points except the last point. I learned that being patient with yourself and others during new jobs pays you back a lot. Not all people create 1st impression, but be patient and show your effort and their perspective changes suddenly.
@abebakidane780912 күн бұрын
Else good information
@aziebhabte-selasie73296 ай бұрын
Elsy betam smart enformetion new yastelalefshew.❤❤❤❤.
@AsnakuDereje6 ай бұрын
ልክ ብለሻል ብዙ ተምሬበታለሁ ውዴ
@monicagetachew92606 ай бұрын
Zares hulum slerase bahri yenegershign new ymeselegn, thank you elsi