if they say "i got a boyfriend" just hit them with the "omg! we have so much in common"
@Jo15Ай бұрын
Do u have a boyfriend too?
@Legend4535628 күн бұрын
Genius 😭@@Jo15
@1inchpunisher71527 күн бұрын
Friendly fire 😂
@everyone9999910 күн бұрын
You gay?
@oneman.studios10 күн бұрын
@@everyone99999 That's the light hearted joke blud 😂
@fraxizztv64339 ай бұрын
I swear people who interrupt your workout are the worst.
@sahahaah4278 ай бұрын
Yea, esp a guy asking me for my name I would reject tbh, nothing personal just like, I don’t know you enough yet???
@Xzsxztreiii8 ай бұрын
We dont care what you think is the worst. Interruption from anything is inevitable in life.
@sahahaah4278 ай бұрын
@@Xzsxztreiii it’s a social cue though
@fraxizztv64338 ай бұрын
@@Xzsxztreiii must be blissful to think this black and white.
@evanlarson58538 ай бұрын
Yeah that's the worst thing that could ever happen 🙄
@jamesel48369 ай бұрын
"how many sets you got left?" Her: Im on a fucking treadmill what?
@kimhandley44168 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@skyejacques8 ай бұрын
Lol 😅
@ifrankthebarber75707 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@rebekahgan23765 ай бұрын
This could work, could make her laugh idk lol
@roser8911Ай бұрын
One guy stopped me when I was running fast! 😢
@ghostmtl45038 ай бұрын
Worst advice ever, don’t listen to this guy. She’s got headphones on, don’t talk to her, period.
@gdawg008 ай бұрын
Fr only the most clueless self obsessed people interrupt a set to try and have a conversation
@thech8zen18 ай бұрын
This dude could probably get away with it. He looks like he might own the gym.
@Rainer1258 ай бұрын
It is great advice for Chads and horrible advice for everybody else. The outcome of something like this is predetermined by if you are good looking and tall or not. If Chad does this the woman was hoping in the first place that he would come over and talk to her, even if he is insanely shy and has 0 confidence the woman will welcome it and make it as easy as possible for Chad. On the other hand if an average guy even with the uttermost confidence and best social skills in the world does it he will instantly get rejected and shut down because the woman was hoping the guy wouldn’t talk to her and leave her alone. Looks = personality.
@stoodmicrobe86287 ай бұрын
@@Rainer125sounds depressed af im happy as hell I don’t live my life like this
@basketguitar97684 ай бұрын
@@Rainer125yeah no thanks buddy I'll just accept that my bone structure is not as good as I'd like it to be and move on like a NORMAL, SANE person.
@youngmillionaire5446 Жыл бұрын
Get hit with the “I got a boyfriend “
@millerrepin4452 Жыл бұрын
respond with "me too, we have so much in common"
@cobymazariegos8252 Жыл бұрын
Either ask “you guys serious?” (If your confident enough you can probably get her insta, not all girls are loyal) or joke and say “damn I didn’t know we were dating”.
@ThomasJ50210 ай бұрын
@@cobymazariegos8252horrible horrible advice
@ThisIsBOXINGofficial9 ай бұрын
@@cobymazariegos8252I say ain’t nobody worried about him 😂😂😂 that shit always gets a smile that’s how you know 😈
@Eric-ug4vw8 ай бұрын
@@cobymazariegos8252do not do this. At a certain point you have to learn to no longer pursue someone. If she says that she’s clearly not interested in you or she ACTUALLY has a boyfriend and is loyal.
@BaileyConnell8 ай бұрын
People saying the gym isn’t the place to approach people….i so badly disagree!! When I was single, I saw so many attractive men who I would have been THRILLED to have them approach me! I think it’s normal/healthy to be attracted to someone focused on their fitness. Dating apps have taken over the dating scene, and it is a huge mess. I say let’s not discourage the the men who are doing doing the ballsy thing (by today’s standards) of approaching a woman in the real world. Edit: ladies, please be nice to men who approach you in the real world-- yes, even if it feels like a nuisance, & even at the gym. It takes bravery, and we should be encouraging of that trait in this generation and future ones.
@tesscrawford870825 күн бұрын
I just love what you’ve said here! I always think ‘if he’s not attractive to me he will be someone else’s dream guy….be kind and don’t ruin him for the next woman!’
@InverseOfficial9 ай бұрын
Gym is not a place to find a partner, it’s where you find yourself
@lilyc5079 Жыл бұрын
don't interrupt people when they're working out
@Killa_YouTube9 ай бұрын
That's why they say "excuse me" , It's polite but it barely bothers the person. Unlike some people who randomly asks random shit to a person and that is very disturbing to the invididual he's talking to.
@WFStudios9 ай бұрын
In between sets is acceptable
@brendanbudniak22618 ай бұрын
Don't go to a public gym if you don't want to interact with the public
@RevealedFilms8 ай бұрын
Exactly. This is why I don’t say a word and then lay down groin first as she squats. Usually gets the message across non verbally 😎
@NoRockinMansLand8 ай бұрын
I didn't ask
@hecker2211 ай бұрын
What's ur name She : says her name Me: *intense awkward silence continues*
@israelwilson402211 ай бұрын
Could always give her your name as well
@inkwyvern517111 ай бұрын
What's your name? Erm, could you gimme some space? This is a gym, not a bar. And wipe that creepy smile off your face...thanks
@zachharris514210 ай бұрын
@@israelwilson4022ah that's a good one, gotta try that next time.
@siyabongamakgoe147810 ай бұрын
feel ya’ ‘man.
@user-bz4vr8cm8j9 ай бұрын
There you go now she gives you time and attention to make ur next move
@eloise328011 ай бұрын
Headphones on - don't talk to her.
@Tsjoosie10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@brendanbudniak22618 ай бұрын
Bro they're just headphones calm down
@eloise32808 ай бұрын
@@brendanbudniak2261 Bro, it's just a NO, calm down. In some countries, it is considered rude to interrupt someone's day. I am on that team. If she is really the one that you need in your life, be more creative in meeting her or wait until she completes her workout. Respect her time.
@brendanbudniak22618 ай бұрын
@@eloise3280 what's a no? You're literally just speaking to someone lol. If they are that obsessed with not talking to anyone then just workout at home
@eloise32808 ай бұрын
@@brendanbudniak2261 The 'headphones', as well as, the 'calm down' are both no's...'you just talking' and 'working out at home', also no's. Let's learn to respect people's choices, privacy and time. Your need to "just talk" is not enough to disrupt another person's choices, privacy and time.
@fabiankambangula169325 күн бұрын
Best way to win in the long run is ...accept people as they are.If the responds is im marrried or in a relationship,say thank you and bye.be faithful and loyal even whn no is anymore.That is true strength
@alinaqvi9029 ай бұрын
That’s your big tip. Ask her name after interrupting her?
@niknak4108 ай бұрын
😂
@laurenatterbury87608 ай бұрын
🤣
@CorbinB-Rax3 ай бұрын
He assumed that everyone can STUN with mere confidence and pressure. Nah man. You can be a 10, and if you show social inconsideration like that, you'll be thought a schmuck by any woman who gets dudes on your level of hotness.
@Naw-hj8gc3 ай бұрын
for real that’s so annoying
@Naw-hj8gc3 ай бұрын
@@CorbinB-RaxTHIS
@jacksongraham3490 Жыл бұрын
flirting in the gym is stupid af
@jairo5684 Жыл бұрын
Why
@outis439-A11 ай бұрын
But the girl of the hypothetical dream is there
@chessmaster200011 ай бұрын
Not if you can do it successfully 🔥
@audacity147011 ай бұрын
he is a chad, dont do it if u ugly
@israelwilson402211 ай бұрын
Good thing this is about starting a conversation and not flirting
@jerryprince53379 ай бұрын
I tried this and you wouldnt believe how many women at my gym are named "I have a boyfriend"
@theLowestPointInMyLife8 ай бұрын
you have to look like him first
@jerryprince53378 ай бұрын
@@theLowestPointInMyLife shit I missed step one lol
@effecc85293 ай бұрын
Then you say ''alright'' and move up to the next. Or if you're a social wizard you say ''Damn didn't know we're already dating'' and move up to the next. It's all about how well you can handle rejection. If you're confident in handling rejection then you become invincible
@vinayak648 Жыл бұрын
GYM IS NOT HOOK UP PLACEEEE - hamza
@corazon040 Жыл бұрын
As much as I’d want to agree (I watch Hamza as well) if you can find a person you genuinely like and you don’t see her anywhere else (unless you stalk her, which definitely isn’t an option) then it’s fine bro. I understand it’s a place to train and all that, but meeting a person isn’t that bad as it sounds like.
@euphoriaduud732 Жыл бұрын
Who is hamza ?
@lukeet331 Жыл бұрын
Everywhere is a pick up place lmao, I'm not talking sleazy bar pick up lines... I'm talking about actually meeting people you like
@cbreeze1600 Жыл бұрын
Lol why not? Because ‘someone’ told you so. Brainwashed mate 😂
@geekinhard34310 ай бұрын
You can meet anyone anywhere. You might meet your best friend, the love of your life, or you worst enemy at the gym. I dont understand this closed off mindset that you need to be at a certain place just to talk to another human and form a relationship. Maybe don't do it at the club for obvious reasons, but the gym?
@Tsjoosie10 ай бұрын
Noooo please don't disturb when wearing headphones
@GlobalReach02 ай бұрын
Aren't they already disturbing by HEADPHONE???
@danielsolano91498 ай бұрын
Instructions unclear: Now I got a restraining order and I’m banned from Planet Fitness
@buzzlove84374 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@krutarthchauhan35445 ай бұрын
First thing, Gather the courage to Accept Rejection. We're not communicating with people because of the fear of rejection and they will reject us more then 50% of time. And that is extremely normal.
@olivebre41703 ай бұрын
Right, people only plan to have one spouse usually Crushing and hitting will be more frequent but it does correlate
@roser8911Ай бұрын
Dude.. we all get rejected in life. It could be jobs, family, friends and love rejection s. So what? Take it as a no or yes.
@krutarthchauhan3544Ай бұрын
@@roser8911 guys don't talk to woman because of the fear of rejection. But even if guy will get girlfriend after 10 rejections it's still same as getting girlfriend in 1st attempt.
@samharris80629 ай бұрын
Me: What’s your name? She: Keep fucking moving!!
@kimhandley44168 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@The_NutritionChef7 ай бұрын
Lol
@kylemcdade8439 ай бұрын
The dude that's attractive and tall doesn't know how it actually works.. Shocking
@Penguinlover8028 ай бұрын
When she has her headphones in, I would just leave her be. I know when I have mine in, I don't want to be bothered. However, I would never be rude to a person either. I would say my name, politely excuse myself from the conversation, and continue to work out. I believe kindness goes a long way.
@elizabethwarburton91188 ай бұрын
EXCUSEMEMISSSSSSS!!! Wins me over every time😂
@aleksandrolkhovskiy40758 ай бұрын
Why so much hate? Guy has some charm and confidence.. will work for him..
@annieseaside2 ай бұрын
Bless his heart. This advice works for HIM, not Average Joe! lol
@jaccoruisch186321 күн бұрын
Best advice to give here to the man backstage. Don't EVER interrupt my or anyone's set!!!!!
@krees8958 ай бұрын
Please guys , only approach to a girl if she gave you some kind of choosing signals , trust me is so much easier when she also want to talk to you .
@olivebre41703 ай бұрын
Or go to a steady social gathering There's people there that she might know and everything. You can start to know her as a person. Most the ladies in mine are tooken
@Theslushycup Жыл бұрын
I tried this and now I own the gym and her and her sister both hooked up with me.
@Itbe.ZYLO_Nøvǎ Жыл бұрын
W
@Itbe.ZYLO_Nøvǎ Жыл бұрын
WAIT SLUSHY CUP 😭😭😭😭
@TnS260 Жыл бұрын
Wait WTF! You got the ice cold slushy rizz
@flex1115 Жыл бұрын
Where is the party 🎉
@thewildlife15379 ай бұрын
“Step into the zone. Now we’re getting pepper sprayed”
@Dogbreath9219 ай бұрын
Plus a weekend in county
@indigowanderer11058 ай бұрын
Lmaooo
@zohaibsiddiqui122710 ай бұрын
Lol anyones a communication expert now
@rosemarylappin5636Ай бұрын
Most females prefer not to be interrupted while working out best to wait untill she’s finished.. however if she’s struggling inspire her to keep going! Then you have your conversation with her being thankful
@elijah33888 ай бұрын
This only works if you are a chad. Otherwise, you need to wait for the girl to signal that she actually wants to talk to you first
@thijsbruijn28519 ай бұрын
Ask them to be your spotter during bench press or something. Probably best way to start talking and ask for her name without being a creep. Also makes the bond stronger so next time it’s okay to greed her and start talking.
@MoyitasLife9 ай бұрын
I get the intention but it’s best to approach someone of interest in a gym before or after a workout not in between (even if you’re conventionally attractive) A lot of people workout to release stress and pent up energy (as well as be healthy) intruding in that zone can build negative tension. More often than not it’s just annoying for the person being interrupted. TLDR: at a gym, approach before or after a workout, not in the middle of it :)
@yesikastАй бұрын
I don't see the problem, great advice I would follow the conversation, no need to be bitter about it.
@JacobWelch-xd6nh8 ай бұрын
Bro no way who knew it was possible to have a conversation with a girl. I’m so glad there’s people like you to make vids on common sense
@lostsoul4317 Жыл бұрын
Girl to boy ratio in gym is 1 is to 99 😢😂😂
@Maryam078 ай бұрын
How about talking to her after she’s done, between sets, or when she comes in the gym first, or when she’s leaving. Start with a compliment or ask her about her workout. Get to know her in the gym first then try and ask for a date somewhere else. Be friendly first instead of trying to be her date/bf. Just be nice. Hell if you have to talk to her how you would talk to another gym bro. Don’t be a creep, don’t be weird. It’s okay to be shy. It’s okay to be flustered. It’s okay to be excited. Just be genuinely nice not what you THINK nice is. Good luck
@user-lo5mr3cz3c9 ай бұрын
Guy: What's your name Girl: Look, I just said I still have 3 sets left
@banished4eva7 ай бұрын
I think its attractive when anyone makes the effort to talk to someone else to try to get to know them. Its scary enough going up to strangers
@pincopallinoxxx14449 күн бұрын
i swear everybody who’s saying “do not disturb people who are working out/listening to music” are just afraid to talk to a girl and finding excuses to justify their fear
@bjf50278 ай бұрын
People saying this doesnt work are right 95% of the time. But this really is one of the only ways to start an honest dialaoge. If shes into you she will reciprocate, if not, she wont.
@bubbleheart5008 ай бұрын
Find another girl, stop being so entitled to someone's valuable time just in case there is 5% chance they might want to f@ck you, headphones on means "I don't want to be bothered And I am completely uninterested in anything but my workout " there is no other explanation, move on.
@zaci58249 ай бұрын
If the chick got on headphones, then the probability of getting that number goes down to 0.
@Stijn-f1c9 ай бұрын
I tried this and she replied with utter contempt… What do I reply when she says “Excuse me, sets of what? Sir, this is a grocery store”
@Xyleryx2 ай бұрын
I got hit with the "Why do you want to know my name?!"
@thex47164 ай бұрын
“How many sets you got left?” She’s stretching in the open area
@maggiearboleda12983 ай бұрын
Awww I think he’s so cute when he says she’s fucking hot… I want to talk to her. I don’t mind at all if someone wants to talk to me at the gym as long as it’s respectful. I personally prefer this approach rather than be stared at or followed around. What is wrong with just being friendly to people.
@aminehadri13028 ай бұрын
"Excuse me miss " Her : "ewww get away from me"
@web.deslgner8 ай бұрын
"Excuse me miss, might take off your headphones?" Her: No 💀
@Pokeknightpro3 ай бұрын
He: what's your name Her: I have a boyfriend 😂
@indigowanderer11058 ай бұрын
😂 he was a little too confident about that answer
@llahnelyak Жыл бұрын
Most ppl go to the gym to workout not to get hit on, gym prob isnt the best place
@kvngtek Жыл бұрын
It ain’t no excuse where you at, If you wanna talk to somebody any where that’s how yo execute it
@vahekhachaturian24248 ай бұрын
every place is a good place to talk to people, you shouldn't restrict yourself like that
@ENZOxDV98 ай бұрын
And most people go to the store to shop, and most people go to the bar to have a drink, and most people go to a restaurant to eat. See how dumb that sounds? If you're in public, it's free game to talk to you
@olivebre41703 ай бұрын
@@vahekhachaturian2424 Disagree, on the streets with no friends is not a place to hit
@effecc85293 ай бұрын
That's just an excuse bro
@sassyqueen973914 күн бұрын
Girls, I recommend that you go to an all girls gym. Girls are way more respectful of your time and will probably do it after you finish. (If they wanted to be your friend or more..)
@drilonkennedy-gorne20499 ай бұрын
Places not to put someone in a position where they might not be safe to reject you: -work -gym -public transport -Arguably in class but have some nuance Places to do so -clubs -library -class but again, have nuance -the street -shopping -in the waiting room of restaurants or hotels (AGAIN HAVE SOME SITUATIONAL AWARENESS) -Someplace the person is not stuck
@jamesolowoyo2478 ай бұрын
How to be called a gym trip 101
@Ytfavorits8 ай бұрын
Please don’t do that!!! As a woman i hate when guys do that it is super annoying to be distracted for flirting! She is focused on her workout and getting her workout done respect her workout time. Just wait until she is done working out and then walk up to her and ask if she had a good workout. She will be feeling good after her workout and more focused and open to you.
@Bezaliel-wxyАй бұрын
The thing is that. She is in the middle of workout. If she is really focused. Don’t run up to her cause she is enjoying her workout. If she is looking around, that’s you entrance to talking to her.
@ivonap37432 ай бұрын
😂😂 good try, if she's not into you even 1% she will remove her self of unwanted situations. Sorry for being honest at least you tried. Once again thank you for sharing this it is very kind from you.
@_KateAnn8 ай бұрын
Start by respecting her time. She’s there to workout, not have a convo. IF you want to get to know her, and not just look like a dork, then have enough respect for her to wait till she’s done and leaving the gym, or on a break, then approach. Don’t be a creep and you won’t be single.
@anthonygibbs37774 ай бұрын
So you're supposed to keep watching her until she leaves. Then you're chasing her out the gym like a creep. Be direct and intentional. Best way!
@HaycravingHorse8 ай бұрын
A 6'4 good looking chad sitting comfortably in his chair giving advice about game to average dudes. Totally makes sense.
@user-gt8ee8ib2e8 ай бұрын
Wow that was very insightful.
@brynleyjones36359 ай бұрын
People just want to work out, leave them alone.
@Jay-og4yb3 ай бұрын
Plenty of people are happy to be social. Don't project your own weird insecurities onto everyone else Everyone whines about loneliness and then makes stupid comments like this.
@ZincStick3 ай бұрын
He forgot the part, where she says sorry I'm not interested hahahaha
@TheHighVibrationStation7 ай бұрын
In the USA people would have a problem with this, but in Mexico talking to others is not taboo. Honestly it low key makes me sad that ppl (of all genders and such) feel like its "wrong" to talk to ppl at the gym. It does not always have to be in a romantic context. I met several good female friends at the gym. We need to normalize human interaction again. Im not talking about being creepy or immediately shooting your shot. Just try and get to know her to see if she is even receptive.
@johnbrown79119 ай бұрын
Men you are free to approach women at the gym, grocery store, bus stop, at work, while she is working, shopping, just walking around and of course at a club or bar.
@kristengammons498 ай бұрын
He sounds just like that guy that covers his face with that strange white mask
@JmasterPullmizter10 ай бұрын
Steps into the Zone Her: Dym, kinda wanna finish my workout. Steps Out of the Zone Never goes back to that Gym ever again due to embarrassment. 😂
@Tsjoosie10 ай бұрын
Sounds much more realistic 😂
@googleuser-one19 күн бұрын
Do not disturb anyone during their workout. This advice works if you’re hot yourself. Otherwise if you’re avg joe you’ll lose your fitness center after this rejection
@solomonunga131426 күн бұрын
Let that girl workout 😂😂😂
@dmmt29328 ай бұрын
That will work if you're 8+/10. She will ask for your name in return If you're 6-7/10 she'll just say her name and you need to come up with something new to say If youre 5 or below she'll give fake name or harsh rejection
@Zonedout_vids8 ай бұрын
Oh man you’re brilliant
@josephautrey9544 ай бұрын
Don't do this ever! Never interrupt a woman or a man for that matter during their set to have a conversation with them. It's the biggest turn off
@HLLSG3 ай бұрын
lol u can talk to anyone, but u shouldn’t have the expectation that the conversation will go anywhere Just gotta take that chance and be ok with the results either way
@Senormaster8 ай бұрын
2 hours later: “So this weird creepy guy tried talking to me while I was lifting weights and kept googling me after each set”
@AsmaaluisАй бұрын
I will be extremely angry if the guy will approach me while im working out ...
@PrateekSahaniofficial2 ай бұрын
Excuse me bro do i know you Him : no Her : then fuck off😂
@AtizayFantezi_Art8 ай бұрын
Wait till shes done 😂 thats respectful and thatll give you points
@tCkuNknoWnfAte8 ай бұрын
the “now we are having a conversation “ then smile lmfao. Bro think he did something there
@nox10182Ай бұрын
The gym isn’t a place to find your soulmate
@wyguy4168 ай бұрын
If they have headphones on. They don’t want to talk period. The gym is not the place to pursue women. If a conversation happens organically then that’s awesome, but don’t go looking for it. It makes you look like you’re there with different motives and that’s a huge turn off for anyone.
@starksinc12 ай бұрын
He said it like he invented the wheel..... wtf is going on in the world lol.
@tjj97377 ай бұрын
Please do not interrupt someones workout set…if you are dead set on shooting your shot try to catch them on their way into the gym or on their way out… you can easily tell if a woman is at the gym to workout or to get attention which in itself will let you gauge if she’d be receptive. The best thing to do is try to make eye contact and smile if she does that more than once she’s into you more than not.
@Monae68908 ай бұрын
As a girl who’s been approached at the gym, just don’t. Even when the guy is attractive I don’t like it and I don’t know a girl who does. We just want to workout.
@vdl39842 ай бұрын
Where is it appropriate to approach women in your opinion?
@Imfocused110 ай бұрын
I did that without trying to hit on her and this was a girl i was looking at and it kinda made a ice breaker. The woman just got on and laughed and said “i just got on and laughed” she had headphones in and didn’t seem bothered or annoyed. So i asked again and said “how many do you have though” she sounded disappointed and said the number 😂
@theupgraded65588 ай бұрын
I have earphones for a reason. ppl already stare at you 24/7, when they all start talking to you, you can't go anywhere!!!!!
@pondering17168 ай бұрын
In line at the supermarket. The cashier turns to me and asks, "how are you today?" - Now we're having a conversation 😉👉👉
@NenitaGatlin-l8nАй бұрын
She's the Man..scense with Olivia and Sebasrian and Iola.
@samuelefalcoo10 күн бұрын
I have to try this in the gym😂
@jdlk-ny5yo8 ай бұрын
Me: “How many sets you go left?” Her: “3” Me: “Cool, what your name?” Her: *says name Me: …………..”Cool, how many sets you got left?”
@reflectotanjiro5824 ай бұрын
She : mind your own business
@reaadictomisfit7473Ай бұрын
This is best for people who have poor social skills so that they can level up their talk game …including me, idk about the rest 😅
@TurnLemons2Lemonade_8 ай бұрын
Thank you! Please talk to me at the gym, literally anywhere haha! Some of us are friendly! If you think the gym isn’t the place, then where is?! The apps? There has to be a better idea. For the love!
@PrettyGirlRock111511 ай бұрын
No matter how hot you think she is don’t flirt in the gym please also public transport where you trap her in a small space is not the right time and place either.
@jesslucas76999 ай бұрын
I agree totally at the gym but public transport? You are allowed to ask for conversation and they can just refuse
@jesslucas76999 ай бұрын
I agree totally at the gym but public transport? You are allowed to ask for conversation and they can just refuse
@PrettyGirlRock11159 ай бұрын
@@jesslucas7699 It‘s not as easy for most women because we’re taught to be nice and kind to strangers and avoid risks also I‘ve experienced it more than enough that I was cornered and lured into an unwanted conversation which ended in being touched because I felt forced to speak to them. If you are the type of person to accept rejection or are able to tell when the woman is clearly uncomfortable and take it as lead to leave then that‘s fine but if you‘re the type of man that thinks he need to stay persistent or get into her personal space just don‘t.
@kysterkylan71329 ай бұрын
@@PrettyGirlRock1115I'm sorry you experienced that but you have to acknowledge you had an abnormal experience with an abnormal person. It's not your fault you didn't know how to respectfully reject someone. Most men will not impose your boundaries like that without your permission and I know plenty of men myself included who don't tolerate other bs like that from men. Eventually the person who made you a victim will be confronted by one of these Men. Even if you take rejection badly if someone declines you respectfully it's hard to react negatively. You don't have to be nice out of fear constantly and sometimes there's no nice or kind way to stand up for yourself you just have to defend yourself when someone is pushing your boundaries.
@PrettyGirlRock11159 ай бұрын
@@kysterkylan7132 I rejected these people so it had nothing to do with me and no actually no men stepped in to help me either I had to fake calls or leave public transport since it happened more than once and the first bad experience was me being touched at the young age of 12 by a man that was at least in his 50‘s. You‘re victim blaming by acting I have to reject someones advances and have to ensure they don‘t put their hands on me while they‘re full grown men knowing not to touch women so maybe think about that next time.
@LeloLife9 ай бұрын
Don’t talk to me at the gym
@ErgoPr0xxyy9 ай бұрын
Fr. I wouldn’t want some jabroni approaching the women in my life while they’re at the gym w/this energy nor would I engage with a woman with any sort of romantic interest within that space. Clearly these dudes have never spoken to a woman in their LIFE if they remotely think it’s acceptable. How many times do women have to publicly state they’re uncomfortable/intimidated/anxious about men at the gym before putting two and two together?
@kysterkylan71329 ай бұрын
Then respectfully decline. We're not psychics so we don't magically know who wants and doesn't wanna be talked to
@Barely___Editing9 ай бұрын
No one does.
@sagar19929 ай бұрын
Ain't nobody talking to that face😂
@bullz6176Ай бұрын
bet you wouldnt tell michael b jordan to not talk to you in the gym 😂
@newbee22629 ай бұрын
Not the gym. The gym is a sacred place. Anywhere else. Guys, out an end to hookup culture, court not date, save till marriage, get married , raise legendary kids.
@theduncanshow852316 күн бұрын
him creating a fake question to lead in to asking me my name and engage me in conversation pisses me off, but if he just came up to me and was like ‘hi! I saw you across the gym and just wanted to meet you’ I would receive that happily. Maybe it’s his arrogant delivery of the ‘nice. What’s your name?’ Something about his version would piss me off. Like just be genuine about wanting to say hi, you don’t need to trick me into it.
@adamthompson97858 ай бұрын
Step one: be good looking. Step two: ... Step three: profit.
@PhilSmith-mu1jwАй бұрын
@ if she’s wearing headphones she doesn’t want to talk to anyone they are the most anti social commodity of today’s society should not be worn outside what so ever.💙
@Rainer1258 ай бұрын
It is great advice for Chads and horrible advice for everybody else. The outcome of something like this is predetermined by if you are good looking and tall or not. If Chad does this the woman was hoping in the first place that he would come over and talk to her, even if he is insanely shy and has 0 confidence the woman will welcome it and make it as easy as possible for Chad. On the other hand if an average guy even with the uttermost confidence and best social skills in the world does it he will instantly get rejected and shut down because the woman was hoping the guy wouldn’t talk to her and leave her alone. Looks = personality
@nisanight22478 ай бұрын
That wouldn't work for me. Never throw off a person's rhythm unless it's life or death.