How to talk to anyone easily

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Naftali Moses

Naftali Moses

Күн бұрын

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@gastis4689
@gastis4689 7 ай бұрын
if they say "i got a boyfriend" just hit them with the "omg! we have so much in common"
@Jo15
@Jo15 Ай бұрын
Do u have a boyfriend too?
@Legend45356
@Legend45356 28 күн бұрын
Genius 😭​@@Jo15
@1inchpunisher715
@1inchpunisher715 27 күн бұрын
Friendly fire 😂
@everyone99999
@everyone99999 10 күн бұрын
You gay?
@oneman.studios
@oneman.studios 10 күн бұрын
​@@everyone99999 That's the light hearted joke blud 😂
@fraxizztv6433
@fraxizztv6433 9 ай бұрын
I swear people who interrupt your workout are the worst.
@sahahaah427
@sahahaah427 8 ай бұрын
Yea, esp a guy asking me for my name I would reject tbh, nothing personal just like, I don’t know you enough yet???
@Xzsxztreiii
@Xzsxztreiii 8 ай бұрын
We dont care what you think is the worst. Interruption from anything is inevitable in life.
@sahahaah427
@sahahaah427 8 ай бұрын
@@Xzsxztreiii it’s a social cue though
@fraxizztv6433
@fraxizztv6433 8 ай бұрын
@@Xzsxztreiii must be blissful to think this black and white.
@evanlarson5853
@evanlarson5853 8 ай бұрын
Yeah that's the worst thing that could ever happen 🙄
@jamesel4836
@jamesel4836 9 ай бұрын
"how many sets you got left?" Her: Im on a fucking treadmill what?
@kimhandley4416
@kimhandley4416 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@skyejacques
@skyejacques 8 ай бұрын
Lol 😅
@ifrankthebarber7570
@ifrankthebarber7570 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@rebekahgan2376
@rebekahgan2376 5 ай бұрын
This could work, could make her laugh idk lol
@roser8911
@roser8911 Ай бұрын
One guy stopped me when I was running fast! 😢
@ghostmtl4503
@ghostmtl4503 8 ай бұрын
Worst advice ever, don’t listen to this guy. She’s got headphones on, don’t talk to her, period.
@gdawg00
@gdawg00 8 ай бұрын
Fr only the most clueless self obsessed people interrupt a set to try and have a conversation
@thech8zen1
@thech8zen1 8 ай бұрын
This dude could probably get away with it. He looks like he might own the gym.
@Rainer125
@Rainer125 8 ай бұрын
It is great advice for Chads and horrible advice for everybody else. The outcome of something like this is predetermined by if you are good looking and tall or not. If Chad does this the woman was hoping in the first place that he would come over and talk to her, even if he is insanely shy and has 0 confidence the woman will welcome it and make it as easy as possible for Chad. On the other hand if an average guy even with the uttermost confidence and best social skills in the world does it he will instantly get rejected and shut down because the woman was hoping the guy wouldn’t talk to her and leave her alone. Looks = personality.
@stoodmicrobe8628
@stoodmicrobe8628 7 ай бұрын
@@Rainer125sounds depressed af im happy as hell I don’t live my life like this
@basketguitar9768
@basketguitar9768 4 ай бұрын
​@@Rainer125yeah no thanks buddy I'll just accept that my bone structure is not as good as I'd like it to be and move on like a NORMAL, SANE person.
@youngmillionaire5446
@youngmillionaire5446 Жыл бұрын
Get hit with the “I got a boyfriend “
@millerrepin4452
@millerrepin4452 Жыл бұрын
respond with "me too, we have so much in common"
@cobymazariegos8252
@cobymazariegos8252 Жыл бұрын
Either ask “you guys serious?” (If your confident enough you can probably get her insta, not all girls are loyal) or joke and say “damn I didn’t know we were dating”.
@ThomasJ502
@ThomasJ502 10 ай бұрын
​@@cobymazariegos8252horrible horrible advice
@ThisIsBOXINGofficial
@ThisIsBOXINGofficial 9 ай бұрын
@@cobymazariegos8252I say ain’t nobody worried about him 😂😂😂 that shit always gets a smile that’s how you know 😈
@Eric-ug4vw
@Eric-ug4vw 8 ай бұрын
@@cobymazariegos8252do not do this. At a certain point you have to learn to no longer pursue someone. If she says that she’s clearly not interested in you or she ACTUALLY has a boyfriend and is loyal.
@BaileyConnell
@BaileyConnell 8 ай бұрын
People saying the gym isn’t the place to approach people….i so badly disagree!! When I was single, I saw so many attractive men who I would have been THRILLED to have them approach me! I think it’s normal/healthy to be attracted to someone focused on their fitness. Dating apps have taken over the dating scene, and it is a huge mess. I say let’s not discourage the the men who are doing doing the ballsy thing (by today’s standards) of approaching a woman in the real world. Edit: ladies, please be nice to men who approach you in the real world-- yes, even if it feels like a nuisance, & even at the gym. It takes bravery, and we should be encouraging of that trait in this generation and future ones.
@tesscrawford8708
@tesscrawford8708 25 күн бұрын
I just love what you’ve said here! I always think ‘if he’s not attractive to me he will be someone else’s dream guy….be kind and don’t ruin him for the next woman!’
@InverseOfficial
@InverseOfficial 9 ай бұрын
Gym is not a place to find a partner, it’s where you find yourself
@lilyc5079
@lilyc5079 Жыл бұрын
don't interrupt people when they're working out
@Killa_YouTube
@Killa_YouTube 9 ай бұрын
That's why they say "excuse me" , It's polite but it barely bothers the person. Unlike some people who randomly asks random shit to a person and that is very disturbing to the invididual he's talking to.
@WFStudios
@WFStudios 9 ай бұрын
In between sets is acceptable
@brendanbudniak2261
@brendanbudniak2261 8 ай бұрын
Don't go to a public gym if you don't want to interact with the public
@RevealedFilms
@RevealedFilms 8 ай бұрын
Exactly. This is why I don’t say a word and then lay down groin first as she squats. Usually gets the message across non verbally 😎
@NoRockinMansLand
@NoRockinMansLand 8 ай бұрын
I didn't ask
@hecker22
@hecker22 11 ай бұрын
What's ur name She : says her name Me: *intense awkward silence continues*
@israelwilson4022
@israelwilson4022 11 ай бұрын
Could always give her your name as well
@inkwyvern5171
@inkwyvern5171 11 ай бұрын
What's your name? Erm, could you gimme some space? This is a gym, not a bar. And wipe that creepy smile off your face...thanks
@zachharris5142
@zachharris5142 10 ай бұрын
​@@israelwilson4022ah that's a good one, gotta try that next time.
@siyabongamakgoe1478
@siyabongamakgoe1478 10 ай бұрын
feel ya’ ‘man.
@user-bz4vr8cm8j
@user-bz4vr8cm8j 9 ай бұрын
There you go now she gives you time and attention to make ur next move
@eloise3280
@eloise3280 11 ай бұрын
Headphones on - don't talk to her.
@Tsjoosie
@Tsjoosie 10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@brendanbudniak2261
@brendanbudniak2261 8 ай бұрын
Bro they're just headphones calm down
@eloise3280
@eloise3280 8 ай бұрын
@@brendanbudniak2261 Bro, it's just a NO, calm down. In some countries, it is considered rude to interrupt someone's day. I am on that team. If she is really the one that you need in your life, be more creative in meeting her or wait until she completes her workout. Respect her time.
@brendanbudniak2261
@brendanbudniak2261 8 ай бұрын
@@eloise3280 what's a no? You're literally just speaking to someone lol. If they are that obsessed with not talking to anyone then just workout at home
@eloise3280
@eloise3280 8 ай бұрын
@@brendanbudniak2261 The 'headphones', as well as, the 'calm down' are both no's...'you just talking' and 'working out at home', also no's. Let's learn to respect people's choices, privacy and time. Your need to "just talk" is not enough to disrupt another person's choices, privacy and time.
@fabiankambangula1693
@fabiankambangula1693 25 күн бұрын
Best way to win in the long run is ...accept people as they are.If the responds is im marrried or in a relationship,say thank you and bye.be faithful and loyal even whn no is anymore.That is true strength
@alinaqvi902
@alinaqvi902 9 ай бұрын
That’s your big tip. Ask her name after interrupting her?
@niknak410
@niknak410 8 ай бұрын
😂
@laurenatterbury8760
@laurenatterbury8760 8 ай бұрын
🤣
@CorbinB-Rax
@CorbinB-Rax 3 ай бұрын
He assumed that everyone can STUN with mere confidence and pressure. Nah man. You can be a 10, and if you show social inconsideration like that, you'll be thought a schmuck by any woman who gets dudes on your level of hotness.
@Naw-hj8gc
@Naw-hj8gc 3 ай бұрын
for real that’s so annoying
@Naw-hj8gc
@Naw-hj8gc 3 ай бұрын
@@CorbinB-RaxTHIS
@jacksongraham3490
@jacksongraham3490 Жыл бұрын
flirting in the gym is stupid af
@jairo5684
@jairo5684 Жыл бұрын
Why
@outis439-A
@outis439-A 11 ай бұрын
But the girl of the hypothetical dream is there
@chessmaster2000
@chessmaster2000 11 ай бұрын
Not if you can do it successfully 🔥
@audacity1470
@audacity1470 11 ай бұрын
he is a chad, dont do it if u ugly
@israelwilson4022
@israelwilson4022 11 ай бұрын
Good thing this is about starting a conversation and not flirting
@jerryprince5337
@jerryprince5337 9 ай бұрын
I tried this and you wouldnt believe how many women at my gym are named "I have a boyfriend"
@theLowestPointInMyLife
@theLowestPointInMyLife 8 ай бұрын
you have to look like him first
@jerryprince5337
@jerryprince5337 8 ай бұрын
@@theLowestPointInMyLife shit I missed step one lol
@effecc8529
@effecc8529 3 ай бұрын
Then you say ''alright'' and move up to the next. Or if you're a social wizard you say ''Damn didn't know we're already dating'' and move up to the next. It's all about how well you can handle rejection. If you're confident in handling rejection then you become invincible
@vinayak648
@vinayak648 Жыл бұрын
GYM IS NOT HOOK UP PLACEEEE - hamza
@corazon040
@corazon040 Жыл бұрын
As much as I’d want to agree (I watch Hamza as well) if you can find a person you genuinely like and you don’t see her anywhere else (unless you stalk her, which definitely isn’t an option) then it’s fine bro. I understand it’s a place to train and all that, but meeting a person isn’t that bad as it sounds like.
@euphoriaduud732
@euphoriaduud732 Жыл бұрын
Who is hamza ?
@lukeet331
@lukeet331 Жыл бұрын
Everywhere is a pick up place lmao, I'm not talking sleazy bar pick up lines... I'm talking about actually meeting people you like
@cbreeze1600
@cbreeze1600 Жыл бұрын
Lol why not? Because ‘someone’ told you so. Brainwashed mate 😂
@geekinhard343
@geekinhard343 10 ай бұрын
You can meet anyone anywhere. You might meet your best friend, the love of your life, or you worst enemy at the gym. I dont understand this closed off mindset that you need to be at a certain place just to talk to another human and form a relationship. Maybe don't do it at the club for obvious reasons, but the gym?
@Tsjoosie
@Tsjoosie 10 ай бұрын
Noooo please don't disturb when wearing headphones
@GlobalReach0
@GlobalReach0 2 ай бұрын
Aren't they already disturbing by HEADPHONE???
@danielsolano9149
@danielsolano9149 8 ай бұрын
Instructions unclear: Now I got a restraining order and I’m banned from Planet Fitness
@buzzlove8437
@buzzlove8437 4 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@krutarthchauhan3544
@krutarthchauhan3544 5 ай бұрын
First thing, Gather the courage to Accept Rejection. We're not communicating with people because of the fear of rejection and they will reject us more then 50% of time. And that is extremely normal.
@olivebre4170
@olivebre4170 3 ай бұрын
Right, people only plan to have one spouse usually Crushing and hitting will be more frequent but it does correlate
@roser8911
@roser8911 Ай бұрын
Dude.. we all get rejected in life. It could be jobs, family, friends and love rejection s. So what? Take it as a no or yes.
@krutarthchauhan3544
@krutarthchauhan3544 Ай бұрын
@@roser8911 guys don't talk to woman because of the fear of rejection. But even if guy will get girlfriend after 10 rejections it's still same as getting girlfriend in 1st attempt.
@samharris8062
@samharris8062 9 ай бұрын
Me: What’s your name? She: Keep fucking moving!!
@kimhandley4416
@kimhandley4416 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@The_NutritionChef
@The_NutritionChef 7 ай бұрын
Lol
@kylemcdade843
@kylemcdade843 9 ай бұрын
The dude that's attractive and tall doesn't know how it actually works.. Shocking
@Penguinlover802
@Penguinlover802 8 ай бұрын
When she has her headphones in, I would just leave her be. I know when I have mine in, I don't want to be bothered. However, I would never be rude to a person either. I would say my name, politely excuse myself from the conversation, and continue to work out. I believe kindness goes a long way.
@elizabethwarburton9118
@elizabethwarburton9118 8 ай бұрын
EXCUSEMEMISSSSSSS!!! Wins me over every time😂
@aleksandrolkhovskiy4075
@aleksandrolkhovskiy4075 8 ай бұрын
Why so much hate? Guy has some charm and confidence.. will work for him..
@annieseaside
@annieseaside 2 ай бұрын
Bless his heart. This advice works for HIM, not Average Joe! lol
@jaccoruisch1863
@jaccoruisch1863 21 күн бұрын
Best advice to give here to the man backstage. Don't EVER interrupt my or anyone's set!!!!!
@krees895
@krees895 8 ай бұрын
Please guys , only approach to a girl if she gave you some kind of choosing signals , trust me is so much easier when she also want to talk to you .
@olivebre4170
@olivebre4170 3 ай бұрын
Or go to a steady social gathering There's people there that she might know and everything. You can start to know her as a person. Most the ladies in mine are tooken
@Theslushycup
@Theslushycup Жыл бұрын
I tried this and now I own the gym and her and her sister both hooked up with me.
@Itbe.ZYLO_Nøvǎ
@Itbe.ZYLO_Nøvǎ Жыл бұрын
W
@Itbe.ZYLO_Nøvǎ
@Itbe.ZYLO_Nøvǎ Жыл бұрын
WAIT SLUSHY CUP 😭😭😭😭
@TnS260
@TnS260 Жыл бұрын
Wait WTF! You got the ice cold slushy rizz
@flex1115
@flex1115 Жыл бұрын
Where is the party 🎉
@thewildlife1537
@thewildlife1537 9 ай бұрын
“Step into the zone. Now we’re getting pepper sprayed”
@Dogbreath921
@Dogbreath921 9 ай бұрын
Plus a weekend in county
@indigowanderer1105
@indigowanderer1105 8 ай бұрын
Lmaooo
@zohaibsiddiqui1227
@zohaibsiddiqui1227 10 ай бұрын
Lol anyones a communication expert now
@rosemarylappin5636
@rosemarylappin5636 Ай бұрын
Most females prefer not to be interrupted while working out best to wait untill she’s finished.. however if she’s struggling inspire her to keep going! Then you have your conversation with her being thankful
@elijah3388
@elijah3388 8 ай бұрын
This only works if you are a chad. Otherwise, you need to wait for the girl to signal that she actually wants to talk to you first
@thijsbruijn2851
@thijsbruijn2851 9 ай бұрын
Ask them to be your spotter during bench press or something. Probably best way to start talking and ask for her name without being a creep. Also makes the bond stronger so next time it’s okay to greed her and start talking.
@MoyitasLife
@MoyitasLife 9 ай бұрын
I get the intention but it’s best to approach someone of interest in a gym before or after a workout not in between (even if you’re conventionally attractive) A lot of people workout to release stress and pent up energy (as well as be healthy) intruding in that zone can build negative tension. More often than not it’s just annoying for the person being interrupted. TLDR: at a gym, approach before or after a workout, not in the middle of it :)
@yesikast
@yesikast Ай бұрын
I don't see the problem, great advice I would follow the conversation, no need to be bitter about it.
@JacobWelch-xd6nh
@JacobWelch-xd6nh 8 ай бұрын
Bro no way who knew it was possible to have a conversation with a girl. I’m so glad there’s people like you to make vids on common sense
@lostsoul4317
@lostsoul4317 Жыл бұрын
Girl to boy ratio in gym is 1 is to 99 😢😂😂
@Maryam07
@Maryam07 8 ай бұрын
How about talking to her after she’s done, between sets, or when she comes in the gym first, or when she’s leaving. Start with a compliment or ask her about her workout. Get to know her in the gym first then try and ask for a date somewhere else. Be friendly first instead of trying to be her date/bf. Just be nice. Hell if you have to talk to her how you would talk to another gym bro. Don’t be a creep, don’t be weird. It’s okay to be shy. It’s okay to be flustered. It’s okay to be excited. Just be genuinely nice not what you THINK nice is. Good luck
@user-lo5mr3cz3c
@user-lo5mr3cz3c 9 ай бұрын
Guy: What's your name Girl: Look, I just said I still have 3 sets left
@banished4eva
@banished4eva 7 ай бұрын
I think its attractive when anyone makes the effort to talk to someone else to try to get to know them. Its scary enough going up to strangers
@pincopallinoxxx1444
@pincopallinoxxx1444 9 күн бұрын
i swear everybody who’s saying “do not disturb people who are working out/listening to music” are just afraid to talk to a girl and finding excuses to justify their fear
@bjf5027
@bjf5027 8 ай бұрын
People saying this doesnt work are right 95% of the time. But this really is one of the only ways to start an honest dialaoge. If shes into you she will reciprocate, if not, she wont.
@bubbleheart500
@bubbleheart500 8 ай бұрын
Find another girl, stop being so entitled to someone's valuable time just in case there is 5% chance they might want to f@ck you, headphones on means "I don't want to be bothered And I am completely uninterested in anything but my workout " there is no other explanation, move on.
@zaci5824
@zaci5824 9 ай бұрын
If the chick got on headphones, then the probability of getting that number goes down to 0.
@Stijn-f1c
@Stijn-f1c 9 ай бұрын
I tried this and she replied with utter contempt… What do I reply when she says “Excuse me, sets of what? Sir, this is a grocery store”
@Xyleryx
@Xyleryx 2 ай бұрын
I got hit with the "Why do you want to know my name?!"
@thex4716
@thex4716 4 ай бұрын
“How many sets you got left?” She’s stretching in the open area
@maggiearboleda1298
@maggiearboleda1298 3 ай бұрын
Awww I think he’s so cute when he says she’s fucking hot… I want to talk to her. I don’t mind at all if someone wants to talk to me at the gym as long as it’s respectful. I personally prefer this approach rather than be stared at or followed around. What is wrong with just being friendly to people.
@aminehadri1302
@aminehadri1302 8 ай бұрын
"Excuse me miss " Her : "ewww get away from me"
@web.deslgner
@web.deslgner 8 ай бұрын
"Excuse me miss, might take off your headphones?" Her: No 💀
@Pokeknightpro
@Pokeknightpro 3 ай бұрын
He: what's your name Her: I have a boyfriend 😂
@indigowanderer1105
@indigowanderer1105 8 ай бұрын
😂 he was a little too confident about that answer
@llahnelyak
@llahnelyak Жыл бұрын
Most ppl go to the gym to workout not to get hit on, gym prob isnt the best place
@kvngtek
@kvngtek Жыл бұрын
It ain’t no excuse where you at, If you wanna talk to somebody any where that’s how yo execute it
@vahekhachaturian2424
@vahekhachaturian2424 8 ай бұрын
every place is a good place to talk to people, you shouldn't restrict yourself like that
@ENZOxDV9
@ENZOxDV9 8 ай бұрын
And most people go to the store to shop, and most people go to the bar to have a drink, and most people go to a restaurant to eat. See how dumb that sounds? If you're in public, it's free game to talk to you
@olivebre4170
@olivebre4170 3 ай бұрын
​@@vahekhachaturian2424 Disagree, on the streets with no friends is not a place to hit
@effecc8529
@effecc8529 3 ай бұрын
That's just an excuse bro
@sassyqueen9739
@sassyqueen9739 14 күн бұрын
Girls, I recommend that you go to an all girls gym. Girls are way more respectful of your time and will probably do it after you finish. (If they wanted to be your friend or more..)
@drilonkennedy-gorne2049
@drilonkennedy-gorne2049 9 ай бұрын
Places not to put someone in a position where they might not be safe to reject you: -work -gym -public transport -Arguably in class but have some nuance Places to do so -clubs -library -class but again, have nuance -the street -shopping -in the waiting room of restaurants or hotels (AGAIN HAVE SOME SITUATIONAL AWARENESS) -Someplace the person is not stuck
@jamesolowoyo247
@jamesolowoyo247 8 ай бұрын
How to be called a gym trip 101
@Ytfavorits
@Ytfavorits 8 ай бұрын
Please don’t do that!!! As a woman i hate when guys do that it is super annoying to be distracted for flirting! She is focused on her workout and getting her workout done respect her workout time. Just wait until she is done working out and then walk up to her and ask if she had a good workout. She will be feeling good after her workout and more focused and open to you.
@Bezaliel-wxy
@Bezaliel-wxy Ай бұрын
The thing is that. She is in the middle of workout. If she is really focused. Don’t run up to her cause she is enjoying her workout. If she is looking around, that’s you entrance to talking to her.
@ivonap3743
@ivonap3743 2 ай бұрын
😂😂 good try, if she's not into you even 1% she will remove her self of unwanted situations. Sorry for being honest at least you tried. Once again thank you for sharing this it is very kind from you.
@_KateAnn
@_KateAnn 8 ай бұрын
Start by respecting her time. She’s there to workout, not have a convo. IF you want to get to know her, and not just look like a dork, then have enough respect for her to wait till she’s done and leaving the gym, or on a break, then approach. Don’t be a creep and you won’t be single.
@anthonygibbs3777
@anthonygibbs3777 4 ай бұрын
So you're supposed to keep watching her until she leaves. Then you're chasing her out the gym like a creep. Be direct and intentional. Best way!
@HaycravingHorse
@HaycravingHorse 8 ай бұрын
A 6'4 good looking chad sitting comfortably in his chair giving advice about game to average dudes. Totally makes sense.
@user-gt8ee8ib2e
@user-gt8ee8ib2e 8 ай бұрын
Wow that was very insightful.
@brynleyjones3635
@brynleyjones3635 9 ай бұрын
People just want to work out, leave them alone.
@Jay-og4yb
@Jay-og4yb 3 ай бұрын
Plenty of people are happy to be social. Don't project your own weird insecurities onto everyone else Everyone whines about loneliness and then makes stupid comments like this.
@ZincStick
@ZincStick 3 ай бұрын
He forgot the part, where she says sorry I'm not interested hahahaha
@TheHighVibrationStation
@TheHighVibrationStation 7 ай бұрын
In the USA people would have a problem with this, but in Mexico talking to others is not taboo. Honestly it low key makes me sad that ppl (of all genders and such) feel like its "wrong" to talk to ppl at the gym. It does not always have to be in a romantic context. I met several good female friends at the gym. We need to normalize human interaction again. Im not talking about being creepy or immediately shooting your shot. Just try and get to know her to see if she is even receptive.
@johnbrown7911
@johnbrown7911 9 ай бұрын
Men you are free to approach women at the gym, grocery store, bus stop, at work, while she is working, shopping, just walking around and of course at a club or bar.
@kristengammons49
@kristengammons49 8 ай бұрын
He sounds just like that guy that covers his face with that strange white mask
@JmasterPullmizter
@JmasterPullmizter 10 ай бұрын
Steps into the Zone Her: Dym, kinda wanna finish my workout. Steps Out of the Zone Never goes back to that Gym ever again due to embarrassment. 😂
@Tsjoosie
@Tsjoosie 10 ай бұрын
Sounds much more realistic 😂
@googleuser-one
@googleuser-one 19 күн бұрын
Do not disturb anyone during their workout. This advice works if you’re hot yourself. Otherwise if you’re avg joe you’ll lose your fitness center after this rejection
@solomonunga1314
@solomonunga1314 26 күн бұрын
Let that girl workout 😂😂😂
@dmmt2932
@dmmt2932 8 ай бұрын
That will work if you're 8+/10. She will ask for your name in return If you're 6-7/10 she'll just say her name and you need to come up with something new to say If youre 5 or below she'll give fake name or harsh rejection
@Zonedout_vids
@Zonedout_vids 8 ай бұрын
Oh man you’re brilliant
@josephautrey954
@josephautrey954 4 ай бұрын
Don't do this ever! Never interrupt a woman or a man for that matter during their set to have a conversation with them. It's the biggest turn off
@HLLSG
@HLLSG 3 ай бұрын
lol u can talk to anyone, but u shouldn’t have the expectation that the conversation will go anywhere Just gotta take that chance and be ok with the results either way
@Senormaster
@Senormaster 8 ай бұрын
2 hours later: “So this weird creepy guy tried talking to me while I was lifting weights and kept googling me after each set”
@Asmaaluis
@Asmaaluis Ай бұрын
I will be extremely angry if the guy will approach me while im working out ...
@PrateekSahaniofficial
@PrateekSahaniofficial 2 ай бұрын
Excuse me bro do i know you Him : no Her : then fuck off😂
@AtizayFantezi_Art
@AtizayFantezi_Art 8 ай бұрын
Wait till shes done 😂 thats respectful and thatll give you points
@tCkuNknoWnfAte
@tCkuNknoWnfAte 8 ай бұрын
the “now we are having a conversation “ then smile lmfao. Bro think he did something there
@nox10182
@nox10182 Ай бұрын
The gym isn’t a place to find your soulmate
@wyguy416
@wyguy416 8 ай бұрын
If they have headphones on. They don’t want to talk period. The gym is not the place to pursue women. If a conversation happens organically then that’s awesome, but don’t go looking for it. It makes you look like you’re there with different motives and that’s a huge turn off for anyone.
@starksinc1
@starksinc1 2 ай бұрын
He said it like he invented the wheel..... wtf is going on in the world lol.
@tjj9737
@tjj9737 7 ай бұрын
Please do not interrupt someones workout set…if you are dead set on shooting your shot try to catch them on their way into the gym or on their way out… you can easily tell if a woman is at the gym to workout or to get attention which in itself will let you gauge if she’d be receptive. The best thing to do is try to make eye contact and smile if she does that more than once she’s into you more than not.
@Monae6890
@Monae6890 8 ай бұрын
As a girl who’s been approached at the gym, just don’t. Even when the guy is attractive I don’t like it and I don’t know a girl who does. We just want to workout.
@vdl3984
@vdl3984 2 ай бұрын
Where is it appropriate to approach women in your opinion?
@Imfocused1
@Imfocused1 10 ай бұрын
I did that without trying to hit on her and this was a girl i was looking at and it kinda made a ice breaker. The woman just got on and laughed and said “i just got on and laughed” she had headphones in and didn’t seem bothered or annoyed. So i asked again and said “how many do you have though” she sounded disappointed and said the number 😂
@theupgraded6558
@theupgraded6558 8 ай бұрын
I have earphones for a reason. ppl already stare at you 24/7, when they all start talking to you, you can't go anywhere!!!!!
@pondering1716
@pondering1716 8 ай бұрын
In line at the supermarket. The cashier turns to me and asks, "how are you today?" - Now we're having a conversation 😉👉👉
@NenitaGatlin-l8n
@NenitaGatlin-l8n Ай бұрын
She's the Man..scense with Olivia and Sebasrian and Iola.
@samuelefalcoo
@samuelefalcoo 10 күн бұрын
I have to try this in the gym😂
@jdlk-ny5yo
@jdlk-ny5yo 8 ай бұрын
Me: “How many sets you go left?” Her: “3” Me: “Cool, what your name?” Her: *says name Me: …………..”Cool, how many sets you got left?”
@reflectotanjiro582
@reflectotanjiro582 4 ай бұрын
She : mind your own business
@reaadictomisfit7473
@reaadictomisfit7473 Ай бұрын
This is best for people who have poor social skills so that they can level up their talk game …including me, idk about the rest 😅
@TurnLemons2Lemonade_
@TurnLemons2Lemonade_ 8 ай бұрын
Thank you! Please talk to me at the gym, literally anywhere haha! Some of us are friendly! If you think the gym isn’t the place, then where is?! The apps? There has to be a better idea. For the love!
@PrettyGirlRock1115
@PrettyGirlRock1115 11 ай бұрын
No matter how hot you think she is don’t flirt in the gym please also public transport where you trap her in a small space is not the right time and place either.
@jesslucas7699
@jesslucas7699 9 ай бұрын
I agree totally at the gym but public transport? You are allowed to ask for conversation and they can just refuse
@jesslucas7699
@jesslucas7699 9 ай бұрын
I agree totally at the gym but public transport? You are allowed to ask for conversation and they can just refuse
@PrettyGirlRock1115
@PrettyGirlRock1115 9 ай бұрын
@@jesslucas7699 It‘s not as easy for most women because we’re taught to be nice and kind to strangers and avoid risks also I‘ve experienced it more than enough that I was cornered and lured into an unwanted conversation which ended in being touched because I felt forced to speak to them. If you are the type of person to accept rejection or are able to tell when the woman is clearly uncomfortable and take it as lead to leave then that‘s fine but if you‘re the type of man that thinks he need to stay persistent or get into her personal space just don‘t.
@kysterkylan7132
@kysterkylan7132 9 ай бұрын
​@@PrettyGirlRock1115I'm sorry you experienced that but you have to acknowledge you had an abnormal experience with an abnormal person. It's not your fault you didn't know how to respectfully reject someone. Most men will not impose your boundaries like that without your permission and I know plenty of men myself included who don't tolerate other bs like that from men. Eventually the person who made you a victim will be confronted by one of these Men. Even if you take rejection badly if someone declines you respectfully it's hard to react negatively. You don't have to be nice out of fear constantly and sometimes there's no nice or kind way to stand up for yourself you just have to defend yourself when someone is pushing your boundaries.
@PrettyGirlRock1115
@PrettyGirlRock1115 9 ай бұрын
@@kysterkylan7132 I rejected these people so it had nothing to do with me and no actually no men stepped in to help me either I had to fake calls or leave public transport since it happened more than once and the first bad experience was me being touched at the young age of 12 by a man that was at least in his 50‘s. You‘re victim blaming by acting I have to reject someones advances and have to ensure they don‘t put their hands on me while they‘re full grown men knowing not to touch women so maybe think about that next time.
@LeloLife
@LeloLife 9 ай бұрын
Don’t talk to me at the gym
@ErgoPr0xxyy
@ErgoPr0xxyy 9 ай бұрын
Fr. I wouldn’t want some jabroni approaching the women in my life while they’re at the gym w/this energy nor would I engage with a woman with any sort of romantic interest within that space. Clearly these dudes have never spoken to a woman in their LIFE if they remotely think it’s acceptable. How many times do women have to publicly state they’re uncomfortable/intimidated/anxious about men at the gym before putting two and two together?
@kysterkylan7132
@kysterkylan7132 9 ай бұрын
Then respectfully decline. We're not psychics so we don't magically know who wants and doesn't wanna be talked to
@Barely___Editing
@Barely___Editing 9 ай бұрын
No one does.
@sagar1992
@sagar1992 9 ай бұрын
Ain't nobody talking to that face😂
@bullz6176
@bullz6176 Ай бұрын
bet you wouldnt tell michael b jordan to not talk to you in the gym 😂
@newbee2262
@newbee2262 9 ай бұрын
Not the gym. The gym is a sacred place. Anywhere else. Guys, out an end to hookup culture, court not date, save till marriage, get married , raise legendary kids.
@theduncanshow8523
@theduncanshow8523 16 күн бұрын
him creating a fake question to lead in to asking me my name and engage me in conversation pisses me off, but if he just came up to me and was like ‘hi! I saw you across the gym and just wanted to meet you’ I would receive that happily. Maybe it’s his arrogant delivery of the ‘nice. What’s your name?’ Something about his version would piss me off. Like just be genuine about wanting to say hi, you don’t need to trick me into it.
@adamthompson9785
@adamthompson9785 8 ай бұрын
Step one: be good looking. Step two: ... Step three: profit.
@PhilSmith-mu1jw
@PhilSmith-mu1jw Ай бұрын
@ if she’s wearing headphones she doesn’t want to talk to anyone they are the most anti social commodity of today’s society should not be worn outside what so ever.💙
@Rainer125
@Rainer125 8 ай бұрын
It is great advice for Chads and horrible advice for everybody else. The outcome of something like this is predetermined by if you are good looking and tall or not. If Chad does this the woman was hoping in the first place that he would come over and talk to her, even if he is insanely shy and has 0 confidence the woman will welcome it and make it as easy as possible for Chad. On the other hand if an average guy even with the uttermost confidence and best social skills in the world does it he will instantly get rejected and shut down because the woman was hoping the guy wouldn’t talk to her and leave her alone. Looks = personality
@nisanight2247
@nisanight2247 8 ай бұрын
That wouldn't work for me. Never throw off a person's rhythm unless it's life or death.
@DellaDykeborn
@DellaDykeborn 8 ай бұрын
Sounds a little "respect the 🐓 tame the ©unt"
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