THE SPYING GAMES OF THE NARCISSIST

[@Isabela2024-yr]

I don't like anyone stalking me. Definitely not the narcissist. It's so alarming. In my opinion spying is stalking.

[@fireupyourheartfortruth]

Yes it's upsetting. The stalking and watching.❤😢❤.

[@shirley9066]

Its violating & abusive. Different kinda way to get to know u, use info against u. Always be aware of spy devices in ur house. Outside too..

[@christophercaruso6503]

Agreed It’s 100% Stalking.

[@kurrackthebarbarian6502]

Other than comments here, I don't do social media just for reasons such as this.

[@christophercaruso6503]

@@shirley9066it’s sad how low these creatures can sink.

[@0f-the-land]

Excellent video. Yes, sleeping with the enemy. The Narcissists exist to make good people appreciate and cherish what's good about their lives. They don't understand the importance of having a good character, and are not worth the pain they cause others. Stay clear of them, and their minions.

[@JamilaJibril-e8h]

Man the crazy thing is people don't want to admit they were imagining things that don't exist no one is competition or enemy

[@hopeinhumanity.]

❤

[@phoenixrisin2269]

@@JamilaJibril-e8h😂

[@LysaChampione]

You sure they are imagining things cause if you know about what a person is doing then ILLEGALLY wiretapping is not imagining.. People know what they are doing and then straight out lie about it .. # sick​@@JamilaJibril-e8h

[@sabbath7081]

The hard part is they're such strong powerful manipulators and wordsmiths that by the time you realize there's something wrong it's already too late.

[@Mocheesemoeugene]

Believe it or not, take it or leave it.The narcissist sees you before you see them.

[@JamilaJibril-e8h]

😢😢😢 am running away and they follow you 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@jenilynneful]

oof that’s a hard one to swallow

[@rosalynmatz3288]

This is true because the narc’s cold calculated cunning is their initial advantage…. reason being that a person with empathy and compassion tends to give way too much “benefit of the doubt” and “thinking the best”, thereby overriding their own instincts and intuition about the narc, to their own peril, for way too long. However, my experience is that ultimately, somewhere further down the road, the narc will shortsightedly “cut off their own nose to spite their face” and wind up self-destructing or being stuck perpetually in the quagmire of their own vicious narcissistic cycle of desperation.

[@Mocheesemoeugene]

@rosalynmatz3288 Well said !! Their doom has already begun. Your comment reads like a suspense novel. that unfortunately, wouldn't be a New York best-seller.. But we've lived the horror movie, so it was a good read for us. BLEZZ #KEEP DA CHANGE

[@u.t.grader4210]

Not anymore.

[@ruthjocaccivajjio274]

This is so spot on and terrifying and I wish I’d known all this when the narcissist ruined my life and destroyed everything in my life. I did not know what a narcissist was but thank god it was before social media. But he is a monster!😢

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@angel-no5sy]

Spying he does is so gross!!! No weapons formed against me shall prosper Amen and Amen 🪽🪽🪽🪽

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@meltamafuma4793]

Amen

[@SmoothOpe_]

Amen 🙏

[@ceasarwright7567]

Yeah how dare he catch you cheating LOL

[@lorrainejurdana-land3782]

Additionally, narcs spy on your kids and devalue them as well. Sickos. Eff narcs

[@haitiqueen0119]

Well its been a rather long 4 years in my end, thanks to my wisdom and investing in a front door camera, I finally obtained a restraining order against my neighbor who caused so much destruction and had the audacity to make me look me look mentally unstable to my relatives and people in my community. God sure dont like evil because in the long run, shes exposed herself and took the opportunity to take her to court. I now have a piece of mind for once- feels so liberating however my guards are forever up. Narcissists are truly scumbags!!💩

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@brunopannemans5729]

They dont like it when your authenticity is louder than their facade 😂😎✌️✊🤘🇧🇪❤️🙏

[@Julz99907]

That's an excellent analogy.

[@sundaymoon000]

This!!!!

[@mmk886]

Yes!!!! Well said

[@terrat.2471]

Holy shit

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Facts

[@SadieKatie-w3p]

Almost every single thing you covered in this video is exactly what he did to me. The spying he did was absolutely insane. It was so bad and I felt like I was losing my sanity. I'm so thankful that is all in my past. I'm extremely happy being single and not dating. I have peace in my life. I love my peace.

[@SusanW-lc8rp]

divorcing him was the hardest and best thing I ever did in my life......sending support and love to everyone!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@LysaChampione]

Thank you..hope you are doing well Surrounded by many of rhen and most likely they are still illegally tracking this phone.. And then tell their police friends that I am crazy.. But ever knows about all of them!! # money and lies

[@lindanorris2455]

right on!

[@sweetbamabelle]

My narcissist still spies, plays games and we've been divorced for eleven years. He never love-bombed me I think because I ran from him.

[@LysaChampione]

@RexJacobus-bb1vw ignorance is a bliss....

[@diazrigau]

My narcissist was a genius until he wasn't , he was 100% for me, spoiling me, making glorious love, being good to my family, a true expert. He never raised his voice to me, but my soul was stolen and he starting to said few words and do small things that will devastated me, I saw his true face and his immense ego, and one day I stopped. I didn't even said good bye. God told me I had to run, scape him. I understand every single thing you said.

[@birdytaken]

Felt

[@marileearsenault4749]

It’s unbelievable what a trap the narcissist creates. God bless everyone who is trapped

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@janetromey7522]

❤ ​@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

[@Slewis7443]

he stalked me. had me followed. Recorded audio. Hacked my phone. Had hidden cameras in the house, including the bedroom and bathroom. Recorded intimate moments without my knowledge or consent. AND tried to convince his flying monkeys that i was the bad guy. He thinks he has the right to do whatever he wants to do. I am 7 years out of the 27 year marriage and he probably still stalks me on some level but i don't care anymore. I have healed, am healing. am stronger and happier than I've ever been. I went from believing the lie that i could never make it without him to getting a job, buying my own car, my own house and living life on my own terms. Oh, and he probably thinks i don't know any of the things he did.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏😌

[@DzivhuluwaniPhaswana]

My ex narci also did that to me cameras etc. Being followed i divorced him Marc 2017. I left my millionaire ex with our kids and never look back. Dont even try to change them.

[@KarenMelancon-l8i]

When they say you will never have a job or a home or a life it's because they are in the background sabotaging you the rest of your life They are domestic terrorist

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

​@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone can a victim become a narcissist themselves being with one or develop narcissist traits?

[@ginademecs801]

I didn’t see it or know anything about what a narcissist or that they even existed. He blindsided me and used family, friends, and community to completely knock me off my feet. Before that and even for a bit after that I didn’t realize what had happened/was happening, and that he had planned it, set everything into motion to destroy me and take everything I had worked my entire life for (home, property of 14 acres, a shooting range, my children and the child we had together…) and he it was executed in such a way that temporarily he did it. I was made to relinquish my home, mortgaged in only my name and court ordered to continue to make the payments keep the utilities on, and to allow him custody of my young son! I spent every fine I had including all my retirement to get what wasn’t already stolen or destroyed back. This was so ugly and ran so deep that eventually as I spread the word and even got the local news involved, the judge who originally fell for his BS and gave him everything that was mine was removed from the bench! My son and I are still basically homeless and I have had to leave my high salary job and am fighting still to clear my name and get my medical license reinstated which is absurd after over 30 years of practicing medicine without a single incident or even a traffic ticket!! I will never be the same. He murdered who I was and my ignorance about narcissists, my failure to know that there was such a thing and that he was one of them left me vulnerable and I was an easy meal ticket/supply source for him for 23 plus years of marriage. I am healing slowly and have educated myself a lot. I have not even considered another relationship and honestly have no desire to at this point. Now I only am concerned with helping my son finish growing up and graduating from HS hopefully not as a homeless child. I wish I would have known that such people existed in this world or at least would have know that the person I was dealing with evil and a lier, so maybe I could have saved us from what we went through. It’s been a little over three years since he blindsided me and I returned from my redeployment during COVID. I’ve been in therapy ever since just trying to accept and heal. Thank you for sharing your videos and getting these messages out. They will save people!!

[@earphbound720]

My mother is a narcissist. They like to do a lot of dog whistle abuse. Doing things to you that other people don’t realize is abusive to push you to react in front of others.

[@1972hermanoben]

Mine too. She’s expert at playing her four children off one another, too. Her affections bounce between the four of us like some twisted game of ‘catch’. She underestimates us and overesteems herself, it would be almost pathetic, laughable to see if it hadn’t caused so much hurt and damage over the years.

[@SamanthaChristF10]

People who diagnosed narcissists likes to do that.

[@cordeliav3055]

My mother was a narcissist, and quite a dangerous one at that. She used my father like a tool to use to her advantage. Luckily on the odd occasion, when needed, my intuition kicked in and I was saved from terrible predicaments. I believe I was blessed with clairsentience, so was able to survive. I am now 79. Good luck out there to all those who have to deal with these people.

[@Adam-qz3wh]

Never heard dog whistle abuse, though I am very familiar. Using it, thank you!

[@s.r5256]

When you go high , they have to go low because they can’t function in the space of high frequencies, they feed on low vibrations chaos and confusion. Thank you for the work you are doing 🤲🏾

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💯💯😌

[@shirley14]

Yes, so true, he put a tracker on my car, listening device at home & got his son who was also a narcissis to hack my email, double trouble for me, it was a living hell, I've been free from them for nearly 3yrs & I'm still healing from that nightmare. Thank you, Andrew, for all the videos that I've been watching every day for over 3yrs, Namaste 🙏

[@Phoenix_flying]

He tracked my phone somehow. He ordered a spy camera that was the size of a quarter. He lied, stole my valuables, and cheated…but he was spying on me. I walked through hell and came out the other side. All the best survivors!

[@judyyates2763]

They are always looking for a way to justify their actions. He was hoping that he'd get something on you. How sad some people think that way! There are honorable people in this world.

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

What is the deal with all these narcs spying?

[@curli-lettey4319]

​@@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht Instead of them utilizing that time spying, they could be bettering themselves......that takes more time.

[@kaoshi_kutie]

My ex covert Narc told me he was watching me for a whole YEAR before Approaching me. Studying me . He told me he watched my interactions with people and saw my kindness. Thought it was odd saying that at the time but now understanding Narcissism I get it!! Such a predator!! 🤢🤢

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💯

[@Amina679]

He told me the same thing and I never understood but now I know. He told me one time that I will be serving him and my respond to him was I don't worship men.

[@SusanW-lc8rp]

🥰

[@empressb444]

I would've ran like hell when he said that 😮, alarming behavior

[@Jackmcars12]

My ex hid at the baggage claim watching men check me out, or interacting with me then told me about it. Found it odd.

[@paulinewroth5487]

My ex husband used my routines to time his cheating on me. He knew where I was because he used to focus on what I did on a daily basis. This video makes so much sense.

[@Yellow-oc4sl]

It's not fun , nor is it right especially when the cheating is more than once , they will deni it every time when you know

[@denieseransom2380]

Sadly, this happened to me too

[@alysiahite7086]

My ex husband did this too🙄

[@NickeyVamp]

Same mine wanted me because I had children, one is his but he used my stay at home life to go out and serial cheat.

[@JillB-g5q]

GROSS.

[@valerier4308]

During my divorce, my ex worked for the USPS and had a coworker, who delivered my mail, tell him what mail I was receiving! The guy's wife told me about it a few years later. Unfortunately, it was too late to do anything about it! Also, during that time, a job application and resume that I mailed at the central post office mysteriously NEVER ARRIVED at the employer - long story - but I got the job anyway because I hand-carried duplicates to my interview!!! This was back in the 1980's before spy technology was available, otherwise, I'm sure he would have used it! I'm so fortunate to have escaped that marriage, years ago! I believe that I would no longer be alive if I had not gotten out!

[@oppressednolonger1497]

awesome, well done despite years later lol... good for you! keep strong

[@valerier4308]

@@oppressednolonger1497 Thank you!

[@chaii_latte]

Narcissists can be siblings too.. especially damaging if they are your sibling I think..

[@Dyane629]

Absolutely. This is my exact & current situation which is why I’ve watched this video.

[@Lord_Seiborg]

Sounds like my little Brother and his Wife, I've had to put up with years of abuse and toxic back stabbing nastiness.

[@sherryanderson66]

Good afternoon from Mississippi! Reactive abuse- yep been there done that, unfortunately. I’m in my 50’s and have 1 sibling, an older sister by 6 yrs. I didn’t even know what a narcissist was until several years ago! My loving, wonderful father passed away in 2013. Immediately, I mean the same day he unexpectedly passed, I knew for a fact things weren’t right. My sister and my mother are both the worst kind of narcissists. The abuse I’ve endured is so, so wrong. My family was mistreated also. I’ve been recorded, bugged, lied about, etc. It’s been a rollercoaster ride from hell!! It’s a very long and unbelievable life experience that leaves you full of confusion, heartbreak, heartache, trauma, just so much. I’m trying to heal but it’s a long and hard thing to do. I have a zero support system so I’m doing this on my own. I’ve made some progress but it’s going to be a long time. No way to go but forward…..

[@nicolasmith6812]

With all this great information you share I find the Narc is revealing themselves so much faster to me, Sometimes only taking minutes, I just have a quiet giggle to myself and move on. ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@viccoluba]

I’m not good with electronics and my husband is a genius at it! I wondered how he always knew what I wanted or needed,unless he overheard me talking to a friend! I didn’t know he was a narcissist! My friend said: he’s probably got bugs planted! So I started looking at everything and found nothing,only “Alexa” disks! I unplugged them,I was furious, I couldn’t take a bath,thinking he could have put a camera in the vent! He was on the roof installing solar panels! Then I thought he’s gone all day and I wouldn’t talk on the phone , so he was not finding anything out he could use, I created a new diary, hid my regular one and wrote things down for him to read! All made up, I just had to be careful to be gone on the time I supposed to be,incase he checked the cameras! Now he is going nuts and he can’t confront me because then he wouldn’t be able to read my diary! I’m having a ball seeing him squirm! KARMA is a b…..😂

[@MegDD3912]

Same here.. even staying in different rooms during the day while I am home.. just to make it more difficult 😄

[@jodynori1214]

Agreed my ex narc is a computer tech guy. He would call me and told me what/where I was doing at that exact moment. I’m still looking where he put the cameras. I now have a new phone.

[@MegDD3912]

Yeah a new phone & different Google account helps bring a little more peace

[@RentFreeInYourHed]

"Gray rock" becoming so uninteresting and uninterested, it's like watching paint peel. So quiet, they turn down the TV because it's killing them to not know the every move.

[@SillyMoo-uf2ny]

So weird for anyone to sit and watch someone else and not focus on their own life! 💁‍♀💜💛xx

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉👀💯

[@SillyMoo-uf2ny]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🧡💛💜🧡💛💜🧡💛💜 xx

[@Bea-ok8ci]

That is their life.

[@SillyMoo-uf2ny]

@@Bea-ok8ci So sad xx

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Yes it is

[@lindaguy1808]

Thank you for a great video Andrew! Speaking of spying, my covert narc SIL would always be the first one to like my posts on Facebook. She was just waiting to see what I was up to I guess. Needless to say, I got rid of Facebook 2 years ago and have never looked back. Narcky SIL is blocked from everything from now on. These people will do everything they can to slither back into your life. Don't let them!

[@tammydietschweiler7852]

They literally destroy everything for you! Before you realize it, you are all alone. These are such sick people and they’ll take everything you have plus your soul. Leave!❤

[@locallyinbitterroot2339]

Someone who actually knows the reality of living with a Narc. It feels good to be validated. So many of us feel like we've lost our minds.

[@jennifernewton4637]

They spy on you before the relationship to see what you have that they may want, they certainly spy on you DURING the relationship and they spy on you after the relationship to see if you have built up your resources so they can attempt to swoop back in and take all that too… also because they still want to control you. EXCELLENT video, Andrew! I love this topic, thank you!!! 🙏☺️🙏☺️🙏 Have a WONDERFUL Friday evening!!! 🙌☀️🌸🌷🌻🪻😇🌺😉❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜

[@CalebBroad]

"THINK ABOUT THAT FOR A MIN" LOVE THE WAR ANALOGY

[@jessmason2112]

You have to be careful the narcissists aren't beyond murder.

[@violetlondon5497]

They kill goldfish.

[@lyngoodrich627]

I absolutely can’t believe I reached a point where I was thinking my house was bugged. I became riddled with anxiety. He constantly accused me of cheating. I was always looking over my shoulder when I wasn’t even doing anything wrong!

[@kerridavis2630]

Yep me too

[@Schmoityface]

Oh I feel your pain. Same here. I was accused of having people over when he was at work while I was shopping for groceries to cook supper every night, right after work (I finished earlier than him). He went through my dresser drawers, my dayplanner, my wallet, closet, fn everything. Sicko. I couldn't go for a walk to the drugstore without being accused of screwing around.

[@70Ford302]

YES!!! the cameras!! "To check on the pets while we weren't home." Ok fine, why do they always end up pointed at me?!?! I'm just sitting here quietly watching a football game having a beer on the couch?!?! I even invited her to join and she got mad and went to bed?!?! Your videos are completely accurate.

[@OrgoneDevices47]

My mom would always say, "you wouldn't treat your Father like this" Cuz he didn't treat me like she did. I didn't have the vocabulary let alone the frontal lobe developed Enough to Defend myself. But now I do. Reactive Abuse is just Normal for her, so Covert she believes she's an Angel

[@AlexaCBrown]

I understand what you stated... for me, my grandmother and sister were completely awful, and thank God my Dad was my Angel on earth. He saw it all. It was emotional and sometimes physical, (just hits, thank God no sexual). I hope that you and everyone are well. Hurts the heart and my head, but they made me a better person, and, someone I'd never want to be.

[@tathe3786]

I just let my gut talk. That’s all I do! I know now there are strange, not to say evil minded people in this world. I just trust my gut feelings! Never ever will I let anymore in my live that talked nonsense, or Lies or steals, or cones, or rages at me or bullies or is in negative mood, or is always the victim… etc. meanwhile I react with my nerve system, when I think about this persons.. I think my body would 🤮if I would let them come near!

[@debbierockz1]

I have stories of this type of stuff ..and things “mysteriously” disappearing

[@kristinebell3934]

I have one who does out of body and their occult helps them hide things. Such a waste of time or energy on their part for this sense of power. Pray for wisdom to deal with this. I pray for them to survive withdrawal when they lose their power. They can access monitoring spirits too and watch via a pet or outside bird. Mine was a close relative.

[@alisonpatton5028]

I watch a video every day just to remind me that even when my mind still not straight that it's ok to be not ok.Being lost and fighting your way back is a start to an end.You don't know yourself anymore but you still try.You begin to realize that some people don't want you to exist all because they don't.Find you when nobody is looking ❤

[@gillianfrances]

If this isn't evil behaviour/treatment I don't know what is. Thank you for this video Andrew 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜💯

[@gratefultobehere]

Fantastic message Andrew! They absolutely spy. They record audio and visual. They violate all boundaries of personal and professional privacy and will even stalk friends / family members online or drive by’s. Creeps me out. No contact for sure. Waking up to a dark force standing over you is soul shaking and Andrew is saving lives here when he says to gray rock, get an exit plan, leave, go no contact, heal and live your best life. It’s not easy, but I’m grateful everyday for this education. Happy Friday evening and weekend!!! ❤️✨🙏

[@marieeakin8534]

. 👍❤ 🌈 🎀😘

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..🙏😌💯💜

[@lailaa6662]

This is a wonderful message grateful. I appreciate you writing it. Especially towards the end when you reiterate Andrew’s advice. It is very scary to feel and sense a dark energy hovering over you or staring at you. This video triggered me today as I do get paranoid about recording devices etc now. Narcs are capable of anything, even if they aren’t tech savvy. They’ll still find some way of violating someone in some way. I feel I have experienced this a long time ago as well. And with the increase of social media usage, it makes things worse and harder to cope with. How are you this week grateful? I hope you are ok, in every way possible. I hope your working week has been going well, and that the weather is warming up for you and that your personal time is also peaceful for you. I wish you a very peaceful Friday evening there. 💜💜🪻🪻🙏🙏

[@gratefultobehere]

@@lailaa6662 hi Laila🌸💖 so good to hear from you but so sorry to know you were triggered and it’s so understandable that you were especially with the weight of what you’ve been dealing with energetically for a long time in your home environment. Was just finishing up prayers and gratitude reflections this evening and seemed to have more energy afterwards (note to self on that one 😉) but normally I’m fast asleep by now which was a fun surprise to see your message and be able to connect back while not being so sleepy 🥱 😊 with the variance of times we have between continents! Very peaceful is what I can say for life these days but the wild turkeys are making some serious noises outside tonight 😂 How are you (outside of being triggered with the message) and how have you been doing? Is that class still something you’re involved with? What way(s) are most beneficial for you to handle when triggered? if you feel like sharing and you don’t have to at all. Laila when I consider how the toxic people have been over the years and the spying - a lot of it has shifted to social media more and more - and so one of the best things I’ve found is to not use those platforms. That’s how I can control what I can control in that regard (to remove myself). I think you’ve shared you also have little investment in such platforms so it’s really what you’re experiencing in home then? I’m sending you a big hug and will pray for your peace and comfort with that issue. I’m Sorry you have to be concerned for your privacy. Wishing you a very good day ahead. It must be well into the afternoon now! ✨🌸💖🙏🫂

[@lailaa6662]

@@gratefultobeherehi grateful. Just letting you know that I wrote back to you on your flower post from today. 🥰🥰 I thought there would be a little less traffic there. Wishing you a peaceful evening there 🌙🌙❤️❤️

[@diamondgrace30]

Finally, someone who talks about Spying! They are sooooo controlling and manipulative, they have to know EVERYTHING to do it.

[@sharon3108]

Yes Andrew. They will read your journals, spy on you in any way they can by tracking your car, phone or installing cameras or listening devices. I once asked my ex why he went out of his way to find everything out about me/others while guarding his own privacy with a vengeance. He said “power”. It gave him some sort of superior feeling to spy and find out secrets while still having his own secrets ‘unknown’. What a sick and empty soul these ppl are

[@CarolinaCarolina-ph9mx]

Bingo. Mine is just like this. Goes after every PRIVATE scrap of information about me - that he does NOT have permission to read or see - then turns his phone as he enters his password or hides his computer screen if I enter the room, like I am the thief. Their spying is sick, evil, and fully traumatizing - and they DO know it because they go to such great lengths to protect themselves. They are the ultimate hypocrites.. No one who genuinely loves you would ever, ever stoop to such levels of soul destroying abuse. 😢 Oh, and don't dare ever try to confront them because then, somehow, despite them stealing YOUR information and destroying YOUR privacy, they twist it and turn things so that they are the victim. It's a real sickness. The saddest thing is that it is often done to you by the person you loved and trusted the most. They weren't able to do so much awful to you because you were so stupid, but because you believed in them and trusted them, and then they did the ultimate evil and abused that trust.

[@cynthiahurlburt2819]

❤ 🙏 ❤ health ❤ self care❤ boundaries ❤ be yourself ❤ saying no ❤ love ❤ peace ❤ joy ❤ you deserve ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜🙌

[@SusanW-lc8rp]

nice post

[@Cooldudewhotellsamazingjokes]

I deal with narcs at work. They watch every move I make, analyze it, talk to each other, and plan. I saw one of them by chance on the phone. He was talking like it was just normal business. I mentioned to him that I refuse to be the monsters they are. He just use a tone of contempt as he repeated it back to me. It was creepy. They genuinely believe that they are good people. They have no conscience. The funny thing is that they claim to greyrock me while they obsess over watching me.

[@SimoneJassmann-jr5bl]

Communism

[@SimoneJassmann-jr5bl]

Beware this happens with a roommate or it could be anyone 🙏✝️Thanks for video

[@Steeleyfan9765]

Hugs to all! Yes, they "got" us, but it does not change who we are, who we choose to be every day. So glad I am ME!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@amandaddunn5694]

I've been free from him for a couple of weeks now and I deleted/blocked him on everything..I'm starting to feel much better the more I give myself time to heal. Thank you for your help and your videos!🙏❤️🙌😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💯🙏😌

[@cellostrings2522]

My ex (who is a Pastor) took his spying way too far. He convinced our own children to secretly record me in order to try and get some “dirt” on me. It backfired on him and didn’t work. But my children were manipulated and have been turned against me. And the barbecue situation happened to me several times!!! Such a good video. Thank you.

[@marieeakin8534]

Since they're all about dominance & control... it's par for the course 👀. 🌈 🎀😘

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌🙏

[@vanessahawarden9028]

He hired a car to follow me and then days later told me what I had done, what I was wearing etc., also he hid behind gravestones and filmed me at work (I am a funeral director), he watched me on a remote camera after I had left him and simultaneously phoned me and told me what I was doing, told me where to walk around the remote cottage I had rented, in the dark whilst all the time being 250 miles away. He followed me for 2 years after I left him. I can still, after all these years (18) never be quite 100% sure that he’s not out there somewhere.

[@SusanCal]

Creepy

[@RitaDoran-p4v]

Scary as he'll I have experienced similar had to move its emotional draining and time consuming Hope you have peace in your life here on

[@earleenGreene]

Thank you for talking about the narcissist we need to talk more about the narcissist to help a lot of people to help people heal from the narcissist

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💯

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

I can relate to everything you have said. The narcissist has been spying on me in ways that are unimaginable, they were not hiding their terrible behaviour. They felt so entitled to intrude upon my life and they destroyed almost all of my relationships including familial ones. Totally isolated and ostracised me because I was not willing to cooperate. There’s no end to this ongoing madness, drama and trauma those people feel entitled to produce. It’s mind bending. Thank you for your validation and support Andrew. God bless you❤

[@BeTheLight624]

The narc I experienced would troll people on Facebook before he would go to bed for hours.Often times he would be “friends” with one of their “friends” so he could still troll them. My nephew had a narc that did the camera thing Andrew spoke about, months after they broke up. Various friends avoided him and were put off by him because she was filming him and making up false scenarios about him. Both behaviors I just mentioned are so weird and sick. Stay way narcs!!!!

[@allisonpayne2097]

Welcome Spring there’s always something great to look forward too😎

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊🌲🌊🌺

[@dottymichael]

All true, cameras everywhere, ex was always on a smartphone or IPad, almost all the friends I usesd to have are now flying monkeys for my ex. I have all blocked on phone, email and social media. It has been a rough road for the last 18 months. My life is so much betrer now. Thank you Andrew, your videos give me understanding, hope and honestly are life saving. ❤

[@mattiea7801]

"No contact means NO contact!" That's so valuable especially when you are no longer angry, hurt, fearful, sad or, unsure, you still maintain silence because that is THE ENTIRE LESSON that they dont want to have😄! I also believe it's the lesson we need to have too, so we can be free of that which makes us feel like💩. Loved this video ❤🙏

[@debbierockz1]

Yeah ..you could do A video of how certain things you owned, even car keys! Would disappear. Then the narc helping look for this stuff knowing they got you!

[@notaclue822]

Right Andrew, this happened to me. I'd heard that narcs data gather and one day I caught the narc, a casual "friend," being intrusive as all hell. I went silent and she tried, in vain, to make it sound innocent, but we both knew that I knew. I remembered a few previous exchanges and knew she'd been on an extended mission to know about something I had not chosen to tell her. I never wanted to accompany her again. I tried to sensitively let her know I would like a boundary and that went nowhere. The fun and games and pressure and smear campaigns began. I know if I were to use social media, she'd track me if she could. She won't stop till one of us is dead. And this was a casual acquaintance!

[@Manny-yy7hq]

This really hit home, thanks Andrew another great Video

[@vickym.8276]

I lived with a narcissist for a year and 8 months and i finally had enough, thank God!

[@Chevalali]

Brilliant. My elder sister is a narcissist. Only realised last year. I've blocked her and intend to have zero to do with her for the rest of our lives. She is plain nasty.

[@martharobinson7896]

Been with an evil narcissist for over 55 years. May he reap what he has sown.

[@ABBYBENORMAL]

I picked my youngest son up at the airport and dropped him off at his friend’s house and I txtd him when I got home & he asked me if I was aware there was an AirTag in my car, that his phone got a notification. I will never forget the sick chilling feeling that came over my body. I believe there is at least a camera/ listening device/s in my home. Too many little things they have said that made me think how does he know that? It’s disturbing and sickening.

[@TravelBits222]

Would this be the reason that nobody contacts you anymore? Old friends and acquaintances and new people, they all go silent, no calls, no messages from anyone. It’s like everyone is avoiding you, ignoring you and you have no idea why, what happened…

[@Agni-Connor-Art]

I am appreciative of what you are doing for others in these videos. Take good care of yourself.

[@KayKay-ee1sz]

spying and stalking was my narcissist issue

[@Hatbox948]

My ex narc has recorded me in the past. Once he played it for a buddy of his. His friend told him that it sounded to him like my ex narc was being abusive and, if asked, he'd take my side. That's one of the only times one of his flying monkeys took up for me.

[@kathleencondit1660]

The brother recorded me out of context on his phone. He later repeated it out of context. I told him to never be present with me again with his phone on his body. I caught on early what he was doing. That was about three days after my Mom passed away. I caught the sister with her phone at the back of my house taking pictures. She told me that she was figuring out how the book case was built. Later, I registered that she was recording what was in the house. I did look under shelves in the house for cameras. Never liked the idea of having enemies. But I had to accept what they are. Tiny little flies, agree.

[@livelife5890]

Yes. They are enemies. Nothing you and I can do about having enemies. Jesus had them too. They can come from your own household. It has to come from a seared conscience in my opinion.

[@19luvdabluzzz61]

ABSOLUTELY!!! Yep, saving texts, and recording...I could tell. It would echo back in my ear. Exactly, right now...I'm going through this... and they want me to send them a few pages of what "I've realized I've done wrong"! Andrew, ty again! ❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@caleshtcincredibles]

your channel is a blessing , thank you . I'm 30 years deep in marriage and just now have finally figured it out ! I am now a super human , thank you !!

[@PantaRhei-wz5zn]

Happens at work as well. After lunch i couldnt find the project papers i had been working on.... I found them left under the photocopier ! Work narc had been tracking my project, photocopying all my work and sending it to his supervisor, passing it off as his work. I found out way to late, then got invited to work on ''his' project , as a way to hand over all my hard work of several months back, so he could own it all without ever lifting a finger... Dodged that bullet, but the amount of stress it did entail to escape, for months and months, was beyond belief. Long story, but ended up quitting that job. Way too late, the continuous stress did wreak havoc on my nervous system. Should have done it so much sooner This video was wonderful. At times is like you witnessed the whole thing from close by. Yes ! To them trying to get you to react by triggering you endlessly with stupid small stuff all day long. Death by a 1000 papercuts...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..💯😌🙏

[@billperkins3562]

Neighbor narcissist spies on us from darkened windows. She drives by our house. She smears our reputation before we even meet people. She is like a hungry fly.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌

[@doranvee5944]

She had my phone tracked, knew all my passwords, knew every place I went, knew every penny I spent. Everything!!

[@thaydathroeun8678]

best sex ever?

[@GreasyBaconMan]

How did she track your phone? Married to a narcissist.

[@lisafelton2057]

I feel what you are saying. Same boat right now. Joint account my ass.

[@doranvee5944]

@GreasyBaconMan I think it was some sort of teen tracker, but she had it on me. Funny how she showed up where I was at and I hadn't told her

[@1Snow1132]

Change everything. It will be alright.🙏

[@MandipKhuttan]

Its all my family my mom dad my older brother and all my sisters.

[@sirremedy-nu3so]

Are any of them Scorpio's🦂

[@tammygunn8360]

I know one thing. Never use a Narcissist's phone or computer at their insistence instead of your own. Maybe claiming that they are saving you data). They are hoping that you may not be that tech savvy or careful and you gain them access to your e-mails or friend's /contacts phone numbers simply by not properly closing securely or through devices like key-logger. Never forward an N something a friend has sent you that gains them access to that friend via e-mail or phone number on their signature.

[@CrazyK64]

watch for draft emails that are not yours> use cellular data instead if wifi at their house and don't use wifi at home they can access use a hotspot

[@jayjo77144]

I’m recording you ( I was threatened ) fairly recently this happened to me If this person was recording then the names he called me would be on recordings as well 🤦‍♀️ For young people or someone just discovering a narc may be involved Watch Andrew’s videos pay attention I’ve been doing research now for at least two years, and he still brings up things that I should be aware of again these narcs they’re very sneaky Appreciate you Andrew T.y. 😊

[@Yellow-oc4sl]

It's very liberating to find these videos , to educate yourself on this issue behaviors, I was in a relationship over ten years lied to and manipulated about marriage, we had a child together he passed away two years ago , it's hard and a challenge, then during that time a close friend, it did not work nor go so swell , he has issues and drama , I got discarded about three months ago and put of the blu I get a text from him of songs didn't respond, I believe he just used that as bait , last conversation had with him like three hours , I have been through this before of the lies and manipulation, and he is just someone afar not and can't be that close anymore, I see my value and worth I'm first priority, that chapter and door in my life is closed thank God, so if he decides to enter my life like that again in that manner he can go somewhere else with that behavior, just to realize I was future faked by him too on most of the things said no, there is formal informal bad good relationships and I know I'm not the only one waking up to this , I'm thankful I know now , I could have made the next biggest mistake ever that the baby dad inquired never to get married to begin with , I have learned that if your being pressured into something always say no , and don't worry about what other people think of your decisions either , alot of this world is deceived on that what every body else thinks , but not for yourself, smh , make sure that it's what you want and be healthy boundaries and behaviors, I have been watching Andrew videos for almost a year or so , I'm glad he makes these videos to educate us ,

[@Empathysuperpower]

Amen! I have had several in my life…pretty much walked away from most, & I grey rock the others. So sad life has to be this way, but necessary for my health.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@FLOODtoFIRE]

you Sir : Are correct , Thanks . Be Blessed .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜💯

[@shawnmiller2182]

These videos almost describe my interactions at work everyday. I'm not certain if the guy at my job has NPD or if he's a Sociopath. I'm truly living in hell and plan to leave my company soon. As of this month his new tactic is to stare at me aggressively while I work and sometimes pull his phone out and record me. Management asked me why I had papers blocking my view and I explained that 50% of it is to find a peaceful solution because of the Narc. I've never had an argument with him, physical fight, or blow up. At random he just decided sometime last year to no longer talk to me and to smear me to any co-worker he interacts with. I'm far more younger and physically fit, so a fight would end in my favor. But as I explained to management this is silly and needs to stop. I understand that his goal is for me to explode or get violent so he can smear me as the bad guy.

[@marieeakin8534]

Creepy alright....wise to not supply him with reaction. Lay low until you are out of there. Safety first & thanks for sharing! 🌈 🎀😘

[@stacierose1692]

Lmaooo jealous cuz you'll lay him out 😅😂I pray for Gods protection and safety all around you🙏🕊️

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

I believe you. Narc co-workers' goal is to provoke, in hopes of getting a reaction, so they can get another worker fired or reprimanded. This happened to me and the only thing that I could do was to ignore it and not complain about it, but it took a toll on my mental health. I know some will say that you can't keep running from job to job because of narcs, but I say to them until they walk a mile in that person's shoes, they will never know.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

He's probably jealous of you. Narcs are this way and view their perceived rivals as competition. I've had people who all of sudden stop talking and speaking to me when I did nothing to them.

[@shawnmiller2182]

@@dontbelongherefromanother So true, what I don't get is that management allows it. I try to document it so that if we do get into it, they understand that I didn't ask for this or escalate. He usually tries to provoke people about politics, race and religion. I ignore him but I feel staring at me is the line I'll no longer tolerate. The rumors he's created about me, and the looks he gives me are as if I k*lled a loved one of his and he's out for revenge. But in reality, we barely interacted before and there's never been a "situation" that would warrant any of this. Only people that understand this personality disorder get what we're dealing with

[@clrichards-s3g]

Empaths who have been through narcissistic abuse are easily manipulated by hearts. 💜

[@bravelily2581]

Thank you for bringing this up. My husband planted a tiny spy camera in my bathroom pointed at the shower and changing areas. I found that one but now know he bought others. It’s a devastating violation of privacy. It still haunts me. Every time I change clothes/shower I feel like I’m being watched. Horrible existence. Our sons think he’s a pervert.

[@firehorse9996]

Do any other people come and stay at your house? A niece, young neighbor or any of your sons' girlfriends? Or maybe their guy friends? Hmmm Very strange he'd go to all that trouble to spy on his lawfully wed wife. Don't know how long you've been married and not here to speculate on your appearance but something is wrong with this picture. Get ahold of the video and see who else might show up on it. Be prepared to call the police.

[@beth3535]

Get away. My husband listened in on phone calls, recorded them and got into my email. Microphones and recording devices. A ghoul. You owe him nothing. It’s time to get away.

[@bravelily2581]

@@firehorse9996 Thank you. I’m in the process of divorce. It’s been a nightmare. Married over 21 years. As to my appearance he says he still finds me attractive. 5’6” 110 lbs blonde, blue but I’m not as young as I use to be, of course. And yes to all of those visitor type questions you asked. My lawyer said he is legally allowed to put cameras wherever he wants in his home. Crazy. He doesn’t live in my house anymore but I am going to have it swept for devices especially now that I know there were more cameras purchased.

[@bravelily2581]

@@beth3535 Terrible! I’m sorry for what you and others have gone through. Yes I’m done. Divorce pending.

[@54suzie]

Thank you Andrew When I look back Everything makes sense now I kept wondering and just accepting Deep down I felt something is off here Hadn’t been in a relationship for 23 years as I raised my kids But bizarre behaviour A lot of personal days he took And if I even asked where he went I was called “you are so jealous of nothing” paranoid and I don’t have to tell you anything. Difference was when I went I was always so happy to share Just was me being jealous when he announce spir of the moment he was taking a personal day. One month leaving a 14 year relationship that I feel now was so unhealthy But I am learning and very aware now . No contact New life new friends Past is the past Take care and thank you Andrew 🙏🌈🌻🌈🙏🌈

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💯💜🙏

[@tammygunn8360]

Also, dontcha' luv it when Andrew smiles at the end of the video? The information is so heavy and Andrew is so authentic... so I am happily reassured that he has recovered and is now enjoying a fine life.

[@ronniestring182]

Very interesting stuff. 3 years free from the narc and on the healing path man. Peace 😊

[@jodiburnett6211]

❤️🙏🏽❤️ Seriously, the church chimes, 3 bells 🔔 🔔 🔔 as you described how we were being drained by predators. No weapon formed against me shall prosper. Thank you Andrew for helping us remove those rose colored glasses. No more puppies and rainbows and con artists!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💯💯💜

[@AmarildoFecanji]

Honestly, I am struggling to find the words to react to your videos. They are so accurate, I genuinely feel seen and heard, like for the first time ever. I’ve done therapy, aya, shrooms, meditation, walks, talks, books and so much more these past two years, and even learned a lot about narcissistic abuse. Discovering your videos today, however, is like full circle. My experience is so by the book, I don’t know what to add that you have not heard before. The reactive abuse is the hardest part for me. The hurt and pain of not only destroying my soul (and somehow my life) for those two miserable two and a half years but the humiliation of using photos and videos against me, exactly as you describe it. It is true. The way you learn to love yourself, vibrate in higher frequency and grow from such living hell, is really something else. Really a big thank you for these videos. 🙏🙏🙏

[@danielchavez1329]

Another bad ass video. I experienced all that you talked about about. I'm free from all those mind games. Free at last!

[@Stubbornclarity]

Oh awesome 😎! Good for you!! I'm not free. He's trying to have a stranglehold on my devices. Spying on my doings. You really can't get rid of psychopaths very easily especially if you have a hacker ex. :⁠-⁠(

[@thefallenone7988]

You really hit the nail on the head. Excellent video 👍👍

[@jackieb.3056]

this triggered some of the things i endured it was something that no one should go through. please, leave!! it can be scarey but whats more scarey is living someone elses life to feed their ego. time to starve the narcs and be free of their abuse stay strong ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏😌💜

[@sandrakeijner6491]

Thank you! Right in time this video 🥰. I needed this one at this moment 🙏. Doubting myself....., am I an loving human?, am I a good person to be with?, am I funny?, am I...? I know that I'am doing the best I can. I lost a whole family (from ex), friends and left with the feeling that I'am the problem! I have to take the quilt of all.. Now I saw your video it made me feel less more quilty. So thank you for that 🙏❤️

[@vinnieo7082]

Great video Andrew ❤ Yes the narc secretly put a tracker on my car (without my knowledge of consent) whilst he was having an affair with a colleague. Oh I’m so glad his out of my life, 2 months narc free!

[@SyTheTarotEye]

Yes.. he bugged my phone and had cameras all in the house

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯🙏

[@Stubbornclarity]

My phone is bugged too! I don't know if there's any cameras though. These people are super controlling and vindictive. Afraid that you're talking about them. I try to shrug it off. I'm not doing anything wrong.

[@prew_gaming]

Cant the cameras be for security though?

[@SyTheTarotEye]

@@prew_gaming I thought until he was telling me what I was doing through out the day in the house. I don't know what type of police patrol he was on. Lol😂

[@prew_gaming]

@@SyTheTarotEye lol, okay thats different 😂 🤣 Apologies

[@lindagodwin3680]

I am so glad that this type of narcissistic behavior never happened to me! I left in 2005.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌

[@zacharyseibert6788]

Yeah, you're right. Subscribed.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome to the community..😌🙏💜

[@JustPlainDeb]

Ive called this behavior the narcissist being the “dirt collector” for years. Spot on.

[@CrazyK64]

i used @.first one was dr Jeckel and Mr Hide it and voyeurism vaughn. you may use them.

[@madkeating5083]

Thank you so much it's scary how your words make everything so clear now, ive been in a toxic narcissistic relationship for 42yrs I feel so angry for such a waste of life energy and time listening to you im stronger ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@kathymawer9295]

My life has never been good bc the narcissist was my mother who has always abused me. She went after my husband, my children any way she could destroy a child. Tore my life up any way she could. I think teachers need your videos. Any mandated reporter needs your videos. Social workers need your videos. Training about this is crucial and thank you for getting it out there. I always tried to get help and the response I would get is, why would a mother do this? They didn't get it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@DailyTopTenner]

Andrew from the Carolina’s is so easy to understand, he’s so good at communication it is shocking

[@beckywauer2291]

I SLEPT IN ANOTHER ROOM. THEY COULD NO LONGER CONTROL ME!

[@RaniWilson]

Wow. Excellent video, 200% correct… Ty Sir..

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌

[@lyn7841]

I always feel he is watching!!

[@martin-valeriegrosso2760]

Very interesting video Andrew. Thank you for sharing this information. It is actually scarry to think this behaviour is around us. God bless you Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜😌🙏

[@katrinac6784]

So so true! No cameras no smart phones back then but I was spied on constantly! Even when he was overseas he had someone watching me and reporting back! He drove me to the point of breaking and I didn’t recognise my own behaviour at times making me look like a total crazy person. I knew nothing about narcissism then and was constantly in a state of confusion trying to work out this man that I loved. Narcissists are evil and will drain the life out of you! The best thing that happened to me was when I was finally discarded!

[@JustMe-bl4lb]

I like a lot the background you chose for the video! 😄 The nature, the bird on the tree, the green grass... perfetto! 👌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🤭🌳💜