WHAT YOUR SILENCE MEANS TO THE NARCISSIST

[@bartfoster6406]

This is the most eye-opening accurate 100% spot on description of the relationship I used to be in.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜

[@toddgirardier8138]

It is very accurate, and breaking this trauma bond is very difficult when my heart is still telling me that I love her, it's all crazy stuff

[@toddgirardier8138]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneI think part of what you said is true, I may need therapy...I've learned many don't live to tell their story about narcissism

[@toddgirardier8138]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlonethanks for your video, I was discarded on a cold November evening, with the clothes on my back with nowhere to go after rehabbing an entire property...

[@jesus_is_life_love2932]

Please advise me, this narcissistic person made use of me and dumped me.now he's married and he gave a new number to his wife and he too taken new number. She message me

[@MrRobot-jb5tI]

When you are silent and not saying anything to the narcissist, you are not giving them what they want. They want you to react and engage with them because your reactions give them fuel. By not acknowledging them, you are retaking your power and not stooping to their level.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯💯

[@flowerpower4944]

Absolutely,they have no influence or control no more, Silence is my currency,

[@hannastrack4310]

I agree

[@fleetingverse4135]

I have had to dig harder and deeper than I ever have had to do to get through this. It has taken a serious toll on me. It also has strengthened me. It's taken 8 months to get to this point where I am finally able to sleep, not stuck in a loop and feeling more and more healthy everyday. Stay strong. The pain eases and gets easier to deal with in time

[@genfann9976]

It's not that I wanted to tell them everything but they have a seducing spirit that's released from the narcissist to you that compels you to lower your defenses and and give them the ammo they need to destroy you with later in the discard. They are a walking portal of evil spirits, and when you find out like on your program what they are your no longer interested in allowing your life force to be taken. Silence wins!

[@hopeinhumanity.]

When you speak they are offended. When you are silent they are offended. It really doesn’t matter what you do or don’t do, they will be offended and retaliate whether that be overtly or covertly.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💡💡💯💯

[@deb2319]

💯💯💯💯

[@EvilTink1_]

Facts

[@angelinh.5774]

So very true!

[@saltlightandjoyministries4138]

Well said!

[@Carebearhighaf]

Having a child with a narcissist is the worse shit you can do !

[@mss80308]

❤

[@30pumpkinsbro45]

I feel this comment. Please know that you're not alone. We survived, where others have not. That means something. Love and light to you and yours. ❤

[@comebackliza7897]

Being the child of a narcissistic parent sucks....she's still so cruel at age 76. No contact again just started and now the love bombs. This is so difficult.

[@30pumpkinsbro45]

@comebackliza7897 Right there with you. Mine tried to use my young children. ❤️ We know better now, that's what matters. 👏👏👏👏 This is my first year with no contact. It's so terribly hard. My children deserve better because I know better! Thank you for letting me know I am not alone. ❤️

[@jerrycook5834]

Genetics and training in children from a narcissistic mother who also inherited it can make them behave as narcissists too. I have experienced that and a good solution as Andrew says here is to counter with silence to them and be free to live happier. You are so right @carebearhighaf.

[@netreadonmepas]

This DOES need to be taught in school! Imagine the heartache and lost years that would never have happened had we not had to spend all of that time and energy trying to figure out something we didn't even know existed!

[@sharonroberts6697]

AMEN!!!

[@jenc8953]

I agree.

[@ramonaschuler4134]

SO TRUE!!

[@smarwadi]

Amen.. totally agree ... But it is not going to happen.. why because it is the devil's biggest I mean the top 1 positioned plan..they are the frontliners in his army.. I'm not just saying because I'm a victim of narcissism but because my true inner self my heart my mind my soul had this divine belief.. nothing felt so true so firm in my life before

[@renewenn463]

Silence. Game over. Personal freedom. Thank you Lord.

[@marilynrose44]

Amen

[@tcbcmoto4895]

Amen all glory to our lord God 🙏

[@lisawilson7332]

Amen to that! First time dealing with a narcissistic 34 year old step son. He's now forbidden me and his father from seeing our four grandchildren. So sad that he is using the kids as a pawn but I've learned that's what they do. They will use anyone for their own personal gain including their own children. I've gone no contact and it's the most freeing I have felt in the last years of my marriage to his father.

[@renewenn463]

@@lisawilson7332 Amen sister. I know exactly how u feel. I stay in my faith.

[@Lillian-z7c]

❤❤ 💪 TGBTG 😊

[@ioanaanaoi8232]

Your silence kills them. They experience a situation they cannot understand. How comes they have no power over you?? This is terror for them. Let them boil in their own juice with your silence.

[@SoniaKassie-bb2ow]

I Agreed

[@Lillian-z7c]

Facts.

[@beanerschnitzel794]

Yea baby

[@youngsey]

Sometimes saying nothing says everything.

[@nicholemcgautha3820]

Or at least it should right? Lol in my experience no then comes the accusations . It’s just unbelievable to me

[@kathleenkeane4364]

A lot of answers in silence, I do it so often.

[@cynthiapikoulas487]

I told the culprit, "I'm happy, by not allowing you ( ..the Narcissist,) to create drama in my life."

[@kat71580]

After many years in a narcissist marriage, I learnt to be on a delay in answering, talking, incase I said the wrong thing, or kept my face straight, every movement, because it would cause an argument. Take care ❤ try and leave, it will be hard, especially if you have family home, children, commitments, this narcissistic life will never change. I wish you a better, calm, peaceful life.

[@carolprivate418]

The realization that those you love, don't have your best interest at heart.... Makes us go silent, it's one of the most painful experiences...but makes us go within...and reclaim who we truly are🌞

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯🙌🙏

[@heatherwagar5868]

Beautifully said

[@tripzville7569]

Great reply.

[@TheBlondiekitten]

Oh I love this. Thank you. Going within and reclaiming is right ❤

[@ScottFerguson7]

Yes! Thank you!

[@denisesciacca9271]

With narcissists everything is about THEM! … and what’s in it for THEM!! So selfish.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@teamworks969]

sick

[@thirdworldTrini]

They are very selfish and when you call them out on it they try to palm it off like it was a joke and that us the empath can't take a joke

[@dark7angel456]

Sounds like most

[@nolang4495]

10 years plus silent on the narcissist 😮😊❤

[@averycolnite3561]

Silence, inaccessibility, distance, and strict boundaries. The ultimate defense (and ironically, offense) against psycho narcissists.😐

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@CaribbeanLife2023]

💯 Facts!! Speaking Truth.

[@lauralynch9469]

Yep except they also have really strong boundaries. I think that is how the difficulties start.

[@jonny-hdadon614]

Works perfectly fine for me 💯💯

[@catzbest8050]

My boss Jackie has created a toxic environment for me. I was going to quit my job but now I am staying at my job to see her fall flat on her face. It will happen.

[@JojoSails]

I left my narcissistic partner when he wasn’t home. Big surprise! My neighbour told me he didn’t get out of bed for 3 weeks! He has no idea where I am. That’s some powerful silence! 👋

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌

[@lorigarner8048]

Me and my ex live in the same town, always right there everywhere I go. He's working on a house next door to me it's very annoying! I kicked him out 4 months ago!

[@JojoSails]

I feel for you 💕 try putting men’s boots at your front door and men’s clothes on the line (big clothes) 😂 give the impression there’s a man at your place. I hope he moves on.

[@krismarsh6978]

Well done..

[@positvgal8]

❤👏👏👏👏😊

[@Honeypepper.]

The narcissist loves to hide in plain sight. They think they're so clever and no ones on to them but NEWSFLASH The world is waking up to narcissism. Keep up the fine work Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏❤️😌

[@narcoholic22]

I’m starting to wonder if narcs are one big satanic cult.

[@dark7angel456]

My mom is one, my family. I'm heartbroken. Why did they turn out this way

[@juniorr2646]

They are clever! I know so many people that lives with a narcissistic. Even the ones against narcissistics like your self have one at home

[@gracegoldson4280]

Thanks for explaining.

[@rainy2284]

I left my narcissist husband after 21 years. I knew that i would die if i stayed w/ him. It’s been 12 years since i left. Im still healing. I don’t date because i don’t trust anyone and i can smell a narcissist from a mile away. Most people who are attracted to me are narcissists because they can smell my empathy from a mile away. I choose a single life. It gets lonely but i would rather be lonely than abused. It’s obvious i haven’t healed completely but i have friends and family so im not completely alone. Thank you for this video. You sound like you are healed. I hope someday i can say that i am completely healed. ❤

[@landanwoodard7569]

Narcissist pull you away from your hobbies. Immerse yourself in them. I enjoyed collecting sports cards so I have been going to shows and meeting new people. Stay strong mam. 💪

[@roqbluffs]

I have same story❤

[@Zefyna]

Because you are an empath.

[@amberchill8132]

Try somatic healing, EMDR, and tapping . It will help you to heal x

[@BobsYoureuncle]

​@@landanwoodard7569 I learned this first hand just recently. I wanted to volunteer with music coaching practice . I figured it was the narc coming out when they protested , and then insulted me about it . Later they side tracked by pointing out how I divide my time too thin with everything . That is definitely a true point. However , the source of the opposition comes from them not getting all of my time .

[@laurelletieman4943]

I loved the rain, too! How hope-full to know we can reclaim goodness into our lives!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏💯

[@vediah3535]

Silence means....Game is over!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@vickipacheco9787]

That's Right.🎉

[@cbaby6572]

Wow it took me a long time to get over it now I’m silence I don’t care what he saying. I am so happy I agree 100% with you the game is over !

[@TheCyberMantis]

As soon as you identify a person is a narcissist... go "no contact". Problem solved.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💡💡💯💯

[@sharonyoung2041]

Easier said than done when you have been in a trauma bond relationship with a spouse who is a narcissist for 40+ years always being made to feel you don’t deserve better😟 it takes a lot of counseling, introspection and sheer guts to finally realize you are the victim, not the other way round and the only way to escape is to close your mind and your door to them.

[@TheCyberMantis]

@@sharonyoung2041 Everything is "easier said than done". It takes "effort" to DO something. That's what life is.

[@tonyhudson8698]

The Trouble is when they come to visit.. They think I am a captive target, and just keep up their Monolog.. I don't say dam all, but they so FULL of their RUBBISH...

[@garychandler4296]

​@@sharonyoung2041Well said Sharon. Silence is a tool we use I believe to stop taking the bait, but that alone won't fix them; it just gives us a little peace.

[@MarthaWoodworth-f9s]

To me, the biggest sign of a narcissist is that they malign - undermine you. Passive aggression is their favorite tool to keep you down. Real love lifts you up, supports you, nourishes and nurtures you, forgives and allows, wants to see you happy. If this isn’t your relationship, get out of it asap.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@ronaldcoleman3239]

YES ANDREW THEY'VE DONT EVERYTHING YOU STATED,BUT THERE'S A PRICE TO PAY FOR THAT ARROGANT, PRIDEFUL, GRANDIOSE, OPPORTUNISTIC, JEALOUS,ENVIOUS,SHAPE SHIPPTER,HATER,CHEATER,LEACH,NO EMPATHY,LUSTFULL,HATER OF GOOD,LIAR,INSECURE,NEVER TAKES RESPONSIBILITY,PLAY THE VICTM,WOLF IN SHEEP CLOTHING

[@ace7821]

I am a psychiatrist. This is the most awesome video ever. Spot on! Thanks Andrew.

[@nlrtaboo]

I’ve been in a relationship with a narcissist for 57 years, endured mental and verbal abuse almost daily. It’s taken me forever to realize exactly what the treatment actually means. I’ve tried to leave a number of times, even tried to take my own life, but each time I’m guilt tripped by other family members because of the effect it’ll have on my grandkids. I’m so done pleasing everyone. All I want is to be alone so I can enjoy the last years of my life in peace and be relieved of the tension in my body.

[@tracyaldridge4502]

Im in sMe situation! 20 yrs though. Im planning to get away from him. Getting my inner peace back.

[@Lehanii]

I hope you're able to leave. Your grand kids will thank you for it when they finally start dating. My mum didn't leave my dad but she should have. I'm paying for it, single at 46, because I only date narcissists and of course it never works but I haven't broken the pattern yet. Better to see the example set in a parent.

[@hain7]

God has your grandchildren. God has you in this. Your vows of marriage are not greater then the people who made them. God is always concerned about people. He is concerned about whether our husbands treat us treacherously. Mal 2:14-16 Even the prudent see evil and hide from it. Prov 22:3 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not to thine own understanding. In All they ways acknowledge him and he will direct thy paths. Prov 3:5-6

[@queen.mama.slots.5977]

Exactly, do it ! God gives us only so much time! Live the rest of it your way. 🙏❤️

[@oceanbreezedog]

Our stories are the same.

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

We must walk away from the narcissists and leave them alone in silence. Only God can help a narcissist. Thank you 🙏 Andrew 😊 God bless you❤

[@e.gedeon8681]

Even god can’t help them if they don’t acknowledge their conditions

[@nankc1]

And they are unable to acknowledge their condition because it’s a personality disorder (neurosis) that they are not able to correct. It’s impossible for even a psychiatrist to treat because the person has NO insight into their problem. They think everyone else is off base, never them.

[@julieannsheridan6438]

My ex narc husband used God as a mask to look good in front of people.. how? He was a Vicar (Reverend) When I tell ppl you can see from their face how shocked they were. My divorce was finalised last week & I’m completely zero contact and it feels good! He was a classic Narc who was mentally & physically abusive. There are plenty of Narcs in the church trust me I’ve seen them they love the attention it brings them. Not all are but there are quite a few

[@Mea_DS]

​@@e.gedeon8681agreed!! Because they have to want to help themselves!!

[@sheepdoglogic]

They need not acknowledge anything to God, He knows all!@@e.gedeon8681

[@jayaz9113]

" That's what we need on this planet, more people helping people out, less people taking " spot on Andrew 🎯🎯🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌❤️

[@thomasdonau5140]

I completely agree. However, so often those that take pretend to help others out, and persuade others that this is the truth. I share your view of how it should be.

[@tripzville7569]

Agreed

[@beachlife4346]

To solve the problem givers need to stop continuing to give to the worlds Narc... Giving cautiously instead and not getting sucked into the Narcs victimhood mentality because its a trap used to exploit and take from others and allow the Narc to not have to be responsible and be a propetual child to act like one.

[@beachlife4346]

​@@thomasdonau5140that's the difference between wishful thinking and reality. Narcs LOVE wishful thinkers!

[@smustipher]

My silence means: "I Don’t Care"

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@CherokeeTrails]

"These people are crawling all over the planet" Wow!!! And we lived our whole lives not knowing. There is no way this was not intentionaly kept a secret. I studied a lot of Psychology in College, and this should have been taught on the first day of class!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌

[@marcellamiller7808]

💯👏🏽💯👏🏽

[@teamworks969]

The word of the Lord Jesus began schools and teaching this and there were no fights, arguing or shooting. Kids would really love to learn about this too. It helps them to be well adjusted and it teaches them how to think not what to think.

[@gb3776]

It’s actually in the Bible…it’s call a Leviathan Spirit. In the the book of Job… coming straight from the pit of hell. These people need deliverance.😢

[@dark7angel456]

KZbin has been a life saver mentally for many. But also has TONS of narcissists on here too taking all the attention away from authentic beings

[@KleeKaiPuppies]

When you meet a narcissist, they are evaluating you and they ask themselves. What does this lovely person have to offer me? What is their financial situation? How naïve are they? What can I get from them? Narcs may put on their charm but luckily, we all are getting educated now. Thankfully, I can see a narc coming at me a mile away, and I have zero tolerance for any narcissist.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💡💡😌😉💯

[@117delta]

I understand what you're saying but what if is somebody that really wants to get to know you how else are they supposed to know you if they cannot ask questions of you to see what interests you I'm not trying to be pessimistic but how would you go about if somebody is trying to know you because they really like you?

[@robinchilds7492]

I'm an empath. He told everyone he got a good one this time when we first met I tolerated his gaslighting and mind games for 4 years. But he went too far and I ghosted him for 2 months. Then he decided to end the relationship and I calmly walked away and went no contact again. That was 9 months ago. His flying monkeys kept telling me he made a mistake and he was miserable. I blocked them too.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌💪🙏

[@rachidamzian7531]

True after a lot of suffering and feeling lost because I didn't t know why he s behaving in a strange way. I used to cry get angry to falling in the abym of depression. Now that I understand his motives I decided to withdraw and keep silent and never tell him my plans. To my surprise I see him shrinking and become polite and totally absent

[@AAXS-op1vo]

Well done

[@Lehanii]

Strong !

[@lindahaynes3475]

I was the best thing that has happened to him....24 years later i got out.....freedom is the best.

[@stevenmortach1565]

There is absolutely nothing that can truly make the narcissist happy.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌😉

[@InvisibleWarrior279]

I would think that your silence means they KNOW you know. And you are not buying the BS anymore 😇

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯💯

[@MaroonRose3216]

Doesn’t seem like it. They keep trying anyway, after almost a year of gray rocking.

[@lalani888ARTblue]

🎯🎯🎯

[@kristenpichler8024]

I walked away from my narcissist and went silent 14 months ago. I had never done anything of the sort to anyone before, and knew nothing about narcissism at the time. I only knew that I deserved to be treated way better than what my so-called “friend” was offering. Since then, I’ve studied narcissism extensively, and have learned how my own behaviors made me vulnerable to his actions. Great video, Andrew. You’re right - the narcissist cares nothing about anyone but themselves. Going silent is the only way to re-take your power!

[@michellebrown6580]

My ex narc told me people told him he was crazy for being with me, and everyone in our city hates me, also he said I would never find anyone like him.. I smiled and said Thank you Jesus!! I have been silent for three weeks!! I’m so glad God open my eyes and I see all the evil!! He even called me names while I’m trying to heal from the unexpected death of my son!! So glad to be on my path of healing!!

[@CrystalClear9]

My condolences 💐🕊️❤️‍🩹😘

[@11mimiriri]

So sorry for your loss. Stay strong!

[@MagdalyAmbroise-b2g]

My condolences. May The Lord comfort you during your time of mourning. 😢😢😢

[@Calicandyy]

❤❤ My condolences

[@roslyncerro1263]

Young people, please listen to Andrew. Stay out, please. You deserve lovely love.❣️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯🙏

[@annfulcher407]

Outside, to others he is a friendly, happy, cheeky person, but as soon as the front door closes he is a sullen, moody, prolific adulterer and psychological, emotional bully who shouts me down when he knows what I am going to say, because he knows it is the truth, I have learnt that not answering when I know he is gunning for a row etc limits him. He has convinced people that I am the adulterer, because I don’t meet/know them he gets away with lying, he knows I cannot fight it. I am stuck living with him because we both own equal shares of our house, but he refuses to sell/buy me out, I cannot leave if I have nowhere to live and no money to live on, and he knows it, all of my money is tied up in this house. But listening and learning on how to live with a narcissistic bully is helping me cope until such times I can leave with what I am entitled to.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙌💯🙏

[@michaelking9818]

@@annfulcher407 it’s not worth it leave you have only one life unless you’re a Buddhist.

[@annfulcher407]

@@michaelking9818 I wish I could, but as I own 50% of our house I have equity, which means the council refuse to house me, I have no income, barring my State Pension so no chance ever of being able to afford to rent etc, the only option is live in my car, and no way can my seriously bad health put with that (Stage 3 CKD, my kidneys are only functioning at 50%) and lung problems.

[@karenwilkinson2632]

Spot on again Andrew!!. Not only did I figure out who and what he was, I then took out a restraining order to protect not just me but also our little boy that he would terrorize at every turn. After the restraining order I took him to court and in front of a packed court house I humiliated him in front of everyone by telling them all the horrible things he did to us behind closed doors. You see, we lived in a small town close to Charlotte, NC and he had everyone fooled---they all thought he was such a nice person and oh how lucky I was to be his wife. LOL As a result of that court case he was convicted of domestic violence and spousal abuse. From that day on, we have zero contact with him.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@yolandaj6364]

I love every narcissist that was in my life. It actually makes me cry because my heart aches for ppl who were in my life or in my life now that I am understanding better who they are (narcissist) and I 🙏🏽 honestly Pray for their well being. I get it now, moresoover, than ever before, my own narcissistic tendencies, flying monkey stances I have taken, not realizing then what I know now. Wow! To think I thought all this was normal behavior and you just worked around it and forgave. Little did I know these behaviors were not and are not acceptable.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@shellylucas3347]

December 27th made 7 months narc free for me. I blocked all contact, and wow has my life only gotten better each and everyday. If you can, no contact is the way to go.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@joachimgoethe7864]

The narcissist isn't wrong, the world is wrong. Just ask one.

[@ClaraBrown-o2o]

Yes and always have a problem about what others are doing. Complaining about a-z and miserable people.

[@marilynrose44]

Yes always the victim blaming everyone else 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@marilynrose44]

@@ClaraBrown-o2oyes omggg

[@judyyates2763]

Years of confusion. Life can be peaceful❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙌❤️

[@judithbistrian1834]

You just described me and my narcissistic spouse. Took me 17 years to figure out what was wrong with him. I’m still diving deeper into the rabbit hole. So glad I found you. ✔️👍💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💯😌

[@jennyskoblikoff173]

Good for you. 22 years and i got out this summer. Healing and peaceful😊

[@tripzville7569]

I stuck at it for 12 years, until 3 months ago.

[@ginamclean659]

Took me 55years to realise what I was married to. Now living my best life. Thank you Andrew, I’m so glad I found your channel ❤🌞

[@bequietkitty]

I'm 17 years married to a narci (I call him a narci 'nar'sea') husband. It's also gotten physical were he feels so angry he shoved me down then gets more angry and keeps repeating that I did it to myself. He's cheated by getting into a emotional relationship with his coworker and he would tell his friend he can't wait to have sex with her but I caught all this before those two got any closer to be comfortable enough to do so yet. He only stopped working with her and talking to her because I told him I was exposing those two and her own boyfriend can get involved and who knows what would have happened to my narci husband 🤕 He really knows how to pretend that things never happened or existed and gets all his emotions in to make him believable. I keep getting told I'm going to be homeless and I'm reminded how useless I am. I'm disabled btw. I'm in the part of realizing what he is and I'm not the bad guy that I used to believe I was. I'm breaking out of the cycles of getting my feelings hurt and then blaming myself for it then being sorry for him . Baby steps for me.

[@victory902]

Thank God I am out of that relationship, divorced, no contact. Stress is now minimal, lost 30 lb- that weight was protection and resultant from cortisol from constant stress. Feel at peace now, Thank you Andrew. Now these videos are a reminder of where I was. Your info helped me get out. Free at last!! Still healing. Loving my inner child. Built new boundaries, feels like a castle with a moat. Single and staying that way. No more.

[@bon9032]

Me too😅

[@donnamauro5117]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@LisaRanae79]

❤😊

[@vkrgfan]

That’s right, people thrive in healthy relationship and those who are getting abuse fall into depression, panic, despair the health starts deteriorate and yes your body naturally starts to protect itself from excess cortisol so you begin gaining weight.

[@RuthBatAbigail]

Did you have children with him?

[@maxstone776]

What you have explained in this video describes most of my relatives. These evil psychotic narcos are the main reason why so many families are broken up in this world.

[@yash6303]

Well said. A classic narc sign is someone who cannot be single and needs to always have a partner. A relationship that enss needs quite a bif of time to heal and reflect. People who jump into another relationship quickly scare me. 😮

[@terencehennegan1439]

That’s not necessarily true. Lots of narcissists are single.

[@yash6303]

@@terencehennegan1439 there's always someone on the back burner trust me. relationship hoppers are disconnected go their own well being.

[@moonglow1158]

One of the last things the narcissist said to me with a grin was “So many people want me “

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💡💡😉

[@sseptember6301]

😂 Like I've told mine...The devil didn't even want you and that's why he kicked you out of hell and now you're up here making me miserable!!!! Go back home!!!

[@clareespina4018]

“They want the fake me”- says the narcissist

[@moonglow1158]

@@clareespina4018 yes it sounded that way and looked that way on her face bc she thought it was. Kinda funny , and she was looking forward to all the new fake games in the future , transactions , and the chase … she always said to me as well “ I can’t win with you “ . And I had no idea what she was talking about it . I told her it is not about winning it’s not a game .

[@lilylane4246]

The narc is so unaware they don't realize how ignorant they sound.😂

[@livinggood6876]

Hi Andrew your words always ring true. You are the perfect example of what no contact and finding the healing path brings into our lives. You sound clear, strong and healthy. God bless.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌🙏

[@blade-icewood]

Dude this shit fired me up. Had the "lightbulb" moment last year and realized I was raised and manipulated by narcissists for 35 years. Went NC and they are not handling it well. Oh well. Chin up chumps! Thanks for these vids, they are supportive and enlightening

[@deborahway9280]

I have left the narcissist ex so many times over the past 15 years. I end up feeling sorry for him, go back, then leave. His powerful hooving tactic has always been money and incredible charm. Always short lived. He has zero emotional connection, always has. 26 yrs of a toxic cycle gone forever.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@teamworks969]

did he procreate?

[@nelipot6051]

Freedom from the narcissist is a beautiful thing ❤ definitely stay silent. Responding to them just gives them more fuel to use against you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🤫🤫💯

[@flowerpower4944]

It was a huge,huge, betrayal,,,but big lessons learned,,hard work But my life is now been transformed into a Better consciousness,,,,and I still have Empathy and Love for mankind,,,They didn't Take that or My Soul,,T.y. ANDREW ❤❤✨✨

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙏☀️❤️

[@flowerpower4944]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlonemy silence is my currency,,t.y.Andrew for your help and inspiration,,Namaste ANDREW ❤️

[@meeow2165]

LOL - The narc is degrading, decomposing, deteriorating into nothingness! So true.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@AnnieBurks]

I praise God I found your video!!! Thank you! Thank you!! Thank you!! 🩷

[@tammysimonson8756]

I walked away from a narcissist 20+ years ago only to go through it again with my daughter 😢. I’m trying to find peace again and heal, having to walk away from my own child. It’s important to get therapy and heal, you are worthy of a happy life.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@marybarton5651]

I do NOT need the narc... wow... it feels good to be able to say that... I am worth more than how I was treated. 🕊😊 that is a beautiful misty, raindrenched background 🌫 ✌️❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙌💪❤️

[@emilywilson7308]

Yes!❤

[@marybarton5651]

@emilywilson7308 I just checked my Facebook account because I have a few family and friends that I sometimes reply to when I receive a notification. Otherwise, I avoid it like the plague...lol. too much drama and too many unsavory characters trying to take advantage of unsuspecting people. I received a message from someone who assumed another new identity, I suspected it was the same person that has repeatedly been trying to contact me, and I keep blocking 🚫 him. The information on the profile tells me that it is the same person. He wrote me a text on the comments section and called me honey... honestly..... it was an old post. I haven't updated or added any new posts in over a year. I didn't like that he called me honey and wanted to slap his face, but I took a deep breath, let it out slowly, and exited without wasting my energy on a response. Holiday hoover... and I will sleep just fine, and I have been making friends at church... healthy friendships 💖 I hope you have had a good day today. Take care of yourself Emily.

[@hissykittycat]

I'm so very broken by the narcissist in my life. Yours is the only voice saying anything that encourages me right now. Thank you, Andrew 🥺💗

[@celestialfire111]

Me too... Hugs sis ❤

[@atirliag2833]

Stay strong

[@joanneglas4851]

Let him her go, leave them behind, and continue your happy life journey… I learnt to say no, set my boundaries and let go … it’s great. Do it. 🙏🏼🌷all the best. Act

[@darnellmartinwimmer7716]

This person has no right to abuse you & you deserve to be happy. Keep learning about narcissism and you will find your way out. No contact was the answer for me. 🕊️

[@heatherwillson4862]

Two more voices that will help you heal are, Dr Romani, who spent her entire career studying narcs. And Dr Phil.

[@_Louise__]

Game Over Narcissists... 💪🛡️🎉 Excellent video, thank you Andrew 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙌🙏

[@irreverente4202]

Checkmate. Bingo 👍

[@gratefultobehere]

💯💪

[@carlshawver7332]

Love your messages. So real and relatable. Thank you!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@PhoenixRising-1111x]

God bless you!!! Ur messages just seeing today is healing beyond belief .. Ty! Namaste

[@justdaisy316]

I love rain too! Im glad to hear you are doing ok again..its so sad how another person can have such a huge impact on our lives in such a sneaky way..so happy you are here helping us work our way out of these messes with these narcs! The struggle is real. EDUCATE YOURSELF EVERYONE!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌😌💯

[@johnkritchey8445]

SILENCE IS GOLDEN! GOD BLESS! LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE WITH THE BEST AROUND YOU! NO LESS

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯🙏

[@JuliaLeoSun]

I have zero contact with the narcs that were in my life. At first it was really hard and in my mind I saw it only as protection and I felt a lot of guilt. Now it's changed into empowerment, validation, clarity, a place of self love and respect I have never experienced in my life. I also went through the abandonment of so-called friends. I was alone. Outside of 1 friend, no one gave a damn. The monkeys only called to find out the bullshit to gossip about it. I had gotten down to 98 lbs. and was so outside of my body, in the twisted brain fog that I didn't realize I was becoming physically ill bc of the abuse of my x narc/husband. After 4 years of healing, I am healthier than I've ever been! I am so one with my Creator and the universe, peaceful and still within myself and my surroundings. All of the heartache, pain, confusion, doubt, fear has been acknowledged and hasn't put me back in their prison in a very long time. Never again. I love you all! Thanks for the listen and know to always have hope and always believe there is truth and happiness waiting for you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 😌🙏🙌❤️

[@JuliaLeoSun]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thanks for your videos Andrew! You are changing lives for the highest and best good for everyone here! God bless 🙏🙌✨💫🌞

[@mitzistone4721]

I agree and I am guessing many of the mean ones were jealous. Jealousy should not be minimized it causes people to behave in evil ways.@@odeltor8703

[@michaelking9818]

@@JuliaLeoSun wow thanks for this

[@JuliaLeoSun]

@michaelking9818 💖

[@vkrgfan]

The longer you stay the harder it will be to break free, the narcs drag you deeper and deeper into the abyss. Glad to hear someone saying that they love the rain 🌧️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@teamworks969]

said but it wasn't on video

[@louiseedwards9589]

I’m listening to all of this. I’ve just going through it. His game is over I’ve tumbled him he’s tried to destroy my life 😢

[@flowerpower4944]

Wow I love the Rain,,as a child and now,,❤❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯❤️

[@flowerpower4944]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneI would come home from school soaked and feeling great , it recharged me,,🤣🤣❤️

[@emilywilson7308]

Me too! ❤

[@RachelWilliams-qq3bd]

I used to love running in the rain

[@AnnAndNala]

The beautiful rain is indeed so peaceful. Thank you for your important messages, they really do help so very much. 🙏🦋What narcs do is emotional murder. I wish they could be legally prosecuted for their destructive abuse.

[@Fernanda-cn9jd]

They are prosecuted by God in the spirit realm. 🙏🤍🪽

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌❤️

[@jhavajoe3792]

Nothing more spiritual than being in the Heart of Nature and enjoying it. Makes you feel alive just by "being." Andrew, you've worked hard, giving us the clear demarcation line- We are on one side of that line, free to be ourselves without the drudgery of listening to meaningless judgement , suffering the soul damaging and blood sucking of resources by these Narcissists. The other side of the line- Narcissists. I love the rain . The rain sounds can calm and quiet the mind. 👍🤲🌨☔

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😌💯🙏❤️

[@lilylane4246]

You are my people.

[@Eli_J_]

This is so spot on. I was at my narc wife’s flying monkey’s wedding and someone at our table who knew my wife said my wife’s friendships all consist of my wife in the center and her friends are like concentric circles surrounding her. She was sending me message about my wife that I didn’t understand until after my wife discarded me years later. Now I understand she was telling me my wife is a narcissist with flying monkeys around her.

[@dianaraney1032]

A lot of people ask me why I married my ex that was a narcissist but before we married he done everything right, then the day we got married and was on our honeymoon it started. I didnt chew my food right, dress or talk the right way. He told me I was an embarrassment in anything I did including being a mother and wife. He could never keep a steady job because of his attitude and after a while he sat a home while I worked 3 jobs and he never helped with house cleaning because that was womens work. And so didn't fix anything. But whatever broke was my fault. I found out one thing that I'm alot stronger than I thought or I wouldn't have made it otherwise. And anyone thats going or gone through that needs to remember. Your stronger than you thought you were! 🙏💋

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌💯🙏🙌

[@luisapena5162]

Hello Andrew. Your message brought tears to my eyes. Recently freed myself from a toxic relationship and my wounds are still very raw. Thank you for your wise, validating and encouraging words. Namaste 🙏🏽

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste..🙌🙏😌

[@ERnarcfree]

Congratulations to you!! Yes the wounds are very raw and don’t think for a second that this is not normal. It is very normal and you will get better!!!

[@shaeholden1743]

I will certainly ask God to help you in your healing. I know those raw wounds ... He is a compassionate Healer.

[@LDuke-pc7kq]

Never go back.. no matter what Never! Please know if they suck you back in for round 2 or 3 it only gets worse and harder to get out again, they are predator and think like predators so they stay steps ahead behind the scenes. Please know they will try to suck you back in and will promise you all the things you wanted ,but know these are only Lies, you will be 'punished ' for leaving them and they have been waiting for the perfect moment to hurt you for bruising their ego. Know they are all the same and their behavior predictable, they are not special, they are in truth a demon with the potential even to kill their victims, please keep yourself safe and give them zero amount of your time nor attention regards of what they say, even illnesses they will lie about to trap you, you deserve real love safety and freedom, none of which will ever come from your narc. Many Blessings!

[@Kernewik101]

It takes time to get through the trauma... every day it's 'onwards & upwards' ❤❤❤

[@Karen-fx8ek]

I really needed to hear this today! I love the rain also! Silence is golden! THANKYOU for reminder Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌🙏💯

[@bridgetbanwell3582]

High, low. Pushed, pulled... He did that to me. It was hard to get my mind off the narc/trauma bond I'm out now! I'm thriving again

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌🙏

[@roslyntucker590]

Righttttt, yes, yes, yes. Wow!! So on point.

[@queen.mama.slots.5977]

I’m in the storm myself! I spend most my time outside. I live in the mountains 🏔️ and the fresh air, wind and rain 🌧️ is healing. ❤️🎰💕

[@ERnarcfree]

Andrew a heartfelt thank you for your passion, your personal sacrifice, and your determination to spread the message around the world about the devastating effects of Narcissistic Abuse!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏😌💯🙌

[@natanyaful]

Loving this from London, I am definitely enjoying the silence. My healing has come❤❤

[@cherrieguitar]

Heal sis, I'm healing from Belfast

[@natanyaful]

Sending u love from London, we got this 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌❤️🙏

[@positvgal8]

"They dont deserve one minute of our attention "...your videos are powerful Andrew..so good to see a person reclaim their love of life despite the past❤👏👏👏❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😌❤️🙌

[@chriswalls5831]

Silence is golden

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🤫🤫💯

[@livingabundantly2023]

Checkmate - Game Over! Thank you Andrew for your suggestions and guidance - total silence - no contact. One step at a time.❤🙏🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯❤️🙏

[@annamariehewitt3173]

Sometimes it takes the mind a lot longer to accept what the heart already knows and Silence can come from us with that realization....

[@annamariehewitt3173]

@@barrys7515 what I know is that it all begins in early childhood years and the influence of the MOTHER in the child's upbringing...You should take a listen to the videos of Sam Vaknin and Richard Grannon...They are experts with lots of videos and all the answers on how Narcissism develops in the child..It really is mind blowing....Both my parents were Sociopathic Narcissists and all my 5 siblings Narcissists as well....The only empath was yours truly.. Needless to say I got myself outta there when I grew up.....God Bless

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯💯

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

You look so healthy, even in that rain, I too love the rain..

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😊❤️

[@fossildragon]

You describe my drug addicted narc daughter and my flying monkeys grandsons. I endured years of abuse, both physical and mental. My mother has a fatal stroke induced by the stress my daughter put her through. My daughter stole my inheritance. I kept trying to forgive and help. Went into debt, such long story. What kept me stuck was the memories of what she was. The person now is not who she was and I kept helping her in the hopes that I would get my once loving, caring, kind daughter back. I realize now it will never happen. Like you mentioned, she wanted to drag me down to her level, to take everything from me, and she even took my car and hit something, didn't tell me. The list goes on and I'm at a point where I'm done. She and her drug addict husband are living without electricity, no running water, and no vehicle out in a rural area. It's cold here now in South Carolina, but as far as I'm concerned, they can freeze to death. It makes me cry a lot because it is my daughter, but she and her husband are nothing but parasites that are sucking the life out of me. Time to get into survival mode.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@maryhunter-7774]

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[@normabrooks2426]

It's sad to have daughter that's a narcissist. I tried to fix her for year's. She finally told me I will never fix her. She came close to destroying my life. I've finally said goodbye to her.

[@Sabrina-lj7ne]

I too have a narcissistic daughter. Got me to cosign her school loans and then quit her third year and sent a nasty text that said she wanted me out of her life. Left me with the tuition bill. Never saw it coming. What you saw was your daughter's mask and hoping to get her "old self" back won't happen because deep down they don't know who they are, so you never see the same person twice. It hurts but letting her go is the right thing. Stay strong and know that her decisions and predicaments are made of her own free will. God bless.

[@angelacstewart2699]

I was not discard, I figure out, co fronthim over video call, then block him and took all my resources and myself from him, it was so hard but feel so good and peaceful now 💯🙏

[@michellepurcell8703]

Andrew you are on fire today apart from the rain 🔥🔥☔️💧☔️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊💯🙏

[@maudegone1]

Yep discarded two years ago but I had realised what he was before he left. I had stopped giving away my power to him. I had learned he was a taker and boundary crasher . I am now silent towards him and very glad he left. I don’t talk much about it because unless you have gone through it you just wouldn’t get it. He has new supply. I do pray for his new supply that she will see faster than I did. 12 years!! I am a narc survivor and I give God thanks for this. God kept me sane and showed me what was going on. Your videos are important to people who need validation and beginning their healing journey. It’s amazing being free from this, I am so full of gratitude❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@Rosielee123]

Silence is Golden 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🤫🤫

[@wyldelf2685]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneboth of my siblings are severe narcissist and my mother was a Grandiose Narcissist , ,oral history about our Grandmother show that she was a malevolent narcissist , , ,🥶😬🥶😔

[@beatlebarb64]

love the word parasite - that's exactly what he is! He discarded me June 2022 - good riddance! Thanks for your wisdom!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌🙏🙌

[@darrynreid4500]

I was born into it, with the two extreme cases. What matters is not that I didn't have any choice about that, but what I chose to do with it as soon as I was able. Anyway, that's just context; what I really wanted to say is that I'm sorry that you have suffered.

[@sogalio8561]

I have learned to be very silent now around him , I don’t say anything or react to anything he says, whatever he says now go through one ear and out the other, I have learned to completely ignore him. I just wish I knew what a narcissist was 50 years ago. I learned too late and I was neiva and 17 and young and alone and scared because he isolated me from all my family and friends.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💯

[@coldalaskan1]

Your videos are so helpful. I know he’s a horrible person and sometimes it’s so difficult not to open his texts and ignore him and I know his messages will be toxic and belittling but my love for him was real, even though I know the person I loved doesn’t exist. I still sometimes hold on to the false hope that he can change. Thank you for helping me stay strong. This is probably the most painful and difficult thing I’ve ever experienced. Thank you so very much and I’m so sorry you had to go through it to help people like me. ❤

[@jhavajoe3792]

" ... even though I know the person I loved doesn’t exist." --- That statement alone, speaks of how far you've come on the awareness scale.👍👁

[@owllady88x8]

Please block them everywhere so that their texts don’t cause you pain. 😢

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯😌🙏

[@donnahalsted7718]

Truly, No Contact is the best thing you can do for yourself - and him. And DO NOT respond to a hoover! Nuf said! Blessings.

[@heatherwagar5868]

Please know you’re not alone. I feel the same 😢❤

[@serendipitystarlight]

You are on fire 🔥 What you accept is what you get. Remember that you only get one chance to live, one chance to love and one chance to learn. Be blessed.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙌💯🙏

[@rbzion777]

Bless your heart! 😢

[@notanormalgent]

❤❤❤HELLO ,HELLO THANK YOU FOR ANOTHER GREAT EPISODE…!!!! 🙏

[@macareuxmoine]

Dear Andrew, Your clear cut way about this is exactly what I needed for my peace of mind today. Here in Germany we’re big about Advent… all the weeks leading up to Christmas… and it’s hard with the memories of the family, even if they’re an evil lot. My stepfather and all the flying monkeys in my family excluded me from my mother’s funeral this summer… and now it’s my first Christmas without her. Of course the rest of the family all make sure I know how they all happily celebrate together - and ohhh how willingly they would welcome me back into the fold if only I would apologize for my wrongdoing (of calling out my stepfather for betraying my mother while she was on her deathbed). Oh well… It’s just very soothing to have your reassurance in this dark time. I hope you have a lovely holiday season!

[@emilywilson7308]

I have learned that people in general don't want the truth. I am a truth- teller too and it gets me in trouble.🔆

[@macareuxmoine]

@@emilywilson7308 A proverb from Mongolia (of all countries 😅) says that if you want to tell the truth you should have a fast horse 🐴 😅

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 💯🙌😌🇩🇪❤️

[@jodaniels8097]

​@@macareuxmoine😆 true. I like that quote 😆

[@emilywilson7308]

@@macareuxmoine😂 That's a great proverb!

[@jennifernewton4637]

OMG, be safe! ⛈️❤❤❤ you! And yes, love the rain too!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌😊💪

[@FourWinds-Nathan]

I’m feeling like I am recharging on a slow charge but getting my life force back it’s 48 hrs now and I feel like I can breathe again this is after the fifth cycle- Nathan h

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@peace_1973]

❤Thank you so Much Andrew!!!

[@noraomalleybrands]

Keep up the good work/warnings to open eyes.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜

[@janicesabatini9808]

Hi Andrew! I love the sound of the rain! Very soothing! I too, chose to walk away! The text messages finally stopped when I did not acknowledge him existence I felt free! He stopped after a while! I felt happier! Thank you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙌💯🙏

[@malcolmwaddilove1822]

She actually admitted her life goes round and round in circles two years before I was set free,now I'm a work in progress,it's not been easy I can say! But so much better,god is good all the time❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌

[@charlesmiddleton3247]

If I would have known this many moons ago... I could have had a less stressed out life and known my true self earlier. I'm three years free of one and have created boundaries for myself. Having an ex so called-brother as one, an ex-spouse ( she's married 3 more times after me), and countless acquaintances with the Narc attitude... I've now got time to nurture myself back to health and move on. Keep the knowledge coming and thanks so much for all you are doing for others. Namaste. From a Vietnam Era Marine Corps veteran and past RN.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing 😌🙏💯🙌

[@emiliamartinez3595]

Great work! Great smile! You are so spot on.

[@juniettareidhead8310]

Thank you, thank you, thank you!