When the Narcissist Realizes You Don't Want Them Back Ever, This is What Will Happen | NPD

[@janm9610]

I have no desire to get back with them but the pain of their destruction is not easy to recover from

[@sweetoneloves6811]

I know how you feel Jamm, you have to heal now and don't go back because these NARC TOXIC people never change. They want you back to finish you off completely. The one I dated, was so jealous of me that he began to cuss me out in public. That was it for me. I thought he cared for me, but all the time he did not. Yes, this really hurt me emotionally; Out of nowhere he changed on me, that is the illness of a Narcissist.. I did everything to keep him happy and I really thought the relationship was great, (in all it was not, he was wearing an evil Mask) The NARC leaves a trail of pain, the answer to rid yourself of the pain is to do something that makes you feel good. GLOW UP, no contact, and ignoring them kills a Narc. Narc does not like to see their victims do better than them, they hate it. I pray that you will heal.

[@conniemiller5125]

Never going back. I'll be going no contact

[@rebuttalc2075]

They will convince their flying monkeys that you think otherwise even when you cut them off completely. You may need a restraining order cause you know the smear campaign will ensue

[@caitlynw.2524]

I will not go back ive established no contact with this person permanently no matter how young or old Narcissists are, they don’t change for the better without professional therapy which according to psychologists say most Narc’s won’t seek the needed therapy either, due to they’re ego’s or denial there’s even anything wrong with themselves and some don’t even know they are a Narcissist too it’s best just to remove yourself from these people and they’re never ending toxic behavior

[@ginadean5696]

So true, been there. Things will gradually get better as you heal and put your energy into that. This is oppose to things getting worse by staying in contact with them. Grateful to be Narcissistic Free.

[@rosemarythyme8595]

I don’t ever recommend ticking off a narcissist because they will get the best of you in an evil way. Best thing you can do is quietly walk away, and ghost them. That’s the only thing that’s ever gotten me completely free of the narcissistic people in my life. Never give an evil person a reason to shovel more evil on you than what they already have, instead keep your dignity hold your head up and Simply walk away and never look back and soon enough you’ll be happier for it.

[@tripzville7569]

Absolutely brilliant advice, that I can assure everyone is correct.

[@MrMarthadiaz]

Absolutely not I am protecting my peace. I have no desire to ever see him again. I’m already in a relationship with myself and have no time for their childhood trauma

[@judithgilkison8604]

He wouldn't stop asking me WHY I refuse his calls and ignore him? For years and years? I simply said, calmly and quietly- BECAUSE MY LIFE IS BETTER WITHOUT YOU IN IT Talk about flipping out 🤬 he totally lost it!

[@sweetoneloves6811]

The one I dated, hated me for my education which he did not have. I never flaunted my degrees in his face, He shouted at me say "YOU THINK YOU BETTER THAN ME, BECAUSE YOU HAVE EDUCATION AND YOU KNOW EVERYTHING" Where did that come from???? I have no Idea. In public, he began to cuss me out. I could not deal with this and I left. Before I dumped him, he was going to financially help me relocate, at the last moment of moving? he did not help me, and he laughed out loud at me. I then knew this bastard was a sick one. NEVER AGAIN WILL I DEAL WITH HIM, I AM SO GLAD TO BE FREE AND HEALING.

[@sueblattner]

❤❤❤❤

[@kaygordon791]

You’re strong Queen

[@joyace9674]

They will try to come back and apologize or bring something to you to trap 🪤 you don’t ever go back stay closer to God and keep in prays 🙏🕯️

[@stephaniemarshall6788]

I'm sorry, it's a reflection of us insecurities. It seems it's the unsurety of themselves. Sad

[@jonellis6235]

Acknowledging this might make them violent. Stay away and no contact is safer.

[@nelsonvargas9527]

My peace and quiet and happiness diminishes around a narcissist .

[@MsNikkieMichelle]

Growing up were taught sticks & stones may break our bones but words but words will never harm us, and while the beginning half is true, the second one is far from. Words, mental manipulation, gaslighting, demeaning comments, verbal/emotional abuse very much hurts us and for me personally, that abuse is what really hurt me. I’ve unfortunately experienced all types of abuse however the mental warfare that was played on me and the conditioning, the constant name calling, comparing me to other women including ex’s, the highs & lows my ex had which in turn kept me so on edge and the gaslighting where I had to apologize for things I never should have. Being called mental, crazy & “Bellvue” to others as I sit in a hospital receiving iron infusions or being decimated behind my back left some scars and I have healed some (breakup was a few months ago, but I couldn’t and walked away permanently) I’m still in the healing process and rediscovering myself entirely, taking back tall that I surrendered (and did so willingly, I do take accountability for the fact that I did chose to stay and try again for over three years,) however, I am so much happier, healthier and feel such relief and freedom. To those going through it, we got this and you are all strong, talented, unique, special, beautiful and worthy! We got this 💜💜✨

[@Tashiro808]

YES, FINALLY I feel free from those sick people. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@Tashiro808]

Thank you everyone for giving your true life suffering, all these years I thought I was the only one in this world. 🙏

[@jaysonwashington8787]

Then all of a sudden they want you back and act like they have no clue "what happened".

[@margaretclark9016]

I put God first in my life. My children are my family and I do not need a man to make my life mean something. I was married for 27 years to the devil, I am not going down that road again. I have plenty of friends and family of my own to spend my time with. I do not need the headache of a man’s friends and family and children to deal with.

[@staylor8883]

BOUNDARIES ARE EVERYTHING IN ATTAINING A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP BLESSINGS TO ALL OF US ❤

[@awakeningEmpath]

just doesn’t have the same feeling / passion when a voice bot reads the narrative not to mention the frequent mispronunciations

[@AngelaRPierce]

It's been my experience that the narcissist is resistant to the idea that you are completely done with them. I have said, "I don't like you. You are not a good person. I don't want you in my life", only to be hoovered further. It occurred to me that he thought I was playing the same game that he played with me. I couldn't possibly mean those things!

[@saladfingers.]

Honestly, they just move onto new supply if they're a true narcissist. If your kettle breaks, you buy a new kettle!

[@avanellehansen4525]

Yes And mine circled back to his X kettles.

[@emiliavicquery1342]

How do you get over the fact that you're a human being who tried to be compassionate to them and to them you were just a supply. It really hurts your sense of self value in the end. That's all I'm left with being an object that wasn't enough. 😢

[@zachshipley1689]

This is the second time shes moved on to a new supply. You would think id have learned the first time😅. She had me so ao guilty i though it was my fault she had to go sleep with someone else

[@emiliavicquery1342]

Guess we are the lucky ones in the end. Toxic people, don't need them in my life. Lesson learned

[@AngelaRPierce]

​@@emiliavicquery1342 the narcissist victim ALWAYS gets the last discard, by not being hoovered again. That's how.

[@sism3028]

Thank you for another great video!

[@wilfredosaenz7755]

"I stand firm to my principle and never mingle to them anymore, cutting them in my life completely Even though my closest to my heart are involved!"

[@homelandfreedom]

Soon she will know i never want her back

[@donnahill758]

My narcissist is my sister. She is my only living relative. I hope to never see her again

[@pattyrooney1323]

Thank you for sharing this!

[@dougstobaugh376]

Thanks for your educational experience and resources and support. GOD-BLESS.

[@amandakropen3273]

They will marry the first one that comes along! She will be quite the downgrade. (Speaking from experience)

[@martevanderzee7440]

Same here.. he got a backwards walking giraffe with a cowboyhat pregnant. Better her than me.. I’m free!

[@zachshipley1689]

Lmao this is the second time shes moved to a new supply from me. They were both her co workers. When we met, we were co workers. The new guy this time is 12 years older then her(37). Still lives with his parents and makes like 17 dollars an hour at home depot. And im suppose to be jealous of that😂

[@stephaniemarshall6788]

Yay for you!! Your free of that!

[@Ravenspell3]

Let them bask in their disordered world if that's what they want...yes

[@TheMexicanObserver]

The healing is starting in my case, it's been a little difficult because i was tied to the family business that succeeded, my mother as the ceo, my financials are destroyed because i believed in this business since 1997, even before i got my bachelor degree i was 18 back then, I've never worked in another place, my mother is always devaluating me or trating me like trash in front of other employees, i started med school a year ago, but she hoovered me, asking me for help, because my brother ( the manager) was abusing her accounts, but it was all a trap. She even offered me a mortgage, because she said that she wanted me to have something of my own, now, less than 3 months into the business, nothing has changed, i was experiment a sharp pain in my hip and couldn't walk, i decided to quit, because my physical and mental health were declining.

[@nerodiamante9441]

This 'one fits all' nonsense is problematic and very dangerous. Not all narcs are the same, and congronting certain rypes of narcs can be very dangerous and risky. I pray no vulnerable person blindly follows this irresponsible narrative.

[@rhondamoody1979]

Was sick to death of his crap. Insulted his manhood or lack of. He can no longer get any sympathy here. He still stalks with binoculars. Entity

[@rhondamoody1979]

Just left my job about half hour ago. I laugh! He thinks I could ever fall for his bs Lol Never again in life . Just laugh it works.

[@stephaniemarshall6788]

Proud you did honey, it's hard to leave these ones, they harm in the worst of ways

[@LV4REAL]

Totally

[@maryamesteki2788]

Please use a conversational vocabulary next time. Easier words make audience get interested to watch your video to end. I just gave up in the middle.

[@anyname777]

3:19

[@MsJW4ever]

❤

[@stellar52]

this is just so much bs with religiousness and conspiracies here......