NARCISSIST FAMILY

[@idkstudios112]

I cannot wait for you to be seen by all- your music opens up the deep wounds that no one wants to sing about. And yet here you are ❤

[@cappyGLA]

Rory your refurbishment of your self is nothing but pure genious. You still deliver hard hitting, story telling lyrics. I know why my son in heaven liked you and I make no secret of it I do too. Never stop Roxanne the world is your oyster and how you deal with that will define you x.

[@chloeslater7231]

This has become the music I listen to when I feel impossibly alone. Incredibly grateful. x

[@cappyGLA]

Your never alone when there is a song you believe in and can totaly relate to. Thats the Rory effect.

[@lisayoung9082]

Thank you. This song hit me so hard!! I finally found the strength to cut that final branch, no contact and now I can finally start to heal.

[@simonbevan7831]

Love this song so much, you don’t realise how many people you have helped and this song especially relates to so many of us, thank you so much for helping us with your lyrics ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@cappyGLA]

Domestic disputes or even violence resonate way beyond puberty and adulthood its like a stain on your brain. I hear you and wish you might find closure one day.

[@monikagodynska7474]

I’m really glad to see your ADHD channel getting the love and recognition it deserves and I hope the same will be true for your music! You’re doing an amazing job despite all the curveballs, always remember that ❤

[@wilM26]

Wow, this touched me so deep! This is therapy Rory, you're 'allowing' people to feel those feelings that they didn't think they were allowed to have! And your voice is incredible, it's so different but perfect! Thank you for this Rory ❤ sending you love 😘

[@bottomofastairwell]

You have NO IDEA how much I relate to this. For basically my entire childhood I was verbally abused and gaslit into thinking that I was the problem, that all of the issues with our family were my fault. It got so bad I didn't want to live anymore at all. thankfully I'm doing so much better now, but I had to go no contact with almost everyone in my family except my sister. Thankfully it gets better. But songs like this always touch me in the most intense way

[@cappyGLA]

You were never the problem, the issue lays square on the floor of the abuser, never forget that. Put in it a locker in your head, walk tall and move on. I know what I ask of you is a tall order but once you enter a life without drama you will not only know the difference your body and mind will feel it too.

[@bottomofastairwell]

@@cappyGLA oh I know. It's since been a long time and I've had plenty of time to heal and move on and realize I wasn't at fault. And thankfully, I'm in a much better place now

[@cappyGLA]

@@bottomofastairwell I am a believer that mental trauma has 3 stages, first being shock, second being anger and the last that you have finaly figured it out.Sadly a lot of people dont make it past stage two, but makes me smile you did.

[@cappyGLA]

@@bottomofastairwell Every victim who can not process what is happening to them in real time for some strange reason always seem to think the issue lays at their feet. Its music to my ears to read you have survived. I always say "survived" as just like you said some people do not and yet someone that could see the path you career on choose not to intervine. Its truely sad but I am truely pleased reading this post of yours. Gods love and protection x.

[@bottomofastairwell]

@@cappyGLA oh, it's not strange for victims to place the blame on themselves at all. it's incredibly common with abuse, and that's because abusers are very good at manipulating victims into believing things that aren't true. if people could see the abuse for what it is and process it in real time, while it was happening, they wouldn't put up with that shit. but as children, especially as young children, we're hardwired to look to our parents or primary caregivers for everything. for explanations about how the world works, for answers to all our questions. we're wired to depend on those caregivers for everything and to just believe them. so of course if they're lying to us and feeding us BS, it's gonna mess with us as kids, and require some re-learning and healing. but the good news is that we CAN heal. and i'm glad i've been able to do that. all i can do is share what i've been through and hope that maybe it helps someone out there feel a little less alone

[@sazninetails1192]

Rox you are amazing, your songs speak to me and I have shared them so many times with others who all get a bit emotional as they feel heard. You and Rich have been an inspiration. Massive hugs to you both

[@cappyGLA]

Its Amazing and inspiring the age difference all the people posting on here but with one common denominator that in our youth or even our adulthood was the victim of mental collaterol. Its even more inspiring when people come out and post about their experiences. Reason being one person might feel like they are going through a mental crisis alone. Surrounded by the righ family and friends you will never be alone.

[@LoonaStarr]

You are so amazing that your lyrics speak to my childhood memories. My mother went around telling all my family that I was a schizophrenic at 2 years old. She constantly put me in mental hospitals. The doctors checked me in and checked me out, saying nothing was wrong. Then, 3 months later, she would do it again.

[@cappyGLA]

This is sad reading, I hope you have prevailed the awful sutuation you were in x.

[@andreal3239]

I shivered when you sang, cut it down!!

[@laurarosner1994]

Your songs are incredibly healing! Thank you so much! I cut ties with my mother two years ago and it’s still so hard, especially because people think it’s cruel that I cut ties with her. But they don’t see how I learned to breath again. I still feel guilty that I feel better without her. But that’s it! I feel BETTER without her. I send all the love and strength to those who are in a similar situation. You are not cruel for cutting ties in a toxic relationship. ❤

[@199520sophie]

this song has really help me get through so much .. thank you for being amazing x

[@its_r_o_r_y]

So sorry you have been through this. Appreciate the kindness x

[@mzvibe2232]

​@@its_r_o_r_y this is Epic!

[@elementscity4204]

Your songs give me chills

[@gt5590]

Thanks for this amazing worlds. This song is important to me because it represents my adolescence,I hope you will make new songs. I love playing family tree and singing it with my guitar. Love you❤️❤️❤️

[@KellyMartin0902]

You're beautiful! Your style is incredible, you are so brave ! I love everything about this! I'm glad you're speaking up! Pain stops with those willing to feel it!

[@nicollealderson5561]

This makes me turn small inside. I relate so much! Thank you for helping me feel like its not my fault....I sent this song to my parents then cut them off finally.

[@wraith3920]

Your poetry captures exactly what it’s like to have a narcissistic parent.

[@ShaunaMarieG]

Dedicated to the sacrificial black sheep of the family. We take on all the blame for all the narcissistic family problems. This is our anthem 🩵🦋 Heartbreakingly beautiful as always, Rox 🩵🙌🏻

[@Iamirxclej]

You are a gift in my life ♥ ❤

[@sarahlal5679]

Your songs are so powerful. Every. Single. One. ❤

[@meg55gem]

This totally gives, “Thanks a lot, you idiot! Thanks a lot Rachel! My charger isn’t charging my iPad and it’s all your fault! I hope that you’re happy because I told mom!” 😂

[@nataliesmith8667]

Love this song remind me so much of me and my family

[@brii.cheese]

*Wait so someone tell me if I’m right.* is the beginning someone in a toxic family telling me that? And the song is the suffering someone goes through when people say that to them..?

[@TallKulWmn1]

The opening insults are things that have been said to her. Watch her eyes, she’s still hurting even now 😢

[@joshuanewby3405]

I think if you look at it what you’ll see is someone that never even knew they were being abused, my friend.

[@kathrynn7110]

Best voice ever !

[@lsjhxxx7158]

Love you Rory ❤

[@Tricia-kp7cp]

❤ 😢 narcissistic family I hear that 🫶✌️

[@SerasXHarkonnen]

I love when people think you're just being overly dramatic when you mention childhood trauma just because you had a roof over your head and weren't going hungry doesn't mean you didn't have a rough time of it. My mum once said she had three kids, and maybe she had to sacrifice one (me) for the sake of the other two, just because I have OCD and need to shower or wash my hands more than most. I'm 30 now and it's no mistake that my family has two international trips planned this year where everyone is going except me. A middle class family isn't necessarily a good or loving family, at least not to everyone in it.

[@PoemsofaGirl]

Fuck I feel this song in my chest

[@JC-hp6pk]

Rory changed my life

[@wonderland_gothic]

Ilysm your music is beautiful 💜❤💚

[@hayleyhawn]

how have I been following your adhd page for years(?) I think and just came across this

[@LeahTalbot-bd8cf]

I can relate so much ❤

[@bhcmom7979]

Rory😢 you have 🪞 my life & I see so many others suffer the same WHY 😱 I hope you come to Texas I need to see you in person your music speaks to me more than any others has in so many years I need to scream at the top of my lungs with all your fans with you & dance I CANT WAIT YOUR GONNA GI GLOBAL🔥🖤🤘🖤🤘🖤🔥

[@taraosullivan3046]

You basically just described my family in one song, ' going to therapy so you can feel special for your problems'. When your forced into role of the black sheep and scape goat, its bloody hard to survive. Why cause every family needs someone to blame, so they dont have feel responsible for their own dysfunction. Sorry you didnt get the support you needed and deserved.

[@joannereader4918]

I wish I didn't relate to this. 😢

[@Littlegothflamingo]

I love this song so much

[@2crazed4u]

Damn got chills

[@user-ew2ti4vj8q]

Молодец. Красиво

[@Mamabearawr]

I need this song

[@jasminecoxsey1117]

Great song can relate to this so much 😔💔 beautiful singing too xx

[@melrebel0774]

What a beautiful voice❤

[@Amyjones-su4tt]

Wow👏

[@skiptastic5000]

Gods' body, I'm so grateful for your voice

[@sircalcastex5686]

wow..

[@xxxAloopzzz]

Jesus The opening speak is almost spot on what my dear mother in law have said to my wife. Either directly or through her flying monkeys.

[@larrainedeloach726]

It’s crazy how you read my mind.

[@brii.cheese]

Wait. What was that beginning. That personally insulted me. Was that literal and actually supposed to insult me…

[@johnyalencar5268]

❤❤❤

[@adavies9239]

wow!!!!!!! LOVE

[@LR-zt3bp]

I've never related to someone as much as I do with you in my entire life 🤯🖤❤️🖤

[@misssweetpea2890]

❤❤❤❤

[@aaron-AJ92]

Shes a great singer

[@sarahleach9997]

Beautiful❤

[@AnnInghamlife-goals]

Brilliant. Want to send it to a few people

[@victoriavenom8864]

Oh waw this hit!

[@its_r_o_r_y]

Thank you so much for the kindness x

[@victoriavenom8864]

@@its_r_o_r_y ah thank you for being so down to earth and replying to fans! 🥰

[@alexritchie7869]

Wow what a voice 😮

[@heschesizde3503]

...........i know this people becoz i cut my tree down! that song hit hard ! But i love that song ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@unknownartist1573]

🥰🎶🎵♥️🖤💖beautiful

[@jenfizz4312]

Oh my god.... my ex went to. rehab for gambling so i went to treatment for family members and thats exactly what they said to me 😢

[@andreacapkovicova622]

love it

[@elizabethhinklehinkle5393]

My mother's side of the family are mostly narcissists.

[@cylioacid82]

🖤💙🙏🏼💯Stuck in my Head Roxanne Emotional want to Heard trance remix noW🔥

[@kennedybarney9348]

good job wow

[@valsonder]

fuck. i do not really realise how much of my internalised bullshit is cultural until this hits harder than an american-accented version ever would- yeah. being told therapists find something wrong with everyone, that's it's just overly sensitive coddling. yeah. we all deserve so much better.

[@mysterygirl1606]

I was blamed for literally everything...to the point that my dad's heart attack was my fault. Couldn't possibly be the amount he ate. 5 portions of fajitas. No it had to be me...I was grounded for something his family's medical history and his eating habits caused.

[@Madison0193]

wtfrick, I'm so sorry, that's so messed up

[@Madison0193]

wtfrick, I'm so sorry, that's so messed up

[@soulcenterhealinghypnosis]

Trauma is Trauma.. fuck them and what people say.. feelings are feelings x

[@Lipsa-w]

i love you rory❤❤

[@vinnieversecollections4916]

Can't wait for the 12th in bristol

[@user-do8nj1gt7z]

U just dug into my problems and threw it up on my fake family

[@esticobersy7718]

Does the Queen reply?

[@laurenpounds9537]

@rory literally saved my life I hope one day to meet that thank you personally you and your and husband. I helped me save my marriage. Thank you jesus!!!!!!!!🙏🏻🙌🙌🙌🙌🎤🎙🎬💯🏁🥰

[@alexandraf11]

Sounds like my husband

[@afreenk4825]

Name of the song

[@eveeartistry]

Family tree

[@museluvr]

She has a point. Now, please do away with the blue hair... your natural is beautiful.

[@pandulce4447]

Are you the ADHD girl too?

[@ariadukat]

It is beautiful ❤ 🥀 🍒