Narcissists Are Predictable! 10 Things All Narcissists Say

[@NarcSurvivor]

Narcissists can be very predictable, as they all act in a very similar way. Once you’ve seen one, you’ve pretty much seen them all.

[@addie8292]

I'm learning this to be true. If someone reminds me of family then I know they are a narcissist.

[@vibekes2416]

So true 😊

[@MH-cv5ye]

Good to see you here, narc survivor! Welsh mafia. ✔😎

[@metalphobos3632]

100%. Theyre delusional, they bully, never take accountability, they're selfish, they gas light, they insult and live in denial. They also never apologize and are never wrong. They project they're own bs on everyone else. Not only do they lack empathy, but enjoy watching you hurt and fail. They're literally poison.

[@carriefriedman6553]

@@metalphobos3632 💯 TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@goldilocks3593]

“You will never find another person like me.” DEAR GOD I HOPE NOT 😂🤣

[@annebos4634]

PLEASE promise me❣️❣️❣️

[@julia7711]

😂😂

[@paulzedx636ninja7]

Goldilocks beautiful words. 🤩

[@Joe-dd6hk]

Thank Goodness! Finally an honest statement from the Narc...🤔🙏

[@jamilaakhtar2553]

@@Joe-dd6hk Lol 😂

[@erikaa3181]

What they NEVER say : “I’m sorry, I was wrong “.

[@theaklein4039]

Well... coverts do... but its also a fake. Actions its all in the action. They feel... at the moment but its not true. Very confusing.. thats why cognitive dissonance happens.

[@journeyswake2527]

Even if they do say sorry,, it is empty, void, of no effect, worthless.

[@jandrews6254]

Well, to be honest, he did apologise to the cat for stepping on her tail. For strangling me to the point of black out, no I was overreacting

[@joanvoss7512]

absolutely they can never admit to anything because they are such cowards

[@carolinesand9711]

Erika A. Or if he does, it lasts only 3-4 days. Now I don’t believe it from the beginning !

[@tamething1]

"You'd never make it without me. No-one else would have you." Left him, and have been with the same sane man for 17 years and counting.

[@nothanks8305]

I'm sick remembering him saying that to me me while he was openly depleting my life-force and secretly draining my savings account. I'll be happy if he ever shows up on the news for finally getting karma

[@nothanks8305]

@Chinh Phan Whatever many attractive young women would be happy to date a sane older man!

[@nothanks8305]

@Chinh Phan Hahaha single is better!

[@nothanks8305]

@Chinh Phan That sucks though. They're all the same

[@BlkOnyx0508]

You give me HOPE 🙌

[@ellebee9864]

Some Narc statements to add: 1. I don’t know what you are talking about. 2. I would remember if you told me that. 3. You’re overthinking things. 4. That’s not what I said. (Don’t twist my words.) 5. This is what you wanted. 6. Don’t blame that on me. 7. I never said that. 8. I don’t have time for your little mind games. 9. I just have a lot going on right now (when they avoid you or ignore your attempts to contact them.) 10. Sorry you feel that way. (The faux-pology.)

[@toneman335]

Don't forget 1) You are too sensitive and 2) I don't remember anything you just said that I did or said.

[@carolsmith7947]

They try to say you are MAD, then say " I'm happy at work, I'm happy at home, thank you," you dont even have to ask them, "I dont know what you are mad about" (texting me & I wasnt mad at all) huh? Just trying to get you mad?

[@mahery3000]

all the time

[@EvaofGod]

My dad and grandma have said all of these

[@chrisparis6286]

I agree 💯

[@jokerproduction5135]

Ever argue with one and they change the context of the argument ??? So you dont even know what its about

[@tamething1]

All the time!

[@neowise3480]

Oh, oh, oh. Oh hell yes! He will just pick on a word in my sentences and derail the entire conversation because of some random, inconsequential reason and start a fight. And finally, if I manage to find my way back to the original issue, I'm indulging in circular conversation. Also, him doing this and as he sees me get agitated, saying that 'he isn't going to let me suck him in"

[@shawneegirl1980]

Bruh....

[@jameslacroix1028]

Yes circular conversation from hell you have a valid point and they keep changing the subject and when that doesn't help they use verbal abuse and word salad and arguments never get resolved and you wake up and your brain is hurting and your exhausted

[@elockett4367]

Yess! What kind of shit is that LMAO. I'm thinking "let's pull that back" and try again bcus I know I'm not crazy.

[@Kayenne54]

Old Chinese saying "You cannot wake someone who is pretending to sleep".

[@SignatureFox713]

Kayenne54 New America, “Unless he wears a diaper, you can’t change him”

[@ayaohae7080]

Wowww this is a powerful message

[@alwayslevitated9089]

@@ayaohae7080 RIght..!! I heard the first one regarding "pretending to sleep," never applied to the concept of narcissism though..!! I'm archiving both of these in relative respect to the "Demonic Toddlers" in my life..!! 👶🏽=😈 Keep it readily available like having one in the chamber for Dat'Azz..!! 🔫 Phucking Ayyyeee..!! ✈..🤘🏽..😎

[@ServantStatusMinistries]

Brilliant statement. It reminds me of when I would tell people that you can’t fight a war that is not real when I talk to protesters and people who make up stories and events in order to be a victim.

[@bandeleganiyu7596]

Child in an adult body RIGHT ON! A relationship with narcissist? Welcome to Crazy-Town

[@aehrmartinez7062]

And it's very tiring.

[@KathieHeartsYouu]

When you’ve been stressed about something and they ignore you when you talk about it then snap because they’re tired of your “negative energy exhausting their emotional labor”

[@mcostasb23]

“There are more hope for a fool than for people who think they are wise”-Proverbs 26:12

[@jasjas8232]

very wise comment 😂

[@sianmegginson8110]

Its never their fault when they fly into a rage its because you caused it. In domestic violence abusers always blames the victim for their out of control violence.

[@mahaffeylevi5067]

Deal with a female covert narc. Get triangulated they passive aggressively flaunt their affair an when you fly into a rage set you up to look abusive an controlling by recording you after they provoke a reaction. This is a very common tactic from women narcs. They know if they can get their partner to look abusive they can pretty much get victim status regardless of the situation.

[@ericking4072]

@@mahaffeylevi5067 MY EX NARC HAS BEEN GONE FOR A WEEK.SHE FREAKED OUT&COPS&AMBULANCE CAME.THEY HAULED HER OFF SHE CLAIMED SHE WAS GONNA OD ON MEDS.SHE LEFT HER PHONE HERE&IT BLEW UP WITH TEXTS FROM HER 2 NEW SUPPLY GUYS.I LET HER KNOW I KNEW&THANK GOD I HAVEN'T SEEN HER SINCE.....CHANGIN LOCKS ON HOUSE TODAY!

[@sianmegginson8110]

@@mahaffeylevi5067 Yes this happened to my son she played the victim she attacked him and then filmed him defending himself and the police believed her as the victim. Nasty!

[@mahaffeylevi5067]

@@sianmegginson8110 mine did it to blackmail me after I realized her affair an asked her about loads of missing money. Did that an using kids as leverage.

[@sianmegginson8110]

@@mahaffeylevi5067 Disgraceful narcs always play the victim to victimize others. Your well out of it, feel sorry for your children

[@theeternalrainchild]

Omg when I left my narcissistic ex he said "You'll never find someone like me!" and I told him "I pray your right!" SMH

[@panthakurai5267]

UN.. DER.. RATED! ✌️😗

[@Kayenne54]

Sadly, there's so many of them it is rarer to find someone who is NOT like them.

[@bethpiltz3872]

If you aren’t in a romantic relationship they say things like: 1. After everything I’ve done for you! 2. EVERYONE thinks you are... Everyone is saying you are... Everyone has told me...about you. I have learned from my A#1 narcissist all about how they use the words Everyone to manipulate those around them, so when my B#2 narcissist came along and I told him “no” I recognized this right away. Especially because he only met two people. 3. I could have been... we could have been... we could have...if you just... 4. You ALWAYS Just thought I would throw a couple of things out there in case you aren’t in a romantic relationship and your narcissist is a relative or neighbor.

[@MelanieToniaEvans]

Thank you for sharing Beth xoxox

[@mirrortoyourweakness9769]

You have to be careful here because there are people who are SURROUNDED BY narcissists and sociopaths and THEY are the kind, thoughtful, empathic and oblivous person. That was me until about a couple of years ago. I had NO idea what a narcissist was and that the weird 'happenings' I was picking up was because nearly all of the people around me were devoid of emotion, empathy or were malignant narcissists or sociopaths. Once I learned? I realized how to spot them and stay away. The problem is... narcissists and sociopaths THEMSELVES can't pick up and detect emotion well. So if they encounter an empath who legitimately brings these things up (not chronically but sometimes) they won't see what the empath sees. They will say things like, "oh stop whining", or " that's just how they are" or NOT get upset in the SLIGHTEST when they should be seeing the same, sociopathic signst he empath is... Your list here is lacking in that it is very generalized. There are scenarios when the very person describing what a narcissist IS , might be one themselves.

[@nancythornton2947]

A sister in law. These are spot on. 👌

[@bullitt0713]

You you you. It’s always about you. Omg! He would say that to me ALL the time. I would do everything for this man...financially and emotionally. It’s crazy how nothing was never enough and if I needed the smallest thing, he would yell at me and tell me how selfish I was.

[@mangakamaiden]

My narcissist brother would say ‘stop shouting at me’ when I wasn’t, I was just talking normally. He would also call me selfish, which always bugged me. I realise now he was projecting

[@bandeleganiyu7596]

Me too! Mostly every single thing in the narcissist repertorie I experienced. He was defining me in a way that is not n ven me, no one else (friends/family) described in his way. Gas-lighting me into believing his negative narrative.

[@SH-vk6fg]

Lool my older brother was a narcissist too

[@rain3743]

I was called "the MOST selfish bitch in the world." LOL

[@rebeccacarr9367]

I got this too. During a generally quiet conversation, he'd say, 'you're screaming at me and the window is WIDE OPEN, all the neighbours will hear you, how embarrassing!' 😳 All while I'm not shouting or making a scene at all, and the window is on it's first latch. Far from being wide open! Making a scene more dramatic than it is, so he can convince himself that his reactions and behaviour is justified. It makes him think he has a reason for being so immature and nasty. Another example; Driving into the work carpark and he had a full blown meltdown over the fact I turned left (as that's the way I go on a night). When I asked, 'does it really matter which way I go through the carpark?', he aggressively says, 'Yes, it does, there are spaces over there, why go this way?'. It was false habit. On a night, we park along the fence for security so we don't trigger alarms parking elsewhere. So driving in during the day, I just drive the way I usually do. It really makes no difference. My window was still open from scanning my pass and when I said to him, 'stop making an argument over the way I drive into work, it really is ridiculous', I was met with, 'You're making a scene, your window is open and you're shouting, everyone at work can hear you. I was happy this morning and you've ruined my day now!!' Dude, what? It seemed like he had already started off with a bad day and just wanted a reason to blame it on someone else and started a pathetic argument to get his frustration out. Using me as a way to get his anger out and find someone to blame. Made him feel better. So he walks off into work all victimised as though I'm the one who's done him wrong, while im trying to gether myself And figure out wtf just happened. I'd be driving him to see his son and he would make passive aggressive comments about my driving. He crashed his car years ago and chooses not to drive, yet he is VERY quick to comment every five minutes, telling me I'M a terrible driver. For example, going round a roundabout properly so I don't cut up the person on the inside. He would say that the person waiting to enter the roundabout, thinks im turning left, so i should just cut straight across if i want to go ahead. Erm no? I use my indicators to show people where I'm going. I'm following the lane around the roundabout as you're meant to. That happened often and I was met with nasty, aggresisve tantrums! Looking back at that, its actually quite vile. Being told I'm a shit driver for moving over to the next lane to allow someone to merge from the sliproad! Being told, 'you need to learn how to fucking drive'. Wait a minute. If you're on a motorway and you see a vehicle driving on the slip road, wanting to join the motorway, you move over if you are able to, to allow them easy access to the motorway. Then, when its safe, you move back in. Everyone does that! Its general driving etiquette. I once had enough and replied, 'you crashed your car, you choose not to drive, I'm taking you to see your son and all you do is criticise everything I do. If you hate my driving that much, get your own fucking car or go on your mums insurance and use her car'. It hit a nerve and I got lectured for the rest of the hours drive about how he doesn't want to drive and cant afford a car because of his child maintenance payments and how out of order I was for reminding him of his truth! I forgot I had to stay quiet, take his shit, his criticism, passive aggressive comments and listen to his nasty comments every time he got in my car! How dare I push back and tell him how out of order he is for being so rude when i was doing something FOR HIM. An hour and 10 minute drive each way and then driving around to take them to the park while there. What an absolute mug I was. He has an answer to everything. An excuse for everything. Even when asked, 'was that behaviour necessary', he shouts, 'YES' And also told me a year ago that the film, 'I Am Nicola', isn't emotional abuse at all. One major red flag for me and enough for me to realise that, if someone can watch that film and say there's no emotional, narcissistic or mental abuse in it, there's something seriously wrong with them! The absolute toxicity is mind bending. Unbelievable. Quite simply unbelievable. I will struggle immensely, returning to normal (if normal exists for me anymore) those are just a few small examples of the shit I dealt with. All while thinking it was my fault. Was it heck. I look back at my experience with him now and I realise his exes weren't crazy. He pushed them to their absolute breaking point. When they lost their shit, he claimed to be the victim. Disgusting. I dont rise to the bait. Keep cool, head down. Be nice when i can because thats who I am, and I refuse to let an absolute waffle turn me into a bad person. I will move on being happy and confident ice made the right choice to end it. 5 years of that shit and I move out with my son next month. I CANT WAIT. X

[@kellymiller6916]

Omg my brother is same way!! So glad I watched this video and looked at comments!! I'm not alone!! My brother says exact same thing to me and I mean exact! Wow

[@Andromeda_M31]

My covert ex only stonewalled and gave the silent treatment. Sometimes snide remarks but mostly setups like hiding my car keys and super sneaky with everything.

[@jamilaakhtar2553]

This is spot on! When I said to the narc can we talk please he said "here we go again!" And then he completely changed the conversation, eventually when I had the courage to break up with him he said " no one will ever love you like me" by then I was educated on narcasisum so I just laughed in his face! 😁

[@bandeleganiyu7596]

GOOD FOR YOU!

[@DatsexiVAChick]

Lol way to go im sure he felt stupid

[@makethatchangelifecoaching4009]

He use to say that too and roll his eyes

[@picassokattreasures4058]

OMG!!!! I have had that "It's always about you" speech thrown at me. Everything is always about the narc.....every conversation...everything. If you take your attention off of them for even a moment...they become unhinged. It is a terrible way to live.

[@micheleparker2761]

Wow this is so very true thank you for this video I honestly thought and questioned my whole entire life I really did think I was the bad person and I was going crazy I think I escaped just in time I am still learning about all of this I don't know why because I have left him two years ago but I still feel the Sting from all of this I feel disconnected like somehow I am not living just watching myself with every day that goes by..

[@Alliaaa]

OMGGGG !!!!!! yes! i had no idea....i was so gaslighted i thought i was the narcissist! omg! dont listen to them they are demons in human skin

[@scottiebones]

Yep, experienced the same thing, can never have a conversation about yourself it's ALWAYS about them and how chaotic they are

[@peachescastle6659]

Alliaaa I felt like this as well. Like maybe it’s me who’s the narc here?? I questioned my own sanity. Then I realised that at least I was questioning myself. The narc will NEVER question if it’s them? They will fight to the bitter end to deny any of it.

[@VickiBee]

They're like a mechanical person: You wind them up and they say "I love you" - to themselves.

[@bmoremom8458]

Projections: accusations are confessions! I started learning about narcissist abuse after the narcissist accused two people (“targets”) of being “covert narcissist!” Now I understand their dysfunctional behaviors and how to defend myself. Thanks!

[@firegirljen]

“‘It doesn’t matter what they think about you, it matters what YOU think about you.” Yaaasss.💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 Another great video. Thank you! Am enrolled in the Jan 22 class. Looking forward.

[@PatriciaSobralArtz]

"You're the only person that I ever had this problem with, I never had arguments with any other woman." He also used to say "You want to be right, or you want to be happy?" every time I tried to reason with him.

[@SpicySpinach]

Oh God I feel sick to my stomach I said that once too but only because I only haf those stupid arguments with him and with nobody else.

[@ajh757]

Me, in the middle of one of his rages that was so bad it seemed like he was ending the relationship: "Are you saying it's over?" Him: "No, I love you and I want to be with you." Wtf? All I had done was remind him not to mix the cupcake batter for too long or they wouldn't rise in the oven. Talk about a hairline trigger. Wow. I guess he wanted the blue sippy cup and I gave him the red one. Poor baby. Good riddance.

[@picassokattreasures4058]

And I thought I was the only one who had the narc blow up over the most simple of things. Of course, THEY can shove advice down your throat every second of every day but if you make a small suggestion or observation? BOOM! Everything goes from zero to MISERY is 5 seconds.

[@ajh757]

@@picassokattreasures4058 Oh yes. At first I just thought he had a bunch of pet peeves that I was accidentally and coincidentally stepping on. But it was around the cupcake incident time I heard the message, "It will always be something with him. It will be unpredictable, you will never know, and you will have to walk on eggshells for the rest of your life if you stay with him." I'm just over 3 months no-contact, and I broke up with him vs. the other way around. He hoovered from every angle including drunken booty call texts, telling me I'm a "great mom", wishing me a Happy Halloween, until I finally got a new phone number. He's pathetic. A small, creepy man. A coward. Nothing in him is a match for anything in me anymore.

[@hectorcastro347]

April Heidtbrink lies

[@JC-jp7uz]

OMG I love what you wrote below April: "Nothing in him is a match for anything in me anymore." And here's to hoping others simply say "Nothing in him/her is a match to anything in me" and don't even begin a relationship with someone like that, so that they don't have to add the "anymore"!

[@aprillund5337]

He does this to me to.. over the littlest dumbest shit.. now I'm just like I didnt need all that other shit I just wanted to know when I can get in the bathroom.. I on repeat say a simple question requires only a dime answer.. He always says" well i always have to explain myself because of how you are"

[@JohnDoe-gq3tm]

Narcs use tons of blanket statements that you could apply to any situation: No one's perfect I didn't know I'm suppose to live up to your expectations Do you ever get over anything / let anything go? I'm not obligated to make sense to you You'll be sorry when I'm dead I may ( FILL IN THE BLANK ) but I always admit to my mistakes The sheeple / idiots ( FILL IN THE BLANK ) You're judging me They constantly brag, gloat, demean, and dismiss others while patting themselves on the back with a superior attitude. If you're like I was - You'll mistake it for confidence and miss the haughty vibe they consistently give off. Notice the patterns and read between the lines. Narcs have a superficial understanding of what virtue is. They'll label themselves with virtuous titles ( Christian, Gentleman, Social Justice Warrior, Empath etc ) yet their actions won't line up in a meaningful way. They're just going through the surface level motions of whatever role they're playing. I do believe Narcs lie to themselves. They truly believe they live up to their virtuous labels / False selves. I'm realizing that truly confident people are more subtle in their presentation of themselves. Their presence isn't so noticeable. Even weird interesting people can still be reserved in their demeanor and online presence. Just because someone has strong opinions doesn't mean they have to blast them loudly. I use to think people who did that were brave and honest for being themselves so openly. But now I see it for what it is: The arrogance to ram one's opinion down everyone's throats in the smuggest way possible on a regular basis. I now see that I've actually been attracted to Narcissists. And even had some Narc qualities myself. I use to look down on normal people. But not anymore! I see that the "sheeple" are simply considerate, positive, and productive. I think the reason I was attracted to Narcs is because I couldn't see my own Narcissistic thought patterns. Dismissing most people as boring for instance - I blamed them for not being able to relate to me - When really I didn't put much effort into relating to them. Thankfully I can truly heal myself now =)

[@AV-fx8kv]

I had to laugh so hard after this comment because I've heard all of this and didnt even know at the time what a narc was or why it was so mind fucking

[@cindydorsett7004]

Perfect Description. I’ve Heard the Bragging until I’m Sock of it. The Dismissive Behavior, Hell, he Had interrupted one of his Friends So much it was embarrassing, Let the MAN, talk!

[@TheCommentBandit]

For me, he always made me break up with him in person since “that’s the only decent way to do it”. And guess who got seduced and sucked back in every time she met up with him in person? Yeah. Sex is a powerful tool, and being with them is like having an addiction. You can break up with them over text, it’s normal to feel that you can’t do it over the phone or in person. No contact is like a huge breathe of fresh air, stay strong.

[@jcsrst]

I just realized that's a cat and NOT a pillow. Thanks for another great vid!

[@jamilaakhtar2553]

Lol I thought the same!😁

[@jamilaakhtar2553]

@@katrinas8345 Lol 😁

[@byekk2251]

I thought those flowers was a duster....SEE! The narcs have really screwed with our reality 🤪

[@Cate7451]

jcsrst what! I will have to go back and watch! Lol!

[@abigailslade3824]

jcsrst reminds me of my first cat who I of course adored, I loved all my pets but my first cat had a special place in my hear

[@michaelhesketh9480]

My ex narcs favourite phrase."change why should I change, I'm perfect".

[@chaseback5102]

I heard that before.. not the “I’m perfect part” but I have heard the other...

[@krazeemetalchickstewart9961]

That is a good juicy statement they say

[@catherinehenderson1907]

There laughable

[@EB-oe9kw]

“Youll never find another person with a heart like mine!” Geeeesh, i would hope Not !😂😂😂😂😂

[@jocelyndevereaux2964]

Haha... I told mine, if I can’t find better than you then I prefer to die alone.

[@BellaBelleBella]

@@jocelyndevereaux2964 amen

[@angelica6560]

It really is all one big mind game.

[@samantha5600]

My ex actually told me when we met he loved to play mind games. Oh what I wish my 20 year old self knew what I know now. 🥴

[@angelica6560]

@@samantha5600 Lol i know , they always accuse you of what they do! They are an absolute joke for humans!

[@MH-cv5ye]

Their minds are a dumpster. Win, lose, or draw.... It's a filthy, stinky game.

[@angelica6560]

@@MH-cv5ye that is all they have in life a game

[@susanwhipple2345]

Pardon the language... A mind fuck

[@nooshi6698]

My ex did all of these things and more. Looking back, he was so predictable. I wish I knew how to recognize a narcissist back then but I didn’t even know what the term meant. All I knew was that I wasn’t crazy and his behavior was toxic. I can spot a narcissist a mile away now.

[@DarthShadie]

Number 2, he used to always say to me: "You'll never find someone willing to stay with you, willing to commit to you, because you're undeserving, whereas I'm willing to stay with you even though..." For the longest time I thought I'd never find the relationship I wanted to have. I found it! :)

[@candacecasey5634]

What an egotistical jerk

[@candacecasey5634]

Glad that you escaped

[@trishabee2229]

Yes at the very end I couldn’t take it anymore. He was sitting calling me names and saying how lazy I was, I was doing the dishes ( I had pneumonia) and I had to step it up. And if I just apologized to him and Agee to step it up we could get back to loving each other?!?! I said I had enough. He said “You would think I would be done with you”!

[@janetstonerook4552]

We should vote on which one we feel is the most popular with them. I'd go for "You have an issue with trust!" when you catch them cheating on you.

[@bohunkjunk2514]

I'm with " I've never had this problem with anyone else" or "you're the only one who thinks this way and has an issue" something along those lines

[@mirrormirror3414]

Mine got his friend to lie to me and convinced me he had a txt tracker in me phone...and when I blew a gasket and they finally told the truth while laughing his a$$ off, had the gaul to tell me "You wouldn't have embarrassed yourself if you trusted me more". ...wtf? They just got someone to bald face lie to me with them and played me and Then suggested I wouldn't have made a fool of myself if I trusted them more???!!!?? Are you kidding me?!!

[@janetstonerook4552]

@@mirrormirror3414They have no shame and lack boundaries...😣

[@carolynricardo8104]

When I say I need to talk to you he answers, “Why, what have I done now?” Is that what a narcissist would say.

[@bangkokstevie]

Number 5....when you finally get proof...."you always thought the worst anyway".

[@Kelly-oe8kr]

"You need to stop being so secretive" from the person who twists every word and mines for any information they can use against you in the future. Self-preservation is not being secretive, the problem is you're a narchole! These people are NEVER worth the trouble, get out asap!

[@PixieNixxArt]

Mine used the word 'disgusting' a lot. I'm glad I filmed him on my phone, I have so much evidence of his abuse for the courts. Divorce date is in a few weeks, I'm so relieved and happier already after only 2 months of no contact!! It is possible, I promise you. Be safe x

[@PixieNixxArt]

No more being pushed around. Just have to replace my doors now 😊 He called me selfish too, told me he'd kill himself if I left, etc. I'm so much better off just me and my lovely doggo ❤️

[@annebos4634]

@@PixieNixxArt Yes they always DEMAND their way no matter what but *other* people are selfish 🙄

[@PixieNixxArt]

@@annebos4634 hé called me selfish allll the time. If I didn't give him money he'd steal it from my account. He literally slammed a door into my already damaged spine. And all the while trying to coerce me into having a child with him. Noooope

[@treefrog0826]

put your evidence on a disk to use the phone they might want to keep it because of the evidence on it

[@PixieNixxArt]

@@treefrog0826 good idea, I think I'll be ok because it's allll online in a secret drive so I can literally just email the link to them. Technology has made it easier to be safe in a lot of ways!

[@goodgracious6364]

The narc I knew would grimace and shout, "What's wrong with you!" anytime I asked him a simple question--it was just another way for him to deter and control a conversation. Glad I escaped that madness for good!

[@chloenealy3926]

This is so true. Everytime my ex did something that made me uncomfortable, I would simply bring it to his attention. It always turned into an argument as if my feelings had to be validated by him. I was told I must be insecure and that I must have trust issues from other relationships and I was just projecting them on to him (not true). He doesn't accept accountability for anything. If he he did something he knows I wouldn't appreciate, he would say it was because of something I did. He always had issues with people at work. If I tried to point out how he could've handled a work issue differently he would take it as an attack. When we would disagree about something, if I even slightly raised my voice (out of getting worked up/excitement, not even yelling) he would firmly say "talk to me with some respect ". When he broke up with me, he tried to make me feel like it was all my fault. I have never encountered someone who acted like this. I literally had to get a therapist after my relationship with him.

[@tonyjohnson2808]

Anytime you raise your voice over a whisper, they have a problem, while they speak loud trying to get attention smh!

[@MadiRoss91]

Thank you dearly for sharing this 🙏 I hope you find someone who deserves you. This is very similar to what I experienced.

[@thisissarah815]

This channel has helped my confidence and over-all well being so much. My mother is the narcissist in my life. That is so painful, your own mom should be a person you can trust and count on no, matter what. Now I know that it's ok, even necessary to separate myself from her so that I can heal. I'm not a bad person for wanting to be treated with respect. To know that I don't have to feel guilty and to know it's not my fault she can't love me is so freeing. I have the tools to begin to heal myself because of you. Thank you so very much!

[@greenspider1598]

Don't let her use the guilt to get you back my mother was the most violent most dangerous person I've ever known in my life no matter what happens don't let her Hoover you back it will only get worse

[@chrisw9122]

The..."You are the only one I have problems with." No one has ever said that to me. Only the narc. I tried setting boundaries...it was such a problem. Definitely crazy making. They are textbook.

[@tamething1]

Chris W : Same here.

[@tamething1]

Chris W : Same here. "You are the hardest person to get along with that I've ever met!" said the guy who regularly trashed his friends when they were out of earshot, and went ballistic over trivialities.

[@missme2554]

Yep same here

[@nardonard6568]

1000% facts

[@pippipster6767]

11) not even saying anything - but just laughing in your face as you desperately try and retain your sanity and discuss things calmly and fairly (impossible.)

[@sunshinedayz7032]

Yes! He would say that I was the only one that he had that problem with.(my bringing up hurtful behavior and then he would go ballistic on me) But he had a long line of people that he would blow up over. Kids, co workers, family, etc. My ex narc said and acted in all of the ways that you spoke of. So glad to be free.

[@samantha5600]

Me too! I actually talked to his co-workers and they would ask if he was an asshole to me, so many warning signs over the years, yet I stayed for my kids and financial security. But I have been free almost a year now!

[@sunshinedayz7032]

@@samantha5600 that is awesome! I have been free 10 months. We did not live together and I was independent from him. But it was still difficult emotionally to break up. We had been together 8 years. So much love bombing Nd future faking and then abuse. Months of good, then a week of horrible. Cycles like that over and over. Plus the cheating and total disrespect and disregard. I had to move on ame heal.

[@kristinnoguera8632]

Omg. I’ve heard that same line. Just recently after I cut him off bc of his verbal abuse and calling me obsessively. 15 times in a row after I said I wouldn’t talk to him. He literally said exactly that. “I have never had these problems with anyone and no one has ever accused me of what you accuse me of (narcissism).”

[@samantha5600]

@@kristinnoguera8632 which is such BS because I can't tell you how many people asked me how I could put up with my ex. They are delusional...

[@kristinnoguera8632]

S I’ve actually considered contacting one of his exes bc I wanted to prove he was wrong but I was like no. Just leave it alone. I know the truth.

[@mirrormirror3414]

"Child in an adults body" OMG yes!!!

[@meacomefeyou]

NO a trash bag goes off no matter what age. Don't vilify with shallow comments based in lies. I was and still remain a good, sweet person then as a child and now.

[@1-Goose-On-The-Loose]

I have better luck dealing with my mom looking at her like a 45 year old with the emotional intelligence of a five year old, rather than a full adult. She doesn’t even have NPD, she just has narcissistic traits.

[@sama3033]

I just signed up for the masterclass and looked through some of the bonus materials. Thank you so much for the clearest analysis of how a altruistic (covert?) narcissist thinks and behaves. I've read countless articles and watched hundreds of videos on the subject but still had some profound a-ha moments while listening to your presentation. This describes exactly how my partner behaved. Trying to make sense of the discard phase almost broke me; how could that perfect, loving being turn into a living nightmare overnight? I think I finally get it, thanks to you. The healing has begun and I am stronger due to what I have discovered. No contact people; it's the only way.

[@projectmcsquare2149]

Mine said I would die without him... well I’m alive and happy alone for three years

[@kynathomas4809]

Amen!!!!!👏👏👏

[@marciajohnson339]

I'm proud of YOU!!

[@lauren4933]

You’re a survivor 🙏

[@melissad169]

Mine said the same. 72 days later and I'm so HAPPY. Went from depressed to happy. I never thought I would be.

[@smurfmama2020]

"I can't talk to you you're so angry".. I hated that one.. after he ignited such anger and invalidated that his discarding me and deciding to stop talking to me overnight would make me hurt and angry. " if you call me during my silence ( he claimed he needed time to think about the relationship.. stopped talking to me for months), you will be galvanizing your chance at a second chance." I was in absolute pain at his sudden silence.. and I would galvanize my chance at a second chance!? forget that.. get healthy, heal and know your worth. " at first I extolled your virtutes, but when things began to sour, so did I " I had no clue things had " soured " between us until discard. his words would cut like a knife the very few times I spoke to him after discard.

[@sunshinedayz7032]

Oh my goodness! Same! My ex did that to me, too. Over and over. He would abandon me and ignore me for days and days. If I reached out, I was punished more. If I did not reach out, I was punished for not reaching out. Crazy making for sure So damaging. so hurtful. They only care about themselves. They think that we are there to serve them.

[@lenovo1851]

seoreh I remember when I first learnt meditation & deep slow calm breathing techniques, which I would start to do the moment I saw him stamping & pacing like a rhino, in the need of a big fight for supply. So because he couldn’t lure me to the angry state he needed he started telling me my calm slow voice was ‘not normal’ & that ‘I needed to speed up my speaking’ even giving examples as I sat calm breathing in my bed with my back turned on his tantrum 😂 While I sat there realising the truth of ‘our arguments’ as he rhino stampeded up & down my living room, himself becoming angrier & angrier because I would not come out of my calm meditative breathing....... 😌 Not long after that, & also after much attempted narc lecturing that my calmed state was ‘not normal’ ‘looked & sounded stupid’ & how ‘nobody did that’ etc etc’ I irritated him further by playing positive calming spiritual meditation music, & the narcissist began to express that he ‘couldn’t be near someone like me’ & that ‘there was something wrong with me’ ‘because being around me gave him a headache’. Luckily for me I realised that it was my raised vibration that the narc was becoming allergic to, my own changed state was repelling him, & I gotta admit it was kinda humouring to see him try his absolute best to get me to drop my vibration down to a level he could feed from, As I was starting to figure out that what we energetically embody ourselves energy wise really does become what we attract or repel...... Unfortunately I hadn’t fully learn my lessons that I needed to, so attracted another narcissist, & this time around it wasn’t until I had fully set my own intention of wanting nothing to do with him did he stop unwantedly being around all the time, which also taught me the power of our own intention ❤️🙏🏼🕊💫

[@poncandn1]

@@lenovo1851 Uggghhh....!! (shudder) ', (

[@greenspider1598]

And when you stop caring and when that person has no more power over you and when you move on with your life that's when they'll try to get you back because they lost all control over you

[@greenspider1598]

@Beauty and Fashion By Erika of course you're not allowed to be angry around them because you're supposed to accept their reality and their abuse by the way something happened to me at work the other day where someone was dismissing me told me not to speak not bother the customers I went right up to the customer shook his hand and we started laughing the person I work with got very angry and actually pushed me out the door all the years of narcissistic abuse trained me and condition to me to accept that type of abusive behavior towards me many years ago I would have accepted that I would have walked out I'm very upset saying to myself what did I do wrong oh no I'm going to get in trouble at work let's just say something inside me snapped and I refuse to accept that behavior towards me it ended with me yelling at the top of my lungs telling this person are you out of your fucking mind in front of the customers I told this person who the hell do you think you are telling me you're telling me that I'm not allowed to speak to people let alone you putting your hands on me are you out of your fucking mind years ago I would never have the strength to stand up for myself like that now forget it the next day I got a text with an apology from him I told him he needed to learn to relax a little bit and ended it with what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas in other words we can leave that ever happened in the shop stays in the shop I was actually proud of myself I felt so good lashing out I felt so good recognizing my voice and I feel so good developing boundaries and standards for myself I have literally been pushed around my entire life I've been there at this job for 12 years people like me and respect me I have value I met her at my job and I met her at home I will not be dismissed once you are fully recovered from narcissistic abuse he will never be a victim ever again

[@con2mms2000]

Know I understand why she knows a lot of people but haves just a few friends.

[@morecapital3321]

I remember my abuser called me fragile for reacting emotionally to his verbal abuse… he said I was fragile. Gaslighting at its finest.

[@shannonmckenna7139]

Just now starting to heal from my ex Narc. The more I see things for what they actually were, the more mad at myself I get! All of this I’ve endured. Sickening!

[@kikyaaakun]

Shannon Sweet Pea McKenna don’t mad with yourself, you are fooled not because you have problem, HE is the sucker who made the problems and try to blame them on you. Don’t let him

[@valariemundy2012]

You always twist my words around!!!

[@ericking4072]

THAT ONE IS USED ON ME DAILY😭😭

[@shawneegirl1980]

Unless you DO twist their words around ... narcissists are the main ones doing to twisting

[@HQ93]

so grateful to have the awareness and tools to heal from narcissistic abuse. living and growing up with a highly narcissistic mother often had me question my sanity..it then perpetuated into me meeting men who mirrored her, and were even worse. Thank you for your videos. I am slowly and steadily finding my inner strength and voice again, so excited for this journey.

[@erinpezoldt117]

Yeah... I tried to tell my narcissistic ex that the way he talked to me was too harsh and he would say things like "Well I can't pamper you all the time!" or he would say that the reason the things he said bothered me was because I'm not "mentally tough." Apparently wanting to be treated with base level civility was too much to ask of him and expecting it was like wanting special treatment ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@taneekasmith5782]

I have pure heart and a sound mind and only focus on.the living God that's it

[@pammszlaffin7975]

OMG! That's SO my husband!!

[@drlarrymitchell]

"You always blamed me for everything that ever went wrong in your life." These are the words I remember whenever I'm tempted to break down, be a human, call and apologize.

[@makethatchangelifecoaching4009]

My ex use to tell me that all the time, sorry it was his actions that had a huge affect on my life

[@colorsofavon934]

I've been told ALL these things from my bf. When I check out when he's having a meltdown, I feel a lot better. 🙂

[@BobBob-ye9sc]

I’ve heard every single one of these ! “ I’m the only one that thinks this about him or he has problems with “ no one will love u as much as me..... everything has been my fault “I’m bipolar” .... “there must be sumthing I’m doing to make him this way” ... Iv heard everything.

[@purelyme5488]

The fact I was so drawn to this video its a confirmation that I am healing from enduring this type of abuse.

[@human-pm2kv]

Thank you for this video I thought I was losing my mind. You hit every nail on the head.

[@MelanieToniaEvans]

Daniel I'm so pleased that this could help you! Love to you xoxox

[@hughkelly9073]

Thanks for great insights. Gotta say that the necklace you're wearing is really amazing - so beautiful - all the colors work so well.

[@Underyourbedeyes]

my ex dumped me after 6 years and I was devastated. He actually contacted me after he found out I was with someone else and said that if I slept with the new guy, he (my ex) would never take me back. So I have this guilt and weird feelings when I was with my new partner. Then he got into my life again and would call and tell me he was thinking we could get back together and that he was reading books about better communication. But he just wanted to ruin the new relationship and when I decided I was going to take him back he pulled away again and said he was done. HE left me feeling like we had just broken up again and ruined my feelings for the new guy. So I started begging and I told him I would give up my collection of shoes which he hated if he'd take me back and he goes "stop telling me you'd give up things you love for me, IT MAKES ME FEEL BAD." holy shit...that's when it really set in. He's a narcissist. He made me feel bad nearly every day with nitpicking, name-calling and then calling me too sensitive. Telling me that if this was different, I'd be better. Id change and it was not enough, and it was something else. During the relationship, he'd look at other girls and say I was crazy and he wasn't and that I was insecure and jealous. But he dumped me many times because he'd say he wasn't sure I was the one. He'd tell me I'd look better with certain hair, or if I lost weight, or if I acted a certain way. He told me I had cellulite. And every girl I saw, I saw as my competition because he made me feel horrible. He'd tell me we could get married and have the life I wanted when he was in a good mood - then a few months later it's like something snapped and he'd say he just said that and he was trying to make me less sad. Or he'd even pretend he never said it. He'd tell me that every nice thing he'd ever said about our future was a lie and dump me. Then take me back and say these things again, and I'd still believe it! Until the final time, he dumped me. I'm so broked and I feel like an empty, sad, anxious person.

[@mbarkley5688]

Underyourbedeyes narcs suck. I feel your pain. And FYI , every woman has a lil cellulite, unless they're in the top 2% ...and airbrushing is used widely. Fuck him.

[@Dragonfire7777777]

I'm exhausted reading that, so goodness knows how he must have made you feel! I'm sorry you had to endure this appalling behaviour. Well done for getting out and finally moving on. Your life will be infinitely better without him in it! Best wishes for your future, happier self😌🧡🕯

[@Underyourbedeyes]

@@Dragonfire7777777 thanks for reading that. I appreciate your kind words.❤️

[@Underyourbedeyes]

@@mbarkley5688 ❤️ thanks for your support.

[@addie8292]

My mother, brother and sister all said these things to me. Where were you when I was growing up in the hell I endured?

[@RD-bx7wl]

IAM P ..I’m sorry, I also know what you mean as I to have endured a corridor of hell because of my mother brother and dad on top of the N ex.. demonic.

[@patriciatrovatti393]

@@RD-bx7wl my mom, brother and sister. My father passed way. It has not been easy for me...gosh. a battle to win everyday

[@naomilopez7802]

Yes I’ve heard most of these words from my Ex Narcissist!!! That’s so Crazy!!!! So glad I’m healed and I have no Desire to get with any person like him Again in my Life . Thank You!!!

[@wendiewise8202]

I've said some of those things. I picked up fleas and became very bitter and mean from it. I'm so ready to let that go. I have a lot of work to do

[@7yaks]

So true, I recently heard #5 and #6. He also told me that it should not be an issue that he has active profiles on three different dating sites while he wants to establish a relationship with me! Sorry, not happening!

[@greenspider1598]

Wow that is messed up

[@specialtwice4975]

Lynne Morgan Yes, that's cause he likes making narc harems. That's what they do. Let's say you did move in with him, met his parents, etc. He would STILL keep those accounts and be talking to other women/s*x1ing them behind your back because he likes the attention. Then when he fancies one more than you he will say "Honey I don't love you anymore, you are stupid, lazy, and confusing. We just don't work anymore, and I wanna be with her." Then he will leave to be with her. And the cycle repeats itself. The only reason their relationship may look like it's lasting though when you look on your now ex's Facebook and see they got married and have a kid is because she doesn't know/refuses to believe that he still has all the accounts. He still does and he will repeat the cycle. Maybe one day it won't even be online, but in the office. He will cheat on her with his coworker. And she may stay and forgive him because it's been 12 years. However, no matter what, it WILL happen again, and again, and again. Guaranteed. Predictable.

[@greenspider1598]

@@specialtwice4975 yes it is a never-ending cycle it will never stop he will be old and gray and he will still keep trying but that's when it gets kind of dangerous because he's going to get very frustrated and upset because he's going to to lose his looks that's when the narcissist really gets nasty and creative I once heard a story of a narcissist old man who was living in a elderly assisted place and he was on dating sites

[@smac1823]

Lol mine told me that while I was living with him AND while caring for a dying family member as a favor. He called it contingency planning if I didn’t learn to be nice. Be nice. As if.

[@wincharm99]

As I healed, I began to be able to reality check...for instance, he told me something that "someone said about me." I am not so interesting that someone I don't know in another town is talking about me!

[@MariahFan09]

this is like having a conversation with someone who refuses to make direct eye contact with you

[@babblingidiot7903]

glacier8 no. Eye contact is view differently across all cultures. Some see it offensive for eye contact. Some see it as respect when engaged in conversation. Some don’t care whether eye contact or not.

[@savtelly3817]

It’s so amazing to come back to these videos and not register with them at all anymore. Going no contact in 2020 was the best thing I’ve ever done.

[@michellem775]

“You will never find anyone like me” LOL I didn’t hear my narc say this but if he did I pray I NEVER find anyone like him.

[@DatsexiVAChick]

I know right lol so sad

[@brandy4522]

You help me so much. I laugh, cry and stand mouth agape. So much truth. I plan on doing one of your classes in the future when I'm finished the infidelity trauma program I'm already committed too. I've been in an 18 year marriage with one and just started the seperation process...again. I can't unknow what I know now, and its imperative I get out. I've stayed so long out of hope, my child, and overall unhealth of myself to recognize he doesnt have the capacity to be a safe partner. So blessed you share such invaluable insight and resources 💜

[@MelanieToniaEvans]

You are so welcome darling lady! And I'd so love that for you when the time feels right. Love and blessings xoxox

[@allykuit5384]

I've never had a relationship like this. Forgetting how he told me that his ex pushed his laptop off a table and came at him with a knife and stabbed the door. Boy, do I get it now! 🙄

[@smac1823]

Also, mine ended EVERY ARGUMENT telling me (after defending myself against his endless random accusations) he couldn’t handle being with someone as angry as I was. He’d stonewall me and cheat before we lived together, and once living together tell me he wanted me to move out immediately. EVERY TIME.

[@antwan1357]

That cat is just like , Im gonna take a nap over here let me know when your done.

[@NosepassTheRNGenius]

I have recently experienced all the signs and redflags of a narcissist,. But I kept on, I loved her since the moment I first saw her at 17 yrs old. We are 34 now. I tried to reconnect, thinking she may have changed in the last 20 years. I never could have guessed how wrong I really was. Started great, we were everything eachother wanted. Everything was great, even talking about having kids and gettng married, then we went out on my birthday, kissed in a way I never thought anyone could kiss and not mean it. Then she ghosted me.... it has been about five months now. I used to try to text her or email her every so often. I guess withdrawels. Never got a response. All I did was wonder what I did wrong or what I could have done differently. I presented her with me. No filter, no facade, no wall. And she chewed me up and spit me out. Only through finding videos like these have I been able to cope with the feelings and realize I am not the bad person. Thank you.

[@jefflaniajiffy3375]

Every single one. Every single last god damn one.

[@ViridianCityCards]

the bait and switch/making it your fault when they are upsetting you and disregarding your feelings is the tell tale sign.

[@MarilynVatican]

I can’t believe the accuracy... 🤯🤯

[@PacificNWGrl]

This is so validating! The abuse from narc abuse is so real. I just hate the word Narcissists... I wish we could just call them something else. He also would say “some things you’re going to need to let go of that does not jive with me” meaning my friends who saw through his bullshit. Omg I’m so glad he is gone!!

[@kathryndevlin5371]

“There you go, spinning out about everything again.” Lol...

[@skyefox3597]

One of my narcs told me I was controlling when I wasn’t cooperating with his attempts to control me. Evidently wanting to make your own choices is controlling 🙄

[@randomsasquatchwithwifi4090]

Me: "You know, calling me names cuts deep into the soul." Narc: "What about me? I shouldn't HAVE to call you names." Smh.

[@paulad.4578]

Seriously???? WTF... SMH

[@2008charlize]

Mne would say you deserve it or you make me say these things because you push my buttons girl. Ugh!!

[@paulad.4578]

What a liar. The Narc said what they said because they chose to say it. Nothing more. Nothing less.

[@kynathomas4809]

That sounds Crazy!🙄

[@spiritinthesky572]

wow

[@memyselfandlewii8781]

Damn sometimes I wonder if I am the narc! But my empathy is so high 🙂

[@andreanevin9388]

They make you doubt yourself

[@jackalynnicole21]

Dude!!!!! That’s soooo me, too!!!

[@moveintocoherence]

If you've been with one, you will tend to take on their characteristics. But, if you are wondering, that's an indication that you aren't one!

[@celesteconnor76]

Just left one after 23 years and I thought the same. Look up "reactive abuse"

[@brittanyg2529]

Mine always said: you’ll never find someone who loves you and treats you better than I do 😂

[@hollycase6189]

Thank you Melanie. I met a new one and I’m crushed. Here we go for healing...

[@janetclark5668]

If they give you minor “help” on a project they will take full credit for its success. All your points are all all too familiar. I want to let you know I think your hair is absolutely gorgeous.

[@IsoulMate]

OMG this video made me cry, I have been going through this for 31 years with my family, and my older brother, and everytime I try to explain, they tell me I talk too much, I am so sensitive, everyone agrees you talk too much, and they say, you are 31 years old, when you will fix your issues, and every time I try to explain, my brain and heart cannot take more of that, and just give me some space to breathe, they keep on talking, and never respect my boundaries, omg, I am crying my heart out, how will I go out of this, where I have no work due to covid-19, 2 years without a job, and I need to leave as soon as possible, my heart and mind cannot take this anymore, my thoughts are becoming dark, and I am having weird thoughts, and I am trying just to survive for my 75 years old mom, my dad and brothers, are making my life a living hell.

[@krazeemetalchickstewart9961]

I love the fact that you have your cute kitty with you

[@projectmcsquare2149]

Another goodie is “ you alienate everyone “. Don’t have a clue why that’s said...

[@pippipster6767]

ProjectMc Square Projection

[@maryammbakht]

I'm only now learning more about this topic. But this video shocked me. I've heard nearly ALL of these

[@ellafox9803]

Thank you for being so patient and informative for those of us managing the aftermath of these relationships. It is truly such a weird swamp of emotions, often not realizing how weird and twisted it was until after it's over. And then it's solving the puzzle after the fact, and that itself feels foggy since you're going off of memory alone as well. It's just a long, misty road and it's kind of you to patiently validate and explain these complicated feelings.

[@thetravelinsagittarian1316]

This was right on time. I've been following you for a long time. This is a refresher course for me. Thanks so much for these videos 💖💖💖💖💖

[@LynaGalliara]

I love how your cat is so perfectly camouflaged with your sofa :-)

[@cherilea1]

His thing for cheating was, "I don't have to tell you where I'm at all the time."

[@tommymak2038]

“you’re the only person I have trouble with” is something he always said

[@angel772921]

That eye rolling..yuck! No more...love you beautiful sister. .💖

[@allykuit5384]

Has anyone had personal possessions 'disappear'? Jewellery, books, spectacles? When I added it all up it was a shock.

[@stillirise33]

Not to that extent but have had him tell me "oh you're being controlling" or "everything you say I have to do." Simply because I asked him to help out around the place or wash his hands when he comes in from smoking because the cigarette smoke burns my throat or because I would say "when you get in please shower immediately to reduce the spread of covid" (he worked with the public daily). It was always some manipulative tactic or him pulling the victim card & blaming me when I got upset.

[@rain3743]

"It's always all aboit you." LOL .Yep.

[@beccajaye8468]

My ex could literally hit me through the face or push me to the floor and then say "I can't believe you make me behave this way. You're a disgusting person." It was absolutely baffling and confusing for me. Only now I can see just how sick he was and that it was NOT my fault he behaved this way.

[@QuiDocetDiscit]

Thank you for saying "him or her". Too often, the man is portrayed as the narc. Women can also be the most deadly and cunning Narcs. (Luv the cat🙂❤)

[@aviniciussouza100]

No. There is no "most deadly". Narcis are just assholes in general

[@eddamaruzsa4884]

In the beginning : “ I’ll make you my wife” “ you are the one” “ love you” 3 months later: “ It’s your fault you’re pregnant” “ you are crazy” “ you tried to trap me” “ please Don’t message me again” Needles to say I never heard from him again.

[@DatsexiVAChick]

Damn sorry that happened to you glad I dodged a bullet

[@rocskla3211]

My bf told me to not be the psycho gf and that im trying to trap him. 😢 im still trying to leave him

[@mimi-xw5se]

@@rocskla3211 I hope you're able to leave him

[@mila1111]

Can there be another variation like, "don't start this again" instead of "here we go again"?

[@candacecasey5634]

Yes it's pretty much the same thing

[@divinaluz7]

@@candacecasey5634 I'm not doing this!

[@funlovinbloke6266]

"I don't have angry issues, but you have" said my covert narcissist ex partner. They also lie about remarks from others, their flying monkeys for example. By saying that others are also feeling that way narcissist hope that you, the other party will get isolated. And then they can continu their terror on you.