they say they hate bbls but follow the women with all the fillers and implants 🙄
@andrejackson367212 күн бұрын
That for recreational use only
@thecosmicbug12 күн бұрын
Don't you know why?
@LaetitiaMeyo12 күн бұрын
Just for the eyes 👀 not for the real life and serious relationship
@Iwantallmymoney202412 күн бұрын
@@andrejackson3672 what you do do recreational says more about you than you think. So if you entertain women with BBL for recreational reasons, you obviously have an affinity for them! If not you will just entertain the natural women as well
@beeha813312 күн бұрын
And they will cheat on the so called wifey with these same women lol it’s comedy to ask them anything at this point
@Myraisins111 күн бұрын
Never listen (only) to what a man says. Observe what he does.
@miya48110 күн бұрын
I totally agree! Men lie.🤨
@BestversionofKP10 күн бұрын
Yes!!!
@champagnes589810 күн бұрын
💯
@audfosutv250010 күн бұрын
💯FACTS
@aprilmitchell629 күн бұрын
That part
@UnderRatedBeauty8812 күн бұрын
Great content but men lie . They will say they don’t like a certain type of woman but will still date or use these women, I see it all the time .
@RMMomma4Eva12 күн бұрын
Correction - they will have xes with whoever is available at the time. But only claim and sport and wife their actual preference.
@kemeticwellness12 күн бұрын
Why do women still think a man likes you because he sleeps with you? They date/sleep with anything. They wife/claim who they like.
@UnderRatedBeauty8812 күн бұрын
@@RMMomma4Eva That’s not always true. I’ve seen men marry women that they were not sexually attracted to but she was a good business partner who usually tolerates cheating.
@nikkiwith2ks1112 күн бұрын
Facts!!!
@Carolina48012 күн бұрын
Yes they might date them but it’s for sex nothing serious
@shirlsshirls859412 күн бұрын
Men like natural that's shaped like a BBL.
@MsBadBody12 күн бұрын
Exactly
@CookieC2311 күн бұрын
Yes. I wish she showed pictures and asked who they are more attracted to.
@l.a.759211 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 You might be right! And they like that body shape because of current ADVERTISING. At some point, the ideal shape of a woman may CHANGE.
@teneshalowe929911 күн бұрын
Yes, natural and if it's not naturally looking like a bbl then work out.
@ThePhoenix371211 күн бұрын
Natural curvy women don't look of pouring like the gave curvy women, try again.
@amaragrace9411 күн бұрын
"My preference is my wife." PERIOD sir.
@shaunaboo9619 күн бұрын
Does she have a bbl
@jd63318 күн бұрын
Best answer.
@TreehouseLover9 күн бұрын
A natural body that works out and eats healthy. Best answer.
@highlovevibration9 күн бұрын
Exactly
@peacendukwe3 күн бұрын
Yea
@hijegeueu12 күн бұрын
Now show pictures of overweight, bbl, and natural and see what they choose. They all look different
@AlwaysBeingKayJay10 күн бұрын
Exactly 😅 most men think they are getting a “natural” body but it is has been surgically modified or enhanced…To me Men REALLY don’t know the difference. Hold up the pictures and let the truth be told!! 😂 also a size 14 is plus/overweight per the obesity guidelines. But a size 10, 12, 14 can be hourglass curvy WITH a BBL!!! Let’s hear from the guy who wants the BBL. Natural is described as WHAT=not surgical altered-or not beautified altered-treatments, massages, lipo etc.
@EVA-ki5vw9 күн бұрын
That's a good idea I'm hoping someone's gonna make a video with it
@isabelgarcia019 күн бұрын
Agree
@constancemgibson-lomax763612 күн бұрын
Let’s be real ladies! All these men say natural, they all can’t be liars. I ask my brother the same thing, and he said natural because these women today are mostly bbls and they look like each other. Natural body with diet and exercise, as we age our bodies can be beautiful😊
@p.hearting999211 күн бұрын
Some of these men will tell you what you want to hear so you won’t judge them. Hence why some of them are dishonest about liking a bbl. But the ones that are being genuinely honest those are the men that are truly rare and valuable. Those are the men that can see real beauty beyond this era of plastic.
@CharCharJars11 күн бұрын
Thank you for saying it 😊
@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty11 күн бұрын
They are lying and say whatever sounds good. You have to go by their actions
@brendamller9 күн бұрын
@@constancemgibson-lomax7636 exactly am 63 years old I promise I have a teenage body with curves
@Katrn309 күн бұрын
What men really mean is they prefer perfect natural bodies. Women are just as shallow.
@EllinIsLivid12 күн бұрын
They're imagining a natural hourglass. They'd pick a BBL over the average natural body shape I.e. rectangle or apple
@Noratheskindoc11 күн бұрын
Yup
@molifts438910 күн бұрын
So now you in these dudes head & can see what they are thinking??? Just accept the facts of the matter 🤷🏽♂️
@thelittlemustardseed10 күн бұрын
@@molifts4389 The fact of the matter is that there is a very diverse range of natural body types. So if you ask a man that question without providing a visual for him to go off of then he is going to imagine his idea of a natural body type that he finds appealing. So the question is would he still choose the same if presented with a natural body type that he isn't attracted to vs a woman that he is physically attracted to but with a tastefully done (not over the top) BBL?
@molifts438910 күн бұрын
@@thelittlemustardseed but the question is based off which one he overall finds more attractive. If you put a shitty natural body & a nice bbl in front of him of course but as a man I’m telling you it’s what WE want. Most natural bodies look & feel better than fake ones to us the end
@kme98619 күн бұрын
Correct
@mrsmccoy777711 күн бұрын
They say they hate BBL but will cheat on their wife with the girl with the BBL plastic surgery face etc like oh please 🙄
@KM-oy5yh11 күн бұрын
💯💯💯
@Madison-sr5nl3ie6y11 күн бұрын
They really do be looking gross 🤮 tho
@Poppi_Weasel11 күн бұрын
Always!
@hevabmore10 күн бұрын
And is it a badge of honor to say "but he won't wife them"? They put their wives who they love so much through the most stress.
@rebekahpowers159510 күн бұрын
Just like they say they like women with natural hair but cheat with women with wigs and weaves.
@michelyslopes9 күн бұрын
What they meant was a natural body that naturally looks like a bbl
@blahblahblahitsyou12 күн бұрын
I love this and you look gorgeous as usual! But I don’t think it’s about what they say they like, it’s about what and who they’re actually “doing”, dating and marrying. Imo 😂
@mogetit599912 күн бұрын
Thank you
@mjohnson820611 күн бұрын
At this point their actions speak louder than words. They say they don’t want that but OF says otherwise. They are hypocrites. Beautiful Queens worry about what you want. Where are the channels where men are asking other men what it takes for men to be good husbands and what qualities are what women want?
@danilaroche115611 күн бұрын
She's attractive but acts very ghetto. She's loud & crass. Sorry Natalie. I do enjoy most of your content, though.
@RyzeQueen11 күн бұрын
I genuinely don't concern myself with what men find physically attractive. For a long time, I focused on being beautiful and appealing, only to discover that many men are not truthful! Additionally, a transformative spiritual experience shifted my perspective on life entirely. I hold immense honor and self-respect, which makes me indifferent to the male gaze. Most men seem to remain driven by their biological instincts rather than spiritual growth, so I simply don’t care about their preferences. 🤷🏽♀️
@candykis3311 күн бұрын
@@mjohnson8206thank you.
@TheWMBWLife12 күн бұрын
I like all three....... but her pleasant disposition and outgoing personality is the ultimate determining factor. ♥️
@Love2Love92712 күн бұрын
Thank you for your honesty 😊
@shaunaboo9619 күн бұрын
❤❤ finally, someone who knows how to be honest.
@mamatosh0512 күн бұрын
The majority of men like anything; especially if it’s beautiful.
@aeiou012311 күн бұрын
Bbl makes women look like a joke. I saw one lady at d airport. I felt so embarrassed for her. Its like dating a short man who put fake long rod in his legs to look tall. We will always prefer a natural tall man over a fake tall one.
@VendieSolde11 күн бұрын
This is the real answer
@MsLotusBlooms10 күн бұрын
Not true
@TheWatcherOS9 күн бұрын
Literally the only woman here who understands how men think. I bet you have a man, too. The only women who don't understand this are usually undesirable and don't realize it and don't understand that it's why they don't have a man, smh.
@TheWatcherOS9 күн бұрын
@@MsLotusBloomsTotally true, actually. She understands men. You don't.
@craigharris92458 күн бұрын
I am not mad at any of them, but the BBL reflects a state of mind IMO. I want someone that accepts me as I am, and I do the same. The BBL signals a lack of self acceptance. If you don’t accept yourself, you won’t accept me. Everyone is a car accident away from being ugly.
@erikas994512 күн бұрын
They need to play this in the waiting room at the surgery centers…..
@Auntieteateaxo12 күн бұрын
HAAAAAAAA😂
@tummieflowers268112 күн бұрын
Some women need a butt augmentation because they’re out of shape.
@FitRebelRah12 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@LaetitiaMeyo12 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@swankyari12 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@SagRising199 күн бұрын
@14:17 I love when Chris said his wife is his preference 🙌🏾
@MrsTate12149 күн бұрын
I like how the gentleman stated plus size and not overweight.
@TonyaToniTone12 күн бұрын
I’m the only girl of three brothers and my brothers say they want natural because they’re not into trans 🤷🏽♀️. Too many biological women looking like trans men these days.
@Ilu-t6l11 күн бұрын
Your brothers love you very much.
@DwainWilsonJr10 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣... that's a good one 👍
@rly14929 күн бұрын
Exactly! Transformers.
@morganeoghmanann97928 күн бұрын
I'm confused. They say they want natural but natural women look like trans men, which they don't prefer.
@EffortlessEffervescence7 күн бұрын
@@morganeoghmanann9792 U didn't read that right. Men don't want a woman that wears a lot of make up and artificial stuff. Transformers rely on that stuff to look like natural women. So, facelifts, bbl, silicone, wigs, caked on make up - sets off a red flag because it's too artificial
@rhondahopkins436612 күн бұрын
My boyfriend worked out 4 hours a day, he's in great shape. I'm glad he never bothered me about my weight. And we've been together 28 years.
@relaxationunwind437711 күн бұрын
Are you overweight? When I was overweight aka FAT body builders loved me. Some of my ex boyfriend's were body builders and I would workout with them.
@rhondahopkins436611 күн бұрын
I always been thick.
@lg847911 күн бұрын
@rhondahopkins4366 You are thick alright! Thick-headed! You've been with the same man for 28 years. You all probably have children together, and you announce that you aren't married, like that's a flex! What's the difference between being with the same man, for 28 years, and being with the same man, in marriage, for 28 years? Alot is the answer, and you will found out just how much if he should pass away before you do.
@admar693411 күн бұрын
@rhondahopkins4366 fat ain't thick just fat, and alot of men had said they date overweight women because of their lack of self esteem, I'm not saying all but just saying
@rhondahopkins436611 күн бұрын
If a woman weighs 180 lbs most men think that is fat that is not fat that's thick.
@kme98619 күн бұрын
I think the trouble is they have difficulty determining what natural really is. Men will talk about a woman being a natural beauty when she has fillers and a face full of makeup. Their version of no makeup is still makeup
@joemariedeguzman920412 күн бұрын
They might be saying this and that but women must know its always the confidence with a good personality is what men choose so just be confident and love yourself. Anyways, I love how Ms. Natalie Clarice talked to these men, she is respectful.
@Dearest_Kenyetta10 күн бұрын
These men are telling their TRUTH.... I don't know why there is so much hate in the comments. Smh
@brendamller9 күн бұрын
@@Dearest_Kenyetta i totally agree
@ChosenMJ9 күн бұрын
All the comments are from women still paying for those BBL’s. Honestly, I don’t mind BBL’s when done “tastefully” but when some women go over the top with it it looks terrible.
@bobvila64379 күн бұрын
It's not hate. It's experience
@lhughes66567 күн бұрын
The ones throwing hate are the fools who hate men and don't want to give them credit for anything. God forbid a man have a preference smh. These women need help. Buncha women coming behind the men to tell us WHAT THEY REALLY THINK, as if they know. This is the main problem with most women, when a man speaks, they don't listen and then assume they know better. Then they wonder why their relationships suck and they're unhappy. It's so silly to me.
@Dearest_Kenyetta7 күн бұрын
@@lhughes6656 🔥🔥
@FINEillsayit12 күн бұрын
This is why I love you 💜 you ask the men the questions and we get the honest answers
@wanjirualice3512 күн бұрын
Am natural from Africa but let's be honest.Most men always say natural is their preference but the women they follow on social media are the most unnatural so to say.From bbls to lashes,crazy nails ,skin lightening etc those are the women they follow with their proxy accounts,more often they cheat on a natural woman with the bbl girls .No man is going to admit on camera that they prefer to play with the bbl girl.Once again am team natural but be reminded that most black ladies are undergoing the most dangerous cosmetic surgery because they have seen it's "rewards"ie.the attention they get from men , social media and yes,even marriage.You see,women are now getting the subtle bbl especially here in Africa where am from.Once again am natural but no man will admit on camera that they prefer bbl for the experience and even marriage but on the ground we know how they roll,the natural girl is undervalued .Natalie thanks for the content but i wish it could go a little further than a simple "yes or no" question.
@MT-hk9cp11 күн бұрын
She said what is more attractive/preference to you? Who cares who they follow on social media because a lot of that is lust. But for a serious relationship they choose different. Natalie isn't trying to have them give a dissertation just a simple answer.
@lg847911 күн бұрын
@@MT-hk9cpShe lightens her skin up! Google her name. You will be taken aback at the difference in her complexion! And before Natalie Clarice starts, she doesn't have a skin disease.
@debrajones1569 күн бұрын
You're giving them a choice. Let them come up with the description.
@Nana720jygi3 күн бұрын
Never seen African women doing bbls, and I am an African woman, in America, yes, black women mostly, in other places in Europe, bbls are repulsive, especially for white men
@pinklady225411 күн бұрын
Can you please do this with photos of natural overweight and BBL?
@nicholeb274611 күн бұрын
They say they like natural. They think women with bbls are natural half the time
@too959311 күн бұрын
No they don't can be spotted a mile away! What's a 5' 2 skinny women doing with a huge bulging butt looks ridiculous
@justlearner20128 күн бұрын
Lol
@clemmytinelyday65367 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😅😂
@2023Queendom11 күн бұрын
They mouth say one thing but they body they bodyy is telling them yeaaheah 😂
@michellemcgee353410 күн бұрын
The guy that said “None of the above” made sense. Of the choices given, “Physically fit” would have been good to add to the list.
@ritamcbee9 күн бұрын
As long as you don't use drugs. You can be physically fit and natural. I have some friends that naturally have muscles and low body fat, and they barely workout.
@michellemcgee35349 күн бұрын
@@ritamcbee That’s true. When Natalie said natural, I assumed she meant without a BBL, breast implants, lip augmentation, etc.
@PineappleMermaid1312 күн бұрын
One thing that get on my nerves about the BBLs other then the obvious thing .. as someone who has a curvy body is being accused of getting a BBL..
@MT-hk9cp11 күн бұрын
It's sad that people can't even see the difference
@cierrabennett20611 күн бұрын
Very true! My booty blew up during the lockdown, and I was constantly accused and stared at for having a bbl. My booty looked crooked, too, so I know they were saying it was a bad one! I lost all of that weight and then some, now I'm building it back up healthy and natural.
@ttauribarron90111 күн бұрын
I've been curvy my entire life... Big or small... I get asked and I'm insulted, that's not a compliment.
@PineappleMermaid1311 күн бұрын
@@ttauribarron901 me too, I mean I grew up during a time when big butts were not popular (80s/90s). My nickname was bubble butt/thunder thighs which created a negative view of my body where as a kid, I would wear a sweater around my waist to cover that part of my body. And now I have to deal with questions if my butt is real or not it’s so annoying 🙄
@Ilu-t6l11 күн бұрын
Just embrace it. It will never go out of style.
@lexyred628911 күн бұрын
Love me some Damien @10:07 cause he understands that some BBLS look natural. As an African woman with a natural but bBL shape that has been accused of getting a BB:L. Men love anything that looks good and natural on a woman.Thats it thats all. As long as it looks good and natural you will attract men.
@obrnc0920Күн бұрын
Yep. If you have one or not if they like you they don’t care. They can’t say get rid of it 😂 they don’t even know what’s cosmetic or not. This is coming from someone who had a BBL body since the 90s😇
@gb725112 күн бұрын
The guy at 9mins would be a nightmare to listen to everyday. Holey crap he is so full of himself!!!
@pkp67919 күн бұрын
Exactly. He isnt as attractive as he thinks he is. These men who think they have to show women to the gym make me sick. Some women will run circles around them in (and out of) the gym. They doing a few sets of chest work is where its at. They have NO cardio endurance or flexibility. He looks like one of those types we laugh at in the gym.😂
@ritamcbee9 күн бұрын
He wants to be in control. See ya!
@jd63318 күн бұрын
100% he's gross
@JulainaGlass11 күн бұрын
Isn’t over weight natural too? Because there’s natural slim and natural thickness
@Elaine-ee1eh11 күн бұрын
Dark cloud that said non of the above is a control freak! 😂😂😂
@4gma5911 күн бұрын
He was right. Whatever your body type, you need to put work into it to make it the best it can be. Fitness is important to him, so what?? He has a right to his preference. And he's hot, especially for his age -- so he's putting his money where his mouth is, and he practices what he preaches. Good on him.
@louavillebilly293610 күн бұрын
Hell naw! Ain't a brother on this planet gonna tell me I ain't good enough! He ain't got to holla at me if he don't like what he sees! He ain't got to help me do shit! This wouldn't even be an issue for me, because I have never been interested in a man who was turned off by my body! If I'm too fat for him, then he would never approach me in the first place! You think fat women are in the "Y" up in iggaz faces trying to holla? So a igga like him can say shit like he said? What sister in her right mind would put herself through that? I wish a brother would say to me, "You have a beautiful face, but I can't have a "BIG GIRL" for a girlfriend. Let me work with you. If we get that weight off "MAYBE" we can go out on a date. I normally charge $$ an hour, but for you I will give you a discount." IGGA! WHAT???? IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME DON'T BE IN MY FACE TELLING ME I WOULD BE DROP DEAD GORGEOUS IF I LOST WEIGHT! BECAUSE I DIDN'T APPROACH YOU! And men like him would have never approached a BIG GIRL! BECAUSE BIG GIRLS AREN'T THAT DESPERATE, IN CASE SOME OF YOU DIDN'T KNOW THAT! I'M AT THE "Y" FIVE DAYS A WEEK! THERE ARE VERY FEW MORBIDLY OBESE WOMEN AT THE "Y" WORKING OUT. OVERWEIGHT? OF COURSE! BUT BIG GIRLS? THEY AIN'T IN THERE, Y'ALL! THEY JUST AREN'T! THEY WILL GO TO WATER AROBICS CLASSES IN THE POOL AREA, BUT THEY COMPLETELY BY-PASS THE WORKOUT ROOM! I CAN'T SPEAK FOR EVERY "Y" IN THE COUNTRY. I CAN ONLY SPEAK FOR THE "Y" ON LOUDON AVENUE IN LEXINGTON KENTUCKY.
@kme98619 күн бұрын
I’m a woman and I’m with him. I’m very fit and I’m not interested in a man who isn’t also into fitness.
@itslexyloris9 күн бұрын
🚩 😂
@ritamcbee9 күн бұрын
But isn't a woman who works out still natural as long as she's not taking enhancements?
@angelareid77069 күн бұрын
I asked my friend…. He said natural, I said but that’s not who you date. He said 🤫 sshhh don’t tell nobody
@chanteljones92287 күн бұрын
Lmao
@obrnc0920Күн бұрын
😂see. These dudes play too much 😂
@happynhealthywithyna139611 күн бұрын
Great job! Thank you for bringing us encouragement to be confident and who we are! Really enjoyed this
@35cheeky11 күн бұрын
I understand what they said on camera but what do their wives and girlfriends look like? I had a friend tell me once that he preferred a woman that wore no makeup, wigs, lashes, nails, etc. Then I asked him to name some famous women he would love to be with. Guess what, none of the women he named were even close to being natural. I told him you don't want a natural woman because you didn't name even one.
@diaryofavirtuouswoman9 күн бұрын
Because men put women into different categories. Wife ( a woman they love and care for/want to procreate with) vs recreational use (a woman they would smash .. nothing else/nothing more )
@Peachie906 күн бұрын
She should have asked about wigs/ weaves and natural hair their preference.
@natalieclaricelovenotes6 күн бұрын
@@Peachie90 Ask that on your page. How bout that? lol!🤣🤣✌🏾
@shirlsshirls859412 күн бұрын
Dark cloud seems insufferable and he thought he was being deep by saying "none of the above." Sir, stop reaching 😒
@Elaine-ee1eh11 күн бұрын
Exactly 😂
@ritamcbee9 күн бұрын
For Real 😂
@jodiburnett621111 күн бұрын
Women are competing with other women with these crazy surgeries and harsh makeup. Thank you for proving once again, men want you to love your natural healthy body. A woman with good self esteem is always a winner.
@Jessicad.kearney9 күн бұрын
I like how you continue to Educate people no matter how hard many fight against you. You keep providing evidence based instructions to the community. Love you keep going 🥰
@FineGirlNoPimple12 күн бұрын
The question is a leading question. A natural body can be thin, of normal weight or overweight. The question may be better if one simply asks regarding a woman: do men like a bbl or no bbl. Most men will not openly profess to like BBL or a woman being overweight (but natural).
@Ababycakes11 күн бұрын
I was just thinking the same thing.
@MothersHeartGypsyDoVe11 күн бұрын
I agree. Many males I've been friends with over the years have stated that men who like thicker girls typically never admitted to it around other males. That was in late 80s to 90s. Because they'd get all kinds of harassment and made fun of. Most really didn't like the waif look.
@Onechance_ngl10 күн бұрын
That’s what I came here to say because overweight is vague. A lot of beautiful bodies are technically overweight but shaped amazingly. Also overweight can technically be natural as well.
@onebeyutiful9 күн бұрын
Right!!! I was looking for this comment. The natural and overweight are ambiguous.
@kimmichaud77412 күн бұрын
Exactly
@freetiffair8 күн бұрын
My advice is to do what’s healthy and makes you happy with your body. Your goal is to accept and be happy and confident with yourself. You’re only responsible for your happiness not a man’s. And once you’re happy and your best self you will attract what you’re meant to attract. Always do what’s best for you when it comes to men and dating.
@t.rodgers14389 күн бұрын
Overweight is natural too
@EarthAngel__111112 күн бұрын
❤ I love hearing from a REAL mens perspective...I watch podcasts and take notes 😂
@pamking571110 күн бұрын
Natalie you have the perfect voice for the GPS system and other related voice activated software.
@rebeccalucas606311 күн бұрын
They will tell you that because they're put on the spot, but will tell their g/f or wife to work on their body, and get the backside in the apple bottom or balloon shape. After they decide they want the plastic surgery phoney bologna crap, and break up even though you go to the gym 4-5 days a week, you tell them "go chase that plastic girl, but before you judge a girl, you got to work on yourself too, because you can't throw stones living in a glass house" *cough* Richie
@Yassss-rj9zf11 күн бұрын
They like natural if you have a BBL and like BBLs if you’re natural. They really don’t care about that, they just want 🐱 and that’s the real truth.
@fa510211 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@peacefreedom493011 күн бұрын
I kept wondering what they have in mind when they say natural. I think the majority of men would desire a natural “ hourglass “. I think I’d love to see a man ask men this question and use pictures. Men tend to be more open with other men. They sure are giving OF billions a year to look at the bbls they don’t like.
@theabstractschild54711 күн бұрын
That one guy didn’t understand what Natural is, and he seems like he’d be annoying af. 🤦🏾♀️
@ritamcbee9 күн бұрын
Exactly!
@Sibaassaf194010 күн бұрын
I wish we could ask women if we prefer our men natural or surgically enhanced
@richardsfe4 күн бұрын
Me too!👊🏽
@melodymel677111 күн бұрын
Once a man told me, „men will take that woman, which looks good and know how to behave in their presence. And if she had (good) work done and it looks GOOD they would take her too - because most men are simple.“
@obrnc0920Күн бұрын
Bingo.
@miami400512 күн бұрын
I'm from miami and these guys love a woman fit but now that I live in virginia, the men here love overweight women. All you see is 200 lb plus women with thin men. But men in the city Don't accept
@RMMomma4Eva12 күн бұрын
I've noticed that in most warm/coastal locales there's a lot more incentive and pressure to be in shape, but the further inland you go, a natural shape - i.e., trim waist/ample hips even if "overweight" - or even being truly overweight is more accepted and being buff is not a requirement.
@pkp67919 күн бұрын
@@RMMomma4Evavery true!!
@ritamcbee9 күн бұрын
It gets cold in Virginia. They like that cozy body heat ❤😊
@AuLily19 күн бұрын
A large wife and a big barn never did a man any harm! 😄
@thearchedpromise32719 күн бұрын
They want a hot meal on the table at all times. Breakfast lunch and dinner.
@fire23f9912 күн бұрын
Run from Dark Cloud he's too much.
@SR7773612 күн бұрын
I mean he's passionate about fitness. I work out and I didn't see an issue with his comment.
@brendadaviswilson924311 күн бұрын
He has his own standards and there is nothing wrong with that
@lg847911 күн бұрын
@@brendadaviswilson9243His type, meaning a straight-shooter, and don't sugar coat anything, are usually the type who can dish it but can't take it. If you don't believe me, test one out, if you know anyone like that. Don't say anything as a comeback or a response to something that they have just said, because they will view it as such. Just tell it like it is, on a random day, and watch how mad they get.
@Elaine-ee1eh11 күн бұрын
Yeo I agree 😂😂😂 He would pick natural if he had to and “see if should would listen and get her in the gym”! The poor comment went left to me and I’m not sure why that was included 🤔
@DwainWilsonJr10 күн бұрын
@@SR77736Thank you 👏... I was about to say.. nothing bt insecurity all over the hot damn place, sheezuz 🤦♂️
@aishadavis55419 күн бұрын
Darkcloud's perspective is 💯 🎯💯. Also u look great sir. Thank u for challenging my perspective. I considered myself having a natural body yet I work out and take care of myself. I'm just getting back to working out consistently. Yet I take care of my natural body so it sustains itself. I'm 40 so yes. I believe that movement is the lubrication to the bones. I want to still walk run and do my thing getting older. Thank u
@Love2Love92712 күн бұрын
I loved this ! ❤ Thank you Ms. Natalie 😊
@ChrissyAnn859 күн бұрын
I hate this wording. A natural body could be anything. It could be naturally built and curvy, naturally slim, naturally misshaped, naturally out of shape, naturally skinny, naturally muscular. Most men like naturally in shape and well proportioned women. We all know this. A man doesn’t want a woman bad built woman. We know this 😂😂😂😂
@seanae23312 күн бұрын
I love this but the one that said none of the above seems to be set in his ways to me🤦🏾 no to dark cloud
@tekeshakilgore390212 күн бұрын
He seems like he is controlling
@relaxationunwind437711 күн бұрын
He wants a woman who works out. Simple. I'm surprised none of the women jumped up in here and said...OH HE GAY. 😂😂😂😂 Women the truth shall set you free.
@chelseajanae549711 күн бұрын
Right very weird
@sandrapollard254111 күн бұрын
My thoughts exactly @@tekeshakilgore3902
@DwainWilsonJr10 күн бұрын
@@relaxationunwind4377Why tf would they say that for?.. bc the man is passionate about something?.. 😂
@SharonHoward-zq5uv12 күн бұрын
That Dark Cloud came and stormed my brain 😅😅
@uzuriuzuri162812 күн бұрын
IS DARKCLOUD SINGLE?
@SharonHoward-zq5uv12 күн бұрын
@@uzuriuzuri1628 😆 🤣. He may be.
@Elaine-ee1eh11 күн бұрын
Gurl he too much 😂😂
@DwainWilsonJr10 күн бұрын
@@Elaine-ee1ehNah, you're just too small 🤣🤣🤣
@jd63318 күн бұрын
@@uzuriuzuri1628Probably, cuz he's toxic
@lotuspie.4 күн бұрын
Love how she sneaks a compliment in there lol. So nice 😊
@dupesonlyanddrugstores74218 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ I love your channel. Thank you for embracing older women and doing it with such grace and respect and everything else.
@richardsfe4 күн бұрын
Now,please,ask women tall & slim, steroids,or overweight? Me,personally I like tall & slim! 😜
@kimmichaud77412 күн бұрын
Me too
@besthotchocolate12 күн бұрын
I didn’t know natural meant that you don’t work out. Damien posed the most intellectually sound answer. By BMI standards I’m technically overweight (I’m 6ft, 180 lbs) I workout 5-6 days a week. Some days I do two-a-days (lift & HIIT/Cardio. I haven’t had a BBL but I have the body of Serena Williams or Beyoncé back in 2002. There is a big difference between Lizzo and Serena Williams, but both are technically overweight. So do you mean overweight as in obese? Please clear those blurred lines so we know what we have to work on:) Otherwise, great video Natalie✨
@brendadaviswilson924311 күн бұрын
Exactly l am overweight, but I wear a size 6 I lift weights 5 days a week and do HIIT. I think when she says overweight she may mean obese. My thumbnail photo is from a month ago, I found as I got older a bunch of cardio didn’t make my body look how I wanted
@MothersHeartGypsyDoVe11 күн бұрын
Muscle weight is more compact than fat weight. The BMI charts do not factor in muscle weight. I'm short and even at a size 5 I can be 150-180lbs as I'm more muscular. I once knew a gal when I was at that weight that was much bigger but weighed the same no one believed her because of my weight. I had to explain how it was actually possible for two people to weigh the same and have much different body figure. The BMI chart is one of the worst things imho. Simply try to be the most healthy version of you, love yourself first be comfortable in your own skin whether there's a man or not.
@besthotchocolate11 күн бұрын
@@brendadaviswilson9243 you look great girl🔥✨! #bodybuilder #fire
@besthotchocolate11 күн бұрын
@@MothersHeartGypsyDoVe I agree wholeheartedly !
@Shortee45210 күн бұрын
I think you nailed this. I love this content. You are the best Natalie❤❤❤
@lhughes66567 күн бұрын
Thank you for doing this! It's good to get a man's perspective on things! Very enlightening to me. Please do more of these cause judging by the nasty comments about men, the women watching need to hear it, they just don't think they do. All the best!
@betsyakoko681012 күн бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✌🏾🇰🇪 natural body is the best well done by God
@KM-oy5yh11 күн бұрын
#Absolutely 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@bnaicole328 күн бұрын
You sho kno wat to say 💯
@SagRising199 күн бұрын
I definitely understand what Darkcloud is saying and I like men, that strive to be physically fit as well as his lady.
@lclear3412 күн бұрын
Dark cloud ❤️🔥 got me thinking 🤔
@AT-zl6dk11 күн бұрын
I’m like let me get to gym today because I didn’t go today lol 😆
@lclear3411 күн бұрын
@@AT-zl6dkhe did not tell one lie he was talking to me 😂
@lashandashuman184012 күн бұрын
Dark Cloud reminds me of the world toughest man David Goggins if you don’t know who he is look him up & follow him he will change your life get up & get your behind in the gym no excuses lol 😂 I read his first book Can’t Hurt Me in October 2021 when I was 275lbs got back in the gym November 2021 signed up with a personal trainer by December 2022 I was 185lbs by March 2023 I 172lbs I had lost over 100lbs naturally in 18mons I do the stair master daily for 65mins on levels 14,15,16 Before I gained weight from depression I was 140lbs use to run track 400m 800m & X Country so the athletic part was already embedded in me I just needed a push & once I got that I was focused & disciplined. Being fit & in shape is the best feeling ever 😏
@pamelabrooks30728 күн бұрын
Loved the video….very informative ❤
@BlissfulNMindful11 күн бұрын
@ 8:35 Sis, The head nodding had me too tickled, hilarious! 😂😅🤣 ~ Btw. Great video! It’s just that his energy was of arrogance/ego. Nonetheless. He was very informative!
@Elaine-ee1eh11 күн бұрын
Definitely saw that big ego and I don’t think she could please him since he sounds like a control freak!
@PhindieVicky6 күн бұрын
Dear ladies,be proud of what God created you with. 'The moment you start cutting your body, something is off with you ' BZG . It's a fact 💛
@echiffon4120Күн бұрын
Amen
@theeemnm9 күн бұрын
Someone who decides to name themselves dark cloud cannot be taken seriously lol 😂.
@nisey76539 күн бұрын
I know ppl with natural bodies that are active but dont work out, and they age pretty well.
@lindawashington986911 күн бұрын
Let's hear what these men say in the barbershop; when they are not being filmed.
@lovebug638811 күн бұрын
BBLs all day 😂😂😂😂 I hear it all the time when I go get my hair cut at the barbershop.
@lindawashington986910 күн бұрын
@@lovebug6388 Hmmmm, I thought so. Too many athletes are getting caught out there with these type of women. Too many women brag about how their men are paying for it.
@ellakaddouri986312 күн бұрын
Oefff, that dark cloud guy....yasssss❤🎉❤
@shaunaboo9619 күн бұрын
So 55 is single… How name dark cloud is fitting 😂
@angelreed982512 күн бұрын
It was going well up to a point and then it went a little off track but the majority of the men I always felt that that's what they were thinking natural even though women seem to think the complete opposite you are enough
@RMMomma4Eva12 күн бұрын
From what I read and have observed, as far as body size, even if the face is just so-so 😅 men like a trim waist, larger hips/rear, and finally muscular calves.
@michelledickens721810 күн бұрын
Dark cloud yes I love that answer ❤.
@ClassyNicky9 күн бұрын
What is the difference between a natural and an overweight body? I thought natural means women without surgeries, but overweight women might not have any surgeries either so technically aren’t they also natural?
@jd63318 күн бұрын
Yes agreed
@kimmichaud77412 күн бұрын
Yes
@nysouthernbell46769 күн бұрын
Women come in different shapes in sizes due to genetics. If she's considered "over weight" technically wouldn't that be her natural body. I think the wrong questions are asked here. Ask Natiral vs BBL.. Ijs
@holdtohope10 күн бұрын
Wheewww!, Dark Cloud 😮!❤
@joangordon82252 күн бұрын
Awesome! Glad I'm natural AND go too the gym lol on the winning side I'm not too surprised tho I've heard bits and pieces of similar things from men. I'm happy in my natural body
@KiKiCarr11 күн бұрын
overweight is crazy why you couldn’t say thick?! 😩 it’s so funny tho that men would prefer a big woman over all the surgeries that’s wild 😂
@lovebug638811 күн бұрын
Thick and overweight are 2 different categories with only 10-15lbs separating them.
@TreehouseLover9 күн бұрын
Most “thick” women are delusional and overweight aka FAT.
@BeautifullyBroken11-710 күн бұрын
Hi. 💐 Nat, Maybe you should do a follow-up and line up 3 different women you're describing and see which way the male will choose. They're probably choosing the store purchased sale BBL vs. Natural or overweight. These BBLs have gotten out of hand, dropping, legs don't match, etc.... society and rappers have meesed folks up. Smh. 🩷💎♏️
@Exoticano10 күн бұрын
Only thing about the men is they all say natural and when you watch pop the ballon they all drool and go crazy for BBL then pop the natural bodies even after they say they like natural 😊
@queenoftheworld37594 күн бұрын
Men like natural in my experience. I’m a natural woman. Its authentic. Everything don’t have to be big on the body. You can be small and still pull. Just keep it real. That’s what they all said. They not lying.
@Ilu-t6l11 күн бұрын
These men arent going to tell the truth...especially not on camera. Next time, ask them to show you the women that they follow and like on ig. That will tell you everything you need to know. 😂
@blancaof895 күн бұрын
Some bbls look very natural and nice
@TabithaBenjamin-x1iКүн бұрын
I stopped looking at the video after one minute. I realized that I stop listening to men a long time ago and so should yall😂
@tomikacox3605 күн бұрын
I knew they were mostly gonna say natural. Would be nice for you to do one about a natural face, a fully made up face or a little bit of makeup
@iam_trinikimmy2 күн бұрын
I have make friends who say the same thing. But men will be men and their reference may be natural or overweight or no surgery, but if they are given the opportunity to smash a BBL they will for the fun of it, for experience. Yeah all that. But I appreciate the video. Thanks. Love from T&T!
@sabrinab4rmOC9 күн бұрын
I would have been interested in hearing their responses between overweight and BBL.
@animab.fitness40912 күн бұрын
Okayyy Dark Cloud
@XOKOMOCHI11 күн бұрын
Would you all say a natural body and an overweight body is the same, as an overweight body is not fake? Thanks for your feedback.
@lizdelisle191211 күн бұрын
The first answer is always the true answer!
@SSmith-sx3ff9 күн бұрын
🤩WOW 🤩 That man said he doesn’t brag, embellish or lie. God made him and broke the mold! I had no idea that kind of man existed.
@jd63318 күн бұрын
I hope you're being sarcastic
@highlovevibration9 күн бұрын
💯I agree with the working out comment..take care of what you have naturally
@poeticlovee9 күн бұрын
Someone out here liking bbls bc these women keep getting them 😫
@lovebug63888 күн бұрын
This ma'am....ALL of this!
@theperfectbrother10 күн бұрын
I like this challenge the next one should be do men like makeup or a fresh face now when you do it make sure you don't have makeup on because that will sway his decision.