Like daughterofzion said. It's versatile. It's also unique, looks like clouds and leaves. And no race has that hair. That's why they want us to be insecure of our hair. So that we don't see how beautiful it truly is.
@PrincessYonna15 ай бұрын
Which is why I don’t understand why bw won’t wear it out more. It is our pretty privilege
@bre93285 ай бұрын
Sometimes they're just mad you have the audacity to wear your hair. They don't even want it, but they can't understand why you do. I had a preteen biracial ask me, "You really like wearing your hair like that?" When she found out I was going to cut my afro, she was so excited. I was indecisive for a few months, and she would be disappointed when I'd come back to visit and still had my fro. When I finally did get my low cut...Chile the disturbingly, relieved, smile that crept across her face 👀
@lola06005 ай бұрын
I think long 4b hair is beautiful, I love it! Not saying short hair is not beautiful
@Timetrae5 ай бұрын
That’s DEEP!
@AngelicaEstherxo5 ай бұрын
WOW! interesting
@emptynester5475 ай бұрын
Sweetheart I would’ve told her my hair goes with ALL of features and it compliments me!!
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
I've seen that smile before as well
@Cookie-tz7hd5 ай бұрын
they do seem bothered when black women are not wearing those hot mess wigs and weaves. They will stare and be so angry it's weird. And don't let them see your hair blowing in the wind smh..
@Joyinthemorn5 ай бұрын
Has anyone ever had non Black women start playing and tossling their hair when you are around? I have gotten the masculina comment when Im minding my business, nothing masculine about me..they feel intimidated and want to humble you.
@TwiztidPixiel5 ай бұрын
I notice it all the time. If your hair looked bad, they wouldn't care.
@ladyd80285 ай бұрын
I like to let them all see how easily my hair moves: It's bouncing & behaving hair!! (That's a line in a shampoo commercial from the 1970s.) 😉
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Yes I have noticed this smh 🤦🏾♀️ thanks for mentioning this one…and it definitely is an attempted humbling tactic 🤎
@emptynester5475 ай бұрын
I get it all the time and come to realize, wow my hair doesn’t get lice!!
@emptynester5475 ай бұрын
I most definitely noticed it. As soon as I see them do it, it makes me thankful for my hair that it doesn’t get lice.
@Ferrist15 ай бұрын
When a whole group of women assimilates (forced or otherwise) to your aesthetic, I imagine it inflates one's ego. You can say "I'm the best in the world. Everyone loves me or wants to look like me" what a jarring experience when that same assimilating group starts to say, actually no, I love my look the best in the world, and that look happens to be something that cannot be duplicated and is the antithesis of the status quo. So many people's ego boosts are predicated on deflating or keeping in check blk women's self worth/esteem.
@msliberated38995 ай бұрын
💯💯
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree 💯 percent 🤎
@StephHester5 ай бұрын
This
@AshaHassell5 ай бұрын
This is the comment!!! 🎉
@LonnieBhi5 ай бұрын
Exactly because it defies the false notion they have of themselves. In their heads, its like "how dare you try to feel good about yourself?!". If you are living in God's truth, you will be attacked.
@ThePinkSwanCulture5 ай бұрын
I believe there is jealousy towards black women who wear their natural texture hair because they stand out compared to other races of women. Sonia Barbie Tucker truly radiates exoticness, femininity, grace, elegance, class, and pride with her natural textured afro. She is the woman who encouraged me to embrace my natural beauty. There is an earthy and ethnic beauty that radiates when a black woman wears her natural hair. 🖤
@charmaineespeut46275 ай бұрын
We absolutely do stand out especially when we wear it in a fro. I stopped wearing my afro in high school because I got so much attention and then random people started to touch it (I was a teen who didn't know how to establish boundaries).
@Mii..5 ай бұрын
Exactly. All other races look the same or similar in the same room. But bw stick out, just from their hair alone, they force an entire room to notice them. Just from their hair...that's why they're mad.
@Mii..5 ай бұрын
Exactly. All other groups look the same or similar in the same room. But bw stick out, just from their hair alone, they force an entire room to notice them. Just from their hair...that's why they're mad.
@butterflygirl015 ай бұрын
Sonia is adorable. There is this other bw on tiktok who used to travel around the world and many ppl would stop to take pictures with her. I forgot her name but many blk ppl especially the men didn’t like that and thought it was fetishizing towards her afro . Afros are unique and pulls lots of attention.
@KarlaBedminister5 ай бұрын
I'm afraid to try the Afro on Afro Day because I don't know how to prepare it so it won't tangle. Help!
@clenasmavanklompenberg65245 ай бұрын
Our natural hair is a connection to nature
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree 🤎🤎🤎
@myhair_issafoodie91915 ай бұрын
As supposed to what? Other races hair connection is unnatural? I wish we could build self esteem without sounding delusional or exactly like the oppressors. White ppl are as much human as we are. Evil ppl but ppl just the same 😂Also we are just as evil to our own and just as unrepentant.
@OrganicAlumination5 ай бұрын
Okay they say natural hair is childish but usually when a woman wears her natural hair she tends to look younger, like if you always wear wigs and stuff you tend to look older than your actual age
@india32855 ай бұрын
Childish? 😂😂😂😂😂
@444lex5 ай бұрын
@@india3285 yep there’s plenty of bw on TikTok that talks about how “childish” our hair looks on us.
@hourexodus52045 ай бұрын
The other day I got carded at the gas station. I was like “how old do you think I am???” She was like idk maybe 20. I’m 34 😂😂😂
@libfuzzy46292 ай бұрын
Natural hair doesn’t look childish it depends on the style
@shaylow89385 ай бұрын
Girl, no matter I’m gonna show up and shine in my natural hair that’s in my DNA..look or not look, compliment or not, I really don’t care. I love complimenting my beautiful sisters rocking their natural hair. Walk in confidence with any style you wanna rock. Keep your head held high and embrace your crown. Enjoy the journey.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
@shamika53005 ай бұрын
Blk American n proud to rock my 4c I can careless about these haters . Y’all cannot ever shame me with god blessed me with a head full of super thick kinky 4c hair .
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
🤎🤎🤎🤎
@hereforit23475 ай бұрын
Since going on a hair health-and-length journey in 2016, my hair is now a little past hip length. I do not normally wear my hair straightened. The last time I got a silk press was in 2020 and I was at tailbone length at the time. I got a LOT of hateful looks with my long straightened hair from white and other non-Black women. In my experience, long hair on a Black woman, especially if it is also dense, shiny, and healthy looking, PISSES them off! In their minds, long hair is *just for them,* not for US. They hate seeing us with long hair, but they are perfectly happy seeing us in wigs and weaves. I wear my natural hair in plaits under a head wrap most of the time. Every now and then I will wear it in two “Indian” braids hanging down and sometimes I pin the braids up. I will get mean stares from white women and other non-Black women then too. Whether my hair is straightened or in its natural state, they HATE seeing very long hair on a Black woman. 🤦🏽♀️
@xxxarimaxxx5 ай бұрын
Sometime, it's even hard to tell if it's just the hair they're getting so pressed about
@anonymouspotato4325 ай бұрын
tailbone length, daym, can u share ur tips on how you achieved that for a fellow black sister on her growth journey (me.)
@zenaidawilson70584 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@beautifulinc18695 ай бұрын
The woman in the visuals of this video are BEAUTIFUL 😍
@Mii..5 ай бұрын
Facts! They're all so majestic!
@whatsonhermindblog1234 күн бұрын
Agree
@COOKIEM2605 ай бұрын
19 years old here. I stopped wearing weaves in 11th grade. I wear my hair in an afro basically everyday if not then it's twist. Tell me why every now and then at my job I have mostly foreign African black women who have in weaves majority of tims coming up to me saying "oh you wear hair natural, yknow I can do braids, lace fronts, crotchet, etc" or when I keep my twist in for a long time and it gets into the dreading phase (which I personally love) some older black women come up to me saying stuff like "Oh don't dread up that pretty hair". It's really disgusting tbh, I guess to them wearing my hair natural means I can't afford or find anybody to put a weave in it and if I want my hair to look like locs it's my business.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience and smh it’s really sad that a lot of people assume we all want a weave and if we don’t wear them we must be broke …it’s actually the opposite for a lot of us because we are saving so much money by embracing our natural hair🤎
@jupiterdrops77525 ай бұрын
I relate to your experience I'm 17 and I recently just put in micro twist. But I've noticed that black people are more likely to give you the nasty looks regarding your hair because anytime we were our natural hair out its "unkempt" or "Childish" when this is our natural hair growing from our scalp.
@JO-fk5ho5 ай бұрын
That’s crazy, I’m African and have worn my 4C hair naturally. When I came to America, Black American women were quick to tell me how unkempt and poor I looked. I was told being African and Natural wouldn’t work in my favour in the US. The miseducation is global
@PrincessYonna15 ай бұрын
@@JO-fk5hoAfrican women think the same hence they wear wigs and bleach..
@EtherealSolana13 күн бұрын
African people were colonized HARD ignore them HARD. Trust me I know. My parents are African!
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
In my city they want you bald. I stopped letting anyone touch my hair here. " I have to cut your hair or else I cant do it" Me:🖕🏾
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Smh 🤦🏾♀️ I guess this is a problem everywhere 🤎
@aminam64305 ай бұрын
My own mother spent the first 3-4 years (I went natural in 2013) of me being natural calling it ugly, messy and ghetto in order to bully me back into the creamy crack. My mom suffers from self hate and absolutely hates being a dark skin black woman (which I understand because people around her made her feel ugly by bullying her due to her features. It took her to stop using relaxers due to major hair loss for me to have peace about my hair. Most of the time when I wear my natural hair out, women tend to glare at me, no matter the race. Natural hair jealousy is definitely real
@Lex2034-f7y4 ай бұрын
Same! My mom hated when I first went natural. Now she say she loves it. I could care less. They love that creamy crack.
@EtherealSolana13 күн бұрын
They don’t understand how deep of a wound they create in their daughters. Sometimes I feel like completely distancing myself.
@callmecanolli3225 ай бұрын
Our hair in it’s glory is absolutely breathtaking. I am newly natural. Just 18 months and I can’t wait for my Afro to be really high.
@BelwillCoily5 ай бұрын
On natural hair being “childish”… My hair is so “childish” that when I am out and about with my 23 year old son, I’m mistaken for being his sister rather than his mom. Considering that I am in my 50’s, I’ll keep on trekking with my “childish” natural hair because it’s doing me right, as far as I’m concerned, if I’m mistaken as being decades younger than I actually am on the regular. 👍 I do believe the youthful look that natural hair is giving is a source of jealousy both in and outside the Black community. For those inside the Black community it’s their unwillingness to explore natural hair for themselves or to explore the versatility of natural hairstyles on their own hair. So they get mad when they see another naturalista sista pulling it off. For those outside the Black community, jealousy of standing side-by-side with another of a different race who is the same age but the Black person looks decades younger has always been something that can and does happen. It can happen the other way around, there are always exceptions. But more often than not, it doesn’t happen the other way around 🤷♀️
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
I am a Black woman. I am everything.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
🤎🤎🤎🤎
@leannaadams80155 ай бұрын
I remember 2004 to 2006, in Seattle at a Black church I faced bullying from our pastor wife the first Lady. She was light skinned and wore perms and sow in weaves with occasional wigs. During those years I was wearing short dreads in a bob,, two or 4 inch afro that I pinned into a French roll. It was a women's night service and the first lady was preaching in the pulpit talking about. She made remarks like , " some of you all wo dwr why you haven't met you husband yet. You need to do something with your hair. I'd you can't afford to get a perm from the salon go buy a box perm" I was like what is going on. She talking about me. It was not an issue of money, but I wanted healthy natural and to preserve it. I had 2 grandmother's both lived beyond 90 years one never permed her hair. The other permed her hair and heat pressed it too. The one with no perm ever but pressed it for occasion She had hair . The other grandmother who used excessive heat and chemicals did not have any hair on top. I didn't want to be bald in the top in the age of 40's from relaxing hair. I stop perms in 2002. Thank Jesus I been 20 plus years without a perm
@Jasmine-uu2xo5 ай бұрын
straightening hair to keep black men that don't like black women is crazy. Lightskin bw self esteem relied on skin/hair back then. Today, latin/white women are more accessible and that lady husband is most likely cheating on her today with the women she straightens her to emulate. Our natural hair is appreciated by everyone else but our own.
@PrettyPrincess96095 ай бұрын
I have long thick 4a natural hair and I dealt with a lot of nice nasty hair stylists in the past. They will make comments about my hair being too long, too thick, and blamed me because it took them a long time to do my hair. They would often overcharge me as well. They would also cut a lot more than what I asked for off. I also had a really bad experience with a stylist earlier this year where she not only talked bad about about my hair being too long and thick, she braided my hair too tight to the point that I was in pain and couldn’t even sleep at night. I was getting faux locs but she put my real hair in cornrows before attaching the faux locs to my hair. I took the style down and some of my hair came out. It wasn’t a lot but I literally cried when I saw that some of my hair came out after a DAY of wearing faux locs. Fortunately I started going to my sister in law to do my faux locs, twists, and braids. I wash, detangle, and trim my own hair now. I can do plaits which is what I do to my hair after I wash it but I can’t do other braid hair styles so that’s why I go to my sister in law. I also came across nice nasty strangers and ex friends who would ask me if my hair was real or if it was a wig. I have also been denied jobs in the past for wearing my natural hair. When I first did my big chop, I got nothing but nasty comments of people comparing me to Side Show Bob and calling me “ bald headed “. I was literally bullied when my hair was a TWA and I use to get a lot of stares and people would laugh at me with their friends. That motivated me to grow my long hair and now I just get nice nasty comments. I still get stares now after I grew my hair long and often times I’m the only one rocking my natural hair when I walk into a room.
@Aniexo_5 ай бұрын
lol girl look in the mirror and see if you look like me 😂 this is my story to the Tea!
@AshleyWilliams-kl8ff5 ай бұрын
So true, I have had stylists do the same, and I started doing my own hair.
@444lex5 ай бұрын
Omg this is literally my life 😩 I got teased in school for being bald headed, pointing fingers at me, and yes laughing with their friends. My hair is long now I get hate from black preteens, teenagers and adults (I’m 24) the stares I receive are just .. out of spite. Damn if you do have hair damn if you don’t 🤷♀️
@demi53785 ай бұрын
Yes, the only one in the room wearing my natural hair.😮
@callmecanolli3225 ай бұрын
All these behaviors tell you everything you need to know about them. Sis! Rock your beautiful crown right in their faces. Laugh and let them choke off of their jealousy.
@emptynester5475 ай бұрын
The naysayers will realize one day that weaves,braids ,wigs, and perms will be their detriment!
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree🤎🤎🤎
@Ferrist15 ай бұрын
Braids are cultural expression. Wigs/weaves though we created them no longer are. We hide behind them. Relaxers. No comment.
@Opinionatedcancer5 ай бұрын
@@Ferrist1wearing braids back to back isn’t okay but that’s what happens
@Userw4935 ай бұрын
@@Opinionatedcancerwhy is it a problem? I wear my hair, wigs, and weave. Natural hair is Beautiful! I’m so sick of being a BW we’re judge and police by everyone. Now BW! Can we all stop the divide. BW are beautiful how ever we portray ourselves. Other races treat all BW like crap! Doesn’t matter how we wear our hair. I get stared at all the time. I had a stylist take my hair out.
@xoxo_lilbitt5555 ай бұрын
Judging how we wear our hair is detrimental you think being natural going to solve black problems & it’s really not
@Sinadarling5 ай бұрын
Trying to humble black women by downgrading our hair will never work. Our hair is definitely our antenna/connection to spirit. As Halle Bailey said in her song “Heaven wears your halo. They know you’re an Angel.” 🤎
@Sacredwoman225 ай бұрын
I can’t wait for BW to realize that natural hair is where it’s at baby. Everyone else knows
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
@@Sacredwoman22 I agree 🤎🤎🤎
@EarthEnergy20245 ай бұрын
When I'm around other American Black women who usually wear weave, false eyelashes, and chemical covered nails, they never make any comments about me wearing my natural hair in twists up in my natural hair protective style. So I continue to wear my natural hair, make DIY hair care products, and wash, dry, and set my own hair without giving a damn who likes or dislikes me for embracing how the Natural Organic Divine Source Creator and Mother Earth created me.
@maatiangoddess98905 ай бұрын
Same. It’s SO quiet around the baddies. BUT, I salute them because I also know that they are still in their heart space about what we are doing and who we all are as sisters.
@VillanVee5 ай бұрын
Don’t act like a light skin that is not true
@Mii..5 ай бұрын
@@VillanVee what is "acting like a light skin"? Why are Blk people so outdated in their own community? 🤦🏽♀
@Mii..5 ай бұрын
Blk american women are also the ones that hate on other bw because they have long natural hair. It's not just yt or asians, it's our own community being ignorant. It's the same with the light skin and dark skin "war" in the community.
@Mii..5 ай бұрын
@@VillanVee what is "acting like a light skin"? Why are ⚫people so outdated in their own community? 🤦🏽♀
@DalidaSabbat5 ай бұрын
I also do my own hair now I don't trust going to the hair salons nomore 😔
@zakitibengu49153 ай бұрын
Wise woman
@ET-ki5df5 ай бұрын
I learned how to do my own 4c hair and it has saved me money!!!!
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
It saved me so much money as well🤎🤎
@camjamcam15 ай бұрын
6:26 ; the Tignon law was enacted in the U.S. in 1786 to force Black women to cover their hair with a scarf known as a tignon. Previous to that, similar laws were enacted in the Caribbean. White wives were so jealous of the attention that their husbands were giving Black women due, in part, to the attractiveness of their (Our) hair. They probably had massive hissy fits! Perhaps some wife of a lawmaker or judge forced him to create such a self-serving restriction of Black beauty. I've read that it was a classist as well as racist attempt at control, although the Black women often turned the scarves into elaborately attractive adornments.
@gmcmim15 ай бұрын
Hairstylists are the worst. Like you said go to a stylist who knows what they are doing. Also long thick hair is very enviable. Regardless of texture.
@ladyd80285 ай бұрын
A woman's hair is her glory, Scripture teaches us. Be cautious about who you allow to get that close to you. 💡
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree🤎
@AminaPhilosophy5 ай бұрын
Go to a stylist that LOVES Afro hair.
@jasminscarbrough25965 ай бұрын
I can definitely relate to the people constantly accusing you of having weave. Women typically know but black men and nonblack people constantly be trying me lol. I don’t know if it’s envy but people definitely don’t expect black darker skinned women to have long hair.
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
It's an insult
@444lex5 ай бұрын
They just mad because they cant fit you in the “bald headed” stereotype.
@Ferrist15 ай бұрын
I actually feel like I want to do an act of vi0lence when blk men pull that bull ish.
@5.10brwnskin5 ай бұрын
@@444lex yeeeep!! They always want something to look down on.
@2ndworldcountryusa5835 ай бұрын
I knew this it’s so obvious about them being insecure
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree 🤎
@janeenharrison19535 ай бұрын
The comments makes me so sad! This is what Black Women deal with on the daily? No wonder we suffer from high blood pressure, heart disease and fibroids. The daily stress is real.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for commenting and I agree it’s very sad to see so many people bothered by black women embracing their beauty but we are going to shine bright regardless 🤎
@sheritownsend53595 ай бұрын
When I did the big chop in the early 2000s, I was surprised at how many black beauticians said they didn't do natural hair. Many just didn't want to switch over. I, now, see more and more naturals and I think it's due to seeing these natural styles more on tv. Truth is, what is often shown in the media is what people gravitate towards.
@VillanVee5 ай бұрын
She’s right about gatekeeping long hair
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for commenting 🤎what was your experience with this?
@janayflowersmedia88175 ай бұрын
Yesss! I recently began wearing my long, type 4 hair out again and I feel the most beautiful and confident with my own hair. I think this says a lot because I feel beautiful and confident most of the time, regardless of how I wear my hair (I thank my upbringing and family for this) 😂😂 I do think our hair can easily make those close to us a bit jealous. Our hair is an attention grabber, and if you’re around people who crave attention… you know the rest. It’s all good though. Just don’t let anyone dim your light, because they will try. ✨
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
My hair is better. My puff is huge huge and my hair is longer than most of these white girls in my area. I like my hair more than rhan i like most people
@isolda9805 ай бұрын
Thank you for your bold commentary & what a great channel! Today my natural hair is in menopause but making a comeback. When I was working, I had a black woman urge me to straighten my hair for a promotion! I didn't get the job, but I kept my pride, dignity & afro!
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
That’s awesome and thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
@ddf72025 ай бұрын
Natural hair is only hard when ur trying to do other hair texture styles and methods. Do what ur hair can do.
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
My puff is HUGE AND BEAUTIFUL. I don't like when certain people touch it. Don't let me straighten it ...they think that I'm a sucka! Til I open my mouth. I rocks ruff and stuff with my afro puff. Straight up 😶
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
🤎🤎🤎🤎
@india32855 ай бұрын
Rock on witcha bad self!
@robstar1a5 ай бұрын
Yep. Don’t go to hair stylists with dry heads. They will cut all your hair off.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree smh 🤦🏾♀️
@infiniti__alex5 ай бұрын
Danggg😂
@eclipsedeucy11445 ай бұрын
I been knew there was jealousy of long, type 4 hair.
@wello58395 ай бұрын
Self esteem is everything
@Ms.Robinson__5 ай бұрын
Great post. Relaxer hasn't touched my hair since 2007 and I went through alllllll the persecution. I love the versatility of natural hair. Now, at 62 I'm transitioning again to grey and fully expect to have a dope salt-n-pepper fro' by next year and a fly bob when I blow it out.
@emptynester5475 ай бұрын
The next time someone comes “side ways” about my God Given Hair, I’m going to tell them to take it up with the creator!
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Good one🤎🤎🤎🤎
@Mayousse5 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@TammyTheQueenBee4 ай бұрын
💯
@fatimamanneh94325 ай бұрын
I have small size locs that I have been taking care of for 5 years 5 months now I started with ear length hair now my locs are armpit length & still growing I get stares some ask if my hair is real I guess because I am Carmel brown skin tone I’m not supposed to have long hair it is ridiculous
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I really would like to do a video highlighting locs. If you want to share your experiences please email me at coffeecuties777@gmail.com
@sakuraesther63095 ай бұрын
Yes please share your experience 😊
@Pearliemaie5 ай бұрын
I used to hate my natural hair I wanted to have straight hair so bad now I love my hair I love myself I feel like people want to keep us down including some of our family because they can't Embrace what they truly are everybody wants to be black but they can't and that's okay they should just love themselves for who they are hating us it's not okay and trying to put us down for what we are and who we are doesn't change who they are and in fact it makes it worse for them
@LavenderDream-j5h5 ай бұрын
I blame stereotypes and propaganda.
@TaqSoto5 ай бұрын
I think that's black issues in general. Whenever the conversation is about black people, you always see the "what about us?" brigade come out. We saw this with the whole black lives matter movement and people wanting to change the conversation to All lives matter. Yes we know that, but right now we're specifically talking about black lives. I'll never understand why its ok for everyone else to have their spaces, but when black people try and do the same its always a problem.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree 🤎
@Mayousse5 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more. And those stupid "all lives matter" memes are still around. Then they throw the "police arrest more white people or white people get harassed more". It's exhausting. But we need to continue to fight so our children won't have to go through this.
@KamalasNotLikeUs19 күн бұрын
Do you really not understand? If so, start with videos here by Neely Fuller.
@I.am.hooked5 ай бұрын
African girl here, I started my hair journey last year July 1 and it’s been one year. My Afro has gotten bigger!!!? 😊😊❤ I was shocked when I saw my Afro.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for commenting and that’s so awesome 🤎👑👑
@I.am.hooked5 ай бұрын
@@CoffeeCuties777 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
@JasmineSwann5 ай бұрын
I had a jealous stylist burn my hair on purpose. Killed my curl pattern.
@JO-fk5ho5 ай бұрын
African and it was a culture shock being ostracised by both Black and white Americans for my 4C hair in social and corporate spaces. I’m glad we are shifting perspectives.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for commenting and I agree🤎
@CalvinNkosi-op3hw2 ай бұрын
I am glad to see black women embracing their natural hair.
@CoffeeCuties7772 ай бұрын
🤎🤎🤎🤎
@Margaret-c1k5 ай бұрын
Natural hair growth is still a new revolution to many.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree 🤎🤎🤎
@anaiyacooper65185 ай бұрын
Y’all this is real because I wore my hair out a lot during school and my “friends” would say the most questionable things like why do you keep wearing your hair like that, or even this other girl said your hair kind looks bad.. and YALL MY HAIR DOES NOT WVEN LOOK BAD it’s beautiful curly hair don’t ever think your natural hair is ugly yall
@brookesmith34763 ай бұрын
I think black natural hair is soo beautiful. The styles with locs are sooo beautiful also.
@CoffeeCuties7773 ай бұрын
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@Mayousse5 ай бұрын
As a professional belly dancer, I PROUDLY dance with mine. I am blessed to have this crown & I'm not letting any hateful, jealous, disturbed, or demon posessed "person" (remember they attack in all sorts of ways including making you feel less than) tell me how I can wear my hair. I LOVE looking different; unique, exotic, etc from other dancers & people. I AM ME & I LOVE IT. Love your hair family & be blessed 💐🌷.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Oh wow a belly dancer…that’s awesome and I agree 💯 percent 🤎🤎🤎
@clearly.pearly93775 ай бұрын
My friend said I’m fake when I wore my big puffy ponytail after taking my wig install out??? Confused me.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Wow smh 🤦🏾♀️
@AminaPhilosophy5 ай бұрын
Friend? 😬
@thisaintmeee17905 ай бұрын
That's not your friend.
@ketly275 ай бұрын
That’s a hater.
@brexxy215 ай бұрын
After I had someone be scissor happy in my hair, I'm the ONLY one that can put shears to my hair
@Jordè12224 ай бұрын
Something special happens when you embrace yourself ❤ i wish this for all women❤
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
I agree 🤎🤎🤎
@KimberlyByrdPR5 ай бұрын
Yes, I have experienced other races/ethnicities being jealous of black hair and its unique beauty
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
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@thebalancedmotherhood5 ай бұрын
No lies told in this video.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
@shellygarland87665 ай бұрын
white women actually listen in about our hair ALOT and wait until we're speaking on a topic of hair to try to call us insecure
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree! There are a few in the comments right now smh 🤦🏾♀️
@sandradavis41015 ай бұрын
Since 2020…..I retired……No more Relaxed hair,…..so liberating,……I love it I wear it in twisted Style,,,..it is growing,,,.and I’m loving it,…..and yes it is Growing,….,❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@danyelleedwards45704 ай бұрын
Natural hair is so gorgeous. I adore it.
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
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@kizziekente24685 ай бұрын
I see why they jealous cuz I’m jealous lol! Y’all’s hair is BEAUTIFUL! I went natural because of a home girl who has 4c hair!
@joelledavis45475 ай бұрын
Yess! That's right, you better tell em' ! Get some sunglasses bc we're SHINING over here!!
@margaretwhite38995 ай бұрын
We better recognize that we are the Queen's of all women!!!
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
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@micahrose75665 ай бұрын
Yessir 😊👍
@hereforit23475 ай бұрын
I have an unpopular opinion when it comes to the “Don’t touch my hair.” situation. When I was a kid, I wore a completely virgin Afro from 1970 to 1974. I grew up in racially diverse but predominantly white communities in Southern California. A Jewish family came to live with us for two years from 1970 to 1972. When we moved from Santa Monica to L.A., they came with us. The daughter was my friend and classmate. My mom’s best friend was another white woman married to a Mexican man and their four kids were the same age as my siblings and me (there are three of us). That family gave a lot of get-togethers and we spent a lot of time at their house. There were no Black people in their neighborhood and we were always the only Black people at their parties. One day, in about 1973, one of the daughters, who was my age, asked if she could touch my Afro. I said, “Sure.” and she commenced to squeezing my very dense, tightly-curled ‘fro. I don’t remember any adjectives she might have used to describe how my hair felt. I think she may have said it felt “neat” or “neat-o”, which we used to say back then. After that, her siblings took a turn caressing my hair. I knew even at that age that Afro-textured hair was often considered undesirable. But many Black people, mostly adults and boys, wore Afros. I refused to feel ashamed of my hair or apprehensive about anyone touching it or fearful of what they may say or think. I agree that people should ask permission to touch another person’s hair, regardless of ethnicity. But I don’t agree that someone’s desire to touch a Black person’s hair is always coming from a negative or judgmental place. I remember as a kid, little Black girls always wanting to play in white or Latino kids’ hair. If a Black, mixed, or bi-racial girl in the neighborhood or friend group was thought to have “good hair”, the other girls were constantly combing, braiding, and touching it. Why can’t we assume that maybe, just maybe, other ethnicities really do admire our hair, it’s look, it’s feel, and it’s texture? After all, when the Afro and Jheri curl were at their peaks, white people were running to the salon to get tightly-curled perms. Everyone from Barbara Streisand to the Brady Bunch dad was rocking a faux ‘fro. Look at these Asian kids today getting perms to make their hair kinky. There was a white boy in my Jr. High school with stick-straight super-fine hair who came back from a Christmas break with a freshly-permed Afro. He wore a cake cutter in it like the Black kids did, but they didn’t have the techniques they have today and his ‘fro was bouncy and blowing all over the place and the comb 🪮 didn’t stay very well, but he was trying, HARD, to be like the Black kids. What I’m trying to say is, when we proudly rock our natural hair, when we act and think like *BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL,* other ethnicities see it and feel it. They envy and admire us because no other group of people is like us or looks like us. No one else is as graceful or dignified as Black people. I grew up in the days of Black pride. White people were copying us left and right, even more than they do now. In the aftermath of the Civil Rights movement, there was a unity and sense of community that disappeared somehow. I’m not saying we should let people touch our hair if we don’t want them to. But we should be proud of our beautiful, natural locks and tresses and not be afraid of what anyone thinks. We need to “normalize” our natural hair in all places and spaces.
@camjamcam15 ай бұрын
Well said! 👋🏽
@hereforit23475 ай бұрын
@@camjamcam1: Thank you. 🙏🏿 Sometimes I feel very misunderstood. 🥰
@camjamcam15 ай бұрын
@@hereforit2347 You're so welcome! I remember those days, too, I love that you wrote, "What I’m trying to say is, when we proudly rock our natural hair, when we act and think like BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL, other ethnicities see it and feel it." and "We need to “normalize” our natural hair in all places and spaces." Those words resonate!
@hereforit23475 ай бұрын
@@camjamcam1: 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@dianabryan74214 ай бұрын
I love this perspective ❤️ if we truly believe our hair is desirable and beautiful, why wouldn't others!
@jenn66385 ай бұрын
So TRUE! Those hairstylists would whack off my hair EVERYTIME!!!
@noodlesuzuki55134 ай бұрын
This video gives me very much of my mom telling me they just hate me because I’m beautiful AND I LOVE IT. Helps me break out of my insecurities and self hate thank you for this ❤
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
@@noodlesuzuki5513 Thank you for watching 🤎🤎🤎
@TheDevilWearsPrada.05 ай бұрын
I wore my long natural hair back in Jamaica in what they’d call bush everyone was family or friends of family and of course every bald victim of relaxer and self hate someone told me ppl were saying my hair didn’t look good but wouldn’t even tell me who it was always something but I was the best looking in the whole town make it make sense I realized later they really hated on anyone young and attractive without baggage especially if ur from foreign (not Jamaican born ) they assume ur life is easier it didn’t help that I had the complexion and body type they worship along w curly kinky healthy virgin hair even my granny called me a whore and kicked me out for All the attention I was getting men started fighting over me and their gfs were wanting to fight telling my granny they want their men to leave me alone (mind u I entertained nobody but one man the whole time and he wasn’t even one of these losers w a woman lusting after a new girl it was complete chaos I was insulted and picked apart by women and men a lot very insecure set of ppl made me look at my country diffrent
@stephaniepink90605 ай бұрын
That’s right!! Exposure is also sharing information!❤❤❤💯💯🥰🥰
@FineNaturalHairROCKS4 ай бұрын
Such gorgeous Black women wearing their stunning natural hair! I'm so here for this entire video!!! 😍
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
@@FineNaturalHairROCKS Thank you for watching…I just subscribed to your channel 🤎
@FineNaturalHairROCKS4 ай бұрын
@@CoffeeCuties777 Aww, thank you! Welcome to our Curlfriend Crew!!!! 💛
@eclipsedeucy11445 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video. Our hair issues need to be in our talks all the time.❤❤
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
@Ariana09994 ай бұрын
I always get... "Is that your hair?"... From blacks & whites (men and women) ... I even had a lady say "that's not real hair, stop lying".. After she just asked me and I told her it's all me ... I heard her whispering to her husband saying aint no way ...
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
I have a video about black women being forced to prove their hair is real dropping today so make sure to subscribe 🤎
@waitandsee20245 ай бұрын
When I started wearing my own hair, this past June, I wasn’t comfortable with it. I went to a natural hair salon. The stylist assessed my hair and told me I needed protein and moisture and to to stick with a consistent routine. I did that and curls have popped. I now love wearing my hair, I think it looks better than any weave or wig I have ever worn. Wearing your own hair makes you feel more confident, and you embrace who you truly are instead of hiding behind a white woman’s hair. that is the epiphany that came to me all those years I wore wigs I was hiding behind a white woman. I am a beautiful queen in my own right. And my hair is gorgeous. I’ve also noticed I grab the attention of more black men which I have never done.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
@@waitandsee2024 That’s awesome…thanks for sharing 🤎🤎🤎
@juliemesser20535 күн бұрын
Life's too short for jealousy! Keep rocking that natural hair!😊
@CoffeeCuties7775 күн бұрын
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@Tiffanytaliah4 ай бұрын
I just wanna say I learned a lot of important information from this channel, I personally am on a journey and the styles and pictures I see of the beautiful girls 4c or 4b or any type 4 style has inspired me to try it on mine 💜
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and supporting 🤎🤎🤎
@jacklyneverage38815 ай бұрын
Love this video. Very true.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thank you 🤎🤎🤎
@meraki92845 ай бұрын
Hi I'm new to your channel but I'm glad to hear you talk about this topic I had a experience just the other day I was out running errands I had just done my hair in a twist out it😊 was full and fluffy and difined yt women walk past me look at my hair i glanced back and caught patting and running her fingers through her hair it was clear to see she was insecure after she saw my hair i love showing off my hair so theres not many natural women where i live so alot of people are shocked to see me with long natural hair
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for commenting and yep a lot of people get insecure seeing a black women embrace their natural hair and beauty 🤎
@rachelwashere12-15 ай бұрын
I thought i was the only one that noticed that i have 4b but when i wet it its around 4a its crazy how jealous they be of your curly hair ...
@Herhighness2116 күн бұрын
Ur texture is ur texture whether its wet or dry. If u have 4b hair then it’s still 4b while wet.
@WEAREFREENOW5 ай бұрын
Thank You,😍 Coffee Cuties With Blessings Overflowing.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
🤎🤎🤎🤎
@AnomalyBelleza5 ай бұрын
Out of all of the variations of the human race in the world, nobody has hair like us. 🥇🏆 I can certainly see how it is the object of both scrutiny and envy at the same time. Envy and jealousy more than anything. When we wear our hair out, both the men and the women gaze. When we wear our hair out in a crowd of fellow highly textured counterparts who do not showcase their natural strands (especially in societies where we are not the majority population), it instantly projects confidence, and we know how some people feel when you’re confident…..
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
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@Canadascx5 ай бұрын
They Be so bothered.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
I agree 🤎🤎🤎
@asalynnn5 ай бұрын
I wouldn't say this is rooted in jealousy but in texturism and racism/colorism but I understand what you are trying to say.
@AnimalLover24004 ай бұрын
It is rooted in jealous, modern day racism is entirely rooted in jealousy + anti-Blk indoctrination from society.
@notesofnara5 ай бұрын
Can you make a video on locs please??? Because...girrrrrlllll...i don't even know where to begin. I had a fro beginning in 2008 and then locked it up in 2014. I rock freeform locs. It fits my lifestyle.....i love it! However, the people...
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Yes I would love to do a video about locs….can you please email me your experience with locs so I can properly represent the loc community in a video. Coffeecuties777@gmail.com 🤎
@namewithheldnamewithheld27253 ай бұрын
We are wonderfully made.
@CoffeeCuties7773 ай бұрын
💯🤎🤎🤎thanks for watching 🤎🤎
@mirqcleedits5 ай бұрын
Omg YES! 😭15:20 - 15:39 Okay here’s my similar story on that. Last summer ago I had got my first sew in in the month of June to August and after that first time I realized when I washed my hair the front of my hair was longer and straight from the rest of my original hair texture and It was heat damage and then I have gotten a second sew in from last August to October I didn’t get that much heat damage and now recently I just took out my sew in and….I had more heat damaged so I just decided to stop getting sew ins, bc the tracks I had was called Empire and my hair wasn’t even matching with the tracks that’s why I was always putting heat everyday to blend in the tracks, but I also put heat protection on it but I guess that ain’t work so now I’m just gonna let it grow to its texture that is supposed to be. And I have a head full of hair as well and ppl was jealous of my hair especially other black girls when I was in school. Also I subscribe to your channel ✨🤎
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Thanks for subscribing and the front heat damage is the WORSE but doing a lot of braid/twist downs will get you through that phase until it grows back 🤎🤎🤎🤎
@ras_mal4 ай бұрын
I like the photo comparing the hair to trees because I’ve noticed that and realized that I like looking like a tree or plant tbh
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
It’s so beautiful right….thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
@Yougotthis12123 ай бұрын
When someone stares at me for a long time I always think they think I’m exceptionally beautiful and they cant take their eye off me ❤
@CoffeeCuties7773 ай бұрын
That’s a great mindset to have 🤎🤎🤎
@JadetheGoober5 ай бұрын
I feel like bc im a light skinned alt black woman, the wildness of my semi free form locs is celebrated, but my dark skinned sisters and sisters with more african phenotypes don’t get such grace.
@KamalasNotLikeUs19 күн бұрын
Light skinned? Girl, bye.
@barbarafallin20385 ай бұрын
I am going back to a salon, my hair has grown so much,that I just can't do it anymore, due to hand and shoulder surgery, unless I cut it short, I need someone to help me take care of it,it been 2 years since I cut it,thank you Blue Magic Castor Oil hair grease
@DalidaSabbat5 ай бұрын
Omg I wear my natural hair at my job around a lot of white people sometimes I put a flower clip in my hair and they will never compliment my hair they will only compliment the flower clip smfh and they stare on top of my head like they have a problem with how my hair looks I rock braids too but when they do that I rock my natural hair even longer so they can keep looking at it even longer sometimes lol 🤣🤣🤣
@tasha54705 ай бұрын
Wow. All of the is so true. But the part where you can't trust your hair stylist is definitely a personal experience for me. I had a lady that washed, trimmed and styled my hair the( whole works )and when she was done this lady took so much of my hair off. My hair was shoulder length. I initially asked for a Bob and Silk press. And then the whole time I'm smelling a burnt smell, when I asked about it, she just said that she used heat protectant. She also was making subliminal comments about my type hair with other clients and even suggest that I get a relaxer ! Long story short, I lost a-lot of my hair, didn't get the style that I asked for and I still paid her the full amount. I did expressed my disappointment, And the next day she texted me and offered me a free service. I never went back. When I washed my hair expecting my natural texture I had severe heat damage.
@jenn66385 ай бұрын
Electricity - the tighter the coil, the tighter the signal and messages. With our hair, the tighter the coil, the tighter the LOVE (from God and man). We receive the messages better. ❤
@angelam94954 ай бұрын
Our hair is beautiful 😍 🤩 ❤
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
💯🤎🤎🤎🤎
@Lady_Clare44 ай бұрын
CONFIDENCE!!! YES GIRL❤!
@CoffeeCuties7774 ай бұрын
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@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ they jealous. The end. This video should have been you saying just that.😂. 2 seconds.
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
Have you noticed how eEEEveryone is "curly" today?
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
My hair is better
@patriciataylor69355 ай бұрын
I agree with you 💯💯
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
🤎🤎🤎
@jeminawallace61055 ай бұрын
Giiiirrrrl, why am I 52 and just hearing this kinda glorification of my beautiful hair. I'm just getting acquainted to my natural hair since childhood because of having "nappy" hair. We'll guess what? I LOVE touching my coils, naps or whatever you wanna call it.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
That’s so awesome….thanks for watching 🤎🤎🤎
@tanzaniandonnainitaly99055 ай бұрын
Some white Italian man told me your hair looks like an umbrella 😂.
@CoffeeCuties7775 ай бұрын
Oh wow! That’s a new one🤎
@Idjirina5 ай бұрын
sending love to all coily hair baddies, you're gorgeous❤