navigating miscarriage

[@slinossier]

I rarely comment on KZbin, but after hearing your story, I felt compelled to. I’m currently 11 weeks into my second pregnancy, so I deeply understand the anxiety you’ve been experiencing. Becoming a mother, even to an unborn child, is a profoundly transformative journey that reveals the depths of who you are. Everything you’re going through offers a glimpse of the person you’re capable of becoming. While no words can truly ease your pain, with time, you may come to see how this experience has helped you clarify what truly matters in life. Sending you a big hug

[@FarahRaja]

Thanks so much, you're so right. Congratulations on your pregnancy, hope everything goes well take care of yourself

[@Summysun624]

oh honey, my heart is breaking for you. so so sorry, I know that means nothing right now. I really hope you are able to find something to hold on to to get you through this that gives you strength.

[@FarahRaja]

Thanks so much sis, this means a lot

[@abidasikder8247]

So sorry for your loss, may Allah help you heal inshallah and may Allah bless you with a family of your own in the future inshallah.

[@FarahRaja]

Thank you so much, really appreciate it

[@KushQueen9]

I have never watched your channel, but this video showed up. I am so sorry this happened to you, i can't even imagine how it feels. Life can truly be difficult at times and we may never understand but remember everything always works for your highest good. Sending love!❤

[@savanna7382]

I remember messaging you privately under a year ago about my upcoming wedding and the struggles I had in my situation. Your message helped me so much and gave me hope as I at the time had very little support. I really hope you find the strength to get through this, I know you will. I hope through this journey you have a great support system too. Thinking about you, sending my love.

[@rossmurphy5834]

Aww no way so sorry for your loss. Hope you and your family get through this difficult period. Do take care of yourself and wish you all the best in your future

[@FarahRaja]

Thank you, really appreciate it

[@livelovelife71]

I never usually comment on anyone’s videos but felt like I needed too ! Firstly may Allah heal you and give you sabr ! Speak about it as much as you feel like you need to , no one really understands the pain until they go through it themselves . I had two miscarriages in 2023 and I was in the most depressed and anxious place in life , praying and begging Allah to bless me with a child one day. I didn’t realise how much I wanted to be a mother until I lost my babies. Today Alhumdulillah I sit here holding my 4 month old and want to remind anyone going through this that we plan but Allah is the best of planners. May Allah heal your heart and bless you with what your heart desires x

[@piya-mia]

Farah my love, you’re such a kind hearted beautiful person. I’ve always thought you were the purest soul and so so authentic. I am so sorry for your loss - may Allah taalah provide you with comfort and strength through this difficult time and I pray you receive great joy in the future and peace ❤ I’m praying for you and this is a test from God I can’t even imagine what you’re going through but all I can say is there are so many people that see how much of a bright light you are in this world and you have the strength to get through these difficult feelings ❤ I’m praying for you

[@razinamarjan1110]

Just under Ur video I saw mufti menks recent post.. - the darkness, the tears, the lonely nights. Embrace them. They brought you back to the one who made you. The one who showered your path of light and lightened the heaviness in your heart. Trust him to always be there for you. Honestly I pray Allah makes it easy for you, he won't burden any soul more than it can bare and he must really love you to test you this greatly. May this child be your ticket into Jannah and hug you warmly when you meet ❤️❤️

[@FarahRaja]

Thankyou so much, ameen

[@Miimkx]

So sorry for your loss,hun. May Allah grant you peace and contentment with what He has decreed and may he answer all your prayers.

[@monkr3005]

"The script is written in the mind of the Laplace's demon. We are mere actors playing our mortal roles." -HJK

[@sumayyahmussa1860]

So sorry to hear, take all the time you need to process ❤ sending you love and light x

[@nosheensamyal]

Aww girl! Im so so SO sorry to hear! I can only imagine what you are feeling right now, and yes, there is nothing anyone can say or do which would make any of it better. I can only imagine nothing can really soothe that uneasy feeling inside. But i pray Allah gives you strength and courage to get through this. I pray day by day it hurts that little bit less and you can come to terms with it. Easier said than done, I know. But all we can do is ride the wave and work on keeping ourselves as upright as possible. Feel what you need to feel, speak what you need to speak but I hope you never lose hope. Hope in yourself, the people around you and your creator. Im praying for you, and just know, although we are not physically there with you, always just a message or video away.. sending you lots of love and hugs xxx

[@FarahRaja]

Thank you so much, this really means a lot xxx

[@Cassandane1]

So sorry for your loss Farah, so brave to speak about it, I hope it helps heal you. Miscarriages are common like you said, I hope you have all the support you need. Sometimes we dont realise at the time, but I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, maybe God saved you from a hardship, or possible unseen issues in the future, nevertheless it isnt easy, but Allah swt know best.

[@Aminah_Asim]

Aww this is soo sad to hear but just remember that the baby will be waiting for you in jannah and if u are thrown into the hellfire that baby will call for you in jannah.May Allah give you sabr and help you with your loss 😢😢😢

[@FarahRaja]

Thank you sis, ameen

[@fariahuq4425]

My Beautiful girl Farah ❤❤ I saw the video completely and I just wish I could give you my shoulder to fully cry it out but that’s not possible. Sending you a lot of love sweetheart. You are at least 5yrs younger than me but the way you achieved your goals at such a young age is inspirational. Grieving is a process and it’s possible that you will grief this loss for a while but please also focus on the positive achievements as well. I understand it’s hard because the loss is so big but eventually you will be able to. Take care sweetheart ❤

[@FarahRaja]

This is so kind, thank you sis i really appreciate it xx

[@fayeahmed3678]

I had my first miscarriage in January 2021, I was so niave thinking it would never been me. Past forward 2025, I've now had another miscarriage. And 2 ectopics one being recent. I have no babies earthside. I would say my personality has changed so much. I'm praying for you sis ❤ I pray you heal and never go through it again.

[@FarahRaja]

I'm so so sorry to hear that, you're so strong to have gone through all of that I'm praying for you too sis

[@fayeahmed3678]

@FarahRaja its the first time I have come across your page so forgive me if I'm ignorant - but in Islam our babies will wait for us at the doors of jannah. (NOT sure if you're muslim).

[@gabs3765]

Farah idk if this helpful but it’s crazy how common this is and not a lot of people don’t talk about! It’s probably so isolating but know you are not alone!

[@mayamirza-gill6263]

Salam I am another silent watcher and I wanted to comment after this video. I am so sorry for your loss. It is truly heartbreaking to lose a baby no matter how early or whatever, its so hard. InshaAllah you will have healthy babies in the near future. Ameen. When this happened to me, 9 years ago, in my first pregnancy. I was so scared of what it could mean. Throughout my next pregnancies I was terrified of something going wrong. I truly understand how you feel, and I agree it should be talked about because it can help the grieving process. It shouldn’t be hidden or feel ashamed. One quote from a hadith that really helped me was that a miscarried fetus will wait for you at the gates of Jannah, saying to Allah that it won’t enter without its mother, and will pull you with the umbilical cord to enter Jannah together, because without you all the joys of Paradise are incomplete. So inshaAllah, one day, you will be reunited with your baby. ❤

[@PremilaPatel-g9h]

Sorry for your loss...😢🥺 Don't give up...Onwards and upwards girl! 👍👍🥰❤

[@FarahRaja]

Thank you

[@LittleLiarRammy]

Sometimes we don’t always understand why things happen, but we find comfort in knowing that Allah knows best. He tests us in ways we may not expect, and though it may be difficult, this is part of His plan. I know it must be incredibly hard to experience such a loss, especially after feeling the joy of anticipation. I pray that Allah grants you strength and patience through this challenging time, and that He blesses you with a healthy pregnancy in the future. Please forgive me if my words fall short, but I hope they bring some comfort 🤍

[@FarahRaja]

Thanks so much for your kind words, it means a lot

[@tasyali5155]

I had a miscarriage, along with this no support from my husband, and dealing with toxic in laws, who were infact relief to see me in pain / grieving. I feel had I got the support it would help me to heal, but its been 6 years, still grieving. Now, my husband does not want kids, he married me for buying a property, there is more to say but I can't put everything in this comment box, but Allah swt will help, noone else can

[@Abida._.]

I’m so so sorry for your loss

[@hassanb5912]

Assalaamu alaikum Farah. It's been an incredibly long time and was sent your video. It's really sad to hear this news and I pray you stay strong and this builds mental fortitude for the future after going through this and May Allah swt bless you with much more in this life and the next. Your still very young and got a lot of life still ahead of you. I was debating whether to message or not just based on strange circumstances and the public domain...but just wanted you to know we all love you and Ibby whether we talk or not. Take care...Much love ❤️ salaam

[@kenthesodaaddict801]

Sorry to hear about your story. I hope you have a better experience next time. It is a good experience to have a little one grow up with you. Me and my wife tried Ivf. I wish you luck on your next journey on this.

[@FarahRaja]

Thank you so much, wishing the same for you

[@kenthesodaaddict801]

@ you are welcome my TikTok friend. You have a beautiful soul. Hearing your story makes me love my child even more. Because the way you girls go thru pregnancy is so hard. I am praying for a better outcome later for you.

[@sanamahmood4953]

You might not find all the reasons that you wanted to find but that’s the thing with tawakkul. Just remind yourself that He knows everything whether they are things you don’t know or things that are in your heart. We are tested in this dunya because this is not our permanent home. Maybe, this will strengthen your relationship with Allah (inshaAllah) and help you detach from this dunya. Always remind yourself that this dunya is temporary. Keep trusting Allah! May Allah ease your pain and bless you with a healthy child at the best time possible, Ameen You got thissss!

[@jotilochun80]

No baby girl! I’m not going to watch this but I wanted to send you love, cuddles and a like. Did you even realise you are already a mum? I didn’t realise it until I got pregnant again but I love the baby I never got to hold just as much as I love my boy now. Motherhood is you! ❤️

[@rukaiyadanial1476]

May Allah give you sabr, inshallah God will bless you again❤️ praying for you siss xxx

[@FarahRaja]

Ameen sis thank you xxx

[@sabr8399]

I’m so sorry to hear this but you are right. You learn a lot about yourself, life, Allah (swt), what is truly important etc. insha’Allah Allah makes this easy for you moving forward. I know you might not see the wisdom in it now but one day you will. Try and put your trust in Allah ❤. Everything is written for you. This might be the sign to strengthen your relationship with Allah (swt). He might be calling you. I will never assume anything from a video but I sense you have a pure heart and I feel the pain through the screen. I will keep you in my Dua’s! May Allah bless you with a healthy baby and a beautiful family insha’Allah. Thank you for the video. Xx

[@AnimeMyAnswer]

I’m so sorry, lots of virtual hugs

[@rizwanamolazam5425]

So sorry for your loss May Allah give you sabr ❤

[@JJerry-q8c]

Remember everything happens for a reason have trust in Allah swt it wasn’t meant to be this time but I pray inshallah when the times right for you that you have an easy pregnancy and a healthy baby ameen 💞💞

[@FarahRaja]

Thanks so much sis

[@anisaahmed7241]

May Allah make it easy for you aameen Allah will always replace what He has taken. Know that Allah only puts us through that which we can handle. ❤️❤️you’re in my duas x

[@zulaikhamalik186]

Sorry for your loss may Allah make it easy for you sister Ameen. The Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said, “By the One in Whose hands is my soul, the miscarried fetus will drag his mother to paradise by his [umbilical] cord if she was patient [with the miscarriage], hoping to be rewarded.” [Ahmad]

[@uzmahlatif2021]

Awww beautiful Allah is the best of planners i know it can be the worst feeling because people close to me have been through the same but honestly May Allah bless you with a child one day ❤️ for now keep yourself safe do loads of stuff that you love because that little baby you have not met and has returned to Allah will be reunited with you in jannah in'sha'allah he/she would want to see you happy 🩷🩵

[@FarahRaja]

This is such a lovely message, thank you sis

[@amenawadee461]

look after yourself

[@user23678-n]

may Allah give you shifa and sabr, ameen

[@FarahRaja]

Ameen

[@rebelwithahaloxx1002]

Sorry for your loss sis. Miscarriages happen because of men's health. So please get your husband checked and make sure he's in the best of health before you get pregnant again.

[@MaryamAli-z9u]

Because Allah wants you have jannah and that child will be the one to take you there x

[@aisha13943]

Im sorry for your loss, maybe this was Allahs way of letting you know you CAN get pregnant despite your pmdd 🙂

[@ageis3250]

Another child spared from this world. Having kids is selfish.