NEET Roommates

[@MillenniaThinker]

Why do more and more men choose to live on the couch rather than achieve any goals? I hope anon that you are not a parasite, leaching from others' generosity.

[@ColorBalls]

Idk I guess

[@1Demolish]

Its easier option and theres no one to encourage them

[@darkageedits422]

women

[@ColorBalls]

Or probably because

[@hikaruu77]

They would rather leach on others than standing up for themselves

[@xXNP4CNuclearXx]

Matt gave them both chances to fix themselves. He extended generosity at his own expense to maintain friendship and the roommates took it all for granted.

[@marcoaureliofernandezreyes1413]

That's what pisses me off while I was watching this video, but, I'm glad Matthew did the right thing.

[@therealjaystone2344]

This is a reflection towards us too

[@Takashii85]

When you got people like that in your circle, cut them tf off. They exist to take and take

[@asperger97]

He was weak and that's why the friends couldn't prosper, he was being a good person but someone who let others exploit him.

[@reed3330]

Woah bro so observant bro so smart

[@JuliusBriggs]

someone who doesn't pay rent, doesn't help around the house and has zero responsibilities of their own is not a description for a roommate it's a description for a child

[@FallingFeeling212]

Yeah my sister and her family are all up our ass right now and this is spot on

[@CrazyChickenFarmer]

@@FallingFeeling212 Family neither begins, nor ends at blood. So, just cause they're family, you don't have to do shit if they're arsewipes. Stay strong

[@NibanoTransmontano]

@@rickrolled3666 indeed, however kzbin.info/www/bejne/moLaZapvjMyLmbM

[@firstlast8258]

@@CrazyChickenFarmer speak for yourself

[@jimjohnson394]

A disrespectful child that you have no authority over.

[@rakijr9176]

I was his roommates at a certain time in my life. The only difference was that I knew the exact moment I was imposing. It was only me and him but I did all the laundry, cleaned up around the place, and rarely brought anyone over. I also always bought and ate my own groceries. When I ran out of money, I told him I would get a job and eventually did. I stayed there for 5 months but only chipped in on rent for the last 3 before I moved in to my own place. After 3 years we're still friends to this day. Never take advantage of the generosity of people you care about, it will only serve to hurt you.

[@elliotbroadhurst7142]

will you pay him back now for the rent you didn't totally cover?

[@thisismywill]

@@elliotbroadhurst7142 No need, really. They wouldn't be friends if he still expected it.

[@rakijr9176]

​@@elliotbroadhurst7142 He's a good dude and understood that I was in a very bad place at the time. But I would give him the full amount and more in a heartbeat if he ever asked for it.

[@sotch2271]

@@elliotbroadhurst7142 it should depend, friend can give a hand too sometime

[@sidney6871]

@@rakijr9176 wholesome asf

[@xech1730]

Man I would die from shame if I lived with my friend doing nothing, not even helping him out with daily chores

[@MechAdv]

Clearly you were raised right. Most young people consider proper parenting child abuse now though.

[@xech1730]

@@MechAdv thank you very much

[@nozoto]

If I weren't contributing financially to the roommate's plan, I'd at least order this gasket, do the dishes, cook every once in a while and help with the errands. How long would I still get to be a loafer, doing what I like? Quite some time, I am sure. I feel bad for blond Wojak/Matthew and the mom, they're such good people...

[@FreezeDidThis]

@@MechAdv No most of us hate spoiled brats too, proper parenting =/= hitting your child tho. extra neets are just people who come from broken homes rather than kids who weren't hit enough.

[@MechAdv]

@@FreezeDidThis Not every kid needs to be hit, nor is there a correct quantity of beatings to be sufficiently parented. It’s about instilling discipline, and engagement with personal and interpersonal responsibility.

[@musahassan4238]

A lot of us, growing up (including me), always thought how awesome it would be to live with your friends. We all sometimes hate our family at times as a child, but once we move out for college for example, only then we realize.

[@jimjohnson394]

I did it for about a year after high school. Had two friends, then I moved back home to save up money for college. We didn't hang out much after that.

[@sk0l0pendrra]

I've been living with my friend for a year now and it is muuuuch better than living with my parents

[@johnnyjack4079]

not liking family isnt gonna change though...

[@Decayed007]

I feel like it would be fun if everybody was helping out. Like if everybody is working and even if they don’t have jobs their cleaning and keeping the place up or learning new skills so that they can get a job. And then at the end of the day after work and all everybody can hang out. But if even just one person isn’t helping out then it would suck.

[@diocletian607]

Parents dont get enough credit credit for sacrificing their entire lives to be providers for their children. U dont appreciate the time that gives you until you have to fend for yourself.

[@Aeroshogun]

I lived in a house with 4 other guys, all trying to get their s@%# together (including myself), but I was the only one with a salary career (but that DOES NOT make me better than them). But only 2 of us had any sense of direction that I knew of. Some were dependent on me for favours, and there was always a blame game on who didn’t clean what. Now I live in a new state on a few acres, renting the upstairs of a house on a hill. I never want to live with that many people or in a city ever again. The price of peace is worth it!

[@kys7615]

Ye man, this shit sucks… currently i’m in a proccess of getting my finances together, for the past 4 years I was literally ignoring all the monthly bank statement but this month I finally checked and boi how dissapointed I felt in myself. Also one of the biggest regrets of my life was moving in a “fancy” house sharing it with other 8 people, you can guess how that went…

[@roywall981]

I think cities are boring if you're not a party person. There is nothing to do.

[@Aeroshogun]

@@kys7615 Yeah, I know that feel. The only reason I moved into that house in the first place was because during the coof days in 2020, I was laid off from my job. So I used my unemployment and pandemic assistance money to pay for a room's rent for 6 months in advance. They weren't bad people, but 5 personalities with completely different backgrounds tend to clash swords here and there. Although I'd rather own, but so far, renting this place in a rural area is the best decision I've made in years. I hope you get your stuff together. It's rough for the younger generations, despite what the boomers tell you, but it's still doable. If I had the same values I have now years ago, then I'd have bought a house or some land in Montana, Idaho or Missouri and I'd be a little bit better off in that regard, seemingly.

[@Aeroshogun]

@@roywall981 Yeah, definitely not a party person. Although I really enjoyed living in Seattle during it's good years (which ended in 2013-ish), I like having few neighbours, shooting guns, having outdoor fun, mountains, minimal traffic and looking at the stars at night. Stuff a city can't offer you in general.

[@alleveddet118]

You are SO absutly right .😶..lol...no .🙊🙉🙈🤬

[@sovashadow]

im proud of matthew/wojak here, stand up for your well being. Name added + fixed

[@user-lv6qm3fj2z]

That's not Wojak, is he? These characters are from the different universe, than Wojak, Bogdanoff and others I think.

[@panda896]

Wojak, not Wojack. We don't need to anglicise everything.

[@annakessler9372]

he's not wojak. wojak is bald. dont mix them up

[@exoticslugs815]

This is such a minor thing but I love the music in these videos. It sounds so vague yet so direct and almost nightmarish. If you composed them yourself then you did an awesome job man.

[@roywall981]

They are like fight club or wanted ...before the craziness starts.

[@sonar_bandit]

I agree. It gives me David Lynch - Rabbits vibes

[@ayadthewriter]

The subtleness of the music evokes the feeling this creator is trying to make us feel. And I am full of feelz rn 😕

[@craig7591]

Ive seen your pfp in a videogame

[@b.m.4345]

@@craig7591 papers, please

[@ryanferguson4205]

This is how it was for me living with my "best friends" from childhood. I was the only one working full time consistently, yet i was always the one cleaning. I was the only one fixing the broken appliances. I had to be the one to contact the landlord. During the height of the pandemic i was doing an internship and working 60-70 hours a week while they were sitting at home all day. They refused to even clean once a week. It got to the point where i had to move on for my own sanity. I deserved better. I moved out and now my life is significantly better. Kings if you are in your early 20s in a bad relationship or housing situation. I urge you to do what you can to leave. You are too young to be caught up on people who refuse to change or recognize your work ethic.

[@AreaNeraTV]

Good decision, the more adult you become the more you realize that you don’t need toxic people in your life, especially parasytes at home, not working, not cleaning, not paying a rent, it would be better to have cockroaches at least they don’t make so much noise or dirt 🤣

[@Kelvin_Wood]

Working 60-70 hours a week and cleaning up after your roommate who is a couch potato, nah that's absolutely grungy, glad to here you moved out and having a better life for yourself, nobody should be going through that mess

[@ryanferguson4205]

@CocaineBear262 i feel that man. It can be really disheartening to see someone not contribute when they have the means to while you work really hard. At least you have the perspective now, and you know how people can be. Not to mention, it isn't great for your motivation when you have goals but those around you are stagnant

[@ryanferguson4205]

@CocaineBear262 thats an interesting point. I wonder where i should be accountable for what happened to me. Ill have to think about that. Good on you for recognizing it. I had a few roommates so its hard to remember each instance i was too leniant, but its tough.

[@nterone7137]

I got used and abused by my “friends” in 5 apartments/houses I lived in. Never again. Trust no one.

[@doodlebob3758]

Roommates are the real-world equivalent of group projects in high-school.

[@firstlast8258]

Necessary evil

[@DrewberTravels]

I always ended up being the one doing all the work in high school group projects too… Weird…

[@xXNP4CNuclearXx]

He still doesn't know how to unfold that folding bed.

[@a.d.64]

old school earl sweatshirt in profile nice

[@FratoiuAlex]

Does he really not know, or does he never bothered

[@lamppost481]

This was my life before I finally did the same thing here, however it wasn't just me but the landlord who finalised them to be kicked out as well. The only difference was that they still had "income" So imagine these 2 guys sitting on the couch and making a mess of the place but they are justified to do it because they "pay the rent" "Rent" but not milk, or new dishes they break, or food they eat. because they said "the house is partly mine too" it meant they could have parties that shook the walls and made a mess of the place for me to clean up the next day. But they still relied on me to clean, or get stuff for them from the store never to remember to pay me back for it. It got so bad when they literally knocked on my door and asked me why the dishes weren't washed. When I had just washed all the dishes that morning. and I go up and one of them had just made a mess of the kitchen and all the dishes were in the sink again. You can still be a leech, even if you have an income.

[@doggo6517]

Damn, I didn't know lamp posts could even watch dishes. But yeah, close quarters with other humans sounds like some nasty possibilities - glad I can afford to live alone.

[@gencergg]

Reading this made me mad

[@nix4110]

You should not have done their work for them. They are allowed to make a mess and throw parties

[@Eva9000]

You should say the door is all that their rent has earned them and they should not let it hit them on the way out

[@MementoDespair]

If they had the sin the ask me why arent the dishes clean Like I was their slave, I would leave.

[@SteinerArts]

Seriously, you are by far one of the best channels on KZbin. So thoughtful and enlightening in many ways.

[@HZP1991]

Reminds of my college days...ooh Boy the bliss of living alone.

[@fellipedasilva99]

@Young Ay Only if you are actually interested in medical stuff I would imagine.

[@thisismywill]

@Young Ay You'll have to worry about malpractice lawsuits for the rest of time, study hard (possibly with pharmaceutical assistance) and work some interesting hours, but there's certainly positives.

[@lonelyking706]

I hope MillenniaThinker dose a School episode in which it addresses all the crummy stuff the system dose to a lot of kids, whether they have good grades or not, I think that would be cool idk.

[@drygimangdrminjak8177]

what does school system do, he's from poland, its not that bad there

[@tozertpostshitting]

@@drygimangdrminjak8177 well, depends on where you look at. There's no school shootings and student dept is not that big of a problem, true. On the other hand, after the school people start to realize, that focusing on school and grades gave them nothing and they have no real skills. Having in mind how overblown the Polish schools system is regarding amount of material, school system doesn't help either. But overall, that would be very specific to Poland itself, so I don't see the point of that video, especially considering overall theme of the channel.

[@drygimangdrminjak8177]

@@tozertpostshitting thats true if you want to be a bartender, but if youre interested in languages, any kind of science, like chemistry or physics, polish schools do teach a lot, and you'll use that knowledge when applying to a university where you'll learn advanced material that you'll need at work, some schools teach computer science too, so thats useful

[@tozertpostshitting]

@@drygimangdrminjak8177 dunno m8. As far as my career went, experience was always valued more tham any school, as long as that diploma was not requred by law to be working in the field. In most of the cases, specialized courses and certifications were far more useful both to be listed on resume as well as in the job itself.

[@SenpaiSentai]

@@drygimangdrminjak8177 As an american, our U.S. educational school systems is rekt. Not to mention, our teachers, principals, another school staff members from elementary through high school are bunch of sensitive Karens taking smallest things way too personal and always creating their dramas. We also had truancy bs laws, alot of high risk of stress from standardized test, worst unhealthy process school foods, school shooting, massive school bullyings and the list goes on. We're not perfect. We do want proper healthy educations but societies and people who own and running the school board and colleges & universities systems on campus treat it like it's a one huge final competitions. America is a laughing stock

[@basedmongoloid2278]

I wish I lacked enough inhibition and had enough funds to be able to live like a NEET, but aside from not having the resources, I also think it's a very undignified and unhealthy way to live, (though I think there are some legitimate reasons for wanting to drop out of society). That being said, I think the bare minimum standard for NEETmaxing should be not to leech off of someone else. If you want to lie around doing nothing, use your own money.

[@solitudeau8188]

Pit of NEET is deep and dark. I had some personal shit go down over a year ago. A month prior I finished uni and since then I have lost my job due to personal beliefs in march, I have had a temp job for a bit then busted my foot but I haven’t had the drive to continue what I planned post uni It’s a dark hole but if I’m going to end up in the gulags for my beliefs why should I care what happens in society? (I still pay my own way from my savings at least)

[@firstlast8258]

It’s not expensive to be NEET

[@doggo6517]

@@solitudeau8188 Savings are temporary - if you aren't already, get on it before gets on you. (not that just saying that would help)

[@solitudeau8188]

@@doggo6517 am aware. I used to have 26k saved before my family moved and I had to help pay for stuff and a new car after I lost mine to hail damage. Once my foot heals I’ll be looking for work again. That double edged sword of damned if I do; damned if I don’t with regards to future and possibly ending up in the gulag for wrongthink is my main problem right now (back at 18k from 6. During C19 I drained down to 6 from about 15). Either enjoy myself now then go to gulag or work hard for nothing and still go to gulag

[@spuhgeddy1084]

@@solitudeau8188 first paragraph is excuses second you dont have to care about society do what you want but dont make shitty excuses and face away from reality

[@riza4086]

Dam I miss my old Neet roommate. He would buy his own food, clean after himself, and even cook sometimes. Not all roommates are bad but some folks are just irritating.

[@Goldy01]

How'd he get money? Do you know?

[@riza4086]

@@Goldy01 Neets still have a job. Just never got out the house. And his job was a warehouse one where he barely interacted with people too often.

[@tempo8353]

@@riza4086 neets arent neets if they have a job

[@fullmetaltheorist]

​@@riza4086Has a job, pays rent, looks after himself and is kinds responsible. My dude that doesn't sound like a NEET.

[@padarousou]

U realize the first two letters of NEET mean no employment?

[@Thecelestial1]

Roommates for years and now finally living alone is the best. I don’t have to tel people to clean a tub, not leave their dishes in the sink, not eat my food, not me loud af at 3am.

[@Squiviathan]

Im with matthew. Living with two grown ass men who mess up the house like unsupervised 4 year olds is madness. At this rate, he may as well deal with kids, cuz at least then, it would be acceptable. Then one of them didnt care that their mom was cleaning up after them even while they're adults. You can't have any company because they'll think you are just as gross as your roommates. To top it all off, they're more or less parasites than roommates, cuz they don't even contribute to the place at all. Footnote: I also like how at the beginning they appear on Matt's hand in the form of parasites, and disappear when they get kicked out

[@paularnold2124]

Not being able to bring company home because of a roomates' hygiene habits really hits you...even if your so much organized

[@firstlast8258]

Takes a parasite to know a parasite 🤓🖕

[@firstlast8258]

@@paularnold2124speak for yourself 🤡🖕

[@berniekatzroy]

I've had different roommates throughout college and though I've never had as bad as wojack I still understand that there are those with the go with the flow vibe who stay in that mental state never trying to improve and those who have some direction going towards that. What I will say about wojacks situation is its great to be independent and put in the grind but what he can take from his roommates is relax from time to time.

[@mairuzo]

A lot of young Americans are just putting in the grind and working all the time, maybe as a way to cope with their own shit. Unfortunately, it’s even harder to relax with the homies while you’re trying not to enable their lazy behavior. So even well-earned relaxation is corrupted.

[@Ketynos]

oh my god, it's soooo refreshing to see a normal human being doing what's best for him without going to any extreme!

[@firstlast8258]

There is no normal 🤓🖕

[@kennethscarborough7889]

This one should hit home to MANY people...Always "One day" or "Soon" they have no desire to change on thier own. I'm glad he went back to these type of videos with the message at the end.

[@firstlast8258]

Change is the only constant

[@padarousou]

The motivation for change has to come from somewhere. If they are comfortable there is no motivation

[@Tubeytime]

People take on responsibility at different rates, often it's because their parents shielded them from the world and spoiled them too much. Parents need to be held responsible for what they do to their kids, and kids need to know that their parents are setting them up for failure by being their personal maid.

[@firstlast8258]

Good luck with that

[@fellipedasilva99]

“People take on responsibility at different rates.” Well at least they do at some point. Some seem to never…

[@areaxisthegurkha]

@@fellipedasilva99 then those people are not only spoiled but have terrible personality.

[@fellipedasilva99]

@@areaxisthegurkha You mean the ones that never? Or the ones that do at later rates? The ones that do at later rates can just be privileged. Wether financially and or come from a first world country as well.

[@otroweonllamadoseba]

that's no excuse, my parent did shield me but that made want to not be a failure.

[@ShaheedSmoke]

“Yeah, I’m a clean boy” 😂

[@rumblymclovin3578]

This is too close to home. One of my roommates literally does nothing other than sleep all day, play video games, get blackout drunk at night, and makes a mess in the kitchen.

[@billpolychronidis7805]

Takes me back when I had to live for 9 months cause of a contract with a friend that barely did any cleaning, always was late on paying internet/rent/electricity and so forth saying he didn't have any money even though he was out every day. One day he said he didn't have 7 euro for the internet bill and 2 hours later I found him with a bag full of monster energy drinks (the white one even).

[@karmo6747]

he's a good boi, i drink white monsters too

[@billpolychronidis7805]

@@karmo6747 I don't think you're paying bills then

[@AestheticShrine]

I'd be deadass pissed if I were in your shoes.

[@EthosEater]

You literally just described my roommate who owes me $3000 in rent right now (I gave him an eviction notice)

[@zeghetti595]

7 euro? Internet bill???

[@Shannder]

If you've fallen into the NEET trap know that there's more to life than that and it's all up to you.

[@firstlast8258]

🙄

[@suprtroopr1028]

@Young Ay reddit's much the same way. Most popular websites nowadays are, in all honesty. As my mother said to me when I was in that mindset: "you can't live life if you're spending it all staring into a box".

[@callmecharlie0498]

@Young Ay and the cope by telling themselves that working is slavery and they call people who work "wagecucks"

[@mairuzo]

Fitting you call it a trap; nobody’s born a NEET. But a series of poor choices and influences lead them there, momentum keeps them there. It’s the same force that leads to addiction, hopelessness, and eventually homelessness.

[@existinginaspace8347]

Be realistic. Some people simply are not capable of getting past that point. It's not possible for everyone to succeed.

[@turntprophet7960]

Living with roommates is god awful when no one is on the same page

[@tokiwartooth4404]

No one ever is. Meanwhile the cost of living is so high there's no choice. Remember these three are getting taxed to pay for women's luxurious apartments, homes, and their little brats.

[@SonOfABith]

@@tokiwartooth4404some actual sense being spoken. This is why so many men don’t wanna work anymore.

[@firstlast8258]

@@SonOfABiththe numbers don’t lie but liars use numbers 🤓🖕

[@alessandrajackson3768]

I’ve been learning more and more about how the people we surround ourselves with shape us as individuals. If you hang out with lazy, unmotivated and undisciplined people….you will adopt all of those habits. Find level up people!!!! People who are motivated, work hard and have discipline!

[@cfroi08]

I think that's the sign of a weak willed person blaming people instead of themselves tbh.

[@alessandrajackson3768]

@@cfroi08 that’s true! I completely agree. However I personally wouldn’t want to hang out with lazy slackers who have terrible relationships and bad friendships. I wouldn’t have anything in common with them anyways. I want to hang out with people who will go to the gym with me, go hang out, volunteer and constantly be striving for higher. It’s motivating and easier to get along!

[@padarousou]

Why do you think people become NEETs? Their parents are usually POSes that ruin them and they have no one else to go to.

[@emrahalien2972]

@@cfroi08 You just sound like thos idiots who say advertisements don't persuade me.

[@buckaroobonzai2909]

I remember this even in the Marine Corps. I leave my laundry detergent unlocked. My room mate uses it. No big deal. I go back about half of the extra large, expensive one is gone... half... gone. I get another one and lock that up. Less than a week later, over 100 loads of laundry has been used up, because "why bother measuring it out, he'll just buy more..." So he comes to me and says "we're out of laundry detergent" so I say "no, you are." "oh, but I thought you bought that..." "no, dude." He yells something about teamwork and boot camp or whatever. I tell him something that I forget now... anyway... he got mad about it and I kept all of my stuff separate from his and eventually he kept trying to get out of my room and then I had another room mate move in and he did all of the same stuff I did with locking things up... we very rarely shared, but I was willing to with him because he's not the sort who will take a clear unfair advantage of the situation.

[@alexanderfernando2995]

Who needs that much laundry detergent

[@thisismywill]

Shampoo was the most stolen, but it's a lot cheaper. I kept my detergent in the wall locker and didn't descend to the paranoia of locking up shampoo

[@alexanderfernando2995]

@@thisismywill Who steals that shit🤣

[@buckaroobonzai2909]

@@thisismywill I locked up literally everything, and had a small lock box for sink items. Eventually, my room mate requested to move out with the Sergeant. I wasn't a jerk to him, but I basically shunned him for stealing from me, and I told the corporal that when I was asked "What the problem was" and I told him that I wasn't really going to talk to him unless it had to do with work, PT, or combat that involved us, specifically. Shunning is effective. You have to know how to do it, so that you don't come off as a snobby child, though.

[@swaggerdagger8976]

Damn I never thought we’d get an episode about his roomies Makes sense tho

[@xxTriple_Txx]

I have two homies from highschool who never graduated. I grew up with these dudes, I had to stop hanging around them because I literally paid for everything and did everything. It sucks when you try to help someone so much yet they still do nothing.

[@jamilelianelias8834]

This is why we ALL need to live alone and not having any roomates so that we know the real responsability

[@Roxana_Official]

livign with roomates will help to pay the rents. also u wont be alone. i dont understand how can people live alone. its hell

[@tatsuostatic8567]

I've been through this nightmare since I was a kid, it's wasn't random people it was my own so called family. My nephew would come to my father's place without letting anyone knows and invade my privacy. He smelled awful, eat all day, use my stuff, wouldn't clean up his mess and wouldn't leave until he grew tired of me and mother rules. I haven't seen him since 2018 and I'm glad. I thought I would never go through that nightmare again but fate seem to punish me again with another, my own older brother who I used to respect. He's coping with losing his father and brother by doing exactly what my nephew did. I had to step up to make sure I have money for a storm (something bad) that was coming while he left me and my mother for 2 years and gave up everything. Used to work at a church, went back to school, took a part-time job and all that was thrown away. Now, I'm the only one who is working full-time while taking care of my mother who is going through old-age and depression and I have no help and support from anyone not even my own family

[@blacklikethesun]

Those roomates are basically my two brothers. The only difference is my mom is too elderly now to do their dishes and clean up. She can barely walk these days. Instead i have to clean after them.i never should of moved back home lol

[@a.d.64]

moved out and never goinng back, i will rather be homeless

[@bigbananacongolese8403]

But your poor mom u have to stay what will she do without??

[@TheOverlord99]

maybe you cant kick your brothers out but maybe you can move out with your mum? idk what relationship you have with her so pls excuse the assumption. that way when the electricity shuts off theyre gonna have to do something.

[@blacklikethesun]

@@TheOverlord99 fair point. No worries btw. Ill stay with her untill her passing. We have a good relationship All i know is it will be a wake up call for them.

[@TheOverlord99]

@@blacklikethesun glad to hear it! godspeed on your journey friend ✌🏼

[@Sliverandzant943]

Truth be told, ending up being like those parasites is one of my greatest fears.

[@fij715]

That doesn’t matter as long as your car has more than two gears.

[@padarousou]

If you live long enough you always become what you hate most.

[@Erastoneus45]

Me too.. Me too.. My mam

[@suico778]

The bit about how to heat up the ketchup resonated so strongly. Dumb trivial shit like that was the day to day to kill time.

[@BL-mf3jp]

This made me nearly cry. This was me in 2020. I moved back home after graduating college the year before but had no energy to find a job or do anything. I was reminded of how awful high school and home life was for me. I needed to leave. And so I did. But now I’m living with my mom. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.

[@a6g2b01c]

hows life now

[@BL-mf3jp]

@@a6g2b01c I have a part time job and an interview for another one lined up for today

[@kazunachan3702]

I love these videos. Being educated about life is always important. You never know in what kind of situations u might end up in.

[@catzilla3212]

My bother had to deal with this when he first roomed, It was his best friend of all people, but over time he got lazy about cleaning, doing the dishes, bringing in money and staying tidy, putting all of it on my brother since he likes to keep things orderly, to the point my mum had to come over to help with money and household duties because of the imbalance in effort, which left my brother constantly stressed about cash only to remember he doesn't even get to go home to a house he enjoys living in, until eventually he had to leave to stay by himself, now he stays in his on apartment with his fiancé free of the curse of the lazy roommate in a house much cleaner and well kept, and certainly more financially stable not to mention happier. Even if it's someone you've known for years doesn't mean that they'll be good roommates.

[@FallingFeeling212]

Yeah I knew a guy just like this he was my best friend we played games alot for years together I even met his other friends and we clicked but unfortunately his jealousy and envy grew greatly to the point where I could feel the animosity towards me just for getting things he even started taking my generosity for granted eventually he started proping himself by making fun of me because his family had more and mine didn't especially when I was broke and couldn't go anymore with him keep in mind he is 20 I was 16 17 now 18 and now that I have been improving and got a new job the parasite is trying to crawl back into my life at one point he asked if I wanted to move In with him and go 50/50 I said yes but after thought I decided nah and ghosted him as I was only a end goal not a friend This is mad long and I'm not asking for likes or replies I'm just sharing my experience balecause these parasites thrive off of others happiness and kindness

[@firstlast8258]

If you don’t want replies don’t post to a public forum

[@FallingFeeling212]

@@firstlast8258 never said I didn't want them just didn't expect any and you made me laugh by calling this a "public forum" thats to sophisticated for KZbin

[@firstlast8258]

@@FallingFeeling212 laugh now cry later

[@FallingFeeling212]

@@firstlast8258 lol 🤣😪

[@mairuzo]

You made the right choice, though I wish you gave him a piece of your mind so he at least understands why you don’t hang out with him anymore.

[@wranglercody8422]

I’ve been in Matt’s position before. Tryn to help friends down on their luck. Never bother getting a job, always mooching. If I confront them about it they play the victim and give me grief. Can’t fix this level of entertainment. End up calling the police just to get em out of my house.

[@NT.99]

Wow, this video made me appreciate how great the roommates I had were.

[@1dingerr]

Best roommates are the ones you barely notice are there

[@indaryus8778]

Sad to think that some people are like this just sitting on their bed and rotting away

[@Tensai1031]

“I oppose, so we have 2 to 1 democracy wins again “ had me in tears😭😭😭🤣

[@ktm.wtf.]

I don’t even like living with my family I could never survive a roommate.

[@supwititproductionz3738]

Roommates are sometimes better than family if they keep to themselves, are clean, etc., but can also be a nightmare. It is a very mixed bag

[@xmuzel]

It's strangely motivating being the only one of the friends working hard, studying on the weekends, attending business meetings (even when the feeling of anxiety almost kills me sometimes) but in the end, it's rewarding. And I know that I don't have to do this forever, just for a few years, to have a nice pension secured

[@DanteCrowlley]

I would say I'm a NEET in recovery, after many years dealing with my breakdown n traumas I came to know myself better, I found some small goals to start n currently looking to be a programmer/indie game dev as side work in case I find a traditional work so I can spend less time in couch n more time touching some grass

[@jvo1464]

Mr Goldberg is thankful for your willingness to participate

[@BL-mf3jp]

@@jvo1464 cool it with the anti-semitism

[@valletas]

Did you ever go into the indie gave dev journey? Ive been working on my game for a year and a month

[@padarousou]

Good for you. A lot of people don't realize the etiology of a NEET and the things they've been through to be in those situations. Overcoming that is harder than what most normal people will have to deal with in their entire lives and you should be proud

[@GodsStrongestBussyBreeder]

@@padarousou You are just like Sisyphus pushing that boulder up a mountain… doing a part time job is such an immense struggle. You and boogie 2988 would get along great.

[@smirkdogeface]

I've been there, but I was living on my own savings collected from previous job. That career requires a person to work 80 hours a week during peak seasons, persisted for 10 months before I snapped and sent the resignation letter. Traumatized by that experience, I remained as a NEET for almost a year(the overtime pay was enough to support my life for that long), all I did was playing RPGs all day, surfing KZbin for memes, and sleeping whenever I like. I became extremely cynical, toxic, indifferent to everything, severed all contacts with family and friends, just me in my barren wasteland. It was truly a dark period of my life, thankfully I somehow recovered from that condition afterwards and started to look for a job, as for now, I've been working for almost 2 years in the new company.

[@valletas]

Something similar happened to me exept i didnt have any money When i was 17 i hot my first job after searching for years and after 9 days the company fired the entire department along with myself I was devastated and i spend almost 2 years looking for a job during day and crying my way to sleep during the night all while hearing my family say how useless i was I have mostly recovered since but i became extremely socially awkward and i basically lost all the friends i had during my teens because i didnt have money to hang out and they already had jobs and stuff and some were even in the middle of college while i was trying to get anything that payed me

[@lazyxeno9404]

He did the right thing, but tragically, his roommates took advantage of his generosity, and I realise how difficult it is to earn any type of compensation, such as just taking care of his apartment or doing something to assist him in relieving his work-related stress.

[@fredfour0]

After some things I attempted did not work out, I lost my ambition and started telling myself if I did not want anything I would not be hurt. The line at the end really shows the error in that thought. No ambition, no results

[@enemy-rogue]

A thought provoking and relatable video, showing scenarios that can be kinda scary while also giving plenty of good laughs.

[@allenkeettikkal3149]

Oh hey, we are back to that guy from the Lost Value of Man episode.

[@horrorshipwreck]

I had a situation similar to this. I was living with a friend and everything went well until he brought his girlfriend in. She was a fat slob who never did any work around the house and her excuse was that she worked really hard despite sitting at a desk for 40 hours a week while her boyfriend and I worked for 50 to 60 hours in average. She would always eat my leftovers without even asking me. She was rude and disrespectful to me and to my friends as well as my family members. At some point, she even tried to bargain that I should pay half the rent while she and her boyfriend would pay the other half. A total waste of human flesh. After around 3 months, I left without notice.

[@jamesnesran2348]

I audibly laughed at 2:39. I had good for nothing douche roommates before and this is so accurate it hurts.

[@currychapo]

He said “Order something so we can have leftovers for breakfast” i laughed out loud☠️☠️☠️like the level of comfortability. Love how you gave the owner a “enabling” character. Suck for nice people. These bums gotta learn somehow

[@icebearmusic6577]

In my country NEET means National Eligibility Entrance Test and it’s like 2nd most difficult exam given for Medical College admissions and if you say you a Neet or neet aspirant people actually respect you 😄

[@n1rd224]

Bruh same I was like wtf is this video about it took me a min to get the context

[@somshubhra4358]

Yeah same I just couldn't understand what this video was about

[@justacasualgamer1957]

ikr I didn't get it at first

[@manishrai6845]

curry has entered chat . Hello anon .

[@Wheezal578]

@@manishrai6845 poojeet bretheren

[@starkillermarex]

It's so sad to know from experience that there are roommates like this. Golden hearts always get dented

[@APoleYouKnow]

A Threequel I didn't know I wanted. Good to know Mathew grew a spine in the end.

[@josephshmoesinsky8610]

That's why I'm scared stiff when my friends suggest we should move in together. I'm an untidy dude but I work 6 days a week and that always at night. I still love them, yet if I took that leap of faith too soon. I know I'd be rear ended.

[@buckaroobonzai2909]

It is true that the working man room mate needs to chill and maybe have a beer. It was nice to seem him chilling at the end and looking at his hand and seeing the tumors gone. I miss character sheets at the end.

[@IzzyKitt]

I'm a NEET. Got my first job when I was 21, got my own place, and was made redundant after a year or so. Struggled to find a new job, had what seemed like a 3 week endless anxiety attack where my heart would beat intensely and palpitate several hours a day every day. Tried to kill myself and failed. That was 3-4 years ago. Diagnosed with major depressive disorder, persistent depressive disorder, avoidant personality disorder and general anxiety disorder. Eventually got approved for disability payment which they must think I'm really fucked up because it's notoriously difficult to get approved but it was extremely easy for me. Tried multiple therapists and medications, none helped. Ended up developing agoraphobia, struggle to go out anywhere. Tried to kill myself again and failed miserably. Had recently been going for walks at night as a kind of exposure therapy but then I just end up getting intense fear that I may get attacked by someone since there's like no one around at night and those feelings continually got worse. I've even tried meeting new people, wanting to find people who are in a similar situation and would understand but people always flake, clearly I shouldn't bother. I don't enjoy life, I have no interest in living, my life has been destroyed by mental illness. I struggle to enjoy anything and I have intense brain fog. I live alone but keep my home fairly clean, mostly being slow to wash dishes and bathroom but it doesn't get to a revolting state. Struggle to exercise and make healthy food because I just feel completely exhausted all the time. The funny thing is that if I succeeded in killing myself and escaping my suffering, it'd be considered a tragedy. But since I failed to do that, I'm just seen as a disgusting parasite. I don't even want to be here, I haven't wanted to be here for 7 years. Yet, I'm forced to stay alive against my will so that people can continue to look down on me.

[@danilapolesciuk4316]

What's a NEET?

[@g--stef4756]

@@danilapolesciuk4316 Not Employed, (in) Education, (or) Training

[@Loader2K1]

Personally, I would have given the protagonist's friend and brother several chances and then an ultimatum to get their crap together, work, and contribute to living in the apartment before kicking them out. I also would have shown the friend how to use the fold-out bed so he can stop making excuses, LOL. I like the revelation that Julian has a little brother that is just as terrible as he is, not to mention a mother that is too good for both of them. The time and effort you put into the continuity of your characters is something most Hollywood writers could take some examples from. Keep up the good work.

[@TrollComissioner]

“Random sword fight at night”

[@stonksrus]

"glad to hear. when nothing changes thats good" fuck man that wordplay was brutal and genius

[@charliehotel6476]

Usually these videos make me feel mildly depressed but I really liked this one. Shared living was only a bit over four years ago for me. I remember feeling so trapped and frustrated with the filthy conditions that only myself and one other housemate made any effort to clean up. The lack of ambition, the drugs, alcohol and complete unwillingness to grow up or take any responsibility was awful to be around. My partner falling pregnant was the best thing to ever happen to me. Suddenly there wasn't a desire to get out but a necessity. I began renting an apartment for just us, got married, studied, got into a better career and built a house together out of the city for our family. I have many flaws and I don't think I'm better than others but once in a while, it's okay to be proud of making some good decisions.

[@vannhantran547]

Ending up like those parasites is one of the worst nightmare

[@danielpaulschreber2060]

I would be horribly ashamed of myself if I lived like these two. I can't stand people who leech off of the generosity of others and can't even do something simple in return.

[@hikaruu77]

People who take advantage from kind people to make wicked things are the same type of people who would cry out loud when things doesn't go their way.

[@dookiepost]

One of my old roommates let his semi-NEET friend crash on a chair in our living room for a few months. He was the most disgusting and inconsiderate person I've come across. He spent all of his money from his fast food job that he worked at for like 25 hours a week on Mtn Dew, frozen pizza/burritos and video games. He never cleaned up after himself. Literally the dude would take a shower and come out smelling like shit, idk how that's even possible.

[@babakazi808]

I've saved soooo much money living alone. The biggest draw to having friends as roommates is the cut in rent. After living alone and paying my own rent, somehow I have wayyyy more cash to do the things I want. Still friends with all of them, just separate lives. It's for the better imo

[@dwaynestyles642]

Thank you, MillenniaThinker. I needed this. Time to get back on my grind.

[@2l84me8]

It can be hard to find and maintain a job sometimes, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t at least help out around the house.

[@Jacknife17shadows]

This is legit my college experience. I had a lazy roommate who had his family come and clean for him. It was hyper crazy!

[@iFYMxDRKNSFALLS]

the roommates on his hand. i not only took as leeches but it occurred to me. He was literally holding them on his hand.

[@Krospromaster]

Это настолько классно, не могу описать, волшебно что-ли. Как будто основная сюжетная ветка с думером и качком, также случайные истории разных людей или друзей думера можно было бы назвать их сайдквестами. Начинаешь переживать или радоваться вместе с ними. Жаль не знаю английского, приходится смотреть с субтитрами.

[@Aziz.500]

я выучил английский с помощью ютуба на английском и школы.Стоит того

[@notsoluffy8196]

@@Aziz.500 тож

[@kapec2422]

r*zzia 🤮

[@tombeetroot_A.S.P.]

i would love some kind of a part two where we see them pleed for their lives to let them back in and talk about their lives and how its falling apart.

[@qwerty975]

"We will make it" "When?" "One day..."

[@ramsesf.7956]

Damn man. Even when I'm not a NEET I felt guilty about it and I just want to be a better person now. Thank you.

[@Trauson]

To be honest Ive lived with Neet roomates and I had my own NEET phase... It was not... Like... xd This... it was way much worse... At least the house was habitable.

[@dinolover]

And this is why I want to live alone.

[@chelseapatterson3680]

"no ambitions, no result" but you can't help but wonder.... what destroyed that ambition in the first place. Behind the cagie wagie memes, comfy neet memes, this is what the wagie faces, whether he is in an entry level position earning less than minimum wage, or even top level executives driving mercedes W223

[@enrlichhartman]

nowadays a realistic ambition or goal is to live with a shit wage the rest of you life , and when people realize that sis when they work for the lowest effort , clearly i cant blame them for that .

[@naikjoy]

Its not that those men are weak or lazy that's for sure. The homo genus was around for eons. The homo sapiens were around for 200k and it took us up till 1800s to reach 1 billion in population. 150 years later in the 50s we reached 3 and by the end of this year its gonna be 8. We overburdened the nexus of energy, food and water. Prices are going up.., we need to slave away so we are able to sleep on the couch at the end of the day while being so tired and depressed that we just look up at the ceiling. Females are biologically wired for strong successful men... we aren't successful.. even the 10% of what were normal men worthy of starting a family with is shrinking. The population causes all sorts of issues that aren't related to a shortage of housing, administrative overburdening and a higher rise of mental illnesses caused by all of us bunched together mostly in urban areas looking for work or educating ourselves. The issue is that we are damaging the planet to such a degree that plastics are found even in the soil we grow food in. Many more things are carcinogenic but that's not the problem. The reality of things is humanity or societies will collapse because men are ill. We have very low testosterone because of the things we eat, wear, the shampoo we using.. sedentary lifestyle, lack of sunlight for vitamin D that is needed for testosterone production. Unhappiness in men that are single or even ones that aren't. Dopamine and testosterone are tied. If one goes down so does the other and vice versa. Now without females by our side we have no purpose to be the main bread winners, main protectors or too even serve. Nothing anchors us down anymore. We are floating without firm stand in society. We are lost souls.

[@HereForTheComments]

This is the second video in a row about having to move out and scratch out a living on your own. I think I see a pattern.

[@Xepent]

Damn this is depressing. Reminds me of myself like 13 years ago. Really glad I failed at everything and had to reevaluate my life and get on track lol

[@InsidiousOne]

Surface message: toxic roommates, co-dependence, blah blah Real message: you can microwave your ketchup if you put it on a plate first ☝

[@JustGio1111]

I went through this as well. Literally helped the guy get a job and all. So lazy and complained constantly it was ridiculous.

[@Metruzanca]

I've recently decided to cut out some NEET friends. I've always tried to get them to actually act on their ambitions but nothing has changed since knowing them. Unfortunately cutting them off did have me cut off another friend who was making positive change. Maybe I'll reconnect with him at a later point, I just need to distance myself from the whole group as a whole for now. Luckily I've never dealt with NEET roommates. Everyone I've ever lived with has paid their share and was pretty reserved. Very quickly I figured out that sharing a room is not possible for sanity and sharing a bathroom is the next thing to avoid. My current living situation is with a great friend who is equally career driven. We're more like neighbors since we're both very busy and cook out own food at different times.

[@TopG20073]

The happy feeling when they moved out and Mathew can improve

[@SillySeekerProductions]

These videos terrify me, in a good way.

[@mihajloantic4422]

There was a point where these videos helped and inspired me to think differently and make a change. Now stories just frustrate and depresses me. Maybe there's too much of me in them...

[@juliangg5170]

This is so sad and toxic, no one should live like that... sitting all day watching tv.

[@kangaroobot]

My friends were the worst roommates I ever had, no matter how much I emphasized cleanliness to them, they still continued to trash the place, resulting in us no longer being friends.

[@luis-sophus-8227]

"Chill bro" "Ok so pay the BILLs bro"

[@lupita_Arsi]

sadly, i kinda had to see this happen with my buddy, he was planning on moving in to my house, but, he disrespected my mom and brother, so for me, it was an automatic response to tell him he couldnt move with us. He takes for granted what we do for him, so, i dunno, he can search a place of his own or keep living with his dad.

[@bojarckhoosemanschnarf5851]

brother these videos are scarily accurate

[@palingram]

Roommates are the worst. They are not worth it one bit

[@underthere]

I love these videos. I feel like every single one should have its own series. Keep it up

[@whichphilosipher9023]

I live with my mom and wife does too, we just buy our own food and gas and since I'm in college still she says I can stay for free but that doesn't sit right with me, so I use my cash from art to help pay for stuff we need in the house and the money from soccer is getting saved for my own place in buying a house not an apartment. I'm 22 and my credit is impeccable. I used this time my mom has given to me to get ahead as everyone should. Don't use the graces to get by easy in life make life easier by trying at least a little.

[@donwarren3253]

why are you married at 22

[@whichphilosipher9023]

@@donwarren3253 Because it works and if you have a good relationship why not, been together for years through thick and thin nothing wrong with getting married.

[@merriall2342]

When I moved out of the house I lived with my tyrant mother and her son. This caused me a lot of psychological damage. As a student I moved into a dorm, dealt with my studies and at first I lived with 2 types who cared little about anything, it was hard to get used to from the old bad conditions to the bad new ones. Constantly cleaning up and just wanting quiet. I asked to solve the problem and they evicted me to the next room, I had to settle in there. After another 1.5 years, they wanted to re-settle those guys and it temporarily came out. Until a war broke out in my country. Knowing that I just needed a quiet place to get away from my life, they tried to put me back in with guys who were very unpleasant. So far, they moved out and I live with more peaceful, but your question about the desire, I would answer and there is a reason or event that will give impetus to this desire. Achieve in life, for myself, I do not want, I want people to start to live as human beings and care not only about themselves. The world is extremely sad to strive to achieve success for themselves.

[@X33Ultras0und]

If you're ever in this situation and they aren't family but "friends" or something, then upon wanting them to leave call the police to your house before telling them to leave, telling the police there are people who I told to leave and are refusing and look like they're about to get violent about it. This way, they will leave straight away rather than beg and and try to convince you. Especially if they're like this and don't see their own faults.