Netflix's "Love is Blind" Uche Okoroha Sheds Light on Sizzling Season 5

[@DonnaInTheBlack]

First time watching this channel and I discovered that Miss Understood doesn’t understand a damn thing.

[@mrsnoma1422]

😂

[@WinyMary]

Same here 🤣🤣🤣

[@Coconutlady]

100%

[@Coconutlady]

@SeventiesLeo what she didn't understand is how to ask REAL questions .

[@Coconutlady]

And she cant handle the heat then stay out of the kitchen.

[@ashleyapple1917]

A little disappointed that the host didn't ask him more pertinent questions. I also want to know why he was bashing Aaliyah in the cast groupchat behind her back and why he went out of his way to attack and berate Miriam. Uche didn't demonstrate any respectful communication towards the black women on this show. You can't blame production or editing for lashing out at multiple women.

[@itsNaturallyCrystal]

Thanks for commenting this. Those questions were the only ones I was gonna listen for. You saved me time

[@ania5038]

If you're talking about Miriam she was literally yelling at him like a chihuahua while Stacy was trying to talk to him so I absolutely do not blame him for his reaction to her. As far as what was said about Aaliyah it could have been blown out of proportion and we cannot know for sure.

[@itsNaturallyCrystal]

@@ania5038 please don’t call black women by an animal’s names. It says more about you than it does about them.

[@ania5038]

@@itsNaturallyCrystal Oh ffs calm your tits she could be any colour and I would still say that

[@ania5038]

@@itsNaturallyCrystal And all that your comment says is that you see racism EVERYWHERE even where there is none

[@newchapters600]

Don’t like the host bashing Aaliyah and I don’t believe him . We saw how he treated all those women it’s giving abuser making excuses

[@RegalMermaid]

Every time he (and Izzy) call women girls my insides fold up

[@jennag7032]

I like Uche . He wouldn't have left her if she didn't left the show

[@lydiajean-louis6402]

I agree. She bashed everyone BUT him. This interview didn’t bring anything to light. No new perspective at all. She didn’t challenge him on his ridiculous.

[@gailm.4324]

That host is full of it.. for Uche to sit and have her bash Aaliyah…he was in the pods…he knows the environment…

[@christinadanielle7303]

This host won’t even get a thumbs down from me. She doesn’t deserve my engagement. They both made my skin crawl. I couldn’t make it to the end. It’s clear why Uchee chose this platform for an interview.

[@itsmelanieking]

Aaliyah was the only likable and authentic person on the show. The rest were all walking red flags. Uche sending all those texts to Milton, Lydia, and Aaliyah after the show is insane. I see why he was scared to go on the reunion 😂

[@thetoughgroup]

I hear you. But no I don't believe he was scared to appear on the reunion. He's an accomplished lawyer and successful business owner. I believe he saw it for what it was and doesn't want to be involved with the bullshit.

[@alyssiab.]

​@thetoughgroup9053 even though he started a lot of the BS 😂

[@thetoughgroup]

@alyssiab. He's messy enough to be on the show for sure, LOL. But I didn't see him starting a lot of BS. I saw him expressing himself and having strong opinions backed by facts (i.e. screenshots). Black men are still not allowed to publicly do so, and when we do, it's always "misogyny" or "abusive" or "narcissistic." I stand with Uche 👏🏾 #BlackMaleLawyers

[@Sandrinarhonda]

@@thetoughgrouphe’s TRASH !

[@Youtuber-c5r5m]

All those texts? He checked in with the girls with a quick text each before the show aired. And did you miss the part of the podcast where he showed and talked about the Milton text? The show tried to portray him as obsessed, he’s not. Lydia is the psycho here

[@ambsoccer84]

The fact that Uche chose this “melanated host” as his only platform other than his to tell his “truth” says EVERY SINGLE THING real ones needed to know.

[@marriejames01]

Melanated? You must need a eye exam. All I see is a bad spray tan. 🙄

[@95luannaable]

@@marriejames01someone don’t understand sarcasm

[@onewayandpurposed]

My sentiment exactly! He didn't want to be held accountable!

[@megkal16]

Your post only reveals your mindset. In 2023 should black people only choose based off the hosts color. Smh

[@onewayandpurposed]

@megankalidas2662 this is a cultural subject you have no knowledge in. Uche obviously has no respect for black women, and this interview is exhibit z. The way he treated aliyah and Miriam are other examples. Sit this out megan

[@Bibirallie]

Uche was not misunderstood. he is a clear example of the type of man to stay away from. 3 of the men in show were all walking red flags.

[@Ale-2002]

Jp, Uche, Izzy

[@pearlosibu]

@SeventiesLeotruth is we don’t know taylor. We only know her in the context of jp’s treatment of her.

[@hildeyogaanddance6919]

@@Ale-2002and those other two men that didn’t even get featured cause they were abusive! A guy called Thomas and another one called Carter. Thomas has a lawsuit going against him!

[@lainatonnerr3179]

What I don’t get is why he was. Praising her to Aliyah then starting to portray her as a stalker ! Plus describing their relationship as just a fling when you introduced her to your friends 🥴 Uche isn’t evil as they try to make him seem but just admit that your whole speech about. Honesty. Applies to others but not you…

[@britanner562]

He clearly stated on the show that he wanted her to have the same opportunity as he had. A fresh start on the show and didn’t want to poison Milton ear about her. Had he started speaking negatively about her from the beginning women would have been dragging him for being a bitter ex and trying to ruin her experience.

[@Arayofsunshine-88]

@@britanner562 Oh please. Uche is just like Izzy, they try to present themselves to the world as the "nice guy" but as soon as their ego gets hurt its down in the gutter about the person they just said all these lovely things about. He is a hypocrite, very judgmental and thinks he's the smartest in the room. Not wanting to poison anyone's mind switched up real quick when he was practically begging ppl at the party to listen to his Lydia slander. Also pretty telling how all the girls chimed in to defend Lydia but the black woman is who he chooses to disrespect and demean. Lydia has her faults but Uche is very much an awful person.

[@freedomm]

@@Arayofsunshine-88 Izzy is broke with bad credit. Uche is an accomplished three-storey-house-owning, tesla-driving lawyer and entrepreneur. One is being hounded for marrying to try and secure his financial future and the other for breaking up with women for not meeting his standards. They're not the same.

[@yemio1005]

@@freedommsocial and financial status is not what was being compared it’s the demeaning way they speak to and about women!

[@Arayofsunshine-88]

@@freedomm I don't know why you feel the need to compare their financial situations when the similarity I VERY clearly stated was their huge egos and propensity to speak negatively to and try to turn others against women they previously had a romantic interest in. All that he has going for him didn't prevent him from being in the same pods as broke ass Izzy now did it?

[@andreacheca9449]

Am I the only one who does not believe Lydia? and believe she needs to see a therapist asap? the way she cried when Izzy rejected her. She wanted a husband so so bad that she didn't care if it was her last choice, she just simply wanted to settle with someone... Not saying that this guy is a saint but as a woman and us having a strong intuition I dont trust nor believe Lydia

[@melissasllew2527]

Nope not the only one. I'm right there with you

[@regularity2556]

Lydia was able to move on tho, seems like a lot of other people would learn from that

[@melissasllew2527]

@@regularity2556 Lydia can move on if she wants and ppl can still comment if they want

[@andreacheca9449]

@regularity2556 I think she moved on indeed, but homegirl was still desperate to find a husband no matter who it was .. production guy, housekeeping guy no matter who she wanted to leave that show as a married woman! That's my point...

[@Flores361]

I think the whole Lidia & uche was a situationship. To Me it seems like she kept going back to him because he was sending mixed signals. I do think she was super desperate to find a husband & she did it. Milton seems like a great guy so she got lucky

[@Passionatelycurious91]

Uche is mixing up the timelines in his story telling. Lydia didnt tell Aaliyah details about his life until after Uche told her Lydia was his ex. The host is bias and didnt challenge Uche enough 🙄 The producers did not make him yell at Aaliyah .. dont blame edits

[@mjenkinsify]

Yeah his lil tell alls aren’t helping him lol. But I’m like go off bruh

[@newp848]

He literally explained the correct chronological order. He explained after the producers let him reveal to Aliyah that he and Lydia dated, Lydia then broke the rules by telling Aliyah things about him and their past relationship. Actually listen next time.

[@Rocioslane]

There’s a reason he chose this platform to avoid any real accountability

[@majorcoats7777]

So the fact Aaliyah abandoned him with no explanation is ok? See this goes to show how the sisterhood has no empathy for men's needs or pain. Lol You could careless how shitty a man gets treated, "he shouldn't yell at her" What a joke. You have no empathy when a man presents his grievances, so your opinion is automatically invalid.

[@stoleethatsme]

@@majorcoats7777 exactly, they support crazy women, ho3s in relationships, sabotage, ghetto behavior and more. i am a woman ,but these women just prove they will defend BS so long as its a woman, pathetic

[@ivapetrovska9986]

Blaming the edit ?! Uche displayed CLASSICALLY ABUSIVE behaviour in each scene from the cheating scene until the end of the Show -REGARDLESS if in the meantime Uche was a poet or funny or culturally educated ! #EmotionalAbuseAwareness

[@thetoughgroup]

You come across as emotionally damaged and I say this with kindness. Uche rightfully called out Aaliyah's admitted cheating. He was vetting her to be his wife. Women literally rage at the mere hint of a man cheating but when it's a woman who's cheating it's dismissed as "the past." Get real and lose the double standard. Also therapy is good for everyone.

[@Yungex7sr]

@@thetoughgroupEXACTLYYYY

[@megkal16]

@@thetoughgroup you took the words right out of my mouth. This lady is a walking victim 🤦‍♀️ smh

[@22studentGodfirst]

@@thetoughgroupYou need to learn the difference between having damage and having awareness. One is acquired by wisdom and discernment. If you can’t detect how manipulative Uche is, even from the “Lydia’s just some girl” comment, and his anger and lack of sympathy towards Aaliyah running from a traumatic and confusing experience, then I say this with kindness-you are a problem.

[@thetoughgroup]

@22studentGodfirst To Uche, Lydia is "just some girl" in the context he said it to a woman he was vetting to be his wife. Compared to Aaliyah, Lydia meant nothing to him at that point. You don't seem to understand this. I stand by what I said, Uche had every right to his positions and was justified in his responses. I don't live in victim hood land and neither Lydia nor Aaliyah are victims. I highly recommend everyone watch the Miss Understood Podcast. That beautiful, sophisticated woman interviewed Uche for an hour and gave this smart, successful brother the respect he deserves. God bless you. Team Uche 👏🏾 #BlackMaleLawyers

[@TheReniks]

Is it just me or does it feel like the interviewer craps on the girls and makes excuses for the guys? It’s giving pick me.. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Also, ask him questions and let him answer rather thank asking him a question, saying what you think happened and then he affirms what she says.

[@Mya_water]

She centres on men. Some call them pick me's, but essentially her identity and self-worth are wrapped in men and she places them above herself and women.

[@pearlosibu]

Like vanessa did for Izzy and Lydia?

[@ivapetrovska9986]

@@pearlosibu No, not like Vanessa, who did it right. Only after Izzy denied accountability, Vanessa tried to extracted it with kindness and suggestive questioning! And rg Lidia, Vanessa let her answer Aalyah's multiple questions, but after Aalyah proceeded to blame everyone and refused to take her own accountability for the failed experience (due to her own choice of partner) Vanessa pointed out- what most of us thought : - If You Alyah trusted Uche and felt safe with him - You wouldn't have left LIB ! (which Aalyah confirmed at Jassy Woo. Plus said - the 1st time she wanted to leave LIB - was after the chestizing from Uche at the cheating convo)

[@lydiajean-louis6402]

Did this lady just say he wasn’t the problem?! Excuse me?!

[@Annie-wt2ue]

validating a narcissist🤦‍♀

[@Mya_water]

Yt women aren delusional over and Black Nigerian men. They fall the easiest by their charade. I need yt women to have back bones

[@originalblessed]

She will do anything for views

[@ashleyapple1917]

Delulu behavior, which is probably why Uche felt comfortable choosing to interview on her platform. He knew he wouldn't be held accountable.

[@thetoughgroup]

Team Uche. Smart move brother 👏🏾

[@EatWell23QWB]

Izzy and Stacey were absolutely mean and evil towards Jhonni. It was so painful to watch them demoralize her unprovoked.

[@Sandrinarhonda]

So Johnie defending Uche is okay ma’am ?!

[@pearlosibu]

@@Sandrinarhondashe didn’t defend. She stated her own opinion. Said it wasn’t adding it for her. She has the right.

[@tonibrooks9719]

I agree completely!!!

[@missysjohn4063]

I feel Uchee may have some unlikeable traits in his delivery but I do feel there is some truths to what he is saying. Lydia gives me the impression of someone being codependent. They may have dated and she got too clingy and with most men during the dating phase, they are dating other women trying to find the one woman they want to commit to. She found out he was dating others and started going through his social media. I believe she did stalk him and his friends and very much was aware he would be on the show. No one sees it as odd that she became friends with Aaliyah out of everyone else. She was secretly jealous he was interested in someone else. You could see her on one episode looking down when she told her how uchee felt about her. I feel sorry for Milton cause I do not believe she is genuine. He is young and trying to prove to his family, self and everyone that nothing is wrong with her. But there definitely is. This is something he is looking at as a science project to prove to himself that he can do it. Lydia is not the type that will go away lightly.

[@simbaladesignsinsights]

Yeah there is something insidious behind those eyes of hers.

[@jessasmrcd]

Good thing Milton’s sister is a lawyer

[@justcallmebon2684]

Yeah Lydia is a mess

[@sandra_anewe]

tbvh, your comment makes sense in because i think she can be clingy but i do not agree with the rest. she alleged he cheated on her so she could have been wondering if he was lying to Aaliyah. I dont think Lydia is the mean one. Out of all the cast everyone had an issue with uche and sometimes when lots of people have an issue with you, its not them it's you. Also Izzy had an issue with Uche and we knoe men barely have issues like women and if Lydia was jealous what was uche then? when did he feel the need to pry in Milton's relationship more than once and why did he text Milton on his wedding day?

[@Phyllis238]

I don't know why people attack Uche. He is a decent human being, with imperfections like the rest of us.

[@elizabethhayes4505]

Why didn't you ask him about attacking Miriam out of all the girls? The only black one 🤬

[@beccamakela2014]

And Aaliyah was???

[@ashleyapple1917]

@@beccamakela2014 She means out of all the girls who attended the party. Aaliyah wasn't there.

[@Minalia92]

Exactly. They have no problem fixating on Johnnie crying and Izzy and Stacy aren’t even here 😂

[@micaelafcarranza6739]

Because she was the rudest

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Let’s get it straight - Miriam attacked him! And was very indecent about it!! Rewatch the Scene and stop tryna be her superhero omg that says a lot about ur character 🤨

[@ImAllisonWonderland]

Help me understand why Aaliyah had to tell Lydia anything. Why couldn't she walk away when Lydia was running her mouth? Same reason she was sliding down the wall sobbing after Uche ate her up in the pods. She was emotionally unstable from the beginning. I honestly do not care if these two knew each other IRL. Aaliyah's choices ignited ALL the drama!

[@Megz129]

Aaliyah seemed fearful avoidant. I do agree though. That wall slide was hella dramatic. Girl looked liek whe was in an rnb music video😂

[@starsha23]

I’m shocked that he made it such a big deal his ex was sneaking around on his IG. Everyone knows women are FBI agents. 😂 literally every woman I know fishes around in their new dates IG to see who he’s talking to especially if they have concerns.

[@AdaezesSpace]

He didn't make it a big deal until she followed him to the show.

[@CheMiahC]

If it was so innocent, then why did she get so upset.

[@talitam.8414]

No the issue is that in context she basically stalked him to the extent that she followed him on LIB to basically get him back. She went as far as becoming his potential spouse’s friend. That’s very manipulative and not ok at all. She played a big role in messing Uche and Aaliyah’s relationship up in the pods.

[@ivapetrovska9986]

​​​@@talitam.8414Do not be manipulated ! Be aware and stay away from men like him ! Those are the most dangerous kind -INVISIABLE ABUSERS !! And You are wrong -Aaliyah befriended her first ( watch again) and Lidia supported her as a good friend all the time and still being fair to Uche without disclosing how egocentric and toxic he is. Lidia comfort Aaliyah crying for her ex of years, for 8 days, and being a little teritorail/ jealous at the end was normal.

[@Dev-kw6ym]

🤣🤣 you’re saying it’s okay for women to stalk send pictures of there house only going on the show to sabotage literally lied and manipulated and you’re defending? 🤣🤣🤣but if it was a guy doing it you would call it harassment. Make it make sense clown

[@melissasllew2527]

I have said this to several ppl. What we saw in the phone conversation with Aaliyah after she left was anger and frustration due to being hurt. This interview clarifies that. He said they talked about the Lydia situation and they were good, they planned to fly home together. So makes sense he was shocked and hurt to find out she has left. Didn't even leave him a note or anything in the notebook. He has feelings too.

[@berenisemendez5223]

The reunion reveals Uche was the villain of this season 5. He is at fault and needs to fix himself. What a master manipulator.

[@Mya_water]

He knows what platforms to go to because these women will pacify him and not call him out

[@Dalija01]

This!!

[@msgarion]

That is cap. The man is a straightforward guy. He can be condescending because he is well educated but the real manipulator was Lydia. The fact that no one saw through her crazy ass is baffling.

[@Beautylivesinme]

Exactly he is clearly the problem because everyone he had beef with is literally happily moved on in relationships 😅

[@Mya_water]

@@msgarion The delusional toxic clowns have arrived

[@JF-lb3xw]

The way Aaliyah was vilified here but JP was praised is crazy

[@AnaAcuraErica]

If Aaliyah was ur homeboys ex-gf and she’s on international tv talking about cheating on ur friend - would you not vilify her? Just cus we dnt know the dude doesn’t take away from what she did and also what she left out the conversation. Let’s be real here. The girl isn’t an angel

[@thesupreme950]

@@AnaAcuraEricanone of the guys are friends with Aaliyah’s ex lol so what are you talking about

[@AnaAcuraErica]

@@thesupreme950 duhh! I know that!! 🤨 I’m simply pointing out the hypocrisy with people!!

[@22studentGodfirst]

Literally insane

[@stoleethatsme]

she behaved like a ho33, get over it

[@helma]

This is awful, if you’re not going to ask the important questions, why interview him in the first place? People want to know, why was he attacking Miriam? As a man, why are you so comfortable attacking a woman? Why did he downplayed his relationship with Lydia? And why did he want to discuss their past relationship on screen when she was already engaged to someone else? This interview is not good enough!

[@DA1FOOSA]

Miriam dumped him after the fourth day of pod dating.

[@davinaowen9918]

Because he wouldn't have come on there

[@monicaroach9845]

The host speaking on a Aliyah so badly without having any insight is crazy , it’s like she wants uche

[@laurad324]

Can’t believe u let this guy on. Toxic narc

[@AnaAcuraErica]

You must not know what a toxic narc is ma’am! I just got out of a situation from a real toxic narc - and I can’t tell you that Uche is not that!! So stop!

[@dforgr9257]

@@AnaAcuraErica lol

[@ivapetrovska9986]

Miss You've certainly Misunderstood everything ‼ To defend Uche and Izzy -to not clock on the manipulations, multiple lies and contradictions, egoism and hypocrisy, toxicity and disrespect twd mutliple women - these men displayed 📢 ⚖

[@DGoodTwin]

Unbelievable that this host never mentions how Uche went on a tirade when addressing Miriam. Maybe she's playing to his ego for the interview.

[@davinaowen9918]

Didn't watch interview just went straight to comments and just as I figured this interviewer is biased. He will not be interviewed by someone asking tough questions thats why he skipped the reunion.

[@thedaviszone5187]

On the show its clear Uche says " I Need To Talk with her" and producer's say we can try and call & see if she picks up OR you can leave and do it on your own. And UCHE SAYS "I Need To Talk With Her"

[@Iiiiitzamy]

Watch that scene again and count the edits and cuts during that one scene . It’s just like how they did jackelina when she met up with cauliflower ear boy

[@0103harleyq]

Okay so he doesn't actually know if Lydia went the route that he's discussing, this is all speculation. According to uche, lydia told the girls that she was checking uche's followers on insta everyday and the girls told uche. I want to hear from the girls now cause this is second hand info. I wanna hear from the first hand girls that were told this info by Lydia. I thought he was going to provide actual screenshots and proof 😂. but if the girls come out and validate this theory, I'd buy it .

[@simplye.l.]

Yeah I was hoping this would be more insightful but it wasn't.

[@EatWell23QWB]

My experience watching JP was he kind of creeped me out a bit.

[@exactlyerica9285]

"A lawyer and attractive" What about character and personality!?

[@halitst1]

As a black woman, I am so sick of other black women claiming that men like Uche are no good and that he prefers a different race. Let the guy be! He was obviously heavily edited and he has said sorry! Some of the Uche haters need to take a look at themselves and make peace with their own past. It’s unhealthy to be so hateful towards a character on a show. This was a great interview and I wish him only the best.

[@missunderstoodpodcast]

Thanks! 😊 Uche is heavily Missunderstood.

[@paigie1367]

I agree. I feel a lot of women who dislike Uche are projecting. He does need to work on his tone and the way he speaks when he’s emotional. However, not everything is Uche’s fault. Lydia played a big part and the way Aaliyah left would’ve hurt me as well.

[@enifromtheville3399]

I want to know what black women did to get put in here. Sickness

[@megkal16]

@@karataylorwhy do you resort to calling someone a pick me for a different opinion than you, this show is highly edited from what I saw Miriam was very argumentative out of all the women and so he argued back. There was no attacking why do you make things bigger than it was 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@megkal16]

@@karataylor lol ok 👍🏿

[@tiffiebrownie4780]

He's mad that she left him and his ego was bursed that's why he's so upset

[@freedomm]

Are we watching the same show? He broke up with her. She begged him to marry her.

[@thesupreme950]

@@freedommthey’re referring to her leaving him before the engagement. his ego was bruised by that and it’s understandable, it’s an embarrassing situation to be in.

[@ivapetrovska9986]

I don't like Uche cowardly avoiding the reunion and his claims to be tested - but proceeds to spread illogical unfounded accusations for character assasination ( of Lidia who rejected him twice) in a true abusor-y manner !

[@beccamakela2014]

Didn’t Lydia want to start from scratch and he said no? Didn’t he dump her??

[@megkal16]

@@beccamakela2014 yes she stated she wanted to “start from scratch “ and he said NO! Don’t know why women ignore the truth I order to support a very manipulative woman smh. Lydia ruined Aaliyah’s experience she did wayyyy to much.

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Not only that but it’s not cowardice to avoid a show that portrayed you in a villainous way and didn’t have his back on that whole Lydia situation. As he just said, when he brought up how Lydia is in Aaliyah’s ear - they lied to him and said they were keeping them separated. I wouldn’t want to come back either! Any therapist would recommend the same. Life is too short to be surrounded by negativity like that. This man took a lot of hate from social media and it’s wasn’t all fair or warranted.

[@theguardianarchives433]

​@@beccamakela2014That's true

[@pearlosibu]

I’m glad he didn’t go. I wouldn’t. The reunion is a shitshow. Look what they did to Aliyah.

[@Britchick31]

You mad Lydia got married bruh😅

[@sflo4538]

"I don't believe you were the problem" says no one but a flying monkey lol. Uche def was a problem... regardless of how Aaliyah found things out, he totally minimized his former relationship with Lydia and lied about how long he was involved with her. Plus, Milton says he tried to tell him things about Lydia on the boys side and affect his rel with her... What a hypocrite!

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Milton was referring to AFTER the pods!! Not before!! Did you watch the show??? Any comment Uche made to Milton about his love choices were just inquiries!! That wasn’t Uche trashing or over sharing about Lydia while they were in the pods!! Get ur comprehension skills up ma’am 🤨

[@sflo4538]

@@AnaAcuraErica 😂😂😂

[@sflo4538]

@AnaAcuraErica Uche was a major problem. Periodt... before after, and during pods.

[@AnaAcuraErica]

@@sflo4538 to you bro! To you and the other mindless parrots on YT!

[@pearlosibu]

Milton didn’t want ti listen cuz he knew he would hear uncomfortable truths. That one is living his milf dream.

[@JustBeYouTy]

I don’t believe nothing he says. This show shows you that men are wayyyy more emotional lol. Uche is a joke!

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Yet Miriam, for example, couldn’t hold her tongue while other were talking and then blew up at him for him setting boundaries.. okay sure 👌🏾

[@Dev-kw6ym]

Literal proof in front of your eyes that Lydia was lying and manipulating. Imagine you go on a show and your ex stalks you on it trying to control how things go to make things not work. Make it make sense clown

[@user-xd2nx9mh1j]

I appreciate how straightforward Uche is. He attempted to look out for Milton. Rightly so….

[@onyx081]

I see he couldn't wait to rush to do a podcast with his actual preference of woman

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Yet it was insinuated in the Pods that Aaliyah was black.. okay sure 👌🏾

[@pearlosibu]

Like Aaliyah went to Cameron?

[@ask4theupgrade359]

Lydia’s reaction to Uche in the Pods “Fuck! Fuck!” Lydia blocked hi. She was there for herself. Aaliyah told Lydia she knew about them first. Today, Aaliyah shares the same opinion as Lydia. Uche was constantly speaking down to her. Aaliyah expressed she was Not his type. He’s a narcissist. Trying to control his own narrative being disrespectful to Aaliyah, Lydia, Miriam, Milton, Izzy, etc

[@sholay706]

So u believe aliyah lol. She properly is a liar

[@thesupreme950]

@@sholay706based on what?

[@sholay706]

@xoxojollyy because if uche doesn't date black women he would have gone for her in the first place so she is trying to get sympathy lol. Why would someone who doesn't date black women ask to date outside the show??

[@thesupreme950]

@@sholay706 lol why do you think “not his type” means it was based on her race?

[@sholay706]

@@thesupreme950 it is not. He saw she was black and date her outside the show lol. Make that make sense.

[@user-lj1ed6nd3r]

Uche was one of the only serious and level headed people on this show. He asked appropriate and pertinent questions. Thanks to this host for not piling on him like everyone else.

[@missunderstoodpodcast]

Thanks for watching! 😊

[@dinhuhferreira2067]

They preferred something like Stacy , that leads with you till the altar and dumps you lol

[@Daavrr]

You’re not a good or unbiased host.

[@ivapetrovska9986]

Uche - We saw in uneditted scene that You were the one to request to speak to Aaliyah, not the Production ! For an attorney I'd expect Uche'd prepare better case for himself...this narrative is full of holes and contradictions- thus is shameful!

[@mannyapp9095]

What unedited scene are you referring to? In the show all the scenes are edited. In episode 5 of the show, the producer asks Uche if he wants to speak with Aaliyah. First, Uche said he needs to talk to her. Then the producer offered him a choice: they can contact her for him or he can do it on his own time. He says again he needs to talk to her (I'm suspicious that this soundbite is repeated but from a different view). Then the producer asks him if he wants to talk to her. Is there another video somewhere else showing what you are referring to?

[@ivapetrovska9986]

@@mannyapp9095 No, there are dialogs from the scenes that are not cutted ! They flow naturally and consequently.

[@mannyapp9095]

@@ivapetrovska9986 Which scene are you referring to? I carefully watched in episode 5 when the producers talked to Uche about Aaliyah being gone. I see camera cuts, voiceovers, and angle changes. What are you seeing?

[@ivapetrovska9986]

@@mannyapp9095 Miss rewatch the scene from 3.32 - He is realizing and requesting to talk to her “This doesn't make any sense“ cut “I can't accept this without having the chance to talk to her “- cut - “Like..I need to talk to her“ !! And then he is offered by the production to phone her right away or later alone - he requests right away- and he proceeds with the emotional abuse on the phone convo ! Plus You're aware that every angle change- does not automatically mean - edited content (You can conclude it- by the aligned mouth movement with the voice, as well as the other features). Also this man - lied so many times in this interview - I don't have the time to elaborate each one !

[@mannyapp9095]

@@ivapetrovska9986 oh I disagree with how he spoke to Aaliyah thats not okay. But he didn’t lie that the producer asked him. He said that the producer asked him if he wants to talk to her which is consistent with how you described the scene where the producer asks him if he wants to talk to her right away or later alone

[@onewayandpurposed]

Crazy Uche would pick this podcast to come on. Never heard of you (no shade but) is telling of who Uche feels safe or vulnerable with. He just needs to be honest with himself so he won't have to keep defending a falsehood

[@nyamekamahlangeni2356]

Ahh what a messy messy situation. Its like everything worked out to ensure that the very purpose of the show was being defeated in the case of Uche & Aaliyah.

[@avabliss9452]

so agree with your idea on the second chances show!!

[@tsikap1762]

This is such a biased interview!!! WTH??

[@freedomm]

I'm glad Uche took this route to tell his side. He's a straight shooter indeed and I hope he doesn't change or compromise his standards just to make others happy. Bravo!

[@elisamatisah806]

This host is very biased and obviously doesnt mind wasting precious time on toxic people and relationships. For her to say Aliyah should have stayed and continue to get to know Uche is very telling. Aliyah should have absolutely left ASAP and be done with the experiment. There was no one else she was interested in. She just divulged her past indiscretions to him and was made to feel awful by him. THEN she finds out shortly after she divulged her past he withheld very important information from her (doesnt matter if it was by him or producers). If the one person she liked has an ex-girlfriend there who he tried to minimize their relationship AND then she finds out he RECENTLY slept with this ex AND then they both mysteriously ended up on the show together! Also, she realizes this new friend of hers/ex girlfriend possibly has fatal attraction/glen close tendencies (following him on the show, stalking his house and social media). Why would she stay and continue getting to know him and his messy life. I would never allow anyones choices in life to affect mine. Aliyah is there to look for love not toxicity. Life is too short and if you value yourself and your time you dont continue to stick around to sort out a stranger's messy life. Aliyah should have left and NEVER looked back.

[@meetthebuttons]

This was a total disappointment. You only asked the safe questions. We wanna know why he’s so disrespectful towards black women, and why did he NOT show up to the reunion

[@divineme9628]

Thank you so much, finally Uche got a platform to tell his side of the story and I believe him 🙏🏿

[@missunderstoodpodcast]

Thanks! 😊 I think he deserved to have a platform.

[@ivapetrovska9986]

Abusers do not deserve to have a platform !!!! #EmotionalAbuseAwareness

[@megkal16]

@@ivapetrovska9986 take you victim mentality elsewhere maam.

[@EatWell23QWB]

In my opinion, Uche exhibited classic narcissistic personality traits during the show. He came across as obsessed with Lydia, and he unfairly judged Aliyah. It was also very painful to watch such an intelligent and articulate man attempt to display a little disrespectful and manipulative behavior towards a few other people on Love Is Blind.

[@msgarion]

Obsessed with Lydia??? He dumped her 😅

[@EatWell23QWB]

@@msgarion In my opinion, Uche perseverated on Lydia at various points throughout the season. I felt watching Uche that he exhibited much more animation and passion when talking about Lydia than he ever showed for Aaliyah.

[@AnaAcuraErica]

@@EatWell23QWBI think that Uche looked towards Lydia as someone he needed to protect and look out for. They both spoke on their dynamic and how Lydia didn’t know anyone else at the time and she was going thru financial issues. With that said - I wouldn’t say that he was obsessed, but that was a subject he was comfortable in discussing and considering he probably put up money for her many times.. he has every right for that. The turn came in where he started talking about her negatively, when all that was told to him by Aaliyah about what Lydia did and told her. At that point- he was out for revenge. And Tbr, I dnt know many humans that wouldn’t have tried some form of what Uche did. Who are you to sit on a high horse and cast judgements? That’s my question.

[@EatWell23QWB]

@@AnaAcuraErica But you must be excited for the outcome, right?! Both Lydia and Aaliyah are HAPPY in LOVE! Lydia with Milton, and Aaliyah with her true love that she met on an R&B cruise. What a perfect ending! 👏👏👏😄😄😄

[@AnaAcuraErica]

@@EatWell23QWB I’m not excited about any of this bs. I’m a person that seeks justice and seeing Lydia smiling and happy with Milton isn’t it for me! She sat there and was given a pass for evading Aaliyah’s boundaries by stating it was a pressure release for her and that’s not enough! That’s just not okay!! So no! I’m not excited and it’s sickening to see people of her character get by and be successful in career and marriage when there are others out here that deserve that! She’s absolutely trash and Milton doesn’t seem to like black people so F him!! He’s portraying himself to be so self righteous and for what??? He sounds like a puppet of a black man I would never dare or be in the same room with! The way he didn’t even want to hear Uches warning about Lydia makes absolutely no sense!! F all of them fr!!

[@ToriDTV]

Stopped watching after host said Aaliyah had no reason to be mad about all the details. Horrible take. As a woman, you should feel for a woman opening her heart to a man and then finding out he had s3x just 3 months prior. That is not behavior from someone who wants marriage.

[@CreateAndEvolve_]

Jessie Woo brought me here 💕

[@Mya_water]

No suprised that clown suggested this channel

[@TheUSHERKAN]

Saw her interview of Miriam.... i think she did a horrible job of interviewing, her attitude was too biased, she talked for the most part and we didn't get enough talking from Miriam who was her guest. It appears She's a fun person, but her always playing on the victimhood mentality that black people should embrace is off-putting. But anyway.... it is what it is

[@CreateAndEvolve_]

@@TheUSHERKANI’d have to agree with you unfortunately. I hope she will listen to her audiences criticism because it was painful to watch . Hopefully Rachel can interview her without any biases.

[@Beautylivesinme]

Horrible interview 🤷🏾‍♀️ it’s clear as day that Uche doesn’t have respect for women at all unless they are praising him 🙄 he was sooooo upset with Aaliyah but wasn’t with Lydia until she had gotten engaged 🍅🍅🍅 prior to Lydia moving on she was a great person blah blah blah but now all of a sudden she’s a manipulative person. American black women please stay away from men like this. I’m glad Aaliyah has moved on with a man that’s fineee and treating her right.

[@chuyuecombs4673]

However about the other couple, lzzy and Johnnie. They are so emotional unavailable to be honest. lzzy said all those mean words about the girl and they made out after the show??? I already didn’t like her when she chose Chris after she was rejected by Lzzy. It’s very obvious that neither of them knows what they wanted, which is a big no no to me and I would never be friends with them in real life. I like the girl Stacy in a way that she is always consistent and stable. If you like someone in the first place, make a move. If you like two at the same time, choose and don’t build an empire. I know you are worrying about losing a potential but like a bet, if you want to win, you also have to deal with loses. If you pick wrong, at least you can say that you tried to make it right. If you don’t like someone, leave. Make the world a better place by offering fairness to others please. It seems to me, that both Lzzy and Johnnie are the same so they got super mad at each other yet like each other. They are just very confused.

[@elizabethhayes4505]

Why attack Aaliyah? Glad he at least took up for her

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Lol because Aaliyah behaved like a little girl at summer camp Rather than a woman looking for a husband

[@gabiemyown7883]

Wow wow amazed on how much the host sounds like bethenny frankle

[@gilliangreenidge1568]

I don't know about you guys, but Aaliyah leaving the show was foolish to me. At the end of the day, you develop with your perception of someone. Just because lydiah was telling you these things, either true or not true. You're an adult. You have the option to run with it or come to your own conclusion. In normal life if one of your girl friend know a guy, you would not want her to tell you what she knows about him. Not taking away from the experience. But she overracted to me .

[@ajjax9952]

I’m almost done watching but read comments a few days ago. From what I read, I thought Uche might have been spewing a mess but this interview is not that bad and I feel like made some things more clear. I’m feeling like the Producers gave us a different story. Now on to Lydia, Uche is a lawyer and he is in IT. She could have thought he might be doing business with the producer, not necessarily knowing he was going to be on the show.

[@TikkaTCM]

Omg....you had your 15 minutes of fame...let it go already.

[@joywilliams9761]

You, too, let him be and let him tell his side . And rest it.

[@TikkaTCM]

@@joywilliams9761 he has said it over and over...sick of seeing his mug and hearing his calculated words.

[@newchapters600]

@@TikkaTCMomg me too . I feel like I’m the only one seeing through him . I still don’t like him

[@paigie1367]

But you clicked on the video knowing the possibility what he may be addressing. You didn’t have to click, watch, and listen.

[@TikkaTCM]

@@paigie1367 i clicked because I wanted to give it a bad statistic by starting and stopping the video 5 min in. I have a ton of love is blind recommendations pop up because I am obviously watching LIB stuff...just hate that this man has a platform. So desperate to be right and prove himself. Just stop!

[@MJ31579]

Izzy reached out to Jonnie after filming 🤔

[@Mt-kd8gl]

I just remember how Jonnie said when he first picked Stacey, "it'll be a big mistake..he'll see." so interesting.

[@terrycrews1760]

This was a great interview, great questions. Bigger supporter of Uche now as a result. Solid guy.

[@ohisee9173]

I'm confused how production could have convinced Uche that Lydia said something in passing off-camera when Aaliyah was literally listing off things about him that she couldn't have known otherwise. And regardless if it happened off-camera somehow, it still verifiably happened and Lydia shouldve been kicked off per their agreement. Uche needs to take more accountability not just for his communication issues, but also his LISTENING issues. He chose to not take Aaliyah seriously THROUGHOUT. I really believe he has narcissistic tendencies. What that stems from, I don't know. It doesn't mean he's incapable of empathy or fairness, but he does consistently think of himself first, talk himself out of accountability as much as he can until he hits a logical wall. (I relate so I think that's why I see it). In his IG, he implied he wasn't told about Aaliyah's experiences, when SHE told him. And here again, he's admitting that he dismissed her and didn't look any deeper even when she was begging him to understand. Selfish.

[@mannyapp9095]

I agree with you (also because I relate). Uche wasn't compassionate because he wasn't listening to her. I notice that he was only compassionate when he paused, thought it through, and then responded. But he doesn't give her a chance to explain... it's painful to watch

[@missbell1634]

🛑Excuses, excuses, and more explanations. Just stop it, just stop it like Jada Pinkett Smith, please stop‼️

[@Dalija01]

True 😅

[@WendyGugu]

Well said 👍🏽 very proud of uche , the production won’t take accountability coz it’s their jobs to create drama to get views after all I think uche handled it well

[@Phyllis238]

Uche does look like a good man who like the rest of us has little failings. Lydia is evil, manipulative. She was determined to mess Aaliyah & Uche's relationship and unfortunately she succeeded. The Producers owe both Uche & Aaliyah an apology.

[@daringderin]

So happy to have watched it. The math wasn't adding and it was obvious they created a villain out of you. I hope you go for the reunion or find a way to make this interview go viral. Thanks Miss Understood

[@missunderstoodpodcast]

Thanks for watching! 😊

[@Mya_water]

You are a perfect target for absuive men

[@Dalija01]

🤦‍♀️

[@thetoughgroup]

Correct. Anything to demonize this smart and talented brother. Team Uche 👏🏾

[@Mya_water]

@@thetoughgroup He is a pitiful poor communicator grown pathetic man

[@aceee4386]

He's totally massaging the timeline. Uche told Aliyah before Lydia. THEN Aliyah came to Lydia and told her that Uche confessed it. Also Uche is one of the only cast members to offer no self reflection on his behaviour during conflict.

[@effiekyeremateng2764]

Good interview

[@missunderstoodpodcast]

I appreciate it! ❤️

[@m.aliciavela4058]

Why did he reached out to many of the cast members? for what? how hypocrite he treated Myriam super bad

[@gemapina8080]

I’m confused because I also saw watching the show that he was miss treating Aaliyah but now he is explaining things that we couldn’t see on camera and he makes a lot of sense, why was he hated so much on the show and even by Aaliyah on the reunion, why?

[@abbylaryea5910]

How can you say the producers said y'all can talk and be surprised that they didnt send Lydia home..they gave you the go ahead..not saying it was right but it's conflicting. glad we got his pov thou

[@maurapukiki]

right lmao he should have been called out on that one

[@pearlosibu]

I think he said they can disclose to the people they’re dating. But Lydia took it as a go-ahead to spill about her and uche.

[@pearlosibu]

Also, notice how lydia did not tell Milton about sleeping with uche recently but told Aliyah. She was protecting her connection while ruining Aliyah’s.

[@ivapetrovska9986]

@@pearlosibu If Lidia wanted to ruin Aalyah's relationship with Uche - she would've told her own past experience with him !! 🤷‍♀ You know - the lying, cheating, gaslighting, insulting, controlling, shift blaming, condescending interrogations, the lack of empathy and manipulations (the narcissistic emotional abuse that we saw from his as well) !

[@pearlosibu]

⁠@@ivapetrovska9986all of those, coming from her, would’ve simply been subjective. Not to mention she’d have to explain why she wanted to get back together with him. Finally, we don’t know what all Lydia told Aliyah cuz Aliyah says we were showed only a fraction. Apparently it was unrelenting. Why do that? Lydia is smart in the way only deranged people are. As women, we know: “He’s a liar, cheater, gaslighter…” “Uuuh, that sounds your opinion” However: “I was a huge part of his life: his friends know me, his dog likes me…oh, and we had sex recently…” “Wait a minute” But you go. Lydia is a sweet little guileless Puerto rican flower-girl, who just “wants to be looooved for herself.” Gotcha.

[@loveafrica97]

The producers are the real villains!

[@AngelicaTjAdventures]

im glad u did this interview. lydia is a fraud and should have been sent home. she ruined aliyahs chances. the producers r at fault. she was a sleaze. all that hugging on another contestant and trying to be fake and issue false emotions ruined another contestants experience.

[@Malaika323]

I do believe alittle of everyone's story.Uche is not evil, but he's very critical and unforgiving. Lydia is great, i think she has gone through rejection and is very passionate , so she goes all in. That combination is not good for a relationship. I can see how he thought she's crazy. I don't think she is. Love needs Grace. I don't think she's a stalker , i just think she wanted love so bad. She clearly had feelings for other people so it's love she was really after , not Uche in my opinion. Not having a family especially as a foreigner. I think Uche is a good person but very hard to please. He needs someone like the 33 year old independent woman. The way he judged Aliyah for cheating yet he's cheated before is not good . No matter how you say sorry.If a spouse has invested alot into the relationship then they have to constantly face his critical behavior,it can make you afraid to communicate. I think Milton is great for Lydia. He gives her grace to be human so mature beyond his years. Marriage is not easy noone is perfect you need to overlook the little things like him leaving towels on the 😂 floor etc to appreciate the important stuff like his stability.Lydia needed someone like him thats why it worked.They both have the character to compromise and not judge to focus on the important stuff. Making the perfect recepe to stick out marriage to the end through the hard times. People glamarize marriage too much. It's also about accepting someone with their flaws just the way they are.

[@folasadeoladayo4542]

lol I honestly think he's full of shit. If you have absolutely nothing to hide, why go out of your way to tell folks about you and your ex's situation? Why do multiple interviews instead of going to the reunion to face your shit? Lydia never went out of her way to bash Uche, she never talked to multiple parties. She said her peace and that's it. I think there's some truth to both sides. I think Lydia had a valid reason to go about her past relationship with Uche the way she did. I think he's painting it completely differently to hide what he actually did, just to make himself look good. He never said this is what I did, it is always the other person doing something to him.

[@akosuaakos9336]

I feel I'm finding a bit of conflict within the stories Mr.Uche is giving the audience. He mentioned earlier that prior to the show commencing, all contestants get 10 minutes to meet all 15 of the opposite sex. Then, all contestants proceed to list only 8 of the participants they'd like to get to know more once the camera's start recording in the Pods. Considering these rules, does it mean he included Lydia as 1 of his 8 potential interests? Did he not know all along that Lydia was 1 of the 15 women contesting in the beginning prior to being in the Pods...?

[@Sharnixo]

Uche stop talking and go home

[@freedomm]

He's home. He did not go to th reunion.

[@mannyapp9095]

If I give Uche the benefit of a doubt, I think Uche is a bit quick to judge. Based on the compliments he gets from other cast members, I think he does care about people and tries to help people. But I feel like he also struggles to respond with empathy to people. Maybe that's what he means when he says he is a bad communicator. I get the vibe that he rubs people the wrong way, but if you get to know him (or maybe as he gets to know you), you can see his good intentions.

[@simplye.l.]

I'm wondering how long he's been working on bettering his communication skills. Shouldn't there be some sort of improvement, especially since he's aware of it?

[@mannyapp9095]

@@simplye.l. I really hope he is growing. Who knows how far he’s come. We don’t know his healing journey.

[@dinhuhferreira2067]

He's a freakin lawyer

[@eccentriclocs]

1) He did not show up at the reunion to speak so nothing he says matters now. 2) If he truly said that Aaliyah is not the type he typically goes for and if he truly goes for women who are not representative of his mom, sisters, grandmother then he has a serious internal issue. Aaliyah dodged a bullet.

[@supachadtv]

Lydia knows she went on that show because of this man. She thought that she would get him back. But when he turned her down. She got pissed. So if she couldn’t have him wasn’t nobody on the show. So she made sure to be friend the other girl to make sure it wouldn’t happen

[@missunderstoodpodcast]

I couldn’t agree more!

[@sandra_anewe]

were you there? if that was the case Lydia would not be married and Aaliyah wouldnt say he said mean stuff

[@Dev-kw6ym]

@@sandra_aneweyou don’t understand? You can literally see in the show she was lying & manipulating 🤣 what are you talking about. Of course she’s married she wanted to prove a point. She’s in her 30’s and not married for a reason she would’ve married anyone but she went for the young person she knows she could married after no one wanted her.

[@sandra_anewe]

@Dev-kw6ym then why are they still married after 2 years ? lets say that's the reason why they got married...why are they still happily married ?

[@sandra_anewe]

@Dev-kw6ym I don't belive she was manipulative, you know people's character based on hoe they act. she should have known better and not become friends with Aaliyah

[@rhondaanthony1412]

Thank you so much for this interview. Lydia and the producers did an awful thing to Uche. He’s been made a villain before the world. He’s not perfect but he certainly doesn’t deserve the internet hate! That’s the worst part of it!

[@nataniapio3883]

Why did the host say, "I don't know if there was something more intimate going on between Lydia and Aaliyah?" because Aaliyah wanted to speak to Lydia. I think it's easy to sit here and ask, "Why did she want to speak to Lydia when she was there to find a husband?" when we are not in the situation of trauma bonding in a house with other females. I think your mind gets clouded and you are in survival mode. But jeez, I find it ridiculous to insinuate Lydia and Aaliyah had something more than a friendship going.

[@deborahmartin1513]

I bet a lot of people feel dumb from all the stuff they said about him after this interview. I’m glad he got to tell his side of the story. He cleared a lot of things up.

[@tiffiebrownie4780]

What did he clear up?

[@deborahmartin1513]

@@tiffiebrownie4780 ALOT!! Tons of people said that he knew that Lydia was gonna be on the show. He talked about how production pretty much screwed his whole experience up, still while taking accountability for his tone. If you were watching from a unbiased standpoint then I think you probably would have gotten that. I think a lot of people HATE this man guts which is very sad in my opinion. Everyone is flawed. We are all work in progress.

[@Aemi_B]

Awful interview from a completely biased and rude host. She gave 'pick me' vibes I couldn't make it all the way through.

[@mella7161]

Wow tip for the interviewer: Good job, but it's frustrating to hear you ask 15 billion questions/make different statements at once and not allowing him to answer any of them. Pick a question/comment, commit to it, get your answer and move on to the next. very frustrating listening to you ask good questions or make good commentary but pile it on with something else.

[@TheUSHERKAN]

This was a goooood level-headed interview. I just came across your channel while i searched for Uche coz i didn't see him at the reunion. This interview is well-done. Thank you for letting Uche speak. We got some good background scoop. Something which we can't say for most of these biased black women channels on YT. They reek of racism and victimhood mentality. You did a good job ma'am. Extensive questioning, just like an interview should be. And letting your guest speak. I hope your channel grows by leaps and bounds. Love from Kampala,UGANDA. 🇺🇬❤

[@onewayandpurposed]

Troll for sure!

[@thesupreme950]

most people online are criticizing Uche, why are you making it a thing about race?

[@TheUSHERKAN]

@@thesupreme950 sorry, "most" people don't speak for me. Ciao. 👋

[@thesupreme950]

@@TheUSHERKAN why did you make it about race though?

[@Coconutlady]

Uche is still a piece of work!

[@Dalija01]

💯

[@sandraike5986]

Uche is a messy guy 😅😂

[@karmaleigh634]

Uche literally said FIRST, maybe it's a sign. Lydia said fck. He laughed. If she was a stalker and all these negative things, surprised or not, that's is not how you would respond. Nothing about that 1st pod interaction leads me to believe all this "edit" nonsense is true. This whole interview is garbage.

[@thetechconsultant]

Go back and watch. That’s not how it happened. Lydia said it first and he was playing nice before he rejected her.

[@ivapetrovska9986]

@@thetechconsultant No, @karmaleigh634 is right ! Uche said it first - “It's a sign !“

[@justinejustice_league1857]

The fact that he didnt participate in going to the reunion says it all. They're given a date as to when everyone is supposed to attend so its no surprise, he could've made time or thats why there's Skype. Cowardly. He wants a one sided argument as nobody from the show, especially Lydia and Aailyah is here to defend themselves. Bottles line is he was not attracted to Aailyah!

[@pearlosibu]

I’m glad he didn’t go. No one should go be stupid Vanessa’s punching bag. She had Lydia there; what did she do with her?

[@Dalija01]

Ich fand es sooo lustig, als bei der reunion alle erzählt haben , dass uche alle angeschrieben hat, aber wirklich niemand ihm zurück schreibt 😂😂 das sagt doch alles . Niemand will mit diesem witz von einem Mann etwas zu tun haben ..

[@Assumpta_B]

😂😂😂

[@thetoughgroup]

Excellent interview 👏🏾 Thank you Miss Understood Podcast for giving Uche the opportunity and grace to share his perspective without bias as we all deserve. All the Black female KZbinrs I've seen jumped on the misandry bandwagon to criticize this man. To all the hardworking brothers with eyes to see, it's notable that it takes a woman from another community (a highly attractive and sophisticated one), to uplift and give humanity to a successful and strong Black man. One who dares to stand on his principles. Reality is often stranger than fiction. Subscribed. #BlackMaleLawyers

[@thesupreme950]

most people online are criticizing Uche, why are you making it a thing about race?

[@thetoughgroup]

@xoxojollyy "Most people" also said the Titanic was "unsinkable." Never allow the herd to manipulate your thoughts. I'm stating the facts. I don't put my head in the sand and pretend misandry doesn't exist. I searched for LIB content and watched the content creators that popped up. Miss Understood Podcast is the ONLY creator I found who gave that brother respect. She's the exception to the pervasive groupthink, and it's notable that she's not Black while all the other character assassins are Black. It's a mental illness and internalized hate that must always be exposed. Be blessed.

[@thesupreme950]

@@thetoughgroup nothing you said was a fact, the true facts are that Uche is considered to be the villain of season 5 which means most of the viewers dislike him. Which means most of the coverage he gets will be negative, doesn’t matter if the commentator is black or white. Go to any gossip blog and they’re repeating the same negative stories about Uche. Why are you making it a race thing? Your algorithm shows you black content creators because you’re black and you clearly watch black content creators the most on here. Don’t race bait and try to be a victim.

[@thetoughgroup]

@xoxojollyy Everything I said is factual and can be verified by a simple KZbin search. You may choose to ignore reality but I certainly do not. Again, THANK YOU Miss Understood Podcast for giving that Black man the respect he deserves when the other content creators would not. Be blessed 👊🏾 #BlackMaleLawyers

[@thesupreme950]

@@thetoughgroup the youtube search shows that most viewers dislike Uche no matter the race lol. He’s a villain for a reason. Stop victimizing yourself. It’s so feminine.

[@tonibrooks9719]

I am not a fan of Uche! He’s not telling the truth and is a manipulative and mean spirited person. He talked about Aliyah horribly to his cast mates and also said she wasn’t his type and not attractive. I think you should have interviewed him after the reunion so you could see through his inconsistencies.

[@mmsfoxxie1]

This is the most thorough interview I’ve seen thus far. Now that the reunion is over, we need a follow up.

[@carolsparkes214]

Make sure u never say anything negative or question anything he might have done negative on lib . I told him on instagram that Miriam deserves his apology he blocked me.

[@Coconutlady]

Uche is an emotional abuser imo

[@AnaAcuraErica]

If you’re not an emotionally stable person or know who you are - then it may seem like that.

[@Coconutlady]

@@AnaAcuraErica 🤣🤣🤣

[@ivapetrovska9986]

@@AnaAcuraErica You should educate Yourself on abuse - and realize that within the victims - are regularly the strong independent opinionated women !! But I remember - You had biase twd women.

[@AnaAcuraErica]

@@ivapetrovska9986 ma’am!! I just got out of an extremely emotionally abusive Situation- and have been filling my brain with knowledge of people with NPD and psychopathy so idk wtf you think you’re saying to me, but just STEP OFF!! Uche isn’t anything like the monster I was just dating!! Good day!!

[@mainukalita3784]

Uche is hated all over the world

[@cosmictechlab4085]

I don't think Uche is being honest and blunt enough. I wish he wouldn't gas light himself so much. The producers staged the thing with Lydia (who according to their rules wasn't supposed to talk about Uche) and Lydia is a total two faced snake. I'm shocked she was not called out for her fake love toward Aailyah sabotaging her relationship with Uche more. Total narcissistic behavior called love bombing to destroy. Is everyone that morally blind to not see the villian? And then Lydias fake love towards Milton acting like she won a game show. I hope Milton dumps that horrible c***!

[@joywilliams9761]

Trust me i could see through that lydia girl. She definatly followed you into this show. Uche we know you are a great guy. You lead the rest will follow. 🙌

[@boitumelodibetso8719]

How? When almost all cast members including Uche have said production reached out to them first.