Neuroscientist: THIS IS WHAT WOMEN WANT.

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Stanford University Neuroscientist Dr Andrew D. Huberman discusses what women really find attractive in men from a neuroscience and evolutionary standpoint on Flagrant with Andrew Schulz.

[@hamdytawfeek3587]

I love how Huberman chose to put himself in this uncomfortable podcast and talk to those idiots so he can reach out to a bigger audience of young men who need him to enhance their lives.

[@juneelle370]

Yes maybe that’s what he’ was thinking because these guys are not near his class… they are disrespectful

[@ThatDudeLarzFoo-ah]

Selfless is an understatement. Lol. This was the collab we didn’t know we already knew we didn’t need. Lol loved it regardless ❤

[@whitebroccoli694]

Lol

[@bigman5403]

@@juneelle370 they’re comedians

[@jetpark3743]

Calm down

[@AngelicaCruz-ph4kn]

I love how Andrew doesn’t let anyone cut him off as he’s explaining facts lol.

[@marceloaguirree]

Bro ikr i saw that he did the same with jordan peterson.

[@bobthemadmonkey]

It's more than that tho, he literally steers the conversation back to grounded knowledge. A rare trait in conversation and he does it without being rude

[@KitanaTulip]

He is Alpha

[@samyg2020]

He’s also a professor so he’s had training in how to command an audience

[@vikasbiliye5023]

Very alpha thing to do

[@iamwaveofwaves]

The maturity level of Huberman compared to the other four is profound.

[@Abdullah-vg1uc]

What are you doing on this channel?

[@Sam-ni6bc]

Hes a neuroscientist and 2 of them are comedians so yea

[@dannybrasco8256]

@@Sam-ni6bc plus he is 20 years old than them all

[@Edguinard]

Yeah it’s palpable. No offense, no need to defend. Unless they had a insecurities about it.

[@hailongkhong8105]

@@dannybrasco8256 older

[@chrisramirez3058]

I follow dr huberman for years and this is by far the most uncomfortable he’s been on a pod 😂

[@devinbradshaw9756]

He thought they were immature

[@bebareo]

@@devinbradshaw9756he told you that? He obviously knew what kind of podcast he got himself into. They threat every guest the same that’s why they are so amazing podcaster’s.

[@FartsTasteDelicious]

@@bebareoI mean this as respectfully to the hosts as possible, but I wish Andrew would run the podcast by himself or with just Akaash. The other guys constantly interject at the most frustrating times. It’s incessant and completely ruins my focus on every guest that goes on this show. I’m sure they’re a fun group outside of this but it is intolerable to watch in a podcast format.

[@llPHAzERll1]

@@devinbradshaw9756 bruh just because he’s a neuroscientist doesn’t mean he can’t relate to them. He probably enjoyed a break from all the uptight shit in academia.

[@abhinayarora95]

​@@llPHAzERll1 haha yup!

[@Chemspiracytheories]

Huberman must feel like he's surrounded by 5th graders

[@Originalchili]

He can't be too smart if he goes on a comedy podcast not expecting jokes

[@Chemspiracytheories]

@@Originalchili let's not talk about "too smart".

[@christinafrantom1924]

That’s insulting to 5th graders.

[@Chemspiracytheories]

@@christinafrantom1924 I agree

[@305Authority]

He was surrounded by 5th graders lol I’m sure their mental capacity isn’t far off

[@Viralvideo_club]

Andrew Huberman tryna move quickly past those jokes! Never seen him look so uncomfortable

[@whatsursource]

Yeah I don't see him returning. This pod has good guests but serious topic are always a pain to watch.

[@cristinacendejas5094]

They disrespected him so much. The sad part is what he is saying is really interesting but gets lost because of the constant interruptions with “jokes”

[@Viralvideo_club]

@@cristinacendejas5094 I love Andrew Huberman but it’s a comedy podcast. It’s like going on a dance show and refusing to dance. The dude next to you starts breakdancing and you go “so anyway, the prefrontal cortex is the centre of control…”

[@itayr15]

@@cristinacendejas5094 I think it's subjective if it's disrespectful, making jokes doesn't make something less important in my opinion, I think it makes a real conversation more fun

[@sc4rlotte456]

yeah that was really funny to watch

[@brendanbonus3211]

They were trying to have a comedy podcast with a Neuroscientist.😭

[@whoisarpan5685]

That's not the problem but these 4 lack the intelligence and wit to host a comedy podcast with Huberman. I am sure he enjoys good jokes but they can't level up overnight. These people are conditioned to think and express like the audience that they deal with most of the time and probably they are good at it too but in order to hold a humorous conversation with Huberman they needed something more than just having a common sense and street smart wit. The jokes that they cracked here are really bad jokes. They are the kind of people who embarrasse themselves on being exposed to knowledge.

[@cvb2733]

Ong bro 😭 this guy has an associates, a bachelors, a masters, and a PhD. what made them think he was gonna joke along with them lol

[@imkolip0ki387]

It IS a comedy podcast my guy

[@meminmillan9586]

The funniest thing is watch Huber an facial expressions when they were talking

[@ancientfuture9690]

He isn't describing nice guys because kindness is different to niceness. Kindness comes from an understanding of suffering, and the man who has endured and overcome suffering in his life is usually resilient. Niceness, however is a (somewhat) socially enforced rule, which has it's necessary place in polite society in order to help social cohesion. However, it fails in intimate relationships.

[@adlcnyc]

Well said!

[@nickp3949]

Yeah but the problem is, people mistake kindness for people pleasing, or weakness. Especially if you don’t look big or intimidating, showing kindness doesn’t look like a strong man toning himself down, it looks like a weak man that is just trying to be liked. That’s why you mit excel in other areas so you can appear strong, so that when you do show kindness, people are thankful for it instead of seeing you as weak.

[@G_Ozare]

Couldn’t have said it better myself. Nicely articulated 👌🏼

[@nahom1318]

He also said that not necessarily kindnesses to everyone, but kindness towards her.

[@missNCW]

Kindness does not find from suffering, it comes from not being an asshole. Stop trying to over complicate it. Women like to be treated well, it’s THAT simple.

[@RC-ro4gq]

These guys trying so hard to interrupt the guest but he wasn't having it hahaha

[@gregre99]

It looked like a bunch of teenagers doing stupid jokes while someone is trying to explain something seriously

[@bobthemadmonkey]

@@gregre99 That is what it is

[@veganlove53]

Unlike any other Andrew's podcasts here in this podcast he often said 'listen' to those hosts who behave like a high school kids.

[@AshSavageTube]

This is like watching high-school boys talk with a real grown up

[@RainxOnxMex]

He’s right about kindness.

[@mrjamesgrimes]

He is right but it’s a stupid point. You’re supposed to like her

[@SASMADBRUV7]

@@mrjamesgrimes not really. The interesting point is the idea that the guy doesn't have to be kind in general to be attractive. Which is what we would have assumed.

[@kstich]

@@mrjamesgrimes “Like” and “attracted to” are not the same thing, and people confuse them all the time. Lots of people think that because someone sleeps with them, that a relationship will ensue. Not always the case.

[@chronometa]

This guy is reaching guru status imo

[@EP-nl6fd]

Exactly my thoughts

[@radezzientertainment501]

beyond

[@RR-et6zp]

read rollo tomassi

[@scottwyckoff5483]

I wouldn’t judge him because we are not different. I would judge you because of your judgment

[@ifeelfantastic8956]

Still is better than flexing my Lambo in the background kinda guru.

[@thepolymathuniverse9694]

Kindness to your fellow men is just as important. There's nothing masculine about being a dick to one another.

[@ridhwankazi9503]

i think you gotta read the room some people are ok with it, as you see here these guys are comedians so its how they entertain each other but clearly humberman wasn't feeling it as much just gotta make sure you read the room.

[@VIi726]

No, Andrew Tate told me they like doing dishes and being choked

[@npalmi88]

This is also true

[@lemonflavouredorange7405]

@@npalmi88 I think you missed the joke…

[@Pheyora]

Dude who are the women that actually like him? Are they even females?🫠

[@ShaferScott]

@@Pheyora women who like lots of money

[@christophersantrizos1657]

@@lemonflavouredorange7405 this is also true

[@TheWhyteRabbit9]

I have so much respect for Andrew Huberman. I love how he stays in his square and is so solid on his point. I hope my future husband is similar to him & not those goofy balls.

[@goat6inboots]

When they are all clowning and joking and Huberman just smiles and shuffled on his chair uncomfortably is priceless. I have followed him for years, but also find some of these guys funny. But to see them together is so odd!

[@noahanast4576]

Pair bonding has become rocket science

[@grygi7087]

Curse of this times

[@Jariilove]

I never thought I would be actively learning on this podcast for 9 whole minutes

[@clareoclareo2626]

Huberman is a proper real man.

[@ThrallFrostwolf7]

real man among these four clowns

[@nadiasoho1]

I’m so glad this was said. Especially as you get older, you do go for people who are kind. I find myself saying this often. Looks of course matter to an extent but it doesn’t hold top place like it did when we were teens & 20s. I think where I was also in an abusive relationship, the thought of being with someone kind is also Alien but should be the norm. Hope everyone (if they want) finds someone kind ✨🙏🏽

[@calebvanlalrinngama9712]

You should watch the movie About time...

[@nobodyasks-js5tq]

No woman is worthy of this effort.

[@TheGuitarChief]

Akash is trying SO hard to keep this funny while Huberman just wants to share his knowledge

[@NS-xt5wv]

Well, something is definitely broken, because I’ve been always kind to my men, and they always dump me for the next best thing… and then come back months or years later, yet my friend is super mean to them and they are crazy about her… so I guess it’s a matter of mental health too, it’s only healthy people that are attracted to kindness, and the majority from what I’ve experienced is attracted to toxicity and dysfunction…

[@Raphanne]

I agree. You're also attracted to what's familiar, to a certain extent. For people who grew up in an abusive environement, their propensity to be attracted to abusive people is higher. They don't know any better until they work on themselves and reparameter themselves on what healthy relationships are.

[@cccforleaders]

What we become familiar with in childhood is often what we seek out as an adult. If self defeating and dysfunctional stuff is what we became familiar with as a child then despite knowing that , that isn't good for us, we can't help but engage with the familiarity and what it brings along. IMHO. All the best NS

[@ElGallo978]

Are you fat?

[@ThrallFrostwolf7]

You have to be kind but you need to have boundaries at the same time

[@Grimm_Butterfly]

You may not want to hear that you might be shooting too high and your partners leave because you're disposable. Maybe shoot lower and find someone who is grateful for you

[@flourishomotola5306]

I love this Huberman dude. Very intelligent and eloquent. I always learn a lot from him.

[@johannesschmitz6370]

check out his podcast, huberman podcast. If you are willing to improve daily habits and need a source of info his podcast is it

[@flourishomotola5306]

@@johannesschmitz6370 Thanks a ton bro. I really appreciate it 🙏🏿.

[@jonnyg7960]

Be kind, treat people with respect, especially her family and waiters. Don't be a simp. Don't be a doormat. Have self-respect.

[@aiauc]

the waiter one is a big one (or any person in the service industry). I cringe at dudes who are POS with waiters... I pity them when they ask for a plate to be returned to the kitchen 😉🤣

[@quant2011]

but psycho and sociopaths are not kind, dont treat anyone with respect and are super successful. More - the more they destroy humanity , the more humanity kneels and begs for more! Huberman - explain this

[@Originalchili]

@@aiauc also people who don't tip piss me off, they usually say "it's not job to pay them" I strongly dislike those selfish people

[@aiauc]

@@Originalchili at the end of the day, it's not. I went to Europe and you did not have to tip (unless you wanted to), because staff earned a decent wage; and most places were packed, so people didn't care about the prices on the menu. Do I tip in the US and countries who have this tip structure? Yes.... but it's completely archaic and is open to abuse from employers either in the distribution or paying tax for these tips

[@aiauc]

@@Originalchili it’s not though.. you’ve been fed a lie. European workers seem to do fine without tips

[@ifeelfantastic8956]

The very funny guy is literally pointing his filthy foot towards the guest. Charming

[@yodittx]

Dr. Huberman is so professional and sweet…the flagrant cast could of done better at making him feel more comfortable…that’s what good hosts do…

[@mariahspapaya]

I dated a lawyer who made lots of dough and he showed it off too to try to get me. He bought me stuff and was sweet to me MOST of the time. Put me on a pedestal and idolized me, then as we got closer he started to criticize everything I did and knitpicked me. Was so clingy, didn’t like how I lifted weights and wouldn’t go to yoga with him. Or that I liked coffee. The dumbest shit. I felt so degraded on the smallest things by a MAN who is 10 years older than me. Him buying me stuff and taking me on trips wasn’t enough for the criticizing I had to endure. We’re friends now lol.

[@mattlol163]

sounds like you had a "history" and he found out about it, or realize JUST how much he didnt want you and only wanted sex from you...... then started to sabotage the relationship...... And the fact you said, "he was "sooo horrible after awhile" ..... But we are still friend. *That says ALOT about YOU*

[@mariahspapaya]

@@mattlol163 lol what are you talking about? I don’t have a history, I’m a peaceful mature woman who doesn’t want drama. I chose to stay his friend because he said he loved me a month into the relationship and I realized I loved him too, not everyone is all bad. I don’t think he’s a bad guy but he’s not boyfriend or even husband material. You’re dumb.

[@mattlol163]

@@mariahspapaya oh course you say this in a comment section.... im speaking on how MEN act. There was SOMETHING that made him say "woah, this woman sucks, i was wrong to be with her, i want out, but i do still want sex" What is "love", you said you loved him, that is why your still his friend (lie).... but can you please define in words, what is "love"

[@indigochild2.098]

god ur annoying

[@eddielacrosse2]

You’re friends with a verbal abuser? You know who’s friends with known verbal abusers? Verbal Abusers.

[@gunlover94]

“How big was this lizard?” I fucking lost it 😭😭😭

[@nicktanner8231]

Security and safety... They want that dude to be nice to them. Not an immature incompetent being nice.

[@manderson406]

A clip has never ended more flagrantly

[@bartledoo3477]

This is why podcasts shouldn’t have more than 5 people who add nothing to the conversation

[@michaelg510]

Nice to hear something wholesome and sober amidst all the toxicity lately

[@tara4637]

I bet AH needs a shower to rinse off 'the dumb feeling' after sitting with these guys

[@dk1828]

Man…Dr. Huberman on one level and the rest are like from a different universe as it pertains to intelligent conversation

[@pete531]

the rest are from a movie "idiocracy"

[@dk1828]

@@pete531 for real

[@stryfe0]

Just say u guys arent funny people, jeez.

[@ThrallFrostwolf7]

@@stryfe0 yeah we aren’t clowns

[@stryfe0]

@@ThrallFrostwolf7 get over yourself lol

[@pinchechingata]

What is a woman

[@officially_monde]

Hahaha😂

[@Johnnygga]

the thing you can’t get

[@jimmyriggs1229]

I love Huberman’s face at 8:18. Like “Oh my god why did I agree to this?”

[@according2Jess]

lol I went to it…. He’s like alright kids, let get serious AGAIN

[@nitomutan4593]

« La femme n’existe pas », said Jacques Lacan, meaning that there is no universal truth that can define and be applied to women as a whole.

[@davidjones8043]

He was also a Marxist so... maybe we shouldn't listen to everything he said

[@AdmirMu]

Obviously there is. "All women are human", agree?

[@trevorthompson9887]

MY MAN pulling out the lacan. Love this

[@nikolaisedov2295]

@@davidjones8043 that statement is kind of contrary to the overall Marxist agenda rather than related to it. A classical Marxist would be likely to say there's no such thing as female nature and it's all conditioned by society/environment/upbringing etc

[@thereader6371]

Obviously, not a thing can be applied to a whole group of people no matter who those people are, but it is also true that similer patterns of behavior exist that can be used to talk about them.

[@poonamkumar3237]

Kindness.. not "niceness" 🔥💯

[@goldtiger9453]

Semantics, they literally mean the same thing

[@zukhriddinkodirboev9622]

Maaan he's so humble! The fact he decided to give this interview or podcast talk or whatever...hats of to this scholar. Respect

[@darrentimms8865]

As a therapist, I can assure you that many of my women clients stay with very rich men that treat them awfully and are far from kind.

[@ThrallFrostwolf7]

Those are broken women and thats why they are seeking a therapist in the first place. Nobody wants to date a broken women

[@throwacnt7603]

@Darren Timms Thanks Darren, finally someone with sense that has actually looked at DATA and not what people SAY. I can claim all day that I like kindness but my actions may speak differently. I can say I love fitness and to stay trim while being 300lbs and eating Doritos. I can idealize a keto diet all day long, doesn't mean I follow it.

[@PrabhjotSinghGambhir]

But they did make the decision to be with very rich men in the first place! They didn't want to be with other men who would've been kinder to them. They chose to only go for the rich ones, and now they are in therapy. I feel women only get attracted by money and sometimes marry those men too. Later on, they realize kindness matters.

[@flightkidd123]

The most random crossover I was never expecting lol

[@Vanessabhealthtv]

Wow. Huberman is galaxies apart from this bunch. Omg. What ridiculous things they bring up in the conversation 🤔 I love Huberman already but he definitely went up a whole new level of how he handled this. What an exceptional human. What is an enlightening, respectful level of discussion is brought down by these three. Women do want kindness, and that starts with the way you speak about the world too💯🙌✨️

[@yourdailymotivation1990]

Wow.. he took charge and was very mature

[@esspi9]

Let me give you this, No way he's coming back here again nor is he going to recommend being on this pod to his other friends.

[@paulthieu2636]

The mental intelligence gap is vast here and I’m an idiot and recognize this

[@BrianBuitragoStudios]

Huberman > Tate

[@veer_trivedi]

So much discussion on this topic all around shouldn't it be simple? Just Try to earn good, workout, be a good human and be confident on who you are.

[@bigsleepy9889]

Then explain why your fat broke and single

[@govindkrishnan6839]

And be emotionally intelligent and empathetic.

[@TheDoomWizard]

@@govindkrishnan6839 emotional intelligence is a lie

[@ogduck461]

Women don't make it simple

[@pixotass]

Huberman is so alpha.. these guys look like simps around him

[@tete-a-tetewithtuhina7138]

Did anyone notice Andrew Schulz trying to pluck out hair off his legs 🤣

[@maddiemover5894]

I just hate the vibe here. He’s actually saying interesting things, they’re acting like children.

[@godessofyouguess]

"I've only been me" - priceless

[@ThatDudeLarzFoo-ah]

This was the collab we didn’t know we already knew we didn’t need. Lol loved it regardless ❤ Irrigardless? Regardlessly? Oh, whatever. You know what I mean. 😂

[@tylersoukup4050]

Makes sense because we evolved without money we evolved with access to resources becoming kinder

[@01sevensix]

This is what the internet was for….a forum where huberman and Schultz end up together

[@f..k]

Will they let the man speak? Never realized how much they interrupt their guests

[@davidjones8043]

Going on 6 minutes solid of him speaking...

[@Missms1338]

Kindness is so true. Most men are fake nice, and call you a bish as soon as you don’t put out on a first date. Kind men that is also financially stable and moderately attractive is rare. And financially unstable men are horrible as well

[@stryfe0]

Tell those men that the first date doesn't have to be anything crazy. Tell em a coffee meetup or a cheap fun activity, something. Work with them, take some pressure off, instead of making them feel like they're being used/taken advantage of.

[@Missms1338]

@@stryfe0 being used for going on a date? How broke are these men? Maybe they shouldn’t be dating or date intentionally with 1 or 2 girls instead of trying to date 50 girls at once just to get sex. And the audacity for men it doesn’t matter if it’s coffee or a walk in the park. They STILL try to get sex. That’s why women are opting out for even the cheap dates. You literally get the same treatment. Even if you pay 50/50, still ask. Most women are done with dating altogether. If men would stop acting so desperate for sex, maybe women would actually like the person enough to do it. I feel that men should just pay for it with a professional instead of desperately trying to get sex from every woman they meet. It’s unattractive and cringe. And makes the man look low value

[@stryfe0]

@@Missms1338 man offers solution, women continues to not take any type of accountability and blame/diss men. Typical. Men arent women, we dont demand that women gives us the world. Men dont demand that women spoil us. U ladies always cry about how men always expect sex. Men expect that cause that's all you have to offer lol and you expect and demand so much more. I agree that men should leave women alone tho. And by leave alone I mean to not even bother dealing with or helping them. Solve your own problems, protect and provide for yourself or call the police.

[@Missms1338]

@@stryfe0 and once again, a man not listening. Going on a cheap coffee date is not a solution because most women still get pressured for sex afterwards with that as well. How about listening.

[@stryfe0]

@@Missms1338 men get pressured every day of their lives lol, u having all these demands and expectations is putting pressure on the guy lol. Again men expect sex, cause thats ALL YOU CAN GIVE HIM. U cant protect and provide, cause well.. ur weak and broke, if ur not broke, why is it such an issue? Provide. And I am listening, unfortunately all you ladies ever do is cry and point the finger, while expecting men to be this larger than life being, expecting men to give so much while you give little in return. It's a joke.

[@belliott88]

It’s really very simple. Women want a badass (someone witty, charming, funny, has good fashion sense + good taste in material things, and is free/independent in his work & social life, is not trifled w/ or challenged physically too often by others), who’s attractive (their type physically & sexually), intelligent (academically accomplished + well-read/studied/cultured), can provide financial security (accomplished + competent in their field of work, good with money + wise w/ investments, has things of their own they’re willing to share w/ her *exclusively*), and is capable + competent when it comes to providing personal safety (whether it be defending her from physical and/or mental predators and/or manipulators trying to take advantage of her, the ability to defend their home, and the ability to defend their relationship from outside critics w/ relative ease, and of course the ability to protect & defend their family, relatives, closest friends, etc.) In short: Women want all of the things you already knew they wanted, but probably cannot provide all of, and it is extremely unlikely they will “settle” for anything less than these things. And, if she does “settle” on any of these things for you, there’s a 50%+ chance she’s either already cheating on you w/ someone who can & does provide her w/ those things, or might divorce you in order to upgrade into a relationship w/ someone who can. Most of us already know this, it’s just not likely that most of us are capable of providing all of these things. Which is depressing, sure, but we all need to toughen up and accept reality. Stop being bitter that this is the reality, y’all. Work on it…

[@Abdullah-vg1uc]

Lol

[@stryfe0]

Ah yes, another person telling men to just accept the bullshit. Nah what men should do is leave women alone, let them protect themselves. The police exist.

[@isahak7]

dr huberman is so shy and mature

[@UNEAKinfluence]

He's a grown man. These guys are kids.

[@justineczarnobyl9987]

From woman's point of view he's 100% right about kindness, but stll it's s easier to tell what I don't want to, than what I actually want ;)

[@ricardolinares9832]

I am a kind man. I have been so with all the women in my life. What women want beyond kindness is control and also have their demands met. The few women I have known who are the exception are happily living by themselves or in a fullfilling relationship. Watching this I noticed that Huberman was being kind and also turning into a pretzel with the discomfort of having to deal with a bunch of unkind asswipes. Compassion is getting rarer the more everyone escapes this cruel and unkind existence. For kindness to triumph maybe we simply need to lisyten better and give everyone the benefit of the doubt that they will be kind in kind.

[@BeingIntegrated]

And safety. He emphasized safety too. Safety means a man can keep the woman safe, meaning he has resources and can meet her demands (meeting her demands makes her feel safe). There are many dimensions of safety.

[@ricardolinares9832]

@@BeingIntegrated I know but that after covid seems to be an obsolete apendage to the human condition. Women by and large kept us safe this time around with their nursing and serving all of us in service industries. Every vaccination I got was administered by a woman and men if anything have made the world unsafe as never before. One threatening to nuke his way out of humiliting defeat and evil stupidodity and others fighting tooth and nail for their freedom. This male female divide and all the qualities that entails are now up for grabs. I have been a lucky man to have done all of it. From a provider to a stay at home dad being a better mom and dad than most of the men and women I have known in my 63 years. The only thing that makes sense to me is humanity and what the Buddhist call Yabyum. Maybe then kindness will make all questions about safety as the stuff community will eventually take care of better than each of does on our own. Thijk about how men abuse women and how more women now are abusing men as never before. Maybe I am just overthinking everything because I find kindness in short supply in this very insane world we live in.

[@Originalchili]

This is a comedy podcast you cuck, if the good Dr didn't want to joke around, maybe he shouldn't go on a comedy podcast...

[@ricardolinares9832]

@@Originalchili The good doctor was trying to teach the dogs that watch the podcast the trick of how to be kind so they ca get laid. Incels 'you cuck' are deserving of kindness too even on a comedy roastfest.

[@stryfe0]

That's funny cause men get called all the negative names in the book when they have demands lol.

[@qqqmyes4509]

The lizard story: a perfect example of how guys use ‘comedy’ to avoid serious conversations. Very childlike. They humiliated themselves.

[@ChrisHops22]

I truly adore this man. I could listen to him for hours.

[@brendanleahy5354]

Beauty catches the eye, good character catches the heart. So many people seem to miss that! Why!?

[@MichelleAntonia]

He is absolutely right and trying to speak facts to these children... ofc it's not going to go well lol

[@michelel.1854]

Any reference to attachment theory is missing to explain attraction.

[@benmuniz11]

Okcupid did a study and found that the more attractive a guy was, the better personality rating they received from women that they talked to. Even though they all used the same scripts

[@applethunderspice3072]

Money is the number 1 way to spread Kindness. Mr. beast

[@ihavenoclue9756]

I'm married with children. So dang close to being Al Bundy lol. Might get a job at Shoes R Us.

[@WtfReal]

Damn I want him to speak on this topic without 4 clowns around.

[@ibinado1]

How old are those 4 guys? 16? They behave like teenagers.

[@lil10dot]

There's a lot more to this than is being let on. There's how familiar potential partners look and act, how much time is spent with them, and much much more. And the evolutionary theory of "this guy looks like he can take care of us therefore I'm attracted to him" is not "hardwired" per se, sexual selection (and other things) is. If men who don't look big and burly have been sexually selected for for a while, and subsequent generations grow up seeing different kinds of men, it'll establish itself as a common attraction. And this isn't even scratching the surface of human sexual behavior. Go watch Sapolsky for a thorough breakdown.

[@jamespak8175]

Btw this is not directly to you. Consider this a rant lol There is no damn proof of evolution. People only observed "MICRO" evolution --- but has NEVER.. EVER.. RECORDED NOR OBSERVED "MACRO" evolution.. Meaning.. there is no FOSSIL FINDINGS of a T-REX ---- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ that have been dated back to 3,000,000 B.C --- that has EVOLVED into BIRDS found in our times today.. So put it simply, THERE ARE NO... fossils .. of T-REXs from 3,000,000 B.C and to another t-rex fossil dating to 2,999,999 B.C --- to another fossil of 2,999,998 B.C ---2,999,997 B.C --- 2,999,996 B.C --- AND ALL the REST IN BETWEEN to 2022 A.D. There has been NO consecutive fossil findings of this "EVOLUTION" This is what I mean by "MACRO" EVOLUTION.. "MICRO" EVOLUTION is this... Saying things like someone has found a FOSSIL from millions and millions of years ago --- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ and then finding another fossil to then say that there was an EVOLUTION. You know how CRAZY that sounds? That's like a big GIANT GUESS!! So you're telling me, that by looking at just TWO FOSSILS!!!!?? JUST 2 DAM FOSSILS!!!! that you're gonna make the BIG JUMP by saying that this BIRD was from a T-REX??? WHERE are all the other fossils in between --- showing all the minute to minute evolutionary changes being made?!?! WHERE ARE ALL THE FOSSILS THAT DISPLAYS THESE SUBTLE CHANGES? THESE SUBTLE EVOLUTIONARY CHANGES? Man, you can convince anyone just by sounding smart lol.. It's so easy to convince people to believe a lie.. if this is possible, imagine some of the mainstream ideas.. is it true? conspiracy? lol Think people. Use critical thinking. Just because you read something doesn't mean your brain is thinking critically. There is no damn proof of evolution. People only observed "MICRO" evolution --- but has NEVER.. EVER.. RECORDED NOR OBSERVED "MACRO" evolution.. Meaning.. there is no FOSSIL FINDINGS of a T-REX ---- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ that have been dated back to 3,000,000 B.C --- that has EVOLVED into BIRDS found in our times today.. So put it simply, THERE ARE NO... fossils .. of T-REXs from 3,000,000 B.C and to another t-rex fossil dating to 2,999,999 B.C --- to another fossil of 2,999,998 B.C ---2,999,997 B.C --- 2,999,996 B.C --- AND ALL the REST IN BETWEEN to 2022 A.D. There has been NO consecutive fossil findings of this "EVOLUTION" This is what I mean by "MACRO" EVOLUTION.. "MICRO" EVOLUTION is this... Saying things like someone has found a FOSSIL from millions and millions of years ago --- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ and then finding another fossil to then say that there was an EVOLUTION. You know how CRAZY that sounds? That's like a big GIANT GUESS!! So you're telling me, that by looking at just TWO FOSSILS!!!!?? JUST 2 DAM FOSSILS!!!! that you're gonna make the BIG JUMP by saying that this BIRD was from a T-REX??? WHERE are all the other fossils in between --- showing all the minute to minute evolutionary changes being made?!?! WHERE ARE ALL THE FOSSILS THAT DISPLAYS THESE SUBTLE CHANGES? THESE SUBTLE EVOLUTIONARY CHANGES? Man, you can convince anyone just by sounding smart lol.. It's so easy to convince people to believe a lie.. if this is possible, imagine some of the mainstream ideas.. is it true? conspiracy? lol Think people. Use critical thinking. Just because you read something doesn't mean your brain is thinking critically.

[@Userrrryyytttzz]

Is any one else finding schulz feet towards Huberman rude?

[@sathyasekar5272]

✋

[@burpeesquad]

No way Huberman came here🤣🤣🤣

[@photent]

Those guys were so immature it was super cringe. They even dress like teenagers.

[@davinaetwaroo]

I watch Dr. Huberman and Andrew Schulz separately and love both. These four guys made me laugh even harder in this video having the contrast of Dr. Huberman there. Haha, loved it!

[@ni5094]

Yes that kindness is best show of care/love

[@clararob9869]

Finally a man speaking the truth

[@goldtiger9453]

Bs my parents have the most successful relationship I seen 35 years still happy and hes far from kind

[@clararob9869]

@@goldtiger9453 your Mum is lying to you and is mentally unwell. 🤣🤣 you really think saying my dad is abusive is a flex 🤣🤣🤡 also you should meet other people NOT just your parents

[@goldtiger9453]

@@clararob9869 reality isnt a flex. i wish it weren't true. how many people u know married for 35 years ? Most cheat or are miserable. I want to be on team kindness too

[@clararob9869]

@@goldtiger9453 it’s easy. Just be self aware. No one is perfect we have flaws but own them. Your dad blames your mum for his life which is why he is nasty and your mum accepts it probably because she treated the same way as a child. Just be aware that you deserve respect and those you love deserve respect from you too

[@goldtiger9453]

@@clararob9869 not true lol I didn't say he abused her I said he wasn't kind she had a good childhood and they are happy believe it or not. Just being real

[@jonnynoakes9070]

That man commands respect 🫡

[@tojubinitie5212]

Andrew is NOT flagrant 😂

[@ArtificiallyConcious]

With regards to kindness supposedly being the most important factor that women look for in men, how has this been studied? Is it by questionnaire? If so I would argue that women indeed would say they find that above all else most important and attractive, however, there is a big discrepancy between what women say they want as opposed to what they actually respond to.

[@RagingCoolCat]

Akash's question about the brain 'outpacing' evolution shows a fundamental misunderstanding of evolution. The adaptations to the current environment are a result of the brain evolving. Evolution didn't stop when we discovered fire or invented electricity. We evolve everyday, admittedly some less than others.

[@jamespak8175]

Consider this as a rant lol.. but there is no damn proof of evolution. People only observed "MICRO" evolution --- but has NEVER.. EVER.. RECORDED NOR OBSERVED "MACRO" evolution.. Meaning.. there is no FOSSIL FINDINGS of a T-REX ---- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ that have been dated back to 3,000,000 B.C --- that has EVOLVED into BIRDS found in our times today.. So put it simply, THERE ARE NO... fossils .. of T-REXs from 3,000,000 B.C and to another t-rex fossil dating to 2,999,999 B.C --- to another fossil of 2,999,998 B.C ---2,999,997 B.C --- 2,999,996 B.C --- AND ALL the REST IN BETWEEN to 2022 A.D. There has been NO consecutive fossil findings of this "EVOLUTION" This is what I mean by "MACRO" EVOLUTION.. "MICRO" EVOLUTION is this... Saying things like someone has found a FOSSIL from millions and millions of years ago --- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ and then finding another fossil to then say that there was an EVOLUTION. You know how CRAZY that sounds? That's like a big GIANT GUESS!! So you're telling me, that by looking at just TWO FOSSILS!!!!?? JUST 2 DAM FOSSILS!!!! that you're gonna make the BIG JUMP by saying that this BIRD was from a T-REX??? Or for those who like to argue just for the sake of arguing --- so what if they have found more than 2. Ill even give someone that maybe they have found a 100 fossils.. where are all the other MILLIONS of other fossils that directly tie to this evolutionary transformation from a T-REX to a BIRD ?? That is STATISTICALLY INSIGNIFICANT and cannot JUSTIFY the claim of said evolution. Its a NEGLIGIBLE amount. It's a POSSIBILITY, but from a DATA PERSPECTIVE it is HIGHLY NOT PROBABLE. PROBABILITY is realistic. PROBABILITY is REAL SCIENCE. Not basing it on theories or hypotheses that merely SOUND POSSIBLE. I mean WHERE are all the other fossils in between --- showing all the minute to minute evolutionary changes being made?!?! WHERE ARE ALL THE FOSSILS THAT DISPLAYS THESE SUBTLE CHANGES? THESE SUBTLE EVOLUTIONARY CHANGES? Man, you can convince anyone just by sounding smart lol.. It's so easy to convince people to believe a lie.. if this is possible, imagine some of the mainstream ideas.. is it true? conspiracy? lol Think people. Use critical thinking. Just because you read something doesn't mean your brain is thinking critically.

[@SidHack-fg6rc]

More important is to KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.

[@bryant1749]

Dont minstake kindness for being weak haha…you can be a kind navy seal 😅

[@pault6347]

Did any of you actually WATCH this??????? Huberman had the floor for 90% of it. The lizard joke happened because they're COMEDIANS. They're also brash and loud. Okay that ALSO doesn't mean they aren't CAPABLE of kindness. They simply stand their ground very ardently, they wish to have the freedom to express themselves in a high-energy fashion. Huberman isn't chastising their style, though it's a little much for him. Neither should you. This is a huge problem. This is "unpopular" and has been for a while and that attitude needs to stop. Just because someone is loud doesn't make them evil or intolerant of everything. Hell, if anything I'd tend to be more distrustful of Huberman because plenty of data gets misreported. I'm 34, couldn't make it happen til I was 29. Had to cave and get a smartphone to get on the apps. My body count is now around 30. I've seen some shit. And so many women lie about this, so many of them can't even make up their minds because the internet has made EVERYTHING accessible so they want EVERYTHING. Remember the lyric of the Tom Petty song American Girl? "couldn't help thinking that there was a little more to life somewhere else" that was in the 80s! Kindness is earned. Dating has become incredibly hostile because now everyone knows everything. BUT biologically men WILL try to have multiple mates. One man 10 women 10 babies in 9 months. One woman 10 men one baby in 9 months. DEAL WITH IT. This pisses women off a lot. No it is not necessary. But it's not malevolent, it's not necessarily "selfish". It's just a survival tactic hardwired that messes with our heads. Women on the other hand *think* they're acting hypergamously when they filter for one or two traits instead of finding a balanced man but they're literally picking the one most likely to have no control over HIS impulses. Tolerance goes a long way. My first girlfriend wouldn't fight for me at all as I tried to get used to giving someone who I was not even living with physically, daily attention. And it's been pretty much the same in every case. Something wasn't "enough" for them. Well, good. You can do without my resourcefulness and thoughtfulness. I'd rather be alone and unhappy than feel like a slave and unhappy.

[@noahno]

I feel like Huberman should note that there are limits to self reported data. Like just because someone says something is important to them does not necessarily mean that thing is actually a priority

[@lsporter88]

I like that dude. Might want to talk to him more. Great video.

[@moonstruck336]

The question is not how big is the lizard but how small are the guys

[@Classikh]

This dude’s definitely right in general but it seems kind of unfair to snipe certain statistics to try and handwave a lot of people’s (mostly men’s) gripes with dating. Sure, men can also be gold diggers but income is the main point women look for when dating, unlike men. Another instance is with women earning more money they still have the mindset of wanting to “date up” so a lot of women are choosing to stay single or not date a man that makes less money than them. Also, he might be right about the "being kind” thing but most people nowadays are dating online, through dating apps. Being “kind” to a potential partner is important and necessary but dating apps are pretty superficial and you’re not getting your foot in the door by just being kind.

[@bryceclark8985]

That’s why dudes are starting to lie about their situation similar to how girls catfish

[@Canadian_Psycho]

"Take this guy to King's Landing" 😂

[@ojanymolina4222]

0:53 always coming in clutch with the idiotic takes

[@Johnnygga]

Lmao what a dumb fuck. You can tell which dudes get no pussy and get ghosted, by them just putting women down at first chance lmfao Edit: lmao they all straight ignored it too. Delicious.

[@leaveitorsinkit242]

“It’s not because the pretty ones are Airheads?” What does that even mean? 😂

[@govindkrishnan6839]

Needs to relegated back off screen. Mark Gagnon deserves to stay on

[@Johnnygga]

@@leaveitorsinkit242 it means basically this (from my experience with these types of dudes who say this shit and all their “hoes” are suspiciously make-believe): I get ghosted by hot women so they’re dumb airheads. But basically he’s saying, these hot women don’t think he’s the shit so they have options and they act aloof right in his face. Don’t be this guy.

[@rocco6757]

Booooo

[@path8675]

A kind person is also more likely to do as you want instead of doing what they feel like they want to do

[@user-gm3lg8gp3m]

No learn about something called boundaries. Kind people have it.

[@path8675]

@@user-gm3lg8gp3mAt the end of the day is it such a huge scientific discovery that people like other people who are kind to them?

[@rihanajan9798]

he actually knew hahaha otherwise how could he fool 6 grown women like that

[@a1islamovic]

He’s legit. So humble, polite and straight to the point. I get they tried to make it more funny but how could they not have asked at least some more legitimate stimulating questions 😅 love Huberman 💎💎

[@trevormcmanis]

He's right about kindness. It always won me over.

[@ladyj3173]

What do y’all think of this guest in terms of ignoring all the jokes?

[@razzdiamond6447]

He's tryna get his point across for all the people watching/listening to the episode, I don't have a problem with it.

[@innovation4.099]

The jokes were tasteless and not even funny, glad he ignored them

[@camerongeorge4246]

Money gets ya in the door being nice keeps ya there

[@buddha2923]

Now if only these commenters could take this info in and thrive… pump ya confidence up Kings and just be nice!!!

[@heeroyuy298]

So kindness is what women self-report that they want, which is a ridiculous methodology. What women want most of all is a man of greater status, and their first cue to that is how the man treats them.

[@pubear7514]

Needs to be kind and good natured innately. Not just to me. Otherwise, they can switch up real fast.