Never Chase Him. Do THIS Instead And He Will Fall For You...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

If you want to learn the secrets to attracting a high-quality man and inspiring his love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/ Get your personal dating and relationship questions answered here: helenahart--mcoast.thrivecart.com/feminine/

[@lynngray7086]

How do you meet men when you don't participate in social media?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@lynngray7086The beginning of my latest episode should be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jXjMmqR_brN1nNU

[@monajora1733]

If a man wants you to chase him, he is anyway not the right one. Instead of playing games with him, distance yourself completely from him to give space for the right one.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here - I agree! 💕

[@mgee303]

This is great, Helena is so spot on. I have a good relationship right now and it’s because I did exactly what she is talking about, being in my feminine energy. I did this completely unknowingly, it’s good to understand what I did right.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks so much for sharing your experience here, Michelle! 💞

[@datingdiaries1681]

Feelings are tricky too. Sometimes we feel great around not so great men.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

This episode should be helpful for anyone who’s experiencing that: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rarOhY2CZtSCnZY

[@stephaniebenoit788]

For me, not feeling worthy which is a huge blocker in love and life. Loved this video ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing, Stephanie - I know many people can relate. I’m glad you enjoyed the video! ❤️

[@How.Dare.You.]

I was myself and was not trying hard, our energies would insinc and yet he was simply not making any effort leaving me longing so I ended it and Im glad

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! Yes - if he’s not putting in any effort and you’re constantly feeling a sense of LONGING for him, it’s best to move on. I talk more about that in these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/l3mneZyFf6Z_oMU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@laurashields7482]

Leaning back and not trying to make thing happen can be a very hard thing to do. I'll get a little life for myself while he's not around 😔. Thank guys very helpful video ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Laura! 💗 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nqvLoIdujt-Cic0 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nH61qpmhp5eBd5Y.

[@dianalereve5402]

My first thought on "why do we act from masculine energy" was: because we don't really take care of our souls, this way unconsciously repeating bad caretaking in our childhood. So I think in order to get into feminine energy, one has to take care of all the grief, trauma, anger, loneliness and despair inside, and one needs to develop and retain the deep wish to finally protect this mistreated inner child . That's what I felt and that's what feels to work for me..

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here, Diana! I actually talk more about that in these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/emrRonWlZ8mHesk, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rarOhY2CZtSCnZY, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hH_Ne3aDaqutZtU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/mZmpk6GBhZiVotE.

[@theamberturner]

Awww two of my fav women ❤️ Great advice Helena. I love the part about trust in the Universe 💫 All is working in my favor. At all times and all ways. Btw...I'm very impatient too lol

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Amber! I’m glad that resonated with you. 💞

[@maryamrahman9793]

I love you Helena ❤ thanks for sharing this with us. I wish you a long beautiful life with your family and loved ones.🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! 💗

[@BrooklynBaby100]

What’s really sick is that when I feel him come close to me, it terrifies me and I mess it up 😢… ESPECIALLY when I LIKE him. It’s like I cannot believe that he’s coming towards me because I like him so much. 😢

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I know many women can relate. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y4SoaXWmZ9OCfKs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGrYhpemg7eej6M.

[@jenaya_laila2442]

Same here. I feel I mess it up myself

[@mellead8727]

Hi Helena, I know you and Tom met on Bumble. But my experience is that men on Bumble don’t make much effort and expect the woman to do everything and even to carry the conversation. Some guys even admitted that the reason why they’re on Bumble is because they like the idea of not having to put in a lot of work, and that they want to see women doing so. Can you please advise me on this?

[@anitachhun4145]

Avoid those guys

[@tammyshannon1592]

It seems that there are more men who want the women to do all the work asking them out making plans etc. I really don't get it and it is not attractive to me. I find too many men want to put in zero effort. I had a first date just cancel on me as I was about to walk out the door because he decided to go kayaking lol

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, I have a LOT of thoughts on this! When you start developing beliefs about “men on Bumble” or “all men” in general, it keeps you attracting those same types of men and experiences over and over. If I had come across a man like this on Bumble (and I’m sure I did), I wouldn’t have given him any energy or attention at all so it didn’t become a factor in my point of attraction. My mentality would have been, “He’s showing me right away that he’s not the right one - that’s a GOOD thing!” I would have been happy that I didn’t have to waste any time on someone who wasn’t in his empowered masculine energy, and quickly moved through that kind of man onto the next better match for me. The next video I’m going to publish should be helpful, I’ll be posting it on Friday or Saturday. In the meantime, I’d recommend checking out these videos (I’d start the first one at 23:30): kzbin.info/www/bejne/mH-Um62IhcSmh5o, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nnOlZJWudsRpeac and kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXm1ZJeAbbacgqM.

[@mellead8727]

Thanks Helena. This makes perfect sense to me ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@JessicaLTL]

Two of my favorite youtubers link up! I love it

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed this! ❤️

[@oia5882]

Aww so happy to see two lovely & amazing people I love!! Thanks for this episode💝

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️

[@ginaalesha2]

Excellent video, need the reminder to stay in my feminine energy! Btw, may I say you are very lovely Helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Gina! ❤️

[@MysteryUnfold]

This is great advice. Thank you Helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m glad it was helpful. 💗

[@77SunnyDazeInDecember]

🙏 Thankyou Helena and Michelle ❣️🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️

[@stephaniebenoit788]

"You're too old, too fat..." WOW!! That is me 😢 Working with my therapist to change my inner thoughts and feeling worthy of receiving. I tend to "choose" men that will either abandon or mistreat me. I appreciate this information 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! This episode might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rarOhY2CZtSCnZY

[@jenaya_laila2442]

Me too. I also have low self- esteem and I choose people who reel me in and then pull away..

[@stephaniebenoit788]

@@jenaya_laila2442 I feel your pain 💖

[@stephaniebenoit788]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you 💕

[@helenzielasek1812]

Brilliant teaching.Thanks💞

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m glad you enjoyed it. ❤️

[@pinkypie445]

Big mistake I put him on the high oh mighty ones shelf and he probably knew this so it was so easy for him to play head games and breadcrumb me when I was in a such bad place In my life. He obviously knew this so that's why he played me I was an easy target and so dumb to let him kill my vibe. I was too soft. I need to build myself back up now and it's so hard.Im so emotional lately and so overwhelmed with other life things I have to deal with. 😢

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. ❤️ These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b4bMdI2pg6-tpNE, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXm1ZJeAbbacgqM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/rarOhY2CZtSCnZY.

[@viviancampbell1331]

Great points that I had not considered before.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Vivian! I’m glad this gave you a new perspective. 💗

[@the1rockgirl]

This is an eye opener, thank you!!💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Lisa! ❤️

[@saraiannaccone1790]

I’m seeing a man once in awhile we’re both in our 60s and just meet when we meet. Is that a good thing of wasting our time? Thank you 😊

[@gwortman3515]

I also am in my 60's and was dating off and on a man in his 60's. He didn't treat me that well..lots of ghosting and ignoring and selfish in the bedroom. It was unrequited love for me..never experienced this before. It took months to move past him..he wasn't the man for me!! I am single still.

[@gwortman3515]

Move on..he's wasting your time.

[@saraiannaccone1790]

@@gwortman3515 you’re right. Thank you. 👍

[@fikemi1]

@@saraiannaccone1790 A much better good one is on the way. :)

[@Tati4rmKali]

OMG !! I love the both of you !! ❤️❤️❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Tatiana! 💗

[@danapalmieri6653]

My guy has all these qualities and I’m very comfortable when I’m with him I definitely feel safe that’s why I fell in love with him and I know he feels the same way about but no commitment?!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Dana, does he know that you want a commitment?

[@danapalmieri6653]

Hi Helena, Thanks for getting back to me! I did mention a relationship about a year ago. Haven’t brought it up since. Hopefully you can help me with my situation?!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

So you’ve been seeing each other for over a year but you’re not in a relationship? What’s the situation, are you dating but not exclusive?

[@danapalmieri6653]

@@HelenaHartCoaching yes we are casually seeing each other but we are exclusive if that makes sense?!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

A man typically KNOWS very quickly whether or not he’s interested in pursuing you for a serious committed relationship. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/foPZe3iAa96ae5o, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jGS9Y4pvmN6CbKM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKjKmXuggdN0eKM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXelcqZ-pLGGhaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKLHkmxtqrWFp6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c.

[@sallyhan9072]

Hi Helena, question, when in the early stage of dating say 3, 4 months, if I feel insecure or he is not treating me up to my expectations, do I need to talk to him about it? Sometimes people have different perspectives, talking to him is also a way of better know him. But some man are difficult to open up for such a conversation, any advice?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

It depends on the details of your situation, but if you do want to talk to him about it these videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rZLLpY2On8l5m6M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGaUeZxriKebl6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/movKn3aYbN2NZ8k, kzbin.info/www/bejne/kF6ag4x3g7WsbZI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5XZo3SHhL9obMk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/bYqoY4eDeZiEZ6s.

[@nadjacalore2660]

Hi Ladies! Great to remember from time to time! Thank you for sharing woman-wisdom. So important all times🦋

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Nadja! 💗

[@l.mariea7672]

What do I do-when he’s moved further away (bc of a job, he pursued before we met) from our already long-distance dating, and we decided to take a break until he’s “settled” there-and can decide if we’re going to try to do this long distance-and eventually decide if I move there? How do I hold space-and not be “waiting” for him?? He already fell in love first and I did after. If I go out and start dating others-it’s disingenuous and not fair to someone else. Gah.

[@InspiringYoungLady]

Go out and date dear.

[@nancyk6563]

I was under the impression you need to know what you want in order to attract it when you go on a dating site. Is that using masculine energy?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Great question! Personally, I don’t think you need to know exactly what you want in order to attract it. In fact, trying to get too specific too quickly can really hold people back (I see this happening ALL the time). My husband and I talked more about that in this podcast episode - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/5MnAVKyJsfQaFG7PVzDIwm?si=dIGga3PYToaURX3k75SIXw …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000553510996

[@nancyk6563]

Thank you Helena! I listen to you often and am able to relate to things you say. You are a treasure!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m happy to hear that. ❤️

[@maureenparker5966]

Wow this is so me, !!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! 💞 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nH61qpmhp5eBd5Y, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y3qtco2XjLqfg9k, kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y5yphYConsego5Y and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYe1gqOdiMmgmNE.

[@rebeccagray3477]

What if he used to come toward you and make you feel secure and now that's not happening. I've been trying to give him space and send positive vibes when we do talk which helped a little but he still isn't really coming towards me. We've been together a year and he tells me if he didn't want to be with me, he wouldn't be with me. Not sure what else to do here

[@elizabethrivera5203]

Just be like I can’t be somewhere I don’t feel wanted & express how u feel in a chill way & his actions will tell u how he feels. Talk is cheap, look at actions

[@NKbutnot]

Lean back, focus on yourself, go out, find a hobby. Remove him on the pedestal and put yourself up there. Say nothing since you’re already expressed yourself. Work on your self concept, get your confidence back up.. you’re gold babe. This man will either conform or bounce

[@gwortman3515]

Date other men!!

[@rebeccagray3477]

@@gwortman3515 I have been thinking about it. We are supposed to be in a committed relationship so I'm torn about doing that. But I do want marriage and a family and I'm not getting any younger so it's hard. I have told him that too and he maintains he's not wasting my time. But his actions still kind of tell me he is

[@gwortman3515]

@@rebeccagray3477 actions speak louder than words mist of the time. Dating other men increases your value to your own self and in the eyes of a man that really loves you. He won't like that other men have a chance of winning the prey he thinks is his...but NOT WITH HIS UNDESIRABLE behavior. There are men out there willing to meet your needs. Make it about you and your feelings..not his. This does not imply you are having sex with the other men unless of course you so desire. Read about unrequited love. It's a hard thing to go through but sure teaches us lessons about loving. Best to you.

[@PaolaShakti2222]

Today I am insicure how to recognise a good guy and if I see him and am attracted to him....

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hpScd5Rmptx9o68, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ-7oH6JgqaHpaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/gWWuq4JveduWj9E, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKLHkmxtqrWFp6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/m2HLqoKko7umjsk.

[@Jess-wk5jo]

i have question for you. what happen if i get back at my ex friend morgan from high school for two timing me by having affair with my ex boyfriend Stephen if i ever date Morgan a again by only texting and meeting up with stephen Holding hands and kissing and hugging without no sex what is it romantic friendship or affair or friendship?

[@LightYearsAwayFromHere]

What?

[@aleksandrabieniak8231]

❤

[@edmarielafontaine3683]

And I Oop!! Michelle and Helena What a Treat!! thank you. ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@edmarielafontaine3683]

It was a good one.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💗