NEVER Desire a WOMAN (How she will LEVERAGE SEDUCTION AGAINST you to gain attention and power)

[@CaseyZander]

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[@iloveamerica4891]

Yes white caucasian girls will suck any d*ck

[@Davida86u]

We are living in a time where you are expected to spend your time, money, energy. For her to sit across the dinner table and pretend that she is doing YOU a favor. 😂

[@healthiswealth6237]

You ain't never lied. True words.

[@HARDMODEKINGS]

When your pre selected they ll pay for you.

[@healthiswealth6237]

@HARDMODEKINGS NO, they won't.

[@happyapple4269]

only if you allow it.

[@ATLCane]

Exactly 😂 shit is outta control

[@dantwyt]

It's a paradox, just like happiness. If you search for happiness you will never find, until you stop searching, then you discover that it was there all the time.

[@selfdestruct5443]

Had a girl tell me she was "too busy for a relationship" and wanted to "stay friends" after flirting an shit, then a few days later I posted a story with a girl I went on a hike with and she blocked me 😂 focus on yourself kings

[@Stanley_Baby]

It obviously annoyed her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rhuiden4086]

That gal was a total loser. Got no game other than feeble power plays

[@n7offtank]

Good work bro!

[@Baselbarf8787]

brother she wanted you to give up all your power and ”try harder” meaning she wants u to simp and chase her so she can have all the leverage and power, you did well, very well , always keep your frame

[@yourfoodforthought]

So you removed your attention and proved you’re preselected and the end result was getting blocked. Do you yall not see how all of this is bullshit?

[@DopeTheGemini]

Casey nailed it here and these are all facts. I had a gurl I was dating, I never acted like I desired her, I never asked to see her, she was always the one wanting to see me and always doing her best to make sure she sees me anytime she can. The moment I started desiring her and wanted to see her she pulled away and I didn't see her for about 3 weeks, I pulled away too and never reached out to her, when she realized that I haven't reached out to her she called me on the phone and asked to see me. It's crazy how not desiring a woman works. I completely agree with Casey, "never desire a woman" always conceal your interest and intent.💯🔥

[@rhuiden4086]

They know instinctively that a man who desires them and shows it is weak

[@MichaelBroer]

And she probably fucked around other dudes in those weeks. Disgusting. It’s why I don’t get these games because you lose either way.

[@DopeTheGemini]

No, you don't have to ask her out and I didn't go on dates with her. We just hangout casually in the area from time to time.

[@nickelbothello6210]

@@DopeTheGeminipls explain I have a chick at work who is crazy bout me and we flirt with eyes etc but how do i seal the deal

[@DopeTheGemini]

@@nickelbothello6210 Yep, just flirt with her and let things flow naturally. She might even be the one who asks you out

[@cadillacboy-lg2dl]

Act as if it means nothing to u is the only way u will win with women long-term

[@atman5230]

"You as a man has to stop lusting them,you as a man has to have a control of those intimate desires you have and not let them control you:.I agree.

[@927tripp]

sometimes easier said than done. especially when she’s hot. i think the key is… lust all you want, just don’t make it obvious. important to be preoccupied with your goals. they respond more to a guy with little time for their bullshit.

[@atman5230]

@@927tripp yes sometimes it is difficult,I think we should be aware of the lady's spiritual development,her intellect rather than solely lusting after her body.

[@927tripp]

i agree. that typically happens after you’ve hit it for a good bit of time. once the infatuation of the body wears off there better be substance behind it or it’s not long before it’s over.

[@oscargonza2748]

Thats why it's vital to Always put yourself first and just deal with the women that only want to deal with you, plain and simple

[@Vibethelife]

So true I've wasted so much time in the past on these creatures

[@TheUnplugged1]

Once you control your primitive urges she loses her leverage…this is right around when she tries too use other men too make u jealous….don’t fold

[@healthiswealth6237]

FACTS. She likes you UNTIL you like her. Then she has the VALIDATION she was looking for. Replace s..e..x with attention/validation when understanding women.

[@vanessac1965]

There are lots of women who are safe for you to like and who want your commitment, but you won't find them among women who just look for validation

[@yourfoodforthought]

If she loses interest when you show interest, that means she wanted your interest solely for her ego. She had no romantic interest to begin with. Reciprocating interest = losing her is the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. It shows how much experience you all lack with women.

[@healthiswealth6237]

@yourfoodforthought you are NOT paying attention. Women have REPEATEDLY said out of their OWN mouth that they lose interest when a guy reciprocates interest. It's their nature. It is what it is.

[@Mornepin]

You can actually reciprocate, only if you don't give your full validation by doing so.

[@yourfoodforthought]

@@healthiswealth6237 Then nobody would be in relationships, married, etc. You’re not looking at reality and how ridiculous that statement sounds. Committing to someone, physical affection, sex, etc is showing interest. The highest level of interest as its not just words, you’re acting on it.

[@greggd2027]

My circle of friends for many years revolved around the boating scene on the river in my town. One of our friends had a $200k+ a year job, owned a beautiful yacht on the river.. but had zero game. He got walked on time after time. Nice guy and a great friend.. wish he could've understood Casey's truths

[@swanncm]

Absolutely ! and once you've understood it, you have to assimilate and accept to believe in it, it's not an easy part but then things start to become clearer, for those who doubt, you just have to try, but it takes time and strength.. to be a man.

[@AndrewAdawa]

​@@swanncm yeah. You have to test out the truths on the field, for them to become your truths.

[@rhuiden4086]

Some guys never learn. They cant over ride the gynocentric social programming

[@alangwhiteTheBoss]

What truth it’s all conjecture his musings no proof to back it up

[@yourfoodforthought]

This debunks hypergamy. Your friend satisfies hypergamy is nearly every category but one. If status, money, etc really mattered that much, than his lack of “game” would be minuscule. “Hypergamy” is nothing but a cope. You’re implying that women would hook up with a couch surfer over your friend despite the value he brings. Make it make sense.

[@Bart12349]

That's easy. Ignore them. It's not worth it.

[@anthonyvasquezactor]

Bed 'em, don't wed 'em.

[@geweetwelwie1]

Date 'em, don't mate 'em

[@Livingmybestlife82]

Fuck em don't cuck em

[@Livingmybestlife82]

@@geweetwelwie1 fuckem don't cuck em

[@Livingmybestlife82]

Fuck em don't cuck em

[@renegadezen7841]

@@geweetwelwie1 "recreational use only"

[@dhl0706]

That last part is so true. Never chase. You're da man! And she would be lucky to have you in her life.

[@trofee8]

Hate this era, social media tiktok insta reels brainwashed people, online dating fking phones all ruined it

[@Katarzyna-h2z]

No, it just had revealed thru nature of men and women

[@spruce5123]

You must demonstrate reluctance when dealing with the feminine spirit.

[@starzgalaxy17]

So u must just ignore them and walk past them like they not there?

[@spruce5123]

@@starzgalaxy17 Hold back and reserve your masculinity for the woman that demonstrates the traits and behaviors that you value as a man.

[@kingguccitv8664]

​@starzgalaxy17 use your left and hand ✋️ and keep your right hand hidden bro be very selective in your time and money

[@lewis1937]

Through your videos, I have found a new inner strength within myself. I’ve reclaimed my power in my interactions with women and feel confident and solid in my decisions.

[@scuffedcomedy4819]

Focus on yourself kings and everything else will follow, never ever deviate

[@solice8844]

It’s called emotional blackmail. As soon as you show interest her blackmail begins. I always say “Nevermind, I mistook you for being good looking”, and walk away.

[@Electronics_Exploded_9]

Value Yourself more than her Beauty

[@Turbo_Tastic]

I have yet to tire of these commentaries.. they just seem to get better and more refined.. love this

[@se78836]

I’ve found as long as your smv is higher than hers you can show desire without getting pullback

[@gaborb6577]

Or even can talk to her without being considered cringe or sx assault

[@se78836]

@@gaborb6577 Come back to this video when your woman pulls back out of nowhere. Then you might be ready to learn something

[@nirvana10393]

Remember that perceived SMV is more important than actual SMV. There are guys who make a ton of money, have great education, are fit. But for w/e reason, the girl can’t see all that so she makes a snapshot judgement that his SMV is low. When you show too much interest, she makes a snapshot judgment that your SMV is lower

[@DoctorZ999]

That can work for quick sex but not for a lasting relationship. Her mind will tell her hypergamy is not satisfied. Indifference will always be the key because indifference comes from a man who is focused on his purpose over a woman.

[@BoldLearn-sn3bi]

It's really the same concept. They interpret your showing desire as having low SMV. It's why they were chasing you when you weren't as interested coz then they saw you as someone with lots of options = higher SMV

[@R2-_-D2]

Great that your reinforcing what I feel was at my core. The shift can happen one of us at a time. Its motivating that others are like minded in the truth.

[@bjornviir3333]

another harsh cold truth by Uncle C. This just keeps getting better.

[@chipsteve]

Women crave a man's desire. They just don't want to to get oneitis / have unrequited "love" towards them. Desire her & own it & be carefree about it.

[@Mega.lithic]

Really? So then that’s the opposite of what Casey’s saying. I agree with you though. So be blunt and straight up like “hey you took my breath away, why are you free to grab a drink?” Type shit?

[@rhuiden4086]

No. Do not reveal your desire to her even if you do. Thats like giving her all the leverage. She will discard you

[@mylesmw]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@rhuiden4086No it’s really not giving her all the leverage. You guys bite into this red pill stuff too hard and wonder why you still struggle. Red pill is a great short term strategy, but notice the advice from men who’re actually older than 30 who’ve locked down a solid relationship - they’re red pill aware, but understand the balance required for an actual healthy, fruitful relationship. Seriously, like @chipsteve said, women do actually crave a man’s desire. But they don’t want you to become weak and pedestalise them, putting them ahead of your career or goals. There’s nothing more captivating to a woman than a man who is not afraid to show their desire in the correct circumstances. Think of a man that is at work and is constantly missing deadlines/targets because he keeps drooling and showing his desire to a coworker that he is dating - that’s an ick. All he does is make her think “is there nothing else in the world more interesting than me/is your purpose only to desire me, and not change the world?”. But then think of a man who knows when it’s time to work, ignores his attractive coworker whom he’s dating and gets the job done and excels in it, while she gets emotional that he’s ignoring her. Then, when it’s out of work hours and the colleagues are going for after-work drinks, he finds himself with her in a man-to-woman situation. There, he can remove his “professional & serious” character, and reveal his true, playful, relaxed, charismatic self who’s unafraid to tease, or nonchalantly express his desire for her and say “you know you looked really hot today…” and expect nothing from it. Meanwhile, the bartender has been trying to flirt with him while he orders a drink, he engages a little but knows his bounds - his girlfriend watches on, she realises that he could make things happen with that bartender quite easily if he wanted to, so while the girlfriend could try to play games with the man because he’s committed to her, if he has any backbone then he will not have a problem finding another girl. She also realises that nothing, not even her beauty, is able to distract him from his work. Desire towards a woman is being present when you’re together, where it feels like you’re the only two people in the world, but as a man you control this and should make sure you only experience it in small snippets. Desire is showing to your woman that you are carefree in displaying your affection and attraction. Desire is also built upon the upon the masculine frame that - “what we are experiencing, man to woman, is because I have chosen you. Despite every other girl that I am dating/have dated, I am here with you because I chose you”. A woman knows this, and provided you’re not putting up a persona, she will realise how scarce you are and latch onto you. There’s no shame in showing that affection to her, because whenever you go out to dinner, drinks, shopping, you will always be getting attention from other women and your girlfriend will witness that, realise she is replaceable, so it will reaffirm her position that she has chosen the “right” man. And when you’re at work, you display that no amount of desire for her will come above his career and goals - this also creates a challenge for her, to continue to try to pleasure your life to make you give in. So if you’ve done the work, you’re an attractive and desirable man, you can show your desire to your woman. But your career/mission is always greater than your desire, and you give her reminders that you are the prize and have options. You can and must find the balance. If you don’t show desire, you’re kidding yourself. The caveat to this is when dealing with a woman who wasn’t sold on you in the first place. But you shouldn’t be dealing with those women. If you find you’re dealing with those women more often than not, you have more work to do.

[@thee_executive6978]

You gotta know game and play it accordingly.

[@BoldLearn-sn3bi]

@@Mega.lithic It's as if many women want what other women want. Oneitis is where she is the only person you give attention to, so she begins thinking other women are not interested in you or that you have low SMV and her attraction towards you goes down. If you express desire but are carefree, as in if she's not interested it's fine you got other options, then she will tend to value that more coz she figures you're interested in her but not for a lack of other options

[@SwankyCops]

I’ve been telling women I’m not interested in sleeping with them and watch them chase you like never before . I got this from Casey act and actually mean you don’t want them you need to control your mind and lust isn’t from God you controlling yourself you have all the power and leverage not the woman.

[@XXWXX911]

To you tell them that in person over text? And how exactly do you say it?

[@Magic_10001]

So funny dude. Cos it really does lol.

[@SwankyCops]

@@XXWXX911 just tell them first date “I’m not interested in sleeping with you” in person or text something like that

[@FindWaldo1008]

Agreed. I purposely don’t sleep with them on first few dates. They’re used to that shit, 💩 so show you have control over your impulses.

[@fishwhistle9612]

Women see Men like Fisherman see fish. Women simply fish for validation instead. Just like fisherman, tons of effort goes into the hunt. If every time you went fishing you caught fish every cast, it would get boring really quick. You would move along and seek a quarry more challenging. The hunt is what makes it addictive and makes you want to come back to fish again. When she posts that insta picture, she's basically throwing a validation crankbait looking for that big dumb man bass thats going to bite and give her the like she's hunting for. For the more discerning man bass, she will present a finesse bait to entice you. It's all the same. Just don't bite often and she come back to hunt you again. Don't be the guy where she can run a hook through and old stinky shoe and you gobble it up the second it hits the water.

[@Gescobar009]

"It is not my job to pursue her. It is her job to pursue me." This has changed my life. Filtered through so many women and got this...nothing can compare. And whats craziest to me is that one of em is a high roller cash chick

[@_Shadow10.]

This is true IF she's already somewhat interested in you. If she doesnt give two craps about you, she'll just move on. This type of advice only works for high interest girls.

[@earlem9771]

So what? Is that supposed to be bad? If you don’t desire her, who cares if she’s not interested

[@jadedpaladin6685]

​@earlem9771 If you don't care then why do you consume these videos on how to get women to be attracted to you? Why even listen to this advice?

[@earlem9771]

@@jadedpaladin6685 who said I want to be with a woman? I don’t mind being single until I die. If a woman decides she wants to be with me one day, I might be up for it, but most women are a complete waste of time and money. They don’t reciprocate your affection anyway

[@luke5388]

Was dating this girl for 6 months, actually started loving her 4 months in. She started withholding sex for 3 weeks straight and it drove me crazy and made me anxious. I finally said something about it and she changed for 2 weeks. Started sending me nudes and being more sexual and whatnot. Then 3 weeks later she leaves me. LOL she was my first, guess I learned my lesson. It’s ironic cause I used to watch your videos a couple of times a week back in August when we both met. Realized I forgot to watch them and thats when all the bs started.

[@moheganson]

Old habits die hard

[@zizroysthegreat607]

All good man it happens, onto the next one and learn from the mistakes

[@luke5388]

@@zizroysthegreat607 I really liked spending time with her, I hope she comes back but if not theres plenty of them out there and once I find that one I know I’m equipped with the learning lessons from the previous

[@Mr_Big_Lou]

This is the real izm which pimps have been applying for centuries. They get vilified for it but they are actually the only men on planet earth who have a true understanding of female nature, which allows them to do things that the average man can’t. Salute 👌🏾

[@RealStoriesBank]

Pimps as in sex traffickers or pimps as in Casey? Pimps are the least people who understand the female 🐑

[@bluesloose2606]

My problem is, if the only way you can get a girl is if you don’t desire her, what even is the point? Why would I want to be with her at all if I didn’t desire her?

[@liquidusnake93]

This is the secret… it’s an internal shift that resonates in your actions and it cannot be faked

[@L6FT]

So what is the purpose of a woman in a man's life if not, companionship, fun times, sharing intimate moments, having a family and a faithful partner who will stick it through rough times on par with good times?

[@djangounchained6669]

The back bone of the masculine mindset in one video. Watch it everyday fellas. I hear you. It's difficult. You need value for women to think about why you don't give away attention or lust them. Otherwise they'd just say "next".. you need value.. Casey mentioned it as being preselectedness... demonstrate value while you withold your attention and lust

[@ponderosa3928]

Thanks. That connects the dots. It is lust. One of the 7 deadly sins. Corn too. Never found a gurl when I was looking, only when I wasn't. Now I just need to figure out how to do that and what I need to do with the energy. Not kidding.

[@alansapilipinas]

Casey is the best red pill coach ever. Narrowly better than Matt Cross.

[@deloentertains3370]

Yeah man facts. Its so sad we all gotta play these lil games .

[@Gescobar009]

that stare tho...this man is a man of wisdom..

[@tshepomokhwa4042]

Perfect timing king currently dealing with a chick that recently came back...

[@Stanley_Baby]

If she had other dicks don’t take her back

[@alexhardann2483]

No one on earth that gave a woman a value and lifted her to the clouds like this guy…

[@renegadezen7841]

explain?

[@FemalemiIker]

this is so true man, ngl before i saw your videos i didnt know shit about any of these. now i am getting somewhere. good for me i just 18 so i still have young years and prime coming up.

[@davidbarrozo6621]

1:35 sad fact. But that is what we men need to cement in our heads. 2:01 attraction factors many different things. Hut none of them actually make them look at you differently. 2:33 yes, control over the sex drive. It is your job to remove it from them after you give it to them good. Lets them realize what they lost.

[@elvatonegro4880]

I agree in when you lust for her you give her all the power on the dynamic, but at the very beggining how you create the attraction then?, i mean the first or second date because its actually when she has all the leverage

[@savageinstitute9569]

Think through it. If you don't want her, how does she have leverage? If you don't know her yet, how can you want her?

[@Mega.lithic]

@@savageinstitute9569so date but be reserved and playful/kind but don’t have expectations except for the values you want to see in a partner? and when you see those values then what do you do? I know if you don’t see those good values then you cut the chick off.

[@savageinstitute9569]

@Mega.lithic a woman that is 300lbs or 55 years old has no leverage over you, a hot chic has the same software. Of course there is zero expectations on the date except that I'm going to leave relatively soon. When you find one that fits you, your values, looks etc then act like you don't care. You have to keep all that care, feelings, nurturing BS under your armor. You can be weak for her, it is natural but you cant show it.

[@Lawrence_of_Asia]

The desire has to be shown subtly and playfully’ Can’t jump from 1-7. Initiate skin contact early on with a touch on the arm. And yes, many of these girls don’t have anything more than the bedroom.

[@G-spot911]

Watching your videos have already became my mantra to keep me on track. I wish I would've known these in the past.

[@SnoopyRu1980]

I've been getting your videos due to KZbin algorithms and liked a few of them but this one, my vanilla brotha you hit home runs at all angles...you got yourself a new sub 👍🏾🔥

[@SB-wj6dw]

Great message but dont dismiss fitness so easily. My experience and opinion is that discipline is possibly the most important core pillar that needs to be built as a man. Fitness is definitely a great way to build that discipline in a healthy way that invests positively into your own future. The building of discipline and results starts to build a proof of power and ability within yourself. This shows, and women see this"confidence". It is known women gravitated to the greatest hunters. How do you become a great hunter? Practice, discipline, fitness. "Confidence" is built from building your ability.

[@Kokopilau77]

Well said and to the point.

[@drifter8800]

Women is a numbers game

[@risky1]

Casey, I'm back and thank you for the information - I believe you are 100% spot on. I look back at my past relationships and yes... the more they chased me, the better she liked it and the better I liked it. Rock on Bud !! And that is a NICE HAT .... so if you want to put it to good use, You are cordially invited to my place when we start cutting and baling hay (round bales) and working Calves this summer. I supply all the Beer.

[@dollarchange2917]

It was never like this before Covid

[@cccbeats_]

Yes, it was.

[@splashmoby]

Brother, it has ALWAYS been like this

[@DoctorZ999]

Your perception of the world is through a victim mindset. If you are here to learn how to attract women, do you think that victim mentality will help you?

[@oscargonza2748]

It was like this before Covid, after Covid It's has gotten worse, bruh

[@Understandme44]

Desire purpose and success. She’s to desire man. Man is to desire the path to a successful purpose. That’s how you lead women. You desire her she doesn’t trust you so she won’t be interested

[@DataWiseStrategies]

Absolutely. Amen brother.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

This dude gives me anxiety, and I'm married. Haha!!!!

[@creamtm5]

Dude..listen to him i wish I listen to him before my divorce

[@dreambeliever3652]

Casey nails it! I have seen this in total action. Try going the opposite way and watch it crumble!

[@gaborb6577]

But basically the situation is still disappointing: if someone did not grown as chad, sociopath, tall, cannot be changed into, even knowing this fact.

[@DoctorZ999]

Take my word. My best friend is around 5’6, Mexican, looks below average and sleeps with more beautiful women than the “tall narcissistic chads” I know. We're both in our 20s and I've known him since 3rd grade. What I have observed from him is that he is an excellent communicator. His behavior is masculine and nonneedy, but with his words, there's a touch of femininity. He knows what women like to talk about and listens to them carefully. This comes from him growing up with 3 sisters. This video still applies because he's never directly chasing or showing intense desire for a woman. It's almost like he takes a masculine-friendly approach. Btw he doesn't have any musical talents and works at a bank.

[@pablobooming5400]

This is a beautiful message ❤.

[@spruce5123]

Yo Casey bro..... You're humble and modest....... But you're actually quite brilliant bro....... I had to put it on loop bro.

[@JohnM...]

Brah…. It’s ‘brah’, brah. 😂

[@spruce5123]

@@JohnM... We say bro in Philly bro..... 😁

[@JohnM...]

@@spruce5123 Noice!…

[@Eugenejones-e7l]

Once again,great stuff little bro!

[@mikyo94]

I was in the need of this reminder

[@DoctorZ999]

Eliminate desire for any woman. Her nature doesn't want you to pursue her. Learn how to balance your emotions and lust by having goals in life.

[@MA-yb6op]

Zander, one of your best videos yet.

[@Magneticmale]

Casey I'm on the same page as you. I agree with everything you've said in this video and it applies perfectly in dating. I've taken your advice and I've noticed the huge difference it makes. It truly is about how she perceives you and the only way shell desire you is if she respects you. My problem is I'm building that discipline and forcing myself not to desire any women. I go to a gym full of hot women trying to get attention. I ignore them most of the time to focus on my workout but it's really difficult when they use your internal desires (sex, beauty, her body) against you how do you get yourself to the point you don't give an f how hot she is and it means nothing to you? Especially if at the same time you ofc want to see if she's a good fit for you aka meet her.

[@chuckfullerton813]

Only way is, have many other options and pass successes to rely on. And it's still hard. But can maintain frame knowing you can get others in the future, had in the past, and maybe have some on the go in the present

[@Ciclopea2]

All i have to add to that cornucopia of truth is: 💯🔥

[@achillesahuja5919]

Your best video. Something I preach as well

[@robertomendez187]

Best advice for men hands downs. 👍🏽

[@kingworthy935]

She chases us.

[@Bloodsaber64]

I am naturally anti-social, and I have this problem where I just naturally treat women like c*** and push them away to the point where I just never expect anything to happen with them And more often than not I realize some of these women have been tricking me into getting closer to them and inviting moves but I Never pick up on it and because I am so anti-social I never know how to move forward once a chick is ready

[@Gescobar009]

"the feminine soul needs to be nourished.."" I experienced this recently. Had a girl tell me her financial stuff like owning a business and these things she bought as investments. In my head, I'm like "what the fuck.." I right then realized how powerful this shit was. I had no idea a chick with that kinda cash wanted to be led

[@TheTradingAlchemist]

8 Rules for Relationships A woman must earn your attention, not the other way around (Come back when you want me) Never desire a woman, she must desire you (I'll stay as long as I'm needed) Take care of loving yourself before you give love to others (Myself above all else) Be indifferent to her beauty and love (Say no) Have congruence in your identity (That's just the way I am) Stand by your principles, but pick your battles (I ain't got time for this, I've said what was needed) Become a graceful loser (Sorry, that was my bad) Never accept another's problems as your own (That sucks, but are you ok?)

[@rapturousspearhead]

Hey Casey, could you do a video for the guys on the differences between the first and second stages of attraction? - I have heard you say before that you need more overt pursuance in the beginning. I have noticed that it is a very fine line to walk. Two big questions I have are regarding - ways to pursue initially that preserve the air of uncertainty, and good opportunities to start pulling back that are uncommon for them.

[@jamesmccusker2260]

All this content has a place but let’s also acknowledge we are looking for connection with someone who is likeminded

[@MuscleBandit]

I'm only a shoulder to cry on if I'm a face to sit on.

[@Dylonysus]

Too real man haha I’ll remember this

[@KingLouisDaSaint]

If you’re not sitting on her face, you missed the point of this video

[@MuscleBandit]

@@KingLouisDaSaint Haha!!

[@vanessac1965]

😂

[@JohnM...]

Oh my god that is such a BOSS mindset! I like it 👍

[@karimg1546]

BRAVO. Short video and to the point.

[@givdb5513]

If she goes "I am better than him", look how weak he is, because you overlook her beauty. She thinks "I already bet this game" --> she needs a new challenge.

[@someguyfromcali]

Casey doesn’t strike me as a youth pastor but I remember hearing a lot of what Casey said in this video at my youth group 👍🏻

[@Trazynn]

A lot of dating coaches claim you should 'show intent' which is the opposite of what you're claiming. Maybe a cool idea for a topic.

[@Jeremy-wp4yh]

Don't you find this content repetitive? It's 100 videos on the exact same thing.

[@CaseyZander]

We don’t need dating coaches we need real men

[@thekedaronkasardar9987]

Who to believe in Casey?

[@earlem9771]

Talk to her like she’s a dude from your neighborhood that you’d like to be on good terms with. That’s intent.

[@rhuiden4086]

​@@Bala1541acting on it works when your in high school as the gals think your being cocky. As they grow older they just view it as simp move.

[@thewouldyouratherguy]

Man oh man. Female nature has really gotten the better of me this year. May god have mercy on every blue pilled man out there. I had nothing but good intentions and got humiliated and punished so hard for it i still can't believe the extent of it. I literally did nothing wrong, except for being ignorant. Crazy. The humiliation was the worst of it. Pure, completely unprovoked, horrobly painful disrespect from her end. As if i was a piece of trash for showing my interest in the girl and that even though i'm a really handsome guy. Lot's of girls are chasing after me. The fact that this can happen to a guy like me makes me sad. There are so many guys that are less attractive than me. I can't even imagine the difficulty they're facing. At least i learned and i learned quickly. Hopefully this is the beginning of a new life for me. Got a date on saturday. I will be a pure block of iron from now on. Wish me luck boys. I really need it. If you've been through something like i've been through i will pray for you. And i'm a god damned Atheist. This is how brutal my experience was. BE CAREFUL!

[@MrJemk]

Bro, this is gosbel!

[@mostafamahtab7349]

Oh believe me if there was a way out by physical exercise I wasn't taking a rest day.

[@pinkplayspkmn5011]

He completely rite 🎯🤝🏿

[@paulcosta8297]

Good job for, for the first time ever, not incorrectly using the modern English word 'lust' as a negative sexual shaming term, but as a neutral synonym for desire. You correctly used the real meaning of this word three times in this video, as a verb, as a direct synonym for "desire". Please don't revert to the false usage of this term, which is nothing other than the Anglo-Saxon synonym for "desire", just like "way" vs "method", or "rightness" vs "rectitude".

[@thomashilmersen711]

I have seen evidence supporting both this and the opposite. A few times, I have had contact with married women who want t o have sex, and who explain that it is because their husband no longer looks at them with lust in their eyes. They feel invisible, and when another man desires them and makes them feel visible, they long for intimacy.

[@healthiswealth6237]

They are LYING. They are the ones who do not, and probably never did, lust after their husband.

[@Bassoarno]

Same, it's strange. I know many guys around me who have cute girlfriends, and many of them did the majority of the pursuing. Now will they have successful long term relationship ? Idk, but some of them are with their girlfriends for many years and getting engaged, married etc.

[@CaseyZander]

All these videos I've made.... and you still trust their words and what they "tell you" ????

[@wellyunnoso3087]

@@CaseyZander😂😂💯

[@rhuiden4086]

Dude these "married women" lusting after men are telling lies. She is the cheater who is no longer attracted to her husband but she will blame him after succesfully emasculating him.

[@doctorskull8197]

Phenomenal message that I learned too late in life. Ha Ha! Oh well.

[@richardmackintosh2921]

Yeah same l'm 66 never had luck with girls that l wanted,was always mesmerised with their beauty

[@Danny-ql8nz]

So i broke up with my gf a week ago after finding out she was texting and flirting with boys behind my back. Came to the conclusion I treated her way to good wich made her lose feelings and search for approval somewhere else. But how far should you take this? should you never call her pretty or initiate sex because it makes her feel like you want her to much? And should you never set up to meet? I get what he says but I have a hard time completely shifting my mind to think this way, shouldnt it be a way in between while in a relationship?

[@harrisonosa5601]

Why would have to tell her she's pretty? When she comes to you got sex, you handle her like a caveman. No kidding

[@gabriels4433]

Yea but if you’re too distant then she isn’t interested either; there’s a happy medium

[@RealmOfTheMadMan]

It makes no sense. You constantly hear "be sexual and flirty from the first time you meet with her, show that you have a purpose in her, otherwise you'll be friendzoned". And now we got to this point where you have to show no sexual interest and she'll chase you for some reason. Feels like you've run out of content and just make stuff up on spot.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

This is a fantastic rebuttal to this guy. Notice how he makes content that contradicts himself all the time. It’s absurd how he thinks about this 24/7

[@DoctorZ999]

This is high level advice that you guys (respectfully) aren't ready for. You need more experience with women to understand and connect the pieces. There are levels to this like every other skill in life.

[@j-star1]

Massive advice, thanks.

[@darioswatchclub8]

Epic Video. I want a Family Some day soon. And Keep the Human Race going and becoming better. Can you make a Video about that? Any thoughts on that?

[@COSkywatch]

A lot of his advice is true to an extent but I assure you when you are older it changes. Women, if smart, wise up and no longer play these games. Maybe it’s because as women age their options become less and less and when they are 20 something they feel they can get any guy they want. It gets a lot better for men as you age and you can then truly be you and not play these games of indifference etc.

[@Sjbjo]

Preach!

[@SxlMcMartinz23057]

Please bear with me as I explain what I understand from Casey and mix it with my own experiences. I am a lover of Philosophy and as such, philosophers are obsessed with the use of words and concepts. Sometimes a word is not enough to abstract and explain nuances and variants. More words should be invented, but to agree, I am going to use the word DESIRE as a man's desire, attraction and interest in the shape and femininity of a woman. And I'm going to use LUST as DEGRADING DESIRE. I believe that when it is said that a man cannot DESIRE a woman, it is a biological and psychological impossibility, men are programmed to desire them, what we cannot do is let ourselves be carried away by DEGRADING LUST. When we allow ourselves to be carried away by LUST, its effect is distorting masculinity. Let's define masculinity as the psychological wiring of the man, whose behavioral repertoire implies DOMINANCE over EMOTIONS. Something that women lack and that is why they are so attracted to them. A woman admires a man in her masculine center, meaning that HE DOMINATES himself. IT DOES NOT MEAN REPRESSING YOURSELF, a pernicious, debilitating practice that demonstrates weakness that is usually exhibited by someone who puts themselves in the friend zone. No. TO DOMINATE DESIRE is to be General and King of your Passion, an artist who exhibits it at times, letting it be seen fleetingly through his gaze, his voice, or using the power of the word to suggest, to subliminally imply. , that interests you sexually. You can be successful by saying this bluntly but this is not seductive. The DESIRE that can be seen from time to time in a glance, in a subtle touch, is greatly desired by women, and contagious. They tend to ignite desire in them too, but they want to see that you control and dominate over your DESIRE, taking it out and withdrawing it when you want, breaking patterns. The woman does not want you not to DESIRE her, you will see that she becomes discouraged and withdraws if you do not do it. She doesn't want you to REPRESS yourself until you cancel or falsify and Smother your fire of DESIRE, like someone who pretends to be her friend does, or someone who gives off boyfriend vibes. Nor does he want you to degrade DESIRE to LUST, the latter makes you act like a clown, makes you blur in your eyes, you are so hot, that you are too graphic and literal before bed, it makes you look like someone who has no art or You are the lord of your DESIRE, you begin to despair of having it and you do or say things that show you not only a slave to your DESIRE that has become LUST, but also a slave to it. She presents you in her eyes as inferior. That's when she uses your LUST against yourself. He makes you angry if you don't see her, or she isn't with you, that is, you stop being INTERESTED in her to being NEEDY of her and only HER or her body. There Casey's dose of truth comes into play, you must be a King, a king is interested in someone, but he doesn't need her, he doesn't pursue her. He speaks up if he's interested in someone, and he gives her the opportunity to show her value. That is the mentality of a King. They are made to pursue the validation of the King. He is not in principle nor does he declare that he is interested in a long-term relationship, or a wife. She must want this. He is also NOT very concerned about excessive selectivity when it comes to his own natural DESIRE for sex, because he is male, has many gametes, leaving sexual hyperselectivity to the woman. She has her eggs counted and becomes pregnant, and has a psychology according to her gametes. HE must give the impression that it is difficult, but not impossible, to interest him as a woman in the long term, but for now she must use her sex to gain a drop of his exclusive dedication and attention as King. Here I go against those who proclaim being very very selective when it comes to sex with a woman, this is simply feminine. It implies that you are thinking about long-term relationships, something that should not be a man's aspiration either, but should simply be a given. A man should not look for quality, but for QUANTITY of sexual relations. The search for QUALITY belongs to women. No woman is interested in knowing if a man had three QUALITY women, female interest (that of beautiful and mediocre women alike) is awakened by knowing that the man is desired by MANY women (QUANTITY), regardless of their qualities. The man must be in RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS ENTERPRISES AND HER PROJECTS, and she must unite with HIM through her feminine feelings. She must relate-attach herself to HIM. And here is the necessary and natural asymmetry. She builds that relationship. Don't take away her feminine role from her. When she gets you addicted, either to her, or to her sex, that you go off the deep end and express, verbalize or act as if SHE is your world, you are LUSTY, without lordship over your passions, emotions, and DESIRE, she as a woman lose interest. You stop being the DOMINATING KING she seeks. YOU DO NOT DOMINATE YOURSELF OR ARE LORD OF YOURSELF.

[@SupaMegaBigHustle]

Word 💯

[@Luisantoniofigueroa10292]

Great video brother

[@userfriendly8632]

Dude , you need to do video on how to break up with a woman and giving her the control to do it. For me, when I see red flags . I do the opposite of what you’re preaching . I am 53 and got a 29 year old hottie and she knows her place in my life. I respect her but I am not a simp! If you want the woman of dreams you have to make yourself priority one! Being emotionally unavailable is the best way and the only to obtain a woman of value . I know the dynamics and sometimes I use those dynamics to break up with a woman to let her think she has won!!!

[@giovandervegt4260]

Quality vid

[@subzhero4069]

But what if its not beauty that you care but her safety, will she mix this up?

[@coolcoreancat]

Some say "women would rather LOSE you than to LEAD you"...what's your response to that?

[@Stanley_Baby]

That’s true women want to be led by the guy

[@rhuiden4086]

Its a huge turn off for women when they have to lead the guy

[@zipperbots]

If we don't let a woman seduce us and yesterday's advice was to not pursue them then...what Do we do? How will two humans ever come together in a healthy, natural and Honest relationship (which is what the kids need to see to be well balanced. Unlike us.)

[@memorian1024]

Its her job, she wants the kids ;)

[@Mega.lithic]

Dude this is exactly what I’m confused on he didn’t say anything about what to do and how to act besides using super general words like “masculine”. It’s like we’re sapposed to be so reserved but the hot woman will NEVER make the first move so then how do we show interest without desire and making it clear you’re into her more then just wanting to be friends. The line is so fine, I’m confused atp.

[@memorian1024]

@@Mega.lithic Never had a woman invent a crazy story why you both just have to be alone? 😂

[@Mega.lithic]

@@memorian1024 yeah the same chick was telling me to nut in her then she pulled back like crazy cause I showed to much emotional desire

[@aodh5966]

​@@Mega.lithicthere's a point where she knows you like her, but you can't give her certainty when you reach that stage. Does that make more sense? If she leaves, no big deal it's as though you have an even prettier woman you can get with (or at least she feels that way)