How to be the PLAYER Women OBSESS OVER and want to CHEAT WITH (6 Seduction Patterns of Attraction)

[@CaseyZander]

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[@sebtabmmc5221]

Dear Casey & the BRO, could you please make a few "specials" videos, on the 2 SUPER books: David Deida, and Mr Nice Guy? That would be Amazing.

[@davidallahgod3217]

*BECAREFUL YOU DONT TURN HER INTO YOUR MOMMY OR YOUR EMOTIONAL TAMPON*

[@painter8237]

A lot of great points here Casey! You want to keep her in a perpetual state of competition anxiety all while getting her to invest more and more. This is the exact same thing that women do to men! Also, it’s great that you point out that regardless of what you do it will end eventually. And really, it’s best for the man to end it before she does. You won’t want to do it, but believe me, you won’t want to be dumped either. Better that things end on your terms not on hers. This increases the odds that she’ll be back one day for a sequel with you.

[@jessemunnings]

Yeah, 10000 wet points

[@standardofexcellence]

EXACTLY

[@EriPages]

Addres the elephant in the room: Women are, psychologically speaking, children.

[@HunkyMan777]

Yep - know that all too well

[@BigTimeMove]

I heard that from better call George but true

[@franciscomedina7592]

funny enough tho this will work on a man and more often than not thats how the dynamic works. Many men out there are getting played for months if not years by doing "boyfriend responsibilities " while not getting ANY "boyfriend benefits" so this is a break down on how to level the playing field of attraction since women are naturally better at this stuff while us as men have to learn it.

[@akg1301]

George is the goat in this area ​@@BigTimeMove

[@dalethedippa5822]

They are children who have learned not to shit their pants

[@KONGDADDY69]

The contrast he's referring to, is the classic 'push/pull' 👌

[@austinburdick1217]

Pre requisite: I already see a couple women romantically, so it doesn't freaky matter where this goes Step 1: Inconsistent text messaging paired with in person compliments about her personality Step 2: Once you sleep with her, you wanna make sure you spend time with her. This taps into her emotions Step 3: Request deeper level things, like favors from her Step 4: Request her to help you with things. She's gonna feel like you two are growing together. Step 5: Go on random. spontaneous adventures. Drive thrus, or sunsets. Tell her all good things come to an end. Then talk about her ex boyfriends, exactly. All good things come to an end. Step 6: You're gonna respond less and start flaking on dates. She's gonna start comparing many men to you.

[@AlohaAloha-f2v]

It’s sick how true this is and eye opening when you see it

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

[@peterwilliams6361]

There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..

[@peterwilliams6361]

This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

You wont regret it

[@nicolasziegler2291]

​​@@peterwilliams6361don't listen to him, he ist just trying to get you to pay for that service. I've seen a lot of people write the exact same name of that Shelly person in a lot of different videos. The whole comment is just a hook for you to pay the service. I understand though that your situation must hurt a lot man, I really do, but I don't think therapy is going to fix thinks. In my opinion, you should let go of her a little so she starts chasing you. Even if you feel like you can't do it cause you need her, it will help you maintaining your relationship in the long term. And if you pull away for a while or just start being colder to her and she lives anyway, trust me, she was going to leave regardless of you caring or not. My point here is, if she is going to leave you, she is doing it no matter what, but if she is not sure about it, and you keep pushing her or acting needy, now SHE IS, so you just kinda gave her a reason to by acting that way. So now I ask you, in yout situation, what other choice do you have besides pulling away?

[@Bassoarno]

You have to love yourself. And not desire the woman. If you desire yourself, she will desire you. If you desire the woman, she will desire herself ! (not you). The great philosopher René Girard has a great book about mimetic desire. So basically, humans imitate each other desires. People only want what other people want. So if you desire someone, that someone will desire himself ! If you want someone to like you, you should desire yourself, that will provoke the other person to desire you. It is even more powerful if you show that other people desire you !

[@LiveLikeMyke]

Casey’s so right at the end ,he’s the only dating coach I listen to my go to used to be fitx and a few others but they just constantly repeat themselves with mid level stuff

[@adamsaben3299]

This man must be protected!!!

[@lebroncr]

Already deploying “assets “ to secure the package 📦

[@cartig9051]

pre validation for a girl is the biggest attraction killer. gotta be grounded internally and validated in yourself

[@Monsoon-r5n]

cope. if it was jeremy meeks then she would love it

[@KenjakuTV]

Casey dropping generational knowledge take notes men

[@Hazelbean_crypto]

This was ruthless af. I love it 😂

[@PsalmDavidd]

Thank you for adding value to our lives brother. I became a slayer because of your content it’s crazy things happened in short period of time. Until Valhala

[@yoboi2.044]

All of them enjoy getting played by a player and at last act like a victim to avoid slutshame and accountability. then use some nice guy as an escape as if he's some disposable entity !!

[@melhorfutebol451]

You just describe the reality of western men in general 😂😂

[@AndrewZambetti]

Don’t use #1 if you’re a thoroughbred stud and girls think you’re a player already. Trust me

[@carlosgrimaldo7929]

frr they will out slut u

[@dzllz]

What was #1?

[@analisedefilmes-z8f]

white clothes matches a lot with golden accessories, epic grooming, congratulations

[@puertoricanprince7690]

😂😂😂 creating a bunch of demons out here. City boys stock rising

[@autoboxiealimited7423]

😂😂😂can't stop wont stop... take that... no diddy😂

[@chicodachimpp]

😂

[@navicae]

Big up from Brazil, Uncle C! 🇧🇷🔥

[@Seventhcause]

My favorite random adventure is “get dressed, we’re taking the bike out” it’s undefeated

[@defpixel]

Can’t be just friends with someone who obviously doesn’t wanna be just friends.

[@mattleggett5609]

Dude I fuckin ❤you man because this is the shit that absolutely works and as luck has it for me im the nice guy type so it's always over before it even truly gets started which is just like you'd imagine. So hearing this stuff is awesome for the reminder as I've just started getting back out there after taking long break from a 10 yr relationship and now 41 in a younger generations game and im about as lonely now as ya can be unfortunately all my friends are married with kids so I feel like a loser if I go out by myself and im just about to give up even trying lol smfh it's just been stressful

[@mattleggett5609]

Sorry I kinda vented a min there 🤦‍♂️😅

[@franciscomedina7592]

dude if you live to be 82 which i believe is the average life expectancy then you have another 41 years in front of you, some people don't even make it to 25 and are still able to make something of themselves, get over your feelings and get out of the "nice guy" box you're putting yourself in. We are human, top of the food chain, we adapt and overcome so you have two choices my friends... you can either dive in your own pity and and burry yourself deeper in the hole by wasting more time or you can make the fucking decision to change, the power is in your hands and the only thing stopping it is yourself. I can vouch for Casey and say that the shit he teaches work, do not use it for evil but to track down women you are legitimately interested in and reinvent yourself. Feeling sorry for yourself will do you NO GOOD. NONE.

[@franciscomedina7592]

Im not neglecting your situation or how you feel but sometimes you just have to concentrate on what will be, not what was

[@scottvillian]

Work on day game bro. You don't have to go to the bar. Talk to the girls at the store, in line places, library etc. Just be careful w girls at work, you can practice interactions w them, but it may just be best to not get intimate w them.

[@saulescamilla3605]

Never heart emoji another man bro wtf keep it playa

[@dzllz]

This is fire 🔥 information! You the goat

[@avertthymortaleyes3460]

Did men 50 years ago need to do all this? I have a feeling it was easier for men to get women. Of course there were less feminists and hardly zero male bashing back then getting in the way.

[@XXWXX911]

No, because she had very few options to choose from and it was expected for the girl to get married in her late teens or early 20s, she knew she had to find a guy quickly. She had to pick 1 of 40 men, now she has to pick 1 of 4,000,000,000 men, and she's being told it's ok to wait until she's 30/40 and don't settle for guys on her level... this is why the complete sh*tshow you have now

[@self-help3796]

​@@XXWXX911 Real

[@archersterling2901]

​@@XXWXX911that, and there was no shortage of truly masculine men back then. Can thank nuclear family dynamics and dedicated parents for that.

[@jamesedwards366]

I think men 50 years ago just knew this instinctively, when we weren’t all soy boys like we are today ..

[@protoplast.youtube]

no, everything was much harder 30 years ago! i prefer living and dating today, it‘s sort of „paradise“ to me nowadays. i‘m 58.

[@bojanbogdanovik4802]

Basicly its a push pull dinamic in a long term.

[@soundwithbrillmedia2868]

You’re correct

[@trinity4783]

best video ever!

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*The idea of using seduction patterns to create attraction is both fascinating and a bit controversial. I’m curious about how these techniques work in real life - have any of you ever tried these patterns?*

[@jsavak99]

Very good information that I will use and see

[@cityguyable]

Sounds a lot like the D.E.N.N.I.S system.

[@jayy7712]

So true

[@serjpo1719]

Penis system

[@mrbabyhugh]

6:25 yup, always peripheral things and not her directly. dont tell her directly she looks good and definitely not that her thingy is good. AND NEVER EVER TELL ANY WOMAN SHE IS THE BEST IN THE WORLD AT ANYTHING. But say and do things that make her FEEL LIKE she is, but NEVER directly from your mouth. But my way, always make her know she did good but SHE CAN & SHOULD DO BETTER. Because she should already KNOW u got options and will replace and/or drop her.

[@sayerslayer1854]

How your rizz got so strong, giga chad presence blessed my senses pulled out fentanyl addict by watching your strong rizz,

[@evo5138]

this made me laugh out loud thank you

[@FukumoneY]

Keep the GAME COMING

[@Jollygreengeocentric]

There is a large difference between a dating coach and a relationship coach. This man will keep y’all in the dating game rather than getting you out of it. Don’t let them convince there aren’t any more good women out there, it simply isn’t true.

[@deeepanshah]

Point number six is evil😂

[@K.Sovereignson]

A mack essentially..the ultimate gentleman

[@jonalexcoaching]

the DENNIS system

[@FukumoneY]

Keep these videos coming

[@TruckerBro]

I like how, in the last video comments, someone made fun of his hair now he has no hat on, and his hair looks fine.

[@hengonghuat9876]

I thought u say don't compliment her n don't show interest 😊

[@benjaminguerrero7474]

MILLIONS THANK FOR SHARE YOU KNOWLEDGE; I VERY APRECIATE THIS. GODs BLESS YOU.

[@redpilljesus]

All of this is sooo much easier when you just don't like her that much.

[@m14ninja]

Excellent video Casey

[@tachiYT]

need to talk more about body language and stuff like jon zherka does.

[@softtoysindia]

U changed my life❤

[@mrbabyhugh]

13:23 yup, once u invite her to do "house chores" she will start to think she is winning you over and it is going somewhere. THIS IS EVIL IF YOU HAVE NO INTENTION TO DO SO. This is where she WILL break the heck down if you dump her. This I dont do at all, AT ALL. I wont ask her to come over to do it, if she there I may ask. Most I may ask is to come over for dinner night and she/we cook.

[@cristian.ilie.018]

Man, this title is cartoon-funny ! Had a good laugh !

[@Brando_x99]

I told a girl I was seeing that I see other women and the next day she told me she had sex with another guy outta spite. Mind you, she didn’t even like the guy and she said she did it cuz it was easy and because im seeing other women. Is telling them im seeing other girls really the move? Or should we just not tell them

[@angelcare5969]

It's toxic af, I mean to see several people at the same time. He's giving wrong advice

[@usamashaikh6198]

First viewer here…

[@GiopoloMtl]

This ain't gold, this is platinum or even something more valuable. Yes, the push/pull principle, but an advanced version. You nailed it again, Casey. I still wonder if the Headman nation is the ideal place for an almost 59 year old guy like yours truly.

[@busterb6562]

I’m very fortunate in the sense that I have a large weapon and women literally crave for it.

[@bedabratdutta7367]

Man this guy is still posting the same stuff. I left the channel for one month came back today and found the same things. Genius verbal skills.

[@caitlynmack1898]

all the greats are saying the same thing in a 100 different ways. the message is always simple and must be told in various ways to sink in

[@dna8269]

Anyone who teaches anything says the same things repeatedly because most people don’t follow the most basic principles

[@KALPESH_L_DOSHI]

First here

[@seanmay3605]

Grown men playing House! It Is What It Is …..Game On

[@FukumoneY]

My man!

[@hdshjs]

I never ever dated a guy who said he dates others and never continued with a guy who is inconsistent to anything beyond few more meetings. It's so sad that any woman stay with this man. I'll post it to the ladies support group I'm in. We need to warn and educate ourselves. Thanks, Casey!

[@redpilljesus]

Good thing women don't listen to reason and logic Fellas: nothing to worry about. Biology dictates what they do.

[@mrbabyhugh]

10:04 even before i hit, i tell her how i like nails done. girl always did them very long, i made her know not in to that and showed her. she said not her style and she explained why and i understood, BUT SHE SAID SHE WILL COMPROMISE. She didnt do them the way I suggested but they were shorter and a bit more how I prefer, especially in terms of color.

[@mrbabyhugh]

9:58 true, true this a good one. but when u can have THEM ASKING YOU WHAT THEY CAN DO FOR YOU even before hooking up is ULTIMATE. A girl wanted to smash, in the lead up of her to come over, one of the many things she asked as, WHAT COLOR LIPSTICK COLOR SHOULD SHE WEAR TO (HAWK TUAH ON THAT THANG). LOL, this was last year August, I just used that to say what it is she was saying. this girl was already obsess before i hit. And its simply by not complimenting her, spacing texting, SHE CONTACTED FIRST EVERY TIME. She gave me no chance to.

[@Luis2077-xj2fq]

Master Manipulator, easier said than done for me it's hard to pull off

[@EtienneLeBoeuf]

Player is going to tank your dating life. This works. Only 8. The art to Attracting women by james Francis.

[@jimdandy8996]

"I'd love it if you brought your sister next time."

[@KingDoob557ner]

Is there any way to change the leverage in a relationship when she already has it?

[@GettingGood]

yeah go look for a new one and flip the script, leverage has changed

[@KingDoob557ner]

@@GettingGoodwhat if I would do anything to salvage my relationship. I’m about to be in love with

[@hydraV1-c7d]

depends on context

[@Kingg4453]

The only thing u can do is pull back, and if she doesn’t reach out just forget it, she already lost all desire and intrest in you at that point she doesnt care anymore

[@derricklizana4065]

This is definitely the most important video

[@mrbabyhugh]

10:45 how i do dates, i do not tell them where we going, i give them idea of what dress code, even show them ideas of what they could wear. this way she is following your lead, and if she does exactly, or close enough based on what she has, THEN SHE IS INTERESTED IN YOU. But more defiant she is towards you, dont bother she will be a headache.

[@LightFoam]

Thanks man

[@YondaimeApproved]

Thank you 🙏🙂

[@ytlongbeach]

I love step 6, start flaking and pulling back. lol. Evil !

[@DougOfTroy]

Only use this stuff on the most toxic girls and works every time

[@ShivaShaktification]

Great!

[@jimh527]

Great comedy. 😅

[@mrbabyhugh]

4:25 dont have to say all that, can simply say i am dating. your method is the say "my child is 12 months old" vs "my child is 1 year old". women prefer the 12 months old method, i do not care, i prefer my method and that is it, take it or leave it. I say less, MORE MYSTERY.

[@XXWXX911]

12 months old method?

[@GettingGood]

​@XXWXX911 same thing but different phrasing

[@NG-qo7nu]

King

[@HumbleShooter]

Genius

[@hectorramssesgarcia4532]

this video its basically explaining what a pimp that has turned to only 1 woman relationships would do unconsciously

[@SanketS98]

✨

[@jayy7712]

This is so evil, and I love it. Perfect way to keep them around for a long time without actually dating them. But you should a video on how to directly just sleep with them, on the 1st or 2nd date. Because not all women are worth keeping around after the 1st night

[@melhorfutebol451]

Is your mother worth it to your father?

[@jayy7712]

@@melhorfutebol451no lol they hate each other

[@automatedimagination]

@@jayy7712 that's funny?

[@JojoAces]

What was wrong with the first video ?

[@poopstain724]

They're all reruns

[@The_Real_Charmer19]

This is basically manipulation... 😂😂😂😂

[@paulina6778]

It is manipulation and it’s absolutely disgusting and evil! 😡

[@Robbielazar]

This is what they do too. Game up

[@TruthTriumphs777]

Walking away from women is freaking fun. I tried it and they get really pissed

[@ryangoulbourne4662]

💯💯💯💯

[@isaiahmwenya]

🙏🏾

[@mrbabyhugh]

15:04 i aint saying that, and that's part of my issue. words of affirmation and me do NOT play together, LOL. i am action driven, if i were to say lets go through drive through, that is me saying i like or well at least want to spend time with u right now. but gotta be careful, cant have her thinking u getting too weak initiating too much link up WITHOUT ACTION.

[@Noble99218]

I think monogamy is a lie for a men, but not for a woman.

[@sarahmika6649]

Alpha widow

[@shacharcohen8664]

Why make a woman cheat? If she cheat teach men to not settle for cheaters.

[@mrbabyhugh]

11:23 hahaha, yea or... she will use the words "you settle down" in whatever way she came with to say it.

[@mrbabyhugh]

8:19 YUP, always do that, ALWAYS but do NOT get in to saying too much about how she is, just be there with her. What is most important after that.... GO NO CONTACT, DISAPPEAR. It's best to ALWAYS make her reach out to you first especially after the first hook up. AND ALWAYS BLOW THE HECK OUT OF THEIR BACK THE FIRST TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!! TREAT HER LIKE A 304!! I have a girl for 4 YEARS NOW SHE OBSESSING OVER ME. Meaning, we did 3 times in total and it's been 4 years since!

[@jpoeste]

Uncle Casey... The man, the legend, the light in our lives!

[@dudeman3913]

10:00

[@PedroCastaneda-kd7mc]

111 Likes.

[@Monsoon-r5n]

there is no "How to be the PLAYER" for ones bad genetics

[@onjada]

Jesus what a pain in the ass, just why does it have to be this way

[@deadinsideenterprise]

Human nature.

[@richardmiller3952]

because nature doesnt want simps to reproduce

[@JoeSchmoeBro]

Because the human mind is more complex than you (we) would like it to be.

[@Hugh_G_Rection69-f8f]

Casey, this is very, very great advice. Thumbs up as always. However, I think you forgot to mention that there’s a potentially a rough tradeoff to this. Not falling in love with her. In a pursuit of being a player, a lot of men start to have that chick grow on them and fall in love with her, then commit all of the errors that you teach us not to. So in a way; there requires some level of heartlessness.

[@markhodge5006]

I'm 63, passed my time to be a player and l really don't care.

[@jsavak99]

I’ve actually done this without asking: she paid my car payment when I lost my job. Thought she was a keeper after that

[@cristian.ilie.018]

The goal is not to sleep with her....not that you could !

[@eddaimes2247]

basically lie to her

[@SuperQdaddy]

Until the desperate seperated sugar daddy shows up..? Hes got the money and the drama she loves....😅...your out !

[@moheganson]

Passing out and going to sleep after sex is way more masculine than watching movies and talking

[@XXWXX911]

Posting screenshots of someone in your group face-timing a girl before meeting her means absolutely nothing... women love attention and validation from everyone online, means nothing, you should be ashamed posting that as some type of win lol... because as soon as he asks for the date he'll probably get ghosted and flaked on lol

[@Sacados-i3e]

Not convince but persuade! No logic with women