NEVER Let someone take you to a second location

[@BoxOKittens]

I wanna adopt/foster older kids. Just because they've experienced trauma doesn't make them broken or not deserving of love. Every time a foster kid is violent people point and go 'see! all foster kids are demons!' (my mom is like this) and yet so many more people are hurt/killed by their own flesh and blood relatives...

[@Judgement_Kazzy]

"I was physically and sexually abused by my parents growing up" Oh my God that's horrible, I'm so sorry to hear that. "So that's why I murder people for fun" Aaand, you lost me.

[@TheReluctantVlogger]

An honest question.. although the childhood trauma doesn’t justify the evil act, is it right to say it’s “good”that this man suffered in death, just as he had suffered in life? That means we’re justifying torture in the US, if this is a popular notion. The unfortunate truth of the matter is that if he hadn’t been so profoundly abused as a child, he wouldn’t have turned out that way. Is it not appropriate to show some level of compassion, if only for that reason? This is a moral quandary and I personally don’t know what the answer is, and there probably isn’t one. It’s purely subjective, but I feel sad for him and for her. I feel sad that trauma begets trauma. This is how I feel about people like Dahmer. Their actions so vile, they’re so sick and compelled beyond their own control to stop, and in the end regretting what they did. It’s all so sad, and the despair began in him and spread to others, and the psychological disorder we call psychopathy is to blame. But how can that be healed? Why not hold the abusive parents responsible for these crimes, as well? Then we’d have to question the parents before, I guess and then it would never end. Idk, I just find these situations emotionally compelling and so tragic. I grieve for that little boy, but hate the man for what he did.

[@ksis86]

Id rather die than be taken to some unknown location. I just couldn’t go on knowing if im taken somewhere and killed that my family would never be able to find my body

[@Sophia-vk5bq]

"I found God and I'm a better person now!" Congrats, give god my regards.

[@sporemaster97]

20:25 this is why I'd *only* adopt 8+, and why the rates are so low when they get older. They're kids, bro. Guide them correctly, they'll be fine.

[@AshChiCupcak]

I get both sides of this argument, some people are in a position to fully and properly dedicate the time needed to help undo the damage done to some of these kids. Other people, like pig, have their own kids already and when you bring in an older kid in who may act out on your children, you have to be cautious. You don't want to cause more trauma on the adopted child and then traumatize your own. It's a really iffy line and while I agree every child deserves love, I also believe they deserve a family that's capable of handling them. You don't shame people for not adopting disabled kids they can't support, I won't shame them for not being able to handle older kids either.

[@sporemaster97]

@@AshChiCupcak it's not even so much him not being able to handle an older child, that's fine, but he's essentially saying kids past a certain point are pretty much lost causes. I'm sure he didn't mean it like that personally, but there's a lot of people who feel that way, and that stigma needs changed

[@AshChiCupcak]

@@sporemaster97 oh yeah, there are a lot of people who do, I completely agree. I just think pig has a hard time getting across what he's trying to say in a way that it can't be taken wrong. I can't imagine how hard it has to be as a creator to monitor EVERYTHING you say and make sure it's said perfectly or you know someone will clip that shit. I couldn't handle that stress man

[@plushia6557]

ooo, I’m excited that he’s watching lazy, one of my fav crime KZbin’s ngl

[@theirishpotato6588]

Mine too.

[@onetruepauline]

Sadly the Target Kelsey Ann Smith was taken from is a hotspot for kidnappings in the area. Overland Park is well known for being a human trafficking hub and it's so scary because if you saw it from the outside the city looks like a regular suburb, but it's definitely not. People go missing all the time.

[@TheLegPumpkin]

Jesus I used to joke how I never actually met or even talked to anyone online from Kansas, now ai know why. But seriously I thought you were exaggerating, Then the first google result brings up an arrest of 81 people for a case involving more than 14 kidnapped kids.

[@babyphatpenut]

May I ask where you got those facts from? I'm from kc an grew up 10 min from that target an have never heard of that being true for op. Im not sayin I dont believe that because of the highway accessibility

[@AdrianG23228]

Shout out overland park. Pretty nice during the day though

[@xxanimeparadisexx2712]

The letter at the end broke me. I can’t even thinking about what it said the sister who wrote it while also putting the family plus friends in the letter hit me hard I can’t even explain how that made my heart feel. I hope someday they will get peace

[@omegasupreme1912]

9:15 I used to live in that area… I’ve been to that very Target before… 😶

[@Jade_1872]

Every time a murderer tries to avoid death by going “I found god” I just think “well good news you are about to meet him!”

[@buberrycrunch]

I did not mean to laugh 😭

[@Sophia-vk5bq]

lol This is brilliant.

[@TheReluctantVlogger]

Seriously, the most heinous, disgusting, evil doing people in this world speak often about “God.” It means less than nothing, and is usually a shield to hide behind to make themselves feel better about being sick. Nothing can save a person from that level of insanity.

[@Spectrum0122]

Funny thing is that's literally his first rule of things not to do

[@trashpanda3544]

Whenever I hear stories like this I can only imagine how it would play out if someone tried to Rob me lol. Like i have £3.79 in my purse and -£150 in my bank but nice try though lol.

[@lemoncarr2599]

Someone broke into my car and stole my wallet. They tried to use my CashApp card everywhere, I woke up and found out because of all the declined transaction notifications 💀

[@trashpanda3544]

The fact kids over 6 or 7 are likely to have trauma if they're up for adoption is one of the reasons pro lifers want to ban abortion. Even though there is millions of children up for adoption there is a shortage of babies and toddlers because people don't want to deal with the trauma. I can't have children of my own and if I ever want to adopt I want to make it a point that I will adopt kids over the age of 8. I know there's a possibility that they will have excessive trauma but so do I and I know what it's like to grow up traumatised. I think that personal experience will help with connecting to them. Plus I want them to be old enough to wipe their own ass and not have to be under 24 hour supervision. My plan is the open a cat sanctuary for disabled and elderly cats so I want the kids to be old enough to trust around the cats. I'm not adopting as a hiring process BTW, the sanctuary will be my house though so I need to know that the kid won't start like, bullying the cats whilst I'm in another room.

[@BoxOKittens]

I want to adopt older kids. It makes me feel so sad and angry that people just disregard children over a certain age. An older child, even one who has trauma, still deserves love and a family. Also, statistically speaking, people are so much more likely to be abused or killed by their blood relatives than a foster kid.

[@ksis86]

My husband and i agreed that we’d like to adopt or foster older children once our own kids are out of the house. It breaks my heart that some kids go most of their life in foster care and never feel safe or loved by a parent figure 😥

[@rexonatyleer3500]

@@ksis86 especially when the system isnt exactly safe

[@T-WilligerJames]

No hate or nothing kids are fantastic they’re always drawn to me, one of my last relationships this girl had to kids very sweet girls but that’s when I realized I didn’t want kids. They were great kids I just know that it’s not really for me now, and for clarification she left me I didn’t dump her cause she had kids 😂😂

[@BoxOKittens]

@@T-WilligerJames ok and?

[@jackmarshall3255]

I’m paranoid about everything like if there a fire where is the exit and if someone following me I make sure I have a knife because that what the world has come to you got to adapted to survive but Overland Park has a lot of crime I live in Kansas but I would never move over there I always see on the news there new crime that happened there you can google the crime there to see how much is there but it isn’t that safe.

[@Issac_The_Last_N7]

If I seen someone being abducted, you better believe I'll try to save the victim..

[@Raidensparx]

Fair warning, I work in Special Education with a specialty in children with severe emotional and behavioral disorders. Like, very violent children. One of my intense students was also adopted at birth, and they didn't really notice his violent behaviors until kindergarten. They only got progressively worse, and by the time he came to me, he was attacking adults daily. So, there is always a risk in adopting. It is still a very rewarding thing.

[@narikobeilschmidt]

did i already watch the video when lazy posted it? yes am i still going to watch with pig and chat? also yes

[@oneofthoseyoutubeusers]

DO NOT let someone take you to a second location if you're thinking you have to let them or they'll kill you; just know that your chance of survival after being taken to a second location is less then a third of what it would be if you didn't go to that second location

[@FEKana]

I'm sorry, but that comment about adoption kind of upset me. He was a child in need of guidance and help. What they could of done is gotten him the help he needed instead of giving up. Most children in the adoption system have their own struggles they have to deal with. The idea that adopting them is "dangerous" because you "never know what they could be like" is absolutely ridiculous. When it comes to adopting, it is up to you, the Adult to understand all the needs of the child you choose to adopt. They're not some property you buy with no understanding of how they works and function. Children/teenage children need adoptive parents too, not just kids. I'm sorry but that comment was far to ignorant/misinformed for me to say nothing.

[@BoxOKittens]

Yeah, you're not the only one in the comments sounding off about that. Unfortunately it's a very common mindset, my own mom thinks like that. I've always wanted to foster older kids and she hates it. It's also ironic since it's statistically MUCH more likely you'll be killed by your own biological family than any adopted kids. But sadly the whole 'blood is everything' idea is so ingrained in most people they don't even see it.

[@CodeeXD]

Nah I agree and it's an understandable point of view. If you think otherwise that's fine but you don't have to insult people for not wanting to take an unnecessary risk that you would. Good for you pat yourself on the back, I hope you don't get shanked in your sleep by a kid with deep-rooted issues.

[@BoxOKittens]

@@CodeeXD You really didn't read a thing any of us wrote, did you. Like how it's well-documented that bio kids are more likely to kill their parents than foster kids...But go on, pat yourself on the back with your apathetic and cynical attitude. Hundreds of children grow up without a home or love, but you can live your life not giving a shit, apparently.

[@KuromiScarlet5030]

Also don't forget. Bring taser or Pepper spray

[@ToxiChaos]

I miss dad

[@lovelightstarboy]

Pig’s comment about adopting older children bothered me a lot. Just because they’re traumatized doesn’t mean they don’t deserve a chance or love either. The whole reason kids turn out like this is BECAUSE they end up either adopted by people who don’t care to actually help them, or people who just disregard them and let them live their entire 18 years in the system where they’re so deeply traumatized and without any actual parent their entire life. You don’t just write off children past a certain age because you think they’re a lost cause and it’s ‘easier’ to get a baby. All children deserve a chance to be loved. It is your job to decide whether you can handle a child’s issues BEFORE you adopt them and before you decide to just give up on them. Babies are traumatized from the system too. It’s horrible. Regardless of what age you adopt, there’s always a chance, that shouldn’t change whether you adopt older kids. There’s millions of older children who are up for adoption, while there’s a lot less babies in the system. Why? Because people think older kids are a lost cause and choose to pretend that they don’t exist.

[@charko4191]

Yep Doesn't matter If you found God or not as a Catholic I can say that much If you did, good for you maybe he will give you mercy in the afterlife but doesn't matter what you did consequences of your actions will catch up to you and you can't expect your crimes to magically disappear just because you found God, honest or not. Religion doesn't clear you of your crimes on earth and It's not cruel it is justice. As much as I don't think a death punishment should exist that's what your country gives you and that is what that person chose by crossing that line. I am writing this because a lot of people have that misconception about Christianity in the sense that once you believe and admit to your faults you are freed of the consequences and it's just not true. I find using that false claim as an excuse pretty despicable but I guess you would try anything to stay alive. Enjoyed your vid as always. Take care of yourself Your country is pretty dangerous after all.

[@AllieBee00]

I bought myself a gun and plan to get my CC eventually. I’m a woman with a life to live, also have a knife in my pocket for an attacker or my own throat lmao screw people. Edit getting to the adoption part I’m sorry I’m with him on this one though I’m CF, before I had considered adopting but that’s out the window cause most have trauma I know for a fact I cannot handle.

[@squeezydoot]

And people blame women for being paranoid

[@myriahg6549]

did i just hear "thats my purse i don't know you"? i love that episode 😂😂

[@Lizard-xu5lj]

LMFAO stop saying the spook 😭

[@springwater6693]

i hate when people don’t wanna adopt older kids incase they have trauma because guess what? if you have a biological child they may become traumatised at some point in their life, would you give up on them because they’re too hard to deal with? being a parent means being prepared to support your child through difficulties no matter how or when they come into your care

[@phantompetal]

ew the second one is where i live lol

[@Ooeheheh]

dope video

[@apeiy]

Don’t adopt/foster any child if you don’t want to help them with their trauma Any child can get traumatized at any age whether they’re adopted or not so maybe people should give up on their biological children when they’re traumatized so they don’t “get someone like this” Horrible comment about adoption

[@matcha_zuki5597]

Omg please do a reaction to ‘ infographics show - How to survive being choked and how to survive being stabbed ‘

[@Siiseliify]

I went to second location with my date once, but I shared location on Whatsapp to my best friend the car ride and we went to public place. I mentioned that to my date and he was upset and kept asking, did he do something wrong. B***ch no I was just being careful.

[@TheLegPumpkin]

Yell fire. Don't yell help. People think of help as a you problem and fire as an us problem and you have a better chance of gaining attention.

[@the_chubby_jedi9189]

Most murderers or somebody you know and that makes being paranoid a lot worse because then you start mistrusting your family and everybody

[@BP9000]

who would willingly move to Missouri?

[@Natedoesthings203]

This video makes me glad I live in the country I live in

[@salamanderavem3782]

My idea If you do choose to release them And they come back to prison Make that punishment get worse and worse each time they come back To let them know. Its not like a hotel stay

[@carnuatus]

Prison isn't "like a hotel stay." And usually repeat offenders face worse punishment for repeat offenses. The point is punishment is only a deterrent for crime to a point. Which is why we should focus on rehabilitation rather than incarceration but then what would the US do with their prison industrial complex? 🤷🏻‍♀️ They gotta keep them coming back.

[@MadGrubble]

Edwin has flat, dead eyes. He has shark eyes.

[@sethcowles8006]

I live in Wichita ks, and this place sucks lol

[@heavenlyusurper]

At least you guys got the cool Bass Pro Shop aquarium lol😭

[@DanzigDB138]

I'm 6' 3" almost 200 pounds. No one wants to kidnap me and no one will 🤣🤣

[@TheVoidedRealm]

Second comment

[@Badmadworld90]

By no means am I misogynists but I can't let my wife leave the home without me, can't in the sense that people are shit not that I don't allow her to she can go out with friends or family just not alone. I don't give a shit really what anyone thinks we've been together seven years and have never been apart longer than 8 hours for work I mean grown ass men get kidnapped they could throw my 90lb wife in a car like groceries. Pig's dead on in this video I agree with him

[@T-WilligerJames]

First comment

[@sparco956]

People need to seek therapy **before** they snap and start hurting people.

[@sparco956]

Apropos to this, this is what happens when America forgoes rehabilitation of inmates in favor of cheap labor and profitable prisoner storage.