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[@delaneyjewel]

This might sound overly philosophical but I think sometimes pets make us so emotional because they’re a constant reminder of our capacity to love. There’s a particular intimacy in taking care of someone or something else’s basic needs. It’s a responsibility but also a privilege to learn about the self-sacrifice and patience required of you to take care of another living thing. It makes us better humans to love something else unconditionally literally whether it is a partner or a cat or a little tomato plant. Your emotion seems like overwhelming gratitude to me. Thank you for sharing it with us ❤️

[@jimmycryz]

Also just having someone or something just love you for who you are is really awesome.

[@TheMathematicat]

This is such a nice comment, and I think you're absolutely right.

[@donna25871]

Calcifer - from Howls Moving Castle. Great name for your kitten. We named two of ours Ponyo and Sosuke.

[@emmiereads]

such cute names:')

[@emilypettet6536]

Our cat was our "pandemic baby" and he had separation anxiety so bad we had to get another kitten (not to replace him, we now have 2 cats, Poncho and Pooh Bear) but it helps if you put a blanket or shirt that smells like you and your partner in his space or even sprinkle a few treats and toys around in a smaller space. He is sooo cute btw ❤️

[@emmiereads]

oh my god Poncho and Pooh Bear:') so glad that helped him - and that's a good idea, thank you!!

[@Thecatladybooknook_PennyD]

My son got a kitten that had bad separation anxiety. Two kittens are hard work and expensive but it was the best thing for him to get another "baby" to go with his first one. They love each other so much! I will even take both to the vet even if only 1 has to be seen just because they comfort each other so much on the ride there.

[@Ms-Peepers-Reading-Corner]

Calcifer is ADORABLE! Agree with Emily's advice - kittens are used to having a litter, so they are very cuddly and clingy. Your scent makes a big difference, as does having a fellow kitten to play with. When we got our first kitten, she needed so much attention that our vet suggested getting her a friend - that was one of the best decisions we could have made (your mileage may vary; only do it if you're up to having a pair). Of course, that started a trend, and we have 5 now, but you don't have to be like us. :) I can see from how you interact with him in videos that you have great cat mom instincts (such as patiently moving him away from where he shouldn't be). He's a lucky little guy!

[@KatieReadsKoziesAndMore]

I agree, two cats make for happier kitties. My situation was different. With travel time to/from work, I was gone at least 10-11 hours a day. Getting my second kitty made my first kitty practically stress-free. Except for thunderstorms with a lot of high winds. He turned into a yowling nightmare when high-winds happened. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@emilytronnes8350]

I was going to suggest this earlier, getting calicifer a buddy i mean, but didnt want to pressure you about it 😄 I am a foster for cats and they just do so much better in pairs especially with the separation anxiety!! Its always my advice to people asking about adoption 🥰 He really is the sweetest little guy ❤️❤️❤️

[@feelswriter]

I think experiencing our pets' unconditional love is so overwhelmingly self-affirming that all the feels bubble up.

[@KaKesFantasticO]

You’re such a sweet soul Emma! I wrote a few weeks ago about my mom on hospice. She passed a few days ago and I’m trying to find comfort where I can. That means no books with anything unpleasant or depressing. It also means at 40 years old you’ve talked me into reading my first manga with Kitchen Princess!!!! Can’t wait for it to arrive! Also can’t wait to hear your exciting news!

[@cappuccinocrafts2412]

[@abook_addict]

hugs to you, its been almost a year since my mom died

[@annagyorsa8100]

YES! THE BOYFRIEND STORYTIME WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR! Thank you darling 🥰 Also Calcifer is my new obsession. I want to hung a picture of him on my wall

[@Seolhwaneul]

I didn’t even guess about her roommate becoming her partner it’s adorable. Friends to lovers is the best trope and we support Emma’s happiness 💓

[@Honeycombheartartist]

If Emmie could read my brain like a book, she would probably DNF it

[@vaibhavih4705]

she would keep reading mine but only because it’s comically sad

[@emmiereads]

I’d like to dnf my own sometimes as it is😂

[@Honeycombheartartist]

@@emmiereads pfff nah you’re too brilliant for a dnf lol

[@Honeycombheartartist]

@@vaibhavih4705 write that book!

[@oliversolar3504]

idk when i missed out about hearing you have a partner but i’m so happy to hear that!! you deserve this little family you’ve created after all of the shit you’ve been through. i’m so grateful to see you grow and make a beautiful life for yourself!

[@lisasstitchingandsuch]

top tip for new kitty parents, especially indoor cats is start playing and touching their paws as much as possible both front and back so they get used to it. This helps when it comes to cutting their claws (just the tips - it doesn't hurt and is needed otherwise they get overgrown) if you start it now less likely to get mauled later on lol.

[@emmiereads]

haha yes been doing this so much, he's quite comfortable with it now which is great!

[@jimmycryz]

It takes a lot strength to be vulnerable on camera. I am so glad to be part of a community that is as caring as this one. We love you Emma and we will go through thick and thin together.

[@Temperance0812]

ive had my cat for 7 years and i kid u not i still cry when i see her sometimes!!! who let cats and kittens be so illegally adorable?? calcifer is already so so loved its so sweet!!

[@emmiereads]

lol amazing, good to know it's not just me, he just makes my heart burst:')

[@literaterue]

Calcifer is such a delight! Pls always include him in your vlogs. 💕🥹

[@laurencanread]

Hehe since you asked... Life is good and busy - I get married in a week and a half, which is very exciting and a lot of work! Been making progress on my MSc research and am also learning the Italian bind off for the sweater I'm knitting. My fiancé & I still joke about just being "roommates" because technically, it's not wrong. I'm also baffled that anyone would want to skip the Calcifer content. It's free happiness.

[@sage5932]

Oh! MSC as in mesenchymal stem cells perchance? Also congrats on getting married!

[@sierranevadavideos7151]

I love that now a cat can show up at any time in any of Emma's videos. It just sparks so much joy!

[@kaiann107]

will never get tired of Calcifer footage. a 24 hour camera on him would be much appreciated

[@chauanhnguyen7895]

i've been following you more than a year now and not a single video have i missed from you 🥺 i don't know whether you can see this comment or not but i just really appreciate you and adore such amazing things you've made to my life. you are the first person to lead me into the wholesome world of literature. i will continue staying with your channel of course and welcoming little precious calcifer as well 💞 i love both of you so so much

[@vickymaldonado7761]

Hi Emma! My sister and I adopted a stray cat during the second lockdown last year and if I think about her too long I get very emotional too. She makes me sooo happy and I want her to be safe and happy and loved always. I think having a pet to take care of is an undescribable feeling because they depend on you a lot so you just want them to be okay at all times and while that is amazing it's also a big responsibility. I have to remind myself that she's as safe as she can be right now and that I will try to keep her that way for as long as I can. Cats are so beautiful and smart and loving; Calcifer is very lucky he got such a lovely human to be his mum

[@suzannemoore404]

He is so beautiful! Congratulations ❤️

[@meenyard]

i'm so happy for you emma, calcifer is absolutely adorable and you deserve that little bundle of joy

[@emmiereads]

thank you so much dear:') ah that's crazy - I can't believe how many people are here now, super overwhelming but so cool!

[@meenyard]

@@emmiereads i can only imagine but you deserve it so much!!

[@veera7522]

you are such a beautiful human being from the inside out and calcifer is so cute i absolutely adore him. ive wanted to get a cat for so long and seeing you happy with a kitten is making me so happy. these vlogs are one of my favorite things in the world ive been busy lately so i have some catching up to do. i hope you are having the most lovely day and a week

[@Geet99]

Hello Emma, and everyone who is reading this. I just like to say it that in 2020 i was going through cancer and was probably the most depressing days of my life i watched your videos in my hospital bed which was so therapeutic for me and i couldn't be more happier for you 300k family well deserved. I also met my partner in 2020 and made him watch your videos as well. you have been a part of our relationship now. I wish you all the good things in life, like you have been for me

[@uhafi]

my week has been calm and happy, i have lazy study sessions, long kdrama marathons and read sometimes and even do a lil gaming ✨✨ im just letting myself enjoy summer and oh ive also been going on late night walks w my mom its been really nice ❤️

[@khalilahd.]

I’ve always thought you would be an amazing cat mom so I love this for you. Also I love that you’re reading The Body Keeps the Score I’m currently reading atomic Habits (for the third time lol) but after that I’ll be starting this book so I hope it’s good 💛 also I’m sorry Calcifer is having a hard time with you leaving I hope he gets better 🥺

[@Tania.atlasinajar]

I need to read Atomic Habits already! 😂

[@sitka0516]

i also frequently cry over my cat. she needs to know how much i love her! she’s very shy and anxious so i’m the only person she will sleep around, and it makes me cry. all. the. time! she trusts me more than anyone else and i love her so much!

[@marinaanais]

Calcifer is utterly precious!! Another tip to getting him used to clipping his claws at a young age, also get him used to having his teeth brushed at at early age. Dental health is very important for everyone, dogs, cats, all animals, of course, and humans. I have been blessed by two very special and unique cats in my life, and I know your relationship with Calcifer will be just as amazing. I for one will be watching with interest. ❤️

[@alexinaaron1022]

Hi Emma! I’ve just had a baby almost 6 weeks ago - my first baby

[@my_19th_personality]

Calcifer is adorable, he put a big smile on my face. Exactly what I needed after my bunny died a few days ago. Pets are so precious 🖤

[@alishaherndon]

I live at the beach and the humidity is so high. My dermatologist said if your skin is overly oily then you need to moisturize it more often and that helped me a lot.

[@ezgi3987]

i graduated high school last week and took the university entrance exams. I AM SO MUCH RELIEVED that it's done. now all i do is watch kdrama, gilmore girls, and do whatever i want... i missed doing whatever i want without feeling guilty bc im not studying. life's good.

[@jmsl910]

CONGRATS to you!!! bravo GG?? all time BEST show. enjoy, enjoy, enjoy

[@ezgi3987]

@@jmsl910 thank u!! ikr? i can't get tired of watching it over and over again

[@CoralTheWitch2023]

Wow … You made me cry. I don’t usually have such a big reaction to videos. I love watching your work because it’s so calming. Congratulations on both of your partnerships. It’s like you got a partner and a child all in one go 🥰 Thank you for sharing your world with all of us! 300K … Congratulations for that achievement as well! I can’t imagine KZbin without you. Much love to you and yours, Tammy

[@00egg00]

For separation anxiety with pets, a way to do it with puppies is the thing you mentioned with slowly increasing the time away. It could start off as leaving the room, with the door open and coming back right away, then leaving for 10 second, 30 seconds, leaving and closing the door and coming right back, so he know that no matter how long go away for, you are coming back. I know some people give their dog a long lasting snack, to keep them occupied for a while. It might be hard, since it sounds like he's spooked already, but I hope it'll be better! Good Luck!

[@leticiatorres8323]

Calcifer is sooooo cute! "A winter promisse" has such a beutiful cover... Looking forward to you sharing your impressions of the reading with us once you start. Have a lovely day!

[@rebeccaleviner0809]

Every time I watch a video, I just smile. You are one of the last people left on this earth that is so sweet and genuine. I enjoy these videos so much. We truly appreciate your content.

[@nopicniks]

I live in Singapore where the weather is super hot, humid and sticky also I have oily skin. The cosrx salicylic acid cleanser is literally my lifesaver. I would throw on a moisturiser after, something gentle on the skin and quick drying. Oh and blotter papers whenever the oil build-up gets too much. Love your videos Emma!

[@alvo0179]

I used to have a cat named Gumby and he wasn’t my first cat but he was my first cat that would be truly mine and I was only allowed to have it because it was my birthday. My mom didn’t really like cats so we had to keep him outside and he was doing fine until he wasn’t. One day I found him outside and to his side he was bleeding and you could see something bit him. I sat down and started crying next to him immediately because I thought about losing him and all he did was be there for me and it made me less sad. I tried my best to take care of him the next few days. I was around 12 when this happened and I can say the feelings you were feeling at the moment were the ones I was feeling then and it’s terrible but incredible to care so much for such a wonderful creature like a cat. Especially ones that don’t mind your presence.

[@taylahslibrary]

was rushed to the ED after fainting and hitting my head today, so watching this in bed tonight has bought me so much comfort. you are the brightest sun beam emma!

[@micaelagonzalez71]

Loving your new-cat-mom enthusiasm and the whole flood of emotions. So happy for you. I miss having kittens. My three cats are old ladies already. One of them still acts, plays and runs as if she were 3, but she's 15 haha. I love her so much, I also cry when I think she's so old already. She's the one on my shoulders in my profile pic.

[@maryvandehei]

That emotional fragility you were talking about- it’s been happening with me a lot lately too. Last night I was hugging a few family members and I had this intense wave of love that was difficult to cope with, it felt like I could burst into tears or throw up lol. I work with children and it’s such a maternal and protective position that I look at these kids and am overwhelmed by how much love I receive from them. It’s quite the experience to have these moments of acute awareness of our situations, or rather, of the circumstances of our lives.

[@jennieandthebooks]

Welcome to the club...the "I love my cat with all of my heart and soul" club. Calcifer is beautiful!!

[@mahritty]

Oh no.. poor baby! i hope it gets better, but the best idea is probably to get him a friend in the same age, a max of 1y apart the shelter said to us :D but we actually got 2 brothers from the beginning cuz i just thought it would be better that way anyways. They are absolutly fine when we leave :)

[@Lokster71]

I'm on a Murakami read at the moment. I'm 13 books in. (I'm doing novels and short story collections.) It's quite a trip. You definitely get to see the Murakami tropes and his good and bad stylistic choices. I'm doing something similar with Tove Jansson. Thanks for the video.

[@juandbooks]

Hi Emmie, don't know if you keep reading the comments when the video is already a few days old but here i am once again, it's so amazing to see you grow (not only the channel but also you as a person, see your taste and now your little happy family, it just gives me so much joy), nice to see that your having an emotion and happy days.... i always (ALWAYS) watch your videos but life has been kinda of busy to comment on all of them just wanna say to you that you make me very happy and comfortable and at home here on your channel, its a peace of me even tho it's only you! you're a big big big inspiration in how you act, love, respect, and communicate! thank you

[@INORANizm]

Descartes! OMG! It's always good to read Philosophy. Big challenge. Awesome video! Thank you so much!

[@nicoledorman8484]

On talking about your emotions about Calcifer. I have a 4 year old cockatiel and sometimes I still look at him and start crying because I just love him so much. He also has separation anxiety. But so do I lol

[@lauragouveia4526]

i have been trying to overcome some very anxious months by just going out, being outside with friends and having fun. been really helping but i have also been so emotional ahahha. also, we appreciate you opening up about your partner a lot, pls keep sharing whatever you feel confortable doing!

[@dayrayme]

As a previous owner of two cats over my life and just an animal lover in general, I can say you're not alone in getting emotional by just LOOKING at them. There is something unbelievable about the way animals can make you feel. It's hard to explain. Also happy to see you thriving and feeling well lately. We all love this for you

[@ttwicecoloredd]

There are actually these stuffed cats you can get that have a little heartbeat on them to help w the anxiety! Our kitten never had separation anxiety, but for the first couple weeks while we integrated her (since we have dogs) she stayed in a bathroom but we left that thing in there with her and we’d often find her snuggled up to it. Might help!

[@vyomamody8901]

26:20 omg calcifer has my heart!!! living for the little video clips of calcifer

[@AthynVixen]

If that is Calcifer playing a wooden xylophone while you speak. I am SO here for that ;)

[@candivalkyrie]

I really love your vlogs. They're always so calm, and nice to watch late at night when I need to get ready to rest. For your skin issues, I found great relief with the Burts Bees collection! ELF has some great face cleaners as well.

[@aye.p]

Awww!! You are already an awsome mum for/to (Idk) Calcifer!!! I got so emotional when you talked about him!!! I'm SO happy for you!!! Hugs from Argentina🤗🤗

[@Tania.atlasinajar]

😮What is going on with all these back to back videos Emma?! Treating us too good over here! Eeeeep 😅❤

[@khalilahd.]

She’s the literal best. I love her consistency 💛

[@emmiereads]

haha having lots of fun filming things!!

[@starmere7463]

❤❤❤

[@alessiomotta4403]

Emma is special ❤️

[@denisefreitas6727]

Oh! Emma! Calcifer is so lovely! How not feel emotional about him? You are a great "mama", i know how you love animals! Hope you like A Winter's Promise, it's the first book of a serie that i really like. Kisses and hugs for you and Calcifer! 💖🐈🐾🐾😍✨

[@amandagarcia1166]

I'm combo oily/dry skin and I live on the east coast of the US and the humidity is awful in summer. I use products with tea tree oil in them, helps control and get rid of acne. I suggest using a face wash and gel moisturizer w/ tea tree in them.

[@weepingwillow901]

This week I am driving from Florida to Alaska to move and teach there! I have been hoarding books off your winter lists to help me get through my first Alaska winter so thank you for that!! Congrats on all the good things happening for you rn :)

[@leah-kf6et]

you're truly one of my comfort youtubers. i always enjoy your videos and i aspire to be as passionate about reading as you are! i hope nothing but the best for you and your new family :))

[@mlieser1230]

Cats and books make life so much better.

[@jstaversky]

Hi Emmie... I'm a huuuge reader too and been following you about a year or so. I am also a practicing Herbalist and over time I have found that physical symptoms very often have emotional roots, and as I was listening to you talk about Ozzie it occurred to me that the acne is literally things coming up from the depths and being processed and excreted by your body... I also thought about how you just came back from BC... clean air and a break from the rigid demands of an ordered life (part and parcel of "normal" life in the modernized West)... there is a component of grief to coming back to regularized life patterna from such a glorious trip like the one you just took. I guess my point is to do what you need to do physically and to keep following the emotional trail of discovery (about your inner workings) wherever it leads-- I think your instincts are right on!. So much love for you and your path in life... I absorb so much of that Way from your vids. 🧡💛💜💚💙❤

[@aleavril]

"you've heard from them before, but have you listened to them yet?" goddess marketing

[@maeiscompletelyfine]

CONGRATULATIONS FOR 300K EMMA!!! BEEN HERE BEFORE YOU REACHED 1K I THINK. I'M SO HAPPY AND PROUD OF YOU AND EVERYTHING YOU'VE ACCOMPLISHED. You're such a comforting presence here on YT.

[@eduardojefferson8736]

it feels so good to have a family like that, congratulations! believe me, calcifer feels your love and it overflows back into you. also having your partner be your best friend is just so cute and incredible. your channel has been such a comforting place to me lately, like i get home from uni and just can't wait til i sit down to eat something and watch your videos. it's pure serotonin, especially now that i feel so down sick and overwhelmed with college

[@rennyontherox]

I found you back when you were reading after dark and it prompted me to read 1Q84 as my first Murakami because that’s all my library had and I LOVED it and have read several since then and I own several of his books now. I have loved your channel since then too! 😄 Very excited for this!!!

[@lisannerietveld169]

Calcifer makes me so happy! Don't worry about feeling emotionally connected to your cat, I have the same thing.. I love her like she really is my own child. I really love your content, both about books and your life and they make my day. About my week, I have been training for my dance recital that takes place next year.. which I am very nervous and excited about (as I am every year) I hope you will have a good day!!

[@riikkainkeri432]

Omg I absolutely LOVED the Aurora Cycle series with my whole heart. I waited for the last book Aurora's End for a year and read it in one sitting, only pausing to eat. To me it was so entertaining and gripping and made me sob for a full hour in the end.

[@giorgiasias9190]

A winter’s promise is really a good book and the story only gets better as you go on with the series

[@mena4397]

I'm fully crying over cats with you! I've never had a kitten and I can't wait to have one one day, even if that future seems incredibly distant. Calcifer is the cutest, sweetest kitty ever I'm so happy you've got a little family that brings you so much joy

[@bethcruz1562]

From one cat mom to a new cat mom- much hugs! Calcifer is so lucky to have you guys! I’ve been fortunate to have had 6 cats previously share life with me, three of which with my partner as well. And now we just have one-my 7th, who we adopted at 10 weeks old. She’s now 8 years old…and still quite the queen brat, but we wouldn’t have it any other way ;) Also, she likes to try to chew on my books too at times; mostly because she knows it’ll get me up to feed her. Our fur kids grow up so fast!

[@Cevin.]

AHHH, I absolutely loved Homegoing, it literally became top 5 fav book for me, I think you should keep listening to it

[@agnese16]

a winters promise is AMAZING i read it last summer and i’m happy it finally came to america! it’s reaaaally big here in italy and of course in france. i loved it. amazing

[@TheA1995Dog]

Living in hot and humid area all my life, also having acne prone skin. Applied cucumber slices over my face for about 10min then apply hada labo snow dew moisturizer before sleep, it do helps on my skin ^^

[@alexandrat698]

you have a heart of gold, Emmie, and I wish you all the happiness there is in this world 🙏

[@Rkive.wonderland]

I’m so happy for you Emma! Sometimes when things in life line up and you look around and see the things you love, it’s okay to get emotional because it feels so right. I have cystic acne and the brand The Ordinary has really helped me. I really tried to simplified my skincare routine and that helped.

[@mwalters4941]

I'm so glad things are going well with Calcifer! My cats 14, but hes still our baby and he makes me cry at times too. Sometimes it's good to fill your life with things you wanted as a child, and sometimes it's a cat. My week has been pretty nice. I had friends over, and I'm teaching one piano. I started a new crochet blanket and am in the process of reading 3 books, a large improvement from my reading slump during school.

[@danielarodriguez9039]

im also reading haruki murakami’s hear the wind sing & pinball, i’m loving it

[@Meikcaj]

For separation anxiety in cats, sometimes it helps to play the radio/a podcast when you are out. In your case, I'd make a playlist of your videos and then play it for Calcifer when you leave. It'll both distract him from you and your roommate leaving and also calm him when you are gone as he'll be able to hear your voice.

[@linacarson9777]

For plants, I recommend hanging them from the ceiling, keeping them on high shelves, or keeping them on an outdoor balcony if they're safe for outdoors / full sun.

[@bobecker8818]

I live in the midwest and the summers are soooo humid and sticky. hyaluronic acid is really great because it retains water moisture so there's no extra oil but it keeps your skin hydrated so it doesn't need to produce excess!

[@spc.aesthetic]

“Ahh, books.” I have never related to Emma more 🤣❤️

[@bugsbunny2357]

I had the same emotional reaction to my orange tabby I rescued back in 2016. He is the sweetest cat in the world. He's so gentle (which sounds crazy because I'm sure he's an expert mouser). He's teaching me to be a different person. Thanks for expressing this outloud. A lot of us love our cats and they all have their own souls.

[@idkwth5056]

I love you Emma, your videos are the best part of my day as sad as that sounds. I'm also in love with my cat and it's kinda hard to see her and know that she might not be there after a few years. What really helps me with those thoughts it's just to think: every single moment I have present with you, I'm gonna fully enjoy and be fully aware of you. You can't control how they go, but you can control the time you have with them, so making her the most free and the cat with the most love in the world is my priority. Anyways, love you emmie thanks for your videos and I wish I could give you as much happiness as you give me. For now, I have to content with leaving you comments that you'll never read and be a shapeless number that you'll never know.

[@moyadetka]

Love Murakami. My favorite is Kafka on the Shore and his latest Killing the Commendatore. Listening on audio is great too especially The Wind-up Bird Chronicles. Hope you can enjoy his novels and the magical realism.

[@alainabloom5759]

I cry all the time when I look at my dog because in some odd way, I just can’t believe that she chooses me to care for her. She just unconditionally trusts me and loves me so much. Maybe there’s parts of me that feel unworthy of that (I am in therapy😂😂) but I am just so overwhelmingly aware that I am her whole life. I do not have children so I can not fathom the amount of love that that must be but when she listens, when I truly feel like she understands, or I see any amount of growth (like the other day she hiked off the leash and listened the whole time🥹) I just want to cry because I am so proud. And then the very cynical and sad part of me remembers that she isn’t going to live forever and when that thought hits me (again I am in therapy 😂) I just cry and cry and cuddle and cry but I think that’s the beauty of it all. It’s just so overwhelming that she chooses me with her life. It’s just an abundance of gratitude and love. Now I am crying

[@EgorKlimenko-]

These videos are so incredibly, peaceful. The video makes world better. Thank you so much 💙

[@mollybrewer8098]

Literally, I relate to the emotions when you look at Calcifer. I grew up with cats, but I could have one as an adult for a long time because I always lived in no pet places. When my husband and I moved to where we are now and could get a cat, I started looking and looked FOREVER at cats in our local shelters. My husband always just looked at me like, "What are you looking for?" It was hard to explain, but I knew I was looking for our cat. I knew that when I found him or her, I would just feel it. I looked for over six months, and one day, we were both at the shelter and I saw this gorgeous fluffy black cat and immediately just knew. This was our baby. We've had him since Feb. 2021, but even now, I look at him and I'm overwhelmed by how much I love this cat and how he really is our cat. He's so weird and so loud, but he'll hop on my lap or want to be held and he just purrs and it's just the best feeling. I love that you're getting to experience that cat connection!!! ❤️

[@hera2593]

The mirror visitor is really really good !! It is really unusual, and I loved it for that. In France, it's classified as both YA and adult !

[@honeyroseleareads]

I found my two cats in my garage and now it's almost been a year and they're truly a blessing. I honestly didn't think I'd get cats as a dog person but they've changed me a lot. Calcifer is just so cute I'm excited to see his journey!

[@jennymcevoy8961]

You are so sweet....how lucky he is to have found you 🥰🥰

[@kalyanikrishna9713]

Hey Emma, this is the first time I'm commenting here on your channel, but I have so much to thank you for! For starters, you pulled me out of my greatest reading slump of 2 years and I can never thank you enough for that. The lockdown was pretty harsh on me but luckily ( I have to thank my youtube algorithm) I stumbled upon your 100 book recommendation video and I kid you not, the energy ,passion and love you show towards reading reminded me of how I used to be once. From then on, I've been religiously following you, and god! Your videos are such a treat , they take me to this third world where it's me and you and this wonderful youtube family and your videos are oftentimes my break from a very stressful medical school life. But the best part has been watching you grow emotionally, mentally and now as an expanding family! ❤️ much love to tiny Calcifer ( I love all your Ghibli references)

[@joanneleeson516]

Emmie I love your channel. It is so uplifting. You are a clever and beautiful young woman.

[@Amanda-Yogi]

When you are ready to bring back plants(depends on how much room you have between the plant and pot) you can put tape sticky side up across the top of the planter, cats don’t really like sticky on their paws. Another option, you can put toothpicks or skewers in the soil so calcifer gets a little poke.

[@kieran163]

i just finished 1984, the first book of my summer reading assignment for ap english 11, while sitting with my cat on the screen porch! max is such a love and he made a dismal book so much more enjoyable. (i did enjoy the book, but hoooo boy it was heavy.)

[@Oaxara]

I know that this can get tricky sometimes (in terms of finances, getting them to get along, etc) but in terms of 'separation anxiety' you should really strongly look into getting another kitten or young cat (and this also extends to non-pandemic/post-pandemic separation anxiety too). One of the least known but most important things about cats is that they actually have a lot of social needs, particularly when they're so young. It's also a good idea because it's less work for you - when they're that young they're so energetic and they can get it all out by playing with a friend instead of wrecking your stuff. They lead happier lives and you have less work - it's a win-win! (I didn't know any of this stuff til I started fostering kittens, and let me tell you, having 2 kittens is so much better for you and for the kitties. I would recommend doing some more reading on cat socialization/having 2 kittens and it will give you a better sense of the benefits and how to do it right.) And I GET it about crying over your cat. I literally tear up about my cats weekly lol//end cat rant, and let's get back to books lol

[@PaulinaReadsss]

hey emma! you dont have to worry at all for not sharing your whole life, one thing i've learned of gorwing old is that privacy becomes a luxury once you start creating for own stuff. Also, I relate to you when you feel emotional for your cat. I had one when I lived alone and the pnademic happened, unfortunatelly I had to give him into adoption because I could not afford to live alone so I had to mobe with my dad and he was allergic as well... it was one of the hardest things I had to do. I've never bonded with a pet like that and I only had him for six months. I still cry when I remmember him, but once I live alone again I'll adopt cats that need my help. I live in Mexico so there are a klot of them on the streets

[@federubiowenk2859]

Cat tip: if they don’t use something (the cushion-bed) move it some place else. And for toys, they get bored of the same ones, so it’s good to have extra and rotate them.

[@kiranreader]

aw! your emotions for your cat were so touching!!! calcifer is such a cutie!!!!

[@aishatuffin8081]

calcifer is so adorable and i’m so happy for the little family your creating! cats are so adorable it’s not even funny my cat liquorice is literally the light of my life i couldn’t love anything more

[@sofiemarsh5325]

I love your videos Emma and they always make me feel better when I have been having a bad day. I have three cats and they are my world, they also get separation anxiety. Calcifer is sooo adorable

[@careyb1684]

My cat is also named Calcifer. I’ve never come across another until now. Enjoy your new family member.

[@Youthgirl1999]

I relate so much to the crying for no reason about your pet thing. There are times when I look at my dog and just start sobbing because of how much I love him and want the best for him 🥺

[@s.h.4770]

Congratulations for reaching 300k subscribers !! It usually takes a few months for a cat to settle and get into his own little routine. The first months with my cat I also tried to make him sleep in another room, but that drove him crazy and anxious (he also has big separation anxiety, plus he comes from a shelter). Now he's free to sleep wherever he wants and he's sooo quiet at night. But between those two phases there were a few weeks during which he kept waking me up at night, playing, running around. So it's normal if it takes a bit of times for things to settle :)