NEW| Marriage, Mahr, and Finding the One - Mufti Menk, Sh. Adnaan Menk, Sh. Ibraheem Menk

Heartfelt Sofa Chat at the Abdullah Aid event, Croydon, South London.
0:10 - How are you actually related?
2:10 - Why did you study Islam?
6:14 - The right age to be married
9:05 - When did Mufti Menk get married?
11:38 - How to approach someone for Marriage
17:52 - Parent's disagreeing with the choice of spouse of their son or daughter
22:58 - Just how much MAHR??
27:39 - Advice for anyone finding it difficult to get married
30:31 - Red Flags in a proposal
32:11 - Final advice to those married and not married
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I have a sister, 40ys and unmarried yet, May Almighty Allah grant her a good husband

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Ameen

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Allahuma Ameen

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Amin

[@iffathjahan210]

Ameen

[@sumeyagebewo1591]

May Allah grant her very good husband. Abshir Allah will grant her very good husband. she is not the only girls who remained single or too late to marry. Is the problem of majority of us. I think we are approaching to the last day or zemenul aakir. May Allah save us from the fitna.

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Please remember me in ur prayer brothers and sisters..I am so sick 😢😢😢

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May Allah grant you quick shifaa

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May Allah gives you shifaa

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@@fodaykelly3760Ameen

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May Allah grant you shifaa

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Syafakumullah, May Allah grant all my brothers and sisters where ever you are cure from the test of sickness. ALHAMDULILLAHI ALA KULLI HAL ,Aamin.

[@ilovemylord4599]

Did anyone notice the humbleness muftmenk's son in law has mashaAllaah he's modesty is great

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I noticed too masha Allah

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Please write Allah with capital A

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my sister lower your gaze lol

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@aaminadinath5994 what do mean. Is just a video

[@mrittikawahid7652]

The way Sheikh mentioned his wife "I wouldn't trade her for the world"❤❤ And also the most valuable advice, "become the person in character and conduct you would like to marry"

[@laughteralways4717]

Interview with Mufti Menk father? Regarding his legacy and how he has witnessed over the decades I’m sure he has some beautiful GEMS to share with us ❤

[@shamnas6800]

I'm 29 years old young man and still single, please pray for me my Brother's and sister's for Bring to me my spouse whom Allah created for me. May Allah protect us from zina.

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Ameen

[@saimamalik2028]

Please take my son and teach him same please please become uncle of my son too please

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Ameen

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Ameen

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Ameen

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Shk Adnan speaks so much like mufti menk

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Yes that's true 👍 and he is son in law to mufti menk

[@bonkersking]

Allahumabarik The grandfather is amazing for naturing such wonderful progeny may Allah bless him and reward him.

[@amsomedia-4498]

Thank you dear sheik i am 30 and unmarried yet, requesting your dua dear brother's and sister's

[@SaguftaZabeen]

May Allah bless you with a pious wife who will be the coolness of your eyes Ameen.

[@amsomedia-4498]

@@SaguftaZabeen Ameen jazakallahu khayrn dear sis

[@fana7181]

Iam 44y and Not married yet. So? 😅 Your dua is very welcomed

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​@@fana7181may Almighty Allah bless you with a pious wife,if I may ask why though

[@ashuus946]

May Allah grant you mercy to lecture us this knowledge of marriage

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❤

[@YkKani]

Wait so his MuftiMenks Daughter is married to Muftimenks brothers son?, thats like idk weird.

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Allahuma Ameen

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Thak

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Amin

[@saimamairaj7426]

I also got married at 19 and my husband was 23, we had no home or financial security and stayed with family for a few years. However we have everything today alhamdulillah. I would request the youth to please not delay your marriages due to not having financial stability,education,status,own home etc. Both partners can earn these together after marriage as well! I just recently completed an undergraduate degree, followed by a masters at the same time as my son. Education can be achieved after marriage also. My son is almost 30 and is also waiting till he achieves his goals then he will consider marriage, but I told him that his goals and expectations will continue increasing, but your marriage will continue delaying. The youth is overthinking and they need to let go, and understand that Allah is the provider, he will provide for you and your spouse after marriage too, inshallah. I would request the youth to please don’t delay marriage and to lower your expectations. Marriage is a beautiful blessing by Allah, and may he grant every one with a loving spouse and a happy successful marriage, Ameen!

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Ameen!

[@SamB54mb]

I was at this event last week, Alhamdulillah it was amazing to hear Mufti Menk and his nephews live. I hope he posts his solo talk as it was very touching and inspirational. May Allah swt guide us all to the right path and heal the Ummah 🤲🏼

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Maa Sha Allah.... Aameen

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AMIIN ❤

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Ameen ya Rabb

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Ameeen ya rab

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Ameen

[@narimanaidoo2778]

Assalamu alaykum alhamdullilah,this is a very beautiful topic .i have 3 unmarried daughter's.,in sha Allah i asked Allah Swt to grant them good spouse

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Inshaa Allah just think about your sisters boys or your brothers boys It's not Harram in lslam

[@narimanaidoo2778]

Wa alaykum salaam I can't because they all Christians .I am a Muslim raised by foster parents alhamdullilah,my siblings we were separated from our parents under the social workers so they grew up by Christian foster parents .my husband family are Tamil so it's a long story Jazakallah Hu Khair.

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@@narimanaidoo2778 May Allah continues guiding you and May he guide your daughters say Ameen And they will get married according to Allah's QADR (destiny ) inshaa Allah every one will get what was written to them

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My brother assalamualaikum,do you talk with them,if possible sit down with them talk to them about the good of islam,​if possible have more time with them Ishaallah@@narimanaidoo2778

[@tahiriqbal222]

May Allah find good spouses for your daughters, you should ask Allah subhanhu tala and he is kun fa ya kun. He is supreme power , he will make it happens what he wants to . Dua dua and dua …./

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i wanna make a family like this in shaa allah♥️🥰

[@syedanurihussain]

Everyone will pray for everyone. May Allah guide me and us. No one belongs except Allah. 🥺

[@hameedhabeevi722]

You are 100 percentage true...less money.less age marriage ...after some years hidden blessings pour upon . House car.children happiness... mashallah..

[@zawadzarif]

"Try to be the person in character and conduct whom you would like to marry."

[@farzan8143]

It’s absolutely true about marriage. The elder i get the more difficult is to chose someone.

[@hiyantiniya1074]

Assalamualaikum, Im turning 30 in 2024. I live where i don't have big circle to meet a men. After I graduated i live with my old parents, they often sick and cannot work to earn financially. I do work everyday 7 days in a week at local snack shop. I have show my interests in a marriage to my uncles because thats how we do on our community so the elders hopefully can help the single to find men/women. My parents has told me they unable to find due to their health issues and their incapable to seek. I realized my uncles has their own daughters and relatives, or their business and I've been trying to use some app to meet muslim men and trying my best to keep the boundaries and mindful of the religion of Allah when i use the app. Years to years, i still can not see the results. I've been trying to put other things to keep my focus in daily life, take care my parents provide our life expenses, and keep practicing islam. I told Allah, i want marry, i saying the dua every single prayer, i hope soon Allah bring me the men who can be my Imam.

[@nanatoul]

I can relate. You are not alone. InshaAllah Allah is keeping something best for us. We cannot understand how Allah does His plan, but have tawakkul in Allah. I am sure something great awaits us.

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Please how can i find you

[@hiyantiniya1074]

@@nanatoul Insya Allah.. Amin ya Rabbal'alamin. May Allah keep our hearts in sabr and ikhlas. Thank you for your support sister 🌼

[@onepiececonan]

same, turning 29 in 2024 and makes prayer and dua that allah swt will find me a good women to me soon Inshaallah

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Daily Dhikr Reminder 🌼♥️💚Bismillah 1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah 3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar

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May Allah ﷻ grant us all righteous spouses and make us worthy of them. Ameen.

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We Stand with Palestine from Bangladesh ❤️

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❤

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Free free palestine

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Sheikh Adnans modesty is just admireable Ma shaa Allah

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MashaAllah the nur on their faces ❤ blessed family

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Alhamdulilah i got married at the age of 22 but still no children of my own i pray Allah bless me with children by Allah will.and also put me in your prayers

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My sister is pregnant after a decade

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@@razamughal4582 Alhamdulilah Alhamdulilah Alhamdulilah that's great may Allah bless her more children Ameen

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What's your age noW

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Salam alaikum my brother in Islam .. l have been married for almost two years but I have not met my husband in person because off financial issues.. l pray Allah almighty Grant me long life good health and prosperity.. n help to sponsor my trip to my husband.. because Shanta is busy.

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May Allah give u multiple of Islamic children.

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Parents involvement is must mufti i have give this right to my parents InshAllah They will choose the best one

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Almighty bless you good children are blessings to the parents 💚Allah will bestow his mercy and your life will be best Inshaa Allah

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@@asmeeny1080 Aameen thanks Auntie

[@zaynahmatullah8566]

So True when there's a family of men behind us and they know that they treated you better. Speaking from experience when some of them know you don't have a strong support they mistreated you

[@youtubetekdin5651]

Allaahumma baarik. This topic resonates me since up until now, I failed to communication with guys with the intention to get married. But I know Allaah knows the best for me. Like Mufti Menk said, just "be the person in character that you wish to marry", Now I'm 41, trying to focus on self-improvement and do good deeds as much as I can and let Allaah find me my king till jannah, aamiiin tsumma aamiiin

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In Sha Allah you will find one ❤

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Inshaa Allah may Allah make it easy for us all 🤲

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May Allah grant u his choice of man that Allah want for u.

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Allāhumma bārik. I got married at 20 years of age. Married for over a decade now. ❤🤲🏽 May Allāh grant all of us spouses who are the coolness of our eyes, aameen.

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اسلام عليڪم شيخ Please make dua for me my medical enterence exams are comming ❤may allah increase ur knowledge and protect u

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Success is urs in shaa Allah. Go n excel

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One-day I'll meet this man in-sha ALLAH ❤

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This is everything I was asking Allah about and got every single answer I was waiting for subhannalah alhamdulillah

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Great chat! Insightful light hearted yet important.

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Great talk.....very informative! MashaAllah

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Subhana Allah.wonderful lecture ❤

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Such a beautiful family allahuma barik hom. They're like people from jannah. May Allah bless you all. May Allah protect and preserve you all ameen

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Amém

[@Daudsavage00]

Pls add me in your prayers, there was this guy who is good practicing Muslim upright conducts he came asking for my hand in marriage but my aunties rejected because he has no much wealth for big wedding they care about society and it broke my heart

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Subhanallah be with subra Allah Will guide your life

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So sorry about that. Put your trust in Allah. May he make it easy for you.

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May Allah help you sister for your aunties to change their mind.

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Sorry to hear that. May Allah guide your aunties.

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May Allah guide ur aunties..have trust on allah..

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I just bump into these video I can truly say that mufti menk is blessed

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Aisha Musah from Ghana may almighty Allah bless you all❤

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MashAllah. May Allah grant you the reward for that

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Thank you from the bottom of my heart mufti wonderful live session

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In India I have never seen FIL and SIL sitting so comfortably😅 Mashaa Allah ❤❤

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ALHEMDULILLAH! I would love more conversations about marriage inshallah! Jazakallah khair for this discussion!

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MAA sha Allah... Baraqoh lahu FIL kum... So amazing

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Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩❤

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Ma sha Allah, best lecture on marriage.l have learnt alot❤

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Amazing بارك الله فيكم

[@yerda92]

I am 23 and there is a girl I wish to marry. I pray that Allah unites us and makes it easy for us 🤲🏼 ameen

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Pray istikhara and ask Allah for answers

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@@habibahmed3191 will do thanks brother

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What a lovely talk.

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MashaAllah. May Allah bless you and your family. May Allah grant you Janattul Firdowes

[@bendankwah7823]

solid session as always

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Your daughter married to your brother 's son Your nephew Mashalla what a blessing

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Please write Allah with capital A

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Please write Allah with capital A

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It’s a cultural thing, marrying your cousin. Us first cousins grew up like siblings so it’s not something in our culture don’t normally do.

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Masha Allah tabarakal Allah May Allah bless you all May Allah guide us all on the straight path

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Masha Allah perfectly said ❤

[@gracious1790]

Masha Allah. May Allah (SWT) bless the Menk family for inspiring and spreading the message of Islam. Allahuma aameen.

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Wish it was longer!!!❤❤

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Masha Allah it is indeed the noor you all have, may ALLA SUBHA U TALLAH GRANT YOU Jannah ul Firdouz, Amieeen

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Please keep this coming

[@jamesmannah3750]

The closing remark by Ibrahim was very amazing and educative May Allah bless you guys Mashalla

[@farzanashafqat3857]

Ma Sha Allah it’s very beautiful and very important topic for our lives..May Allah guide us..Aameen and Jazakallah hiren

[@equityjustice2695]

This was so refreshing to listen to, we need more InShaAllah Ameen 🤲🏼 Especially three panel about marriage. So many people are not married yet 😞

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Amazing interview, combination of talent , wisdom and religion. ❤

[@darkwolfs9301]

Im just try marrying window she is 27 years also im 24 also virgin! Pls pray for me to have mawada wa rahma wa sakina! May Allah keep it easy for every muslim🤍

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Allahuma Ameeen

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Mufti Menk may Allah give you his goodness and Allah bless you ❤

[@CompanionHafizuddin]

Outstanding performance ❤

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Am really enjoying this

[@The-Lemonz]

Love from Canada 🇨🇦 🍁

[@SaguftaZabeen]

Allahumma barik, may Allah grant me a family like yours Ameen 💝

[@rkk77]

Ma sha ALLAH very beneficial session may ALLAH SWT protect and preserve the blessed Menk family aameen❤❤

[@shazia7941]

Masha Allah, Tabarak Allah, such knowledgable and humble individuals.. The NOOR on their faces is beaming, Subhan Allah❤

[@mohammadadrees5263]

Mashallah May Allah bless you all. This was a very helpful session. Jazakallah

[@amyamara5349]

You all have Noor because you are truly amazing personality

[@aidahsilver63]

This evening.I dreamt about Mufti Menk MashaAllah ❤

[@AbdulKareem-rl7zq]

Beautiful are the women that display modesty, handsome are those men that lower their gaze. May our future wife/husband be firm on Islam, and live by this quote Ameen. I pray this is our last Ramadan alone- for the ppl seeking a righteous marriage.

[@Sumi2379]

Ameen ya Rabb🤲🏽

[@fridawsbamba1641]

Allahuma Ameeen

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Ameen yarabi

[@trinbagomaplemorocco7099]

Mashall'Allah love this ❤

[@banguramohamedlamin8126]

May Allah increase your knowledge, wisdom and understanding for educating us in marriage. Your guys are really my mentors, and you communicate the same way 🙏🏽 Hamed from Sierra Leone

[@hijabigirl18]

Mashallah all of them have so much resemblance. Hope we will get more videos of all of them together. جزاك الله خيرًا for bringing me back to islam mufti

[@sahraluujiyano6]

Maasha Allah Allah blessed them all the family

[@At_bb]

I woke up and took my phone, log in to KZbin and saw this video recommendation. I was like why did mufti menk put 3 mufti menk in his thumbnail. Then my eyes went to read the caption, then realized they are Mufti menk alike with mufti menk 🤣😍

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😂😂😂

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😂😂😂😂

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Subhana Allah,I learn something Masha Allah❤❤❤

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MashaAllah Tabarkallah… Mufti may Allah grant your parents success in this world and hierafter 🌷🌷🌷

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Please write Allah with capital A

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Ma'Shaa'Allah may Allah bless you all ❤. I'm not yet married but Alhamdulillah I learn a lot from you guys Ma'Shaa'Allah.❤❤

[@germaineboatwala-sidhva1079]

That had depth and humour! These three "young" men have a great grasp of marriage and life. Thanks for the questions too. I have forwarded this to family and friends. 😊

[@zuhuraabdi8989]

Walai I started my marriage just because of the deen i saw in my spouse we didn't have wealth and a long the way Allah has made us abtaain wealth. It the intention and walai

[@munahahmed2310]

MashaAllah JazakaAllah kheyran. May Allah grant you goodness in this Dunya and hereafter and may Allah bless you abundantly ameen 🙏

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Ameen ya Rabbi 🤲🏻

[@nhaz652]

Insightful subhanallah

[@Salafi-Manhaj514]

Daily Dhikr Reminder 🌼♥💚Bismillah 1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah 3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar

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Ma shaa Allah Tabarakallah. Blessed family. May Allah SWT keep u safe, happy & bonded till Jannatul Firdaus

[@afsheenayaz4010]

Maza agaya ha sch m ❤ Jazak Allah khair

[@Firdaws224]

This is so adorable

[@hajarahwanyana1585]

Subhana'Allah Alhamdulillah Allahu Akbar. Such a wonderful and inspiring lecture. May the Almighty reward you all for your continued wisdom and advice. We appreciate you all 🤲

[@tyba50]

JazakAllah khair mufti

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Presently true picture of Islam.. how it's to make our lives easy,comfortable..MashaAllah

[@yasmeendulvi3972]

Subhanallah Alhamdulillah Baarakallah one person makes all the difference May Allah bless your father May Allah accept all that that he did

[@uzz_air]

Love from INDIA 🇮🇳

[@mdriduwan2477]

Beautiful may Allah keep them safe

[@ashrefsafisafi8578]

Mufti Menk and the family so lovable I truly enjoy listening to their conversations May Allah bless us all آمین 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@noraisaesmail5767]

Mash Allah tabarak Allah,May Allah grant bless you all Aameen❤

[@aminakhan4864]

MashaAllah its always so amazing to listen to you mufti Menk. Glad to see you along with ur family members MashaAllah..... May Allah bless your father for bringing up righteous offsprings MashaAllah.... May Allah make us like him so we can put the love of Islam in the hearts of our kids as well Aameen

[@Fati-wv2dt]

Maa shaa Allah may almighty Allah bless you more ❤

[@CompanionHafizuddin]

Assalamualaikum