Celebs Who Are Still Married But Living Separate Lives

[@NickiSwift]

Which of these celeb couples do you think should just split up?

[@ryanhealey8587]

It’s not my business to judge their relationship.

[@dollydagger4306]

Most of these, especially the ones where the celebs are acting like being married and having to spend time together with the spouse is like being on death row. Dolly Parton's flippant attitude about her husband and she cheating on each other ain't a good sign. When you take a dog off the leash.... Oh yeah... What about the secret of a good marriage is to "not talk about the marriage?" Is that like pleading the Fifth? Unless a marriage is broken beyond prepare, married people should be talking about their marriage--and not analyze it to death. If two people love each other, they want to make the other spouse happy or try to resolve any issues. It's called communication? If SJP's feeling about not talking about the marriage is good, then maybe there's problems not addressed fueling denial and resentment. Ironically in the second SATC movie, Carrie Bradshaw and her husband John Preston aka "Big" begin to live seperate lives and her friends in the movie are concerned. SJP is so fake. She is all facade. If she smiles any harder, her face would crack. Sleepovers? What, are they dating? The man is her *HUSBAND*. When SJP and Matthew Broderick do meet each other on occasion and they have stuff to share, they probably meant the pool boy. Julia Roberts and Danny Moder act like buddies and nothing more, Julia also seems a bit weary and flippant, like she'd rather be anywhere else than sitting with her husband. I felt tension between them. Kiss her on the cheek, dude--or vice versa. I guess they don't hold each other's hand much. Kim and Kanye? My guess is Kanye is not the easiest person to live with and that a little Kanye goes a long way. That I CAN understand. My ex ex ex psycho, smothering, over possessive, controling, flying-off-the-handle boyfriend/fiance was hard to be around and I could only handle him in small doses. I wanted a separate life away from him, that I refused to talk to him on the phone every week. He always wanted to start a fight or argument and I said NOPE. Just think if I had married him!!!

[@mimilini1]

Matthew Broderick and Sarah Jessica Parker. Hasn’t the poor man suffered enough?

[@levigarrett6884]

So much money makes them feel nothing... And the sad thing is that they think it is normal...

[@margaretstevenson5492]

mimilini1 ,

[@DinoHF79]

This is the sadist video I've ever seen! My husband & I were married 35 years & spent everyday & almost every moment together, until he died 4 years ago. I miss him everyday!

[@DinoHF79]

@Starchildfrom 90s that's ownership though, not love. It's like tagging an animal in the wild. You hunt them down, check their health, tag them, track them, watch them from a distance, & put them in a cage if they can't survive on their own. That's preservation not love!

[@FA_2_Pilot]

DinoHF79 I what what you had- these new convienen marriages are Not my cup of tea... ❤️❤️❤️

[@goodone8516]

You had the right idea of marriage my dear.

[@Zero0Karma]

Sorry but that's not marriage, that's an arrangement.

[@jingyun4323]

You're one of the truly lucky ones that have such an amazing love. It isn't like this anymore.

[@vassa1972]

Please no more Kardashian videos

[@Luvie1980]

And no more TS videos

[@vassa1972]

@@Luvie1980 ts?

[@juliemcroberts131]

The Kardashian Clan - So tired of the entire family. No one cares about these shallow and ruthless people. I would rather wash my kitchen floor, than listen to their whining.

[@zeebee9356]

peter papadimitriou; ThrashDashian videos right?

[@elliest55]

still better and less vomit-inducing than Trump-Melania videos

[@sydandtaytum]

if no kids are in the picture, then separate lives are fine. but if there are kids, it is extremely selfish to be a 'weekend parent' like jamie oiliver said...having 'separate lives' while there are kids just means the kids grow up in a cold home, devoid of intimacy and a example of a loving relationship. they will grow up to have very messy relationships of their own

[@aisyafadhilaofficial]

I agreed

[@Gwenesis]

Plus, Jamie Oliver was talking about expanding...stop.

[@ayodari_style]

Even if there aren’t children, why get married to somebody to live a life apart from them? It sets you up for failure in the sense you’ll drift apart.

[@americandee7721]

Never stay together for your kids! That is horrid for them and the parents

[@riobrasilsambashowssambist1453]

Exactly :it's called anxious attachment in the 4 types of attachment. Kids can't develop healthy attachment in insecure relationships

[@aherrmie]

My 27 year marriage ended last year, distance and his cheating. Space and doing your own thing is fine, to an extent. If you let it go too far, your relationship really suffers. Bigly. I’ll never marry again.

[@pattycake9856]

Don't ever, say never. You will met someone that will fall madly in love with you and that will change your mind. God bless

[@5yogurt]

@@pattycake9856 Never say never.

[@nofybn7794]

@@pattycake9856 You don't know that. You don't know me.

[@pattycake9856]

wordwan, just trying to be positive but you are so right marriage definitely isn't for everyone. God bless

[@aherrmie]

Thanks for the replies. I hope I do find someone that will make me change my mind, but right now the thought of opening myself up to that kind of betray, again is pretty terrifying. I still have a lot of healing and mourning to do first.

[@namechange.136]

I don't like being with my bf all the time. I like my own company sometimes. We've been together over 10 years now. Not every couple needs to spend every minute together. Whatever works for you.

[@KayleeCee]

Hey, same here. My guy and I have been together for 9 years. We live in the same house and sleep in the same bed. We have dates and together time, but we also have independent hobbies and personal spaces in our house. It works for us.

[@namechange.136]

@solt solt That's up to you. Every relationship is different.

[@GiaBlinks]

Agree. I've been with my husband 23 years. Sometimes I want my space. I think people who don't understand have not been in long term relationships.

[@clarkshann]

Same here. I'm not clingy GF. I need my space. All I need is for him to let me know he wants me around.

[@BayouBarbie504]

some people are natural introverts. it's best when you identify with someone who is similar in that regard. people who require constant human contact couldn't deal with this. it's probably Julia and Danny's issue. humans are different, we just have to be aware of ourselves and how we treat others.

[@l.c.boogie1219]

I often wonder why some celebrities get married if they aren’t willing to actually take on the responsibility that comes with being married.

[@97indianuk]

Lamar Childers it’s not really a responsibility to be married. Having kids is a responsibility

[@97indianuk]

Onion Face not really. That’s an excuse for women to become enslaved and take care of everyone and put themselves last. Your life is your responsibility. Marriage is an effort yes but not a responsibility because both partners are not responsible for each other.

[@Jesuscares7680]

You can tell Julie R is just trying to be positive about what is going on...the hubby looks vacant ...face tells all..

[@cocodakilla]

Lol she deserves it. She really shamed his ex while they cheated together

[@lazyhomebody1356]

@@cocodakilla Yep! She got what she deserves

[@nancythompson9391]

well, he was bought @ paid for!! rumors!

[@1171]

Mary Louise My husband and I married 50 years and new each other a while before marriage we love each other and we respect each other and we have never been apart from each other . I love him and he loves me we truly like each other and we always have we wouldn’t have ever wanted to be apart. Most people if they are in love don’t part and Julia you weren’t comfortable with that arrangement of your husband staying n another house and you alone ask your self why you married that man and what in the world are you doing that he’s rather selfish and you are alone If he cannot remember why he was in love with you and is this going to be the way you live are your children having a great example of how a married couple live ? I wish you all well but in my opinion of living apart is one is very selfish and not being respected. The key is respectful behavior towards each other and loving each other . But if you stay married you will fool me Julia is one of the best actresses in Hollywood and she was showing her not so happy face Good luck to you both and husband wasn’t bothered about being apart from you. If he loves you maybe you can work it out but young an apart from each other isn’t the key for helping work out his apparent as the person above says Hes vacant about wishes to stay away . I pray that you have love and happiness and we all age and change and when that happens are you going across the way to your mates house and help him with his health issues and is he going to love you enough to help you out if you have severe problems? That’s silly to live apart with surf 🏄 board put up on a wall what a companion to share your life I’m sure he will have moved on long ago!

[@1171]

Coco Pops if he cheated on her he will cheat àgain.

[@benadams3569]

virtually all of these relationships, I found myself asking, "why bother?" seriously...why are you even "together?"

[@RationallyMe]

Answer: Because it's their lives and they choose to be.

[@Dee010s]

I say that anytime anybody gets married. In 5 to 20 youre gonna divorce anyway.

[@windsongmoonchild6400]

The "marriage" thing is just front. They're trying to keep up public appearances and lead their children to believe they're families are united.

[@contardi]

Bem, the answer is Money.

[@Mika-cw9mw]

This isn't as crazy as it sounds after you've been married for years. But being able to finance this option isn't for everyone.

[@yvetterene]

If it works for you...DO IT! No reason why you should let “societal norms” dictate your life!!!

[@97indianuk]

I agree with you. Life gets so much better when you make yourself happy and don’t give a DAMN what people think.

[@joygrace7924]

Amen! Be who you are and love the one who you are with.

[@97indianuk]

Madison Daily as long as it’s a happy and safe environment with two happy parents that’s all that counts. It’s better than being stuck in an unhappy, toxic miserable environment “just because of the kids” who will see the bad atmosphere and grow up and learn the toxicity.

[@Coco-chrispy]

If you can’t live with your husband you probably shouldn’t be with him. Lol

[@yvetterene]

Madison Daily So...what are married people SUPPOSED to act like? Please, let us know...

[@pattycake9856]

I have always been a loner. I have been married for over 40 years. A lot of people would say we live separate lives and I guess we do. We always manage to spend a few hours together each day. The majority of the time he is working or involved in church duties. The distance doesn't brother me any more, but when we were younger it did. God bless

[@tibbyjoys]

I think a few hours a day is not separate lives it seems you give each other space . Separate lives to me is days and weeks apart.

[@geo-george2639]

@@tibbyjoys Exactly. A few hrs a day together is perfect.

[@birdiespeaks374]

Kim and Krazy's marriage is nothing more than a business arrangement.

[@americandee7721]

Beyonce and Jay-z are the same

[@chercher304]

Thank u

[@chercher304]

@@americandee7721 thank you!!

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

But that is marriage

[@roxyhaze6955]

@@americandee7721 and jada n will smith

[@doreenmitchell7596]

I believe relationships thrive when couples live their own lives but still get together and spend quality time together. Sounds good to me!!

[@sincarter4637]

Let’s address Julie Roberts talking about Surfing being his girlfriend... she was literally about to cry... . Quite upset over a hobby? Something is quite suspicious :(

[@Jo-chilin]

Leigha Carter ya that was sad. She was trying to play it off but you can tell it’s hurts her

[@birdsfan57]

Julia Roberts looks like it's taking every ounce of her being to hold it together and not burst into tears. That's so ironic, because she has always come off as a bit of a snarky, overconfident primadonna. That old saying about karma coming back to bite you in the ass seems to be what she's now experiencing. After all, she practically "stole" this Danny guy from his wife and she's left quite a few others "at the alter" and "in the dust". As far as SJP, well...that marriage has been a "sham" for years. Why do you think she had so much fun playing Carrie Bradshaw, who got to bed all the studly, handsome guys in Sex in the City, and why she was all too eager to reprise her role in the two movies and the unsuccessful bid for a third? She just LOVED her role opposite Chris Noth. I honestly believe she developed quite an affinity towards him. If you notice in a few recent photos taken with Mr. Broderick, they both look not interested and none too happy. Now...let's talk about the George and Amal "facade"...

[@sincarter4637]

I’m so with you Both! Idk what is going on with these couples. I’m so surprised to see these people living lies and the pain. She’s pitiful looking and Danny just looks down

[@slab6046]

Wow that wasn’t good

[@BadTV1993]

she just picks bad men,,and she is not a good woman either

[@AP-kp8zs]

Every relationship is different , I love my fiancee but the idea of side by side townhouses with an connecting entrance sounds amazing. We would have our own spaces but a single bedroom sounds like heaven

[@rem2267]

My dentist and her dentist husband have been together for 30 years and share 3 houses together and their office space. There are 2 rooms, 2 exam chairs, etc., but no door in-between. I don't know how they do it. They have one daughter who is away at college. They seem to thrive living and working on top of each other. I don't know how they do it, but both are super nice and great dentists. God bless 'em. I am 51 and have never had the desire to marry. My mom tells me that I have expressed that thought since I was 6 years old. Go figure.

[@naomiemoore5725]

Sounds like my dentist's too. I was married, but better off living alone. Not everyone wants or needs to be married. It's your life, be happy and ignore those that don't support you.

[@rem2267]

Your dentist is married to another one as well? LOL, who knew? (Must be a thing...) I agree with you100%. Sometimes people are just better off living without their significant other, or just be on their own, period. Some people stick it out for the sake of the kids or have another one to try to repair their relationship. That hardly ever works, and all that happens is the couple gets more and more bitter, which is DETRIMENTAL to the kids. Messed up!

[@arx754]

A woman I met a couple of years ago told me she was divorced after about 25 years of marriage and 3 kids. He traveled a great deal, and it was only after the 25 years that she learned he had another wife and 2 kids in another city. Oops. He married her first, btw. Anyway, she dumped him upon learning this but the other wife decided to "keep" him. You hear about such things, but I never thought I'd meet someone who experienced it.

[@LynRuiz]

arx754 that’s pretty much what all this “healthy separate lives” crap is. It’s people who like the convenience of a permanent partner as needed and they have their close go-to person(s) outside the relationship.

[@arx754]

@@LynRuiz : Doesn't bother me at all what other people choose because it's none of my business and has zero impact on me.

[@LynRuiz]

arx754 you’re very lucky then. In my own and my husband’s field, this causes tensions when colleagues and associates assume you have similar lifestyle and you’re put in uncomfortable positions. I have a close female relative who does this and it affects her parents, children, and friends. Again, you are blessed it has no impact on you, but it affects some of us out here.

[@Tapersy111]

There is a book called "The pilot's wife" that is a very similar story line. Its a great book... Not so much a good true life story 😭

[@arx754]

@@Tapersy111 : I'm an avid reader, so I'm very familiar with that book although II haven' read it. Sounded too depressing.

[@demh7823]

Oftentimes being apart can be good for a marriage. Familiarity can breed contempt.

[@tmroadrunner]

If the key to keeping your marriage is maintaining 2 houses to stay seperate, your marriage is a joke.

[@HeatherLorien38]

Living separate but together lives speaks well of keeping your identity in check. You don't have to always be Mr. and Mrs. Plenty of couples throughout history had their own apartments, even sleeping apart,and their marriage was stronger for it. It's honestly what I would want. Being around another person 24/7 is damned hard.

[@97indianuk]

I agree with you so much. It’s better to be independent because then you know you actually want them in your life. It’s not healthy to “need” someone. Codependency is toxic.

[@shaibullard8870]

They all cheating

[@lavayuki]

Kim and Kayne have always been a mystery to me

[@geo-george2639]

To themselves too.

[@clarky23]

after all these years, I'd still like to know WHY Kim is famous.

[@katiempojer]

Lava Yuki they work who cares

[@SACHKIGAL]

Hmm, wonder how many of them are cheating when they are in separate parts of the world??

[@LynRuiz]

Sachkico R they all are cheating. That’s why they have separate lives. It’s basically open marriage.

[@michaeladkins6]

@Onion Face Not everyone has the same views on marriage. Monogamy doesnt work for everyone.

[@tmroadrunner]

All of them lol, every single 1.

[@katiempojer]

Whatever works

[@shaibullard8870]

I feel that they are all delusional 🤦and need help cuz this makes no sense what the point of being married if your gonna be away from one another and cheat?? Did they not mean what they said in they're vows

[@Lorettaforbes1]

sleeping in separate rooms is okay, if you have a spouse who snores it will save your marriage

[@Granny21]

Ami Myers only the spouse of a true snorer can really understand 😂I have to use ear buds & audiotapes

[@amandaschroeder799]

12 yrs strong! We lived in separate states for 2 1/2 yrs, we take separate vacations, sometimes, this kinda life just works! ❤

[@katiempojer]

Amanda Schroeder I’m for it

[@articgoneape]

I think there are some folks who are fearful of time apart with their spouse. Having time apart isn't all that bad! When my husband goes on short work trips (for few days), it is nice to have a break! lol Such as: He hates Pizza Hut and I love it. When he is gone for a few days, I order a large pizza from there and eat it all! LOL

[@lizdelisle1912]

It allows you to stay true to yourself and not lose your inner identity. It’s easier to compromise the other person’s needs and desires when you have enough space to do the things that make you fulfilled.

[@nofybn7794]

A few days is fine. There is a big difference between a few days and a few months/years.

[@Raesling1]

@@lizdelisle1912 It also helps keep you interesting to each other as partners.

[@_serenity3298]

@A Girl right, time to tell him to show her his phone. If he's hesitant or unwilling then...

[@ValerieVfc]

Living appart has been around for ages. Our ancestors went off to war, grand-parents had to work away on major projects, and it's the same today. So living apart for long periods of time isn't unconventional imo.

[@marialewis6432]

So why get married at all?

[@lolife3636]

You cant compare people going to war because they HAD to and people who are acting or modeling and choose to be away from their families.

[@ValerieVfc]

@@lolife3636 I didn't. I used examples, such as going off to war, to explain how long distance relationships can work. I am not comparing going off to war with being a celebrity. I think I used this example because it has happened in my family, I don't mean it as disrespect.

[@KD-wz8tp]

Dolly Parton, "We have a little RV," AKA palace on wheels😂

[@SunshineSkully]

My husband travels a lot with his job and is away from home over 300 nights a year. Have been married to each other for 18 years now. We both know this is the only way marriage would survive for the both of us LOL! I completely understand this way of being married. I never in a million years would have thought to like or agree with this way of marriage...where you barely see each other. Maybe it wouldn't work if we were married to someone else, but for us it's perfect!

[@show_me_your_kitties]

Wow 300 nights? So you only see him 2 months out of the year? I'm glad you found something that works for you. I could never do that, I would not be able to stay interested or faithful in that long of an absence. My fiance did two tours in Iraq, 15 months the first time and 10 months the next. I was able to wait for him because I knew when he came home, he would be with me every day. But if he would indefinitely be gone like that... there's no way. But differences is what makes others and life interesting, I hope you have a good day :)

[@Crystalbomb321]

I've never cheated but I don't see how someone can stay faithful being away from their partner that much for that long.

[@kayyjohnson8325]

@@Crystalbomb321 right, I dont see how people do long distance. I cant take it serious, its not even really just about trust, I have to see you like 2-3 times out the week and I have to see you physically plus I love sex

[@treasure2behold282]

Why bother getting married if you like being separated ?

[@lisacox3750]

I think in reality, if most regular people could afford it they would lead separate lives from their spouses too. Every married couple I know talks about how you don’t really know a person until you live with them. Most of these people didn’t live together until after they got married. So, I really think people would be happier if they could afford to live in separate quarters/apartments/houses.

[@katie4623]

Who the hell are Greenberg and Chung?!?

[@marieantoinettescake9513]

Thank You!👍 I was thinking the same thing of these Nobody types

[@cynmann4584]

K Lu, who cares?

[@disciplesvoice9104]

Chung is from MTV road rules

[@marie-soleildobie984]

Greenberg played in the One tree Hill serie.

[@bunny_fang4664]

She played in Suckerpunch and he played in The Perfect Score

[@loudloveen]

Marriage is sharing your life with someone. If you manage to do that from a distance, fine, otherwise you just have a contract stating you're married really, which is really silly when there are so many interesting people in the world for you to be alone and married at the same time.

[@randomkeir]

Being married doesn’t mean you have to be up under each other 24/7. Far too many people are trapped in loveless marriages because they’re afraid of being alone. It’s a known fact that people who can’t be alone, by themselves, make for bad partners. Every serial monogamist out there is afraid of being alone.

[@digapygmy70]

I read that in the early or mid 2000s, housing experts were saying that two master bedrooms would become more and more common by now. Then the housing market crashed and everything went to hell, so now I think if couples don't have to live with a roommate, they're doing all right

[@911SuzieQ]

I wish i was rich enough to have an adjacent home to my hubby .. he is way to messy for my liking !!

[@r.r.r9746]

Same here ✋

[@SosaSal_]

Suzette Campo yes!!

[@wewemcrhyne]

Me too. He seems to think I’m his maid. I don’t mind cleaning, but damn, at least close the closet door!

[@911SuzieQ]

Wewe Mcrhyne yup... i have had to make him move his clothes upstairs he now uses upstairs bathroom and closet .. and occasionally i make him sleep upstairs.. I’m not the maid lol

[@luannfarris8481]

@@r.r.r9746 I’m

[@tamsynjackson5008]

A lot of theses couples seem like they are trying to make something that isn't working work in very expensive ways

[@LeannaCherner]

Personally I just don’t think we should judge their relationships cause we legit don’t know what’s going on. There is no type of perfect marriage and if they are doing whatever makes it work, good on them.

[@soilgrasswaterair]

Leanna Cherner true. Ut if you rather spend more time away from your partner than with, then it might be a good thing to find someone you’re more compatible with. These people seem to choose partner based on crushes and not much depth.

[@patriciamontgomery658]

I do not believe this. It is a lie celebs choose to live

[@LeannaCherner]

Patricia Montgomery in what way? Lol

[@patriciamontgomery658]

Then do not call yourselves a couple. And marriage is bring mocked

[@cashk100]

Did you forget about Will Smith and Jada Pinket Smith’s open marriage????

[@cashk100]

Elijahjsmith22 Jada has confirmed, watch all her interviews.

[@janelleallen6934]

Chile Yes dear God bless you and your ( s).. openly.. no secrets.. baby. you see me with another company.. you already know.

[@geo-george2639]

Will Smith is as gay as a 2-dollar bill.

[@oliviamae3281]

I don't know anyone that could stand Julia Roberts full time, so kudos to him for still being married to her.

[@Coffee4commonsense]

Thank you!!! When she passive aggressively said “ Surfing is his girlfriend and I’m his wife “, my eyes rolled like a slot machine. Why can’t the poor guy go surfing? Is he not allowed to have his own hobbies?

[@oliviamae3281]

@@Coffee4commonsense yes, I know, I thought 'cringe". I think I'd take up surfing if I was married to her, surfing in Honolulu..... Lol.

[@Sandy-Texas-]

If you're married and live a separate life.. you aren't really married.

[@80budokai]

Awesome video! Enjoy your Tuesday! 💯🙏🙌

[@bridgetdraper5146]

My husband and i live apart because i have a disabled son from my last marriage and the stress of this and running businesses together became very stressful. Since making this decision things have been so much better for us!

[@ThePHYL]

While some couples are apart because one is filming.....the rest are only together for short periods of time.....my husband and I are married 33 years and I very much enjoy him being home with me....I still think he is the funniest man I have ever known....we talk for hours and yes the spark is still there between us

[@carolynsmith9172]

You are blessed!

[@ThePHYL]

@@carolynsmith9172 THANK YOU CAROLYN, I THINK ABOUT THAT A LOT....I PRAYED A LOT OF YEARS FOR A TRUE MAN...STARTING DATING SOMEONE FROM CHURCH, I KNEW FROM FROM OUR 3rd DATE THAT I FOUND THE MAN ....YES GOD BLESSED ME...

[@reginaphalange7074]

@@ThePHYL wow I wonder if I'll ever get that lucky Just being married to your best friend for 33 years Life must be heaven on earth :) ❤️ God bless you

[@respecthewoman]

Awww I think living separately can really save a lot of marriages. Sometime when you're in each others face you become cranky and bored. Nice to miss each other, makes the heart grow fonder if its truly meant to be.

[@ascent8487]

That SJP thing is my dream come true. I’ve said I wanted to live next door to my husband since I was like 7 years old. Living in the same house with him seemed a terrible idea.

[@ascent8487]

That’s true. But woody Allen was in that relationship. I figure I’ve won part of the battle what with no woody Allen.

[@geniemeadows5122]

@Ascent...yeah that'd be great. Close enough for protection but next door for peace and quiet.

[@lazyhomebody1356]

Me too! I told my mother the same thing

[@RelaxingPouringRain]

Who came here after watching the thumbnail hits like

[@johniii8147]

Being together all the time is overrated

[@jglow22]

...and too much work!

[@beccablueeyes99]

If it works, and the time the spend together is focused and present. I don't have a problem with it. It's better than couples that spend lots of time together, but are not engaged and don't really communicate.

[@caramia4143]

"controversial chemistry" that's a new one 😂😂😂

[@sandracastle42]

Really enjoyed this. Thank you.

[@marywatkins9438]

This is definitely an upper-middle class trend. Most of us don't have the financial privilege of living lives apart from our spouses without difficulties.

[@michaelrg3836]

12:38 - great photo of Broderick! The moustache and glasses work.

[@shananalexander9789]

I was married 27 years. Married the same man twice. Longest 27 years of my life.

[@carolynsmith9172]

😂😂😂

[@geo-george2639]

You a slow learner?

[@shananalexander9789]

Nope. Just married a liar

[@reginaphalange7074]

@@shananalexander9789 what'd he lie about

[@pushpachopade4282]

I didn't know I needed to know this

[@ImHisMrs77]

I can honestly say that I can't relate to this. My husband and I have been together for twenty two years and married for twenty years this July and we are more loved up than ever. We are best friends and could happily spend all day every day together. I do encourage him to get out with his friends sometimes mind you and obviously, he works (I'm too ill to work, sadly), but he chooses to stay with me for the majority of the time. I know that we got very lucky, just like my parents did and our way doesnt work for lots of people. I just couldnt imagine living a separate life from him.

[@namechange.136]

I wish I was rich enough to have my own wing!

[@911SuzieQ]

Name Change. Haha i just posted this exact thing before i read your post lol

[@Chewbecca101]

Totally. Especially when stuck with a snorer. Sleep deprivation does NOT a happy marriage make.

[@lazyhomebody1356]

Oh yes! I told my mother when I was eight that I wanted to live in England and that I would live in the West wing and my husband could live in the East wing. I don't know where I got it from

[@dreaddybear8366]

@@lazyhomebody1356 TV

[@lazyhomebody1356]

@@dreaddybear8366 The movie Rebecca, now that I think about it. Weirdly, I loved b&w movies as a child

[@SpookySammy]

Weekend parent 🙄

[@Kaicenatthemanyurr]

A little time apart makes the heart grow fonder

[@pattylowe1083]

I can’t believe you had a beautiful smile at the end of all the work🤪

[@Andypandieful]

We both have our own master bedroom. Love it. Conjugal visits😛. Separate homes across the street would be even better.

[@adoRebelstyle]

These people don't sound happy. It sounds like they settled on an arrangement that helps them remain married but not in love and not happy. My opinion.

[@Jvhh9]

Confused how this is an issue, my parents were one of the only still married couples I knew until my dads passing. They both lived their own lives and got along well when together like to the point I never witnessed a fight.

[@RationallyMe]

It's only an issue for judgmental people who think they get to pass judgment on how others choose to live their lives. Most of these people still believe in fairy tales and will, eventually, learn that life is REAL and there is no "normal"; so people should do what works for them.

[@RoyalWatcher1985]

I admire Julia Roberts love for Danny Moder. I don't know anything about him so I can't see what she sees in him, but, he must have something to keep her so in love all these years.

[@hardren101]

traditional marriages dnt work for everyone.....because your married does not mean you and your spouse need to be conjoined twins.....you simply need to remember you are married n what that means in respect to your vows......but you have many modern married cpls that are both cool with as long as you are discreet n it never flies in my face.....if it works for both of them!!!!.....but they left off will n jada...

[@lifewitholliethegsp9203]

We’ve been married for 10 years and we have grown together, it’s not easy. But I love him so much, and he probably loves me more haha. We have moved mountains for our marriage. I am a home keeper in order to keep our relationship and our family our top priority. We simply think of the future. What can we do now that will matter most later. Being absent will only hurt later, and it can damage our children, and future generations, we don’t want to be responsible for that. I’m not an “independent woman” In fact I am a proud FULLY dependent woman. Dependent on my husband and I to be ONE unit, to work together in love toward the future for our family. It seems like career is the most important thing to these people. God, my husband and my children are everything. The rest falls in to place with discipline, and hard work. These are not marriages to look up to. These people might love each other , but they place career above all, that is not right.

[@stellamanurung519]

danny moder was married when he was with julia

[@corrinerujan9808]

She even wore shirts she had made up talking smack because his ex wife wouldn’t grant a divorce right away

[@suzanneyoung2964]

stella manurung. so what?!

[@Triumph-nz8pt]

wow, my parents have been together since she was 15 years old, married for 54 years now and spend almost 24/7 together. It would drive me insane but works for them and they are incredibly happy. What ever works for the both of you is right, the only stipulation I have is kids...if you make the decision to have them, then you both need to take care of them, not a host of nannies either, in my opinion.

[@iamtinaexeinmyopinion]

SJP! YOU GOT IT SIS! ❤️

[@Bree5three]

Everyone’s saying “if it works, it works.” Clearly it doesn’t!! They’re just married on paper and racking up years without actually doing the work ppl 🙄 I understand long-distance for short periods of time or long-distance for an extended period of time with a definite end in sight but to constantly live apart and just come together once in a blue moon hardly sounds like an intimate partnership, just an arrangement.

[@caroldriehorst1165]

I guess what works but not for me but I think a separate bedroom at times is good.

[@DaniellaOfficial]

Fairytale love is completely impractical,they should be BANNED

[@trivenishalla6650]

Honestly it works. It keeps your relationship healthy and fresh and it's great.

[@RoyalWatcher1985]

Since Kim Kardashian and Kanye West just had a 4th child together via a Surrogate Mother, I hope that they are more together and more in love than this video implies.

[@ferryanolin6707]

You don't have to be together always. Women should still be independent.

[@ingridwheeler3180]

Reality check: A woman who earns more than her husband pays him alimony in a divorce. So much for true love.

[@reidecember]

Should have put epilepsy trigger warnings on this video. The Cardi-Offset part had a lot of flashing images, and would be a attack trigger risk.

[@ArtificialPerson]

I think it's really good for them to have their separate time and activities 🤗

[@Ramy-ql3tr]

Melania just wants to live wealthy. That’s all.

[@chrisms_96]

Is that why she made Doanld wait several years before she would allow him to marry her?

[@kathleenhenson5833]

She doesn’t need his money and hates the White House.

[@geniemeadows5122]

@Christian Squiers...she may have waited until her parents were ready to move. They would have wanted emigration.

[@carolf2381]

@@kathleenhenson5833 that's a dumb comment....how the hell do you know that? Oh that's right, you're there with them all the time. Insider knowledge, I guess. Lol

[@chacachitamiguel2484]

True she doesn’t get that being First Lady is an actual job.

[@taiwoal]

I love parents who put their children before a new partner

[@sally9805]

I think this sort of live would suit me. I tend to feel guilty to feel happy when my hubby travels but I just realised that it might be normal.

[@lykn6929]

Wow how interesting. My parents have been married 41 yrs ive seen them apart 2 times in my 39 yrs. Always wondered how the hell they do it. Now my relationship is on 7 yrs same as my parents we are always together. I always figured id want space cuz idk why now. My honey is awesome!!! I guess u jus never freakn know.

[@amywilson7109]

Me and my husband live seperately, by choice. It has saved our marraige. We argued all the time when we lived together. Its hard work but its worth it. I wouldn't want anyone else and i'm as sure as i can be that he doesn't either. Each to their own i guess ✌

[@nadiaali5022]

This is beyond my understanding of marriage! Married couples should be together and rise their children together otherwise they are just fooling themselves

[@lindsays6233]

There's no point in being married! I love spending time with my husband

[@RationallyMe]

I'm sure they said the exact same thing at earlier times in their marriage. We'll check back with you in 10 to 12 years...

[@maryadkison8614]

Dolly. That’s not a marriage 😱🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@chloesheler1927]

It’s called personal lives...and just because they aren’t appearing in videos together doesn’t mean they don’t see each other. It’s their work, and would your spouse be at your place of work on the regular? I think not.

[@carolhafer4146]

I am no celeb by any stretch of the word however my husband and I lived under one simple phase " distance makes the heart grow fonder " I truly believe this works along with trust. To answer your question which celeb couples do I think should split is none of my business. Besides according to your post they seem fine.

[@pamelamays4186]

Military families do this all the time!

[@falynnworld2084]

👏👏👏👏

[@latefanelum1303]

But I don't think they enjoy it. Unlike celebrities, their choice is a hard one.

[@BadTV1993]

& they have some of the highest divorce & infidelity rates in the universe lol

[@lisacox3750]

I think the video was less about whether or not people can do it, but more about whether these couples can stay happy in the process. Those are two different things.

[@klj2562]

Pamela Mays it's not the same. They don't choose to be apart.

[@picklesthewise]

I get needing to spend time apart or having difficult career schedules, but some of these arrangements sound like they're basically "seperated" in their relationships but don't want the messiness of divorce. One spouse is neglected by the other emotionally and they deserve better.

[@stephanielynn3901]

My parents have been living in different states since about 2005. Dad retired and wanted to move to Florida (he's since relocated to Tennessee). Mom didn't and stayed in Ohio. They see each other for about 3-4 months out of the year now, having just celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary earlier this month. Just because it wouldn't work for your relationship doesn't mean it's "weird" for everyone.

[@newtoublue1451]

Ashley Graham's hubby is a cutie.

[@CUDDLES55]

Julia, I love that your husband doesn't take any crap from you and I say that in a good way, you have a keeper there.

[@MISSRUE32MCGEE]

......And why did they get married?🤷🏽‍♀️

[@FA_2_Pilot]

MISSRUE32MCGEE that’s my question

[@EllieMcHale1]

Tax breaks

[@RationallyMe]

Answer: Because they wanted to and still choose to. With a divorce rate of over 50%, it's obvious that "traditional" marriages don't work; and even when they appeared to back in the day, it was only because women were prisoners in those marriages, with no other options. When will people, like you, learn that there is no one way to live life and there are no "rules" to life? Everything isn't for everybody; live and let live. If it's not for you, then figure out what is and do you... but also keep in mind that many people chase a "societal norm" only to figure out there is no such thing as "normal".

[@CaliWeHo]

When you have that kind of $, you can do whatever you want.

[@phillipswatson3452]

😎THAT WOULD WORK FOR ME💃🍆🏃...I ENJOY MY MARRIAGE & ALSO MY SPACE!!

[@excellentviolet590]

It does work. People are quick to judge unconventional things that are out of the norm.

[@MOOMOO2728]

Yep. 2 people just have to be on the same page

[@karimanning9232]

There needs to be some time for ones self however too much distance can create a great rift!

[@treasure2behold282]

Cardi B was the most honest about her relationship. The rest are obviously in some sort of denial.

[@dtaborahjohnson6145]

my dream arrangement!

[@skypiev4438]

I love that you didnt bash the first lady or my president. Thank you.

[@Lannec10]

Guys prioritizing surfing over time with their SO is legitimately a thing in the surfing community. Thankfully, we both surf so it doesn't become too much of an issue.

[@rmir2]

Family is about being together.

[@MzNoemi69]

Either your're married, or not. You can't be around your spouse 24/7, and if you need alone time build a She-Shed or Man Cave, but stop the foolishness. Pffttt, living separate lives in different houses sounds like a separation to me. If he wants to go surfing all the time to get away, then it is cheaper than putting out over 3 million bucks for a house across the street from you. There is a serious problem if he prefers to surf than be around his own wife for most of his time. Figure it out, or get divorced.