Night weaning a 13 month old bed sharing toddler!

[@salmahelzwahry3008]

EVERYONE told me to sleep train through the cry it out method. Tried other gentle methods and they went okay. At around 4 months old, he made his way into our bed, and never left. I hate that I can't tell anyone cause society looks down on bedsharing. But we LOVE it. He doesn't even nurse, only bottle feeds. But he is so much calmer at night knowing he's snuggled with his parents and we all sleep much better. Which means, much more productive days!! Never did cry it out.

[@dawnforlife]

My girl 9 months old, bedshare, nurse to sleep. Do what works, screw "society". ahhaha

[@xavthomas]

I'm literally holding a grudge against people who tried insisting that I do CIO with my baby. Mind your own business!

[@AB-ws4kt]

I tell everyone I can like it’s totally normal, but also I’m daring them to fight me 😈😂 (ofc no judgement at all if you’re not in the position to do that though ❤)

[@kutie216]

I had to laugh a little reading this comment because I am a first time mom and our baby also ended up in our bed around 4.5 months and when people would ask how he’s sleeping I’d openly tell them he slept in our bed. I recently night weaned hoping to get my period back but he still ends up in our bed around 2-4 am and I wouldn’t change it for anything. I don’t care what anyone thinks honestly. Before I had him I swore I’d never bedshare but he is so snuggly! I think everyone else is missing out lol

[@ToniOne03]

Can I just say… I LOVE the way that you speak. Fast to the point and straightforward. The cadence is so soothing to me 😂

[@sarahtara5546]

I really think that people who have some sort of issue with bed sharing are just ignorant. This was the way it was done by women for a long, long time before companies who want your money invented cribs, etc. My mom raised 6 babies this way, and that was the way she was taught and felt most natural. She compared it to a mama dog and her pups. It's just the way it has always been done.

[@kimberlylois4855]

Love your videos Shayla! I don’t feel that there’s a lot of content here on YT for us mamas who nurse to sleep, bed share, etc. I’ve found your videos super helpful and relatable!!

[@heyshayla]

Oh that’s soo good to hear!!! Glad it’s helpful. Us mamas need to stick together!

[@meganunthank778]

I found your follow up video when I searched weaning which led me to this one. I am so thankful. I had all these ideas in my head of how I needed to wean day first and do the nurse-to-sleep feed before the middle of the night. I also “co-sleep” between a floor bed (yes, the two of us on his little crib mattress 🥴) and recliner with my almost 17MO so I just didn’t see how weaning was going to work. I watched this video, finally had a clear vision and mindset so I could ground myself, and committed to the process - all last night. I am so happy to report that night one went far better than I ever could’ve anticipated. He wasn’t happy, but I felt him process the feelings with me and just lean into how this is going to go. You are so so right when you said that this is a far bigger bond than nursing. I had a great bond with him, but his head on my shoulder and his heart on my heart was so impactful in a way I never thought possible. Thank you for helping me get through the initial push to get this process started. For my sanity, I need to wean and have felt too defeated to actually make it happen.

[@SamJam92]

This video came at the perfect time. We tried to night-wean my 13 month old clingy cosleeper last weekend. We failed, but he was willing to sleep for the first few hours in his floor bed for the first time - small victories. 😂

[@justinesnyder5023]

Love the choas of this video! Makes me feel better for my night nursing struggles.

[@heyshayla]

Hahaha good!

[@muirurielizabeth2835]

💯 I'm like yeassss me too mum!! 😂

[@andreak86]

Thank you so much for sharing your realistic experience! I nurse day and night and have no idea on where to start when it comes to weaning. Your real life expectations shows that it can be done in time, instead of saying” your child will magically just sleep for 12 hours straight” lol

[@sarahanding598]

first, thank you so much for being you…transparent, relatable, taking opinions with a grain of salt…I’m almost 8 weeks pregnant with a breastfeeding 14 month old. I don’t exactly remember how I cut out night feeds with my oldest (except that he was a little over 1 when we did it). But I’m miserably nauseous so I need to cut out night feeds with my 1 year old for the sake of rest and sanity; however, I’ve been SO overwhelmed with the various sleep training methods and just feeling like I’ve done it all “wrong” so far so none of them will work. However, when you said your philosophy is “do what works until it doesn’t,” I realized that’s basically how I roll too. So in that moment I was in tears and realized I haven’t done anything “wrong” for us. We done what made everyone feel most at ease and loved. And we’ll figure out a new routine with that, even if it looks nothing close to any of the “fancy” methods. So yeah, from a really hormonal mama to another…thank you! ❤️

[@heyshayla]

Hormones are real over here right now too!! I’m glad this resonated

[@kelliemccarty6041]

Congrats girl! My little boy night weaned himself at 12 months. Thank goodness he did. I don't know what I would have done if he didn't. He just magically started sleeping through the night one day and has done so ever since. He fully weaned himself at 16 months. Good luck with the full wean.

[@thendralnirmal]

How many times he used to wakes up in night.. i am just waiting for the day you said..

[@oneofamillion4951]

Gro Clock to set a time to wake up helped us immensely. It changes colour when its time to wake up.

[@chelsealowenstein]

Literally SAME situation. Floor bed/ co sleeping. 13 months and I’m ready for another baby so trying to get my period back 😆 thank you for this!! So helpful!

[@yervue9426]

Loved this. Thanks for the humor and being so real..

[@ruudumetsvahi6028]

My 14 month old bed sharing boob loving girl slept straight from 12-5am one night and I decided that is the sign I've been waiting for to start night weaning. For getting back my period and starting with baby nr 2. Last night was night #1 - she screamed for 1,5 hours straight. 🙂🙂🙂 And then slept until 5 which is the end of our window. And I am crying all day today - hormones already after two nights of reduced night feeding?? Watched your video a few weeks back and again now that I'm in the deep end of it. Thank you! It's really the kind of support we need at this moment. Stay connected to your intuition mamas. ✌️

[@JasmineAvril]

This came in the NICK of time!!! My daughter turns one in two weeks and she’s still in our bed. 😫 thank you for all your content! ❤️

[@heyshayla]

Yay!!!! I was hoping this would be the case for some people! Such a daunting thing and how do you get info about it?! Dm me on Instagram and let me know how it goes when you eventually do it!

[@SomethinAintRightHere]

Same bday ! Awesome

[@rachelmeade9307]

Repping the very good mother’s club! Love it!

[@heyshayla]

Ayyyyyy good eye!!!

[@rebeccareynolds3476]

I have zero babies I’m trying to night wean, but I’m still here! I swear I need to start saving these videos for when I need them. 👶🏼

[@mel_pnw]

I second this "do what works until it doesn't" We cosleep and nurse to sleep (8 months old) and now I'm SPENT. Every 2-3 hrs like clockwork. Baby boy is thriving but I'm really really so tired.

[@eleanorduckworth4893]

Me too at 15m....I’m so tired I feel physically done in. And short tempered at times... I conclude she needs me to be feeling better as well as me.

[@ashlaypendleton1422]

Omg it’s midnight night weening right now with floor bed and cosleep my god I need this thank u sooo much

[@marziobryan1355]

I freaking LOVE this video... night weaning night #2 and I am obsessed with your video. There is SO much in it! So helpful... - thank you! Thank you for being super real and wonderfully weird... 😅 (I tried watch other videos... and I just can't... not relatable and not authentic enough for me).

[@scottiemomma2314]

I love your energy. This is giving me hope. I nurse my 18 month old to sleep…laziness, I guess. We only cosleep when he wakes up in the night…usually 4am till morning. I’m a terrible sleeper myself, so I don’t want to have him in my bed, tbh. I can’t sleep well with him next to me at times. I don’t necessarily want to cut out nursing at night, but I do want him to learn to self-soothe. I think I have a sense of how to initiate now.

[@SarahKLee-gc8iu]

This is so so so so helpful!!!! Thank you so much for sharing your journey!! I am about to start trying night weaning my first because our second is due in August.... your video gave me so much hope and encouragement when I was really dreading night weaning! It will be hard but we can do it! Thank you so so much Shayla!!!

[@sandysanchez7151]

Same here! Just found out I'm pregnant so I figured I should start weaning my first. She's 17 months and wakes up sporadically (sometimes 2 times, sometimes 3 times per night). This video was sooo helpful! I didn't know where to start 😫 We also co sleep and have been using a floor bed 😊

[@nicoleandersen3411]

This is such a good video for me to see the other side of feedings. My little never latched so I exclusively pumped foir 6 months until he was eating more than I could pump. So early on we had to learn to sooth him to sleep and it was very helpful with the bonding I d idnt get with nursing. We still cosleep but he had mostly slept thru the night for months now. It's a good perspective to see what nurse weaning can be like.

[@ourfamilysmemories7813]

I love this video! Just what I was looking for! I’m preparing to begin the weaning process of my 20 month old 😫 I’m so stressed but your video helped a lot, you’re hilarious 😅

[@Searching4HerNiche]

I feel this video in my heart and soullllll ! Why am I just finding this 😩🙌🏽

[@elli8814]

Soooo needed this video😭 so comforting. Finally someone I can relate to 🤗. Why have I first found your channel now

[@GraceKasanga]

My baby is 14 months, and I have found this very helpful i will definitely try this method

[@dawnforlife]

twinkle twinkle, abc and baa baa black sheep! I also just noticed after having a baby! 😆😅

[@Natashalive5050]

Starting this tonight!! 20 months of exclusively breastfeeding. No pacifiers no bottles!! I am so freaking done.

[@jenniferhintzgosnell7446]

How is the weaning going? About to start for my little guy. He is 21 months old. Like you, no bottle or binkey

[@johanniesteyn2371]

I also wanna know! Im about to start tonight with my 14 month baby!

[@Natashalive5050]

@jenniferhintzgosnell7446 it was great! The first 4 nights were a little rough but I just kept rubbing her back and telling her I love her. Once that 2 week mark hit it was a miracle. She slept from 8pm to 6am! I have never left more relief lol.

[@Natashalive5050]

@johanniesteyn2371 just be strong! It's hard but don't give up. The first 3 nights were rough. Also forgot to add above I offered water and she would drink it. 2 nights she didn't sleep from 12 to 4. She just played lol. But eventually she fell asleep.

[@PLopez-bs5xs]

We've taken the pun... we're night weaning. I can't explain how much this video has helped! Last night was bad... hopefully it'll get better...

[@heyshayla]

It will get better! The only way is through!!

[@CoachMai]

I’m literally in the process of weaning my 2 year old during the night. We started last weekend. She’ll wake up maybe 1-2x and throws a small tantrum. I offer her water and sometimes she’ll take it, but other times she’ll push it away. She will usually lay across my chest when she starts to calm down and then she’ll snuggle with me and hold my face in her hands 🥺 She falls asleep like that and it’s the cutest thing. I haven’t started weaning from nap time or bedtime feeds but soon, hopefully.

[@Rooby673]

Perfect time to come across this video. My 11m old baby girl feeds all night long, Dad and I are both soldiers and we are stationed at different duty station so im pretty much doing this alone right now.. I am EXHAUSTED. Wish me luck im going to try out this method and see how it goes.

[@heyshayla]

Good luck!

[@thendralnirmal]

Is she sleeping through the night?

[@charlibird6686]

Thank you so much for sharing, Shayla! Our experience has been so similar to yours. Our baby is now 15 months and I am now just nursing once in the night and he is happy to cuddle for the other wake ups. Still about 5 wake ups a night but so much better than before, I was so exhausted from all the feeding!!

[@retrobones8951]

I had a full blown manic depressive episode when i weaned that lasted 6 weeks and i never had experienced bi polar in my life! get lots of rest, exercise and healthy food! i started taking my prenatals again too.

[@heyshayla]

Oh that’s a good idea!! It’s crazy right!

[@bethanydouglas2100]

OMG THANK YOU for sharing this. Sooooo helpful. My issue is that Mila doesn’t eat actual food so great because of all the night feeding so she’s getting all her calories in the night and isn’t bothered about actual food. Did you have that issue at all? We do exactly the same as you. Tried floor sleep which worked for a while but now she’s on the bed and husband in her room 🥴 Not ideal. Anyway, your video encouraged me a lot and I’m very grateful. Going to chat to husband for a game plan and STICK to that through the night so we aren’t making tired, midnight decisions. Great advice there. Praying we will tackle this 🙏🏼

[@JanniSchaldemose]

Hey Shayla. Can you please, please, please make a motivational speech video! Whenever I feel overwhelmed motherhood, I play in my head some quotes from you 😄 it would be so nice!

[@yaelWolfebaz]

I stopped nursing my son at 1 year old 15 years ago because back then it was really pushed to wean at 1, but he was sad, and so was I. I regret it. My daughter is 5 months old and I plan to nurse her as long as she wants, I don’t want to have regrets this time.

[@dharmadharma3960]

That's really good to know. Some people laugh at you when you're nursing past 1. I even had a sleep expert make fun of it. My 16 months old is still very comfortable feeding. He still seems small, age appropriate.

[@alepid1]

I tried this when my baby was 9 months old. Took 3 days and worked for a week or so. After that she wouldn’t settle without a feed anymore. Not sure why…but she’s 12 months now and soon will stop breastfeeding altogether, hope that will help reducing night wakings.

[@jenniferheller1453]

So, I am weaning my almost 20 month old she will be 20 months next week. I pushed it off because I thought it was gonna be really really bad. But she’s been totally fine for the last three nights.😊🎉 I weaned her off the days several months ago

[@MemeSalih84311]

Perfect timing !!! My twins turn one in a month and omg 😳 thank you

[@heyshayla]

Girl, you’re a super human

[@thathippiefamily]

OH MY GOSH!!! This is my life! Thank you! I am going through this exact same situation. Like whoa

[@lifetutor6995]

Love love love that you are wearing the very good mother's club tshirt ❤

[@heyshayla]

Right! Have to support one another! Jess is doing to be on my podcast 😱😍

[@AshPersikas]

Hello, thank you for the video. I too want to night wean, but Im afrsid that he migt really be hungry. But today I will try to start the process

[@jaylyncatchuela6354]

Finally I found a vid that I can relate to

[@kristinfoster7018]

I see that Very Good Mother’s Club shirt!! Love your videos:)

[@heyshayla]

Ayyy good eye!! Thank you :)

[@elizabethlebaron9545]

How do you always have a video appear exactly when I need it?!🤗💕

[@torielmore7471]

First- I love that you are so confident to do what's best for y'all among the high pressure of what is supposedly 'right' to do (which is silly). Second- When you say nook, do you mean like the book tablet? If so, that's cool!

[@heyshayla]

Hahah no I mean pacifier or Binky or Dummy so many words for it!

[@torielmore7471]

@@heyshayla Wow, I'm an idiot 🤣 I heard you talking about giving her books and then you said nook, so I was like, maybe she looks at books on there! Haha!

[@heyshayla]

Haha😂😂

[@christinaugalde8822]

Good job mama!

[@heyshayla]

Thank you! Holy smokes motherhood is a journey huh?! Lol

[@taylorsmith3567]

I remember watching this when it first came out and I was very pregnant and now I’m desperate with an almost one year old who does. Not. Get. Off. The. Boob. He nursed for like 4 hours overnight last night 🥲 tonight we start night one, thank you for this!!!

[@heyshayla]

👏👏👏

[@heyshayla]

You’ve got this

[@bridgetisfly]

THANK YOUUUU

[@cariiinen]

So helpful!

[@265rosa]

Omg I am the same situation right now. 😊

[@vanijain4323]

Hey Shayla! I am considering night weaning my 12 month old. Will wait a month before we try it out! Hearing about your experience is super helpful. My lo wakes up every hour or so for a suckle and then goes back to sleep. I am afraid that after night weaning he won’t have the boob to go back to sleep and if he continues waking up, do they easily go back to sleep with comforting? And what comforting mechanisms do you use?

[@kaliethompson445]

I just found your channel and wanted to say I love these helpful parenting videos. I’m a 24yr old mom with a 15 month old and still struggling with the breastfeeding and I’m hoping to try out some of these things. Also wanted to say hello as a fellow Minnesotan.

[@laurenvanveen9834]

I never comment on here, but can I just say if you are struggling with breastfeeding and still doing it at 15 months well done!!! You should be so proud of yourself, it is so hard when there are issues and often so painful, so you are incredible for keeping it up. I had so many issues and am only just starting to find it easier at 6 months. (Of course formula feeding can be just as tough in different ways and is totally fine! As long as baby is fed and happy it doesn't matter!) Xxx

[@kaliethompson445]

@@laurenvanveen9834 thank you so much for this reply! I needed to hear this 🙏🏼❤️ bless you and your family. I hope you have fantastic holidays

[@zoeskarlidis8134]

This is soooooo helpful! Thank you so much!

[@ashleybeazley]

My daughter self night -weaned once she dropped her second nap around 11 months old. She is two (today!) and I’m still nursing her at nap and bedtime. I’m expecting baby 2 in December so over the past few months I’ve stopped nursing her completely to sleep and I lay her down awake. Our next hurdle will be for daddy to try to put her to bed. He can put her down for a nap but usually only if I’m not home and I’m worried about what is going to happen when we go to the hospital to have this baby!

[@heyshayla]

Gah I’ve thought about this same thing 😅

[@ashleybeazley]

@@heyshayla I just keep telling myself that kids are resilient and she will figure it out with whoever is here. I’m not even sure who will stay with her! It will either be my husbands dad & stepmom, his mom or my sister.

[@julieh4747]

I have done this with 4 kids and with the 1st I had my husband put her to bed and down for naps and I tried to avoid those times. It was horrible. I switched it for the other 3 and I was the one that still did all of our normal routine, but without nursing. They all handled it better than I expected. They would get a snack and a cup of milk before nap or bedtime and I would rock them to sleep or put them in their crib, whichever worked. I stopped day nursing before night weaning. I subbed a cup of milk and a small snack for every time they would have normally nursed if I was worried about their calorie intake. Yes I let them fall asleep with a cup of milk which I know is a big "no,no". Then about 2 months after they fully weaned I gave them a cup of water instead of milk. Baby steps. Good luck!!!

[@rosie52111]

Thank you for sharing

[@JessicaRobinson-xo4bb]

I’m here because I’m wanting to night wean my co sleeping 8 month old before I start my new job. All the videos I find that including go sleeping scenarios are for older babies tho.

[@PurpleRain9601]

literally in the exact same situation down to the t only difference is my son is 18 month

[@melissacantieri2719]

I get tired just watching this. 💤 my baby slept 12 hours straight starting at 3mo and still does at 10mo. I hope my second baby does too. 🙈 glad it’s going so well for you. Enjoy it 🙂

[@heyshayla]

Amaaaaaazing!!!

[@savagecabbage7781]

I was happy my daughter slept 4 hours straight at night but she turned 3 months this week and wakes every 20 minutes screaming for 4 days now.

[@Cal_is_the_goat]

Thanks so much for this! Great encouragement!

[@Coffeandcreat]

Omg struggling with my 21month old and night weaning. She bed shares with us half the night too. It’s so hard!

[@thendralnirmal]

How did it go?

[@michellehooper4481]

Thanks so much. Third baby. Third none sleeper. I fed my now 8 and now 5 Yr old til they were 2.5 focusing on day weaning first. They didn't sleep through til 3yrs old. Third baby is 14months and I wanted to feed him just as long but I have pressure, I am going to a hen weekend for two nights in 6m time. And he won't cope without me, I am terrified to leave him BUT obviously night weaned it shouldn't be all that bad right? Send hope! Also, why did you want your period so bad? I don't miss a period hahaha xx

[@heyshayla]

Haha because I wanted to get pregnant

[@jordynferrari4161]

1000th like!😃 thank you for the helpful video!!

[@marniem6114]

Haha the twinkle twinkle tune being the same as baa baa black sheep and ABC’s! I was humming to my son and my husband said is that ABC or twinkle twinkle and I told him that I alternate, makes it less repetitive in your head!

[@ashlaypendleton1422]

Yess yess yess

[@sriyaniranjan7084]

Tried weaning failed and sleep trained him he slept through the night ..I miss my baby co sleeping I just hug the baby monitor see his face and sleep

[@kelseymoore3682]

Your amazing!!

[@vanessagomezgamboa7670]

Thank you so much for sharing!!! I love your videos and personality, I feel I can relate to you sooooo much. I am starting to considering winning but I’m sooo anxious about it because I don’t know how to confort by baby of is not with the boob, I literally don’t know what to do😓 and I feel so bad about it.

[@heyshayla]

I totally underhand the anxiety around it but you’ll both learn a new way to comfort them. But you have to commit otherwise it’s super confusing. So don’t start until you’re ready

[@stephtrinker3574]

Hiiii, great video and the only thing I have found that is relatable to my sitch- I do have a question 🙋‍♀️ for clarity; you were initially cosleeping and then when she started being okay with not nursing slept separately and went in to comfort, eventually swapping nights w hubby (omg dreamy) The idea being that possibly you were waking her up? Not sure if I’m getting that right. Thx ☺️

[@kianna2530]

I slept with my baby from the minute she was born🥰 we still co sleep but she also sleeps in her bed which is also a floor bed

[@cassandrahepp6445]

My baby is just about to turn 1 year and I know he doesn't need to nurse at night any more and I'm ready to sleep through the night again but I also know I'm going to miss it in a way.

[@heyshayla]

and your hormones will go WIIIILD. Don’t do it until you’re ready! Otherwise you won’t commit and it will be confusing 😅

[@MysteryExodus]

Is it true that breastmilk can cause cavities? I’m co sleeping with my baby but I’m worried what I’m going to do when his teeth come in bc I’ve heard the milk can rot their teeth.

[@heyshayla]

No. Biologically it doesn’t make any sense (but is a wide spread message). No other breastfeeding mammal gets cavities

[@MysteryExodus]

@@heyshayla that’s what I thought, it doesn’t make sense. Thanks for responding!

[@MamaLana.]

My daughter is almost 2. And she has a temper on her. And I have so much anxiety with even the thought of stopping breastfeeding. It’s a very overwhelming thought alone, but it’s time…….💔😞😢 I pray this process isn’t hell for me!

[@moirahaggartyedwards5991]

Great video thanks!! Is she overall sleeping longer stretches now then? How much does she wake now compared to before?

[@heyshayla]

We’re 2 months out from night weaning and she’s just starting to stay sleeping for 5 hr stretches

[@irinaleontyuk]

did your daughter always sleep for those intervals? I’m new here so I don’t know! I have a 3.5 month old and usually he sleeps from like 10-11 PM (we tend to stay out late) until like 4-5 AM. I am trying to stretch it out to 9 PM-7 AM! I put him to bed in his bassinet or in the crib in his room and then when he wakes up I (unsuccessfully) try to put him back to sleep and then eventually nurse him in my bed and he sleeps with mom & dad. once I think I remember not even nursing him but just putting him by us and he fell right back asleep cuz of the snuggles. 🥰 but I read this book “bringing up bébé” and it talks about how the french are like actual natural pros at having their babies sleep through the night so I tried implementing some of their tips and I think it’s helping! if you have another baby I recommend reading that book! I have no idea how I’ll wean him (from all breastfeeding) but I plan to do that around 1 yrs old. I really enjoyed this video because you’ee relatable and your personality is so bubbly! you seem like a super awesome mama and I hope it just gets better from here!

[@randlynch9582]

I love everything in this video. I do have my period back so no incentive. How do you reconcile with her being sad even for 5 min? It breaks my heart maybe sticking to your why.

[@heyshayla]

Totally, you have to be ready for it! If you’re not it will be confusing for her

[@katicaj11]

Woooow! Firstly a question here: Have you ever used food pouches during the no-nursing window? Or for what occasion had you prepare them? I am thinking/planning/trying to come to peace with SOME WAY how to help our 14m old to sleep and not to wake up 5-10 times during the night and weaning through the night is the only strategy I can say yes to right now. (Btw...I can completely relate to "wanting to stop nursing and still wanting for it not to be gone" SO much!) So thaaaaank you Shayla so much! I am so anxious and nervous to start this and I couldn't find the right motivation to do so. This video made it, though!

[@heyshayla]

I did give her a good pouch in the morning like 4 am We do water cups now. My dentist said the pouch wasn’t a great idea for teeth

[@SOFIAnav]

I tried removing the 3am feed and she cried until 5.30 she had one minute sleeps here and there but it was rough 😢

[@heyshayla]

Ugh soo hard!!! Be consistent or it will be soo confusing

[@leajohnson10]

This came at the right time for me and bub. He just turned 10 months last week and for the past two weeks has been waking 4-6 times per night. Before it was 2-3. I'm exhausted. He's exhausted. I'm ready to throw in the towel but not at the same time. Do you suggest waiting until he's down to nap a day?

[@heyshayla]

No! I think you can start it whenever you’re ready!

[@InDirectDiana]

Awww. My 2 yr old was in the same night waking pattern til about 15 months. I understand the exhaustion. Makes me teary eyed just thinking about how hard it was. It will pass... eventually.

[@mrs.m]

Nice!

[@stefaniekaraminas998]

Curious about the makeup. Since it’s mostly cream stuff, does it crease or get oily on your face? I’m loving this whole brand and idea but the set is $$20 cad 😭 lol

[@meredithmunzert1828]

Maybe a silly question - I really want to use this method for night weaning, but it's winter and the sunrise isn't until 7:00!! I'm worried, will this be confusing to my toddler if we nurse before 7 but it's still morning? Anyone else experience this?

[@heyshayla]

No silly. It’s the same here. You could also get a hatch where the light turns green at x time

[@taylorhalstead]

Maybe this is a stupid question but.. your period doesn’t come back until you stop breastfeeding? What?

[@heyshayla]

Not dumb!!! It’s different for everyone. But she didn’t take a bottle and was feeding though the night too so no it didn’t come back until 13 months pp. Some women get it back right away others don’t!

[@loveuniceoh]

I’m night weaning now too! My baby is 6 months old. It’s been two nights. I pump once in the middle of the night so I haven’t experienced the hormone thing yet.

[@allicarlucci5748]

U said that u wanted to get ur period back and possibly try for another baby.. I know everyone is different but have u guys been careful intimately? Kuz some people don't get pregnant when breastfeeding and some ppl do. I just had a baby and don't want to go on birth control so im just curious what uve been doing since i know before u just did ovulation tracking. Sorry that was long lol

[@heyshayla]

Haha yeah I’ve been tracking and keeping track. And I got it a month after we stopped!

[@DigitalResurrection]

I’m considering trying this to get my period so hubby and I can try for another baby. I currently co sleep with my 14 month old on a floor bed in her room. But would also like to start sleeping in my own bed again with hubby. So we can play the piano. 😂

[@heyshayla]

🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏

[@DigitalResurrection]

Update. We are still co sleeping, but she sleeps in the bed with me. I’m now pregnant and she’s 2yr & 2months. BF hurts now due to the pregnancy hormones. So I think this might be the time I try weaning again! I hate to take it away from my daughter, but it’s genuinely becoming unbearable now. Please pray for me! ❤

[@sammi3399]

I have a question. So a month later she’s still waking up during the night to be rocked, etc? How long does this take?

[@heyshayla]

Real quick about 5 min

[@sammi3399]

@@heyshayla oh perfect! My son is still young but this is really helpful for the future

[@dawnforlife]

@@heyshayla My 9 month old still nurses to sleep. But she wakes and nurse about 5 mins too...mayyyybe I am not ready yet to wean. I think 5 mins with my eyes closed and her sleeping is easier 😆

[@heyshayla]

Hahah it totally has to be mutual 😂

[@Floppycats]

have you gotten your youtube 100k plaque yet?

[@heyshayla]

No!!! Still waiting 😅

[@Floppycats]

@@heyshayla 🤗❤️ i assume you’ll do an unboxing when it does?! I wanna see!!

[@heyshayla]

Haha I Can!!

[@malaikanaveed9273]

Is it better to night wean before day weaning?

[@heyshayla]

I day weaned except before sleeping! It’s whatever you think will be best for you/ and your baby

[@papabear5506]

My boy nursed until 2.5 years when my milk supply all but disappeared with our second pregnancy. A few months on with a newborn and he has no interest in breastfeeding whatsoever, which makes me feel so proud and sad simultaneously.

[@candaceestrada5744]

You WANT your period back??!!

[@heyshayla]

We wanted to try for #2!

[@missloretta]

Truly natural would be NEVER weaning them until they wean themself at like 7 years old. 😂😂 Yeah I'm not doing that either.

[@SomethinAintRightHere]

Forget that !!

[@tylerblu3602]

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[@dishalavenderbliss]

Is it just me or does she talk too fast!

[@heyshayla]

I talk sooooo fast lol not just you

[@sabrinamcbride1454]

My heart literally drop when I saw the amber necklace. They are soooooooo dangerous and virtually ineffective. Teething necklaces are not worth the risk.

[@heyshayla]

Totally cool it’s not for you!

[@tylerblu3602]

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