Nine Traits That Make Emma Chamberlain So Charming

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[@efi4521]

thats so crazy ive checked those traits for every person ever i was either attracted to or found weirdly interesting and they all have every single one of those traits.ive always wondered what made those people so unique and now ive found it. thank you

[@fanofauburn11]

I’m just imagining this video is about me and not the other Emma

[@emmanations2025]

HAHAHAHA SAME

[@emmagareis1634]

Mood

[@weronikadezakowska3321]

visualisation

[@colleenc.9900]

I love this. Therapists say it’s healthy to find positive qualities in others that you would like to try and exude as well. You have the same name. You deserve to close your eyes and listen and take it in! You’re worth it! Weather KZbin known or not

[@astromon10]

The cool thing is that, it is about you, at least that the message Anthony is giving which i think is quite nice

[@niceprincesslucky]

“Being confident is not about feeling perfect at all times” ... instead is...“choosing to respect and own exactly how you feel at all times”

[@Indigogirl333]

° allow urself to feel what u feel and embrace how you feel and whatever your vibe is ° engage in the moment. Be present. ° own your individuality ° be playful. Always having fun ° down to earth ° showing special interests in others. ° rebellious ° polite ° quick wit ° grace. Elegant control of your body. ° passionate and creative

[@AnthonyRecenello]

pinned

[@Grace8381]

That you (Anthony) researched what it means to be charming is, well, charming 😌.

[@adriannajane]

When you asked about Emma's passion I immediately blurted out coffee 💀

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Lol that’s another one

[@LivT04]

Same ☕️

[@lillpill5644]

I started listening to Emma’s podcast called Anything Goes and she is like a therapist and a big sister to me. Her advice and empathy for others is extremely special and genuine

[@turanyoung2323]

Hi

[@mekilaolandesca8119]

Lilly Alberts me too, she have helped me a lot

[@FlorAbascal]

same!! i love her so much, she is the big sister i never had

[@pastelpink1234]

really? she always seamed mean to me

[@mekilaolandesca8119]

Pastel Pink123 ok and? Honey your feelings and intuition shouldn’t be a judgement to hate on someone

[@sky_3023]

I wish we got taught these things in school especially at such an impressionable age where so many of us feel/felt lost!

[@polarcat0156]

They don’t care about that stuff lol

[@cabbage5169]

@@polarcat0156 Yeah thats true 😂 we’re just the workforce to them

[@futuristiccat5636]

@@cabbage5169 yeah we’re just slaves to them. Abuse for 60 years

[@cabbage5169]

@@futuristiccat5636 You’re not wrong, its just we still have the opportunity to move up in the social hierarchy if we can see past the bullshit and find a good strategy to find traditional success. Like getting rich, you can do it in a lot of different ways, start your own industry, profit off existing ones. There’s a lot of stuff you can do, just making a business costs money and time and if you don’t have that you need to get a job to live

[@esem3511]

totally agree! @sky _ however, if ive learned anything its that they DONT want to teach you that. they want to weed out the weak. Thats why the expression "its a dog eat dog world" were all trying to figure out while sabotaging without realizing and some do and dont care.

[@signewellehentze1346]

Still waiting for Rihanna’s classic charm tho🥺🥺

[@AnthonyRecenello]

It’ll come

[@signewellehentze1346]

Anthony Recenello can’t wait!!!!!!

[@darpur5469]

Yaeh she's naturally charming

[@kristinelenz7622]

It made me tear up a bit that she might watch this and be able to realize all of these great qualities that she has. Imagine her being so happy and thankful that someone took that much time to know her on a deeper level. 🥺

[@stephaniebnrp]

As a perfectionist, i´ve always been inclined to showcase this "perfect" version of myself, but i´ve never thought about the power of embracing what you feel at every single moment instead of denying it, until now. You made me realize the importance of being raw and real, even if it´s "imperfect" in my head.

[@wearilive]

PUT ME ON A DATE ANTHONY

[@AnthonyRecenello]

im coming out with the first date series soon. DM me!! :-)

[@miminaomi9844]

Lovee your videos girl!

[@TRESSS]

@@AnthonyRecenello Ooh I would love to see you collaborate with KZbinrs in that way, this is exciting!

[@auskoe]

I need a date too

[@strawberryjpeg6000]

Omggg I’m excited

[@NaomieTat]

Emma CHARMberlain...i love her. She deserves all the success coming her way! Such a chill, inspiring, genuine and successful young woman.

[@samanthabussell3057]

You captured Emma so authentically and so beautifully

[@rochelleakos]

IM ONLY 4 MINUTES IN AND THIS IS ALREADY INCREDIBLE, ANTHONY. ive NEVER heard anyone talk about this stuff... what it REALLY means to be yourself. looove this thank u oki imma go finish the rest now!!

[@adolfosafdie1399]

You can tell Anthony has been working his butt off for this video. Props to you and hopefully this video takes off love you man! ❤️👍🏽🍀

[@AnthonyRecenello]

:-) thanks adolfo and yes i did lol

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks so much for watching guys. I wanted to make this one extra good for y’all ❤️

[@melofx1]

Love you

[@Zimoria]

I'm not sure who this Emma person is but just the little bit I've learned of her through this video.. I love her, probably will subscribe.

[@bambeliful]

I like how she’s “relatable” and is herself (“not fake”) in the videos, but I personally am not a fan of her personality. I wish I did tho. Edit: I feel the same about Liza Koshy (a little bit annoying for me)

[@noitsbecky.4291]

bambeliful u just said u liked how she is herself and relatable but u said ur not a fan of her personality.

[@Zimoria]

I get it. It's like me with Liza Koshy. I find her annoying as all hell, can't stand her, but I like how she's a strong online female personality.

[@bambeliful]

InSomNiacKiller - relatable for other girls. I know that for a fact, not because I relate Besides, it’s between “ “ for a reason

[@lucgrillet5972]

anything goes, her podcast goes deep. it’s really human. something really rare from a “creator” or whatever lmaooo idk but yeah Emma has rlly stuck to her roots and never changed herself for clout i love it

[@lindsayp8131]

Love your passion for this work and encouraging people to just be their authentic selves unapologetically. We need more of this in the world!

[@claudiaparada3300]

Thank you for this video! I feel like amount of videos made about charming women are pretty much non existent. I also loved the Zendaya video!

[@Grace8381]

“That cool girl 90s aesthetic”...how do you “see” all things you see? You’re a very empathetic, perceptive soul. Wow.

[@EmilyIsabel]

THANK YOU!!! I've been waiting for this video for MONTHS

[@vanessacarlone1367]

This is so accurate and why I love her. I would always watch people and want to be like them but with emma she made me want to embrace my unique self instead. From the way that she dresses, to her goofiness, she inspired me to embrace that. I've been watching her for years and I believe that she really has rubbed off on me and made me slowly slowly embrace myself. She really is a classic charm! (:

[@TheBadGamerRo]

yoo, the example with the chill mood and the super talking mood was great to picture in head what you tried to explain, good job man

[@pristoste]

Jeff wittek is an interesting character too, everyone is amazed by him

[@cityofgone74]

they're just interested bc his symmetrical

[@deihoward]

HE ISSS

[@missamal05]

this is my favorite videos of yours, thankyou for letting us grow to our best selfs

[@AnthonyRecenello]

thats what my goal is so thank YOU amal!

[@yurielcundangan9090]

Emma: confident but not confident Liza Koshy: am I a joke to you

[@kyladanae]

Love this video! Whenever I’m feeling down I won’t film a video but I can just use that to show people that I’m a person and we’re not always perfect and happy all the time. I’m trying to be more consistent with content. I mean I watch her videos she’s the complete opposite of me but I like that she is more herself and isn’t afraid of what people think.

[@tessparke4704]

can you please do chris evans and scarlett johansson. i've been trying to figure out their relationship for the longest time.

[@h1daro]

watching this video has made me realize that i was really similar to emma, except about being confident. the lack of confidence has ruined and molded the kind of person i am today, which i don’t like at all and makes me hate everything is around me.

[@lasesalu]

I feel like I had this and I lost it to being overly concerned with what people expected of me / what people think of me. I focused so much on people pleasing that i completely lost myself.

[@fortknobbs2600]

“You can’t get past this first one without having that. In order to love the world you must first love yourself.” Me 👁👄👁 I guess I don’t NEED TO BE CHARMING

[@Andrea-vm5px]

That's way of loving yourself too 😘

[@ClodaghQuinnchannel]

Lol same

[@alanmlkbanda]

You’re so passionate about what you do that at the beginning of most videos of yours I get a boost of energy and think to myself : “this dude is amazing ”

[@jeanenep33]

This channel is so good for me!! Ok learning so much about myself from it. Thanks so much !!

[@Emma-ji7mg]

we don't appreciate emma enough. she's a truly amazing human and deserves THE WORLD!! that girl is special

[@haileyscrid367]

LOVE Emma. she's so entertaining and funny yet also kind and super down to earth. also she makes such good content and is the best

[@farahhasbany6778]

I love this thats why i watch her videos and i stuck to watching her videos because shes authentic it makes it ten times better to watch her because most of the times what you see is what you get

[@mjbbri3564]

Great video Anthony! I love your videos, they are helping me be my best self ❤️

[@arianamedina3422]

Listening back on her old videos made me realize that her voice got less raspy... right?

[@mirandagxaba4443]

It’s that coffee...I swear

[@LUCHTHANS4]

FINALLY YOUR BACK AT SOMETHING LIKE THIS AGAIN I AM SO HAPPY

[@natalier2921]

Looove classic charm videos!! Could you do one on Niall Horen?

[@mattbower4763]

Hi Anthony. Ive been loving your stuff recently. Can you do a video on values / having a frame of reality

[@nanaifan1]

One of the Best charisma analysis ever, thank you! I take a lot of useful things for my life

[@annab029]

great video! I could tell you put a lot of work into it. Emma is one of my favorite KZbinrs so I enjoyed this✨

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks Anna!

[@colleenc.9900]

Great video. I love how well you mesh your personality and education. Again, great job. Well done!

[@deihoward]

this video was so helpful tbh, especially the first half, idk why it kinda boosted my confidence lmao

[@idkwhattonamemyself9326]

I love her 😍 her personality and her mindset is same like me I can relate to her cuz of her podcasts ❤️

[@WhatEver-fv2vd]

Wow I am so thankful I was inspired to click on your video 🎉I tend to overlook some celebrities but now I actually need to start learning more about them! Thank you for making your videos so fun and educational 😃

[@AnthonyRecenello]

of course!

[@kiarrathomas1]

I didn’t expect this video to hit like it did!! Can you please do more of these on women? I’ve been watching all day lol

[@tinyluna6043]

I've been following Emma since about 3 years and you are totally right!! I don't know how you do it but her true self expression and quick-witted actitud was what made me a subscriber of hers. This also applies to you and your insightful channel!!!

[@turanyoung2323]

Hellooo

[@anastasiayakubovich3628]

Can you do zoë kravitz? When I watch interviews about her I always think what would Anthony say about her lol❤️😄 On the other note, I loved this video, really good ..as always!

[@joana.joana.j]

omg yessss she is so attractiveeee

[@BbGun-lw5vi]

Anastasia Yakubovich She’s beautiful. But she’s so boring. Have you watched interviews with her? I watched her tell a Prince story on a Late Night show and she was just flat. Which surprised me because I expected her to be charming.

[@pristoste]

@@BbGun-lw5vi yep, the looks is the only thing going for her and even that she is pretty average

[@BbGun-lw5vi]

lanacaprina Very true. Her acting skills are also lacking. I’m disappointed she’s Catwoman in the new Batman movie.

[@MissMiaSparkle]

@@BbGun-lw5vi OMG EXACTLY! For almost a decade of seeing her with the coolest friends, boyfriends and designers… I was like wow what a woman… then I heard her speak for the first time with that prince story… never showed interest AGAIN!

[@doubleagent2504]

100% one of your best videos

[@jasc2906]

First of all this video opened my eyes up on how I put all this anxiety on myself all the time when I’m at school to try and fit myself in somewhere and let it all come to me but turns out sometimes u got to makes your own path. Anyways one day at school I decided I didn’t care what anyone thought and just expressed how I was feeling in that moment I didn’t realise how much that expressing exactly how I felt when I was around others made me less anxious and happy, with them also wanting to talk to me more. that if I forces on the exact person and appreciate there presents to whoever I’m talking to and show them my emotions at that state in time,be myself I became closer with them without even realising what I was doing. (Hope this all made sense)

[@alvaropradob]

Please react to CORPSE. I think he always makes a unique first impression on everyone he meets/talks to.

[@saeedah9298]

really enjoyed this video, and particularly liked what you said about grace! i've always admired this quality in those that have it, they're so comfortable with themselves and their environment and they have this ease of movement that i've actually tried to achieve myself. been doing yoga and dancing to help me feel for comfortable in my body, and it helps a lot but as soon as i'm around people i suddenly feel like "oh shit, i am now being perceived right" and then i feel restricted again, but i am working on this!

[@MrGuyshon]

Since I started following you like 2 years ago and you mentioned that there are 9 traits for charm Ive been waiting for them. BTW, if you want more people to become classic charmers then maybe you could do videos on how to embrace even more every single trait from the list because I believe everyone of us has got to some degree a bit of every trait in us, and we jst have to polish them a bit. Keep up the great work eternal couuchh ya da maan

[@ShubhamKumar-rb6ts]

This series is always my favourite one!

[@Pol-kw5gq]

Woah love the editing dude!

[@gerardnll2]

Your content is fire Anthony. Thanks for your work

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Glad you enjoy it 🙏🏻

[@j_chua]

"A big part of being confident is choosing to respect, love, and own exactly how you feel at all times." THANK YOU!

[@rihannagirl556]

Thank you for the hard work that went into this Anthony! :) Much love

[@enidfrommyname]

You read people so well!

[@catarina_tai]

thanks for explaining why i’ve liked her since the first video i watched of her

[@pizzadohpaz]

So uh, where's the rest of these charm videos?? I love these! I would especially love for you to analyze Marlon Brando because he is so different in interviews than any other celebrity I've ever seen.

[@wildwavynina]

Not gonna lie I got a bit teary eyed during this video. I never watched your video before and this got totally random recommended (I also do not really watch emma) but wow it hit home!! You 100 percent described me and a lot of the things you mentioned (during puberty) were hard things for me to accept about myself. My Mom always told me that there is good in those things and that they make me so unique (she is a psychologist),. Now being 22 I am embracing them more and more then ever (I also sometimes call it going back to my childhood self aka the true version of how I feel inside - embracing my love for life, others individuality, adventures etc.). And I simply love it. I love that I am emotional and that I can express it. I love that I can get excited about nearly everything and share passion with others. So much more. It makes me so incredible happy to see this and also proud not gonna lie. I can not wait to see what I can continue to create with my passion and strengths. Greetings from a german girl commuting between the netherlands and new zealand!!

[@bungeegum8792]

Thank you for this😁

[@jokejoke448]

Thanks for the video Anthony! I gotta say, when I watched it, I felt both relief and depression. Personality wise, I consider myself very similar to Emma, but I’ve restrained myself and beaten myself up for so many years, that I’m a shell of who I once was. I was depressed watching this just seeing how I could be, but am not being. On the other hand, I felt relief because now I know that that power is in my hands, and I can create that change for myself, and maybe finally get to live the free and authentic life I’ve always dreamt of. Wish me luck! Sending my love to you, and everyone here in the comments!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Beautiful comment. Thanks for telling me that!

[@jokejoke448]

Anthony Recenello Absolutely! Thanks for your awesome content. 👊

[@darpur5469]

Sometimes I wish I had this type of personality instead of my introvert lame one lmao

[@perlaserafini9999]

Me too :(

[@anglophoned]

Every time i see her in a vlog, you can see everyone wants to be her friend

[@JoeJoak]

Hey, dude, thanks a lot for everything you do it is so inspiring for me to get to be myself and embrace my individuality as you say haha. I think a topic that fits perfectly is the definition of assertiveness, I recently learned it and it basically knocks a couple of traits you mention. Thanks again for your service in existence

[@josephineogrady9317]

Thank you so much for this!!!

[@amymendez8401]

She’s also confident because of her amazing relationship with her father

[@bengreeley5681]

Where does she talk about that

[@yeseniajulloa8953]

her voice at 5:08 is so much higher than it is now

[@aboveaveragejane3126]

I was thinking this exact thing when it came on and then I saw this comment lol

[@AujgobeeEzhely]

Wow great video dude. what you said about the introvert-extrovert thing describes exactly what i am struggling with right now and what i'm trying to work on myself, it's good to know that i am not the only one who struggles with that.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Glad it was helpful 🙏🏻

[@Creed_of_Zion]

Dude, thanks for the free extreme value

[@elizabethm1550]

Anthony this was super helpful!

[@turanyoung2323]

Hiiiiiiii ❤🌹, how you doing greetings from 🇺🇸....

[@PaigeWalsh]

Anthony!!! Loved this video ✨

[@madlyn8851]

This is a really interesting video! Thank you for posting. I have been told A LOT that being intense/passionate and sharing so much of myself makes me come off as overwhelming and too much. I have been told that this scares people off. It seems like that is something that you are saying is a "good" thing. I do feel like it is hard to find people that don't shy away from real or intense conversations and this has made me feel like there is something wrong with me. But this video is making me see these traits in a new way. Thanks.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

🙏🏻 much love mad

[@ramenyummm]

Hey Anthony! Idk how relevant this would be but I’d love to see you analyse Sandra Bullock. You’ve done a lot of these of men and id love to see more of women, specifically Sandra Bullock because I’ve always admired her ‘presence’ as a youngling. Also, love your videos!

[@TD-pl5qi]

SO EXCITED!!!

[@kimoicom]

Love your stuff. What do you do when in embracing your individuality, you have to sacrifice the other traits? (Or the other way around) How do you balance being true to yourself and inhabiting traits that make you charming?

[@katiehotham1474]

Loved the video 👍🏻❤

[@yasminacazorlacordero4736]

You should do Cardi B’s charm! I think it’d be really interesting

[@melofx1]

Yes

[@udhav423]

Sara P because they can’t be her

[@dragonballreviewsandprevie7112]

@Sara P being magnetic or charismatic doenst mean you charm you can be yourself and be charismatic and hated

[@thandoginindza5563]

@Sara P 😭😭😭

[@baldorodriguez287]

This is so helpful 🙏

[@eliseebaybee]

Great video!

[@orchardjpg]

Can you do a video on the charm of the more mysterious or less forthcoming characters? Like Keanu or Rihanna. They’re very charming and likable and honest yet still maintain a sort of mystery. I think that would be very cool and interesting to learn from

[@halos.1]

This was surprisingly enlightening

[@TRESSS]

Your content has really helped me switch perspective from trying to be someone to embracing myself more.. And it feels much better! Thank you, doing my part by liking, subscribing and sharing! ^^

[@Kar3nab1gas]

I just love her, I'm hypnotized by her personality 😍

[@srutica2234]

I am OBSESSED with how good emma looks in the thumbnail❤

[@zalmea3877]

thank you for this, I'm going to try to be more expressive with how I feel, people have told me that I am a very 'real' human and I'm scared I'll become less of myself one day because of society and I hate conformity. SO I'm going to be embracing myself more.

[@taylormademadness]

Every time I watch one of your videos I wish I could hire you to help me out. I need a dating/life coach.

[@lenasvisionblog]

Thank you for this.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

no thank YOU lena 🥰

[@ANOUGDRAW1]

Wow this video really helped

[@katty7344]

Great video! I love watching Emma and this is all explained so well!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

THANK U KATHERINE!!!!! 🙏🏻

[@olive-gy2rt]

Anthony Recenello woah calm down there buddy

[@taylorjosephs5784]

She reminds me of Jennifer Lawrence(a little).

[@sarumonkii]

makes sense...that's why i don't like her (them)

[@Julia-zd4gc]

Yes!!

[@ecb3828]

venus then leave boo ✌️😒

[@sarumonkii]

E CB lol why should i leave?

[@Edraxo]

venus negativity isn’t charming my dude

[@delayte0133]

Hey Anthony I’ve been a supporter now for a long time, maybe you remember some comments I wrote:) I just wanted to let you know that I would appreciate a breakdown of Bruce Lee because I’ve seen a lot of him lately and he’s become one of my biggest role models which is greatly due to his Charme. Thank you and great video as always ;)

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

Imagine if you were Emma and saw this video...big compliment! 😊

[@marrrzgotbarz]

LOVE this

[@marijauz]

Yayy love this