OnlyFans has RUINED our generation.

[@soho6435]

Whoever convinced women that p*rn is empowering needs a marketing award

[@ohklahoma7376]

Plot twist: It was the same guy who made those Little Dark Age War edits to convince men war is fun

[@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend]

Not everyone experiences sex, porn or exhibitionism the way you do.

[@fairygodmother139]

@@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriendno one cares. It should be banned

[@koy3y3y_]

​@ohklahoma7376 comparing women objectifying their bodies for money and profit to men getting drafted to die in defence of their country, families and people's freedom and life is diabolical... oh damn

[@Valstrax420]

Jews

[@-RAINN-]

The fact that there are undoubtedly married men on OF spending hundreds on the models but won't even bother giving their wives money for groceries is so disheartening...

[@sarahaque1382]

It's blackpilling icl

[@meadowc6058]

I’m a retired stripper and even before OF existed men with rings on their finger would come to the club and spend til their bank account showed 0$ It’s nothing new men aren’t changing new ways are just being invented

[@bubblelina]

Your so right

[@aim-for-greatn3z947]

This definitely happens. However, those ARE WEAK MEN!! Unfortunately I do believe this generation of men and most millennial are fucked!

[@eveeee6464]

Whenever I think this way it sends me into a spiral and makes me scared for the future

[@leanndurnan7903]

Lily's "team" is her family! Her brother is her manager and her mother is her assistant. Something in this kids childhood is NOT right. So sad.

[@kaoshi_kutie]

Agreed

[@kaoshi_kutie]

Agreed

[@Sideways-Girl]

Ew.

[@dreamiinotdream730]

Wtf?!

[@ombrenightcores]

@@leanndurnan7903 I didn’t know that. No wonder she offered to do it again even after she cried. I feel weird for using this term this way, but her family is kinda pimpïng her out

[@sukizukiie]

100 guys in one day is scary. Definitely my worst nightmare 😭😭

[@NkirukasWrld]

i'd rather die than do that

[@sukizukiie]

​@@NkirukasWrldYou're so reall

[@pinkengineering]

One guy is my nightmare

[@BatkoNashBandera774]

@@NkirukasWrld as any normal woman should think, if you ask me, but who df am I..

[@JulianSteve]

I honestly do not know how she did it…. I hope she’s healing and taking it slow. I know her body’s tired 😪

[@BlakeSynder-di8hi]

100s of years of protest just to end up in online brothel. Just depressing.

[@-minic1624]

In the end the women yern for the brothels

[@LeJulesHi]

Yeeeesssss 🥺

[@LadyLastWarning]

FOR REAL!!!!

[@xijin_pooh5158]

😂😂😂

[@FNFNFN99KKK]

Well said!

[@sureafraid]

I found that 100 guys stunt to be extremely triggering for some reason. Repulsive even. It cannot be healthy no matter how you slice it.

[@nomadic_orthodox]

Next plan is 300 and then 1000

[@Schrumpelkartoffel]

and the fact that men pay for a few seconds to put their discostick into the same woman, one by one, some not "even" getting off, standing in line for hours with other weirdos (yes, idc, these people are weirdos, period.) and their own leeks. i mean...????? and many got mad for not being able to finish off inwithon her. Men still wonder about, that we choose a bear. it's just one other ridiculous example, what men are capable of, if it's about getting their bottles into a cup.

[@deathonwheels1355]

​@nomadic_orthodox Y i k e s She was dissociating throughout her 100 guys challenge and her team didn't seem to check up on her until much later. I hope she is okay, this doesn't seem healthy regardless of ethics😵‍💫

[@kiterafrey]

If someone said they'd have 100 bodies in general, whatever. But in one day, that wouldn't just be emotionally rough, even if you don't link smex and love, but it would also be so physically stressful and put you at such a high risk for STIs. I cannot fathom why she'd risk it. If just one of those 100 guys, which would be really hard to vet all of them fast enough for the stunt, gave her an STI her career would be over. And because of how our society sees SW, she'd struggle to find a job. That's just too big a risk and too detrimental to yourself IMO.

[@Tampontimothy]

​@@kiterafrey100 bodies in general is disgusting. Man or woman.

[@capcup6639]

I’m a struggling university student. This is no excuse to pimp myself on the internet. What puts on internet stays on internet. It’s forever

[@k.a.w177]

id honestly have to be at rock bottom to consider selling my intimate parts on the internet let alone sleeping with random guys for money, idk how i could throw away my dignity just for some dollars im better off bussing my arse at a 9-5 and learning skills that’ll be beneficial to me in later adulthood.

[@missb9719]

needed this. Im a uni student as well but after I saw how much Sophie rain makes, oh gosh I was thinking about it

[@bean1731]

@@missb9719 You are going to uni to help your future self, now do your future self a favor and not ruin all your hard work by selling your dignity online. Your dignity is literally priceless and irreplaceable. Times will get better ❤ Saying this with big sisterly love

[@aim-for-greatn3z947]

​@missb9719 goes to show woman nature instead of finding a man sex is always an option. It's insane how stupid a woman mind is wired 😂 However this society nevermind years ago media brainwashed women.. Nowadays women are showing their TRUE colors, I always asked myself this if women didn't have sex.. theres nothing else really to offer 🤷🏾 So I probably would of considered it too.

[@cascaa5357]

@@missb9719 rather work + study even tho it’s hard than selling your dignity for nothing

[@notssure3081]

I'm 22 now, but many of my friends joined OF the moment they turned 18. None of them (who are all very pretty women may i add) and made no money. One of them had the photos leaked on adult sites and other places. she cant get those photos removed everywhere :( she always worries her work place will find them and she could be fired. I hate how many young girls are being pushed into it, it breaks my heart :(

[@DD-kv5uu]

As a 23 year old female college student that still struggling to make it, I say that It's a choice lol. No one's forcing them to do it.

[@mariecoheng]

@@DD-kv5uuI think she is very aware she cannot control their actions. However the consequences of s work need to be talked more (s3xual trauma, STDs, photos being leaked, aging). I know you don’t want to hear them but that does not mean they don’t exist.

[@notssure3081]

@ 18 year olds aren’t emotionally mature at all, they made a silly choice yes, but also, a lot of the people in porn have mental health difficulties, or have been groomed themselves or are dealing with other trauma. It may be a choice, but it’s a choice that wasn’t made by someone who was fully ready for it and they all very thoroughly regret it. Not to mention the normalisation of the porn industry absolutely grooms young girls into it. For example the ‘bop house’ are attempting to get a 17 year old girl to join them. They are grooming a 17 year old girl into the industry, a lot of women and girls who are Sex workers have also been groomed to do it. I am personally anti porn and sex industry but I always support the workers and unfortunately in SW a lot of people get groomed into it. I never put the full blame on the girls because if the disgusting men buying it didn’t want it, they wouldn’t be doing it.

[@_Darkskullet]

U don't find ur freinds pretty

[@notssure3081]

@ no I think they’re all gorgeous 😌 if not perfect

[@LalabyePie]

I'm a girl who sadly struggled with hypersexuality and c0rn addiction and this breaks me heart seeing content being pushed like this as "empowering" people with these addictions are mentally sick and brain washed. With our world continuing to push this kind of media I have a feeling it might be too far gone for people to get help, since it's kind of looked down upon. Kids find out about these things so early and it breaks my heart. I'm 18 and I'm still processing mental scars; trying to save my first time instead of falling into that narrative of " going into a hoe phase" it pains me.

[@soho6435]

@@alexshone3869 omg girl you have never dated before and you wanna go into s*x work? pls don't do this to yourself you sound really young so this would be a terrible idea because most OF models make 150 dollars a months like she said in the video so it's not even worth it. i actually felt really sad reading your comment. do you have anyone in your life you can talk to and confide in?

[@Vineethajojo]

Being single make this even worse

[@stannosaurus]

Yes people value sex and sexuality so so much over every other aspect of a person. People, especially women, are more valuable as commodities rather than fully fleshed out human beings.

[@jaughnekow]

sadly, people do not care

[@caid733]

Were you sexually abused as a child? Im asking because ive been a victim of it as well and have overcome hypersexuality

[@cattosakamotto]

Idgaf if I'm gonna be hated. I'm a woman too & it makes me sad at how women in the sex industry has become an empowerment or being a yacht girl or an escort. Their isn't one bit empowering with this shit because these men who pays you makes you believe that you successfully controlled them when it reality, they are the ones feeding you & preying on you to do the same shit again & again because they validate what you've been craving for. Its so sad because there's a lot of other successfull women who put up an organization in helping other women be funded properly & guided properly in life but then you'll have them feeling empowered by selling themselves. Idk what's with the "if men can do it, so do women" mindset shit came from but men are already doing the stupid shit, y'all don't have to match them just to feel good & empowered. Its batshit stupid.

[@k.a.w177]

id rather be hated for being against it than be hated for contributing in it 😭 one is way worse than the other tbh

[@adamssmasher]

you aren't gonna be hated bruh🤣 theres a bunch of swerfs here to cheer you on

I'm a woman who doesn't like sexual stuff. I just weld for a living

[@neonmushroooms2339]

@@adamssmasher these ppl against sw aren’t necessarily anti sex workers (people who are already in that world) to be called swerfs. it’s possible to be against sw yet not condemn ppl who do it out of necessity.

[@iammar1159]

I’m so glad so many women in the comments have the right mindset. There are a lot of folks that would call us haters and say we’re judgmental for pointing out the obvious truth.

[@runaria]

i feel like there is a high correlation with our need to hypersexualize ourselves with misogyny... and unfortunately a lot of us misunderstood it and thought this is wholly empowering while it most of the time it isnt :')

[@NkirukasWrld]

This is a really good point and I agree. I feel the need to hyper-sexualize ourselves stems from misogyny. I don’t know if you have heard of cooking with Kya but she blew up on tiktok by basically pleasing/catering to men. These are the things women have to do to be successful/blow up its sooooooooo annoying

[@lolalalia4119]

You have to remember who the ones are telling women it is empowering: the patriarchy and predominantly men that run the s industry. Our hypersexualization is through the male gaze. The problem is that mysogyny and the patriarchy are not a gender-issue since everyone across the spectrum is subjected to this paradigm.

[@temtaesionon7seas331]

@@NkirukasWrldomg so true, and now men are trying to lower other females self esteem by saying that she’s a wife material.

[@runaria]

@@NkirukasWrld omg yes, just saw her everywhere recently (and the discourse that comes with it). and she is exactly a fitting example for this case. like there is a major difference with dressing up sexy and revealing when were just partying, going out, having fun etc. with the ones just like cooking with kya, in which we HAVE to be overly sexualized to gain traction. also the fact that this is impacting ppl with younger age demographic makes it even worse, these young ppl are being desensitized and will grow up thinking theyre worth MUST include them being sex objects in addition of their skill or talents. so basically nothing much has changed for us women...😭

[@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend]

Some women are genuinely exhibitionists. I know it's really hard to grasp that not everyone is you.

[@starpoptarts]

The way these ppl paying hundreds of dollars in OF could be a ur doctor, a local surgeon, an engineer, a teacher or anyone with a stable career 😭

[@jasmineshelton759]

As a spicy dancer, I cam assure you it's absolutely ALL of them. The ppl you meet in this industry is insane

[@starpoptarts]

@ that’s so crazy to me! Like ur hard earned money and the amount of work put in ur career is being paid for OF…

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Even heard cases of people's family members watching them. 😭💀

[@mailenvelardez1123]

​@@toxiczombiewolf5692What??? Thats crazy and disgusting

[@beewest5704]

​@@toxiczombiewolf5692Yeah Lily said some of her dad's friends applied to be part of the 101. That is 🤮. How does she look at them at her dad's poker game?

[@HealingIsOk]

I have been waiting for this, i'm a silent watcher, but as a 13 yr old myself, these are not good for us. The fact that hypersexuality is so heavily pushed out there. I know a lot of girls myself that do take part in that. The twerking, the instagram, the innapropriate videos. I really hope this changes.

[@NkirukasWrld]

Thanks for watching i appreciate the support ! I hope you enjoy.also im glad your not letting these type of things influence you!❤️I hope it changes too

[@BadGirlMimi94]

I am so proud of you! To be able to articulate yourself like this at your age, reason the way that you do and set such a modest standard for yourself is so impressive to me. You remind me of myself at your age and I hope you never allow anyone or anything to make you deter from your moral values. They were rare when i was growing up and they are even rarer now. Don't be afraid to seperate yourself from girls who don't hold themselves to the same standard that you do because you will be tainted with the same brush as them. Especially as you get older. I pray that you are guided, i pray that your spiritual ability to discern, know and understand lifes complexities will always protect you wherever you go. Lots of love to you princess ❤

[@mariabrown6926]

You are wise beyond your years 🧠❤️

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Unfortunately when i was around your age i became hypersexual due to CSA. Its ruined my brain on how i see sex. I'm currently avoiding relationships to sort myself out first but you're right to the media sell sex so much its hard to avoid. You're very wise for your age. ❤

[@DarthWall275]

​​@@BadGirlMimi94You sound like a borderline gr**mer.

[@sollyfan]

I’m just gonna say it, I think it’s nasty and degrading. There

[@yodickninja]

100%, there's nothing empowering about being a whore

[@limabean3249]

The amount of people that find this empowering is honestly concerning. Doing those things online and other things like "hoe phases" are ridiculous and I'm sick of people saying that helped them feel confident or empowered. Actual confidence should be based on more than oversexualizing yourself

[@aporue5893]

no,I agree actually.This is awful,for women and anyone else. People are not objects to be sold. This is disgusting.

[@Cosmic_Solace]

This. Because the degradation, physical and mental damage caused are irreversible. Youth is fleeting, past a certain age you'll be reduced to a has-been who f*cked for cash. But if you maintain integrity, despite being "poor" or not having a huge income, keep your clothes on, it pays off as you age. Both for women and men.

[@lunam.3207]

Well, it is😂 no normal person would think this is ok. This society has some very dark and twisted sides. We become more and more superficial, it’s so sad

[@boyfrenn]

Intercourse is such an intimate act to share with someone it makes me kinda sad that people dont cherish it as it should be. The craziest thing someone has ever told me was that saying "i love you" to someone you love romantically is a bigger deal than sleeping with them, as in sleeping with someone before telling them you love them is normalized but the other way around isnt because it means you are "rushing things", im all for taking your time to get to know the person before actually committing and getting into the relationship but this just isnt right to me at all...

[@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend]

Not everyone is the same. I'm glad you feel confident in knowing yourself, but it doesn't give you the right to decide how everyone else feels.

[@fairygodmother139]

@@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriendbro just because you’re a whore doesn’t mean everyone is

[@AlbanianPsych0_]

i totally agree with you, i’ve felt the same for the longest time and it’s always frustrated me.

[@spotted_moon]

​@@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend they did not do that, read it again.

[@tanyabondia7499]

I remember a few months ago there was this tiktok that talked about how people are not willing to kiss during intercourse. Similar to what you mentioned they said kissing is a big deal they would rather have sex than kiss someone cause it's like an act of love.

[@bethedior]

i don't understand why some women think that being naked on the internet is empowering. For me empowerement is having the same rights as guys in life, in the work place, about salaries, getting promotions, being treated respectfully, not having sexist comments, fighting rape culture etc .....

[@Ella_010]

It’s so messed up and doesn’t make sense to me. S*x work is literally an outcome of patriarchy it’s literally centred on pleasing men like how is that empowering or feminism 😂😂

[@TJ-Judge]

Advertisement Marketing convinced them that its empowering. They internalised the message into their subconscious.

[@MsTheWildOne]

👏🏼 yes!!

[@joosisverygood]

honestly as a woman who did OF like 3+ years ago, it’s a terrible thing. I was 19 and I fell for the whole “sexualizing yourself is empowering” type of stuff, so I put myself out there. I was extremely naive and thrived off of the male validation, and in the end I only felt worse and disgusted with myself! If someone wants to do it.. Sure by all means, but it is not at all empowering.

[@mx.chi2]

@@SuperiorlySubversive that's literally not true at all. that's going to the other end of the extremes. empowerment is doing what's right for you regardless of what society is trying to sell you as "right for you".

[@Charliielicous]

I heard the requests can change your view of men

[@brokerjk4197]

The validation is not in positive way it’s just hungry eyes . It’s pure objectification .

[@Ihatemayo11992]

And It’s so sad how she was crying after.. she doesn’t know her worth.. It’s crazy to see how these young girls want to join OnlyFans right after they turn 18. insane.

[@jasmineshelton759]

Is the devil's work, literal or not

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

​@@jasmineshelton759 not its mens work. If men didn't pay woman wouldn't sell.

[@choclitgal]

she was crying but said she wanted to go for 1000. save ur sympathy for someone who actually deserves it

[@nihaldabizarre]

@@choclitgalshe’s a victim of our society. and she is clearly getting abused by people around her including her family. it is not hard to see. she cant see the worth of herself like the op said but we can. she is a kind beautiful girl who’s values and coping mechanisms unfortunately got twisted. we should support her in a way to make all women feel safe to get help and make other decisions.

[@choclitgal]

@ she chose to have sex with 100 men, now she wanna have sex with 1000 😭😭😷 she doing it to herself

[@trala8911]

With the girl Lily who went with 100 men, I’ve now heard numerous others say it, and it’s absolutely the impression I got also, but it agree that it seems like the 100 men thing was a form of self-harm. The fact that she is now planning to try for 1000 is honestly heartbreaking. I genuinely hold nothing against her; while I do think that what she’s doing is harmful for society and young women - and men - I really think she’s an unwell young girl, and it’s absolutely terrible that so many men and women were willing to be involved in taking advantage of her in this way. Whereas Bonny Blue I feel like knows exactly what she’s doing and can be held 100% culpable for her actions and the consequences of her behaviour on society, Lilly seems far more vulnerable, far more damaged, and just genuinely in need of help. I feel just awful for her.

[@choclitgal]

she knows exactly what she's doing also. which is making money.

[@ql6746]

She’s a bad person. She asked for other people’s husbands. These people are disgusting.

[@nothingbored8137]

Can't agree with you. Do you think somebody hold a gun to push her doing what she've done.

[@enemyofthesheeple]

Boohoo.

[@TyTrack_127]

Isnt she scared to get pregnant or to get sexual health issues from sick men like-

[@kimbelkisdelancy1229]

Imagine the diseases that you can catch with that, definitely crazy.🤦‍♀️😭 And the Gynecologist?, Insanee😭

[@NkirukasWrld]

It’s just so irresponsible! Ppl do anything for content 😭😭

[@JulianSteve]

For real. Some people be taking their bodies for granted🫤💯

[@anhduong453]

YESS and she told us she let those random men did it on her face with condom off and her eyes started burning so bad 💀💀 You could be blind girlie chlamydia is a serious disease

[@Channiej93]

I think we are forgetting the biggest one of them: hpv causing cervical cancer 😶

[@2stayweird]

@@Channiej93 This one!! Men can't even test for HPV, they just spread it and then we bear the consequences.

[@samday414]

I think only fans is a symptom of a larger economic problem. Lots of women don’t want to do this but feel they have to because financially it’s their only option. Minimum wage won’t even cover basic living expenses, people are drowning in debt. This website is often a last resort for a lot of desperate women.

[@aielianna]

it's literally just capitalism lol

[@ql6746]

Or you could get married and have a family…

[@SibilaDelphos]

@@ql6746 that is not the answer for eveyone

[@samday414]

@ Giving birth costs about $10k, and child care is freaking expensive. If anything families are often in a worse financial position than single people, because even two incomes isn’t enough to cover the cost of raising kids. So how exactly is marrying someone and popping out babies supposed to solve these people financial issues. These women are in thousands of dollars of student debt and can hardly afford to pay the rent. But now they have $10k of medical debt and another human to look after and pay for, so all their problems are solved.

[@ql6746]

@@samday414 wow, you’re a loser. You think of a human being only as an expense. Pathetic and so, we did it for generations and so many females are so repulsive personality wise that they sell ass instead of working or having a relationship. This is what you told us gen xers to be quiet about so enjoy prostitution. It’s easier to be a decent person. Btw, you don’t have to go to college and get student loan debt. If you could get along with someone, you could work together and build.

[@beeprince4652]

i honestly dont think she actually knows why shes crying. its obvious that she's convinced herself that its okay and isn't affecting her. but at the same time, it's impossible for it to NOT effect you. she definitely did it just to say she did it. but personally, i often cry after disassociating even if i dont know why i did it in the first place. her body is pleading for her to take a break and take time for HERSELF, and i think her uncontrollably starting to cry is just proof of it. she probably thinks theres nothing wrong with what shes doing to herself, and therefore her needing to cry means that it must be something easily explainable. maybe she thinks that even though she doesn't actually rlly care that much, she's subconsciously sad about the guys not getting a good time. so it MUST be that. its the only reason that makes sense, right? at least to her. and if she's genuinely crying simply because of the possibility that the guys didnt have a perfect time, that's heartbreaking too and also points to extreme issues. if shes crying because the men who volunteered to fuck her might not have loved it, it just shows how deeply shes attached her self worth to the happiness of random men. if theyre not happy, shes failed them. because thats what shes meant for, shes here to make them happy. and if she cant, shes failing at her only job in the world. again, at least in her mind. she did it to beat a record, but she's sacrificing her physical and mental health for it. and people love it. its obviously not for fun or pleasure, its for the title. which, it IS quite an impressive title. one day when shes 60 shes gnna make a documentary about how horrible she felt during all this and how shes finally on her healing journey from the trauma. id bet on it

[@iridescentraindrops]

I think she's taught that what she does is her only worth as a woman. She needs to get away from this environment and her parents probably and really contemplate more, but I doubt it. Also I think she doesn't realize it yet but her crying on the documentary was a typical trauma response from people using her and her letting it happen, because sometimes the latter is much harder to accept.

[@nude_cat_ellie7417]

If she doesn’t get help soon, she’s not making it to 60. That level of self harm is at high risk for self deletion.

[@ladyoftheflowers44]

She reminds me of this girl I know from Florida whose parents are really religious , her ex tried to beat her with a bat and her mom told her she needed to stay. Her new boyfriend got her pregnant, gave her an incurable STI and then told her he was gonna go sleep with other women while she took care of it She read books about polyamory and got a poly approved therapist, but still her body began to revolt and panic around her new boyfriend She sobbed in my arms “why is my body doing this, I just want my body to be okay with him sleeping with other women, I want to be poly, I want to be poly, poly is all I’ve ever known, I have to be poly” Your body will always tell you the truth No one can feel safe doing that because you’re not safe. And the fact that she wasn’t worried about STIs when statistically she will get one is horrible.

[@hopepeek2487]

Exactly how I felt!! The men can tell too that she’s not doing okay mentally and they’re sick for guilting her. I have a past of sexual trauma and dissociated during a lot of it. When I get triggered during consensual sex with my partner, I start to dissociate because I have the societal expectations in my head to please my boyfriend so I don’t ask to stop sometimes. But the thing is he notices IMMEDIATELY and ask what’s going on. He doesn’t ask if I want to stop he says he can’t ethically continue….. just makes me so sad for her that these men not only continue but ask her for more and say they’re dissatisfied. I hope so much that she doesn’t do the 1000. I cried watching her interviews because she genuinely seems like such a sweet woman

[@zazuzazu-wb4oc]

I feel like it is degrading even if it feels empowering (in the moment) because of the long term consequences, two things can be true at once. If you're constantly putting yourself out there as a sex object for the public, while the attention and validation is nice in the moment, over time it can start to wear on you. As humans, sex is only a small part of someone's individuality but if that's all you're focusing on, slowly the other qualities start to dwindle away, not to mention that this kind of career has SO MUCH emphasis on your body and long term it's so unhealthy to have a hyperfocus towards that. The modeling industry itself is bad enough (eating disorders, body dysmorphia and other mental issues associated with body image) but to now add this whole other layer of sexuality and desirablity on to it? It can't be healthy for them mentally, especially because we know just how kind media is to women once they no longer fit the standard because of things like aging, weight gain/loss etc. There's a difference between posting a few slutty pictures when you're in a phase in your life vs a full blown public career where the whole premise is to objectify yourself to play into a stranger's fantasy.

[@dollguts9801]

agreed!!

[@biljam972]

As a mom I would NEVER disowned my daughter if she joined OF! Never! I would try all my best to get her out of that, but I would never give up on her. No good parent would. Just saying.

[@deanstownhall]

Ur comment gives me some faith in the sea of all these other comments im seeing 🙏

[@BarbaraKibira]

As a mother as well, you should set the standard. Your child should never even have the thought of OF in the first place. Being open with your daughter helps, my mum was very open with me about older men (we're black so having a notorious history of girls early sexualisation helped my mum bring awareness to me). I will do the same with my daughter (and son) when she gets older. Start with telling and equipping your daughter that her brain will be her freedom and not her body.

[@peanutboxes4076]

Good parents don’t have kids who end up on OF though.

[@TheAstroWitchLux]

If it's her choice then you should support her, not try to manipulate her to give up her choice. It at least agree to disagree.

[@TheAstroWitchLux]

That's nonsensical. There are unethical, bigoted and criminal parents whose children are not on OF. And charitable, kind and empathetic people whose children are on OF. It just depends on whether their children are ambitious and want to make money, whether they have the time, whether they like technology and are comfortable in front of the camera, etc.

[@kiterafrey]

As someone who was a victim of childhood SA and dissociated for the majority of my life during spicy times, and could still be triggered after a lifetime of therapy, it breaks my heart to see someone willing to do that to themselves. It isn't a pleasant experience to shut down during intimacy.

[@roccafille]

These guys spending all that money. I bet they don’t do that for their community. That is ridicoulous. Rich people specially billionaires but also multi millionaires are unethical most of the time. They would rather pay for sexy pictures then help hungry people. Gross imo. Rich people ruin everything!!

[@lawliet6910]

Amen. They really do

[@3dprintinglady]

What’s saddest here is the fact that OF and selling yourself online has become this lucrative. It really mocks all efforts of all those women who don’t prost*tute themselves, study and try to work hard in regular careers - in the real world nobody can expect profits just looks and no real talent or skills.

[@cattosakamotto]

Welcome to feminism. Empowerment they say.

[@indiascott8044]

@@cattosakamotto no. this is liberal feminism. not to be mistaken for other types of feminism. most women with a sound mind do not agree with the exploitation of women being "empowering"

[@coffeebean4356]

Looks have ALWAYS been prioritized over skills for decades

[@TheAstroWitchLux]

Yes, for men as well, unfortunately. Just in different ways.

[@grandpa_the_kid]

I feel like as women we feel like we have to stick up for women making this choice, but I think stuff like OF hurts us so much more in the long run. It’s teaching men all women have a price and teaching them to view us as objects. I will never judge the girls who do SW because there’s a demand, but I think we need to start realizing we can be girls supporting girls AND acknowledge that SW hurt women

[@ahv5566]

Completely agree!

[@klaudinegarcia8932]

AGREE!!!

[@yukolov2063]

the fact that Sophie Rain looks 14-15 and is an OnlyFans creator is INSANE .I get it, it's their choice, but you can't convince me that the viewers aren't creeps who have no respect for women and see them as objects

[@X9xx99]

Feminist logic.

[@soho6435]

exactly, it's so disgusting

[@commandery3574]

what on earth do people think 14-15 year olds look like? she looks young yes, but she looks at least 18. Have we forgotten what literal children look like??

[@anyone1111]

@@commandery3574 Exactly like I don’t see any 14-15 year old who looks like that. They usually look their age, and if not they’re the outliers usually. She looks her age imo. Maybe a few years younger, but she still looks her age.

[@soho6435]

@@commandery3574 you can’t possibly think that she has a mature looking face. she very obviously has a baby face bro get a grip

[@Yoest.1]

And the western media is trying to convince women that stuff like this is empowering😓

[@mackenziekita9920]

No, that’s just western men propaganda doing that then women who try to back them up on it and try to convince other women how this is a “good” thing/ financial choice since they also contribute to the problem and just as bad as the men who perpetuate this gross trend

[@BadGirlMimi94]

Speaking from the perspective of an African born (Zimbabwean), British raised ( grew up in Scotland from the age of 9) 30 year old woman, just the thought of my mother alone brings both my (currently broke ass) feet back to ground when I even so much as THINK about starting an OF page 😂. As fine as I am (in my humble opinion), I would try everything else to make money, and even IF all that failed, I would rather starve. I would never be able to live with myself after putting myself through all the self harm most of these women are putting themselves through by doing OF. The money makes it look appealing but the reality of it is not only degrading, its enough to make you feel disgusted in yourself. And I deserve better than that 😊.

[@inulahmusic]

Exactly, you know your worth. ( And i 1000% feel you on african parents/family lmaooo)

[@BadGirlMimi94]

@inulahmusic I'm terrified of my mum 🤣🤣 with my grown ass looooool

[@jenniferbrown3782]

White moms used to be scary too. 😂

[@Berry1704]

im 16 sometimes i think oh ill start it if i wanna but then i realize i rather NOT sell my body and feel disgusting to even have such thought and if my parents would know abt it when im older i am DEAD.

[@peanutboxes4076]

@@Berry1704please don’t ever do OF. In a world full of Lilly’s, be something better, you can achieve happiness without being rich ❤

[@lunabunnii]

OF creators blamed Bella Thorne for OF changing the cap of tips & exclusive content also going from being paid weekly to monthly when she joined OF advertising nudes at $200 but it was just sexy lingerie photos and people were mad and wanted refunds. After that incident they made those policy changes but OF said the changes were unrelated to her.

[@DracoReptoidsExposed]

and how do you know all this?

[@lunabunnii]

@DracoReptoidsExposed It was in the news, and other creators talked about it when it happened. Can type "Bella Thorne onlyfans drama" into Google, and articles will pop up.

[@mimu3727]

​@@DracoReptoidsExposedbc it was a viral topic back when it happened all over the internet?

[@g-reader924]

Ngl those reminders about the small percentage of woman making that crazy money kept me sane during this video

[@wasoomm]

I literally love your videos, it doesn’t feel like I’m watching but it feels like I’m having an actual discussion with you

[@NkirukasWrld]

yayy im glad! that's what i try to do but I'm not always sure it works lol

[@wasoomm]

@@NkirukasWrld dw girl its definitely working, ive been binge watching for like a month straight 😭

[@emilialogan7773]

The whole sleeping with 100 guys in a day still trying to wrap around my head. Also hi Nikki omg I’ve never been so early before I love your videos!

[@beepboopbop-x7g]

part of me is all about exploiting the system and getting your money-but the other part of me is seeing the system working exactly as intended:/

[@monabollii]

Im scared for Sophie. Some man will become so infatuated to the point where he will try and find her. Then hurt her. I hope she's being smart and protecting herself.

[@porkerpete7722]

Sadly, that could actually keep many girls wawy from it.

[@Lookismandorvispeak]

Sophie rain bringing Christianity into her content and continuing to mention it makes me extremely uncomfortable as a Christian ☹️

[@Roshtema]

FORREAL

[@KatieNicolexx]

Why? Jesus hung out with prostitutes and as Christians we are charged to love people where they are and show them by example the love of God. We are not here to judge, none of us have a heaven or hell to put anyone into.

[@theceech]

all u can do is not watch her. oh well

[@ql6746]

Because Christianity means nothing now, they ruined it

[@Lola-g3l]

​@@theceechthanks sherlock

[@imaniblack]

Ehhh, I feel like we need to bring back shame and self-respect.

[@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend]

It's funny because it's women like you degrading me more than I degrade myself, as someone who enjoys casual sex. Yet you have the misplaced confidence to tell women like me we lack respect.

[@fairygodmother139]

Definitely

[@kaoshi_kutie]

‼️‼️‼️

[@cattosakamotto]

ABSOLUTELY

[@inulahmusic]

exactly, bring back SHAME!!!!!!

[@JuneieBack]

People making all of this money on OF is just history repeating itself. It’s the same idea with actors or entrepreneurs making lots of money. You look at it, say “I can do that”, try it and then recognize that the people actually making money are in the top 1%. This can literally be applied to almost any career

[@TheAstroWitchLux]

That's so true. Most OF creators make little to nothing. Just like most social media content creators and, as you said literally every profession. Statistically you're more likely to make money on Tiktok, KZbin and especially Amazon KDP. Also Etsy for some. But of course that's the 1%

[@starcheryy]

imo , OF is horrible since it literally feeds in corn addiction - which like any addiction is detrimental to the human mind - and it's not an understatement to say that corn addiction is ruining this generation also doing the deed is literally the most intimate and exposing thing you could do with someone and turning that into a whole career just feels icky to me

[@LeisurelySeaOtter]

I can confirm this. I was exposed to corn in school (at a very young age) and became hypers*xual to the point it hurts when I didn’t do it. It’s saddens me to think there are others out there who have to face the same issues…

[@irinano2347]

i feel like sex work is inherently unethical. Even if you're independent and working for yourself, you still rely on making that type of content to sustain a living. You have to force yourself into making the content regardless of if you're in the mood or not. Also in content creation in general, you will have to change and adapt what you're doing to keep the audience and keep growing. For sex work this may entail taking on tasks that you normally would never do. You have to bend the rules of consent for yourself, in other words meaning you must coerce yourself into doing things you dont want to. From the outside looking in it may seem like a glamorous easy lifestyle but it is faaarrr from that. In the beginning you may feel empowered and feel like this is what is right for you but once it becomes a job and feels like one and it becomes incredibly harder. Especially coupled with the fact that it is still incredibly looked down upon, you could've made an onlyfans for only 2 months but that shit sticks and people dont forget. I hate when people also ignore how unethical and dangerous the industry is in general, and naively supporting young women who decide to do it and not realize what they're getting themselves into, should be actively discouraged to keep them safe.

[@PGbutalsofourteenplus]

I disagree with the idea that sex work is unethical in any way unless someone is forced into doing it or is doing C0rnography , It's a form of normal work people need to live like any other the problem with OnlyFans and someone using her body to make a living that's not sex work since it's technically NOT a job nor is something they need to do live it's JUST something they do to feel "Empowered"

[@PGbutalsofourteenplus]

And a hooker is an ACTUAL adult NOT a teen like an 18-19 year old

[@monimon3460]

What I think is unethical is trying to decide what someone can and cannot do with their body, at the end of the day it’s completely consensual, humans have been doing it for thousands of years, and it’s truly up to the two adults to make that decision for themselves. Trying to take away someone’s right to participate in a certain type of work because you don’t like it is inherently unethical in my opinion. I honestly think we look down on sex work as much as we do due to purity culture. Implying that someone doesn’t have the agency to make their own decisions is a dangerous path to go down, people are always going to make stupid decisions for themselves, or decision that they will regret. Trying to make sex work illegal really just only makes it illegal for the common man, you really think that very rich, very busy men aren’t paying for prostitutes on a daily basis? I feel like just like any line of work, you can overdo it, you can stretch yourself too thin, and you can even be exploited, that’s the nature of labor. I just think that people get so caught up in their own taboo when it comes to sex work, they get offended before actually thinking about what they’re going to say and how it truly affects somebody else’s life.

[@arizeen5199]

​​@@monimon3460 We live in a society. Most of our individual actions have an impact on others. Ultimate freedom is and will never be beneficial for us. Stoping people from harming themselves even when they're sure about what they want or not is not unethical, it's having empathy and helping people who seriously need it. And mentioning purity culture everytime people refuse to encourage the hypersexualization of society should not work anymore.

[@ainomerlin]

​@@monimon3460in the world of (&internalized) misogyny and patriarchy, do you really think that this work is really consensual? buying bodies is unethical. it's not selling which is really easily explained why being done. it's buying. the act of thinking you can exploit the life out of it, being entitled to use it for your profit. it's not just a "service" thing.

[@x8makes.1teamx]

It's disgusting. No, it's not empowering. Empowerment isn't putting yourself in vulnerable positions for the sake of money and validation from the very people who want to see you degrade yourself.

[@rinesserin]

The consumers are disgusting. The creators themselves are not the problem. Sex is not inherently degrading, and if the consumers and the general public stopped treating it as such, the creators would simply be providing a service. It's not the work that's the problem. It's the reaction to the work.

[@yanamarinova5172]

​You can't say the consumers are disgusting and not the creators both are. ​It's like saying taking drugs is bad but not the one who sells them. @@rinesserin

[@carolinapetrucci5388]

The fact that we are the generation with more explicit content in the history. And that we’re also the generation that is making less sex of them all it’s absolutely ridiculous, and something to think about

[@ql6746]

It’s what you voted for and what you bashed us xers for warning you about.

[@nobodyknowsimalizard]

Being in the generation that's having the least amount of sex but consuming the most explicit material is downright embarrassing, and we ought to be ashamed. No seriously, like I actually think people need to get the fuck offline and like, I don't know, read erotic fiction as a substitute. Sounds a bit weird and oddly specific, I know, but still. Like I'll be reading an erotic short story from my bookshelf and be genuinely baffled that people still feel the need to search up extreme, possibly unethically produced video content that's just giving them actual shit for brains

[@kykawaii803]

@@ql6746who is “you” ???

[@temtaesionon7seas331]

I feel like me alone is at a war with the world to not change for the worst and pretend to be who I’m not. It’s so sad that even friends are now sorta forcing people to fit in and merge with societal norms and expectations.

[@unearthedox]

it’s hard! wanting to fit in but not feeling comfortable in the spaces that are normalized but honestly i feel like God saved me from a lot and separates us from the world for a reason ❤

[@temtaesionon7seas331]

@ ikr

[@suz-2050]

40:40 what shocked me about the documentary was that not only was it so unorganised but lilly wasn’t even aware of how STIs and STDs are transmitted.. joshua, the guy who did the documentary literally asked her is she not afraid of getting HIV and stuff and her response was literally “is that how you get it?” adding on that the last she had done smt similar, they could all finish in her mouth.. i’m actually scared for her coz her ‘team’ dgaf. and she’s deluding herself saying that she’s doing this purely because she enjoys it with no other motive. she literally disassociated and said she only remembers up to 10 guys, and only believes she did 100 because she’s got the video as proof. i think she needs some serious therapy. she literally only values herself objectively. when she said that guys are gonna seggualise her anyways so she might aswell profit out of it, and joshua replied “not every guy is gonna seggualise you” she literally almost lagged as if that idea hasn’t crossed her mind, or if the thought of her being a seggual being is all that she is. i hope she find help.

[@nobodyknowsimalizard]

The whole "people are gonna sexualize me anyway, so I might as well make money from it" is so FUCKING ludicrous. It's the only conclusion someone comes to when they have zero capability of thinking for themselves and whether or not doing such a thing is in their best interests as a human being. Not to mention the decline in condom use among Gen Z. We have all the sex education in the world at our fingertips, and we don't even use it to benefit ourselves. smh.

[@alwaysgwennie]

sleeping with 101 men when i havent even been with one lorddddd

[@cattosakamotto]

A hundred men. I can't imagine what she really did with them if she indeed slept/had penetrative sex or just oral sex or maybe escorted them but goddamn! I can't even get into the whole "hook up" tradition right now knowing majority of the population of men aren't clean enough. Like, not even making out in the club with a guy. I just hope she still feels empowered tho & she didn't catch any diseases.

[@MangoPanic]

Tbh I think some women are definitely into being objectified. It doesn't seem that out there in terms of being a kink

[@commandery3574]

exactly. i would actually wager that most, as in 70% of all women probably…kind of are into it. the validation that yes, you are pretty and appealing. as long as men aren’t RUDE or nasty to them, i think about 70-80 percent of women feel validated to some extent by objectification, because we have been conditioned to. the highest compliment a man can give a woman, so we were taught, was that he genuinely thinks she’s very pretty and very s-xually appealing. women go under the knife in the millions for this validation.

[@danalexi]

I agree. I think majority of the time women are so quick to say men are the perpetrators, when in reality I think there are women who do it to themselves. I also believe the problem starts when said women do not receive the positive feedback they were initially looking for.

[@rayne_stormzz]

I really think the internet has done a poor job of pushing the negatives of putting OF content out there for minimal to no actual money gain for most women. It cant just be a 'phase' cuz its gonna follow you on the internet for the rest of your life, even when youre over it. It'd be better try and fail at any other kind of content tbh

[@sleeper6000]

It’s fast money but it won’t last forever & I don’t think only fans will last either.

[@cascaa5357]

100+ guys at 23 years old only is absolutely insane... im 25 and never had a bf lol

[@ebeb44]

Same :/

[@coffeebean4356]

It’s significantly easier to get a man to sleep with you than it is to date you.

[@whutcat682]

I am 23 years old and at my current intership I get only 530 dollars a month, full time 9 to 5 🫠living in the college dorms and commuting 2 hours a day in total. Is really tempting....The bigger companies ask so much stuffs I did not do in college( I am currently doing my master degree) is really hard working, trying to learn new stuff, the recruitment process and you see this girls showing some as* getting millions.

[@kykawaii803]

She looks 32 so clearly all this d*ck ain’t helping her much

[@clau_sing_]

Onlyfans is degrading, specially for women who sell their intimate photos there, and should be banned.

[@aporue5893]

basically ''play stupid games, win stupid prizes.''

[@TheAstroWitchLux]

Generational wealth isn't a stupid prize to most people. Most of us aren't as privileged and lucky as you to think nothing of financial security.

[@Cynical-kl3wy]

@@TheAstroWitchLuxBut the people who do only fans don’t have generational wealth (for the most part) I’m confused.

[@friendly.felidae]

As a violent SA survivor - the last story reminds me of how over sexualizing yourself (or under) are both possible responses to SA and other similar traumas. I hope this is not the case but that's what 100 men in one day really makes me concerned about - that she has SA trauma that she hasn't let herself deal with properly yet. I don't think one needs SA trauma to go into s work but the extremeness of the stunt really makes me wonder if that might be the case here.

[@briannalaberge]

your videos are so well made, you discuss such important topics and you’re stunning💗

[@NkirukasWrld]

thank you so much! you're very kind, I'm hoping to up the quality of my videos in 2025!!!

[@public_misa]

100 in a LIFETIME is already insanity let alone A DAY?? Edit: even having sex w ONE person 100x in a day would be horrendous

[@_voyageuse]

exactly!

[@kellifavazza8021]

A little more than 5 years ago (mayhe closer to 10), there were organizations that were aimed at ending human trafficking. Then with OF, all that went out the window. Its sad

[@coolestdoodever753]

What was this organization's name?

[@liekat]

imo OF implies that consent can be bought, and the fact our world brings people to be willing to side with that is... really sad

[@miladeseitan]

'OF implies that consent can be bought' that is SO true, so well put

[@23hycainths]

I honestly don't really care what people choose to do with their bodies, and I support sex workers but the business itself...idk. I think too many people are acting like it's an empowering thing and now it's like people are saying 'if you want to be rich, you have to sell your body' which is double not true, because you still can be rich without making sexual content, and theres no guarantee you'll make a lot of money doing sexual content in the first place. It's not and was never supposed to be a job for everyone, but it seems like everyone is doing it now

[@Undertaker93]

I miss the days when "OF" stood for "Odd Future" and not "Only Fans"

[@trishakuffour845]

As someone who has recently dropped out of med school due to financial issues, I admit that the college life is awful and that the temptation to get a sugar daddy is off the charts.

[@-m3741]

Dear may God provide for your every need ...better to earn an honest and be happy in your soul For those who have done such things, I just want to say that Jesus is able to forgive you, please repent and turn to Him right now

[@trishakuffour845]

@@-m3741 Thank you so much. Those are kind words.

[@chilechi1846]

The world needs your intelligence, kindness and diligence. Please try and find scholarships. If you have to write letters to wealthy CEOs in the bio-tech field (or any field where money is not a problem) to help sponsor your education, please do. You are sorely needed in every single country on Earth.

[@TheAstroWitchLux]

Then do it, but be safe! Research all of your options and always tell a trusted person where you are going ❤️

[@shuki3488]

I've commented this on another video on her, the real reason why she cried. I think she kind of backed herself into a corner. She has trapped herself in this seemingly never-ending cycle where the only way she can survive is to do this for a living. She talked this big game before millions of viewers, acting like she had a blast with this, but the true reality of her situation hit her that night, and she couldn't pretend at that moment. This woman is obviously not ok, and I think that if someone were to sit her down and talk to her, she would still not listen cause she would feel like she's in too deep and it might be too late for her to change. Plus, the money she makes and the lifestyle she has gotten used to would be too hard to give up. Apparently, she is making bank with every stunt she pulls on that app. It's not an easy thing to give all that up just to work minimum wage at a fast food joint or Walmart. So, talking her out of doing onlyfans would be tough.

[@zoeb3573]

Thing is, if she's making that much money, she could probably retire now and be set for life. Even if she gets a part time job, it'd probably be enough, and set everything else for retirement and a house. But her team is her family, and they probably want their part of the money too. If she doesn't get out of it it might be because they push her to keep going.

[@shuki3488]

@zoeb3573 That's true, too. Those people with her are her enablers. They're getting paid off of her self-harm. It's an unfortunate situation. Perhaps the family can step in and try to talk to her into early retirement if she is really making as much as she claims.

[@aderonx]

It's her family that manage her unfortunately 😔​@@shuki3488

[@pronoydutta614]

It's a grey area, imo. I wonder if the paying consumer base can also be considered responsible. They're definitely responsible for criminal behaviour stemming from their interaction with the platform. Eg. Potential stalking, cyber stalking, bullying, asking for illegal content, harassment, etc.

[@-minic1624]

- Women by her own choice does onlyfans - it's the customers fault You have to be trolling, you cannot be this retarded

[@ronorleans]

Merry Xmas! Thank you for this gift. 😂 I'm on team both. I do I think it is a controversial way to make money but if people didn't watch it then it wouldn't be so popular. But also as a creator who makes content about culture, history, and life, I do wonder if they couldn't do something more. But it's also a vein world, and as much as I roll my eyes at a pretty face mouthing words to a song and doing nothing more and getting tons of views, I too think "Wow what a pretty face," so why not monetize it while you've got it. Then again going to a supermarket and having a stranger come up and say, "Love your work," would be my worst fear. So It's not for me, but if you can handle the bad with the good, make your money.

[@noobiusmaximus6314]

I think the most frustrating part is how now guys will think doing OF is accepted as a standard thing a woman would consider. Most women wouldn't even think about doing OF for morality, security and social reasons. It's like cheating in that social media makes it seem far more common, and far more acceptable (which obviously, it isn't)

[@nobodyknowsimalizard]

If dudes aren't being pressured to doing OF the way women are, there's clearly a bigger problem at hand. There are far more women doing it and actually considering it than there should be.

[@BraveOne7]

I hate how society is trying to normalize this lustful behavior is so demonic! Everything is soft porn nowadays and it’s sad and sickening!😢

[@Alanietse]

Yeah, I watch kdramas and cdramas because most American media has some kind of porn content in their shows even the teen ones. It has always made me uncomfortable.

[@ET-tu3gp]

​@@Alanietse This is actually something I love about K-dramas! It's so refreshing to, for once, not be bombarded with unnecessarily graphic sex scenes or stories about people hooking up without being in a relationship.

[@kykawaii803]

Soft? It’s straight porn nowadays….

[@VantwyanBell]

Girl again, I reached another one of your videos early!!!

[@NkirukasWrld]

you slayingggg fr fr

[@Tejaswini-l9i]

I love listening to your videos and the way of your analysis.... It helps in shaping my perspective too. From where I come these things are not so prevalent but I still love to listen to different perspectives. No society is perfect but it eases my heart to know that there are people like you who instills the awareness in the minds of people especially young people. Thankyou ❤️

[@sissysovereign1294]

That's some scary work right there. 100 bodies in one day...? Not only is that physically painful and demanding on your body ,But you're literally splitting your soul in pieces amongst all of those men. All of that loveless sex with so many John Does sounds like a psychological horror film. I just can't imagine how anybody would be comfortable doing that.

[@KNGDDDE]

Now imagine how us regular dudes feel with all these +20 body single women. Seggsual revolutions and empowerment have effects 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@mimu3727]

not everyone needs to have an emotional connection to have s6x. s-x is not love - you can view it as such, but objectively from a biological pov its not. 100 ppl in a day is dangerous though and does sound like a horror

[@alexaf7400]

I agree with you. 100 dudes I literally got angry when I got to that part of the video

[@Lim0n41k]

in this era sh1t like this will be stuck with them forever. pre Internet people could move cities and start over their life. now it's not that easy. that content will be there even in a 30 years and it's worldwide it's possible to run I guess but much much harder

[@k.a.w177]

i remember some ex OF girl said she paid to have all her stuff removed from the internet, boy how the internet proved her wrong….

[@jimin8006]

Exactly it just takes one crazy stalker to ruin your life

[@full_time_Sinner209]

Being an online pr*stitut* is DEFINITELY NOT EMPOWERING 😑. YES, YOU CAN MAKE MILLIONS BUT IT WILL COST YOU, YOU'RE DIGNITY WICH IS PRICELESS. GO TO SCHOOL GIRLS, RESPECT YOURSELVES ❤.

[@TheAstroWitchLux]

Either you're privileged enough to not understand how life changing generational wealth is for the person and their family, community and future descendants. Or you have lived with financial insecurity and can't process how much money it is- it's just a random number.

[@zoeb3573]

@@TheAstroWitchLux I understand all that, and I still think that people should avoid getting into sex work while they can, and I don't think saying that is bad.

[@dtichiamaka]

Hii Nk, you’re on your ZOOMM!! 2 videos in a week yesss ❤❤❤

[@NkirukasWrld]

I am girl😭😭😭😭😭my Christmas gift to you! 2 videos in one week😂😂

[@user-pr3tty._.]

Dear charles, Please sponsor my university tuition 😀😭😔 since you have nothing better to do with your money 😉

[@Bunnymmm101]

Same here!

[@KitAkira-c6r]

Hi! Love the video. Definitely important to consider risks and drawbacks of selling your body, and it is not a decision to be made lightly. Re: the tips/PPV cap: PPV is $3-$200 per video, and tip cap is $200 PER TRANSACTION. I don’t believe there’s a daily tip cap, so someone could potentially send you $200 five times (I haven’t had this tested beyond three times)

[@anhduong453]

Watching the documentary is such a pain in the ass to hear Girlie contradicted herself and insist that was her fantasy. I’m truly worried for her, but I can't take this woman seriously; the whole crew behind this shit show is also to be blamed. smh

[@JulianSteve]

Thanks for the Christmas gift, NK! Also, I think there are pros and cons of doing OF. You layered it out well. Would I do OF or subscribe to one? Definitely not. However, do what you want safely, and make sure it doesn’t mentally wreck you🤷🏾‍♂️⭐️

[@YuObsessedwithme]

The middle man is the IRS and if you had an OF account and apply for a regular job it will show on your background check.

[@fallfanaticstudent]

I always heard OF was great because compared to the traditional adult film industry the actors are in control and get the majority money earned. However the whole empowering thing is a whole can be an issue. I do think people who do it and feel empowered is great but i think that rather than stigmatize it we should just treat them like regular nonceleb status actors. Like they aren't looked down on but aren't pushing the idea it's empowering either because for most people it probably won't be.

[@TheAstroWitchLux]

That's a smart idea. It should be seen just like every other job, not stigmatized nor glamorized.

[@soupyweb]

The whole argument about OF being empowering can be reduced to “it’s empowering because now you dont need a pimp, you are your own pimp!”

[@darkelf9145]

I hate being participant in this generation for real.

[@lollipopsfordays3610]

The amount of ‘I’m all for supporting SW’ I’m hearing is ridiculous-it shouldn’t be supported. A good person doesn’t cheer on the harm and downfall of someone else. It needs to be shamed, it needs to be stigmatized-the entire point of this discussion is how damaging, humiliating, and degrading it is and that 99% will make next to nothing exposing the most intimate personal parts of themselves makes ‘not shaming it’ ‘get your bag girl’’ even more absurd.

[@coffeebean4356]

I support it.

[@Valkyrieonethree]

I can't wait for the day where modesty, class and morals return to our world.

[@sarahaque1382]

I hope so but idk I feel like it's only gonna get worse

[@Valkyrieonethree]

@@sarahaque1382 I think you're right. Sad times we live in!

[@aporue5893]

a balance is needed in the world but it hasn't yet happened

[@aven_nashat]

U know what? I never watch videos that are longer than 20 mins but your videos are so interesting and informative that I just can't help myself

[@MegToDiffer]

Merry Christmas! 🎄Love your videos. Appreciate your perspective and insight. Thank you for this 45-minute video to watch while I wrap! 🎁

[@ggraverobber]

This is all so depressing.

[@Jinxybae]

Love that you covered OF and the 100 men topic. I learned a lot and appreciate this type of content. New subscriber and cant wait to see more of your videos!

[@HalfwayJac]

Being well into my forties I feel discriminated against. So I shall start my very own site called Homely fans for ladies 40 and up. 😅

[@eisenhower9069]

😂😂😂😂

[@missyzorel]

My grandmother used to say to me all the time: “all money ain’t good money.” I understand the OF hustle but it’s gotta be mentally draining.

[@sofiaohrberg7015]

Just watched season 2 of squid game and the take they have on "is it free will if you need money and someone offers you money to do something you dont want to do otherwise" made me think of OF and prostitution. Its honestly scary that people consume other people like that.

[@inkcloudss]

2 videos back to back?! You're really spoiling us.

[@MartaAnne420]

7:41 the reason videos cost so much per minute is because most creators do all the editing, marketing and creating themselves. The video might be 3 minutes long, but when you count the time it takes you to find the client, negotiate the video, then do hair and makeup, put together an outfit, film the video, splice it together, edit it for aesthetics, watermark it, and then wait for it to upload/send, it takes hours per video at least. Just fyi! ❤

[@Kiki32131]

I don't think young people see O.F as the "last resort"....its more like the opposite. Some things in life should never be included in "last resort" categories.

[@Exolblink616]

The fact that people r only judging who watch that content and not who make it , is crazy Both parties r disgusting af

[@22grrrl]

right. the consumers are a bunch of neckbeard rapists and the creators are a bunch of idiots

[@adamssmasher]

@@22grrrl you are mentally ill

[@cherrisaki]

​@@adamssmasherin what way? keep seething

[@coffeebean4356]

If there was no market then no one would create it...

[@blue______]

I feel like this happens because at the end of the day, people need money and without demand there is no product being made. The fact the girls feel the need to do this is the problem in the first place. The fact that all of our lives people sexualized us and push us to be sexual outselves, and then shame us for it is fucked up. I think that is a problem that this platform even exist and people make this disgusting amount of money on it, but we can not ignore the fact that if this wouldn't be pushed down or through, people would not do it. And this is not new at all. This all comes from sexism and misogyny. We can not blame women for joining a system that says that you're only value is in your body and looks. But we can criticize the system so this girls can get out of it

[@lolaawilliams]

Brother ewww was used PERFECTLY in this context. Iykyk

[@Sillybillywilly24]

Emmm…. Is your old classmate ok?? Because she sounded offended by the questions you were asking even tho you were not degrading anybody 😂

[@sarahaque1382]

She's deffo a closeted SW cuz she sounded SO defensive lmao

[@cupantae1893]

I thought the same lol

[@Thegayquietemokid]

Honestly I do not care what people do cause people can do whatever they want. But some these things are crazy 😧😧

[@NkirukasWrld]

100 men in one day is unacceptable idc 😭😭😭

[@Thegayquietemokid]

​@@NkirukasWrld No frr that is crazy like wtf girl 😭😭

[@MegToDiffer]

​@NkirukasWrld I feel both ways... On one side, if it's consenting adults, to each their own. On the other side, it's taking things to the extreme for views and money, but not thinking about the long-term effects on her mental/physical health and image. This is what she'll be known for. She's set a bar for herself she'll have to keep trying to one up to maintain an audience.

[@SouthernRayLA]

People who say that OF is fine and empowering are only thinking about the right now. It seems like a great idea right now, but what about 15-20 years from now? Will it still be the same? I don’t see corn being any different than doing drugs, in the sense that you don’t realize when you first start doing it how much harm it can cause down the line. And it’s something that has the ability to not just affect you, but the people you care about as well. Once that content is out there, it’s out there forever and you have no idea who might stumble on it. And then if you have kids, you are really setting them up for the worst. You will pretty much have to home school them their whole life because if their peers catch wind your kid will have to deal with all kinds of bullying. Definitely not worth it.

[@jimin8006]

Not just kids but finding a life partner too. What about the life partner’s family? Having a kid and then the kid goes to school, the kid has to apply for jobs and write their parents name on applications etc. All of this is just so short sighted

[@brianrusberg647]

I remember like 2 years ago girls would make videos on ig literally the minute they turn 18 telling people to subscribe to thier onlyfans she just made a few hours ago and it was around this time that people were mad at Leonardo Dicaprio for getting a new 25 yr old girlfriend saying he's to old for her but they didn't care about these girls doing porn at such a young age and that just didn't sit right with me.

[@NewMaraschino]

Girl your teeth look phenomenonal, what toothpaste do you use 😭😭

[@elenam3798]

I get compliments on my teeth and I use Toms of Maine Anti-plaque and whitening or Hello Anti-plaque and whitening 🤍

[@shoujofanatic]

I think she had them professionally whitened 😁

[@michellelovely2448]

In my opinion, fast money diminishes just as fast as you got it in the first place...FAST. If you work hard and long for the money you earn, it lasts longer since you know the worth of that money, you use it with more value.If you just shake some ass and objectify yourself to get money on the internet....the money will slip through you're fingers fast bro... and the trade off with you're interpersonal relationships, mental health etc WONT BE WORTH THE DOLLAR SIGNS!!!