I use Temu for mostly stuff like school supplies, posters, or hair clips, but SHEIN is mostly used for clothes

I was always treated like an adult because I look my age

As a girl i sometimes dress a bit more revealing, because i want to people to think "oh she is pretty with those tighter outfits" and it makes me feel confident. But being seen as an object? Rude comments? Thats a big no. Because i have a tight shirt showing off my curves does not make me a slut, nor do i want to be seen as a slut. I just want to feel confident in my body time to times, and show that i am confident in it

I’ll be real…as a married man I was immediately over her looks…I ain’t got time to be lusting for some other female…I just wanted to know if she had bars. And when I saw she didn’t I was over it. Which is why I saw this downfall happening when she first popped. If all you are is eye candy then you can keep all that cutesy stuff.

The *corn world capitalizes on “teen” searches and tags to 20 year old women. So it makes sense that the conditioning of the *corn world has seeped into OF preferences.

No one ever asks if shirtless men are sexualizing themselves. They never say men who wear revealing clothing are objectifying themselves.

Nah you should do a breakdown of the breakdown of the vlog squad if you haven’t already.

BRO EVERYBODY SAYS SKINNY ERA BUT WHEN UR ACTUALLY SKINNY I GET GIRLS CALLING ME MODELS BUT BOYS CALLING SKIN IN BONES WHY CAN I JUST FORKIN WIN

The system exists bc women keep participating

I think Ice Spice is gorgeous and has a lot of potential but I also think she might be an industry plant.

If it was truly empowering, they'd do it for free ❤

The 100 men in a day stunt reminds me of comfort women.. there's no way she enjoyed this traumatic experience

Honestly, dudes just want to smash and they’re mad bc she reminds them of the girls that curved them back in the day.

Women were not conditioned to dress for men. Women misunderstood, what are men actually looking for, so they overdo everything, thinking that men demand that. Men want a sign of interest. Something out of the ordinary. Red lipstick, when not usually worn. Tight, or revealing clothes, when not usually worn. Big red x on a cheek, when not usually worn. Those are signs of "interest in courtship". Nothing else matters. Men do not care about female dress, or make up. Just like women do not care about how much can men lift. "Dressing up" and "lifting weights" exists only to boost self-confidence of person doing it. Nobody else cares. Including possible love interest. Having actual physical reaction, like blushing, shaking or having high mood works even better. Also, men prefer low hip to waist ratio, because that is what differentiates women from men. Just like women like tall men, because that is female perception of a man. Having small jaw and large eyes is viewed as feminine, because that is what men see looking down on women. Having big jaw and broad shoulders is viewed as masculine, because that is what short people see looking up on tall people. Because we are all looking for people who are "not like us". I wonder what is the deal with big boobs, because that is not my thing and I do not get it. Is that a short men thing?

The wnba does not make money for the nba the nba subsidizes it so the women can get paid men are the primary watchers if we want to fix the equality of the situation women need to support the sport

Did Sophie pay her tithes???

Could've said promiscuous

I think the whole discussion relies in the fact that people believe that when women say "we dont want to be sexualized" it means WE are going to change our clothing for that to not happen, when the purpouse of that statement is that regardless of what we wear, OTHERS dont make sexual, rude, gross comments about it. Not because we wear less revealing clothes it means we do it for the whole purpose of lust or that others think sexually of us. Just because there are women that have a larger chest or bigger butt that's evident trough fitted clothing, it doesn't mean they are sexualizing themselves. Always women are the problem, but nobody talks about how the mentality about the female body is the problem. Why our chest, that its whole purpose its to breast feed babies, its something sexual? Why our nipples need to be censored while male nipples dont? Why our butt, that its whole purpose its to aid balance and support has to be big to be deemed "attractive"?

Im not a baddie, I never was, but sometimes I hate myself for not being in any category because, like my hair is always natural. I wear regular clothes like sweatpants and sweaters and don't wear makeup. Every time I see a beautiful black woman, I always feel like i'm not pretty because i'm like the most basic girl you are ever seeing. I don't wear the baddie clothes, I love the color pink and I don't look feminine 😢, have Kp and acne and it took me 29 years to wear short or skirts outside but I still don't wear them. And it's surprising to see, like young girls wear these type of outfits, and I feel like social media mess me up. I grew up hating my body and hair and being mad at them being a "baddie" At 26 I still look like a kid and I always wanted a BBl and want my body done but idk...

100 men. Jesus. I haven’t slept with that many men in my entire life and Iam a old lady now. I couldn’t even fathom doing anything like that. Hey, if that’s what they want to do ,they are going to do it. Consequences of one’s actions get left in the dust when it comes to big pay checks.

I think a bigger issue people don’t realize is that not everyone is going to be able to make $67 million. Girls could create one thinking they’ll become a millionaire but there’s so many people out there it’s gotta be difficult to stand out anymore. And OF as a career is not something that has longevity, if people don’t like your look after a few years you’ll be out of the job! Just my thoughts.

bella haddid is not american shes palestinian

I would like to politely disagree with your conclusion. I don't think it's by corporations necessarily. If we look back throughout history, the well-to-do would create these ludicrous, over the top, and most importantly, expensive. The corporations were just catering to the ridiculous styles of the nobility (either in title or in wealth). It's similar with these surgeons--beauty is what many, many women sink their money into, not because of the advertisements, but because of their role models. The advertisements help you pick the brand or the doctor instead, imo. That's not to say that corporations can't be predatory! Just that they're usually the secondary, not primary cause of these practices.

16 year old girl here, currently going through my tomboy AND ugly phase(at the same time)and im loving it,its very nice and stress free this side😂❤

It's weird seeing how people demonize this platform. Onlyfans splits profit 80-20 with their creators. I don't think there is any other platform that does. Secondly, sex sells because there is a market. Thirdly, we all sell our bodies and effort to all the companies we work for, getting that shitty 9 dollar an hour 9-5, without being able to negotiate with our bosses. It's really not that deep. Capitalism at it's finest. Address the issues surrounding why people do onlyfans(student debt, rent, food,clothes). It's definitely not as easy as saying onlyfans bad or onlyfans good. It's nuanced and people should understand that.

As a 14 yr old Christian girl I literally blurted hell no when I heard that she identified as a ‘Christian’. I felt disgusted. No hate to her but Christian values literally makes it clear that promiscuity and selling your body is not ok. If she listens in church she would have learnt that. And I know that deep down this she knows it is wrong to sell herself but the money she makes is def keeping her in the business.

Really thank you so much for this video ❤️🫂🙏🏻

Did she change her overall look or was this just a photoshoot like a one-time thing cuz if this was just the one time take a picture put it on a magazine call it a day type thing there's no reason for everybody to be upset especially if she went back to wearing her baggy clothes

From my perspective, OF is mostly like online strippers, it should be illegal

Whewww I’m so happy I grew up when times were normal and got a chance to be a teen girl

I am a young girl dealing with Type 1 Diabetes and with Mental Health issues (in my case, DOCs, Anxiety, Depression), and I am struggling with a beginning of Eating Disorders. So many times I have to go out of the kitchen since every smell of food, I do feel it like a “terrible smell”, and then, as a consequence, I start getting loss of appetite. When I was a child, I was an Artistic Gymnast and our coaches started to comment our bodies. Then I stopped Gymnastics and tried so many other sports, such as Swimming and Tennis, and then Dance. We guys have no idea how society can destroy us, since I do know a lot of people fighting very similar problems to mine… ❤🫂

Some people literally do it to survive. And some do it for fun. The judging is gross.

If you have kids with black men you're gonna end up a baby mama. That's why I never fw them and encourage black women to not date black men. Yall are too pretty and smart to be dating them bums. And yes baby mama for me is a single mom and a absent dead beat black man who unfortunately is the "dad".

Its better to have barley any friends as a pretty person because of how jelous people are and voilent they are towards pretty people. I dont agree with that jelousy is normal in these situation too justify the behaviour, jelousy is often learned from a young age from parents.

Dude she sucks

Who produces your videos? A+ work girl! The writing is impeccable. But honestly you are the SHOW GIRL!

It’s very possible to create great music and performances that’s appealing to everyone and the fact that female artists continue to go into the “sexy, raunchy (dare I say slutty)” bag shows that not enough of them know how to entertain without including that stuff and it’s a shame.

The 2% who voted "empowering" need psychological help.

I cannot even imagine being in high school in today’s generation. If you don’t have a 30 inch bussdown you’re pretty much screwed

I think it’s disgusting and there is nothing empowering about this. I know these women love to brag about how much money they make. Some of them don’t seem to realize that their entire income depends on men.. I hate how hypersexualized everything has become

It's like you dress like that so you're asking for it.

Literally, i have no problems with a couple living together in a committed relationship without the label of marriage (i know this is heavily debated). The point is that these couples need to be mature and do everything they can individually to work together and share their love. That is the core of commitment. The label of marriage is just a way to solidify it for the couple, for others, and here is the US mostly for tax reasons. Then, when you both have the maturity in your relationship, and only then, is it a good idea to intentionally have a kid. Accidents happen, that's life. Raising a child requires a sacrifice of your needs most of the time you are a parent. If you aren't ready to put aside your needs for a baby who needs you cause they are dependent by design, you aren't ready for them. The best show of if you are ready for a kid is if you are willing to treat your partner in the same way (obviously im not menaing 'baby' your partner). You have to be ready to be there to meet the needs of others. This is a two way street. That's my take, i dont have kids for this reason. My partner and i are in a commited relationship but we dont have the finances for a home together atm and we need to stabilize our careers so we can be prepared for that kind of future. Its a very nuanced situation for each couple, but the future of a kiddo is dependent on who raise them. They arent tied to their past, but it does define the struggle that follows them.

I dont know 100 people in real life😶

off topic you are SO pretty and I honestly love your videos

Barely legal is legal

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No legitimately, there's nothing wrong with being a single mom. There's a LOT wrong with bringing a child into an unstable environment without caring how its gonna affect your child. Glamorizing single motherhood/absent fathers was honestly one of the worst things people could do.

As a devout Christian, I am deeply convicted about modesty as are so so so many women of my faith. The Bible is pretty clear about modesty regardless of which denomination you were raised in. God loves his creation and he is sorrrowful that those made in his image are choosing to go down dark or just immoral paths. I do not know if she is actually saved, or if she is just saying she is because she was raised in a Christian home, it is still not ok to do what she is doing. Of course I think men can resist but she is also leading men to sin. As a Christian we do NOT want to lead others to sin but to turn to Christ and repent.

After shopping on Shein for more than 3 years, i can honestly say that Shein products are the best! However, their customer service is poor, and if your products are not delivered even if it goes missing or stolen, they will not do their investigations or replace the items.