No Means Yes… Sometimes?

Guy approaches a girl who repeatedly rejects him and he persists. This raises a whole question around when should guys give up. Because apparently, some people don't seem to accept a "no" as a definite answer.
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[@Tuja235]

I don't get this. In Sweden the girls ask. It's really simple. Guys don't shoot their shot because they know we want to be left alone and they know we will ask them if we want them. It's so much easyer. I hate men comming from other countrys tying to shoot their shot. We want to ask. Leave us alone.

[@jimbob-q3r]

easier*. and nobody cares what you hate.

[@Mr0nknown]

Not sure if this is a pin of shame but like I agree with her (I'm a dude)

[@jackofalltrades2125]

Maybe just maybe they don't ask you or your friends because you're a pain in the ass.

[@T____W____7777]

I think that’s pretty unique. I’ve been all over North America, South America, and Asia. And every country I go to, every time I meet someone from another country, the girls always expect the guys to ask them out. And for a lot of women, it’s so taboo for them to ask the guy out that they’ll just give up entirely if he won’t make the first move.

[@ChaosSpectator2020]

​@@jimbob-q3r Awwe, your comment cares man. haha Soft-ass clown, you have to type those words, and post a reply.

[@ronalddowney5590]

Coming up to someone with the camera is already in bad territory.

[@hiroshi7025]

Yeah that stuff is WEIRD, you can't enjoy a drink outside without someone wanting to prove something to the world.

[@brainrich1358]

He had his phone is in his hand. He was probably wearing some glasses with a small built in camera. Still weird though.

[@DJ_LOONIE]

​@@brainrich1358That's so damn creepppppyyy

[@InfiniteInterestt]

​@@brainrich1358that's actually worse IMO... creepy.. at least with a phone the person being filmed can see that.

[@pIayingwithmahwii]

@@brainrich1358 yeah it’s almost certainly a hidden camera

[@WalkerSportsLounge]

If a girl is already rolling her eyes at you before you said a single word, it's only going further downhill if you push forward

[@puremaledark8305]

😂 my girl rolling her eyes at me even before they open in the morning

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

@@WalkerSportsLounge as an alpha sigma male, I don’t care I go straight to it. (Joking 💀💀💀) 🤣

[@armondtanz]

They need to do this with this guy then 10 min layer a henry cavill look a like show up... 😂

[@LethalByChoice]

@@armondtanz Bruh it don't matter yea if their type shows up yea because thats their type but doesn't mean they owe the dude their attention if they not into them. I don't understand this mentality like it matters. No means no just take a hint and walk away.

[@armondtanz]

@LethalByChoice I just wanna show the difference in fame, money and looks. Maybe do a game show. If she isn't interested in both she wins s prize for consistency and she really is getting her head down and working.

[@russellwest8767]

Shoot your shot, don’t empty the clip and reload

[@blackie_orange-s6r]

This fits the situation perfectly 😁

[@reikun86]

Facts

[@SadistAssist]

💀😄😆😭 bruuh.. I regret seeing this comment now

[@legendofsociety796]

Dont shoot your shot! She has to shoot hers

[@robertstone9988]

Some times you do get the wrath, because other dudes have bothered her before you. I walked up to ask a woman if she was holding a pool table for friends or just leaning on it (all the tables were taken.) And before I could get out hi I got "who are you?" Disgusted facial expression then "Leave me alone" I just turned around and ordered a beer. Before I could even finnish it security was like "I watched that whole thing go down, we don't survive dudes like you" I said dudes like who? He said "dudes who creep on girls, out out right now" didn't even get to finnish my beer. I assume she (maybe 21) assumed me (40 and ugly) was shooting my shot and she had had enough of old creepy dudes. She was wrong and so was the security dude but your not going to win that argument all your going to do is draw attention and make even more people thank you are a creep. People have no problem hanging "creep" on others even if they don't know why we are all doing it. Mob rules on that stuff. It's not a matter of fact it's a matter of feelings. And people really feel strong about creepy dudes creeping on young attractive weman.

[@black.sasuke.uchiha]

I love the fact that Preach is dressed like a spice trader from ancient Assyria.

[@Pro-Diletante]

THATS WHAT I AM SAYING😂

[@teeanne6331]

😂😂 it’s giving assassin‘s Creed.

[@dinox4250]

I wish to purchase your wares. Please, habibi, unfurl your carpet so that I may peruse.

[@worldeater2414]

Lawrence of Arabia drip

[@patriceesela5000]

​@@teeanne6331Assassins Preach

[@laSafia]

Preach appears to have traveled many moons through the deserts only to tell people on the internet to stop being idiots.

[@DancesWithWater]

@@laSafia He's the sage we all needed too. Lol 🤣❤️

[@nozomubnr3268]

My guy is looking fresh like the Magi visiting baby Jesus!

[@millasboo]

Exactly

[@exyscube]

Lisan Al Gaib

[@jordanmercier3616]

He looks like a Star wars character

[@MoonWielder]

No = No. Maybe = No. I don't know = No. Probably = No. Might = No. I guess = No. I'll think about it = No. We'll see = No.

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Yeah

[@ericapaquette9624]

​@@Diamondr11Blueyeah = yes

[@TheSixthSLoT]

Real.

[@Kinos141]

Yes = No.

[@Diamondr11Blue]

@@ericapaquette9624 in English "yeah, no" means no. Or "yeah right" also means no. So confusing !!

[@KRodBabay]

Girl: No Myron: Maybe we can go get lunch Girl: I said No!!! Myron: AGAIN!!!

[@CaptainCJ97]

10/10 comment

[@gumballwatterson3231]

i'm so mad youtube comments don't support GIFs because i'd be spamming the Myron clip rn 🤣

[@maniacmike4438]

😂😂😂 Thank you for this joke!

[@ConstanceOhara]

😂BEST COMMENT 😂

[@kc270352]

not funny anymore 🙄

[@jimoneprism]

Why does Preach look like he about to cross the Sahara desert? 😂🤣

[@OctoMatoe]

They just came back from a trip in Africa

[@NationX]

Bro just got back from Africa too lmao

[@mortimersmithsr2522]

A cross between the Sahara desert and Siberia, with that jacket

[@dnah02]

He is manifesting lol

[@Hellomoto02]

Common wear of farmers in the Ethiopian highland(scarf)

[@lacali2346]

As a woman and a subscriber of your channel I appreciate this video from you guys. The girl was super courteous shook his hand and politely declined, no eye contact and no signals to show interest in him. I give the dude props for initiating to meet her but it is possible to gracefully take the L and walk away. As women we will respect you for respecting us

[@YABSGlobal]

Gimme kiss 😂😂😂 0:48

[@jaqclam]

😂😂😂😂

[@patriceesela5000]

😅😅😅

[@jasonandrews1770]

Why preach look like he's selling droids on tatooine

[@c.k-da-kxnghere]

Chefs kiss of a joke

[@sonysoyboysaremadeoftears.7404]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jordangomes1393]

😂

[@CyborganizdInc.-gc5so]

Literal towel😂

[@kimberlycullins972]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@lesissmilinglytryin1436]

"Where did you get it from? Your smile?" Sir, she didn't smile at you one time.

[@Noname-rw9qz]

That was so bad💀.

[@SirFailsalot91]

So much cringe, it can turn a person into a black hole.

[@BuffKangaroo1]

I don't think you realize how some guys just have to muster the courage to simply do this

[@nightfighter7452]

​@@BuffKangaroo1 not sure how that relates to the topic at hand...

[@RottedDollface]

That is true, but once you see someone is NOT interested, just walk away. I can easily say you would never imagine how much courage it takes for some women to say NO to someone hitting on them without being worried. ​@@BuffKangaroo1

[@cardinalsfan9610]

The men AND women who do the "no sometimes means yes" thing make it awful for the rest of us. Women who get mad when guys don't pursue after a "no" really irritate me. I was taught that no means no, and that will forever be the case.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

The Cardinals though? Ew...

[@MrMcCoy987]

I've had multiple women tell me that I should have tried harder after they told me no. I've never understood that, I met my wife 15 years ago and we showed interest in each other and got on with our lives. This no means yes if you push a little harder nonsense was never for me lol.

[@benkofi8570]

​@@treacherousjslither6920holdup, which cardinals?

[@lincolnward85]

Anybody expecting you to continue to pursue after they say their not interested is dangerous to involve yourself with. I'm not playing games for the duration of our relationship because you don't want to communicate clearly.

[@DustinStich-k4l]

Ever tinder date I was on if a woman said "we will not have sex" we had sex. No means yes all the time with women

[@chuloon.central]

It is so bad, especially when you say you're already in a relationship & then they go "ohhh so we can't just be friends?!" 🙄🙄

[@Nique25]

That's so annoying

[@ThisDique]

I did Uber in Los Angeles. The amount of times I came across someone else's GF in the wild, all the tea I get from the college girls, the stories that your gay best friends tell... women can be creepy too. What's scary is that is normalized for a girl to stalk a guy and find it his class schedule and other details covertly.

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

​@ThisDique oh if you tell a woman no they will call you gay or etc.. women be saying no doesn't mean no. So basically, i can't they stated they were going to force them.

[@SadistAssist]

@@NoFreedoms-f1d Hush

[@Muhammed-BYusuf]

Unfortunately the truth is men only do things that have worked for them before. And sadly tons of women who are relationships sont honor them, hence why the "cant you have friends" line has become a staple in the arsenal

[@bartholetbay412]

Astonishing video as always, at first i wasn't really into watching such relationship experts video, but it turned out to be a blessing in so many ways, 10 years ago i was with a narcissist and i broke things up 4 years ago, found someone who truly cared for me and i messed things up because i was trauma bonded. then i started watching a lot of youtube videos and some christian videos about relationships and marriages, i learned a lot, and something actually happened as well, i was able to get my ex back with the help of watching matthew hussey videos and reaching out to a spiritual counselor.

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i have been battling with a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended a year ago, and till now, I am still in the crossroads on what to do, it is really sad.

[@bartholetbay412]

offcourse. it's difficult to let go of someone you love, like i said, I watched so many helpful videos but the key was the spiritual counselor.

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

What spiritual counselor? How can I reach him or her?.

[@bartholetbay412]

Her name is Shelly Renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

Couldn't find her on youtube, but saw her website online, i will reach out. thank you

[@lloydharris8766]

If a girl says no, meaning yes, there is going to be a lot of misunderstandings, it's not going to be a straightforward relationship. You're dodging a bullet by taking it as a no, too.

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Someone's bound to be upset if it actually means yes

[@SinTeller]

getting rejected > risking prison

[@lloydharris8766]

@Diamondr11Blue That feeling is a slippery slope that can lead exactly to what we saw. It's not a loss if she's still on that immature level of playing games, even if it's not a relationship that is being sought after. In both cases, you're better off with women who knows how to communicate. Pursuing one who has lying as their first language isn't wise.

[@superman1234567826]

100%. Why would I want to date somebody who doesn’t say what they mean? Men need to start thinking this way

[@EbonyPope]

Dude then you have never been with a woman. Sometimes women say no because they don't want to be seen as easy. As a you know what. Being to straight forward can also backfire for women. But with experience you'll know when it's a real know or she just wants you to try harder. There can be other reasons too. My ex said no but later she explained that she only meant no not yet. Sometimes the timing is wrong and you have to wait.

[@phoqueme]

I remember in college once i went to a girl sitting with her laptop on the bench, went to ask if she had a lighter. Legit, wasn't even hitting on her, really needed a lighter lol she thought i was just another guy with a pickup line and was rude towards me, so i said "cool have a nice day" and left, i guess she realized it cuz 5 minutes later she actually followed me to the other campus building to apologize. Would love to say that we've been together ever since haha but nah, just spoke for a couple of weeks until she went crazy over something else so i blocked. Life is not a rom-com

[@SotaTTG]

Had me in the first half ngl

[@Nique25]

Kinda had this happen to me once too. Asked this guy for a lighter and he straight up ignored me lol. Guess he decided to help tho when he saw me with a j in my hand looking for someone else lol

[@hikari9433]

"Life is not a rom-com" FACTS.

[@Asapanguish]

@@Nique25bro jus wanted to smoke😭

[@nmcnmc653]

Intresting is she easily offended or abusive , most women i know like that are bi poler

[@keely-lornekirby7370]

The longest i’d ever carried a conversation on after being’s rejected or getting a “sorry i have a boyfriend/husband” is maybe a “oh well he’s a lucky man” or a “worth a shot, have a lovely day”. This dude is just straight up weird, you gotta know when to fold em.

[@dw9524]

This is very basic bar in hell shit but its still nice to read that there are still gentlemen out there. Your mom is prolly prouder of you than you know. ❤

[@ConstanceOhara]

Good for U! Classy!! Have a great day man!!!

[@doggindr1]

Obvious skit is obvious

[@oshitaiya3651]

I get the “Damn he don’t let you have friends?!” as a response 😒

[@oreoakalaperoji8314]

I say "cool, cool" 🚶

[@florianwalch5639]

When someone's "no" means "yes," getting with them is an L. People who don't know/don't say what they want are trouble.

[@theponderingrambler9158]

I'm a guy and when a girl says no, I assume she means no. However, the problem is I've had a lot of female peers and friends over the years say there is a large group of women that say no but mean "yes, just ask me later" for the following reasons: it's the wrong place or time (basically not the right time for her), they want to see how persistent I am etc. Like what? that is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. "The wrong place or time"? that doesn't make any sense (outside of a certain places). Ladies, please hear this, it might be "the wrong place or time" for you but just remember the guy has to feel like it's the "right time and place" for him when he approaches you. The man is going to wait until he is most comfortable too so the places and times for the man and woman might feel off. Also "to see how persistent I am" just no the last thing any guy wants it to be accused of something. But I've heard the no means yes thing pretty much throughout my entire life from almost exclusively women. It's just confusing out here.

[@sethbrolsma516]

Exactly. I was waiting on someone to make this point. Too many women are on social media saying they curve guys, turn men down, and block them on some "I just want to see how interested he is".

[@Zephyr-b4v]

@@sethbrolsma516 And??? Would you ever been interested in a woman with this personality?

[@HighiamDave]

He sounds like he got his pickup language from a scam teller marketer

[@HighiamDave]

4:58 boom

[@jon-snow-GOT]

​@@HighiamDavetbh if she was interested the words wouldn't matter but complimenting a stranger's beauty is creepy. Any young men reading this, you should compliment her mind, not her body. Saying you like her style goes way further than liking her eyes.

[@Un_Abandoned]

That's actually funny

[@charlesminor6279]

That make sense lol 🤣

[@DustinStich-k4l]

​@@jon-snow-GOTcreepy if she's not attracted to you.

[@DonReality]

Man was soo shameless he even posted this cringe encounter. If he's NOT embarrassed, I'm definitely embarrassed for him 🫣

[@123SuperBeast]

This was probably staged

[@doggindr1]

Obvious skit is obvious

[@SadistAssist]

@@123SuperBeast Get off the internet

[@scudder91]

He reminds me of the "i'm going to steal your girl friend!" French guy from Cheers.

[@Kvalun]

Aba for gods sake heat your appartment Preach is freezing. my dude took an entire blanket and yoinked it on his head bro you have the money to turn up the heating.

[@cbeverage18]

😂😂😂

[@bleeem]

nah man preach is just ready to be part of the next Dune, Lissan al-gaib

[@gundam0039]

Dem Trump Musk KZbin Budget cuts

[@NationX]

Aba still retains all his habits from his poor days so millionaire or not no one’s touching that thermostat

[@sleepymofo]

If he hasn't fixed the floorboards by now, he isn't going to turn on the thermostat lol

[@Josh-f1s]

Preach looking like he found the truth of the world after a pilgrimage

[@HandsomeGus027]

When a girl said to me, I just stop and go my way, I don't want to waste her time as well as MY time. But sometimes, it happened, some girls wondered why I didn't push more, I just told them that "you said no, so it's pretty clear to me", to have them answered "well, I like when a guy insist (whatever) a little more before saying yes". I used to get angry at that because I see this as a waste of time and not really good basics to build a relationship, but nowadays, a no is a no and my door closes in the process. And if they ask why, well I just tell them "If I want to play a game, I have boardgames or a console at home. If you were really intereted at first, you should have said yes" and then they get pissed off and angry. Huge red flag for me when they come around after they said no...

[@BabalonNuit]

When a woman tells you they want you to "keep trying" despite them saying no, that way you have learned that they in fact like to play stupid head games, and if you don;t catch that red flag, what comes next is on you..

[@isaacmartinez6904]

If you ask a girl out and she says no, you move on and leave her be. I don’t know why people just can’t accept rejections these days? If he or she says no, it means no.

[@dendrien]

theres those who cant or wont take a rejection. than theres also the cases where someone bin brought up to learn that chaseing is the method to win over a girl, doesnt help a lot of women also advocate you being Persuasive. In fact most girl expect guys to be persuasive which makes the situation worse.

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Trying harder will make them dislike you even more. Not even limited to dating tbh

[@BigG627]

Idk if you’ve seen that video but this guy tries to pick up a girl with her friends. She rejects him, he walks away politely and dosent egg on, 20 feet away is another girl so he hits on her she says yes, the previous girl and her group all go “ALREADY??!!” And they come up to them and she just keeps saying “already?!??already?”” And it’s like, why are you tying to cockblock? It may seem to some men that they should try a bit more after being told no. ( I’m not agreeing you should keep trying you shouldn’t, wasn’t of them, but just explaining why they may do it)

[@UzitheSaint]

Most do, I’ve even gotten the “I didn’t really mean no why didn’t u try harder?”😂

[@CBonduMiel]

tell that to the girl who said yes after the guy persevere. don't you know sometime no just means "try harder" ? xD that's literally what women said. So which is it ? it's not like we can mind read you to know. If at least women were consistent in what they were saying and clearer in their responses and intention that would be much easier and would actually make it easier for both women and men to find partner. But no, all we men get are clear answer with ambiguous intention behind them and we cannot guess intention, not when our life is on the line. Especially with all the me too stuff that happened before. We ain't doing that no more. Women will need to chase men if they want to guarantee a partner, all the good men have stopped chasing. If women want good men, they can just ask them. Men are done asking women. Too dangerous and not enough positive results for it to be worth it. Deal with it or stay single.

[@sub-harmonik]

her: go away leave me alone I'm not interested him: I don't consent to that

[@PuffPuff279]

Kinky.

[@kyrabarr2846]

This is where as women we must be very clear with our communication. Let a "yes" be a real yes and a "no" be a strong definitive no. If you're interested in a gentleman, be clear and let him know that you would like to entertain his attention. This is why I don't believe that it's good for men and women to play the hard to catch and mouse and Cat games with one another. If you are interested in someone be open and honest about your true intentions from the beginning to avoid any type of confusion or hurting someone's feelings.

[@ConstanceOhara]

💯 AGREE...i grew up being taught to not be rude and to have respect for others feelings. I'm an empath so I have a very hard time being forceful or saying the hard NO.... I feel like I'm suppose to be kind and am always putting myself in the others shoes. But these days a MAYBE can mean waking up in the trunk of someone's car....

[@Luke_2828]

100%, and a lot of us dudes need to be respectful of their answers and not try to “convince” them to change their mind. The world would be so much better if people were more transparent with their communication and respectful of each other’s boundaries

[@godtiermullet]

Sounds too sane to be true.

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

​@@Luke_2828nope because women dont even know what they want

[@TheCostimen]

Amen

[@xaviersmall4461]

I remember telling one of my female friends that its fine to reject a guy but be careful not to take the past frustration out on the new man she's rejecting. He does not know that he's guy number 6 this week trying to flirt with her when she's not interested in a relationship. On that note, guys, when you get the no take the no.

[@island_girl]

Exactly! You can be a decent person and reject someone politely. Put yourself in THEIR shoes and realize how much courage it takes for a man to approach you. I don't ask guys out because I'm too shy. I don't think I'd ever have the guts to do it, so I understand how nerve-wracking it must be. If the person insists and gets pushy however, then the attitude changes. I still try to be polite, but my smile dissapears.

[@jamesrian1578]

Lowkey I admire girls who can be stern. I honestly get scared when a guy flirts with me, especially if I’m alone in the train station or somewhere. Because as a woman you can’t take the chances of this one guy talking to you losing his shit if you’re rude to him when he’s pressuring you. That’s why I for example always feel the need to smile apologetically and be like “ohhh thank you so much..! But-….” Yada yada. You just need one mf who can’t handle a straight no to land in the hospital

[@tonypalmentera7752]

i would never have lost my virginity if I took this advice...the 100th time I tried to get on, she gave it up, and we dated after...just stop.

[@ImAgentK]

@@island_girlMost of you don’t ask guys out, it’s ok, nothing new.

[@amcspaceape1580]

​@@tonypalmentera7752 damn rejected 100 times bro down bad 😂😂😂 sounds like a pity fuck

[@tabarnak7972]

She still told him her name & shook his hand....out of respect & decency🙏 she could've literally ignored him completely.

[@eds02]

No means no guys, if she says no one time - skidaddle. If there’s some faint chance that she’s playing “hard to get”, then that’s her problem, you should never count on that being the case.

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Some women actually do the play hard thing to feel wanted. It's cringe

[@eds02]

@ That’s what I mean bro, and none of us can tell the difference cuz we aren’t mind readers

[@Cyber-Rain]

Playing hard to get should immediately turn into hard to want. It's just unnecessary drama and extra BS. The feeling is mutual, but one side wants to play some mind games. Ain't nobody got time for that.

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

Even when women say yes they will turn away and say it was grape. Maybe a.i girlfriends is the way to go

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

​@@eds02 also women be acting like they havent say no in the bedroom but kept on 😂.

[@Hyphen_1781]

I've said no to women before and been called all sorts of slurs been hit like why can't people accept no I've been rejected yes it sucked but I just walked away and took my L.

[@noobboon2579]

Its bcs you have common sense

[@hatman4818]

Yup. As bad as this sh@t is, women so rarely get rejected by a guy theyre interested in, that when it happens, it's like they short circuit. Then out comes the most heinous behavior you've ever heard or seen, not an ounce of grace whatsoever.

[@JohnDoge-d7d]

I personally would retaliate if a woman hit me?

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

Was you called gay or small? For some reason they love to say those things a lot.

[@Mr.YasQueen]

I'm a very tall, attractive man, so I get hit on a lot by women. I however am gay, and in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. Naturally I have to reject a lot of women, but many times I've been insulted by women when I reject them, even after telling them I'm gay.

[@englishprofessional9027]

I agree with her. I'm a guy a black male. When I go to foreign countries and live to work as a teacher like Uzbekistan people keep harassing me when I ask him to go away. Or I have these a point where I'm aggressive about to fight them for them to stop leave me alone taking pictures of me. It's really sick how people just won't accept a no. So imagine a woman who can't do that it's worse for them.

[@jimbob-q3r]

have these a point? huh?

[@englishprofessional9027]

@jimbob-q3r do you have a point or just want to bother people

[@suplexed]

^ A.I. conversation

[@englishprofessional9027]

@@suplexed who knows. People just want a reaction. I don't understand why

[@BuffKangaroo1]

The difference is society tells men to be assertive

[@Nicobs2k6]

Preach's official translator here 🤣🤣, at 7:19 he says "You said nothing! Stop! Ok, stop, shut it off. Yo, you said nothing."

[@likeisaid]

I appreciate you 😂❤ thank you for the translation

[@Suyogslothworld]

6:55 Preach

[@AliDunknoo]

Lmfaaooooo

[@caleb2184]

😂

[@jalmain]

Man I swear I hated sales cuz of that shit. Never made sense to me to keep tryna force someone who’s not interested so I never did. And my numbers were the best in my department which made me wonder why tf do they advise that instead of focusing on the people who are actually interested

[@Upticks36-v2u]

Yeah. Same. I was top in sales at a Fortune 500 financial company for several quarters because I talked to the most people per day. I would just look for the easiest opportunities. I would take 60 inbound service a day and flip it to sales. Everyone else took like 40 and wasted time with people that didn’t want to talk .

[@mortimersmithsr2522]

If a girl came up to me, pushing her phone in my face to record our interaction. I would instantaneously turn her down no matter how beautiful she was. This has to be an American-culture thing, that everything is about clout or social media.

[@SunshyneA]

Just passed on a full living room set because the sales ppl were so overbearing when i stated each time i am gathering ideas and if something peaks my interest ill let you know. Every set up we got bombarded with 2 sales ppl tryna convince us to buy...

[@VonGoldfinger]

When I was selling furniture & appliances I treated everyone that came into the store as a potential customer. I didn’t force them to buy I just showed them the right direction when they purchased something.

[@premierebuerger4553]

Same! I hated trying to push the store credit card. I'm like I'm here to sell clothes not credit ugh 😑

[@nydabeats]

Preach auditioning for the Lawrence of Arabia Nexflix reboot.

[@michaelt.5672]

Might have a shot considering all the race-swapped casting in recent years...

[@vommir.]

😂, this reminded me to watch it, thanks

[@PhelippeMitsu98]

Or Saladin

[@LionClanChief]

Na he playing a Samurai monk 😂

[@NOCDIB]

Lawrence of Canadia

[@Potato_217]

From recents events from the channel, preach was gone for a moment and came back like Gandalf the white. I'm guessing preach and his wife somehow leveled up and bought higher tier gear.

[@wraith1701]

Preach rollin up straight outta Dune like Paul Atreides. “Lisan Al-Gahib!”

[@T____W____7777]

Preach be evolving. He went from base form to Chinchilla, to wise with glasses, to enlightened traveling the desert.

[@SirYeetus]

No means no. Never assume otherwise or big trouble will come your way. 👀

[@blackstallion7927]

Dang man its been 2 years when you going to start make videos again?

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Some of these girls think it's cute to play this game to feel desired. Anyone who does this is bad news trouble

[@Un_Abandoned]

No shit

[@hey9085]

Lissan al gaib

[@B-Rai87]

Nowadays No really means no. Women don't play that game anymore.

[@ReaperRells]

No means yes sometimes…the other times means 15 years in prison

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 behind them bars

[@ronalddowney5590]

@@ReaperRells Facts

[@draywolf4761]

Didn't even finish the video 💀💀💀

[@lstcwelder3930]

It'll be rough to because they don't take those charges kindly in prison.

[@SadistAssist]

@@draywolf4761 It's probably patron

[@MrRedRodri]

These guys cant take their L's and walk away

[@dark_nightwing_xl2797]

I think it’s useless to approach lol

[@Cherub3336]

@@MrRedRodri that’s a fact. It’s so disappointing.

[@Un_Abandoned]

These "guys," lol men don't act like that.

[@Un_Abandoned]

Boys? Maybe, not guys

[@Cherub3336]

@ correct. Only the BOOOYYYYYYSS act like that. The boys who are most likely booty queefers act like that! 🤣🤣🤣 BOOTY QUEEF! BOOTY QUEEF!!! BOOTY QUEEF!!!! Just boys being boys!! 🤣🤣🤣💨💨💨

[@michelewallace9478]

Honesty is efficient. You go through many an appropriate "no" before you get an appropriate "yes". Pressuring someone into an inappropriate "yes" just wastes everyone's time. Then you're mad they keep flaking out plans or ghosting you, when you could have avoided all that mess by appreciating the honesty of a "no". A "No" just means your energy could be better spent elsewhere - why do people make it complicated?

[@tonypalmentera7752]

you say it wastes time...but it lost me my virginity to a hot chick...so i think your perspective is half-sighted. It does not waste time if it works, ever. It's like saying something I've never done, d-pics, are a waste of time. Maybe tell that to the women who let men hit after sending one as an opening DM...not kidding. If it didn't work, men wouldn't do it...we only do what works, even if only 1 in 1000. You need to talk to women about letting it work, if you want it to stop.

[@KarthikBro-m3i]

Preach looks like a silk road merchant.

[@Kuhmodo]

"I can see you're busy I don't want to bother you." *BOTHERING INTENSIFIES*

[@kooganh6276]

Shit looks fake…

[@SadistAssist]

Guy's naive or tryna make the attempt while being ignorant.. - Oh wait it's both

[@SadistAssist]

@@kooganh6276 Not every single time you see these it's "fake"

[@kooganh6276]

@ Lml majority are. You seen these interactions in real life

[@SadistAssist]

@@kooganh6276 "Majority"? Uh huh

[@hiroshi7025]

Desert Preach arc

[@Un_Abandoned]

Solid Snake arc

[@NStarX9]

He really dressed like he about to be at the sand dunes 😂

[@tubokomechafrieza]

Egypt Preach arc

[@Banished-rx4ol]

Man was embodying the meme of flirting vs sexual harassment

[@doggindr1]

Obvious skit is obvious

[@dertythegrower]

You do not know how to spell.

[@marcostorres2329]

Huge difference between a girl showing all kinds of signs that she's into you while saying "no" and a girl showing all the signs that she wants you to leave and blatantly saying "no".

[@-Zakhiel-]

I don't do signs language. Use words.

[@marcostorres2329]

@-Zakhiel- That's too bad. Not knowing sign language is a deal breaker for most women.

[@island_girl]

​@@marcostorres2329I do agree that body language is important, but why say "no" if you're interested? Why play mind games with people. No means NO, and yes means YES. Simple and to the point. Don't make people waste their time.

[@Berti-raga]

@@island_girlThey want to have it both ways. They want sex but don’t want to be the ones that start it or say yes. They’ll talk out of both sides of their mouths for all the advantages and none of the disadvantages.

[@tonypalmentera7752]

we're not mind readers...so either tell other women to stop expecting us to be, or expect us to rebuttal.

[@AdamSpicy]

In the past, I’ve found that approaching women without flirtatious intention (like if I’m asking directions or genuinely want to ask something) it nearly always goes pleasant. Success rates vary drastically if you want something.

[@thelza1770]

Reminds me of telemarketers who keeps consistently calling people where they get yelled at, cussed out, and even people tend to fuck with them giving fake info.

[@Dontgetluck123]

Preach still in the LISSAN AL GAIB style

[@UzitheSaint]

He will show the way

[@danielmchale1716]

Lissan Al Gaib!

[@Lordamraphel]

As written.

[@berke2336]

Preach looks like he has travelled many moons through the deserts just to tell people on the internet to stop being idiots

[@SBrizzy8657]

👏🏾👏🏾

[@Mrinal523]

He out to look for the spice

[@gasphynx]

Preach of Arabia

[@EgyptConqueror]

Cold approaching is like yelling the prices in the middle of the market to sell your goods. Like bruh we got Amazon now 😂😂😂

[@natinatyoutube]

I absolutely love this style on Preach ! He's very daring, adventurous and edgy in his choices sometimes, it's so cool and refreshing AF. Love.👏🏾It.👏🏾

[@hazardousmaterial5492]

To quote Preach from a previous video: "sorry girl, i gotta choose me. I gotta choose me"

[@JasonSlazak]

The "no means yes... Sometimes..." kind of girls you needa run from. It's never worth the risk of your entire life to make the assumption that she might actually want you to try something even if she says no.

[@Mam_Otazku]

Assumption are the root for most misconceptions.

[@user-dx2dm8oq8g]

I mean that type of person might later decide they didn't consent to x, y, z when things don't work out their way and throw allegations at someone to destroy their lives.

[@DustinStich-k4l]

Women are never direct in what they mean. 😂 Are you a virgin 😅

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

A lot of women are like that

[@blessing5891]

​@@NoFreedoms-f1d A lot of women aren't like that. No means No

[@Navyguy]

*Preach that towel has to be permanent from now on brother...* 🥂

[@jimbob-q3r]

nah.

[@thetexassaint6571]

Confirmed

[@draywolf4761]

Nah facts, it has too much sauce

[@Diamondr11Blue]

​@@jimbob-q3r yes

[@senaruth4169]

😂

[@pseudovictim]

"You think so?" "I KNOW SO! Now piss off!"

[@tlovi7342]

10:37 Bro, that is it right there. Even vagueness, like "I'm busy, let's get together sometime *soon* though" with no follow through is a green light to take your energy elsewhere as far as I'm concerned. No need to be anything be courteous in return; she just did you a favor and saved you some time, gents!

[@Un_Abandoned]

0:10 nah y is he recording?

[@Un_Abandoned]

I don't believe this is a man

[@Un_Abandoned]

This a boy or a skit

[@batlondoo4691]

Nah this is just his type of content.

[@batlondoo4691]

@@Un_Abandonedpeople do a lot of rizz, pick up game or getting girls numbers type vids and they used glasses wit camera to record.

[@doggindr1]

Obvious skit is obvious

[@BrothaSmart]

I worked for Massage Envy for a little bit at the front desk. Their rule was we had to get 3 no's before we stopped trying to push/sell the membership. Hated that shit.

[@tres311]

Trying selling socks and shoelaces to women at finish Line….women love spending other peoples money but damned if they buying over priced socks and shoe laces. Theyd pressure you and talk about your “double sales” look man! These birds don’t want a Jersey dress (2003) and they don’t want shoe laces! Leave me alone!

[@InfiniteInterestt]

I learned that sales tactic as "overcoming objections" I had to quit a personal training job because of that... The unreasonable expectation to overcome reasonable objections.

[@kylehorvath9295]

That training is a sales tactic and to prepare you for the inevitable questions, concerns, and objections you'll encounter. The most common is price and to overcome that objection is to demonstrate the value they get for that increased price. Some people are fine paying more, as long as they're getting more for it, some only care about paying as little as possible. If you aren't willing to overcome any objections in the sales field though you'll never make it, so probably smart to just call it. These tactics are not comparable to the dating world at all tho.

[@InfiniteInterestt]

@kylehorvath9295 yeah, I know. Exactly. I was there to help people not to fuck their financials and they dgaf about helping people dispite it being the company mission statement haha And to apply it to dating is definitely nuts

[@neonnwave1]

If a girls says no, it's a no and move on. She's not interested. If a girl says no sometimes means yes, walk away. She's indecisive, expects you to be a mind reader, or just stupid.

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

All women say no when it is a yes. Man: Hey honey are you hungry... Woman: nope... Man: well ok... Woman: Am hungry can i eat off your plate... Man: In his mind( this bitch...well that is why i always get more food)..

[@tonypalmentera7752]

that's not true of most women, hence we keep doing what works, not what you say.

[@neonnwave1]

@@tonypalmentera7752 Most women mean it when they say no.

[@tonypalmentera7752]

@@neonnwave1 not enough to make the rational incenctive mathematically to stop rebuttaling them. Nice try though...go talk to other women about their sexual choices, stop being mad men do what is rational (what works with women far too often to stop doing). And i don't even believe your statement. Show me studies that prove this...go ahead, I'll wait.

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

@@neonnwave1 no they dont

[@antonydrossos5719]

Preach lookin’ like he’s about to battle those Templars! Yo!

[@elguapii5832]

Nah fellas don’t even risk it man. If it’s not pure and genuine leave it alone and let it go.

[@adrianglejzer5257]

Bill Burr and Louie CK had great bits on "no means no" topic

[@thesaltybeard1793]

Louie CK is NOT the example you wanna include here lol

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

Yep 😂 women don't be knowing a yes from a no

[@abdelbarimessaoud242]

I just saw this after I told a girl I was interested in her and she started ghosting and not replying. Time to move on.

[@abdelbarimessaoud242]

Update she replied late I am not even gonn look at that msg gotta lock in

[@Knightmare0259]

Retention is really a roll of the dice. For instance, in car sales, the goal is to make the car buying an experience. They'll cycle you through several cars even if you asked for a specific one to build investment. The issue is that some people are more receptive than others. People with no car experience will likely be highly receptive. People who have a history of negative experiences won't be. In most cases you can probably get two shots off safely because some people might have been startled by your approach. If they give a firm rejection just take it because the risk is already really high.

[@akilagamage7327]

Yo why is preach dressed like he about take a huge journey through the dessert..the valley of death or something? 😂🔥

[@erinpheiffer6358]

0:25 as a woman, Aba is completely correct 🤣

[@Sinsirink]

U doin tha look in ur profile pic lol

[@erinpheiffer6358]

@@Sinsirink whatever that means 🤷🏻‍♀️ lol

[@asamabry]

​@@erinpheiffer6358 ur doing the pose like the women in the first video

[@erinpheiffer6358]

@@asamabry I can’t lie, I didn’t even notice that 💀😂

[@MarkosVerse]

if get a reaction like that from a woman you are trying to talk to have some selfrespect and walk away .She was clearly not interested and when she say no to you just take the L like a man

[@NoFreedoms-f1d]

Who knows nowadays

[@SadistAssist]

@@NoFreedoms-f1d You should cause you clearly have shi to say every time

[@ibizawavey8630]

Aba that cut is FRESH!!

[@1S1KTac]

It is fresh and he’s looking quite fit 🤔😂

[@Matt-sn3lo]

The biggest turn off to me is when I meet a woman that I'm interested in she tells me she has a boyfriend but wants me to still pursue her I'm good I don't like you anymore now😂

[@fakshen1973]

I just wish we could use a social system, like a ring on the right hand that states our level of openness to being approached and orientation of interest... even a color that says not interested at all. A social cue that gives a hint so that respectful people don't bother you. As a society, it's in our power to create conventions and cultural symbology that helps us all out. We just have to agree to do it. Edit: of course we don't force people to do this... the same as any other symbols voluntarily worn.

[@MrFreetime]

Preach becoming Fremen each passing day. Won't be long before he gets the spice eyes

[@maddyngo2717]

Self awareness is really lacking in this situation 😂

[@JALENHATCHER]

Maybe him coming up recording the conversation was a major red flag

[@doggindr1]

Obvious skit is obvious

[@bretwojarski5842]

⁠​⁠@@doggindr1 Obviously you a bot is obvious

[@doggindr1]

@bretwojarski5842 na, you just a dreg.

[@TimothyGreen-ko2vm]

It took me a while to truly get this, in no small part because of all the pick up shit I read. Now I see it as a gift, no arguments, no deflating the esteem. Not happy/ interested then I'm back to be at peace with myself. The sooner you recognise the rejection the better.

[@ZEN_7RZ]

There's a reason why it's called 'shoot your shot', not EMPTY THE DAMN MAG! Jeez, I physically felt pain looking at that clip.

[@sambolimbo]

Thank you! I can't tell you how many times I hit my head against the wall with this when I was younger. I wish I had learned this earlier and also not to admit fault or say "I'm sorry" because you're afraid you're gonna screw "it" up. Once you get those two things cemented in your head, then ask a girl you trust to help you with clothes. Then work on "banter" and making a girl laugh. You be the funny guy and it opens up a lot of doors. Thanks guys, this is fy-uh!!

[@NationX]

Preach has been rocking that fit for the last few vids lol

[@MindIsPw3r]

The sad thing is that many dudes don’t realize that not only are you not making it comfortable for women minding their own business by constantly asking them out, but you are destroying your own image and potential opportunities for other we’ll-meaning dudes. Overall, your inappropriate behavior as a dude is overbearing and unacceptable.

[@jimbob-q3r]

its not "many" dudes, its a small minority. well*, not "we'll".

[@ErgoProxy12345]

i think many say women like the second video and that'S what's ruining it. They think "maybe her no means keep trying" because sometimes thats what it means and maayyyyyyybe it is now. Animals try the things that works sometimes way more than the thing that either always or never work. If it works sometimes, then they keep trying it x10.

[@OctoMatoe]

​@@ErgoProxy12345there can be more than one cause that ruins something good

[@Achieme]

Not only that I makes other men look bad to the point rational men cringe and hate the fact they share the same gender

[@Un_Abandoned]

Other well meaning dudes? Brother, normal guys don't care and aren't going to. They messed up their own self image. Leave it at that, because normal men aren't going to have any problems walking away. Has nothing to do with anyone other than this guy and guys like him. He doesn't ruin anybody else's "opportunities". Opportunity to get laid? Jesus, be young, be foolish, but be happy. That's all I got for the internet today😅😂

[@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT]

1:34 so you're saying there's a chance?

[@xinpingdonohoe3978]

Sounds like Skippy logic.

[@Muvale4]

Probably

[@Berti-raga]

Yes even if they say no but only in the bedroom. Once you get that second no from trying again then ggs and take the L and kick her out

[@blackjesus3744]

If she not smiling or looking at me within the first 12 sec from the approach I’m outta there

[@Alexander-lc7dx]

Lisan Al Gaib bout to go ride a worm 😂😂😂

[@lisablack4290]

Drank the water of life 😂

[@kaze8498]

MUAD'DIB!

[@ErgoProxy12345]

the girls that want guys to keep at it when they say no are ruining it for all the others, and for themselves for whenn they actually mean no. If its a "no for now, but keep trying" THEN SAY SO!

[@IamjustBruh]

Preach be dripped tf out

[@caseyshaunthomas]

It’s referred to as “overcoming objections” in sales.

[@fatmanpez]

You show your confidence and she doesn't accept it there's a chance someone else saw and at least has their eyes your way, keep working on yourself and maybe those eyes will get closer but more importantly don't keep your eyes where there's nothing to look at for you.

[@MrRedRodri]

This is a sickness of the highest order

[@nolantracy3086]

video came out two minutes ago you don't even know what happened bruh

[@Noname-rw9qz]

@@nolantracy3086 what💀

[@SadistAssist]

@@nolantracy3086 Patron doofus

[@nolantracy3086]

@ if he was a patron the comment would be from days ago. thanks for insulting me though, it shows your own ignorance

[@SadistAssist]

@@nolantracy3086 That's how it goes doofus

[@WOHM8274]

I like Preach’s Osama look 😂

[@armondtanz]

AK over his right shoulder just out of shot.

[@adanaamun7921]

"OK OK that makes sense" like dude take the L and truck on fam 🤣

[@Un_Abandoned]

He doesn't feel the L, he's just a predator(in a sense)

[@Un_Abandoned]

And she is a victim.

[@Un_Abandoned]

If their were more gentlemen then she wouldn't be a victim in broad daylight

[@doggindr1]

Obvious skit is obvious

[@Straya92]

1:50 it's not what she said it's how she said it hahaha tone cops will return after these messages 😂😂

[@ashveggies]

i used to work in sales (call center) for life alerts & being that the target audience were old people, most of them couldn’t afford the product. in training, we were taught to use “rebuttals” to persuade them into buying it & basically harass them into saying yes. it always frustrated me having to read off of a script as to why they should buy it, even if they already said no multiple times

[@jshooper7819]

This is precisely why I don't approach women out in public. I'd never act like this guy, but I don't wanna be perceived with the same annoyance and hostility that he's brought on himself by acting like this. I don't have that "salesman" persona & mentality.

[@Floaty8008]

then you’ll be single for awhile. Dont be a creep but who cares what ppl think. I’ve been brutally rejected in public but it doesn’t matter, nothing in my life changed.

[@jshooper7819]

​@@Floaty8008Why did you feel this reply was necessary?

[@JohnDoge-d7d]

​@@Floaty8008you make it sound like being single is a bad thing

[@Floaty8008]

@@JohnDoge-d7d LOL for me it is, at least right now.

[@MrMissingnin44]

A.B.C. always be closing..ALWAYS BE CLOSING

[@oyasumi2099]

Second place is a set of steak knives

[@lisablack4290]

Coffee is for closers

[@RedRoninGM]

8:23 We’re not gonna play that No-means-Yes-Sometimes game. Because that game can lead to jail. And that’s one prize we’d rather not have all that.

[@kiim0]

8:05 i always tell this story, as it relates to this exact thing. When i was like 21, i was an active shot shooter. If you were pretty, i was mustering up courage i didn't have to say something. There was this brown skin girl, gorgeous, saw her on the train. Went over to introduce myself. She politely turned me down, so i said ok miss, you still pretty but have a good day anyways. I turned to go back to where i was....and saw a gorgeous light skin girl. BUT, i was also on my way to get my sister a birthday gift, some heels.... and she was wearing some heels i thought my sister would like. So i struck up a conversion about her shoes, and she lit up. She told me about her style and where she shops. Eventually we get to the last train stop, and both get together, but......I get this weird feeling like somebody was watching me. I turned around, and the brown skin girl was just staring at me through the crowd. Like full-on eye contact when i saw her and everything. It felt as if she wanted me to try harder..... but I take your word as your word. If you tell me "no," i understand that as no, and respect that.