No one gives AF about you.

[@makelifemedicine]

What’s one thing you haven’t done because you’re scared of what people might think? Drop it in the comments. Spoiler: Nobody cares as much as you think they do. 👇

[@BelovedfriendLSB]

maybe they care more than ewe know

[@makelifemedicine]

@BelovedfriendLSB perhaps they do. Either way, it's inconsequential 😁

[@EricMoore790]

I found this out the hard way over the years. Go after your goals because people will be mean no matter what.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@EricMoore790 💯 unfortunately 😂

[@jaynemarie]

Just gotta say I love your channel!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@jaynemarie Wow, thank you! That means a lot 🥹💗

[@Mmmmchocolate]

My mother recently told me in response to my comment about how much happier she seems in her later life she said she “has gained acceptance and gave up on her high expectations of herself (placed on her by society), her life and others.” Wise words.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Mmmmchocolate very wise woman 💗

[@JeremyPezzeca]

One of the greatest moments of my life is when i realized nobody cares about me. I actually prefer people not like me and judge me, it lets me know im on the right path. If nobody hates you your doing something wrong

[@makelifemedicine]

@@JeremyPezzeca FACTS 🙌🏼

[@ro5097]

You're sooo close to the idea that there is no "YOU". That its actually a mirage. A great message to kickstart peoples search for that truth. I resonate with the tough love approach, you do it well!

[@makelifemedicine]

You have the most cleverly disguised passive aggressive and condescending comments I've seen so far! 🤣

[@AuroraBorealis-w]

I`ve come to realize the truth of your message only now with 35! Up until now I`ve spent my entire life making decisions based on "what will other people think of me?". The result was ... ta da da daaa: I became mentally ill. What a surprise ^^. + my life didn`t go anywhere. As you rightly said, if you give to much weight to what other people think of you, you end up in complete paralysis!! Now, I`m trying to recover from that and I`m also trying to UNLEARN all that BUL.L.SH*T I was taught at school and in general while growing up. I think that a lot of this had to do with my upbringing: As a child I was constantly being told: "Don't do this and that. Be quiet ! What will others think of you.?!" So growing up with this "mantra" you eventually become an adult who is constantly under the impression of being under observation and being judged by other people no matter what. ALTHOUGH no one gives AF. !!! And IF THEY DO, it has probably more to do with themselves and their issues and not with you as a person.

[@BenIsFiguringitOut]

Understanding this has set me free so fxcking much!! Nobody gives AF!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@BenIsFiguringitOut that's right 🙌🏼 I'm glad you figured it out 😉

[@kaliforniakontrarian-fc3tu]

what others think of me is none of my business.... lived my whole life by this edict...

[@makelifemedicine]

@@kaliforniakontrarian-fc3tu that is an incredible gift! Most people need to learn this later in life. 💗

[@nandsall9492]

well done

[@ManhattanRats]

Every time I find a new video from you, I hear something that I need to hear NOW. Thank you so much for your motivational help. Much appreciated. "That's YOUR voice!" Nailed it. Robert in NYC.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@ManhattanRats Thank you Robert! I'm so glad to hear that, and grateful for you taking the time to listen 🙏🏼

[@Neoteny-j4z]

As a man, you can be on the brink of homelessness, but if you dont walk into the room like you own the place, nobody knows you're there.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Neoteny-j4z confidence is powerful 🔥

[@Ptpop]

@@makelifemedicineit’s pseudo power.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Ptpop true confidence is not pseudo power.

[@crucifiddle]

Excellent commentary! I work with people mostly in hospice and end of life, and to a T they say EXACTLY what you're saying. Don't go through life worried about what everyone else thinks ..... because, SURPRISE!!! They don't give 2 craps about you and your life. Great video.😋😋

[@makelifemedicine]

@@crucifiddle omg I love hearing this! They always have the most profound insights at the end of life, don't they? Definitely wise to heed their advice 💗

[@paulofurtado81]

"You are worried about your socks that are a bit dirty and what others will think, others are worried about their own socks, no one cares about other people" told that to a guy at work and he just laughed, didnt disagree.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@paulofurtado81 haha very nice 😆

[@carlito5011]

This girl speaks the truth. If you ask yourself to describe 5 things someone else did while out with you, on any given day, you probably can't remember. That's because you weren't paying attention to them. You were focused on yourself. Well, they can't remember anything you do either. As this girl says, they don't give a f*ck.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@carlito5011 that's right! Thank you for watching, and for commenting 🙏🏼💗

[@carlito5011]

@@makelifemedicine I spend a lot of my time alone, also. After many years, I've gotten used to it. There are times when a touch of lonely creeps in, but I'm more comfortable alone than with people... even family. Some of us are built that way, right?

[@makelifemedicine]

@carlito5011 I personally believe so, yes 🥰

[@makelifemedicine]

@@carlito5011 although it's likely moreso conditioning from VERY early on, rather than being "built that way". Like, yes, built that way throughout our developmental years (age 0-7)

[@carlito5011]

@@makelifemedicine I'm going to use that next time my mother asks me "why do you always want to be alone?" I'll reply "Hey, you conditioned me like this." 😅 I'll get disowned right there.

[@Nato-g5m]

I once told an ex-girlfriend of mind to "stop hating me!"... and she said " I dont hate you?! I NOTHING you!" ouch!

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Nato-g5m that sounds like an intense argument 😅

[@igotbit9454]

Not true. My boss is watching me and looking to fire me for performance. So yes someone does give a f bout me 😂

[@VisualizeInside-mt2li]

Then again, if we literally perceive the unwarranted criticisms, toxic shame & gaslighting. That's an actual thing.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@VisualizeInside-mt2li I'm confused by the comment? Is there a typo somewhere? 🤔

[@VisualizeInside-mt2li]

@makelifemedicine case in point 👍

[@lasuretv]

These are all FACTS! Great video 🩷

[@makelifemedicine]

@@lasuretv thank you so much! 💗

[@Tim_G_Bennett]

I've spent my whole life not feel special in any way and that nobody cares. It used to get lonely but I don't actually get lonely anymore.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Tim_G_Bennett loneliness has to do with our perception 💗

[@Tim_G_Bennett]

@@makelifemedicine For sure, I've spent the last 6 years totally rebuilding myself after a dyslexia and autism diagnoses. I do wonder if there's meant to be more to life then spending it alone though. 🤔 Seeing an escort for skin contact once or twice a year had greatly improved my quality of life. 🙂

[@makelifemedicine]

@Tim_G_Bennett definitely not meant to be spent alone. We need true connection 100%

[@Tim_G_Bennett]

@@makelifemedicine Thanks, I really struggle with the idea that I could find someone now.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Tim_G_Bennett well I'm here to tell you that you absolutely can

[@FarFromItShadow]

Really motivating video I see so much people sitting alone doing their thing.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@FarFromItShadow 100% it's the only way!

[@떡볶이나리]

I always find these kinda of videos funny, as ppl do watch and see me, at least when I dress the way I usually do, which is extremey outsider-ish where I live, lol. I do it because I want to live my true self and I won't let other people's thoughts and judgements control my life, but it does cause things at times from stalking to catcalling a lot to threats to yelling to getting asked out to getting at times compliments shouted and random positive encounters where I hug with someone complimenting me, lol. As well as other positive experiences. And at times people from all ages going "oooh I think I've seen you around before, I remember you" when I first introduce myself to someone, lol. It's hard at times, though, on my bad days, but these are less and less, and the fun and joy from being myself really outweighs it.

[@allenreevearrows2553]

true dat.... *6 Things* You Probably *NEED* to Hear 1. *NoBodY* is coming to save you, *nOboDy* cares for you, so start *NoW* 2.Guard your *EYES* 3.If you want to *CHANGE* your outputs, CHANGE your *inputs* 4.There is *NoTHiNG wRonG* with you 5.Embrace the *CHoSEN* suffering 6.Get *HYPED.*

[@makelifemedicine]

@@allenreevearrows2553 haha, that's a great list 😉

[@jimmillhouse5912]

When people detract from you in any form, it’s an indication of envy.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@jimmillhouse5912 💯🙌🏼

[@Swaydiz]

Try telling this to the people buying luxury items, cars/trucks, clothing and other forms of materialism. Most are just trying to show off to impress others. Others like me, who just don’t give AF.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Swaydiz in many cases, you are correct

[@deus555]

I'm home alone watching your videos on Christmas day. 🙂

[@RobertBoyd-wu2ej]

FYI - Elk is not venison - it’s elk --- venison comes from deer !

[@makelifemedicine]

@@RobertBoyd-wu2ej my client calls it elk venison! My sincerest apologies 😂

[@Aware506]

So freaking true. Great video.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Aware506 thank you for watching 💗

[@douglaslangham4417]

Truth !!! Thanks girl 😊

[@makelifemedicine]

@@douglaslangham4417 😜 Thanks for watching!

[@frmm123]

A quick tutorial on setting white balance would remove some of the saturation in these video, making the skin appear less-orange-like, a tip from devoted viewer and fellow videographer.

[@makelifemedicine]

my more recent videos should be improved...let me know please! I was using a filter that gave that effect, but I'm not using it anymore. I think it was not appearing accurate on my screen because it didn't seem too orange to me, but someone else mentioned it too. Thank you!

[@eli7527]

So spot on!

[@befree4876]

Message received. Thank you.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@befree4876 absolutely my pleasure 🥰

[@torekongsparten]

That is the problem in modern society, 20 sec was enough 🤣🙏🏼 U are probably GOOD 🙏🏼

[@makelifemedicine]

@@torekongsparten 😂 I'm glad I got the message across!

[@torekongsparten]

@ BY your humble and funny answer, U made me look up the rest of your Film. Lot of peoples neede 2 hear your words ( me as well 4-5 yares ago 🤣) Hope U get enough follwer 4 yourself !!! Nice meeting U across, Thank U 🙏🏼

[@makelifemedicine]

@@torekongsparten haha 😂 why thank you! That's so kind of you to check out my channel! I appreciate it 🙏🏼 And btw, I needed to hear these words like 10 yrs ago myself 😂 Thanks again 💗

[@John-Jay-Allen]

The last time I cared about what others thought of me was in My High School years

[@makelifemedicine]

@@John-Jay-Allen good for you!

[@John-Jay-Allen]

Well at least my College days in the Late 1980’s

[@okwui04]

Lucky. Most people figure that out much further in life

[@fit6673]

You are eloquence personified! 😁I believe it's called 'The spotlight effect.' You are the main character in your own movie but it does not mean anyone is watching

[@makelifemedicine]

@@fit6673 Thank you! 💗 Yes, that sounds accurate 😂

[@SanxxChevalier]

Some people care.. but you shouldn’t cared. But nonetheless it’s true no one cares so you gotta do what you love baby!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@makelifemedicine]

@@SanxxChevalier that's right 😜🙌🏼

[@SanxxChevalier]

@ Takes a while to break that mindset. Life is beautiful! After it. Anywho.. 🥴😉

[@RyanMain-n2q]

I work at the Burger and Sushi House aka BASH. It's the coolest place I've worked other than whole foods market was cool as well.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@RyanMain-n2q omg that sounds super cool! I would love to work at a burger and sushi place 🍣🍔

[@RyanMain-n2q]

@makelifemedicine I used to be neurotic. Now I wear the world like a loose garment. I have been honoring the 4 agreements since summer of 2008. My tendency to be neurotic and take things personally especially my assumptions are now infrequent and a minor blip of pain and I move through taking things personally quickly when i do take my assumptions personally. Choose your assumptions wisely Catlyn. Assumptions appear real.

[@makelifemedicine]

@RyanMain-n2q 100% agree with you

[@eli7527]

Great points

[@makelifemedicine]

@@eli7527 thanks for watching!

[@eli7527]

I have a strange question that you totally don’t have to answer, but your response would benefit me a lot in my own life: Do you get approached a lot by men? You’re super pretty and I would assume you get approached constantly. I’m a young guy in college and I hesitate to approach pretty girls much because I think they are approached and have dates all the time, which makes me think I wouldn’t be anything special to approach/flirt with them. I would love to hear your response! Great video btw!

[@salihashahid9526]

Thank you

[@makelifemedicine]

@@salihashahid9526 of course!

[@thomasnilsson8562]

Get your point. But. I must say I do look with wonder at a person who sits alone at a restaurant or coffee shop. First of all feeling a bit sorry for them. I'm a bit of a loner my self, don't have many friends. But I've realized that a lot of stuff I our society is based on having a social network. Having contacts. That's some of the most important things today. Unless you're into a sort of life style or business that tolerates or perhaps even demands a one man show. However I do believe we are too afraid of what other people think of us, of our actions, statements and lifestyles.

[@DrmCom2003]

(Le gasp) I'm not special? Say it isn't so.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@DrmCom2003 😂

[@StemValen-h5g]

I don’t think this applies to people who have had to go into witness protection and/or who have had a mafia hit taken out on them.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@StemValen-h5g KZbin videos are designed for a broad audience. Certainly not everything that you hear in every video is going to apply to you 🙏🏼💗

[@StemValen-h5g]

Not just me but tens of thousands of people. It also goes for people with media and paparazzi trauma too. Imagine Princess Diana hearing “no one cares what you’re doing and if that hurts, that’s just your ego running the show here….” in July 1997? There *are* so many people who, for a variety of reasons, have targets on their backs, who have everything they do stalked, documented, and criticized. That level of scrutiny causes extreme agoraphobia, nothing ego about it. It’s utterly debilitating. I do agree no one gives af about people in that no one is going to advocate for another the way they advocate for themselves. I just want to remind the greater public that people who are genuinely fearful to “put themselves out there,” are not *always* at the mercy of only their ego. Sometimes it is due to an unfortunate side of human nature and group psychology that is much more sinister and not their ego or their fault. 😢❤️🙏🏽

[@makelifemedicine]

@StemValen-h5g you're severely missing the point of the message here. It is quite obviously directed at people who allow their insecurities to prevent them from living their lives freely.

[@StemValen-h5g]

Also survivors of domestic violence may experience fear of “putting themselves out there” too, that is also not ego-driven.

[@omnipotentone5628]

She's talking about not limiting yourself by putting too much attention of how others might "judge" you, not on how others might "harm" you. Don't miss the forest for the trees, she's right.

[@Earthtime3978]

I disagree. When you meet people, a large percentage cares about how you act, what you think , how you dress etc. Sure, lots of people are thinking about what people think of them, but two things can be true. Believe me, people are thinking about you. Not every waking second, but when they meet you, and depending on the nature of the connection, possibly days and months later.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Earthtime3978 I agree, and I did address that in the video 😊

[@Earthtime3978]

@ yes you did. You’re a beautiful and smart person. Wish others were as insightful.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Earthtime3978 🥹 that's really kind of you to say. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@7SideWays]

Gen X taught us this by the time we were 7💪

[@makelifemedicine]

@@7SideWays 😂

[@jamesharkins6799]

I have noticed

[@makelifemedicine]

@@jamesharkins6799 😉💗

[@Armored_Saint]

you're so special. So Mister Rogers was wrong.

[@makelifemedicine]

@@Armored_Saint such a sweet man 🥰

[@OlivesT.wisted.Branch]

Umm you know there's a whole azz life review right?

[@makelifemedicine]

@@OlivesT.wisted.Branch 100%

[@BelovedfriendLSB]

what an ABSURD video it's two days old you've had over 2k views almost 200 likes and your channels got just over a thousand subs do ewe just ENJOY making ridiculous videos for the sake of building an audience even at your own expense? How much proof do ewe really need to have it proven to ewe people care?

[@makelifemedicine]

@@BelovedfriendLSB I'm confused by your comment 😅 Thanks for leaving one though 😉

[@BoostedPastime]

Thank you

[@makelifemedicine]

@@BoostedPastime of course 😉