No sir

[@nifLefty]

She wants a dominant man that will lead her, not control her. That’s what she’s saying

[@kngxn7437]

Real

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

What does leading her mean?

[@noxart2410]

​@@chaitanyagupta6668 someone responsible, you can rely on, plans things if need be, etc. (These are just examples) It's very different from ordering and forcing someone to do smtg A good example would be when someone decides to take care of the food and ask ppl what they want --> that person is in charge // forcing ppl to eat what they decided on --> control

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

@@noxart2410 there can be no leading without a certain degree of control and authority. What you actually want is a guy who does the dirty work like decision making for you and you decide to agree on it or not. It pretty much sounds like that. That's not leading.

[@MariaCenturia777]

Yes this!

[@athenawolf4467]

I feel you. I want him to be dominant. Meaning in the bedroom, being a leader, taking charge etc. What I DON'T want him to do, is bully me into submission. He should not be rude to me, he should be kind. Tone matters, and being open to suggestions shows great leadership skills Edit: It's telling how some people don't know the difference between being a leader vs being a bully. If you have to break down your partner to obtain submission, you aren't dominant/ a leader. You're just weak 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@therealbutterball]

Should I believe you or be rude to? You should be kind to you, but you should also be submissive

[@yourerightimwrong4567]

Girllll, that's like finding a black-footed ferret. When you get one, you usually get the other.

[@NJHSTAN]

@@therealbutterball why do I have to be submissive? He don’t own me

[@NJHSTAN]

@@yourerightimwrong4567 what?

[@therealbutterball]

@@NJHSTAN I never said he did but the man is in charge

[@Flòralyn]

There’s a difference between a leader/protector and control freak. Depends on what way he says it. If he’s a leader he will inspire you, if he isn’t one then this kind of thing would feel annoying

[@french_toast223]

If you arent gonna listen to him they hes a shitty leader

[@GoblinGuard]

That’s so vague and meaningless. You sound cartoonish saying you want a leader who only inspires but never takes the lead.

[@Flòralyn]

@@GoblinGuard Have I said I want anything?

[@beepboop5491]

@@GoblinGuard They never said they wanted anything, just that some men who are dominant aren’t a good kind of dominant- which would be the leader protector type, however lot of men say they’re dominant because they want full control over everything and will generally get emotional/aggressive when they can’t control you or the situation. The leader protector dominance is more gentle while being stern, a little like a teacher or professor in a way. Or the Alphas in werewolf stories 🥴😂 Ladies do love a man who can turn into a wolf

[@vibez2806]

​@Beep boop so if men said women who are submissive, shut the f up. Is that good?? Seems like a whole bunch of gender roles that men get hate on yet when they bring up

[@malihadhada6196]

I want a dominant man who takes control ✨IN BED ✨ Edit: so this is how it feels to be noticed

[@beepboop5491]

Preach! Take the wheel in bed, but that control stays there! Be dominant in a sexy way, not a control freak way lmao

[@lordpepe7360]

So, if you get attacked in the street, are you going to be the dominant one?

[@flowsenpai9961]

​@@malihadhada6196 lmao you gone be the injured one

[@lmvr127]

@@malihadhada6196 yo man gonna be a widow 😂

[@malihafaisal1178]

​@@malihadhada6196 we have the same name💀

[@kiivies]

lowkey i want a man to tell me what to do, i ain’t gonna listen but i like the way it sounds

[@Gostt.6]

make me a sandwich

[@etherealchords3530]

Omfg why are you like meeee 🤣🤣 thats so mee and I am like why am I so weird

[@etherealchords3530]

Like obvio all the guys around me try their best to not sound misogynistic so they all are normally good guys especially my bf, but then again when he acts bossy and tells me what to do and what not to do, gawd it sounds so hotttt 😭

[@Gostt.6]

@@etherealchords3530 then simply do what he asks you to do

[@etherealchords3530]

​@@Gostt.6 Yeah I'll, in the future. I guess he's smart enough to not ask me to do things I'm not okay doing or uncomfortable with.

[@Itssoph123]

I give up with women 💀. FYI, I am a woman 💀💀💀.

[@Xlynx_edits]

She wants a man that can lead her and help her while she’s with him but not control her

[@Itssoph123]

@@Xlynx_edits Oh 😭. I think i understand now.

[@bloominglune]

A soft person that's what I need. Someone I can be soft with. Because I am a sensitive person and I want someone who understands that. I don't want dominant. Men will misunderstand that word and try to control me.

[@ghostlypuddle6958]

Someone who have control but not controlling 👌👌👌

[@Crayolapup]

I’m laughing about how different people are interpreting this. The one about being a leader/dominant, not taking complete control to the point of bullying into submission or robbing someone of their identity/autonomy. That one is pretty accurate, imo. The other interpretation saying, “The girl wants a dominant man, and shes lazy af. She gets annoyed when the guy tries to get her get up”. I mean, this happens. Clearly thats not a good relationship. I feel like mostly men are interpreting this bc they suddenly feel like their masculinity and attractiveness got threatened. Lol.

[@Toocant]

Consent is everything! You gotta define boundaries and what makes you uncomfortable

[@blislifetbh]

Bruh this reminds me of what my cousin said, she is Christian and said that women are supposed to be 'under' men that we are lesser than them, because that's how its meant to be and that we have to listen to our husband and do everything they want us to do since they are superior. Apparently God made males first and females were made of a part of a male so we are lesser 🙄 I was soo uncomfortable but didn't say anything

[@Redblood88-j5s]

It's true tho

[@whitestoneandy797]

I'm about to mansplain for y'all. (Guys and gals included). Generally speaking good women want a Beast type of man. Not a Gaston type of man. Both Beast and Gaston are what would most people call manly and dominate but one is negative and one is positive

[@chriscuriosity]

I'm neither and I'm married

[@whitestoneandy797]

@@chriscuriosity well that's why I said generally my brother. Also you could have some of the qualities but they just come thru in different ways. You might not have s castle but you could provide a home and protection for your wife. And so on. But yea I was generalizing for sure. There's uniqueness and exceptions of course. I wasn't saying it's a hard fact or anything like that 👍🙏

[@lmvr127]

@@chriscuriosity not for long

[@ducks3107]

Shut up u simp

[@gabrielvaldes-ramos6980]

What is a Gaston?

[@monozone9696]

This screams I want the benefit but not the responsbilities.

[@GeeGunMan]

she wants the benefit of a dominant man paying all the bills and dominating her in the bedroom but doesn’t like the dominance of “i worked all day today. get up and do the dishes.” you’re spot on.

[@Gustavo_Rodrigues19]

Spot on 😂 aka when shit hits the fan, I want you to step up and take the hit

[@Alexis_005]

@@GeeGunMan you are confusing being “dominant” with abusive

[@kingtaco1725]

@@Alexis_005 That’s not abuse you moron. If a spouse doesn’t work and sits at home all day while he works a 12 hour shift and comes home exhausted, it’s incredibly selfish for her to not do any household chores. It shows she doesn’t care about anyone besides herself and is an entitled piece of shit. You think the husband enjoys the burden of working a soul crushing job 12 hours a day for most of his life?

[@bucks8428]

​@@Alexis_005 how is doing the dishes abusive

[@moonlightmacky9055]

Women ☕️

[@yobro789]

Women ☕️

[@braveimposter]

Men ☕

[@GoblinGuard]

Marsupials ☕️

[@intrflwrs]

aliens ☕

[@Gostt.6]

retards☕

[@hadleyflynn9449]

You can want a guy who’s assertive and confident who doesn’t boss you around and make you feel small or stupid. Not mutually exclusive

[@gbox7142]

That’s like saying I want a real steak from a steer, and then saying oh no I’m vegan

[@mishaylaporter]

On hunnny can i get the all beef 65 course meal but aLL vEgAn

[@NJHSTAN]

No it’s not do you even know the difference between “taking control” and “controlling”

[@barrybeebenson4274]

No it’s literally not

[@yourizo2833]

@@NJHSTAN your the type of person to want everything from a man but do nothing for him 🫤

[@NJHSTAN]

@@yourizo2833 that’s funny cause I choose to be single

[@systemsouth]

I love that expressive face. I need to be sat opposite enjoying it like it's a frickin smartphone screen 🤣

[@benitomussolini8544]

Somebody NEEDS to send this to Zoomer Trader.

[@sarthakd5227]

Blackpill is everywhere now lol

[@benitomussolini8544]

@@sarthakd5227 ikr

[@-SimonRiley]

​@@sarthakd5227 Nah I think red is more prevalent

[@lindboknifeandtool]

Bro can you reconcile these feelings and change? Like you’re proud of knowingly being hard to deal with? You’ll regre this lol

[@beepboop5491]

Sexually dominant man- hell yes. Dominant in the relationship? I mean, no thanks, we gotta be equal in the relationship, but like tell me what to do in the bedroom all you like lmao

[@-SimonRiley]

Alright do a flip

[@beepboop5491]

@@-SimonRiley I ain’t fuckin’ you bro, gotta make me submit- the whole point of it 🥴

[@-SimonRiley]

@@beepboop5491 alright do the dishes then

[@beepboop5491]

@@-SimonRiley Lmao you seem to have misread my comment. Equal in the relationship, dominant in the bedroom. Tel me to kneel and open my mouth, sure. Do the dishes? Fight me.

[@-SimonRiley]

@@beepboop5491 Oh so you want men to be a certain way to satisfy your fetishes and lust but when now it's your turn to return the favor that's suddenly sexist? Got it!

[@chellypob]

personally i rlly like men who can switch things up. i like being dominant and then when submissive i like being forced into it. (not literally forced) but with the attitude and energy im giving.

[@iluvbooty]

the fact that so many men don’t understand the line between passionate and rough … some of u need to be caged and locked 😭😭

[@ambraaaam]

Wait, wait so you ask for something and the call it "rough"?? Is just straight up reletionated 💀. I mean, if i say "i want a submissive woman" is not like i'm gonna say "but i dont want to lead her" Isn't that like THE POINT?! there's a difference between being "dominant" and agressive, what your calling out is someone who is NOT dominant, but agressive. A real dominant men wont use his strenght to abuse someone else.

[@SaintChicagoJay]

All these masculine women wanting dominant men is hilarious to me 🤣

[@Sia206]

Short king energy 😍🫶

[@meesamkhan4767]

​@@Sia206 loose pussy energy

[@Velhotin]

​@@Sia206 Username checks out.

[@Vreonix]

​@@Sia206 a cup energy

[@Sia206]

@@Vreonix my dairy farm speaks otherwise 🥰🤰

[@Wisemenzhimo]

And why would he want you?

[@calub_wendex1233]

Took personal offense to this short huh? Incel head ass

[@augustgirl2905]

You’re saying that like youd have a chance with her

[@Wisemenzhimo]

@@augustgirl2905 I’m 6.3, 24 year old working in my own self made clothing store earring 94-98k a year , going to the gym every 5 days of the week , so if someone small like me don’t want her then why would someone who’s more dominant than me want her 😂😂😭😭

[@vibez2806]

​@Ally E you can go 5 days a week tho...I do the same

[@chaitanyagupta6668]

​@@augustgirl2905 you also don't have a chance. Only women who do, please.

[@LanaBlakelyClips]

So dominant only when it’s beneficial to you, got it.

[@Alexis_005]

So you let your boyfriend humiliate you? Got it

[@dannylewis24]

​​@@Alexis_005 humiliate and dominant aren't even the same goofy.

[@Nobleman23]

@@Alexis_005 You really think humiliating is the same as dominating? You need a reality check

[@-SimonRiley]

​@@Alexis_005 You wouldn't know cuz you dedo seem like you never had a boyfriend

[@alvirabhagat1725]

Alex volkov being the perfect example of dominating but in a good way

[@jara9385]

A leader is not the same as a controller....leader is leading the relationships not controlling it

[@SAM-bo5xg]

A leader will tell you what to do. That’s why the are the leader

[@mireillenadeau2348]

@@SAM-bo5xg you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. Leadership is much more than hzst telling someone what to do

[@jara9385]

@@SAM-bo5xg yeah a leader will tell you what you should do that benefits them as a group and a family and will take all the responsibilities and try hard as possible to not be a failure for his family and is loyal and trustful and knows exactly what his duties are without even his wife telling him and laziness is not in his list and he gives more then he takes his energy and time is focused on his family !! but a controller is not not like that ! He just let his wife do anything what he wants he thinks he is a king and his wife should be his slave and he is a selfish person ,he is a dictator ...he only thinks one way and only what benefits him as a person and want only take a lot but not give that much he thinks women dont have needs he want his woman to be a maid and serve him and be good and loyal and faithful to him and that all for free without giving her the same amount what she need in her marriage He wants good in others but in return he isn't all that

[@mousemagic1246]

Me liking my bf being bossy:😌 Him:Go to sleep. me: HE WANNA D-I-EE

[@megumifushiguro989]

I want him to be dominant, take control not fkn bully me or break my ankles-

[@gryt4580]

That’s kinda how relationship works. You tell him what to do and he does so too🤷🏻‍♂️

[@odina5637]

It's definitely true 😂

[@Duley_Not3d]

OMG he asked you to actually reciprocate instead of laying on your back?! 😱

[@babidollxx2708]

DoN tEoL mEh WhA tU dU

[@Livie37]

Sounds Like A You Problem

[@LatIenws]

Can you block people in KZbin like you can on instagram?

[@ririthereal]

U can choose to not recommend this channel if that's what's u wishin for

[@GeeGunMan]

i hate to be the bad news bear with this honey but it’s hard to find a guy like this because there’s an entire generation of women who have convinced men its attractive to be feminine. there’s not loads of guys who are gonna stop robbers from breaking in but also watch the kardashians sharing a glass of wine with you on the couch. you wanna guy who’s half feminine and half dominant? better cop a strap-on.

[@Chironex_Fleckeri]

Sounds like you're very secually frustrated. I hope you find grass

[@GeeGunMan]

@@Chironex_Fleckeri you done getting pegged yet?

[@GeeGunMan]

@@Chironex_Fleckeri say something monkey

[@alyyyy128]

​@@Chironex_Fleckeri LMAO

[@GeeGunMan]

@@alyyyy128 found the woman who uses strap ons

[@prosaic.7944]

Women always want to tame a beast😅

[@renny335]

I actually don mind it tho cause then when u say no if he nice it's starts a cute little argument❤️

[@komronsworld]

I am gonna show you if someone asks me the definition of a hypocrite

[@verbosequestion]

Women: I want a dominant guy lol 💕 Men: so I want a submissive woman Women: ummm like ew??? sweetie you don't own me 😂😂

[@jordane8526]

When we say dominant we mean playfully and respectfully When y’all say submissive you mean domestic slaves you’re still not over it it’s been like 70 years cope

[@ducklord3620]

@@jordane8526 no we just don’t want a whore running around screwing a bunch of dudes

[@verbosequestion]

@@jordane8526 Nobody mentioned anything about domestic slaves, that's like saying 'dominant' means he straight up rapes you. How is a guy supposed to be dominant if you're not submissive in return?? Asking for this sexual playfulness from men but not willing to reciprocate femininity back is why a lot a men don't like it in the first place.

[@zeumi7063]

​@@jordane8526respectfully I think you are complete wrong

[@asad-dl8vo]

​@@jordane8526 not true when we say submissive we just mean complient and cooperative I personally treat my girl with respect even though i expect her to be a traditional women for example ill respectfuly ask her to cook and clean while i provide and protect

[@brittany1634]

he's either a leader or he's not. most are not.

[@bushlemon3971]

Yeah this, but sometimes women (me too) unconsciously wanna be the one in control of the relationship tho. Idk why, probably it's just the way it is

[@ambraaaam]

That's literally like saying "i want a submissive woman" but i dont want to lead her. Is literally co-reletionated💀

[@KingFloch88]

The sooner this society collapses the better

[@stareaholethrewu]

“If you can tell me what to do then you can tell me what to do, but if you can’t tell me what to do then you can’t tell me what to do” 😌

[@DOKZAONE]

The irony they all want dominant men but they to act like them themselves 😂😂😂

[@AnonymousRandomGuy006]

Yea right And I want a woman that’s submissive who needs me to take control. But I get irritated when she won’t stand up for herself and instead makes me. Women be trippin 😂😂 Nobody is perfect, sometimes dominant men who take control can be controlling and sometimes submissive women who want you to take control has it drawbacks too. 👋 back to reality

[@Veilfire]

These comments are contradicting themselves

[@alexryan43244]

Women don't have logic 🤣. They have emotions.

[@benitomussolini8544]

The modern ones at least. What happened to the good ones?

[@-SimonRiley]

​@@alexryan43244 Nah I am stealing this

[@Marwa2008_]

When You want him to be dom but you're dom yourself 😭

[@Ecstasy112]

People in this comment section are so shameless lol I’m getting second hand embarrassed with the thought of a guy reading the comments😂😂

[@Shaksvshsvsjabav]

Honestly 😂 😂

[@ambraaaam]

Yea... It is💀

[@sacredsoliloquypod]

Yes please

[@amrosalem4810]

I guess you mean you want the man to not control you which I understand 😊

[@m.t-thoughts8919]

So playing dumb in order for me to fix the headache it caused. No thank you, I wanna have a chill partner, I can grab and put somewhere and they will lowkey just chilling, following their hobbies/side hustles.

[@kolotoubas5689]

We all know you act submissive under a man you re crushing on... pretending to be strong all the time kinda proves that you re not

[@bumbabums-]

Hahahaaaa 😂 This is too true Movies are better, they have a script. Nice soundtrack. Hott co stars. Happy endings.... In reality they turn out to be boring grumpy a**holes.

[@beefee7279]

Men for your information, there are still women out there who will willingly follow the command of a strong man, women who are respectful, kind, and understand what being submissive really means, I know it's tough when all you are seeing in women is disrespect and stupidity, but stay strong and hopeful! Keep being your great selves!

[@Nobleman23]

Tip of the hat to you🎩

[@-SimonRiley]

Been a while since I met a woman with morals A pleasure to meet you M'lady 🎩

[@beefee7279]

@@-SimonRiley The pleasure is mine! I hope you are blessed to meet many more people in your life with good morals! :) God bless you!

[@beefee7279]

@@Nobleman23 :)

[@Czaint]

Obviously. Well it’s obvious if you don’t live online.

[@Alexis_005]

I never had the “need” to be dominated. Or dominate anyone, seems selfish

[@EveofPyrite]

I wish i had someone to tell me what to do. I feel lost in life.

[@scottthebot2779]

So you only want him to be dominant when it helps you?

[@GentlemenBug]

I want a dominant man but then I also want to baby him

[@ambraaaam]

Yea that's not something hard to find tbh

[@subject_0bbx438]

Meanwhile guys : « ME WANT WOMEN » women : « What Kind ? » guys : « YES »

[@NatalieMoore-l9u]

That’s to true😂😂

[@Daniel_Pop372]

“Me wanting a dominant man who takes control” Just another way of saying chad only

[@meesamkhan4767]

Brocel in the wild 🙂

[@nanjundagowda9381]

Women☕

[@shinichikudoz]

Yeah the clear red flag here lmao 😂🚩🚩🚩 run boys or just ignore this kind of women 😂

[@mangieygaming]

Woman ☕

[@LittleBiscuit]

Consent is everything. Having a dom means you work out an agreement between the both of you of what is on and off limits during the playful banter. It’s all about consent baybeee

[@lololol34561]

Most girls really live in lalaland

[@Jonahwills68]

Good luck finding a man who’s gonna stay with you for longer then 2 years in a marriage

[@Yurs-bj9fm]

Women ☕️☕️

[@Fruity.pebbles1]

Wtf bro. Like pick one or the other.

[@bunxsx475]

I feel this. I want a guy who is a dom in bed but not controlling. Even in bed, we need consent. And if he’s FORCING me to do something that I don’t like. I wouldn’t like it in bed or outside of the bed.

[@thechiefwildhorse4651]

Do what you are told -COMANCHE NATION

[@Hopesbrizze]

It has to be natural.

[@safiaarkhouch3887]

Yayyy girly

[@huskenzo5710]

Let me get a boneless pizza…. With a two liter of coke.

[@jackiemitchell890]

I'm a black animal no offense strong 💪

[@azhwilkins5997]

Today he asked me 2 tie his sboe laces

[@wirkz]

I want two… **2 shows up** ewww

[@beefee7279]

Damn yall really can't stand being told to do something by someone whom you are also expecting to lead you? That's pretty pathetic, if you can't take a command without getting extremely offended you are weak.

[@misso425]

Oh no! Taking accountability for your actions!!!! How misogynistic!!

[@lmvr127]

But are you feminine?

[@ha-kh7ef]

avoid women like this fellas

[@ianleonard3264]

Yeah you want masculinity on command. I aint fido

[@jeepeedurocher]

Eh, as long as she doesnt tell him what to do either lol.

[@matorix003]

Literally contradicting yourself You can’t cherry pick what you want like it’s a buffet either you get the whole package or you don’t get the package

[@Elise.Celeste.]

Facts 😂

[@sacreed1]

Sometimes, when you go to the cherry-picking tree. You'll get 2, 4, or even 6 berries that grow from the same stalk. Single stalk cherries are rare. Catch my drift?

[@happilyevernever4289]

No

[@HeyAx3r]

Do the dishes 😍

[@simori634]

Are you too dumb to do them yourself 💋?

[@eva_.___]

Omg zodiac girlfriend is that you😳😳😳

[@БибаБоба-б8ф]

But... No

[@No_675]

I’m confusion.

[@sacreed1]

I would not be in a relationship with her. She seems to be the type to start beef with a guy twice her size. And then expects you to fight him when shit gets real. The charcoal crazy eyes are a dead giveaway.

[@happilyevernever4289]

Brocels projecting like always

[@simori634]

Who tf said she would be in a relationship with you...huge imagination you got there luv.

[@sacreed1]

@@simori634 I've had prettier. With a non-nasty attitude.

[@strawberries6142]

Like, I don't want the guy telling me what to do. I don't want his dominant a$$ in my simple normal life, I want him to give ne freedom. Yes, he can be possessive but not way too possessive. By dominant, I bascially mean in the bedroom. I want you to be the master on the bed. (Why did I describe my type here? 💀)

[@charlesjacinta401]

now that's the Problem 🙄🙄🙄

[@knxa]

Have you ever made a video that has nothing to do with men?

[@Maryjane42069]

This bdsm shit has to stay private not on TikTok

[@Sukekiyoki]

Where exactly does it reference bdsm?

[@Maryjane42069]

@@Sukekiyoki hello she’s talking about dominant and submissive that’s an example of bdsm

[@Sukekiyoki]

@@Maryjane42069 not necessarily, sure, for some people, but quite a large amount of relationships include a more dominant or submissive role in the bedroom (which she didn’t even mention, although it’s implied, she could be referring to a general relationship dynamic for all we know)

[@iltonjacky]

Not to be mean but you need to blend

[@CraazynBR]

Traditional men are only for traditional women, ma'am. You got to have the zir and zeros for yourself

[@angelicaaah1264]

Yup