I REGRET COMING OUT AS TRANS ONLINE (ONLY A BIT) | NOAHFINNCE

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[@NOAHFINNCE]

DON’T WORRY GUYS! IT’S ALL GOOD! THERE ARE PRO’S AND CONS TO EVERYTHING AND IF I HADN’T COME OUT ONLINE I WOULDN’T HAVE SUCH A LOVELY COMMUNITY🥺 (also, it’s entirely my choice to post stuff! don’t feel like i’m being pressured to make anything, i wouldn’t be talking about this if i didn’t want to!)

[@_pop_rocks_]

We all love you ❤️

[@lawliet3617]

Ayeee

[@F907.]

You should be shirtless like 90% of the time. You have to get your moneys worth... I am going to be shitless all the time after my top surgery, that sh*t is expensive... (Meant as a joke, not pressuring ppl)

[@shagverywell8611]

@@F907. HAHAHAHA you're funny :')

[@screamingbanshee1282]

Did the person holding you hostage make you say that jk

[@azul4904]

LETS STOP DESCRIBING EVERY TRANS PERSON AS TRANS WHEN WE PRESENT THEM, PLEASE, ITS SO DAMN ANNOYING

[@zedrichie6621]

i hate being known as the ‘trans friend’ and things like that like... I’m just a person 👁👄👁

[@OfficiallySarabi]

It's also potentially dangerous to out people like that!

[@azul4904]

@@zedrichie6621 FR i hate it

[@azul4904]

@@OfficiallySarabi so true

[@jamielee7404]

None of my friends ever introduced me as being either intersex or trans and that rarely comes up in our conversations at all (only when I talk about some legal bs or medical issues). I would never be friends with someone who goes to the point of introducing me as either intersex or trans. First of all, it's up to me to decide whether or not I want that brought up. Second of all, why should it be brought up in the first place?

[@zetazimmer4769]

I’m MTF and it’s definitely strange going from nipples just being a part of my body to being something I have to hide from the world lest I unleash eldritch horrors.

[@hydrogen3266]

I never even thought about this woah. I guess I just try to get how “inherently sexual” society still sees women and their bodies😳

[@JaimieMcCaw]

Yeah its pretty fucked up how much we sexualise womens chests 😖 heck, even just not wearing a bra is seen as inappropriate by a lot of people. I don't get it. It's just nipples my dudes!

[@edgelordbazooka9461]

I'm so excited for just being able to walk around shirtless after top surgery but... i never really considered the transfem perspective of this. wow. we really need to normalize EVERYBODY being able to be shirtless if they so choose.

[@andreaam805]

Weren’t you like uncomfortable being shirtless before too anyways?

[@hydrogen3266]

@Morgan Hilker I know it’s crazy! Like some people look at like abs and muscles as hot and attractive, but men don’t need to cover those up. Like people see different things as attractive, women having to always cover their breasts bc they’re sexualized is sexism

[@enbywithcats]

“whatever boy is, i’ve always had it” -noah, 2021 (also yay another hug from noah)

[@_pop_rocks_]

Your hair- *I need it-* it’s so aestheticcccccc

[@papairplane]

What type of aesthetic? There’s different kinds of aesthetic

[@_pop_rocks_]

@@papairplane the aesthetic kind where it’s so pretty fluffy and light

[@cassey9629]

I love your pfp

[@_pop_rocks_]

@@cassey9629 thanks lol

[@papairplane]

@@_pop_rocks_ Yesh that’s how I would describe it

[@crystalwolcott4744]

"Whatever boy is, I've always had it." What a beautiful way to describe your relationship with gender.

[@raemorefield4677]

"sorry if that's stupid" just says something genuine and deeply internal

[@millzz]

literally i swear so many people do that say something really deep and genuine and then say "but idk" or "ah but i'm being stupid" like is that something all people under the age of 21 have in common?

[@raemorefield4677]

@@millzz it's about insecurity I think 😪

Sorry, I know this is not related to ypur comment, but what's your picture from?

[@raemorefield4677]

@it's good, it's actually my grandma in like the 60s or something! she's sitting in the back of a truck with a dog.

[@harryferguson1812]

i got an add before hand that talked about asking people their pronouns and it was so nice 🥰

[@ireadtoomanybooks]

Hi!

[@harryferguson1812]

@@ireadtoomanybooks hiii

[@0.Ghost_boy.0]

Aww that really lovely

[@audreeannadowning]

Same here 💜

[@bridgetmoreno9411]

Same :)

[@h.nnahcassidy3788]

Noah:posts *_Everyone liked that_*

[@c12349]

I clicked on this video faster than the speed of 🌈✨gay✨🌈

[@carolyngracyalny5222]

Wow. Thats fast. Speed

[@OfficiallySarabi]

The "oohs" and "aahhs" in the advertisement sent me 😂

[@luciana7614]

you're completely free to not talk about being trans, is not all that you are and we love you because of how genuine and beautiful you are. thank u for coming to my ted talk.

[@quinn799]

Being a man who has truly experienced womanhood is... interesting. Like you said, we have a unique perspective. (Same for mtf ofc)

[@toastyboi5370]

Noah’s hair is slowly getting floofyer each video

[@sp1d3y_yt]

I clicked faster then James Charles can say " hey sisters "

[@yosanoslover2260]

Lmao same

[@_pop_rocks_]

Hah yea

[@shagverywell8611]

saame haha ps; bruh your YT name is awesome ahah

[@sp1d3y_yt]

@@shagverywell8611 ty

[@universal_stupidity]

Thats pretty damn fast

[@dan5721]

Speaking for myself here, you being online as a trans person but not having that be what you do online is actually really good because it shows that trans people can succeed in online spaces doing other things, and as musicians for instance. So although your trans videos are helpful, actually the representation you offer as a trans person who doesn’t often talk about their transition is in it’s own way important.

[@-storm8221]

the sound effects during the sponsored message fucking killed me

[@melaaa325]

the secret demo sounds so cool😩

[@natej7782]

Listening a year later and recognising weirdos 👌👌 such a sexy song

[@LukaHauptmann]

dude i feel you, i can never decide if i should make content about being trans or not... like it's a part of me so i don't wanna ignore it but i also don't want people to think that's my only personality trait

[@LukaHauptmann]

@@dimmdimm thank you! 😊

[@glitched_will]

I didn’t know you had a KZbin channel 😂😅

[@ariannasantina]

im nonbinary and havent mentioned it once in my videos on my youtube channel i dont think... i just make content with my dog and stuff lol .... nobody needs to know my identity to enjoy some good dog content ;)

[@mymom5537]

I came out as nonbinary and my father thinks I’m a thing.

[@IPONJ]

Wait, a thing as in a thing or a thing as in a man winkie?

[@theyoutubeidiot6203]

@@IPONJ or maybe The Thing?

[@IPONJ]

@@theyoutubeidiot6203 hmm, it must first verified that he's a Marvel fan but could be. Either way PastiePie is a person and not, somehow, "less than'.

[@gothicGumshoe]

Feel free to stop talking about being trans if you would like to! I love all your content including your non trans related videos. Keep being a cool person!! :)

[@aurora3655]

Don't you hate it when you're struggling with something, related to transitioning, and someone else is like, "Just be you!" Like, I'm trying, an, you've clearly no idea what I'm contending with.....Yet, just being you is the whole point....lol!?!?

[@p0tat0s0up]

gonna be real tho - Noah vids just *make my day*

[@katrinemunk8816]

I was so distracted by the clasp on that chain, I don't even know why

[@p0tat0s0up]

same wtf

[@abbihenderson7308]

this is the earliest ive ever been- to anything-

[@nolimitsluke]

do you need to end everything you say with a dash?

[@Teddy-er2iu]

Same here

[@kingswift2257]

Same

[@dogmomxhatekide]

Same

[@genocidershinnagarot]

*The most on time

[@rozie9917]

I'm earlyyyy! PS I came out as bi today! Thanks for being an inspiration! (｡♡‿♡｡)

[@bobbioleary1266]

omg thats awesome! proud of u!

[@payaso_101]

Good job!

[@Eva-ng3zb]

I saw the caption and was like 🥺

[@JE-zj3fm]

Same :( but I respect his choices!

[@riley1774]

man i’m a cis girl but i miss being shirtless all the time. my mom made me start wearing shirts when i was around 10 bc that’s when my tetas started to develop :/ it’s not rlly fair tho because even dudes with boobs get to be shirtless so why can’t i as well 🤨 when i move out of my moms house, i’m gonna be shirtless 24/7 and nobody can stop me

[@teesmith3460]

I love the lighting this vid is such good quality

[@GunnarTobus]

Nah your shirtless logic 100% makes sense. I stand by it as well.

[@NickyTannock]

I came out to myself, my dad and my friends as nonbinary in August of last year at 35, and was terrified.

[@annaconda1385]

Its great that you can now be your true self! You are never too old to come out and I hope it all went well.

[@austenclayton7006]

WAIT THE DEMO SOUNDS SO FREAKING COOL

[@ayeshachorley5689]

Secret demo is like 100% my style and when I heard it I was like Ohdamn I can tell this is gonna be absolute FIRE 🔥

[@----xo2bm]

im really happy for him that he doesn’t have to think about being trans so much because i feel like a lot of times people just can’t talk to a trans person without bringing up them being trans or asking weird questions (idk tho bc i’m cis) so yeah im happy for him lol thanks for reading if you did have a nice day bye

[@kashalakasha2092]

I'm currently starting to feel like I might be ftm, and it's really cool to hear someone talk about how hard and scary it is at the beginning, not a lot of people do. I'd love to see more videos of you talking about the struggles of adjusting to having a whole new "identity" in the world and like getting used to people perceiving you differently. Or just your process of admitting it to yourself and coming to terms with it. Can't wait to hear the new music btw!

[@aldentetoes130]

Hope you figure yourself out dude. Either way ur cool. I don’t know you, but u watch Noah so you swag.

[@ReeIndeed]

As someone who is trans, still in the closet, and still at that point where I feel terrified of admitting it and letting others know because of how much changes scare me and all the guilt that I'd feel making others have to go through this with me, it's really nice to hear somebody else talk about it. I'm guessing it's more common that one would think but not enough people talk about it. I'm glad you made this video 🥺

[@p0tat0s0up]

“or thayme”- lmao

[@hazyrory3121]

omg the being scared of your name for the first few months is sO REAL, ahsgsgsg plus my brother switched up so fast which was amazing but i was so surprised that the first time he called me Rory i dropped a cup of tea on my dog (the tea was only lukewarm so the dog was fine and actually seemed to be quite happy about it)

[@kitkatjames3558]

My partner played underachiever and I was like "omg that's Noah's song!" "Noah?" "Noah.. fince I think..? One of the KZbinrs I watch... *Sigh* he's trans..." "Oh yeah! Oh shit.. that's bad isn't it?" "Yeah, it is..." They worked on it immediately and recognised that they shouldn't have thought of you as "the trans one" but it definitely reminded me how lucky I am to not deal with that most of the time.

[@Hmm...Whats-Their-Name]

Love the addition of the hug! No need to apologize for bein sweaty- I couldn't tell. Lol

[@taylorkohlhorst3068]

When I first found Noah's youtube, I didn't even know he was trans. I only found out by going through his older videoes. It never changed my veiw on him.

[@EulbYvi]

I get why you don't want to talk about your transition as much. There's so much more to your life and Internet tends to put people into boxes. I like your content and your personality, so while you talk about things you enjoy talking about I don't think your audience would mind. Specially if other option is you making videos that you don't necessarily feel passionate about.

[@KrisHe1]

I did start following you because I saw you on snapchat, speaking about straights not being okay, and I thought you were hilarious. Then you spoke about being a transman, which makes me happy that you are successful and living freely, showing others it is possible, but yeah you're a funny guy who have so many important things to say! I love listening to you, and seeing how young you are I know you speak to the younger generation and normalizing being trans*, meaning you might limit transphobia among younger generations, as well as creating a safe space for the new kids on the block! Love it, love you!

[@kaimartin6938]

I respect that you don’t want to make trans vids a lot anymore. That’s fine. U do u Noah.

[@melaaa325]

oh a sweaty hug from noah at the end 🤠cool cool

[@nomomoe8727]

this is the earliest i’ve ever been to any youtube video 😩🤚

[@nomomoe8727]

also 6:39 my enby heart 😭💛🤍💜🖤

[@pavithrasureshkumar7219]

The best part of the vid was his hug at the end. PS Noah even though idk u I'm proud of u

[@megzeman]

Awww! I was not expecting the hug at the end, but it sure made me smile

[@emma-m425]

it’s so cool that ur far enough past ur transition that u hardly think abt being trans anymore! i hope u don’t feel pressured to continue bringing this stuff up all the time, you’ve always been noah to us and we love you no matter what

[@mylosayles5448]

yeah ive just come out and the guilt is literally killing me hahah,

[@Sophia-pm7jv]

AHHHH THE "SECRET DEMO" TO THE THEME OF SECRET TUNNEL FROM AVATAR THE LAST AIRBENDER WAS EVERYTHING

[@reybenesmisasi8017]

I.... literally have the exact same computer and this is the second time a KZbin has advertised my own computer to me oh my god. Funnily enough, the other guy was British too.

[@reybenesmisasi8017]

If I had a nickel for every time a British guy told me to buy my own computer, I’d have two nickels. Which isn’t much, but isn’t it weird it’s happened twice?

[@aceofhearts7507]

okay look, noah, you are a beautiful man, like actually. you're adorable and you're amazing and such a role model, and i actually love you. i will never see you as a "trans man" because since you are a man, and i think everyone should respect that, you deserve the most in this world, you deserve happiness!!!

[@lokiscoffeerose663]

Currently in the state of "how dare I ask people around me to call me this new name and new pronouns and think of me in a different way"

[@foxofender2905]

10:56 THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS, THIS IS EXECTLY HOW I FEEL, I actually thought about changing it back because of the guilt they all thought it was so hard and my ten year old sister started crying when she realized it was actually real and a big change, no one in my family likes changes. But now its better.

[@alexrose20]

I remember being really little and I used to take off my shirt and pretend I was a boy lol

[@ilovebilliejoe35]

I relate to the guilty thing!! I haven’t come out as non binary yet and I’m scared to ask people to change. And I also get that weird feeling where I hear ty around people who don’t know I use that. And I’m like oh shit no plz lmao like why

[@ejtainment1033]

i genuinely had no idea that other trans people felt that guilt oh man thank you for talking about this

[@kamikkaze5164]

My last dream was that I found u in a concert. You were going to sing after and now I want to grow to your concert

[@xxxgskhdu]

Not me literally hugging my phone at the end

[@VeeJayASMR]

Dude, I finally checked out your music, love it!

[@curiousnerdkitteh]

Gatekeepers: There are only __ pronouns allowed Noah: Theym

[@omnione7894]

I am glad that you are alive !!

[@oliverharris60]

Thank you so much for addressing the guilt that comes with coming out. For me, I felt so guilty at the prospect that I was completely terrified of coming out, and it really affected me. When I came out, people really didn’t mind! It was just a thing, and really I ended up making a huge deal in my head when fortunately it ended up being absolutely fine!

[@tandnbarnett]

I’ve been watching you for sometime now. Well even as an middle aged person this chat you had Noah meant so much too me. It put things into perspective for me about myself being trance too. So thanks. The bit about the guilt and the shame...wowzers!

[@coltlineberry2444]

The very last question and your answer 😭😭😭 I completely understand what you mean. Thank you for being so open and honest.

[@brody1216]

I really appreciate your honesty in this video. Nice relating to things that people don't usually talk about! Definitely reassuring.

[@andrewbols]

Why am I this early, I'm normally not early for shit 😳

[@koalaskrypin]

I want to say that I found your channel looking around for transrelated stuff but now I have ended up hooked to your music and I also find your videos funny and relatable no matter what topic, so if you never did another video on being trans I would still follow you for your amazing content.

[@imnoorv]

OMG! A NEW VIDEO OF NOAHFINNCE ON MY T DAY !!!! BEST DAY EVER !

[@zzZ-dx2rr]

Dude, this video kinda reminded me of a time when I first found Noah’s video and listening to all his covers... man I miss his song covers. Oh I also have a random memory of watching him play music on his kitchen floor where a laundry machine was located. Update: I got further in the video and HE GOT SIGNED THAT MEANS MORE MUSIC!! I have joy :)

[@LGBTR3naissance]

We love and support you no matter what Noah and appreciate you always being honest with yourself in your videos. Your experiences and voice 100% matters. Whatever makes you comfortable, go for it! Always have the highest respect for you mate.

[@phe.mp3]

3 SECONDS OF DEMO AND SO GOOD?!!

[@coralovesnature]

This video is so relatable and I’m not even out yet, ahhh. I love to hear Noah’s perspective because it aligns so much more with my own than many of the other online trans community I have seen. Or at the very least how some cis people portray what the “trans agenda” is - I feel like some people have never even listened to a real, actual trans person ever.

[@migamo2066]

I love how your eyes sparkled when talking about music✨. Also the demo sounds so good, can’t wait😭

[@willolsen7434]

worded immaculately, I feel the exact same about just the whole coming to terms with being trans and just coming out in general. Really needed this

[@willolsen7434]

the fact that noah liked my comment has me internally dying, plus the fact that my English is very cringey

[@briwells6867]

I always enjoy seeing your content, but I especially enjoyed this video because it's so amazing to see how comfortable you are with yourself now and how obviously happy you are that you've transitioned and made those big changes you're scared of. It's so inspiring, because it shows that even when you felt all those emotions you mentioned, you eventually changed and now you seem so happy! I'm so glad you're at this point now! As a closeted nonbinary person, it gives me hope for the future, and helps me remember that these bad emotions are temporary. I look forward to your next video, and hope you have a good day!

[@stephb124]

BRUH. I GENUINELY LOVED this video with all my heart, especially the end. You’re inner battle. I think everyone experiences that to a degree in different stages, in different perspectives whether it’s gender identity, finding your sexuality or just finding out who you want to be. But it’s true, finding yourself in general is so hard, adding being a kid and emotions to the mix doesn’t help either lol ^_^ i hope i can speak for many that we see you more than someone who just identifies as transgender. You’re a comedian, an artist, a son, and so many other things that we don’t know and that just makes you human :)

[@georgerace6269]

The demo was such a teaseeeee!!!! I need that song whatever it is it sounds fucking amazing!!!!!! I love your music so much mate, like it’s my favorite part of your content.

[@isobelrawse9976]

I started watching you yesterday and I love you and your videos I think you are amazing and your music is a ✨vibe✨

[@mateoalexander7317]

I was always shirtless as a kid🤣🤣 then puberty fucked me up lmao. But I’m getting closer and closer to being able to take my shirt off again🤣🤣

[@humanbeing9585]

ur being openly trans has really helped me grow as a trans guy so thank you

[@jxderin]

THE DEMO ALREADY SOUNDS AWESOME I CANT WAIT FOR NEW SONGS TO BE RELEASED

[@kberger7289]

I love your sense of humor!!!

[@gracedavis3100]

Thank you for the hug, much appreciated 🤗 💕

[@kamikkaze5164]

I really appreciate. Sometimes I want to be more comfortable myself but it's so terrifying the idea of "'changinf other peoples lives", that people Will need to changez although will be the same

[@guytrabuchet1916]

Dear Noahfinnce, I have much admiration for you. This is because you describe your pains of being Trans and the surgerys you courageously supports. I thank you for this. ❤.

[@moosboeke2160]

"I've come to a point where the only times I think about being trans is when I come on the internet" that gives me so much hope though, thats sounds like a dream come true lol. I really get your point and I look forward to ur non-trans related content!!

[@ukuleilidh]

Omg congrats on getting signed Noah!! 🥳 super hyped for more music 🙌

[@rockstardude8225]

Your truly A influencers ... your teaching so many older people about THE FUTURE

[@sage.sophia]

8:08 through the music! secret secret secret secret demoooo!

[@mauritsponnette]

Yay for AtlA references! 😁

[@mauritsponnette]

I was looking for this comment wondering if anyone else noticed 😅

[@sage.sophia]

@@mauritsponnette same, hahaha I didn't see someone commenting it so I did it myself

[@hannahs5409]

I just want to say, you coming out even though it’s a small part of your life, but it made a HUGE impact in mine because when you came out I was uneducated and confused and thought I was alone. And now I’m out and I can effectively handle my parents transphobia and me and my partner have made a crazy impact at our school in the middle of no fucking where small town America. This sounds silly but I love you and your content and the impact you have made in my life. So thank you, unbelievably thank you.

[@crazycat1166]

I completely relate to the stressing over small changes. Like I do certain things on certain days and it's really hard to change things up. I'm almost 3 months on T now and and changes are starting to happen more rapidly, its exciting but also quite scary.

[@zetazimmer4769]

I’ve wanted to start making KZbin videos but being openly trans on this platform seems like absolute hell. Mad respect for everyone badass enough to be out online.

[@sassybdassi6686]

that demo sounds amazing and i want to hear the whole song ah mar garrrd!

[@koalacha6713]

GROWL I LOVE SECRET DEMO IT SOUNDS GROOVY

[@teddy.c4964]

I really enjoy watching your videos they help me come to terms with myself and feel better about it. I just wanted to say thanks and I hope that life treats you well.

[@leahbruce597]

secret demo sounds lovely

[@xplorgal]

NOAH WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT FEELING GUILTY MAKING PEOPLE CHANGE YOUR NAME AND PRONOUNS PUT INTO WORDS SOMETHING THAT I HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING WITH A WHOLE FUCKING LOT !!!!!!!!!!! BECAUSE THIS IS WHAT STOPS ME FROM THINKING ABOUT NAME CHANGES AHHH !!!!!! THANK YOU FOR TALKING ABOUT IT

[@crystalwolcott4744]

Freaking out because you cant go to the shoppes at two when you said you were going to is such an ADHD mood. lol