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[@NOAHFINNCE]

WHATS AN OPINION YOU HAD IN THE PAST THAT YOU ARE EMBARRASSED ABOUT?!

[@ZimLikesPastaAnimation]

I'm gonna be honest, I used to think guys couldn't marry guys and girls couldn't marry girls, and I used to be kinda truscum-y. now I'm bi and non-binary, so there was some character development lol

[@tanavtheshapeshifter4215]

@@ZimLikesPastaAnimation woooo, glad it is a past opiniom :P growth 🥳

[@clownbones]

i used to like onision and thought he was really honest 😺😃✌️

[@nxahsvidz]

@@ZimLikesPastaAnimation woah love that character development :D

[@Coco-wj8ge]

I used to think genderlfuid was stupid till i did come out then as genderfluid and such. It was truly embarassing but thats what happens when you were influenced by kalvin garrah. Now im a trans ftm male and i fully support genderlfuid people !!

[@theolinefredrikkekavli2058]

Old Noah: has strong opinions New Noah: I don’t care

[@13gudadod]

Character Development

[@NatureLover-pj2qe]

Same

[@Taylor_5724]

This is me

[@nina-pi9dl]

honestly same

[@5H4RKY0]

'My issue with Noah Finnce' -Noah Finnce

[@karlihabel8531]

The title was so interesting that I clicked instantly 😂

[@robotboy3104]

LMAO I thought it was a hate video at first and was like ?? why is this in my notifications?

[@trishscarlett6251]

Self evaluation is needed. Self deprecation is not. Noah you mush love yourself!

[@cosmicsteinfox]

me me me

[@cosmicsteinfox]

😤

[@nickr288]

noah i’m waiting for the transphobes to pull the “you changed your opinion so your gender might change”

[@kaismagic1506]

i don't know why, but i think they would TOTALLY do that

[@Harri_James]

Very Ann Widdicombe using 'we used to think you can't change your gender' to support conversion therapy vibes.

[@rosiefay7283]

@@Harri_James We (or rather our ancestors) used to think gay sex was sinful, too. And some children go through a phase of being unsure about their sexuality, and some transphobes are gay. but don't see the double standards. Odd, that.

[@bandamani]

@@roosterj i think their point is that they are so critical of trans people's gender and call it a phase, when not long ago people did the same thing to gay people and by now we know it isn't a phase to be gay and you are just born that way.

[@FW10826]

As a pansexual, I find the term "woke bi" hilarious

[@luzelenaserrano1236]

Same, lol If it didn't imply that bi people are anti-woke I'd probably use it because it sounds funny

[@papadopoulouu]

Hahahahaha 😂😂same

[@Garliefs]

saaame

[@Elle-cy3eu]

SAME

[@smileyfacefries]

Same

[@CopsHateMoe]

Honestly I feel like a lot of young trans people used to have shitty views on things like neo pronouns etc,, I know I did. I think projecting insecurities was a big part, but I think biggest reason was just the conversations that were being had at the time. They were dominated by people who had those toxic opinions, so it was very hard to escape from. If someone has made a clear effort to change, I don’t think it’s fair to hold it against them,, especially all the young trans people who, at the end of the day, were just shitty teens trying to feel accepted.

[@milla4748]

Hi moe!!!!!

[@dylanmontealegre2917]

hi moe!! you're amazing!!

[@annacatherineandrews]

Now that it feels like there are SO many people on the internet talking openly about these things, i feel like I’ve been able to open up myself to neopronouns, etc. because I don’t feel threatened to prove my transness anymore

[@leakypfaucet]

Yea I Think Blaire white and Kalvin garrah is a large part of this tbh

[@Treethefairydog]

I myself went through a transmed phase and was a bit of a dick not gonna lie and was very iffy about things like neopronouns. now a few years down the line I have not only realised that everyone should get to use pronouns that make them feel comfy and no one should police another person's name, gender or pronouns but I actually use neopronouns myself! It's wierd to see how many folks I know that have had a similar experience but I'm glad to see that at least within the community most people have learned and grown and are alot more accepting of things like neopronouns.

[@jamesarnold3286]

The teacher: "The test isn't confusing" The test:

[@nxahsvidz]

hehehehhehe

[@elliottlupin]

I find the fact that Noah is 21 weird. I would be less surprised if he was 24 or 17

[@blau6273]

Why is this lowkey how I feel

[@emilie2667]

This makes no logical sense but your right

[@ProtesiIaus]

like it would be easier to accept that he is literally any other age

[@akaissy]

@@emilie2667 you’re😊

[@IndiBindiWindi]

21? No Any other age? Yes

[@fools4jules]

this is not related at all but his little hair that's sticking up is my favorite thing

[@NOAHFINNCE]

LMAO I SPENT HOURS EDITING THIS AND I DIDNT EVEN SEE IT

[@oneish7454]

@@NOAHFINNCE they call it "ahoge" in anime, literally "idiot hair" in Japanese.

[@fools4jules]

@@NOAHFINNCE omg omg you responded

[@mylifeismylaptop8529]

I literally saw it the second it appeared 😂

[@aaronlol147]

he's the protag of the the story

[@Ju-gp9xv]

"It is not the fault of pansexuals that people misinterpret what pansexuality is" THANK YOU!

[@natalie8111]

YES

[@Conndawg]

I am so touch starved that when Noah hugged the camera I almost started crying.

[@tealrose3248]

Bob The Egg oh darling. Do you have access to an animal shelter where you can cuddle the dogs and cats? They need cuddles too, and they're really not going to judge if you're a stranger like humans might.

[@yukiandkanamekuran]

I felt this

[@gabrielamarrero7111]

It's Alfie knocking Pennywise off the shelf for a piece of bread.

[@youngdevil5010]

Man's got his priorities straight

[@moriah93ohio]

I did not understand this comment until it happened in the video 😂

[@Lufe_Stark]

For the he/him lesbians, I saw this comment the other day "i didn't understand he/him lesbians until I realized gay men have called themselves she/her for years" and it makes so much sense

[@seto749]

It would be more accurate to say that some gays have called each other she/her for years, often as a bit of a dig. It's really not the flip side of the he/him lesbians; hardly any of us ever wanted to use she/her pronouns universally other than some full-time drag queens.

[@totallyoutofit6989]

Yess i saw that too and it made a lot of sense

[@alexshane5713]

Ohh

[@logannew7560]

@@seto749 !!!

[@jessicawraight2077]

Cancel culture is dead to me. People who demonstrate willingness and openness to change are people I want to support 🤗

[@Sage-qd6tf]

Y E S E X A C T L Y

[@jaimieandjosh]

Yeah exactly. Which is why I feel bad for Shane. He's done everything possible to apologize for what he's done in the past, and it's clear he's changed and matured so much since making content like that.

[@manupine]

@@jaimieandjosh the people you surround yourself with often reflect the kind of person you are and he's still friends with Trisha and Jeffree who are both openly shitty people. not to mention that he didn't just say disgusting and weird things, he did disgusting and weird things too. pedophilic things. racist things. over and over again.

[@epenner9337]

Have you cancelled cancel culture?

[@jessicawraight2077]

@@epenner9337 heheh that made me laugh, and it’s a good point - but no. I disagree with cancel culture, but I wouldn’t force anyone else to agree with me. So, to me, that’s not cancelling

[@user-lb6bn8vy3e]

I’m glad people aren’t so worried about labels anymore because it’s helped me realize that my sexuality isn’t that important and I’ll figure it out at some point. I know I’m nonbinary but I honestly have no idea what my sexuality is. If I had to choose rn I’d probably say I’m pan or queer but I’m not really sure and that’s okay

[@casacan77]

This! I'm the opposite 😂 I've figured out I'm pan but my gender is this weird clusterfuck I can't find a label I like for

[@leakypfaucet]

Hells yeah

[@jlake2247]

@Aaron Brincefield just because a lot of us find comfort in finally having words to express who we are, doesn't mean that we think its wrong for someone to say they don't want to label themself. labels don't define you, you do and if you find words that match that then great, but no one owes it to anyone else to label themself.

[@Luc-wv6hi]

Omg same except ik neither about my sexuality or gender, i just know i want to bind and keep my hair short. Off topic i like your pfp of Jared :)

[@ZimLikesPastaAnimation]

I read that title and went: 👁️👄👁️

[@kailergadikor831]

Same 🤣

[@inactive.5680]

Me with the thumbnail 👁️👄👁️

[@mukula_kivi6397]

Sameee here

[@nxahsvidz]

same 👁️👄👁️〰️👄〰️👁️👄👁️

[@liam_er]

sorry i had to ruin the 666 likes 😳

[@ASingleLettuceLeaf]

The fact that Noah takes full responsibility for having different opinions to his childhood self where other much older creators can't take responsibility for their current racism, homophobia, etc is astounding

[@nwf4407]

Every other celebrity: does awful shit and never acknowledges it Our king Noah: makes THREE videos apologising for minor mistakes he made as a child

[@FW10826]

As much as he is forgiven and I think he's changed, they weren't really minor mistakes

[@yukiandkanamekuran]

I'm still super glad he did address them, because stuff like panphobia in bi circles is actually hurtful. These things actually hurt others.

[@katu3390]

@@FW10826 yeah, they genuinely were not minor.

[@nonniperkl6273]

As a dude who by definition probably hits the pan category I don’t really give two shits. I maybe won’t call myself that but it is valid even as it is not so much different from bisexuality. I can’t understand how fucking difficult it seems to be for international (especially) US folk to get along with their own people.

[@leakypfaucet]

Well to be fair it wasn’t that long ago but he did do a good job addressing it and these are mistakes many people have made

[@luciacarpio9162]

wow this is a character development i never knew i needed

[@clara5586]

Noah: 'my issue with noahfinnce' Me: tf am I watching? Am I in the right channel?

[@nwf4407]

Lowkey got me mad smh

[@Thatgenderconfused3mo]

I fr thought this was some fake account that played as Noah and was like “..what’s wrong with him? Is it because he’s like British?” Like 😂 whoops

[@nosuchthingasgoodcows7003]

@@Thatgenderconfused3mo it’s someone being salty over the jamie drama

[@Thatgenderconfused3mo]

@@nosuchthingasgoodcows7003 wait what😂😂

[@boldanabrasevic3020]

@@Thatgenderconfused3mo just watch his (or jamie's) recent video on jammidodger. it's... a wild ride

[@jeddos]

We need to accept that people can grow and change especially when they're young.

[@nxahsvidz]

this ^^

[@iamalimelight2346]

I know, I hate it when people call out artists and things because of what they said when they were younger, especially if they said t before they were in the limelight. 💞

[@jeddos]

@@iamalimelight2346 Yeah I agree. I think it should be called out but once an artist has apologised and engages in activism to showcase they have truly changed, rather than just apologising for the sake of it, then it should just be accepted as an honest mistake. If someone is repeatedly going around being racist or homophobic etc and just keeps apologising and doesn't seem to change after years then that's when it becomes a problem.

[@yakuzaman5074]

Omg YES, thank you for this comment!

[@aidan9430]

I feel like this is something cancel culture often doesn't acknowledge. I hold the believe that we are all assholes in some way & we'll never be perfect so why should we hold famous ppl to these standards? a person can be someone completely different in a short period of time bc we constantly keep changing. I once tried to explain the concept of growth, acknowledging mistakes & moving on & the person just told me I had a hero/ saviour complex XD

[@robotboy3104]

this is the first video I've seen of someone addressing things they've said in the past without being forced to. I'm glad you realized your mistakes and corrected them. Very cool Noah

[@nikkialkema1032]

It's the second one for me.

[@Im_trash08]

I’m pan and I just wanted to say, BEING ATTRACTED TO TRANS PEOPLE DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE PAN. Thank you!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@-toby-329]

Bro I don't even know if I'm pan anymore or if what I feel is just- everyone is attractive. Like, I'm either panromantic and constantly friend zone the people I date and can't seem to want to be more than a friend with anyone or I'm aromantic. I'm so confused.

[@bratatouille]

It's nice to see someone admit their mistakes without even being called out first. I also wish a certain other trans youtuber would get over their teenage edgelordness and realise that it's not up to us trans people to make ourselves look good to cis people...

[@yarahowell5646]

You can say Kalvin Garrah

[@margot635]

it’s ok you can say kalvin and blaire

[@dakotathenonbinarypal791]

You can say Kalvin and Blaire. We're all thinking it.

[@soyboy6953]

Or Kaden Workman

[@nachopeligro]

kalvin has changed his opinions, if you were to actually do your research you would know that lmfao

[@finnsinthebin]

now THIS is a real apology video, Shane Dawson take notes.

[@Alex-ui5qn]

You're Noah finnce. And you're throwing shade at your self. He has grown so much. :)

[@M_56612]

Lol I got over the bi V pan debate when I started identifying as poly and apparently the entire internet now hates me for it. “oOooOhh- sPoOkY miCrOlAbLeS”

[@NOAHFINNCE]

AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[@samuel-zb4qn]

@@NOAHFINNCE bruh im 13 and when i was 11 i said i was asexual but then anfew months ago i said that i was too yount to know if i was asexual because i havent even hit puberty yet and i got cancelled on tiktok for "ace erasure and invaladion" to the point where i had to delete it -_-

[@saurora5615]

people be like: ”mIcRoLaBeLs MaKe cIsHeT pEoPle nOt LiKe uS” like first of all I don’t care what a random cishet thinks of me and why do we have to seek their validation for what we feel comfortable with?

[@oshaviolation]

@@samuel-zb4qn dude I’m so sorry, what the fuck? I can’t believe people are ‘canceling’ you for your own feelings about your sexuality. I got ‘canceled’ on tik tok a while back for a mundane thing too, and I also had to delete the app because harassment runs so rampant on there. you’re not partaking in any ‘erasure’ for being you. keep being awesome.

[@samuel-zb4qn]

@@oshaviolation it can be really toxic :(

[@austyntistic]

me , a pansexual trans dude who uses neopronouns : awe yeah . character development

[@jamieranlett1029]

which neopronouns do you use? just wondering, i'm not very educated in the topic and would like to know about more people's gender identities :)

[@hideakisorachi3953]

@Rebecca ALLISON neopronouns are pronouns that people use other than he/him, she/her, and they/them. a common one people use is xe/xer, though there is a huge diverse number of neopronouns people use. for instance, I know someone who uses the pronouns bun/bunself. from what I know about neopronouns(I do not use them so please correct me if I'm wrong) many people who use them tend to be neodivergent. because their brains work differently their way of veiwing gender may be different from someone who is not neodivergent. from what I heard from one person (I'm not going to say this is the experience of every person who uses them, just the explanation this person in particular used), people who use neopronouns tend to hyper fixate on certain words/concepts. this hyperfixiation can actually give them gender euphoria. being referred to as that word can make them feel more comfortable with their gender and just make more sense then he/him, she/her, or they/them. some people even use multiple sets of pronouns. they may use he/they pronouns but also use neopronouns as well. it's just depends on the person. once again, I do not use neopronouns. if you want to add something or correct me please do. I'm new to the concept of neopronouns as well.

[@avanoelz]

@@hideakisorachi3953 as a neurodivergent who used neopronouns, thats exactly right :>

[@avanoelz]

uses*

[@nickluki640]

This whole video is noahfinnce just saying "k edge lord" to his past self. But like still this video was very well put together.

[@julianamagg3177]

I was a little know-it-all as a teenager. Just learning to admit when I am wrong and learning to just listen when others explain their experiences and feelings is something I consider part of growing up and grow as a person.

[@Blake-lu9gw]

I love that the "my issue with" is now a something like a meme that also works to talk seriously about things

[@jette7266]

I’ve been feeling shitty these past two days but the hug in the end really made me smile... thank you for that!

[@justinsamuel7179]

Takes a lot of maturity to make a video like this-really cool. I still don’t understand neo pronouns but I guess, even though I don’t understand it, it doesn’t mean those who use them should be criticized. Thanks for opening up the dialogue

[@cadynextdoorr]

three claps to noah for recognizing his mistakes 👏👏👏

[@arandomperson5026]

A clap and a half indeed 🙌🙏🙌🤲

[@MittensTheMurderKitty]

If you do decide to actively do stuff wrong and upset people and then make videos about it, don't forget that it's most appropriate to film them on your kitchen floor.

[@NOAHFINNCE]

i’m sure this is a reference to something but i’m not what it is

[@Sophie-tx3vm]

@@NOAHFINNCE Trisha Paytas

[@vatershep]

@@NOAHFINNCE Trish like fish 🤪🤪

[@manupine]

"you can have an opinion on anything you want, but that does not mean your opinion matters" ok i WILL be using this in the future when my cishet family says some dum shit thank u noah

[@natalie8111]

As a Pansexual enby, I find “woke Bi” hilarious and I have to be honest I was pretty much laughing this whole video, but yeah, we stan a king who realizes he was wrong😌

[@cyraheinao2857]

I DISLIKED THE VIDEO BEFORE I WATCHED IT BC I AUTOMATICALLY LIKE VIDEOS AND I CLICKED THE WRONG BUTTON AND DIDN'T REALIZE UNTIL THE VIDEO ENDED AHAH

[@quinncontento7033]

I'm a pansexual and when I first got into noah I saw the video he addresses here and it made me uncomfy but I tried to ignore it so I'm so glad he addressed it here x

[@karlihabel8531]

I love this video! ✨Growth✨ I’m pansexual. I went back and forth on what my sexual orientation was for a long time. In my experience, people who are bi are typically attracted to certain types of people (I.e. feminine women/ masculine men) To me, being pan is when you’re generally attracted to the same characteristics regardless of if those characteristics belong to someone who is a man, woman, nonbinary, etc.

[@berndbananebauer2759]

Well according to your definition, I am pan then 🥳 I mean I am switching from bi to pan and back for years now xD XOXO

[@fleurpalmer-paquis8226]

Yeah definitely, I'm bi because I'm attracted to a gender BECAUSE they are that gender, as opposed to being attracted to people regardless of their identity.

[@berndbananebauer2759]

Ok i might not be pan, because the way people get raised by society is strongly related to how they are seen from society. And since gender is a really big part so someones Identity i will not be blind for it. It just makes no difference for my atraction. But for the relationship, because cis men really cant relate to as much as my problems as for example trans womens do. So i am bi... right ? Nothing against you i am just troubleing since ages to know which one. My best bet was mostly bi do i will continue with it...

[@alicat7633]

@@berndbananebauer2759 Bi means multiple genders so pan people are bi. As in squares are rectangles but are also a valid shape. Pan is more specific but your not wrong if you say bi. People often say both and a lot of people who fit the definition of pan only use bi. I usually use it as an umbrella term. The bibrella includes pan people. (Not to say that pan people have to call themselves bi.) I identify as bi and not as pan because I’m attracted to different things in women and afab non-binary people than I am in men and amab non-binary people. That doesn’t mean that pan people don’t notice the gender or avoid red flags in certain genders that don’t apply to others ( ex men raiseing their voices can be scary while it tends to be less so with women.) The end of the day, labels don’t really matter if you’re comfortable with a label then use the label. The only real use for them is declaring who you’re attracted to. Unless they’re a bigot, no one is going to care what you identify as.

[@littlewyzard]

@@alicat7633 I was just about to comment this! As someone who identifies as pan, understanding pansexual as being a label under the umbrella of bisexual just makes so much sense to me! I feel like a lot of pan/bi discourse can be resolved by using this definition. Plus there are plenty of bi people who are attracted to multiple genders but not all genders and they usually get over looked when people argue that pan and bi are the same so really this definition seems like a win win situation

[@n0face2]

As a bi person who is in a relationship with a pansexual, I find that the biggest difference isn't *who* were attracted to but *how* were attracted to them. For example the attraction I feel towards men is much different than the attraction I feel towards women, but for my partner it doesn't mean anything weather you identify as a man or woman if they're attracted to you they're going for it.

[@leolikesanime1339]

NOAH FINCE IS GONNA BE SO MAD😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 YOU'RE GETTING CANCLED NOW😡😡😡😡😡😡

[@nxahsvidz]

NOAH FINNCE IS SO BAD CANCEL HIM >:(

[@leolikesanime1339]

@@nxahsvidz GRRRR HE IS SOOOOO BAD😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

[@nxahsvidz]

@@leolikesanime1339 GRRRR 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

[@TheActualJeffery]

GRRRRRRR 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 CANCEL HImmm 😡😡😡😡

[@soyboy6953]

GRRRRRRRR 😡😡😡😡

[@Elliee921]

'BRO you can't eat apples' 'you can have apple, sorry about that' SO WHAT'S THE TRUTH

[@mariposaarts]

Little explanation: He/Him Lesbians used to stand for lesbians who wrote themselves off as men to marry their lover. It now stands for closeted lesbians and closeted lesbian trans women. It's a group of supportive women who are closeted who help eachother. This does not necessarily mean they use the pronouns but that they hide behind them. Lesbian women having to say he/him for their lovers and transwomen having to be misgendered. I hope this clears things up more or less.

[@sionednortheast9524]

ohhh that makes a lot more sense thank you for clearing this up, as a lesbian myself i was so confused and kinda angry about he/him lesbians but this explanation makes a lot of sense :)

[@respqwngd4966]

Thanks! I really needed this explanation, always wondered what he/him lesbians really meant^^

[@mariposaarts]

@@nonkdonk5896 Yes and honestly I don't have an explanation for those who do. I do think it is affecting the view of this group who are supporting eachother and I wanted to point that out. Though the women who do use he/him are very little so :/ I don't care much about them and I would rather this group get less hate.

[@anceptus]

There's probably some femme enby folks that use he/him pronouns (edit: more common when they're okay with all pronouns) and identify as lesbians. It's a big world out there, and hey, they're valid too :)

[@Lisa_Flowers]

@@mariposaarts To my knowledge he/him lesbians who aren't closeted trans women or trans at all simply use these pronouns because it makes them feel comfortable. Pronouns are not always gendered - most people use them in a way that traditionally aligns with their gender (she/her for women, he/him for men, they/them or neopronouns for nonbinary people) but there are men/women who use they/them and nonbinary people who use she/her or he/him, simply because it's the pronoun that makes them feel the most comfortable. A lot of cis lesbians also experience some level of alienation from womanhood because being a woman in society often entails liking men and centering them in your attraction. So they use he/him as an extension of that alienation. There doesn't have to be much more of a reason other than that it makes people comfortable. I think the idea that he/him lesbians who don't belong to this group you've described make the group look bad is harmful. Pronouns don't HAVE to be gendered. They are for most people, and of course we should respect trans people who do experience pronouns as gendered and want to be called the appropriate pronouns. But we should also respect trans and nonbinary and gender nonconforming cis people who use pronouns differently. It's not an either or.

[@i1113]

yea remember the marshmallow scandal... never forget.

[@coco_writer929]

I actually remember seeing the video you made about Pansexuality near when it was first posted and I'm Pansexual so I thought "whoa, is this what people think of me?" I mostly rolled my eyes because I was hearing a lot of it from people around me. I appreciate you acknowledging that your mindset has changed about this over time, that shows growth and that is a beautiful thing. I'm 28 and I can tell you many things I felt at 21 have changed. Not drastically, but be enough for me to look back and think "wow, I've grown in the last seven years". So never beat yourself up for anything you may have felt or thought in the past. Just acknowledge it, learn from it, and let it help you continue to evolve. I love what you create Noah, so keep doing what you're doing. :-)

[@sarawojcik896]

I am really amazed of how mature that was. I love how you adress your mistakes without completely dragging yourself and on the other hand not trying to excuse what you did or said. Just a perfect balance. Huge respect man

[@that_one_shark6887]

broke beefing with other channels, we have ascended and now only beef with our own channels

[@SyreLikeAFire]

if kalvin garrah could take a moment to do this kind of vide the world would look like that futuristic flying car meme

[@littlewyzard]

That requires Kalvin to actually change and grow as a person first 😬

[@nachopeligro]

@@littlewyzard he has? of course you wouldn't know unless you actually watch his vids and pay attention, which i assume you don't since you clearly don't like him

[@menacingjack]

@@nachopeligro 3 months ago he made a video with Blaire White about bullying a trans person who didn't fit into their view of what a trans person is like. They were just constantly laughing at them and making fun of them. He deleted it after he got so much backlash because of the video. He hasn't changed, please don't fool yourself.

[@menacingjack]

@@nachopeligro if you wanna see it for yourself, there's still a video about it from someone reacting to the video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fZnHo52Jjs-qa68

[@alphie2056]

my names alphie so when Noah said "alphie what are you doing?" I panicked

[@ms.rottenstrawberry1018]

Lol

[@kendallcubes]

The mistake many people make when talking about he/him lesbians is assuming all he/him lesbians are cis women. Nonbinary people can be lesbians, and they can use any pronouns they are comfortable with. So there can be nonbinary lesbians who are most comfortable with he/him pronouns, but that doesn't mean they are damaging to the trans community, they are just expressing themselves.

[@butasimpleidiotwizard]

Initially the he/him lesbians video made me dislike you and I didn't want to support you after that but I've been watching you again recently and now watching this video it's really wholesome and I'm so happy you aren't afraid to make up for your past opinions and correct any misinformation you shared, it's a good example to be setting

[@haleyrg6412]

You hate yourself? Yeah same

[@nxahsvidz]

felt this-

[@ZimLikesPastaAnimation]

meeeeeee

[@p0tat0s0up]

yup literally me

[@gabrielamarrero7111]

Yo same my they/girl/ dude

[@jaybek7707]

Gabriela Marrero Yo! Handy tip here. I use this a lot. Pretty much all the time. Pal, fam, and bud are all really good non gendered terms!

[@enbywithcats]

woah another hug from noah i feel honored

[@enbywithcats]

woah and a heart from noah again am honored

[@Snuzzled]

Man, if all the stupid shit I said as a teenager had been immortalized on the internet..... yeah 😂 I'm just glad the internet wasn't a thing back then

[@nwf4407]

And today's news... Noah Adams has been cancelled!!! ... by Noah Adams...

[@amygillfolk]

... again...

[@makattack6870]

I’ve been here from the beginning but man I love the way you’ve turned out. You’ve grown a lot and I’m really proud of you

[@littlemissbump100]

My issue with Noah Finnce - Noah Finnce 2020

[@JA-jx9uk]

The hug at the end.......................😭

[@micahwhoispointless4229]

It's nice to see these kinds of videos because acknowledging how you used to be is wrong is the best way to be a better person. Also thankyou for existing Noah, you always make my day better whenever I see any of your videos and I cant wait to see what you do with your music career!!!!

[@finn1079]

i really needed that hug in the end

[@michaelahigginson4834]

I just say I’m bi even though the gender of the person doesn’t matter to me. Not as many people know what pan is so it’s easier.

[@tealrose3248]

Michaela Higginson whatever communicates best in your community is valid. Labels are there to help you understand yourself and to explain your identity to others - use whatever works. If you identify as pan but communicate that best by saying bi, that's fine. 😘

[@natm2443]

@@tealrose3248 THIS

[@themoralagent]

Yeah, I hate having to explain myself every time it gets brought up. I really don’t even want to label myself anymore tbh but I don’t want people to think I’m straight. I think I’m jus gonna tell ppl I’m queer so they can figure it out themselves

[@praalgraf]

i mean, bi doesn't necessarily mean that you do care about the gender of the person you're dating... read the bisexual manifesto if you wanna!

[@michaelahigginson4834]

@@themoralagent I like that 😂👌🏼

[@taylormoravec]

you’re so sweet. your rat is also sweet. it’s adorable 😭💜 also, I just really commend you for this. I like the attitude of just let people live while listening to their experiences in order to understand where they are coming from. we need more people like you on the internet.

[@lr6359]

Noah hugging the camera and giving us big brother vibes literally makes me tear up idk why WHY AM I LIKE THIS

[@IPONJ]

Because you had a kind heart. Makes me sick! ;)

[@Julia-md3fh]

Yo Noah, you probs won’t see this but I got my Spotify thing today, asthma attack was my most listened to song this year, you were my second most listened to artist and I got some sort of badge for listening to underachiever before 50,000 people or something like that lmao anyway I love your music 🖤

[@NOAHFINNCE]

AW NICE THANK U FOR LISTENING 🤗

[@Julia-md3fh]

@@NOAHFINNCE WAIT HOLY FECK YOU REPLIED

[@greythekid8955]

@@Julia-md3fh DAMN NO FAIR

[@gabrielamarrero7111]

Legit was so confused when I saw the title. Honestly we change as we grow and we have to accept that. Love you Noah!

[@commonerscoffee.]

to past noah: pronouns don’t equal gender. I’m a demiboy, but I’m very feminine, and use she/her pronouns because I’m not out yet. if I had my way, I’d use he/it, but I’m fine with she/her.

[@gerardtay]

As a trans masc enby I really appreciate you making this video. You're proof that people CAN and DO change. And I really hope that others grow and change in their understanding of other trans ppl as well.

[@carolyngracyalny5222]

Noah has a lot of issues with people lmfao. You should make a video on Elliot page because that's some very good news.

[@nxahsvidz]

yesss im so proud of him, you should watch Jamie's vid on it :D

[@carolyngracyalny5222]

@@nxahsvidz already did lol

[@nxahsvidz]

@@carolyngracyalny5222 oh okie great :D

[@carolyngracyalny5222]

@grayson land yuuuuup

[@carolyngracyalny5222]

@grayson land and his wife is supportive too. Don't see that much with celebrities. Actually everybody is supportive of him and its so amazing

[@laurenpaige8493]

Me at the fridge at 3 am: “Bro NO you CANT have apples... you can eat apple, sorry bout that. Good boy.”

[@starlightlion8603]

I don't have to understand he/him lesbians to respect them, it's just that easy XD

[@sand747]

same goes for a lot of the LGBTQ+ community

[@marsd8442]

I remember watching ur he/him lesbian at the time when I still thought I was a girl, and honestly thank you so much for making this . I think it kinda hurt me for a while bc i now know i feel so much more comfy with they/he pronouns but I'm also a lesbian but i had internalized what u said at the time.

[@morganmightbeok...]

When I was in middle school, so maybe 12 or 13, I thought that when somebody was bi that they liked everyone, without distinction (Texas is a strange place and that’s the social context I was existing in at the time, so ya), so when one of my friends told me she was bi, I remember being actually worried that she might like me like me. So that’s a little bit embarrassing, but don’t worry, I no longer think that. I’ve grown up and learned better since then, and also come out myself…a couple of times😂

[@nazvalizade]

I’m trying not to stare at your hair sticking up

[@elisestegmann9125]

The sheer confusion that surfaced when the notification for this video. I've been writing about a. Scarcella for a class and all the video titles that are formatted like that now immediately bring up her, and genuinely thought for a split second that I had somehow subscribed to her and was TERRIFIED

[@ellabenkemoun8348]

I really appreciate you as a human being.I only discovered your channel a couple of months ago and you've turned to be one of my fave youtubers. You are amazing and it's great to see you just being the kind and lovely person that you are❤

[@libbyford6765]

Seeing the rat run behind you on the bed as you were speaking is the reason I have serotonin today

[@marsbarsdraws1453]

i just really appreciate you making this video. it's such an important thing to acknowledge our mistakes as human beings learning about the world and coming to terms with our past ignorance. i had unsubscribed to you a while back and once you showed yourself learning from your mistakes in the past i immediately subscribed back because i do love most of your content and was very happy to see you grow as a person

[@cowboylikeana]

i really like how you acknowledged your past mistakes and how you’re clearing it up now. it’s super cool of you :)

[@zingzing7426]

the first video like this you made is the reason I subscribed to your channel, and I'm glad you've kept making these. cheers for giving an example of what being accountable looks like, and growing, and owning up when you mess up.

[@Meeko4eve39]

Your ability to be self-reflective and make really good apology videos is honestly one of your best personality traits, Noah. It makes you a really good role model, actually.

[@p0tat0s0up]

thx for the hug Noah. it actually helped :)

[@witchypoo7353]

You, Corey, & the rats are adorable. I literally said, “Awww!” When you said that you’re feeling “so big brothery rn & I don’t even have a younger sibling” That literally made me smile because you just seem so sweet & genuine

[@valvopaul]

Acknowledging your issues or admitting you are wrong is a strength and is mature. It’s growth. I’m a 56 and still learning every day. Wonder sometimes why it’s taken me so long to learn some lessons but I keep on moving forward.

[@kensingtonvanhouten5565]

Bro, you have nooo idea how much i needed that hug...thank you, Noah

[@torim3090]

Love how Noah on most things sexuality wise is just “I don’t care?!” - i wish other ppl had this view, ppl in my year found out about me being bi and it’s ridiculous how much they careeeee

[@kashalakasha2092]

Lots of respect! No one's perfect, people are always changing. This is why cancel culture usually sucks, we're all growing and improving. It's hard to call yourself out, so props to you

[@riverwilliamss949]

He’s grown so much. It’s so amazing to see someone showing some light on the things that they have done wrong or something they are not proud of. This is the person that I hope to be

[@naynaykillua3363]

Nobody. AbSoLutELy NoDy: Noah: I dunn a woopsie doopsie and I dont deny it ♡ Edit: WHO DISLIKED THIS I- how is this bad hes being such a great human

[@e.r.g6681]

Taking a shot every time he says “who cares”, see you in therapy 😚✌🏻 For legal reasons this is a joke

[@kaijohnson3144]

T shots

[@Scififan926]

Mission alcoholic coma start

[@rodentia1474]

Wait wtf before I pressed “read more” I already had it in my head you were gonna say “for legal reasons this was a joke” *b r o*

[@e.r.g6681]

@@rodentia1474 lol

[@totallyoutofit6989]

@@kaijohnson3144 BWAHAHAAAHAHA

[@agentofasgard6213]

Noah, I love to see so much personal growth and confidence in you. For me personally it has always been the most difficult tasks to call out my own shitty behaviour and to give a sh*t about other people's opinion. It took me years and years of therapy but it's all been worth it. To see such a young man as yourself showing that much self reflection makes me so happy :) And thanks for the hug, I needed that 💚

[@fredmachine6039]

It's great to see you talking about this because it makes me realise that at the time I agreed with you, as ive been watching your videos for a while. it's really cool for someone with an audience to open up that conversation !

[@playswith_squirrels]

When I saw the title my first thought was me too. I have a LOT of issues with myself so...

[@eleanornolastname316]

It's important to grow, I used to have opinions that I completely disagree with now. It's more important to grow.

[@nicokelly6453]

I appreciate your willingness to grow and acknowledge these things. It's good to see that there are people who are leaving those kind of needlessly harmful discourses, and I'm glad you're discussing this. I've appreciated your willingness to change.

[@zzzakariah]

at the end when you gave a hug in case people weren’t doing good i was like actually like crying and really sad so i was watching your videos to make me feel better and when you did that it made me really happy. so thank you. ❤️

[@juls_krsslr7908]

One good thing about being old is, none of my horrible teenage opinions wound up on the internet. I kept a journal, though, and some of the stuff I wrote makes me cringe now. Some of it is hilarious, though. Sometimes, you just have to laugh at your own stupidity.

[@arohamello548]

the way i had these SAME opinions at the beginning of this year, and now i totally disagree, in fact i am now a he/him lesbian lol

[@timmycardiac7558]

INCREDIBLE character development

[@anceptus]

Congratulations! It takes a lot of courage to publicly admit you're wrong. Glad you're now comfortable with who you are.

[@amyl819]

congrats!!! ive gone through something similar!!!

[@roswurld]

the way i went through something very similar

[@sackiesack8492]

hello i am very sorry for using u as an encyclopedia but I cannot find this anywhere, yknow how when an enby person says they use he/they pronouns people will refer to them as boy and stuff, but for he/him lesbians do you still use feminine terms? is it JUST the pronouns or does it also influence the terms you want people to use?

[@ytcrb]

Noah, I recently discovered you! I’m glad that you’re pointing out your faults and correcting yourself. You might just be my new favorite musician

[@ferpoire3233]

This is so spot on! I am just amazed of how self aware you are. I hope we build a culture just as this video: allowing a much more self critical environment, without guilt but with willingness to change and respect diversity.