The Memes of Pansexual

[@einsmayar2219]

“Are pansexual people attracted to pans?” Well, there might be a time, where we happen to be attracted to another pansexual person, so yeah.

[@lovingiseasy-4342]

I love your profile pic!

[@Rosia4309]

HAH clever

[@einsmayar2219]

@@lovingiseasy-4342 and I love yours

[@scarq4995]

@@einsmayar2219 I love both of yours

[@TheSussiestOne]

Lol I can confirm this because I am Pansexual and so is my boyfriend

[@Anto-wd9rm]

The attraction to pans isn’t necessarily pansexual, it’s just a chef thing.

[@Anarchasuccubus]

I spent 8 years in professional kitchens. Can confirm.

[@vkosplay]

@@Anarchasuccubus why can you confirm that

[@seymorebuttsdeeznutz]

@@fangzone STAHP FILMIN’ ME YOU FOCKING DONUT! 😚🍳

[@Nouxatar]

panchefsual

[@rosary_omen]

I'm not a chef and I very much appreciate a good pan

[@lunaqxii981]

"It's just a phase" Being straight was my phase, Karen

[@beth7935]

That's brilliant!!

[@lyricraine2246]

Ok so like now I need a shirt that says “it was a phase, good thing I realized I’m ___” 😎👌 Insert sexuality, gender or identity!

[@albussr1589]

Mine too. Didn't work out for me. Mandalorians convinced me that aroace is the Way

[@deilylyrret]

I might use this if it ever comes up.

[@lunaqxii981]

@@albussr1589 🛐

[@IndigoMoons]

Since I'm an asexual panromantic, my door would be... a wall with a little spinning window? A wall to block off all sexual attraction but a window to let through romantic attraction?

[@yasqueen2459]

I think we just need a building

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

It would be a wall with a sliding door

[@aineheckenshrek]

I love this

[@ised7609]

kinda sounds like an extractor fan to me??? but also mood

[@IndigoMoons]

@@ised7609 hey, my plants need air

[@cole.3223]

Me, a pansexual person: - is kinda lazy - has dark circles around their eyes - comes from Asia I'm a PANda 🐼

[@Mayasnotes___]

Yes PANda here 🐼💗💛💙

[@dr.clockworks4_7]

Am straight but I love this

[@FishLeFish]

(Also in a cupboard) 💗💛💙

[@InvisiblerApple]

The update of "Featherless Biped" I didn't know we needed!

[@2007bhadra]

Me too

[@DuskNeko]

I just realized the pansexual flag is the primary printer colors (magenta cyan and yellow) which can be used to make every other color, just like how pansexual people can form an attraction to every other gender

[@jemuzu3065]

wait i never noticed that

[@pavlovs-wug]

woah... I wasn't too keen on the colour combination before, but now I like it a lot more!!

[@mailyak442]

🤯

[@epickirbyns399]

You are a fricking genius

[@jjaass1238]

I’ve noticed that and it’s my favourite thing to point out to my friends. There are so many interpretations to that too like how there are three umbrella term genders: female, nonbinary/trans and male for pink, yellow and blue. It’s very interesting. I love colours and I notice weird things about them all the time. :)

[@shatteredteacup03]

About the door thing: I actually like to imagine the 'bisexual door' like those old saloon doors that swing both ways because bi cowboys are a vibe

[@mschrisfrank2420]

Yasss!!!!

[@sassybdassi6686]

bi cowboys ARE a vibe

[@estellesmith4118]

Yes. Just yes.

[@sharmbanu9862]

walking into a saloon like "yeehaw homophobes it's our time to shine!"

[@shatteredteacup03]

@@sharmbanu9862 lmao

[@babyowl3257]

This channel is such a calm, respectful, judgement free and inclusive space. Perfect for an anxious pansexual like me 😃✨

[@Enbyfriendtoall]

Hello fellow pan friend! :D

[@ashleyanne929]

as a pansexual, if the dishes memes are tasteful theyre hilarious. like the "pansexuals on their way to do the dishes" meme was great

[@Jane-oz7pp]

Of course you wanna know about tasty dishes smh pansexuals just can't help themselves

[@Silvey505]

Girl same I’m pan and pffftttt

[@RusticRito]

Took me a while to get it but that made me laugh

[@Person_number_10]

Ikr

[@Ultragay_bacon]

As a pansexual i love memes and jokes about pans too

[@IsabelleSnape]

I’ve had so many people say the “well if you haven’t been with all genders, how could you know?” It’s so frustrating. If you haven’t been with all genders how do you know you’re straight?!

[@krissouter5701]

Yeah, I've been single my whole life and I still know I'm pan

[@RianLyons]

I’m pan, and non-binary, but have never been with another non-binary person, but I know I sure as Hell am attracted to non-binary people, especially if they’re very androgynous. I know what I like and I like it all, regardless of who I’ve actually slept with.

[@gmiill]

also to straight ppl, if you've never dated/been with anyone, how do you know you're straight?

[@scribblebee5412]

I've always said I was Pansexual ever since I found out about it but there is always a small voice in the back of my head that makes me doubt it, specifically because I have not "been" with anyone. And while I do think it that it's partly to do with me and my own issues I think the main reason I think that is of people or the stigma of "how do you know if you haven't tried" it's sad that we have to justify our identity through actual examples and experiences rather than people just believing and accepting it

[@Shoulderpads-mcgee]

Have fun hunting down someone of each gender for the rest of your life

[@maceyking1071]

them: "whats ur type????" Me, pansexual: yes Update: im actually omnisexual update 2: im either omnisexual or pan

[@nariaein]

same also immaculate pfp

[@Firegen1]

This

[@madalynburke4749]

My type is cinnamon rolls for my pans

[@gulgaffel]

Question from a curious one. Pansexual just refers to genders right? So surely one can still have types, no? Or am I wrong on that?

[@mythicalgirl2005]

Me, an aromantic asexual: No.

[@cassie-j.bakker9722]

"There are only boys and girls, you can´t love more than that." The joke: "I´m also non-binary, Karen."

[@ambermehlberg2762]

Lol me too 😂

[@DurpySlurpyMunchkin]

Me too❤ also I've encountered the first, third, and fourth stereotypes. All from my family.

[@Mypansmellsgoodsoimthem]

I'm Pan and NB

[@thomasatyeo1765]

"I am pansexual" "So you are attracted to everybody?" "Of course not, there's not enough of me for 7 billion people."

[@amidar6634]

" We are not attracted to everyone, because we have to share our love with other pansexuals. We are not greedy."

[@cheddarcheese8577]

Thats one huge herm

[@apersonyes3198]

"no karen your entire existence is just a phase."

[@octobersummer679]

not with that attitude you arent

[@ameliabowler8903]

I love that.

[@melissaalmodovar5099]

I am a queer woman who is married to a pansexual man. We are constantly asked "How can you be fill in how we identify, and be in a, heterosexual relationship?" 😑 Because we love each other. Duh.

[@tavrosnitram1529]

right? its like people thinking all bisexuals fucken cheat just reply with a "youre straight and in a straight relationship, how do you not go out with other people while also in a relationship with eachother" cause anyway you put it makes no goddamn sense

[@sillygoosetaur]

*I’m just single and enby*

[@Nebula_o7]

@@sillygoosetaur *I'm just an omnisexual with a preference for enbys (Because I find that they are the most trustworthy people I've ever met)*

[@bananamanchester4156]

Lmaooo same. My husband was actually the one who suggested I was probably pansexual! Now he sends me photographs of sexy women and nb people for fun lol

[@c-onethirty]

@@bananamanchester4156 seems like bait to me.

[@DinoNuggetDestroyer]

I want to install a revolving door in my house, so everyone immediately knows I'm pansexual

[@beeabby4289]

I second this lol

[@nariaein]

wait me too

[@patrickpoledances]

I third this

[@franticdoodles8516]

I fourth this

[@momamiandkiddokelsi9027]

I want to do that too!!

[@izzyb_ella_m5362]

Someone: “so..what’s your type?” Me, a Pansexual: _sigh..here we go again_

[@aduckinatinytophat]

I DON’T HAVE A TYPE AND IT GETS IN THE WAY 😂😭

[@samiraperi467]

Kitchen ware.

[@Printer-RouxGarridan-Guhya]

@@samiraperi467😂😂😂😂😂

[@tiredbedbean]

When I came out to my mom she said that I'm just going through a bisexual phase and want to feel special. Those ones are so real...

[@ame2395]

im so sorry this happened to you, all of us spuds support and appreciate you!!

[@tiredbedbean]

@@ame2395 thank you so much!

[@ashenedrose]

When I thought I was bi, I came out to mum and she said that it was a phase and then basically said that she's bi but says she isn't. I can relate, just know we are here for you though!

[@tiredbedbean]

@@ashenedrose thank you I'm sorry that you went through that though

[@chickencake5134]

@@ashenedrose your mom is suffering from ~✨🌈internalized homophobia🌈✨~

[@Renni_Jay]

I'm a pansexual who once locked themself in the kitchen cupboard for like...fifteen minutes on accident. It wasn't my coming out, I was just stupid. And scared.

[@samantavollmer6670]

I.... I have questions over here! 🤯 How did that happen?

[@pandaell1029]

When I come out I have planed to jump out of the cupboard and just scream I’m a god dame pan

[@lovingfalls]

This made me laugh sm omg 😭

[@River132]

I shut myself in a locker at a pool😆😂 (Like literally pounded on the locker and my uncle opened it🤦🏻 btw i was like 6)

[@shannonk5361]

My sister used to lock me in the Tupperware cupboard when she was babysitting me. Apparently she's the one to blame.

[@cousinfun3059]

I came out as bi to my friend and she said that I’d better not have a crush on her. I said “no, sorry I have standards”. She seemed legit upset but at least she didn’t know she is actually my crush. 😂

[@Sentientmatter8]

...My initial reaction to this was feeling sorry for your friend for missing out on falling for a friend. XD

[@John_Weiss]

As a 51 y.o. kinsey-5ish man, I can tell you that this is not one the correct response, but had been the correct response for at least 30 years. 😁

[@liviecatt]

idk how one comment evoked so many emotions in me this was truly a rollercoaster

[@sethrayne8076]

oof, i had a friend always ask if i was Sure i wouldn't "accidentally" like her and like,, after 20+ times she asked i had to spell it out like "YES, you have nothing to worry about, i can assure you that's NOT going to happen" and then she'd be "lol that's a little sad". heteros are exhausting

[@burntmarvmallow141]

similar happened to me when I came out as pan, I explained I like personalities over parts. she replied with "oh you must really fancy me then" and I laughed.

[@heathermcfarland6317]

I am pansexual and I was so excited about the Pan representation I saw at the Houston Texas Pride Festival this year. There was Pan merch everywhere and when the DJ’s would say stuff like where my Gays at, where my Bi’s at, they each remember Pans. And surprisingly enough I was not the only one. It made me finally feel like I am a part of something instead all alone

[@ashemarlow6471]

My go to response when people tell me that my identity is confusing is usually "I really don't see how that's my problem" and then I walk away

[@reid4758]

Lmaooo!!!

[@FoxGameCZ]

Cool response

[@astaiannymph]

My identity is a bit confusing, but it isn't every random person's business, and that's a part of why I just id as queer to the wider world. But this is a great response.

[@marissamccann804]

I would just say "I'm sorry that your brains that small" then walk away

[@Detectivekes]

Me, a pansexual: *intense clicking and hoping it wouldn’t be about frying pans*

[@misschanandlerbong753]

well now that’s just wishful thinking they’re never going to drop it and we all know it

[@sassybdassi6686]

me, a pansexual: intense clicking and hoping it would be about all the frying pans

[@persassyjackson833]

Me a pansexual, hoping someone would make a meme about coming out of the pantry:

[@intellibi4254]

...sorry

[@ol1ver_280]

me, a pansexual: intense clicking and hoping there would be a pan- ic mean

[@kathrynehiersche1817]

I LOVE the "sexualities as doors" thing. Another good one is Heterosexual: stand on one leg Homosexual: stand on the other leg Bi: stand on both legs Pan: lay on the floor Ace: floating

[@toho2811]

LMAOOOO

[@bunnykatzen]

I guess omnisexual would be crouching on all fours?

[@ghostqueen09]

@@bunnykatzen As an omni person This is correct. I am constantly on all fours like a crab

[@kittysharpe5269]

I am floatin bois

[@6298-u9c]

Demisexual: leaning on one person to stand Polysexual: crawling on your legs and 1 arm

[@pile_of_bnes5748]

I came out as pan by standing in the pantry, and when my parents asked about it, I pushed open the doors and yelled that I was pansexual.

[@teeluh1]

so rare to see pan positivity, I've identified as pan for 22 years, and known people who were older than me with it. I can't believe the amount of people who tell me it's just a "tumblr identity" as if it just started 14 years ago. Seeing this positivity is always great! thank you!! I always love bi - pan solidarity

[@comicallylargeshirts]

the pie solidatory

[@mariebourgot4949]

@@ProfessorCricket Yep, but the opposite is true too: pansexuals saying bi peeps are transphobic/enbyphobic.

[@azul4904]

@@mariebourgot4949 but that’s the small minority of people and its very rooted in misinformation, while the bi-people who are hateful towards pan people with such accusations are much more “validated” and predominant in their speech (which is also just rooted in plain misinformation).

[@nixtnoir]

THE ELDER PAN

[@luko3artist399]

There are two types of pan people: The ones that clarify they don't have sex with pans And the ones that make jokes about having sex with pans

[@ddjsoyenby]

than theres me who does both.

[@lellow19]

There's a third though. The ones who actually have sex with pans... not because they're pansexual. They're just into that kind of thing...

[@misschanandlerbong753]

@@lellow19 Gordon Ramsey I’m looking at you

[@민재-s2h]

@@lellow19 how would you think about that...unless... that’s you 😳

[@sassybdassi6686]

i am the latter

[@akimi7996]

"I am pansexual" "Are you attracted to pans?" "No, I'm attracted to someone who can make good pancakes"

[@JKing666]

AW YEAHHHHH

[@TheMetatronGirl]

Best answer EVER.

[@AriOrSomething]

I'm not Pan, but mood.

[@andrewsucks6711]

Makin pancakes, Makin bacon pancakes

[@yoda5368]

@@andrewsucks6711 Making pancakes, Making Bacon Pancakes. Pancakes

[@paigemanolakos4471]

Im pansexual and I've ran into the "It's too confusing situation but actually for my pronouns. I identify as female but i use all pronouns, i told my friend and she was like, "Well like that's really confusing and i dont think anyone will be able to understand it" and me as a person who cant remotely risk hurting anyone's feelings just said "yeah i guess your right" and now im sad

[@geminiwolf0077]

Well, pronouns don't always equal gender. Pronouns can be used to refer to gender expression. Like, typically masculine=he/him, feminine=she/her, androgynous/neutral=they/them. Your gender expression could be fluid and still identify as female. I'm a non-binary transfemme who uses they/them, but my gender expression is androgynous leaning feminine. Heck, I wouldn't mind she/her pronouns. I mean, being called 'he/him' for 20 years doesn't really make me wanna be referred to as any pronouns, because then people will just use he/him because it's easier since that's what I've been called my whole life. Here's an example of how multiple pronouns work. "Gemini said that she went to the store to find pistachios for themself, but sadly the store was all out so she left." Or, "Gemini was told that they should always be themself, but when she came out to her mom, apparently being herself meant "harming thy temple" because they wanted to transition to be happy with themself and their body." It takes getting used to, but it's worth it.

[@jvseventeen]

@@geminiwolf0077 I really appreciate this. I've recently realized I'm nonbinary, possibly transmasc/genderflux/??? Idk yet, I'm still doing research and trying to determine what's correct for me. I desperately want to use pronouns other than "she/her" but I haven't come out yet and I'm in a similar boat to OP in that I hate making anyone else uncomfortable or asking someone to go out of their way to do something for me that I can live without. I don't think I could work up the courage to come out until I have a proper explanation prepared with examples and everything broken down so stuff like this really helps me get some of that sorted out and make sense to me, much less to someone I have to explain it to.

[@sarahellen1941]

"I really hate when people in the LGBT+ community discriminate against other people in the same community for their own identities." *Blair White has left the chat*

[@longlizzzard]

lol

[@toomuchglitters7254]

Ooooff imagine being a trans transphobe... Couldn't be me 💅

[@user-rg7vv1hh7u]

In Spanish "pan" means "bread" so you can imagine how many jokes people have made with bakeries

[@JustARoamer]

It's the same in Japanese too! Pan is bread ... ... TO BE FAIR I AM UPSESSED WITH BREAD AND IT IS BETTER THAN LIKE THE FRYING PAN 🍳 JOKES. BUT STILL

[@mimmikibilly]

Same in Italian.

[@steele_heart77]

Virgin "Do you fuck pans?" vs. Chad "Do you fuck bread?"

[@colonelsanders9228]

Yes, I am, indeed, a breadsexual

[@twinklinglights7737]

omggggg thats awesome Me encanta español! Tomo una clase de español a mi escuela. No soy muy buena, haha.

[@theQUEENofLOSERS]

When my daughter first came out to me a year or two ago, I get up one morning and see her quickly shuffling across the house towards the kitchen. It's her birthday and I'm trying to make plans with her, so I follow her and find her with her back to me standing among the boxes of cereal and cans of vegetables. She turns around looks at me and steps dramatically forward. " I am coming out of the pantry. " She had painted the pansexual flag on her cheeks with her sisters makeup, and was staring firmly at the ceiling to avoid breaking into giggles. She didn't come out of the cupboard, per se, but after I understood the punch she was making, it was very funny.

[@feb4305]

That is so adorable oh my god

[@cynhanrahan4012]

That's very sweet!

[@InvisiblerApple]

Your daughter is hilarious

[@GalacticAnimationsYT]

4:19 we also are often found in the pantry

[@maroberson74]

I’ve gotten this a lot as a pansexual: “Ew, does that mean you like kids?” LIKE WHAT

[@Hannah-zw9ow]

Oh you didn’t hear? “Kid” is officially a legally recognized gender 😂😂😂

[@summeryoung1026]

Lmao me: a pansexual who hates kids. *incoherent screaming*

[@OfficialWestside4124]

I've been told this soooo much I hate it 😩😩

[@zo-bo136]

i was told that with my SIBLINGS

[@dragonmaster9299]

WHAT THE F*CK

[@lichzzz2209]

Pan romantic here and uhh? My mom actually said, “if you haven’t been with all genders, how do you know?” This was also applied to being ace

[@narcissisticmomoi]

Wow it’s almost like you DONT have to date everyone to know who you’re attracted and not attracted to! Parents are ridiculous.

[@ellis4812]

I’m also pan romantic

[@fisharecool2849]

some people are so silly, I'm sorry that your mom wasn't the most understanding.

[@Sam-pm9vy]

Just say it right back at her. Presuming she’s straight, if she hasn’t been with all genders, how does she know?

[@loudestcloud]

My entire family are Pansexual so being Ace is strange but I'm also Panromantic. It's so strange of a common combination 😅

[@fernclio9829]

Honestly as a pan women, I love the whole "sexually attracted to pans" jokes as long as I know they're coming from a good place and not someone who's panphobic

[@liloukonjar9922]

I'm so sorry, but my brain just let me think about an old lady who's laying and crying in a Walmart hall covering her ears in the cooking section where they keep the pans... (sorry for the bad grammar I'm still learning 🇩🇪)

[@fernclio9829]

@@liloukonjar9922 lmaooooooooooooo love it

[@liloukonjar9922]

@@fernclio9829 thanks ☺️

[@mnmncookies774]

same, i continuously make jokes baout liking pans. just cause...

[@amaibambina]

Those panphobic idiots should probably not get a career with cooking.

[@charliehall8330]

"I was never in the closet, i was in the cupboard with the rest of the pans" as a pansexual who can fit into cupboards, can confirm

[@ash_gb2829]

My problem being pansexual is that “pan” in my language (Spanish) means bread, so every time I say I’m pan to someone they’re like: “you feel attracted.... to bread?” and it’s very annoying 😩

[@Paoferdy]

My classmates loved to make that joke... there wasn't anybody pansexual in the class tho

[@duckyisaclown69]

I'm pan. I work in a bakery. Don't tell my boss 😜

[@taiyo8494]

Are u me?-

[@Kettie5]

@@duckyisaclown69 Let’s keep you away from the skillets

[@caomunistadoggo4129]

Sorry but I laughed hard here

[@adr3nal1ne_rush]

Stereotypes that I’ve been told as a bisexual and have been told to my pansexual friends: _”So you just fall in love with anyone you see?”_ Let me ask you, *Barbara* , do you fall in love with every man you see on the street? No, I didn’t think so.

[@ilovesigzai]

please I love this comment thank you

[@MBZ901]

*_Barbara_*

[@poison-LICKTHEPOISON]

I mean...

[@juniorqindes8335]

@@poison-LICKTHEPOISON Bruh you said gays shouldn’t be allowed to reject spyceities ideas. You’re a homophobe.

[@theplaidypus]

Yeah, BARBARA

[@DudaBotelho3110]

Lemme correct the door meme: Demisexual: Door is locked but the person first needs to have an emotional connection with someone to give the key to a person. Asexual: The door is locked but the person does not need the urge to open it. They preffer it being locked. Greysexual: Same as Asexuals, but they don't mind opening it once in a while.

[@ahassett37]

Yeeee that works a lot better :D For aegosexual I’d say it like phantom opens and whoever it is like phases through the real door as like a ghosty thing as it opens Or something like that- Or maybe people not actually existent in your life can phases through but if they’re real they’re stuck on the other side Specifically for my bi demiro aego self I feel like it would be one of those half doors and it flips back and forth and then some people I can give the key to the top part but the bottom part only like fictional characters and unknown people in pictures and whatnot can phase through- Idk lol

[@mikeonearth]

Yooo, this comment slaps. Thank you for it.

[@DudaBotelho3110]

@@mikeonearth Your welcome!

[@frangia827]

As an Ace, I will go for "Door? Wait...is the door not just a common film plot?" But obviusly it's just my personal view

[@DudaBotelho3110]

@@ahassett37 As an aegosexual I can confirm that I am just a ghost floating through a door lmfao I love this comment so much! 🤣🤣🤣

[@itz_kaibeari3188]

“Pan”tato You know.. cause spuds? Jamie likes potatoes. I’ll seat myself out

[@slamchowder4112]

Deadpool is canonically pansexual, for those who may not know. In most continuities, he actually has a crush on Spider-Man.

[@AarniOnFire]

Isn't loki pansexual too? I have this vague memory of reading something like that somewhere.

[@Ikajo]

@@AarniOnFire Loki is gender fluid at least so it makes sense

[@Agustin77423]

I'm learning SO MUCH HERE.

[@jennycull1061]

@@AarniOnFireloki is genderfluid. Also, asgardians don't really have the concept of sexuality. They like who they like. And to be fair, loki did screw a horse..... And birthed a foal.

[@pinkneko13]

@@jennycull1061 but he also was the horse....more precise the mare...

[@booklover2190]

Best Pan joke I've heard: "I'm pan and demi... which means I'm a pandemic."

[@tribeofdog]

Yep, I always thought that would make cute T shirts but probably not anymore!😂🤣

[@eliasbischoff176]

The only good pandemic.

[@aimliard2276]

So difficult to be the 2 at once

[@Ikajo]

@@aimliard2276 I'm bi and demi 🙂

[@Povejmikatrina]

Me, realizing that I am pan and demisexual and can use this joke: I can milk you.

[@lucifercrow4799]

"We're all in slightly different boats but they're still boats and we should all be helping each other weather the storms and sail them." ~Jammidodger Literally best quote ever

[@headspider845]

But some peoples boats we should treat like it’s a Viking funeral and never look back

[@musicalgirl1388]

This is so beautiful. Love you, Jamie.

[@tami7992]

I agree.

[@greenhippie5360]

I literally added this to my list of fav quotes as soon as I heard it.

[@oldrustyfishscalerman]

can i be a man o’ war?

[@obviously-]

I find things very funny sometimes when I remember there's an entire Greek God named Pan and he was the good of chaos and nature. WE ARE THE FOREST SPIRITS.

[@the_apple_of_pines]

Yes we are.

[@ahofmanns]

I'm Pangender, can I be part of the forest spirits?

[@obviously-]

@@ahofmanns absolutely! All the Pans belong in the forest.

[@CosmicTherian]

Can i be your lesbian gardener? I love plants and will care for each and every tree, weed and blade of grass

[@obviously-]

@@CosmicTherian I fully agree- be welcomed to the pan forest

[@thepersonwiththepanels5351]

That one with making sure bi-positivity blogs aren’t panphobic lowkey hit v close to home

[@Sentientmatter8]

It goes the other way too

[@mariafausti3128]

@@Sentientmatter8 really? I’ve never seen a pansexuality blog being biphobic

[@pumpkinsproutarts]

@@mariafausti3128 unfortunately there are some pansexuals who think bisexuality is transphobic/enbyphobic even though bi doesn't exclude trans and enby people

[@r_A_ven]

me, a trans person, with feminist pages and transphobia ^^ i always feel soo bad about it but well, it is what it is..

[@Twiddyzone]

Panphobia is a anxiety disorder but go off

[@amberdawnmitchell310]

As a pansexual and genderfluid human being, I FINALLY GOT RECOGNIZED AS A VALID SEXUALITY! Edit:awww you guys are awsome! Thank you for being so supportive in your replies, i really appreciate that! ♡

[@burningcandles7692]

OH HELL YEA THATS GREAT!

[@lokiscoffeerose663]

I'm very similar :D

[@discmeeds]

so valid!!!!

[@el-de4yw]

AYO ME TOO

[@weird.panda0558]

same!!! i’m hoping for genderlfuid next if he hasn’t already done it!!! it feels amazing to be recognized and accepted!!!

[@alicemoonlight123]

The most annoying comment I get: "Oh you're attracted to EVERYONE? Even MURDERERS or RACISTS or *proceeds to list off other horrible kinds of people*" Yes....because being a bad person is a gender, clearly.

[@Michelle_Ghostface_Miller]

That’s a terrible assumption, sorry to hear you got it

[@imfrazzled6461]

A way to deal with it is saying “oh im so sorry im not listening,because im busy not shoving my head up my a*s

[@deilylyrret]

I usually get is: "I'm Pansexual" Them: "pervert"

[@steam_junk]

Yea lol

[@steam_junk]

Hate that

[@Cerulean_XD]

I am pan, and I highly appreciate this video. I also recommend you do a dinosaur meme video if you haven’t already. Edit: I have a type. Not exclusive to gender, just a cute nice person

[@hyacinths_from_neptune]

as a genderfluid pansexual, i've always heard "it's just a phase" "it's too confusing" "make up your mind" and "oh yeah I support, BUT- *says something totally homophobic/transphobic/etc." :)

[@ipekyener6513]

SAME

[@tami7992]

Oh no, I feel sorry for you 💚 I wonder why it's so hard for people to accept...

[@carterevanroust]

I'm a gender fluid pansexual too and I get that a lot too.

[@temis4830]

Same, bro

[@eduardochavacano]

homophobic people came up with so many labels because they fear the word gay like women in conservative society fear the word slut or harlot.

[@bellaparadis8257]

if somebody ever says "are you attracted to me then?" just say: "no, I have standards." they should just walk away then

[@thebetaman]

Better one (for the toxic straights): "My type is humans, not pond scum that talks."

[@BOB-di9ox]

Or I have higher standards

[@puckariel3643]

I've already got a response to that "Are you attracted to me?" Question. "I said I'm Pansexual, not desperate"

[@greybey4385]

I'm asexual but this comment and the reply section is comedy gold

[@LocalPunEnjoyer]

@@greybey4385 same, but am also pan lol

[@Efreeti]

The discrimination and erasure within the LGBTQIA+ community is a huge shame. Bi erasure from gay people, pan erasure from bi people, trans erasure from "LGB", even nonbinary erasure among trans people. Visibility and validation helps, thank you so much Jamie

[@missnaomi613]

🙏❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@ellajulia162]

Yeah, I’m pan and the other day I was talking with my friends at school. I mentioned I’m pan and we were on the subject of bi and pan. I was trying to say how they are very similar because there are people I know that don’t abide by the only difference that I know between them. Like bi people I know like non binary people too and tbh that’s the only difference I know (if there are anymore pls do tell, I’m quite curious). But I said that «they are almost the same thing ». My friend, don’t know if she’s bi or lesbian, started getting really upset with me. I know I probably should have phrased it better, but she wouldn’t let me talk, correct myself, or anything. And then she started laughing at me and saying that’s the first time I ever raised my voice at her. I felt like I wish I never mentioned I was pan in the first place. I love her but she got really defensive and aggressive really quick. My chest still gets heavy with anxiety when I think about it. Sorry for the rant but I needed to let it out and release it off my shoulders

[@stephdemetriou5079]

@@ellajulia162 im so sorry that happened!! both bi and pan are attraction to multiple genders. a lot of people recognise the difference as pan being attraction regardless of gender and bi being atrraction which still takes into account gender (ie with a preference). I hope this helps in some way :)

[@kraztar]

yeah especially since we pans are one of the ones included in the plus, not that this needs to be changed but visibility and validation are wonderful, thank you jamie

[@jinxed_it7282]

The biggest disappointment is that there is no pangender flags. Anywhere. Only pins.

[@angelmelinoe8970]

A classmate once found out I’m pansexual and was like “Woah, so you can be attracted to everyone even animals?” I was confused on how they magically came to that conclusion

[@cvm_pharmacy]

As a pansexual demiromantic, the door analogy is more like: Revolving door that has a lock for when people get too close-

[@evieanne407]

Me too

[@MystiqMiu]

Oooo, yeahhh

[@sugar-and-stardust]

I'm grey- panromantic ace, but since it's not that well known I just go with panromantic ace. Yeah, that door's jacked up

[@FluffieXStarshine]

I like that way of thinking. I'm pan and demiromantic. So it's hard to get people to understand, I might steal this one

[@toastghost9145]

Lemme just chuck down an Uno reverse card on that orientation

[@charlieb6362]

As a pansexual, I have heard the “There are too many genders, how would you know” argument. It’s frustrating.

[@akitokutikabanae7010]

Me, a panromantic non-binary dude, while hearing this question : 😳😐😤🤯

[@Mayasnotes___]

Me the cutie pan:😫🤯

[@therongjr]

As a pansexual, I reply: "That's the point"

[@coler.7289]

Yes. I hate that so much. Like i don't care at all what gender you are, if i like your personality and stuff like that then i like you! I don't understand why people don't get it. its not that complicated

[@pleaseignorethisismyoldaccount]

Something you could say "Because usually attraction is mostly to looks, and people are either masculine, androgynous or feminine and to me it doesn't matter how they identify or what they have in their pants or anything. Also, say you are only attracted to men, how do you know? There are too many women and non binary people for you to know your attracted to none of them (using their own argument against them!)"

[@dyzmonstar]

As a pansexual transman I've gotten all of the stereotypes thrown at me. By this point I've become numb to them.

[@anncrim7852]

Keep vibing king, you are an icon and a treasure, other people are just bootylickers

[@thenumskulled]

Same. Coming from another pan trans guy I have gotten so many stereotypes thrown at me too.

[@alexbarrett2984]

Pan Transmasc gang!

[@dyzmonstar]

Pan Transguys unite!

[@edinwrites]

same hat!

[@wolfwings1693]

For the demiromantic door thing, I think of it more as leveling up. Everyone starts on 0, and the more I get to know them, the more they level up. Once they get to the top level, they have the potential to be able to open the door, but even if they are at the top, they still might not be the right person, and will just remain a best friend.

[@riley659]

me, pansexual: MY TIME HAS COME

[@atiredstoryteller]

Same Here

[@selenebig7559]

same!! haha

[@nariaein]

hello fellow pans :D

[@selenebig7559]

@@nariaein hi hi:D

[@patrickpoledances]

Yo same

[@federicamottadelli9333]

Once a classmate of mine asked the teacher what pansexuality meant. The teacher answered that it's when a person is obsessed with sex, and he completely ignored me when I tried to intervene... Needless to say, the pansexual in the class had much explaining to do that day.

[@annasophia2428]

as a bisexual this is very offensive (not the comment the teacher) i wish you the best of luck

[@bqxp9992]

@꧁Ash Rouge꧂ same :(

[@pit8274]

dude same the other time a teacher taught it as being attracted to everything "including animals and children" wtf,,,,

[@aimeeharding8097]

Yeah, I’ve heard crap like that as well. At this point in life I would just look the teacher up and down and say “oh, well I must not be pansexual then. Cause you ain’t doing shit for me”, then at some point I’d probably clear up the misunderstanding with the classmate.

[@enderfxstudis7741]

>:0 that teacher mean to us

[@Sarah-ce5nx]

As a pansexual, i was so hyped to see this video up, and it was so cute how respectful and careful Jamie was about all of it, Love you fellow pansexuals! 😊

[@gender-fluidARMY]

I use pan and bi interchangeably. I know you specified pan people, but I use both labels. Still applicable to me though! 😊

[@FishLeFish]

Omg sameeeee

[@wynterfir]

@@gender-fluidARMY Thats the problem though. Using us interchangeably with bisexuals makes us feel erased. When you do that it makes most of us not feel valid in our own skin. Bisexuals are their own thing, we’re similar but not the same thing. If you could can you just not use them interchangeably, because to some of us we’re pretty sensitive about it as pansexuals aren’t a widely known thing due to erasure like this. I know you probably aren’t doing it out of hate, but it does hurt even when there’s no malice behind it.

[@emmys.8323]

@@wynterfir nah, I kinda disagree. I’m pan and I think they can use whatever label fits them best. If they want to use pan and bi, they can do that. It just matters that they feel comfortable with the label they choose. Also, I don’t know if I’m wrong here (please correct me if I am) but I never saw a problem with pan erasure... wasn’t the problem that some people think being pan is bi erasure? I’ve never heard of it the other way around. I could be wrong tho, please tell me if I am.

[@mariafausti3128]

@@wynterfir i dont think it’s pan erasure, I use the label pan because I feel more comfortable with that than the label bi, but if this person feels more comfortable with the two labels than let them be :) the labels are not interchangeable of course but what if someone was abrosexual and switched between gay, straight, bi, and Demi? Would the straight invalidate the gay? No, because that person is abrosexual and they can use all labels they identify with. Not saying Érica is abro, but i get the whole label thing and how using the ones that make you feel comfortable can help a lot, and it’s not really harming anyone in my opinion (yes I know about the battle axe bi’s and stuff but they’re not important)

[@MellowFrog00]

No wonder I always find cupboards quite comforting… I have always and still am in a cupboard

[@NosebleeddeGroselha]

I'm bi and trans, but damn the pan and ace flags are beautiful. So aesthetically pleasing!

[@Louis-b8j3g]

thanks, and your flags(bi and trans)are so goddamn beautiful also UvU.

[@MsFeyCreature]

I'm pan and I like the bi flag way better *cries*

[@NosebleeddeGroselha]

@@MsFeyCreature Petition to switch! /s

[@NosebleeddeGroselha]

@@Louis-b8j3g Our community is just full of beautiful colors

[@daosischilling]

@@MsFeyCreature The Pan flag is beautiful, it is made up of cobalt blue, primary yellow and magenta red. Primary colours, which when mixed in a certain way can create all colours (White and black are not a colour) . And I think it is as beautiful and meaningful as the name "Pan" (It comes from the Greek and means all).

[@ulquiorracifer221]

My best example of those stereotypes that I’ve encountered is my aunt cornering me and forcing me to come out. The convo went a bit like this: “so.. that girl you brought over... are you.. dating??” And I said yes so she immediately jumped into the “I knew you were a lesbian and that exboyfriend was just a phase!! I could tell!!” So I had to shut her down immediately to which she responded when I explained my pansexuality “we can get you therapy to help you choose a side.” I basically told her “No Cathy, that’s not how this works. I’m in my mid 20’s you can’t treat me like a child.” and walked out 😂😂😂

[@aliceche714]

Good for you!

[@gamahkitten9900]

When I explained the difference between pan and bi to my parents, they both independently asked "and furries?" To which I was like "no, that's not a gender, and regardless I am not attracted to anthro animals"

[@slavishentity6705]

Your parents are EPIC and you are EPIC

[@kitkatboard]

I remember a youtuber getting canceled a few years ago because he came out as pan and panphobes decided that "I'm attracted to anyone regardless of gender" = "I'm attracted to children and animals too"...

[@Izzyizvbizzy]

I had some I ask me this too actually after I came out-

[@slavishentity6705]

@@kitkatboard children and animals are not genders, and people who think that they are genders, are usually twitter users.

[@kitkatboard]

@@slavishentity6705 Hey, I'm not the one you need to convince

[@SophieNicholson-wu5vi]

I’m pansexual, and my best friend is bisexual, and she just recently came out to her dad, (He was supportive btw) and she told me that Jamie was the person who made her realize she was bi.

[@NovaPogg]

Person: You're pansexual? Me: Yes. Person: What does that mean? Me: It means I am attracted to people regardless of their gender. Person: So you're attracted to everyone? Me who finds most people I meet physically attractive: Well no, but also yes.

[@multi__simp2391]

This is the most relatable comment ive seen

[@mariakunstle7771]

Absolutely.

[@Tesphenia]

Relatable

[@bigpapamagoo8696]

As a bi I struggle with finding everybody attractive so I can only imagine what it might feel like to be pan

[@starlight8115]

Yesn't

[@Quietfrogdraws]

One time I told someone I was pansexual, and they said "oh so you just are attracted to everyone?" and I just said, "some people. not you, for example." I didn't even mean to offend them but they looked really really shocked (I'm a quieter person so it was unexpected, I just tried to educate lol)

[@toomanyopinions8353]

LMAO

[@maaarceee]

Pffft- 😂

[@ima-human9593]

They just got destroyed

[@ollievendor7413]

Quiet people do have good accidental zingers. Like my coworker talking about when she was a "skinny legend" and I respond with "you used to be skinny?". Good thing we're friendly and she took it well. ^_^; I didnt mean to sound savage.

[@Xman34washere]

Accidental destruction

[@mushr00ms37]

Jammidodger: I think pansexual and asesxual are most often forgotten about. Me a Panromantic Ace: Yeah, accurate.

[@emvantulova958]

Yes, at last! There is another!

[@Ace_Maus]

Another panrom ace! So true! 😭

[@confusedleaf2640]

ikr? u g h

[@BeforeBalloons]

Me, an aromantic pansexual: hm

[@CielaWestcottHale]

Same!

[@kaidoesthingsidk]

In The Sims 4, there's an item called 'proud pansies' and I always think of my pansexual self when using it.

[@a1oexo]

I don't know why but I feel like his hugs would feel like warm marshmallows

[@EthanMeatan]

Wait u onto something

[@Tink00]

@@the-pan-potato3139 who wouldn't??

[@julecaesara482]

"What's you type?" me, a pansexual: "eh- well. Beautiful humans?"

[@zitchycray]

over time I've liked quite a few different types of people.. so at this point when someone asks my type, *my type is yes.* (closes cupboard slowly)

[@sharksarecoooool]

me being a pansexual and demissexual: "um- ...someone i think?"

[@caomunistadoggo4129]

@@zitchycray I TOTALLY RELATE

[@jdatlas4668]

...yeah. I’m sorta in this comment :D I identify as bi, but beyond that eventually I just gave up trying to quantify things like preferences, types, ... because I just keep finding exceptions and does it really matter? I like people. Some of them might even like me back :P

[@westdekota5935]

How do you know if you’re pan or bi or Omni? I know the difference but how can you tell? To be clear I’m genuinely asking, I’m not trying to offend or invalidate anyone

[@kaileyperrin2554]

As a pansexual and a demisexual, my brain just malfunctions whenever someone asks me my "type." For me, aesthetic attraction and physical attributes never have a role in choosing a partner or ruling one out. From now on, I just respond with "someone who's not an asshat."

[@sweetie_babie]

? How are you both? Wouldn't that be panromantic demisexual?🤨🤔🧐

[@hazelcalderbank1556]

@@sweetie_babie Demi means they're only attracted to people they have a strong emotional bond with, it doesn't specify the gender. Pan and demi together mean the attraction can form regardless of gender as long as the emotional bond exists, no contradiction at all. Apologies if I got anything wrong Kailey, please correct me if so.

[@sweetie_babie]

@@hazelcalderbank1556 yes I know what demisexual means. My best friend since grade school is demisexual. I said what I said because demisexual is often regarded as on the asexual spectrum. Which is why the ___romantic language is also used for demi people. So for example, my best friend would be hetero romantic and demisexual. I'm not saying they can't use the terms pansexual and demisexual interchangeably to describe themselves, I'm just saying that's a confusing way to do it, considering there's already language to describe both of those things coexisting

[@sweetie_babie]

@@hazelcalderbank1556 I guess another way to put it is that pansexual is a sexual attraction to people not dictated on gender, and demisexual is sexual attraction dictated by strong emotional connections. Sexual attraction to people dictated by strong emotional connections but not on gender would be panromantic demisexual (or demi pansexual). That would be the "official" name for what the OC is describing --- which is what I specified in my first comment. Not trying to be rude, just trying to clarify how I was misunderstood

[@AshCinis]

@@sweetie_babie Panromantic is about romantic attraction, not sexual attraction. Someone can be demisexual and pansexual, and besides that they could feel any type of romantic attraction. For example, if someone is pansexual, demisexual and aromantic, they'd have sex with any gender, as long as they have a strong bond with them, but they wouldn't want to be in a romantic relationship with them.

[@TNBCvampchic]

Oh! A good pun: when I came out, both of my best friends immediately went "oH sO yOu'Re AtTrAcTeD tO bReAd???" Because in several languages (French (pain), Korean (빵), Japanese (パン), and Spanish (pan) to name a few), bread sounds kind of like "pan". (They did understand and my favorite gift I've ever received is a goodie that reads, "I'm Breadsexual". It hasn't fit me in 10 years but I still love it!)

[@joannecooke6408]

I made that joke on my self

[@aliuros8552]

A Karen: "It's just a phase" Me: No Karen, you being in my life is the "phase"

[@thaileawood2963]

I have no words just laughter.

[@aliuros8552]

@@thaileawood2963 😂😂😂

[@frozenweevil4022]

gingsta

[@verytired2399]

*murder*

[@aliyah638]

Underrated comment right here. I love it

[@hummingbirdspark3998]

Even if it is a phase, phases are the building blocks of the person you will be. Whoever you are right now, you’re real

[@Wanna-Blue]

This is very true, 10/10 thing more people should realise

[@sleepysnjomen1707]

aw love this ty :,)

[@citrusyclarissa764]

The one time I forgot my mom got PhD from Harvard - I was explaining to my mom what pansexual means and she actually didn’t make the “so you like pans” joke

[@Ashley-sy8nl]

Thanks for the video. I'm am Pansexual. I've had people do the "So you're attracted to everybody" , the blank stares, and the "Oh, so you're bi" quite a bit lol from people.

[@TheSelphir]

A new friend I've just met: What are you attracted to? Me, a pansexual: Yes.

[@angryotter9129]

I’m pan and agender so it’s “what’s your type” me: “yes” and “what’s your gender” me: “no”.

[@irishuisman1450]

@@angryotter9129 I feel like the fact that that's the funniest shit I've read today says something about my humor xD

[@samconcklin]

"What's your type?" Good boys, clever/bratty boys, blonde athletic girls, femme girls, soft people in general. I identify as bi, and I never understood the idea that everyone has just one "type." Sooo many different kinds of people are attractive.

[@ilser6480]

"I came out the cupboard" My brain: "The cupboard under the stairs...?" so Harry Potter is a pansexual?

[@Bunny-fy1fg]

WE NEED ANSWERS NOW

[@taylor_green_9]

There's no evidence that he isn't.

[@4242q-o6u]

I-

[@hey.wassupbro]

The PANtry is even better

[@Lu-ti9hy]

Yes. The answer is yes.

[@apfel0766]

My favourite Pansexual Meme is the Clip of Ranboo saying Pan while hitting a Pan.

[@taniaschwarzer1672]

"Yes, I'm pansexual, No, this doesn't mean that I'm into you". This meme summarizes why I ironically made My Type by Saint Motel my theme song, cause "you're just my type, you've got a pulse and you're breathing" 🎉

[@ilovesigzai]

yeah like I like all genders but that doesn't mean I wanna date every single person I see. I do have a type and for us to date there shall be emotional connection

[@cloudybens]

'asexual: door is actually a wall' HAHAHAHA yes and its fuckin awkward when people walk into it thinking its a door

[@automatistic]

"Don't worry, you'll find someone with a key some day~!" Nooooooo you don't understAND there's literally no door!

[@cloudybens]

@@automatistic HAHAHAHA yes

[@robyncorson4002]

Yes!

[@apofid]

@@automatistic y e s

[@pal8542]

"But you haven't been with all genders how can you know?" Also as an Asexual person, I've been asked this, mostly by cis men, the kind that think they can turn a lesbian straight by sleeping with her.

[@Hannah-zw9ow]

Ask them how they can know they’re straight if they’ve never slept with a man 😭

[@justsomeanimator]

We are in the same boat but in different rooms. If we destroy one room, the gap takes us all down.

[@alicecohen5066]

When your panromantic and ace: "Well you can't be both, they contradict eachother." No they don't, pay attention to suffixes, go home Caitlin. Also my door would be like Revolving door that shuts off if someone tries to go through it the wrong way and turns into a wall.

[@sunflowersandsarcasm4518]

lmaooo same

[@minervatanhua2387]

Fucking saaaaammmeeee

[@childharvester8131]

As a homoromatic and a ace I have people going “but aren’t you a lesbian?”

[@tru2lifestories]

Thiiissss!

[@kunaihanaki]

Mine would be very similar. It would just have a few differences and some additions. My door would allow you to enter but you need to have a key and and some genders may have a little more trouble to get through than others but they definitely will! (Demi-omnirom aego ace) And if you try to enter without the key or just want some action the door turns into a wall

[@car0_lineee]

I'm not pan, I'm a lesbian, but for a while I identified as pansexual (because of the whole comphet thing 😐), and I heard a lot of "that's just bi", "so you're bi?" "you're just greedy/horny", and other stuff that really ticked me off. You guys are so so valid! These are dumb things people say when they don't understand, only you have a say in your identity :)

[@Twiddyzone]

It is just bi though.

[@yumi-fn8ve]

Finally some good pansexual content I feel like we're under appreciated sometimes

[@Ghosting.Iguess]

Well I appreciate you!! 😤 feel appreciated. Feel valid. And know that I need help figuring out if I’m bi or pan 💀💀

[@nariaein]

@@Ghosting.Iguess I think choose whatever feels most comfortable to you! I chose pan bc personally I feel uncomfortable with the label bi but some ppl even use both! so choose which you feel the best with :D (and it's fine if neither work for you too)

[@Ghosting.Iguess]

@@nariaein oh my god your so helpful 🤧 I think I will be both cause I’m just not sure. Everyone’s attractive (I am demisexual as well tho lmfao) and I’m not sure if I have a preference but I do know I relate to both bisexual and pansexual. Thank you for the help ^^

[@nariaein]

@@Ghosting.Iguess no problem, glad I could help :) keep going beautiful human!!

[@nicole-rb4iw]

absolutely !! but if u want some pan rep watch trinkets one of the characters in the first szn is pansexual . plus it's a great show overall and the main character is lesbian

[@shannonv4545]

I’ve been pansexual since I was nine so this is really nice to see because there’s not a lot of like support for people who are pan so I’ve never met anyone in real life with Pan so thanks for posting this.

[@yasqueen2459]

"i feel like ace and pan are forgotten about." me being panromantic "I N V I S A B L E"

[@JoyfulOrb]

I'm both Pans? I see you, friend.

[@laylay-gz6le]

Me, an omnisexual: *baby I'm not even here, I'm a hallucination.*

[@celia5036]

@@laylay-gz6le Hey, I've never heard that word before. What is omnisexuality? 😊

[@laylay-gz6le]

@@celia5036 where you like all genders with a preference, or you don't go by pan because you aren't gender blind 😊

[@toastghost9145]

I'm still feeling that identity out; trying to figure out where my line between aesthetic appreciation and potential romantic attraction lands. I'm probably a little grey, as well, when it comes to sexual attraction in general. Related, I'm not sure if I'm exclusively sexually attracted towards women, or whether I haven't been in the right context to be attracted to an enby or a man. Sorry for ze long comment.

[@romywhite290]

As a GreyAce/ASpec person, my door description is "the wall sometimes has a door... But it exists in its own plane of space and time so only makes itself known as it pleases. There is no timetable, there is no key. This is a door not bound by anything. The door has its own free will."

[@grey_xoid]

I felt that...

[@yesterdaystomorrow5510]

This is such a cool way of describing it!

[@VoodooVistabot]

And when you see it for the first time, you have a double take and go "wtf, has there ALWAYS been a door here? wait, am I sure it's actually a door??"

[@youtubefarley776]

Stranger things

[@ashenedrose]

As a fellow grey-ace, I can relate. I'm also Panromantic so I guess the door you described would be the same thing but a revolving one for me.

[@h0td0gwater]

I came out as bi to my parents the other week and I explained that bi means being attracted to both genders like my own and not like my own and my dad said "why does it have to be so confusing?" And I'm just like yeah why do u think it took me 22 years to tell u I don't heckin know why it's so confusing. I said "you're telling me!" And we had a lil laugh about it which was nice

[@tovekauppi1616]

The bit about to being frustrating when parts of the alphabet maffia discriminate against/shun other parts is super relatable to me as an asexual. I’ve had so many people tell me that I don’t belong in LGBTQ+ spaces because I’m not discriminated against enough or it’s not illegal to be ace anywhere or because I’m cis and pass as straight or other ridiculous reasons. What I’m missing is mostly representation. There are hardly any officially ace characters in media at all and the same goes for famous people being openly ace irl. It’s often hard to discover your ace identity and since society is so focused on sex and how important it is to life in general and relationships in particular many of us end up feeling alone and broken.

[@xx_udontknowme_xx]

Why does sitting in a cupboard with a pansexual flag seem like a good idea- and why am I planning to come out that way- I really want to come out by holding a pan while sitting in the cupboard but my parents will think I’m crazy or something LMAO

[@xx_mylo666_xx]

Same Just sit in a cupboard with a pan flag

[@ev-sb]

Lol make pancakes with food colouring of the pan flags and give them to your friends after getting out of the cupboard

[@Arya-is4cv]

I feel like it was a missed opportunity, and I for one, intend to come out of the Pantry

[@Thomke17]

or come outta the pantry

[@whatdoinamethis.mysisterfo3422]

Do it that way. NEVER. Come out buy using a picture they immediately think your confused. I learned that the hard way

[@pienutbutter..]

As a pansexual person I can confirm the question of what my type is is difficult to answer and I always hesitate. People expect you to talk about appearance I think, so when I start talking about creativity and ambition people always look quite lost😂

[@tucsi2754]

I am really sorry to bother, but I have some problems completely understanding how pansexuality works and your comment shed some light, so would you mind answering a question for me? Is it like more about personality than appearances, like "I fall in love with souls not faces"?

[@pienutbutter..]

@@tucsi2754 I don't mind at all! That's exactly what it's like for me! My heart leads the way, not my eyes I would say haha. It's like my brain filters out gender and gender expression

[@sunflowersandsarcasm4518]

them: what's your type? me: smart, funny, kind them: no, like how they look me: ... people's looks attract you?

[@kunaihanaki]

SunflowersAndSarcasm Well said 😂!

[@N1K0.D4WN]

I have a friend who is pan, she *kicked* the pantry door open, in Pansexual “drip” the flag, colors, ect. She screamed “IM PANSEXUAL MOM AND DAD!” Her parents didn’t even flinch, “That’s great sweetie, do you homework” “As long it’s not hurting anyone/you, I don’t care.” I *died.*

[@maaarceee]

💀✋🏻

[@liloukonjar9922]

At my coming out I was sobbing in the car and it was like: Me : I'm Bi Mom: OK and why are you crying? Dad: no! That is not right and not God's will. Me: starts crying Mom: If you say that again, I'll personally call your Mother right now and you will have to explain her why your doughter is crying and why it's your fault! Dad: But... Mom: *calls his mother* [...] yeah he made her cry because she is in love [...] Dad: I never meant to- Grandma: You did what?! Apologize, now. Dad: *apologizes* I would still rather see you with a boy The end

[@mysticrose2000]

literally my parents when I came out as asexual

[@possiblyrei]

lucky lol

[@urmom-lo7wf]

Luckyyyy I’m too scared to come out as panromantic bc ofc I’ll tell my gay friends and straight ally friends but when I have crushes on ppl of same/other genders as me and they like me too then we’d have to be in a hidden relationship (´༎ຶ‿༎ຶ`) *sad panromantic child of most likely homophobic parents noises*

[@MLiskindagay]

Some of these were painfully accurate. When I came out, all my straight friends started acting awkward around me for ages, then they slowly phased out of it

[@Noah-si5bd]

Me a pansexual looks forward to this video

[@qaurito8081]

same hello fellow pans. how ya doing :]

[@randomstreetgum]

Agreed

[@121097kierstenmoore]

I'm bisexual. I am afraid 😂

[@iliveinyourwalls8344]

@@koolkyas Yes👀

[@kellykurka678]

@@koolkyas hello fellow panromantic ace person

[@lucykitsune4619]

Not pan but obligatory "yes mom, this is just a phase that has endured for the last 17 of the 21 years I spent on this planet."

[@dianapovero7319]

My mother said the same thing about my genetic blood disorder, both are equally rediculous.

[@cynhanrahan4012]

More than 40 of my 63 years. Longest phase ever.

[@ZDragonimated]

"oh youre divorced? Haha maybe your marriage was just a phase"

[@flynnlui7220]

@@ZDragonimated even better, "haha lol you're divorced? it's just a phase, you'll marry again very soon for sure"

[@angelp2092]

me just saying "I don't care, I like all kinds of people" when ppl ask my sexuality bc saying pan is an exhausting explanation process

[@helenagehrmann1395]

It's the same for me

[@niki6764]

Random fact: in Greek mythology Pan is the god of the wild, shepherds and flocks, rustic music and impromptus, and companion of the nymphs. Also, his shout causes panic and frightens people. And he was in CAOS too!