This Tiktok Dad is The Worst

I saw this video and screamed into the void for 5 hours straight. I didn't even take a breath, just 5 hours of screaming.
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[@FilmCooper]

SHE SAW THE VIDEO AND LOVED IT!!! SHE POSTED ON HER TIKTOK!!! GO SHOW LOVE TO HER AND PLEEEASE BE NICE

[@ANTIBEAR-X]

Yippieee let's go

[@girlclownslovegirls6087]

frrr?????

[@lolababs206]

So, she's not actually suffering from Stockholm syndrome, hopefully? Maybe it's just financial/family circumstances keeping her tied to this absolute albatross of an alopecia afflicted creature to her complete detriment

[@shadowgirl8125]

Oh my God I appreciate you so much. I just happen to find this video. Which made me smile so much. You're a doll!!!!!! Your energy is amazing. I'm definitely subbing

[@punknightcore]

Yayyyy

[@Toeescape]

Why do family bloggers pop out the most excruciatingly childish husbands ever

[@ArchonOfAnemo]

Usually it's both the parents, but this time it's only the father and he seriously needs to grow up and wake up to reality. If he doesn't face reality now, he'll never be able to in the future.. when it gets even worse.

[@JustAHuman101]

Because only excruciatingly horrible parents become family vloggers

[@EmEm78]

I'd say that choosing to be a "family blogger" is pretty congruent with finding the biggest red flag stuffed into a human suit to marry and procreate with, on the shitty-life-choice making spectrum.

[@burymeinjhenny918]

@@EmEm78 lmaooo true

[@Etheletter300]

Science

[@Kyra-qn3nh]

"If I don't feed him, he won't eat." Let him starve.

[@under-da-sea2835]

THEN GO AHEAD AND STARVE - The beast

[@AllergyAngelXOXO]

Fr it's his fault if he starves, he's a grown ass adult

[@caitlinholloway2627]

💯

[@Oliviaandtrina]

​@@--mand0r-- bingo. She made something else because she knew it would be worse if she didn't. I was in a marriage like that, it was AWFUL. I did everything and everything I did was wrong in some way. Nothing was ever enough. Worked full time and did LITERALLY everything around the house, still constant verbal abuse. His abuse was more extreme than this, but of course the fact that he does this on camera makes me believe he's worse behind closed doors. It was so hard to get out, I left 10 or more times but finally left for the last time in March.

[@adrianlovestay]

Exactly. He can make himself a sandwich or something

[@peggyk9549]

i hope this is her incognito way of documenting his toxic behavior as she silently prepares to leave him, like HONESTLY

[@QT_Pi3_Archive]

FOR REAL

[@vsbaretummysugastonguetech1540]

This.

[@blueismylove3128]

Probably not, but one can dream.

[@itsgoogoober]

It’s for court when she files for full custody

[@AFoxInTheSnow]

I really hope she uses these videos when they divorce or smth

[@hhuh.]

why is he acting like playing with his kids and loving them is amazing, lil buddy that’s the BARE MINIMUM 😟

[@Pretzalcoatalus]

And also his “playing” with his kids is SMACKING THEM IN THE FACE WITH A BALL Like WHAT!?!?????

[@mister_myst]

our bare minimum king🗣️

[@Bunnies28921....]

Hate comment: "ur wife does all the work, you never take care of your kids" Him: "What r u talking about, i play with my kids every day." if i play with a puppy everyday and do nothing else with it, guess what, that puppy is going to die. Taking care of your kids and paying attention to them is not just playing with them. edit: I just watched the rest of the video, who tf throws a clearly hard ball at your small child's head while they are turned around and are unable to move and avoid it. Not only that, BUT THEN DESPICABLY LAUGHING AFTERWARDS. WTF????

[@DelaneyB.444]

Yeah, strangers on the playground do that, a DAD needs to do the damn work and take care of his kids… just sad

[@Averythesigma]

rip x

[@BankruptMonkey]

She's an elite nurse, a full time influencer star, the only person raising 3 kids under five, and the cleaner and cook and who knows what else for that household. Meanwhile he's a worse burden than caretaking an elderly bedbound relative who contributed a lifetime of work and love before that point.

[@NACtheMC]

Even if she dropped his lame ass there would be no financial difference.

[@wolfieisacat13]

@@NACtheMC there would be a small one, less food needs to be bought

[@kprocess9058]

​@@wolfieisacat13damn lol

[@reneerappsbiglefttoe]

@@wolfieisacat13🐝🤳❇️🏧

[@pissapocalypse]

I would just not feed him lol

[@AngeloftheAether]

It’s refreshing to see a man who is genuinely furious about someone’s wife getting disrespected.

[@Ash-oj3xv]

i love film cooper he's such a cool guy

[@kenzie_gxmer]

@@Ash-oj3xvfr

[@Kosmo_Kat]

we love our baby girl

[@otherflery3846]

Is it really so rare to see, cos it’s totally normal think to treat woman with respect for me and my firends and peers (at least most i know)

[@AngeloftheAether]

@@otherflery3846 it’s not rare per say, especially in certain circles, but it’s not often that a man gets actually triggered by it, and has mini rants and such. It’s an uncommon reaction.

[@fionaklyne7115]

Cooper has the strongest bi-wife energy I've ever seen in someone who isn't married...

[@m-419]

he just has the vibes that he's bi tbh lol

[@genuphobia1029]

Guys with bi wife energy are born, not made

[@katehildebrant8420]

So true!

[@yukikanegawa7470]

It's the hair

[@adi_Iastname]

he has the bi haircut, it downloads after u come out

[@Space-Milk]

Please, cooper, never tell me i have too much cartilage, ill cry.

[@Soipsoup]

I love how cooper keeps subtly aging the dad further and further 💀

[@kprocess9058]

there was a father in this video? I didn't realized

[@Soipsoup]

@@kprocess9058 HELP LMAO

[@Marriedyall]

Don’t you mean baby man LMAO😭💀

[@AmusedAlice]

Peak comedy, loved that bit

[@_JustJoe]

I'll look out for it now ty lmao

[@absolutelyridiculous6743]

Her giggles sound like automatic responses to cover her true feelings. She's constantly defending herself, too. Ugh reminds me of one of my past relationships.

[@elvingearmasterirma7241]

She is def in an abusive relationship

[@user-dumby04]

No bcos i srsly don’t believe that she actually thinks its funny

[@victoriashevlin8587]

@@user-dumby04 it's an attempt to diffuse the situation. like if she laughs and brushes his shitty behaviour off, then he won't be more angry or aggressive towards her.

[@csmokesss]

Lit reminds me of my mum and dads relationship

[@cyndrift]

fwiw women/girls are often taught to laugh when they're uncomfortable because actually standing up for oneself or saying you're uncomfortable is often received quite negatively or is even potentially dangerous in ways it often isn't for men/boys. The "boys will be boys" responses to misogyny from fellow women also help enable and normalize their behavior a lot which means being passive and laughing instead of voicing your real thoughts becomes the only real option even if you're just around women.

[@moatsofdust3210]

I finally understand and accept the concept of "ick." This woman is too nice, and does too much.

[@madbryers]

the fairly odd parents “icky vicky” song from that one episode

[@rosegold_bunbun]

@@madbryersOmg 😂😂

[@lisawhereisthecultjam]

You don’t think this is their gimmick? She’s a hard working SAHM and he’s an ungrateful jerk. People watch to react at the husband’s assholery.

[@urgae9125]

@@lisawhereisthecultjam bruv did you not watch the video? She’s a nurse, she wears Nurse’s scrubs, and it’s pointed out in said video. She’s not a SAHM. Even if it’s a bit, it’s disgusting to act like that still. It isn’t even a bit because he flung the fuck out of a ball into the back of his baby’s head. From across the home.

[@burythecastlegames]

@@madbryers HEY VICKY YOU'RE SO SO ICKY🗣🗣🗣🗣

[@Mooshroom_Moss]

Like this dude is such a deck. I say this as someone who gets really bad sensory issues with food and can’t eat seafood at all. If my s/o made me salmon, I would feel so bad for them, apologise profusely and make my own gosh darn food.

[@zaudreyy]

That’s so real, I have sensory issues too and even like smelling or seeing certain foods makes me panic. I would cry so hard and apologize for being an inconvenience,but make my own food.Like common?? I hate the people who raise these lazy kids and they grow up like this.

[@PetThePeeves]

Exactly. It’s one thing to have a kid with sensory issues, but once we’re grown it’s time to just make your own alternate meal.

[@mrsayegee]

My husband knows I have sensory issues as well. But I do the cooking for the house. On the days I make what he wants that I don’t (mushrooms, tomatoes, scallops, etc), he will go out and buy my own meal. There are concessions we make as partners to meet each other where we can. Dude in the video has his wife go the entire way to be indignant.

[@echolotaliabrokenflight7279]

what also scares me is the internalized misogyny that she's clearly developing in response to his abusive behaviour, trying to justify his incompetent and manipulative actions. putting all the blame on his mom for his lack of maturity is awful, but the fact that she's led herself to think that way to excuse her husband's bullshit and make parenting a fully grown, able-bodied, able-minded adult bearable. so fucking awful to watch :/

[@Ashley-mq2vd]

Ding ding ding! 🎯

[@phoebe_000]

Very well put

[@victoriashevlin8587]

his weaponised incompetence at that...

[@patronustrip]

Thank you!

[@ikaurika]

​@Finger it is tho 💀?

[@jazwhoaskedforthis]

I love how aggressively supportive and respectful you are to her, instead of blaming her for putting up with his cartilage hoarding demands for nachos.

[@EYES33YOU00]

923 comments but no replies? let me fix that the way you described it LMAOO

[@GrainneMhaol]

That man sucks cartilage.

[@Dr.biohazard]

“Cartilage hoarding demands” xD

[@mmm555m]

what a good "take". agreed lol. also love how you described it 😂

[@heythereitshoagie]

Cartilage hoarding demands for nachos im-

[@PastelOddity]

My ex husband told me that I was a “lazy, disrespectful cat owner” because I asked him to clean the litter boxes three days after I got out of the ER for an infection after my c-section. And then he said my body was a “failure” because I had to have said c-section. *EX* husband. These husbands are so common it’s disgusting.

[@phoenixcorvidaee]

I'm so sorry you had to deal with him omg

[@kiribull]

Sorry you had to deal with someone so awful. I hope you're in a happier place in life now.

[@jasperjazzie]

i assume he made you clean the litter boxes while pregnant too,,and that can be really dangerous for pregnant women...what a shitbag...

[@flops1792]

i'm glad for you that you're no longer putting up with his bs 😃

[@MsMoonDragoon]

I hope you wern't cleaning them during pregancy. toxoplasmosis could've been the end for you and the baby.

[@emina1940]

Ok, but that video of him hitting hit *EXTREAMLY YOUNG CHILD* is so *SO* disturbing. He laughs while his kid is quite literally screaming. *Thats like abuse, if not it is abuse.*

[@Bab3Bat3]

.

[@emina1940]

@@Bab3Bat3 .

[@mkarigz]

that made me so angry, shame on the mother for being with him after that. she pretty much let that happen

[@katiew3731]

I love how when Cooper gets really riled up he HAS to stand up. Probably partially out of anger and partially to flex about how he’s 6’2”

[@karenoconnor4180]

Definitely to flex.. because he s already said everyone thinks he’s short.. 🤔

[@saracampbell4323]

He’s 6’2”?!?!? 🤤

[@idunnowhatimdoin]

is he really? How does he not have *_1_* wife?? What is going on in here

[@Shakeitlikejelly]

@@idunnowhatimdoinhe has a gf

[@enzoisateribleperson]

I do that too tbh

[@mrs.robinhood6023]

Her constant forced fake laugh is what really gets me, that laugh is a typical ''I don't have the energy for a conflict and I don't know what else to say, let's pretend it's funny even though I'm very uncomfortable'' laugh

[@chrisbealonis4655]

its depressing more then anything, nothing hurts more then seeing a person hide just how BADLY they are suffering, like just imagine being married that "man child" who doesn't even care for ANYTHING you do and belittles you on every level while sitting in his man baby crib, the best I can hope for is that his toddler-like posture causes him to slip and fall down some stairs and for him to just break his neck, because lets be real, he wasn't doing much other then consuming oxygen, if anything he would be better suited as fertilizer.

[@KEL-AUBREY]

Fr Fr

[@AuntBee42]

It's the "I've voiced how I dont like this before" laugh

[@amydeel8653]

Recently, he forgot their anniversary and he blamed her because SHE DID NOT PUT IT ON THE CALENDAR.

[@kayleesevers7817]

DAMN WHAT THE HELLLLLLLL

[@thepinkelephant2520]

WHAT KIND OF-

[@Ilovethe70ssomuch]

I would file a divorce asap

[@zekayy3912]

NO. FUCKING. WAY.

[@trudycolborne2371]

Really? I hope she understands that she's being taken for granted. If she doesn't want to live her life that way I hope she gets her situation sorted.

[@KatIsBiForDay]

I love how Cooper just makes the husband older every time he mentions his age

[@-hunter-7355]

This couple is a perfect example of, "She's everything... and he's just Ken."

[@MeningitisAAA]

But…like less cute? And wayyyy less wholesome!😊

[@-hunter-7355]

@@MeningitisAAA yeah

[@lunamoth7044]

That's discount generic Ken.. His name is Ben. XD

[@NatLaS]

I refuse to believe Ken would disrespect Barbie like this

[@edsiecap898]

The difference is that Ken LOVES Barbie and he respects her and he always shows his love to Barbie 😭 This guy does not

[@words0up]

I love how he says 'I play with my kids everyday' as if that means he's doing a good job and isn't just the bare fucking minimum

[@Xeriono]

and he said he plays with them not that he makes them food or takes care of them. NOT EVEN THE BARE MINIMUM

[@elisaargueta1663]

The one clip of him playing with the kids he’s just pelting them in the back of the head with dodgeballs 💀

[@words0up]

@@elisaargueta1663 Ah yes, parenting 101

[@amrade1599]

i am so pissed that men in our society are praised to do what a parent MUST DO ON A DAILY BASIS. Like, playing with your kids and take care of them? Dude, you shouldn't get the applause, that's your responsibility as a father of your children

[@becker_mikayla]

Fr 😭

[@kajoliloli]

I feel so bad for people who get married for the sake of getting married. bc that woman deserves way better than who she settled for.

[@brookeg19]

exactly

[@ArchonOfAnemo]

I completely agree with you

[@EmEm78]

I feel worse for their kids who have to grow up with that shitshow as their relationship role-models.

[@brookeg19]

@@EmEm78 yes,that’s what i’m saying

[@missbeaussie]

He is an example of why you shouldn't marry the fuck boi or FWB.

[@Frogsinbubbles]

I love how the age Cooper assumes the guy is goes from 63 to 77 to 79 and then all the way up to 87 lmao

[@p5strikerss]

is that? himeru?? in ur pfp???

[@Frogsinbubbles]

@@p5strikerss It is

[@p5strikerss]

@@Frogsinbubbles woaaah ur so cool!

[@kolibrispacestation]

I feel so bad for this woman and now I find out she's a NURSE? As someone in nursing school I say work more on weekends. They pay extra on the weekends and clearly this guy won't even notice as he doesn't get off the couch ever.

[@daughterphoenix]

This one time I went to my married friend’s house for a week and these TikToks were exactly what her husband was like. The wife cooked, cleaned, worked, and went out, and when we’d get back he’d be on the sofa playing Candy Crush on two different devices simultaneously, with four chat apps open on third device. Every day. She said he had a job but I never saw him do it, and the only warm meal he could make was a ham sandwich. Couch gremlin is such an embarrassing way to live your life

[@dreamingmage7524]

@@daughterphoenix how my stimulation does one dude need, like i got adhd and need a lot of stimulation to exist but thats wild

[@HaveAPunch]

WDYM? dude. its her choice.

[@cynister7384]

@@HaveAPunch It's often hard for people to see exactly how bad the situation they're in is without outside help. She's in a terrible situation, it's just hard for her to see that.

[@HaveAPunch]

@@cynister7384 but what if she just wants to do that?

[@mischievoustactics2710]

The internalized misogny she has for blaming his mother for not feeding salmon instead of her own husband is really sad. I hope she leaves him

[@AllergyAngelXOXO]

Internalized misogyny sucks :/

[@mischievoustactics2710]

@@AllergyAngelXOXO yeah it’s not something you can easily get rid of bc it’s deep-rooted psychologically

[@Oliviaandtrina]

​@@mischievoustactics2710 I struggle with it because while it's not their fault they have it so deeply rooted, their reaction to it IS their fault. In a lot of ways we ALL have internalized bigotry, but we aren't all openly bigoted.

[@truthhurts2879]

Omg this damn thread is terryfying.

[@mischievoustactics2710]

@@Oliviaandtrina yes i know and i still hope the best for her

[@singingofsilver]

I assumed she was a stay at home mother, but when he mentioned she was a nurse I just stopped because that makes the whole thing _so much worse._ Being a nurse is not easy. Almost every adult in my family works in the medical field, including my parents, both my grandfathers, all six of my maternal aunts + uncles, etc. so I've grown up hearing tons of stories of what it's like, as well as seeing first hand the long hours my parents both worked when I was young. My mother had problems juggling her career and a kid sometimes, such as being late to pick me up (on rare occasions), or being too tired to play with me because of how hard the job alone was. I can't imagine doing that with _three_ kids.

[@TheDimpledDarling2023]

OMG. I had no idea she worked…and not just any old 9-5. I cannot imagine working in the medical field AND having to come home to this “man”. My ICK factor just intensified by a 1000%. Ugh, he literally makes me want to vomit. He is so fucking gross, like a giant blob of flesh that just exists to make her life harder. He is vile to me. I have never wanted to see someone divorce another person in my entire life.

[@burrglar6734]

jesus. My aunt works at a hospital as a nurse (she lives with my grandparents/her parents) every time I visit my grandparents id see her leave so early yet return so late (11, I think?) and she always comes back looking tired. Yeah, imagining her with 3 kids to come back home to as well is hard to me as well... the least he could do is appreciate her nachos.

[@mushroom_dance5219]

after my mom went from being a full time EMT to being a volunteer she became a nurse for a while starting right before covid and i felt like i never saw her bcs she was so busy and if my father had expected her to run the entire house on top of that i'd have absolutely lost it

[@HopeIsADrug11037]

not to mention all the mental and physical stress (and sometimes literal abuse) nurses go through omg

[@maggiee639]

Yea I have a comparatively easy job but I’m on my feet all day. I can’t imagine working a 9 hour shift and coming home only having to do everything.

[@оранжевыйкакиш]

I love how he just casually keeps adding age to this babyman throughout the video

[@WisteriatheFirst]

Once my EX husband threw away what I made. My son was sitting next to me and he said "how rude." And I just died inside. That was like 15 years ago and it still makes me sad.

[@solm.6184]

lolol my dad would throw the food away and break the plates. now my mom is confused why i don’t do shit for men and why i don’t want to be married lmfaoc

[@CarbonatedToast55]

I spent a day tracking down ingredients and made a full blown three course meal for my ex wife, making sure one of them was her favorite food and she just screamed at me because I didn't take her out to dinner like I did every Friday night.

[@sybrichx]

@@CarbonatedToast55 Thats fucking awful, I’m sorry she did that.

[@princessqueen6881]

​@@CarbonatedToast55 glad you left her that's so disrespectful

[@CarbonatedToast55]

@@sybrichx Thanks, luckily it's been years since I last seen her so it's a lot better now.

[@spilledmilk6611]

Thank you for you hating on this bad behavior, it is something that should not be normalized. Being a stay at home mom is a full-time job on its own. Mothers shouldn't have to raise their children and their husband/spouse. Thank you for pointing this out.

[@trinifernandez8870]

and she's not even one! this poor woman is expected to mother and extra child on her own, perform at her job AND keep the house

[@kelsaaay]

It's wayyyyyy too common🤮

[@kelsaaay]

Yeah Thank u Coop!😊❤

[@RatedGigi]

i agree and also im the thousandth like. yay!

[@Babyblue115]

Also the second he´s of from work shouldn´t the stay at home mom be also. Seems like alot of stay at home moms are working 24/7, still taking care of everything even when the dad is home from work. It is like a trap for women to be put in this role they are expected to do all the work 24/7, also if they don´t work they don´t have any finances in case of emergency or taking a semester from that role.

[@Rickerov]

As someone with a trash dad, I have wished since I was very young that my mom would leave him. I feel bad for the kids and how their future relationships could end up.

[@sara-zx4wu]

me too, girl :/

[@GauriLekshmi-oi8wf]

Same. Just cause he's present and pays the bills, doesn't mean it's a good thing

[@kyleesargent]

same

[@wolfbyte2468]

I'M SO SORRY, I READ THAT AS "TRANS DAD" AND I WAS SO DISSAPOINTED THAT A TRANSPHOBIC COMMENT WOULD GET SO MANY LIKES LMAO

[@Rickerov]

@@wolfbyte2468 hahaha nooooo!

[@livilove6649]

the baby on his chest with no ear protection on while MOWING THE LAWN???!!! that is sending meeeee

[@ant1504]

Hes diminishing her to drop her own standards to fit him. It's genuinely saddening.

[@madbryers]

he looks like homeless ed sheeran 💀💀💀

[@krishi24012]

@@madbryers this is brutal and I love it 😭😭😭

[@ant1504]

i wqs Söö sleep deprivedd when i wröté this but i Meann the husband not Cooper

[@greenninjah]

@@madbryers implying Ed Sheeran didn’t look homeless to begin with

[@Eiji_Kirishima]

@@greenninjah LMAO FOUL 💀

[@remipoyntz7657]

I never have and never will understand the "i hate my spouse" humour...

[@dailymadness9129]

Exactly Ik it’s a “joke” and all but it’s just never funny

[@shopokefrignugget2027]

Wait it's a humour type? I thought the "I hate my wife" memes I've been seeing around were memes prodding at boomers who actually hate their wives.

[@remipoyntz7657]

@@shopokefrignugget2027 it is poking fun, but people will also make casual “jokes” about how much their wife makes them do, or hint that they’re unhappy and play it off as a joke. its not really funny, and a but misogynistic lol

[@Honestlytweaking]

for real!! i would never treat my partner like that!

[@jewel.140]

same, it always struck me as odd. Like its a ‘joke’ but its just not funny at all

[@M-pr3g]

I'm someone with sensory issues, especially with regards to taste and texture. If my S/O made something I didn't like or couldn't physically eat due to said issues, I'd thank them still, before making myself something I can actually stomach. They took time out of their day to make me something, and even if I couldn't eat it, I'd try and thank them another way. The husband just throws a fit like a toddler and doesn't thank his wife when she cooks him a second meal!

[@dieseldevil]

what is S/O? also underrated words

[@M-pr3g]

@@dieseldevil S/O just means significant other, I like all genders so I'm just using a gender neutral term. Also thanks :D

[@elainagilbert7663]

Every time he mentions the husband's age, he increases it by a decade, which is such a stealthy way of insulting someone and I love it. By the way, this woman blaming her mother-in-law for how he eats is probably her way of venting about her toxic mother-in-law because a toxic husband and a toxic mother-in-law usually go hand-in-hand.

[@trashketchum9782]

bad parenting can turn someone into a bad person, if they allow it to. it’s always possible to break the cycle

[@jessirarara]

Yup, can attest to this. Not because I have a toxic husband or a toxic mother in law. I actually loved my mother in law like my own mom before she passed. My little brother though.... is a fucking man child. The HORROR stories my sister in law has from his misadventures in "taking care of himself" are hilarious. He is the way he is though... because of my mom. Who I am fully aware is a "toxic mother in law". She just is. I love my mom to death but she is 1000% that mother in law that treats her son like a little prince. To this day she will try to say she doesn't to me and my sisters and we all give her a raised brow at the very least when she does. My brother has NO idea how to take care of himself and it's because my mom was the kind of mom that when he was a grown ass man he still went to her house every night for dinner and brought his dirty laundry to her house every week FOR HER TO DO till he met my sister in law. My mom would go to his apartment and clean it for him! The hilarious thing though is that HE has started trying to distance himself from her. Not because of how she treats my sister in law, or because he realized that he's a man child because of her. It's because her being intrusive as fuck has started to seep into his life in a negative way, in the fact that she constantly calls him during the day when he's sleeping. She's also not just toxic to my sister in law. She's thrown some toxicity my husbands way in the past, but I shut that down FAST. My little sister? She gets HYPER involved in her love life and gets close enough to some of her boyfriends to start calling them her new sons. Creeps EVERYONE out.

[@aminionsmadness]

Cool vid, but why so many mirrors

[@elainagilbert7663]

They're decorative. He might like the frames.@@aminionsmadness

[@beebeelicious]

Preach!!!

[@PastelOddity]

Oh my god the realization that I wasn’t treated normally in my marriage hits HARD every time. I used to think it was normal that *every* joke my ex husband made was about me being ugly, fat, stupid, etc. He would say “they just don’t get us,” exactly like the video. And I accepted it. It hurt, and I didn’t think it was funny, but I thought it was normal.

[@endermilne9199]

Sorry you had to go through that ❤

[@EmEm78]

I'm very glad he's an ex now. Please be kind to yourself - the way he treated you is a HIM problem, and not a failing on your part❤

[@st4rlite_]

Im happy you got out of that shithole. You deserve a much better partner who will appreciate what Aphrodite gave you

[@hobistinyheartbag]

I’m so glad you’re away from that weirdo

[@peachypear8765]

I’m sorry 😞

[@lalonda-kr5kd]

she blamed his mom for his behavior but she's forgetting he's a grown ass man that is capable of making his own decisions and changing toxic behavior and she needs just as much help as he does

[@alexissilva3951]

She's willfully forgetting. It's called a cope

[@honeylovesbee1223]

It's a coping mech. She'll make excuses for him

[@Lumina_Solaris]

She might only attribute his good traits to him and his bad traits to the people around him. I've seen people do it before. To her point, I do have a friend who won't really eat anything besides standard American food, and she won't eat vegetables, and I do honestly believe it is because her mom never really pushed the subject when she was a kid and didn't want to eat her veggies. And she just never grew out of it. But I think it's also her. So, usually, it's a combination of multiple factors.

[@frickfrack7075]

I think it was actually just a joke....

[@mothman1131]

not only that, but she’s blaming his mom & then, what ? just gonna let his life go on like that ? when would she start blaming herself ? when his mom hits the can ? tell that grown adult you eat what i make or you make your own food. period. mama may have enabled you but i’m not gonna

[@savanbanan51]

Coming to this video while cooper is engaged and has a thriving necklace business. Hes come so far and he deserves it 🥺

[@daliaxoxo1107]

It's sick how he said that playing with his kids is him participating in their lives. Who wakes them up to school? Who dresses them? Who makes their food? Who bathes when? Who helps them wth homework? Who teaches them what is the appropriate social behavior? Because that's definitely not him. It's their mother. Men really be out there acting as is playing with kids is serious work and not the easiest for a man can to pretend that he's somewhat involved in his child's lives.

[@newts.8634]

Yep, thats basically all my father did too. Like some guys are like "yay toddlers are so fun" but the second these kids need actual support they don't give a shit because its too much work.

[@jacobajn]

Came here to say that 🎉 you're spot on

[@heathermarie4720]

Let me tell you... I was a single mom even when I wasn't, if you know what I mean. Now I actually am a single mom and he only does the bare minimum on weekends. I feel like I want to be single forever bc I don't want another stress factor.

[@reynas344]

this part!! taking ur kids to the park every once in a while is not raising a child. there’s so much more that goes into it and so many men act like they’re father of the year for just playing. then, the mom has to do all the hard stuff and has to be the “bad” parent while the dad gets to be the “nice one” who never actually enforces any rules

[@urgae9125]

@@heathermarie4720 the worst part is raising kids that aren’t yours when you’re supposed to be a sibling. I had to go through that, but thankfully it was just me. My heart truly does go out to you, you deserved a childhood.

[@iambecomingrich985]

As someone with sensory issues, if my SO made a meal I literally COULDNT eat I would still thank them and then make my own food. What the husband does is not acceptable

[@Raev222]

Same. I'd try it just to be sure I can't eat it and also to show some respect.

[@salemmarz3809]

SAME everything someone has made that i dont like i still thank them eat it

[@debleb166]

Plus, I would think that if one partner is often cooking for the other, it wouldn't be unreasonable for the two of you to work out what foods you like and can eat, right?

[@markosmywords9202]

I'm honestly glad I don't have any allergies bc I could never refuse food that someone cooked for me.

[@katylepetsos7512]

yeah, I have sensory issues too, and it makes it really hard to try new foods, I don't like it but it's hard to control for me, but I have gotten a little better I guess. but I would still be thankful if someone did make me a meal.

[@Sophia-fw3it]

I feel like he's the type of guy to go "life's honestly pretty easy, idk why anybody gets so stressed out. they must be lazy" while his wife handles literally every aspect of their lives

[@msjkramey]

But he mowed the lawn that one time!

[@Sophia-fw3it]

@@msjkramey lmao

[@sweettea735]

“Hey! I remembered to drive the kids back from school that one time 😡”

[@clxwdy]

More like “I walked to the fridge myself that one time!”

[@carved_cuts]

This reminds me of that skit where the husband is like "You don't have to stress about anything though. Look. When I make a mess, it will be magically cleaned when I come home from work. Everytime. I swear. The dishes do themselves. And groceries just spawn in the fridge. I don't know what mysterious force is doing this." (Can't remember it very well. If anyone does, please elaborate.)

[@OliverTracy-ox2rj]

19:59 only issue is it doesn’t look like the child has ear protection and when we’re little our ears are more susceptible to damage…

[@XOAutumnOX16]

And the baby needs a hat for sun protection ❤

[@tylerbremer6696]

I wonder what it's like being a nurse and then coming home to a hospice patient of a husband

[@lyev9181]

i know you didnt mean it this way but, ive known people in hospice who are far more appreciative and kind and receptive to care than this (presumably) healthy dude. he isnt a patient, or in need of extra care due to a disability he just seems ungrateful and entitled, which is where the ick comes from i think👍

[@brianawong312]

You can't just diss hospice patients like that 😭

[@Profkol0rado]

Nah it's more like a aggressive 83 year old person with senility

[@janb92]

Women do all the work and still get blamed for everything. It’s insane

[@sugarcandykiddycat1986]

Yeah... that's unfortunate

[@Manar38656]

So true.

[@clxwdy]

Generalising a little, but I agree. After all, who has the time to write out an entire essay about misogyny in a KZbin comment

[@bendejo8]

As a gay man I want to apologize to straight women for having to put up with men - even though I have to as well.

[@ryanburks2480]

Yea so in case you delusional people didn’t know, men upkeep society, you just have bad taste in men if you think that man=bad. You do know that it’s a fact that men run the race and women wait at the finish line. A man has to build himself up, this can take most of his life. But a woman doesn’t need to do a thing and can be a nobody and get with a wealthy man. Do all the work? Are you kidding me. Maybe you mean their mental gymnastics? Cause there BUILT for that for sure. It’s called hypergamy. Women keep women single and this comment section is a testament to that

[@neonoires]

It seriously annoys me when I hear people talk down on their partners even as a "joke." Calling his wife a basic white girl when she does everything for him and gave birth to his children is infuriating. Maybe she is basic but he shouldn't be saying that!

[@fablesguykol3025]

A teasing jab is one thing. My parents rag on each other from time to time but it's always mutual and never in mean spirits. Genuinely saying belittling and spiteful things to your partner is cruel, hell I accidentally let an errant thought slip out with my girlfriend, it had no basis at all and I thought it was just as stupid but the split second it was there it came out of my mouth because I was highly annoyed and tired and we were arguing. I hated how I made her feel, how I made her act...we worked it out but genuinely hurting someone you love cuts deeper than any insult to your own person and if not, you don't love that person.

[@sluttyMapleSyrup]

Same. Even my BF and I, who's "love language" is playful sarcasm, don't say belittling or degrading things to each other. Lots of sex jokes and jokes about me being perpetually horny, but that's fine, cause the punchline is usually something like, "Man it's awesome having a GF who can kick my ass at Halo _while_ having sex!" 😂

[@HaveAPunch]

@@sluttyMapleSyrup thats not a mean joke

[@cjboyo]

It’s fine if it’s consensual and in good fun, but her reaction tells me its not

[@HaveAPunch]

@@cjboyo wdym?

[@McAmberlee]

Cooper's hatred for this guy and indignance toward everything he says and does is an absolute VIBE 😂❤

[@Voyeurrrr]

She’s a nurse… her entire life is caring for others. I hope she gets taken care of sometimes.

[@sheryltaylor5154]

i agree. i hope one day the roles get reversed and the guy gets to know what it feels like to be her.

[@Vesper31StudiosOffical]

I have a slight bet those children will treat her a lot better then... Yeah I hope she at least gets enough sleep tbh

[@samirperovic]

not some times all day long every year every day

[@PaarseKatten]

Almost all of my family are nurses including my mother. They are sadly treated mostly like crap these days.

[@NobodiesBusinessimo]

She could be one of those people that makes taking care of people and having too many responsibilities their whole personality. I know a few of those people and maaaaan everything is everybody else's fault with them, but they're still out here doing more than too much lmao

[@stinkyrahrah]

cooper and i agree on how to treat ur non-existent wife, cooper and lesbian alliance stays strong🤞

[@FilmCooper]

🤞we are the strongest army

[@whatintheworldisthat..]

Lesbian alliance stays strong I agree I agree 🤞

[@reii69420]

Lets go lesbians🤞🤞

[@cylviast]

#lesbians4cooper

[@Grace-yh1mf]

real

[@MintSpaghetti]

This dude carries himself like a lost toddler in a Walmart. Also absolutely loving how this guy has gotten progressively older throughout the video, the man started at 50 and now he’s 87

[@NotA_tshirt]

What an amazing day to sit down, draw, and watch some cooper vids on my bed with my phone up against a skull decoration. No like actually this dude is my comfort KZbinr- like this man has helped me feel better when I cry it is an amazing day to watch him 😭❤

[@sevvalhs]

I love that every time Cooper mentions husbands age, he puts 10+ years to it lol

[@echotheneko7346]

SAME I ALMOST PEED MYSELF LAUGHING

[@madbryers]

@@echotheneko7346 SHUT UP I DON’T EVEN HAVE A WIFE!!!!

[@swanlake694]

I remember by dad telling me (10/10 dad, by the way, always ate whatever my mum put in front of him because he knew it wasn't his place to complain when he didn't make it) that my grandfather used to buy Taco Bell every night and just ignore the large meal my grandmother made for everyone. People really need to put more respect on full time mothers.

[@christalcavanaugh]

Full time mom AND a nurse

[@sarahbarabe4990]

Yk how when you like go to college or you're away from home as a young adult for a long time and sometimes you don't have the money or time for cooking so you end up eating a ton of Ramen and fast food? All I fucking missed was my mom's cooking. Like a real fucking meal hits so good. Idk how husbands are not liking what their wives are making for them, it seems luxurious for someone to cook for you in comparison to taco bell.

[@strawberrycherrybaby]

Y’all if my husband did this…….he’s not in the metaphorical ‘dog house’, he would literally be sleeping outside with the animals until he learned to act right 😂 If you want the same dinner every night, find something you can make at home. It’s a waste of money to eat out every night.

[@Scourge-k6w]

W dad

[@jessl5535]

My husband and I "bully" each other but its always in very good humour and NEVER contains jokes about being ugly, body weight, or anything we know would genuinely hurt one anothers feelings. And its not the only way we communicate either. This guy is such a small ego man its really sad and upsetting she puts up with his bad additude. She deserves better.

[@awryarbi9902]

All of the jokes me and my partner make about appearance is either pointing at a worm or something and saying look it you or making jokes about me looking like a raccoon bc I'm taking off my makeup. I don't know why anyone would ever make a joke about your weight or something you're actually insecure about unless they literally hate you. Instant break up

[@mjg-98]

My bf and i make jokes about each others autism, but we are just screwing around and we both understand that we are JOKING Nothing we say is personal either, like when we joke its like a vague “haha that store is called spectrum u should work there” not like “haha remember that time when-“ type situation So many couples dig DEEP and throw personal insults as “jokes” Like id NEVER make a joke about my bfs weight or appearance like…. Wtf ? So strange I wish these people well because what a miserable life to live

[@sillybilly2526]

@@mjg-98 the spectrum joke has me dead😭 but we do the same too, why do people marry individuals they hate bruh😭😭

[@urgae9125]

@@sillybilly2526 unfortunately, they had the example in their home. There’s a reason boomer memes are “wife bad,” and “marriage bad.” They were pressured to marry young, have kids young, and shamed if they dared to have another partner. It’s so depressing.

[@sillybilly2526]

@@urgae9125 you're absolutely right. it's very sad to witness:/

[@drhadj]

"HIS HAIRLINE LEFT HIM BUT YOU DECIDED TO STAY???" -layze If your a layze fan you would know that he said that in his video😊

[@thesisterversepod]

Pro tip for emerging adults: whatever you went through as a child, may not have been your fault, in fact, it mostly wasn't.... But when we become an adult, we assume the responsibility to fix the things we carried from childhood. And that is because we don't have the right to subject other people to behavior that is harmful, hurtful or irresponsible. (You'll also feel so much better, promise.)

[@Zoopop13]

i love this comment bc its true. it is noones responsibility but your own, and pushing your issues on others is not their responsibility. thank you for this comment, it validates a bit of what im going through right now. makes me not feel as crazy about what i feel when im told otherwise.

[@TamaseiTobari]

THIS! Childhood trauma and toxic behaviors are difficult to surpass, but it is still your responsibility as an adult to become a better person and stop those behaviors. Get a psychiatrist and a therapist if you can, talk to close friends about those behaviors if you can. If not, just try your best with what you have available. The first step is always recognizing you are wrong and trying to change. The problem with people like this man is they don't see their behaviors as wrong or toxic, so they never change. I understand she is trying to cope by taking the blame off of him, but I hope she finds it in herself to stand up for herself.

[@kelsiemayes1274]

This^^

[@kinda_cold_in_the_closet]

absolutely. one of the things i always do when i'm around people a lot is try to be understanding of their situation and don't make things worse. do they snap at you? they're probably just tired. skipped in line? it's ok, just tell them they were wrong. most times they didn't know you were a part of the line and apologize. are they tapping their foot in an annoying way? they're probably just stressed. if you sit down and think about it, not everyone is out to get you. they're all just like you, tired and hungry and irritated. they're all trying to get through the traffic or airplane ride or shopping line or even just the day. that of course doesn't mean i excuse some of their more rude behaviors, but it does mean i am more lenient with their situation. the point is, for emerging adults, don't think that everyone's out to get you. there's a sense of responsibility of being nice and understanding to others when you're an adult. if you're nice to them, they'll appreciate it and be nice back. i understand the world is horrible and so are people, but that doesn't mean that you have to be one of the people that make it horrible. edit: and yes, there is a point where your childhood trauma can't save you. there comes a point where you need to sit down and work through it or simply just don't tolerate someone who refuses to fix themself.

[@opal_the_octo]

As someone who is autistic and has sensory issues, it is kind of appalling to see someone act this way towards a loved one who is doing something nice, she went out of her way to make something for him after he wouldn’t eat the original meal. My parents usually make me try new food, which I’m not good at, and specific textures, smells and tastes tend to stop me from eating certain things. But even when I don’t eat what they make, they expect me to make something myself, and sometimes they make something else for me, and when they do I don’t act hateful like he did. I’m getting a bit ranty but it’s just difficult for me to see someone being so hateful towards his wife when she goes out of her way to do these things for him

[@marchingflute5181]

Me with ADHD being the same way-

[@Tink6217]

I'm the same with my husband. He cooks a lot and I've eaten everything even it I makes me wanna be sick. He's being nice and trying really hard.

[@o0DreamCream0o]

As someone who personally has to send things back due to allergies (i have a minor sesame allergy, (more of a sensitivity) which sometimes I forget to ask about because its not present in a lot of things where i live, and some things I can’t tell just by looking cause oil) even if I ask for food specially made, I do try to be extra polite about it and apologize for the difficulty of getting me a different meal I can’t imagine someone being an asshole about getting something they didn’t like from a loved one among people and then getting a food they liked and still being rude

[@stockton4356]

@@marchingflute5181same

[@WhereAmIAndWhy]

​@@marchingflute5181same

[@KeytoOblivion36]

Absolutely love the compassion you have for this woman who bust her butt for an unappreciative person. Very wholesome 😊😊

[@JellyIllust.]

I love how throughout the video, everytime Cooper mentioned the husbands age, he just kept getting increasingly older. We went from like 50 to 87.

[@afrosenshi5623]

by all means do NOT hold back. i’m 23 and can handle most domestic chores on my own, cleaning, mopping, sweeping, vacuuming, laundry and cooking included. there’s NO excuse for a grown man to act like this, my heart goes out to women that have to deal with husbands like this, y’all deserve better!

[@randomnumber27]

Or men that deal with wives like his, although less common, or just people with bad spouses like this in general

[@alondraescamilla3866]

You are a men for sure

[@Imjustkendall]

@@randomnumber27knew someone would add that -

[@OK-bg2px]

@@randomnumber27I get the point you’re trying to make but this is undeniably a trend with men towards their wives

[@randomnumber27]

@OK-bg2px yes I know, I'm just saying

[@sataurnmoun]

If shane dawson and ryland adams had a child, it would look like Briannas husband💀

[@jahanarahgraham8003]

I literally thought it was Dylan’s from the thumbnail 😭😭

[@erinkinsella91]

Stoooop it actually does 😷

[@approximateknowledge5577]

This is horrifically accurate😂

[@kaylakent446]

Omg i literally was thinking that her husband looks like ryland 🤮

[@-D3m0nikaSpirit-]

I hate to bring you the bad news but....Ryland splorged in a cup and it's official; They ARE getting a baby! And they are going to call it....BEARLY (and yes they are going to spell it like that!) I just hope the baby will look more like the mother than Ryland

[@divinelyaligned718]

i happened upon your content a month ago and now I am hooked. I love the way you deliver!

[@lauraherz99]

I GASPED when she showed the countertops in the kitchen. How does an adult man not know how to clean up after himself? Like even if you don't do the dishes immediately after eating (let's be honest who actually does that) you can at least stack them and put them to the side to make it less messy. Put the dishwasher-safe stuff into the dishwasher. Throw away left-overs. DONT JUST THROW YOUR DISHES ONTO THE COUNTERTOP WTF

[@stanhitoyaorperish8656]

Some people can't clean fr I had a roommate with the same problem. He bullies me just because I'm an exchange student from a "maid" country (indonesia) and he always makes me to do his 5 days old dishes 🥲 imagine the smell ughhh

[@couch_protaytoe4342]

@@stanhitoyaorperish8656kick them out. Not only a bitch but a racist too 😭

[@Oliviaandtrina]

My ex husband did that. They don't clean anything intentionally. Of course it's not difficult to at least try to make it clean, but they don't. They want you to do it all, and they get angry if you don't. My ex would leave dishes, old food, garbage, dirty clothes, everything all over the place. He literally did nothing. Just drop everything and leave it. I have videos of times when I would go on "strike" and refuse to clean up after him and our house would begin to look like a hoarder house until I eventually gave up and stayed up all night cleaning it all. Then he would turn around and scream at me for being lazy and gross. It was so miserable and I'm so glad to be out of there.

[@rellyy_ddd3788]

​@@Oliviaandtrinaoh my god he sounds like a little bxtch, so happy you left him because most don't unfortunately, hope you're doing better ❤

[@jaxintheboxoxo]

My family does this😭😭 it’s the worst

[@aurora_skye]

I'm neurodivergent and I have sensory issues. My partner made me a food that I couldn't eat but I ate as much as I could, however I felt ill that day anyway (later realised I had the flu). I took some home with me and I apologised a lot. He'd put so much care in making that food for me that I felt incredibly ungrateful for struggling to eat it. He's amazing and so is his cooking ❤

[@gracett3628]

It's great that you're appreciative, but don't beat yourself up too much when you can't eat. As someone who likes cooking for people, learning what they dislike is part of the fun😋

[@awryarbi9902]

I am very very picky and I will try to eat everything I can but it can make me throw up so it's really hard. One thing I just will not eat is cauliflower though

[@axuwu6939]

It’s not your fault if you can’t eat it, so it’s not ungrateful! The fact that you genuinely tried to eat it, especially while you were struggling to do so, already shows so much appreciation, respect, and gratefulness to the person who made it. Your partner wouldn’t want you to force yourself to be uncomfortable for their sake, and I’m sure he wouldn’t want you to feel guilty either

[@dilfhunter13]

been there, you try really hard cause you know they put effort into it and then you feel bad that you even have to try 😭

[@playitcool1963]

I was wondering if anyone was gonna point out how toxic and ablist a lot of the response has been to the guy. A lot of ablist rhetoric being spewed disguised as feminism.

[@valerieann5510]

he's one of those people you can just look at and be f'ing IRRITATED. The look on his face, the face only a mother could love, creeps me out!This lady deserves soooo much more than what this moose knuckle is giving, or could give her.

[@madbryers]

I have built up anger over a 63 year old man

[@portobeIIa]

@@madbryers that my friend is a 73 year old baby. You get to be a man when you wash your own underwear

[@kinkyxkitten666]

He reminds me of my ex who SAd me tbh.

[@valerieann5510]

@@kinkyxkitten666 I’m sorry you had to experience that. I too have been through something similar when I was a child, by a cousin of mine. I have a lot of suppressed childhood memories from it. But I think having it happen to you by someone you once love and trusted would cause a whole sleuth of other problems. I hope the son of a bitch is paying for what they did to you. 🩵

[@littlegreta_thegreat]

2023 cooper: i don't even have one wife! 2024 cooper: my wife sophia Real character developement right there

[@Adrianna119]

Her putting all the blame on the husbands mom just shows how (according to him AND her) it always has to be the woman’s fault. He’s never gonna be forced to take accountability for his behavior and it’s sad.

[@Voyeurrrr]

That part

[@ynglxnss1502]

a working mom??? TAKES CARE OF HER KIDS, COOKS FOR FIVE PEOPLE, AND HER MAN IS UNGRATEFUL? i'm tired just thinking about it. so much respect for her.

[@ThinkingofChaos]

PLUS SHE IS A NURSE

[@TDOGGisawsome]

I had to unlike it because it’s at 420

[@Casbastian]

As someone with really high food sensitivity I understand not being able to eat food people make for you and preferring to starve to avoid distress, but like, just make your own food then?? And if they’re gonna go and make a new dish you need to shower them with a ton of gratitude because they’re working around your issues you need to be grateful for that.

[@OttrPopAnimations]

word.

[@Naixatloz]

I have food sensitivities and also struggle to cook for myself because of disability stuff, but if someone cooks for me and I can't eat it, you bet your ass I'm making myself a pathetic little microwave quesadilla or something instead of asking them to make me something different.

[@OttrPopAnimations]

@@Naixatloz real

[@StarKoSuru]

Yeah exactly!!

[@croissant2882]

I see a lot of people pointing out that there are reasons behind them not eating. But i want to point out that this isn't tha situation. He clearly isn't disabled, doesn't have an ed and hes not on the spectrum, he's just a spoiled manchild. Theres so fcking many of those in the world its insane. A Man that thinks gettng married is just aquiring a new mommy

[@maddygajewski8457]

seeing this when cooper is about to have a wife is refreshing

[@Asmodeuslvr]

I'm autistic and can't eat a lot of foods and apologize constantly if someone makes me food and I can't eat it. I can't imagine being this entitled lmao 😭

[@bboyscsoreal]

True

[@blueismylove3128]

I'm not in situations where people make me food who don't know what I like, but I will say I am the main cook of my family and also am autistic, so unless my family specifically requests a certain I'm not making it lol. I feel sorta bad that I don't really know how to make sea food cause most of them love it (even my also auDHD sister), but it tastes and smells so gross they'll have to go out and buy that on their own.

[@madhouse-mr5ks]

My husband was also a picky eater, but he doesn't make me bend backwards to make more food. He hates fish, but he'll still eat the salmon I make. He actually thanks me for making him try new things! He wouldn't eat broccoli, peas, ocra, or a majority of green or Asian food before we dated. Now he asks me to make him all those mentioned foods because I put in the effort to make him try it. Meaning I hold him down and water board him..... JK but there is effort when dealing with a picky eater.

[@the_comfy_studioakawolfhor305]

As a picky eater, who my mom has to deal with yes also i like salmon too!

[@butasimpleidiotwizard]

I can be a picky eater but if my parents cook me (a grown adult) dinner I will sure as fucking hell eat it even when it is food I do not like because as I am a grown adult the only person who is obligated to feed me is me, everyone else who makes me food is doing it out of the kindness of their heart, it's extra effort they do not have to go to for me but they're doing it so that I don't have to and that is a kindness that I feel genuinely grateful for. I've never had a long term partner but I can 100% guarantee that I could never treat them like this

[@gracett3628]

​@@butasimpleidiotwizard and if i really can't eat something I'm sure as hell gonna say thanks and shut up, not request a different meal

[@el-maiki]

You think this is a flex but you talk about it as if he was a kid 😭😭😭😭

[@madhouse-mr5ks]

@@el-maiki He used to act like one but I shaped him into a wonderful young man 🫄🤱

[@-luvtillx-]

He'd be at a restaurant and say, "This is so fun and relaxing, we should do this more often!" while eating chicken nuggets and fries, and his wife would be struggling with the kids while they scream and squirm with food spilling everywhere.

[@AutumnSwift2]

I like my nuggy and fries

[@Jonkly]

Im currently pretty young and watching these types of videos give me a REALLY GOOD idea on what not to be when I’m older (not talking about the creator I’m talking about the people in the video like a husband) and with my generation people need to know what not to be and what to be like

[@_m30w_]

i would have committed several war crimes if a man who looked like THAT told me to go make nachos for him bc he didn’t want the perfectly good dinner i made for him

[@sentientplant9658]

I'd be an international criminal if I married (or even dated) a dude like this every single article of the Geneva Conventions would be violated plus some

[@Stella-dj8rg]

Especially because salmon is delicious and so versatile how could you not like something salmon related?

[@DeMiTriDreams]

​@@Stella-dj8rg a lot of people seriously dislike anything remotely healthy and salmon is one of those things people like that tend to dislike or refuse to ever even try

[@magicdawn1973]

​@@DeMiTriDreams I've always been a really picky eater, but like... I make sure each new partner knows my food preferences in advance, and usually they always try to push me a little, and I do my best to eat whatever they make if they do, in fact, make food. If i was ever with someone who forgot or didn't know a food preference and made something i wouldn't eat, i would simply apologize a lot cause i feel bad and then *make my own goddamn food like a grownup*

[@gracett3628]

​@@DeMiTriDreams my dad associates pink with raw, so unless you 'finish' cooking it he won't touch it lmao

[@ananyanyan]

I'm neurodivergent and a picky eater. There are foods that I can't stand but if I didn't like my spouse's cooking to the point where I don't even touch it, you'd better believe I'd be the one in the kitchen. Marriage and relationships are about equal giving and taking and if I marry someone, cook a meal for them and they don't at least try to choke it down they can microwave their own damn nachos Also, seeing Cooper aggressively support and respect the mom, my skin is clear, my fields are flourishing and my life is complete

[@rocks.and.soup.]

Fr! Or at least communicate before hand!!! I genuinely can't stand fish and you bet I communicate that with everyone I know who could ever cook for me (friends, family, partners)

[@hdervish2497]

Yep. I can't stand pasta or hamburger helper. That's like, the only thing my partner will cook. So I just have a salad. They were offended at first, but I had already made it clear for years before we cohabitated that I hate pasta

[@anniepullen8216]

My father once made a comment about my mothers breakfast once, and she didn’t cook breakfast for him again for almost 5 years. She still cooked for us but he had to fend for himself

[@hallowvenixya9215]

That honestly seems like a bit of an overreaction. Like I get that no one really likes their hard work to be insulted but that just seems extra to me.

[@anniepullen8216]

@@hallowvenixya9215 Honestly, my father probably deserved it. He was a grown man, he could make food for himself, if he didn’t like something he could have made his own food.

[@caleahhhh]

me

[@lindenm.9149]

@@hallowvenixya9215 No one is entitled to their partner cooking them breakfast. (Unless they have an agreed caregiver/disability issues/extenuating circumstances kinda thing)

[@hallowvenixya9215]

@@lindenm.9149 There's a difference between someone feeling entitled to something and someone not doing something that for like 5 years as a spite reaction. In fact I never said anything one way or the other about anyone being entitled to anything. You're actually just putting words in my mouth here.

[@mrcooltv5272]

Bro needed to have subway surfers on the side while in court for his divorce

[@Fourfrombfb]

Whenever she laughs, she sounds strained and forced, and it has so much sorrow and pain in it, she also sounds like she’s on the verge of tears every second

[@lellelelle1451]

I love how as cooper keeps referring to the dad his age gets older and older 😭😭😭

[@clxwdy]

63,452 old iPad kid

[@clxwdy]

iPad fetus* I mean

[@Nl0R]

I have a friend who had a husband like that. When she decided to leave him people were like "don't do it while your kids are so young, it's going to be so difficult to work and raise them alone". She just said she would actually have one less baby in the house to take care of, so easy! And in the end, he was the one suffering because when he has the kids now, he can't ignore them and let the mom do all the work.

[@bobbythompson6017]

Do you not know what wedding vows are richer or for poor sickness and in health until death do we part you think people just say that for shitz and giggles

[@Nl0R]

@@bobbythompson6017 marriage is a partnership. If the husband dosen't contribute, why should the wife stay? He was always out with his friends, partying and drinking while she had to take care of the kids and the house. She is a nurse with a brutal schedule and when she would give the kids to her mother for a few hours to rest, he would chastise her for being a irresponsible mother. Wedding vows are not a sentence to a miserable life with a man-child. You want your partner to stay? Be worthy. And that also stands for wives that contribute nothing to the partnership. Some people are not mature enough to get married. Either step up or set the other free.

[@2024happiness_]

@@bobbythompson6017then the husband should follow the vows tf

[@maddyocean5948]

@@bobbythompson6017 lmao ok rage bot. you think he would stay if she didn’t do everything for him?? or if she got sick? no way

[@bobbythompson6017]

@@maddyocean5948 u good bro?

[@shellythom7248]

Never saw your videos until now and can I say I absolutely love that room you are in. ❤ the couch and the wall. Beautiful

[@InvaderGIR98]

I feel so bad for her, she's smiling but you can see in her eyes how exhausted she is. He's broken her down so much that she puts in extra effort to make an entire second dinner because presumably the emotional strain of an argument or his anger just isn't worth it and she knows that, hence, "it used to annoy me"

[@sanane08]

Maybe she is collecting these tiktoks to show at court and win the divorce settlement. If thats the case then go get that bag sis

[@jessieridgeway8334]

Goddess, I hope so.

[@imcrazygnomie6642]

"If I don't feed him he will literally starve." I don't see the downside to this statement. Edi: Also I want to take the time to appreciate that this ipad baby man kept getting older as the video progressed. He went from 50, to 65 then to 77 all in the span of 6+ minutes xD

[@IwishIwasCatnip]

To 79 😂

[@KaylaVic3]

Love how sweet you are. Happily subscribed. Thank you for everything you do. Goodness I love your perspective. So refreshing.

[@Bambitiel]

Finding myself a husband like cooper is going to be my life goal

[@killian2365]

Same lol

[@moisavictoria]

Same here

[@candy_shark]

Same

[@ghost_shivers5276]

samee

[@adrianasolari492]

Agreed

[@hannahdavis4256]

I'm autistic, I have an ED where I literally won't eat even if I like the food if it's not something tolerable or something I crave in the moment. I can't imagine just not even bothering to at least try to eat the food your wife made for you. Even if I couldn't eat even an ounce of it, I would apologize to her and thank her profusely for what she did and do my best so she knows she's appreciated. Cause regardless of my disabilities, I wanna make it clear how much I appreciate the effort even if I wasn't able to enjoy the food. I just cannot fathom someone being so demanding and uncaring and forcing her to do that with 0 appreciation. I feel bad for this woman. No marriage should be like that. She deserves the world and does so much. Edit: I'm incredibly disabled. Chronic pain and fatigue and illness, personality disorders, autism and adhd, semiverbal, and I struggle to do a lot of stuff on my own and need a lot of comfort as well. This man is pathetic. Cause even with being disabled and needing so much help, I still put in so much effort for my loved ones and be sure to show so much damn appreciation. Nothing is a fucking excuse for disrespecting people and treating them like garbage. Awful. Absolutely awful. I hate this man. Edit 2: I jokingly make fun of my friends and stuff. But immediately after saying it, I go "no but this is great, I love it" so they know I am only joking. I also make fun of myself in the same way and if I cross a line, I make sure to apologize and say that I won't do it again. Cause when you jokingly make fun of someone, not everyone enjoys it and sometimes it goes too far. My friends have gone too far with me as well, it happens. But he literally is just making fun of her to make fun of her. I hate it so much.

[@TheActualJeffery]

I absolutely agree, I have a similar issue but instead of having an ED I simply don’t feel hungry often and when I am, my autism causes sensory issues which makes me dislike most foods. STILL, how he handled it is fucking stupid

[@urgae9125]

@@TheActualJeffery absolutely. If he actually had a sensory issue, he’d have communicated it to her BEFORE she cooked for him. He’d have gotten up, and cooked for himself. He’s able to bean his little toddler who’s brain HAS NOT EVEN DEVELOPED YET, he can make a bowl of cereal. He could have asked her for something before she put all that time and effort into a dinner for him. I have sensory issues, and I have a few safe foods that I struggle to even make for myself because I’m disabled. I’m literally super sick right now, my scoliosis and misaligned SI Joint are hurting so bad I struggle to breathe when I move, and I’m still able to make something to eat. I literally have had two cups of milk for breakfast, and dinner, with a few fries and a milkshake. I could BARELY eat the fries, and I’m going to eat them later if I’m hungry. Just absolutely disgusts me a seemingly able bodied and mentally well man can’t bother to speak, or eat.

[@fin608]

i have the same ed! just got back from res for it. my main motivation the whole time was coming back to eat my boyfriends cooking

[@lindenm.9149]

100%. When my partner cooks for me there’s so many ways it can accommodate my sensory issues and food weird yikers issues. He always asks if I can eat what he has and involves me in cooking (I just watch and talk at him about my special interests.) I also cook for him so we can eat together :)

[@ocean7078]

Same here, I have bad sensory issues because of my adhd and autism and an ED as well. Certain foods make me throw up but Even if I couldn’t eat what my partner made I would damn well try. And after I would make them something in return and I would constantly apologize. I’m currently in injury recovery but I always try my best to make sure my partner is happy, even on bad pain days I will help them with what they need any time.

[@ansleypalmer2058]

Having been a nurse for a little while, I could NOT imagine having to deal with what I have to deal with at work and then come home and have to put up with being ridiculed by that man-child of a husband. She has the patience of a literal saint and I hope that she gets all the good and beautiful things that she deserves. I wish her the best in this world

[@DeetotheDubs]

I wish you the best, as well. Not everyone has it in them to be a nurse or caretaker. During my times in hospital care the nurses were the best people there.

[@clockworkcrow8590]

I am literally three minutes into this video, I've never watched you before and I already like you. The second you said "If he wont eat and appreciate what you cooked for him, let him go hungry" I was like "This one. I like this one" XD

[@wafflefalafel9442]

This video is just Cooper's "I'd be a good husband please date me" resume

[@28kataya]

Yeah but it’s working. Even us older divorced Milfs are like damn Cooper.

[@candy_shark]

totally would tho 😭

[@chemiKalz]

Gross he could be your son

[@drilonkennedy-gorne2049]

HIRED

[@ellielou52]

​@@chemiKalz oh noooo, an "old" woman had the audacity to make the least gross comment every old guy says about younger women?! The HORROR!! 😂

[@lorelei2752]

I love the the husband just gets older and older the more Cooper insults him lol

[@violetuniverse42]

Cooper the last man standing fighting misogyny. He's restoring my hope for the humanity and for the future

[@capst4r]

hes restoring everyones hope for society and humanity ! ! great job cooper !

[@HexProofMonkey1]

there are like thousands of mfs fighting misogony

[@capst4r]

@@HexProofMonkey1 true, but sadly its not effective, i don't think anything will be for a while

[@TheNoidIRL]

You guys hype up mediocre white guys for doing literally nothing lmao

[@dailymadness9129]

@@HexProofMonkey1 thousands is most definitely a exaggeration when it comes to men. More like 4

[@thesavvyblackbird]

My dad used to play this awesome game with my brother and me where he’d throw an old feather pillow at us as we ran down the wood floor hallway in our footed pajamas. The pillow had some heft to it and would send us sliding and falling. We put actually soft pillows on the floor and held them, and he’s just bean us from his chair. He’d be furious at this bozo for just randomly hitting his kid. Carrying the baby while mowing looks like good dad material until you realize the baby doesn’t have hearing protection and could be hurt from debris if it came flying out of the mower.

[@woomybeeb]

"Bro you look cartilage coded" has me giggling in my apartment at 5am. I have Ehler's Danlos Syndrome and I know so well that cartilage isnt the main focus, it's collagen, but I had to giddily send it to my friends being like "me when i have EDS"

[@EliasKayama245]

Is EDS the one where your joints can disconnect easily and stuff, or is that a different genetic disorder? Genuinely curious.

[@woomybeeb]

​@@EliasKayama245 Yep! I was diagnosed with the Hypermobile subtype of EDS, my biggest issue is my knees clicking out of place all the time. I have a friend who wears special rings that keep their finger knuckles from popping out, too. There are multiple different genetic disorders with that as a symptom, though-- H:EDS is actually the only one that DOESN'T show up on a genetic panel, annoyingly.

[@EliasKayama245]

@woomybeeb is it painful? I heard it was. I don't have any genetic disorder like that, but I do have two mental disabilities and I'm curious about how other types of disabilities work.

[@Thatgeekycanadian]

Oh my gosh, it made me cackle too with diagnosed EDS. I didn’t realize someone else had commented already about it. LOL

[@Thatgeekycanadian]

@@EliasKayama245 the dislocations and subluxations and overall soreness is definitely painful

[@thefaffingsisters]

So, one time I thought I could just make Indian food from scratch with no Indian mixed seasons, and I really got excited with the cloves. My poor husband (just bf at the time) ate so much of it without saying anything before I finally was like "you don't have to eat this, it is so bad" and he was sooooooooooooooo sweet about it, apologizing and saying sorry to ME like I didn't try to feed him a disgusting bouquet lol. That is one of the things that let me know he actually loves me. Yall get you a dude that supports you and is nice when you mess a meal up lol

[@allylti]

YESS! I'm currently unmedicated for my ADHD and have overcooked soo much food lately. My husband COMPLIMENTS the bacon I charcoaled and ate all of the overcooked dry chicken I made. My 3yo on the other hand asked why it didn't taste good😆

[@Turtleburger69]

Yeah or spicy food I know he would not normally eat lol😅

[@flaming..valdez1]

you know cooper is mad when he stands up at least 20 times in a video

[@JaxSunEdwards112]

Literally 😭

[@caseyyy8]

Oh my gosh the wall in the background is so beautiful!!

[@LaurenPebble]

This actually makes me feel so much better. I’ve always had problems with food (because of mental illness related stuff), and for a heart-stopping moment I went ‘oh no, is this my future?’ But then I realised no lol. I can use and oven and willing cook myself food when I’m hungry. If my mum or dad makes something I don’t like (which isn’t uncommon because they like roast dinners and I hate them), I’m perfectly capable of making myself food. Wow, watching this just cured a lifetime’s worth of guilt I’ve held around my strange eating habits.

[@awkwardukulele6077]

being responsible about your food sensitivity, physical or mental, and having a partner who understands and recognises that issue is MUCH better than what Brianna's beau has going on. That being said, I totally get being scared that you're the bad guy because the difference between your struggle and a selfish person's tantrum isn't always obvious. I used to have meltdowns because no one ever believed me when I said some stimuli were painful, and until a couple years back I thought that made me just like every other physically abusive partner or family member, even though I never hurt anyone during a meltdown and was mortified at the thought of it. Then, I found out abusive people don't hate that they're acting that way, they _want_ to act that way, it's a _goal_ for them to hurt others like that. The way my therapist explained it, "If you care so much about other people that you're scared of putting them through that, you're not evil, you're just ill and dealing with it the best you can." Glad to know I'm not the only one who learned that being sick isn't the same as being abusive, the relief when you realize you really aren't trying to ruin everyone's day is pretty awesome. :)

[@LaurenPebble]

@@awkwardukulele6077 I totally get you! And I’m glad your therapist helped!

[@solomonskey-animation]

Honestly, same. I have problems with certain sensory input that includes a fair amount of smells/textures/flavor combinations, and _every damn time_ I'm visiting family or at some kind of function I end up getting the least offensive (by my standards) thing I can find or make my own thing when offered something I can't deal with, and I STILL feel like utter shit for not just choking down what I was given because whomever put forth the effort to make something for me. I can't FATHOM treating someone I loved (or anyone for that matter) like this. Mind, if/when I move in with and/or marry someone, you bet your silly ass I'll take over the cooking-it's something I enjoy-so I guess that's a non-issue in my case lol.