I choose to be myself again. Love and appreciate what I have. Lessons learned are valuable. They forged us into becoming better for our next chapter. ❤🎉
@PaulineBrown-c5k11 ай бұрын
I need to become better than my ex and be a better version of my self
@hobuspobus11 ай бұрын
I won’t say my ex is back but he’s texting me every day and says there might be hope. I know he probably just wants sex but I’ve followed your videos and it’s 100% you. Thank you. Please can you make a video on how to navigate an ex the dumper only coming back because he’s starved of sex and how to force him to commit. I don’t want to be a FwB.
@camellia862511 ай бұрын
It is obviously easier to be not so affected and/or become a better and more attractive version of yourself (as recommended here) if you were not so in love with them. Moreover with the exception of having been dumped for something serious such as cheating etc; it isn’t fair that the dumpee should have to go to such efforts - when it is in fact the dumper who should be doing what they can to resolve matters (ie fix what they broke).
@Rb79_8511 ай бұрын
Agree with this!! What do we do if we’re not the ones who need to self improve but the dumper is but we still love them? It’s such a shitty place to be stuck in
@PaulineBrown-c5k11 ай бұрын
I need to become higher than my ex
@ranimal111 ай бұрын
I Had to stop the video at Stop the Rut... Good God do I have a story to tell!!! I was there!!! Lost ly dam job...went down the tubes of hell.... The narc started her jumping from me to whomever... and this w a s a downgrade from the outset as her new man was 40 something years old never been out his moms home...she was banging him in his moms home...zero respect for herself lmaoooo...never met his kids... in 7 years... he loses his job the very week hes promoted to make top money... sad... And of course...she drops him.... she loses a professional license...which disables her from making a living....THE HOVER OCCURS RIGGGGGGHHHTTTTT HEEERRREEEE...LOL.. years have passed Im settled again...we have talked because we had 2 young kids... so.... I take the family to dinner....make it a point to sit as far away from her as I can... Took her to restaurant with a famous chef... lights camera action...all the glìtta..lol.. The next week... she calls 4:30am... " Im tipsy... Im crossing the bridge, can I come by your place and sober up? I told her I had company.... but she could stay in the guestroom ... amazingly...she stayed! Next morning... Im cordial... as I walk her to her car...I didnt even try and shake her hand...... The next weekend.... After she done gave me every hint.... I pounced... Restaurant...dancing...massage.... Horse drawn carriage through the park at night with a bottle of liquor to seal it up..... Long story short...after 7 years we just separated...and amazingly.... She monkeybranched with low lying fruit again...and this time...the kids are adults!!! They get to see their mom in full deperado mode... its the funniest thing because she makes all the decisions and excuses...lmaooo you just cant make it up...