HIV and Family dynamics: What did our in-laws say?

[@lischentjaveondja9236]

This man, husband I just dnt have a word for him. I dnt qualify to compliment him. He is just too much of goodness. May God richly blessed you

[@tengee5279]

He's an inspiration

[@godzillanismo4892]

In my language he is a tier 4 simp

[@anastaciadlamini5862]

amen

[@abigailmandere209]

Aww this guy l cant believe he exists, he is God given.May he be showered with all his ❤ desires

[@da1stamericus]

@@msbronzegoddess3166 my friend just give birth to ahealth6 hiv free girl in March. She's been diagnosed for ten years. Her husband is negative.. undetectable equals u transmitable

[@theuniquenessofme7825]

My best friend is HIV positive for the last 24 years got married and have 5 kids. They are all healthy and happy

[@chineloblessed4628]

Praise the Lord hallelujah

[@d.osarah486]

Do you include bitter kola in your diet. I heard it has powerful healing properties.

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

Me too

[@skhathelencube235]

May your best friend stay blessed nd her family👏👏👏

[@ZeeInterpretationz]

This is actually a great testimony.

[@olgagozo8124]

Vote for Skhu as Husband of the 21st Century!!! He is literally your guardian angel. Peace and love to you both. Still waiting on how to get your book from the US!

[@saintsinclair]

Literally!!!

[@theunanswerablequestion8779]

Oh yes Skhu has ma vote

[@brendadickson8871]

Amen to that Skhu is every woman dream husband God bless him

[@ntsakomavunda54]

Many vote for Skhu indeed, we truly thank God for him in your life Nozi. God is greater

[@givenkhomba3992]

Always believe in God..... Am living with HIV and am in a happy relationship very soon we'll be getting marriage and my partner is negative but he loves me like no body 💕💞...thank you Lord for this

[@terrykgatle2505]

How did you open up to him about your status ?

[@elsiem7295]

God bless, that’s so beautiful

[@annahnharreluga3431]

What are you using when you have sex? Prep or condoms

[@Nikki-ci5ze]

You can feel the Holy Spirit upon this couple. Their love is real, deep, and truth.

[@nolithamdleleni4985]

So true

[@godzillanismo4892]

I call it tier 9 simp energy

[@onelamaqoqa955]

My husband passed away a year ago. Listening to you guys singing together, made me remember how I used to love singing with him. You guys are such a beautiful couple I wish you all the best in life.

[@truthhurtz19]

I honestly never thought I could date someone HIV positive however, I now know I will never judge anyone because of it. Thanks for sharing your story has made me confront bias attitude. I vow to see the person and not the disease.

[@zinhlexaba5149]

I was feeling the same way bt the time happen to me it open my eyes nd I'm telling you it not easy my bfrnd nd i put status are different bt now we angeged to be married.

[@reshpresh987]

Xaba wow am happy for you wish you good health n happiness

[@jjholl00]

Yes, it is possible. My wife married me, yes, after I told her that I was HIV. I love her with all my heart bc she loves me for who I am. We have three beautiful daughters.

[@sisterbless1183]

I am also but I need a man to be there for me

[@sindisiwrnkosi]

Same story n my partner is so supportive n i thanks lord everyday for giving me someone lyk him

[@nagendjiiyambo7492]

Nozi is so blessed to have such a wonderful husband, wow, his maturity is on another level, his humility, responsibility level, a real man

[@keshebileonekbmorwe3163]

Nozi is drop dead gorgeous!! Nozi ur a living testimony of how God works, nothing will ever break you PRINCESS❤

[@msbronzegoddess3166]

Why she found a simp🤣

[@mmuzondo]

I agree with your comment Nozibele. Your husband is the epitome of a well raised, well grounded and well rounded human being and man. I used to think my expectations were too high in my quest to find a good man. Your husband let's me know men like him exist and l deserve such a man. Thank you both for inspiring us. You are what l call 'couple goals.'

[@ubaphilemlindi8319]

There is absolutely nothing wrong sis for setting high standards, otherwise you will settle for less and the results will be your unhappiness..

[@MajorrBison]

There are definitely good men out in the world and women as well, one just has to walk in God's time and be careful when chosing a partner. We have to pray before deciding on a decision lol.

[@samukelisiwehlongwa3159]

Love this ❤

[@sisey99]

God’s time is the best..

[@clips9294]

It starts with being a good human being yourself first.

[@zynabuchishala2132]

The husband is truly a real man full of humility and love...you two have given me the reason to stand again..

[@briansimphiwemashatola7782]

The level of maturity in Skhu is massive and for that I salute him, to Nozi you are inspiring other young people out there, trust me we are blessed to have people of your calibre in our generation.

[@mashrohingya9397]

Your mom’s love for Sku is based on the appreciation for his unconditional love for you baby girl. That’s why she is so affectionate towards him however she does not love you any less. I wish my son could find the kind of love and type of families you guys both come from🙏🏾🙏🏾. May God bless you to grow old together.

[@xolelwathandokazimantungo6457]

I don't think she was overcompensating, she was just happy and grateful that someone was loving you under the circumstances. It's something that she probably didn't think would happen. I'd do the same thing too. Men like Skhu are very rare.

[@shebaandpebbles]

No, many stigmas are being lifted. Plenty of HIV positive ppl have - partners.

[@LifeupdateswithTee]

This is the Kind of Man im praying for!!! You are blessed sis ❤❤❤

[@mbulanzuki4126]

Right? 🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@lesegomabothomokubetsi8537]

🙏🙏🙏

[@williamswilliams1073]

@@lesegomabothomokubetsi8537 Can we get close together? To share contact .

[@godzillanismo4892]

@@williamswilliams1073 you're a simp. I bet she never responded. Don't validate these women. Come on. Get some help.

[@msbronzegoddess3166]

@@godzillanismo4892 They want hiv to spread it, because She's pretty?! Y I don't trust men. Most are simple minded simps. Hopefully not U...

[@memyselfandi9439]

You guy's so brave to talk about that topic in public 👏👏👏👏 a lot of respect from me 🙏

[@pholilesoko5516]

Ngyanithanda niyezwa kakhulu...wish u all best

[@nontyatyambonomsobo]

Ndiyanithanda Sis Nozi ❤️❤️😍😍😇😇

[@muchena1051]

Nozi ur hubby is from God unlike other guys that we meet outside there

[@motso-talks8002]

When a man protects his wife...nobody can shake the relationship!! It all depends on him...!! I think your mom is just happy that you married to a good man..and she's worried ofcos like any other parent,she don't want anything to come between you two💕

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

💯 True ❤️

[@ayandad9828]

I agree.

[@faithramotlhale8761]

I agree with you

[@Rochelle642]

AMEN!!!!!

[@godzillanismo4892]

Don't promote simps. He is in pain

[@1phindy]

I randomly landed here but I'm glad I did. I'm so proud of you guys. I lost 2 family members who lost their lives after suffering alone in silence due to stigma. Opening up makes all the difference. Power to you✊

[@MrOratiloe]

I can personally relate to your story as I’m a living proof that HIV doesn’t define who I am and very grateful of all my blessings in my life 5 kids negative and my husband who truly loves me for me so I love you so much guys I wish people learn from you

[@mimiesac3197]

They seem to be more than happy than those without HIV...... ❣️❣️❣️

[@SoSo-hw2yt]

Yes you are right 😍

[@beautyntshangase2742]

So true 👌

[@sindisiwrnkosi]

❣❣❣

[@CingwaneElihle]

Soooo true

[@nelisiwenkwanyana698]

True

[@andisani257]

I love your videos. You really are doing a great job on killing stigma against people with HIV, many of us do not even realise that we had thought about HIV in a negative light because frankly we do not think about it and are not readily exposed to it. You have really have enlightened me personally and killed any stigma I had.

[@mpholifestyle7356]

I love your story guys

[@katlegomohuba677]

Yoh Nozibele! This man sees you, loves you and truly wants to be there for you. It's beautiful the way he explains the conversation he had with your mother. We truly thank God for love like this. I also commend the honesty and transparency just overall sense of comfortability in your relationship. May the Lord bless and keep you

[@yolandamhlonyane2187]

I pray one day I get married to a man who will love me the way Skhu loves his wife🙏🤞🙌🏻

[@candidtalkswithlauvena1835]

Girl! You gave me hope my love, listening your HIV/Story have just empowered me to tell my own. More grace dear, and may the Lord bless your Matrimonial home. I love you Sissy💞💐💕

[@meriamletsoalo9077]

Wow

[@angelaroseT]

Watching now from Kenya!

[@DrUnatiDrMHealthCorner]

God bless❤️

[@angeladamba2460]

Hey, i love to visit your channel whats the name?

[@candidtalkswithlauvena1835]

@@angeladamba2460 thank you so much dearest the love, You are welcome in advance 💖. I go by the name - Launa K Namibian KZbinr

[@nabalayosimiyu9792]

Anyone watching from Kenya,pls leave a like.Falling in love with this KZbin channel

[@conniecon5732]

I'm watching from Kenya..

[@cs-mt5ue]

I'm a Kenyan but watching from abroad

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪let's make friendship

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

@@conniecon5732 let's be friends

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

@@cs-mt5ue let's be friends

[@Mcopele]

This is way more than just HIV, I’m leaning the dynamics related to HIV and so much more. Thank you

[@sisiphoB]

Background is important guys. The way Skhu grew up is soo beautiful

[@zimkhitharachel4806]

He even speaks politely, you can see this man is raised well....

[@dieketsengmonkhe8185]

The singing😭❤. Yhu Sis' Nozi, thank you for allowing God to work through you. You are such a force sisi, an entire powerhouse🙌🏾

[@lonagwegwe]

I think mama just appreciate Skhu for loving her baby and supporting her. I don’t think it’s over compensation but just appreciation

[@guerlinejoseph1881]

I love you ❤️ guy's 💞 God's will healing you Two in Jesus Christ Name for He's will be done not an mine will as a Christian I did believe an God's miracle this is their same God's Today yesterday and Ever ok may Love 💓 be Courageous Nothing impossible From God's put all your Trusted The most High Darling Brother and Sisters I love you all dearly

[@lindomagubane8815]

I love stories like this, they show us that love still exists. An also that there are people who are still willing to do the work.

[@leratomanci6483]

So true❤️ they give me hope

[@estelle5486]

Yeah so true!!

[@gokelovefeji1651]

Yes...

[@lesegomabothomokubetsi8537]

Yeah they giving us hope

[@ellenxolelwazuma3939]

💯 🙏♥️

[@messiahbatisani3956]

This guy just humbles me ,so down to earth .you can tell he is from a very respectable , grounded family . Oh God .God bless you guys

[@abatetsiangela4523]

Nozi, each day in your life, keep thanking God for the gift of that husband He gave you! How many.......... God keep you for many years.

[@DMCswithKMW]

Oh kodwa Bhut Skhu, you were created for uNozi ❤ God literally picked YOU to be Nozi's lifetime partner. It is the most inspiring and the most beautiful thing to watch. They way you talk about her, the way you love and support her, WOW 🙌 Most importantly, you allow her to be her. I am so so touched. Sis Nozi, ndikubuka ubuhle qha 🥰😍❤ you are sooooo beautiful!! I love you SO so much 💗 Thank you for being a bright light. May the perils of the world never change you🙏

[@sekgaboseselamarumo7483]

I just love you guys❤️ Skhu you're not being arrogant, you're just being true to yourself. We are greater than HIV! Love from Botswana 🇧🇼

[@juryrecitalmay1359]

How sweet. Thank you for sharing I’m with you in spirit. I was a human trafficking survivor, I have permanent injuries. Please try not to listen to the negative people who don’t support you. You are a beautiful being and you won’t be defined by this, only by people who promote stigma . I have learned to not care as much what people think, when people leave me because of my spine injury and traumatic brain injury and call me a prostitute I educate them. And sometime I don’t bother educating ignorant people, because it’s not my job. Everyone has something going on with them they just hide it and focus on vulnerable people, because they are insecure in themselves.

[@anelemtshabe9844]

Such a realistic, authentic video. You are inspiring more than just people living with HIV+AIDS Nozi. There’s so much power and light I’m drawing from this. Thank you, for doing this 💜

[@sikhumbuzomayaba7549]

Nokhala 😊😊😊

[@katlegonakana5185]

Anele Mtshabe gghytyttyhderygdetf

[@drnomfundonhlapo7315]

Wow love this ! More people need to be exposed to such conversations to increase open mindedness regarding HIV . You would think considering how long it has been that we are treating patients with HIV the larger society would have migrated from the Stigma Mindset , but it’s not the case . Thank you . I will definitely share this with my patients who still struggle with such dynamics . We thank God for your story and how it will lift many

[@ayibongwemathe7035]

Who'd love to have Mama on the channel🙋🏾‍♀️🙈

[@saintsinclair]

Nami I also want to meet uMama 😅

[@ashleynyamutitima3583]

U found yourself an angel Nozi.luving your husband calmness,care n love

[@noloyisochule9930]

Khaniyekeni uMama/Fezi bethuna🤣 nam ndibawela ukuva

[@siphokazihans864]

Please bring Mha 💃💃💃

[@Ladyfaithke]

Am not sure about that.

[@johannajohannes1049]

It's every mother's wish for their child to find a supportive life partner. My mum also has a special relationship with my husband which is a blessing. Sis Nozi you found one in a million in your husband you are indeed blessed

[@zainabinti5170]

I so appreciate South Africans about their openness when it comes to HIV and AIDS... many other Africans still hide and be stigmatized.

[@reshpresh987]

That's one good thing am proud about them...

[@TRUTHFUL2000]

True , they say so and so has cancer.

[@gorevt]

Wonderful ...

[@mamphomololi9165]

Skhu is so realistic🙌🙌You both look clean and pretty🥰🤗

[@thanandlovu5107]

Yho girl .. I'm getting emotional. You remind me of someone. Literally there's nothing that can break you😭😭😭

[@miracleandoh7709]

Had a BIG smile on my face watching you two sing together 🤍🤎🤎🤍

[@MiMi-ll3zn]

Your husband seems like an amazing fellow. God bless you both.

[@beatricesloan7063]

In the past I didn't believe in pure love ,but now I do,it's beautiful to see how in love u both are with each other.

[@lvynlove]

i feel like her mother greeting him the way she did speaks to her being grateful to have inherited a son that loves her daughter like she does and in spite of her daughter diagnosis... this is the second video i’ve watched in your channel. thank you fir sharing. beautiful to see.

[@OriginalGaPeach]

I doubt that u will read my comment because this video is a few months old and u have many more comments before mine...I just want to thank u for bearing your soul to the world. It takes a strong spirit and immense confidence to open up publicly about something so private. I plan to show ur video to a relative who is presently dealing with a similar issue...There is no way u can know how much of a blessing u are to so many people u have never met...Abundant blessings to u Sis...

[@nelnel4127]

Godbless u dear

[@sikhumbuzomayaba7549]

Wow sis, thank you so much hey and may God bless you abundantly

[@thesanexplorer]

Our good husband is back! Yaaay! 😂🤣 What a heart warming love story you two have. Love from Canada and yes, I'm ordering that book!

[@chariemakaripe4850]

woow when a man protects and loves u this much! whatever comes ur way, you got it!GOD bless you two

[@sophyledwaba3696]

This is a testimony of God's Love. Thank you for sharing your story

[@_Katy]

There's so much beauty and authenticity in your love that I never want to miss any chance of having this kind just because of a health status or a life challenge that is different from mine. You guys are so beautiful together. Mercy and Favour over your lives 🙏🏼💌

[@godsfavourite65]

We serve GOD of the impossible, don't limit him. Being such a godfearing full of faith woman you'll find that you are healed unknowingly

[@beckyfrancis481]

I don't even know how I got here, but I've subbed. I love you two. OMG! Your love, honesty, and willingness to be vulnerable. You have something many don't have: Genuine, true love.

[@mariazolonimu4301]

The way she looks at her husband is everything. I'm glad I found this channel really. May God richly keep blessing you❤🙏

[@carrie-leetheblaquedove8463]

This made me emotional.... this man deserves the world. Nozi is beautiful inside & out. I love this couple. May you guys be blessed

[@atamelangalena3933]

I disclosed immediately to my mom when I got the results..same day....

[@sindisiwrnkosi]

Its took me 3 yrs bt she very supportive n my partner as well❣🥰

[@kudzainyamukonda653]

I love their chemistry. It's refreshing to see couples supporting each other so flawlessly . Every needs a Skhu in their lives.

[@nonoechibs2775]

True love do exists, thank you for sharing this guys God is truly amazing. This is so encouraging n the bias we had towards HIV positive pple may the Lord help us to accept n love those affected unconditionally ,coz yu never knw wat is going thru their minds stigma n discrimination

[@zamamaduma7424]

I like how they listen to each other without interrupting.

[@brendadickson8871]

I noticed that too so sweet

[@snethembashangase9]

Liked before watching because sengibone ubhuti Skhu lol so happy

[@lindamanana5982]

I loved d singing😂...buti Skhu u have theeeee most beautiful makoti

[@ncumisakirindo1006]

Ningaze niswele nto aphe bomini nina because of a great impact you have on the lives of many. God bless your marriage sis Nozi and bhuti Skhu❤️❤️❤️

[@sandisiwelelethuntusi3960]

On a serious note i love you guys like i know yall personally, may God continue to protect and bless you♥️

[@nadrebell7831]

I love the way your husband is so supportive. Really admire you two. May God continue to bless you guys ❤️🙏🏿

[@princessgthevesselofhonour1023]

hi love,people living with HIV/Aids are a little bit sensitive when someone makes comments about weight gain or weight loss,i believe it is because in the past due to lack of information,lack of good good feeding, inspiration weight loss was one of the signs.so baby girl i kinda feel you girl.In my case i had to learn to brush it off,and having the love of the Lord has empowered me,and plus my familly had made peace,

[@thegodlyprincess_kenya]

You are a vessel of honor. Welcome to my channel 🇰🇪

[@khosimanaka3486]

You are so blessed guys.. as for the husband may you teach many how to love and care for those you love... Nozi girl big up lala.

[@gcotyelwalumkwana7532]

I came back for ubhut' Skhu shame. I love you guys, I wish my cousin was still alive. You guys would have had a great impact on his life. ❤

[@beautywithsyndy3394]

You are not arrogant Sir. You took the perfect action as an outstanding husband. You were protecting your wife and you did an amazing job, Sir. Society needs more men like you sir. Praying to God to have a husband that will be able to stand for me and protect me. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️

[@kaybeekaybee2874]

This is truly nice to see.... The husband is well raised too!

[@segoofentse9020]

"It's not about HIV,People face different challenges in there lifes or marriages and that's there HIV"Ohh that's deep😢. God has chosen you guys. Stay blessed🙌

[@claricegwanya9906]

I adore your hubby and am proud of him. I thank his parents for raising such a good man.👏🏻😭

[@nosiphotallymdluli9770]

when did you disclose to Sbu , how old was the relationship? To Sbu..... Nkulunkulu akubusise a lot of ladies are in depression because their boyfriends make them feel unaccepted because of their status........thank u guys......this is powerful, God bless your family

[@nolusizodlalisa5573]

Oh how I wish your teachings can reach many people's hearts so this stupid stigma can fall! I also hope these videos teach many HIV positive people to continue falling in love with themselves and believe that they deserve all the good things life has in store for them.

[@colleenmusiniwa3108]

Thanks for this, my husband and l are living in the same situation and it took me time to tell my mum and when l did she cried but now she is okay...

[@siyabeanland9777]

You guys are so well suited and you complement each other in such a loving way. I love the topics that you cover ❤️🥰 May God protect your love ❤️🙏

[@ueriukandjoze6338]

Love from Namibia sounds like my tribe Ovaherero💞💞

[@oleratomatsheka5549]

I like it when Nozi says “ a ne” 🤣❤️. Cute

[@Miss_kaytt]

I haven’t even finished watching the video but I just wanna say ndiyanithanda maan🥰🥰🥰

[@fukutwatable]

May God bless this man I'm telling you.. He's got a pure heart ❤️

[@ethereal6063]

You found a gem in him. I pray your story saves many others. 🙏🏾

[@zamambhele4100]

I came here because of the headboard you guys couldn't choose ( which i found funny).... this was so educational thank you... this is very sensitive ❤

[@lifewithenhle]

🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😅I absolutely love you guys omw ❤️❤️❤️🥰you were made for each other. So funny, educational, breaking stereotypes and living authentically. Keep at it and I pray God blesses you immensely.

[@BuhleLupindo]

Nozi you are so wonderful and amazing 😭🔥

[@nevaehluz4213]

Just subscribed, I'm happy you found a man who truly loves you unconditionally. He is one in a million, I respect him

[@sithandiweshilubana4769]

I have never sat down and listened to your videos, I usually would follow you on Facebook and TikTok but today I just decided to binge on your video while plating my hair. Man you guys a blessing 🤞

[@phathutshedzoramakhanya6902]

When I told my mom about my experience, she felt that she’s failed me as a mother and that she feels like she wants able to be there for me from the beginning, and that I couldn’t tell her as it happened… So I completely understand when her husband mentions that her mom felt that way, my mom mentioned to me that that’s how she feels

[@emeldaampadu5540]

You guys are just amazing, such a breath of fresh air. I love how you always make us laugh no matter how serious/intense the topic, so refreshing!

[@safehavenrefugeforteensyou6787]

This shows that no matter what you must face in life God has someone in store just for you. 🙏🏽

[@gabriellewelch5993]

Awww, I really appreciate how your husband strongly said he will protect you and your house. God be with your union.

[@noziphokhumalo2963]

Oh the song was everything! you guys have beautiful voices hle.

[@BoboThami]

Didnt I just die when u told him to keep his key or stay in his harmony voice yoh😂😂😂😂😂 me and my partner have the same problem even when we playing on our insturments.. I am a string player and he plays keys/piano... shemm this singing thing with your partner is a problem😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!! Yohhhh ur Husband is a Mood...😊💝I love yall soooo much May God keep blessing yall 💕🥰

[@siyankunkuma537]

Skhu and his family for the win!! His mother taught them Agape love and this is what the world needs. Tell mom in law the nation is grateful🙏🏽

[@Afrikan]

Pls keep sharing your journey. More and more people are doing the same. You're all helping end the stigma. Hope one day there will be a cure.

[@JasenomadeTV]

What a beautiful conversation, this is such an intelligent discussion that WE need to take example of... stay blessed both of you. Thanks for sharing. x

[@nkhen_c357]

Maar our mother's naturally love their sons in law. They handle them with so much TLC you will be shocked.

[@pattywangu2650]

Khensani Maswanganyi...you are right. Her husband is a good husband.

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

@@pattywangu2650 Its like man can learn from him how to love your wife and be supportive hubby at the same a hubby that put his wife first than anything else ❤️

[@nonhlanhlapinzi757]

I agree Lol....my Mom is like that with my Husband 😂😆😆😆

[@gokelovefeji1651]

@@elizabethletsoso2558 I agree with you

[@missnobuhle_]

True yoh my mom is the worst 😂😂

[@nzukigora4339]

Ungu Tshawe wena 👆 ungowakithi wena, Jukutya, Zanzolo, Malangana what a men you are Skhu!

[@megshawskitchen]

You two are the bravest people I know. Thank you for speaking very openly and truthfully about this topic.

[@daphnekwedza6312]

Love from Zimbabwe 💕

[@simplynasi1009]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love you guys so much! Such a beautiful intro! So effortlessly inspectional. Thank you for opening up your life and home to us 💕

[@marynjugunatwiss]

I resonate with you Nozi. When I openly talked about my age gap relationship publicly, my mum was very concerned about exposing myself too much.. A mother's love is just so pure. Try always want to protect us.

[@babalwambangani759]

wow Nozi u are blessed, Skhu is a husband sent by God himself

[@davidmashele4192]

I relate to your story on such a personal level. Really grateful that i come across your page. 😊😊

[@vuyiswav7778]

I love you guys❤