One of the reasons I believe in an afterlife

About Nurse Hadley:
Hadley Vlahos resides outside of New Orleans with her husband and three children. With eight years of experience as a registered nurse, including six years devoted to hospice care, she has gained profound insights into the field of healthcare. Online, she is affectionately known as "Nurse Hadley," where she shares heartfelt stories from her experiences as a hospice nurse.
Beyond her nursing career, Hadley has achieved literary success as the author of the instant New York Times bestseller, "The In-Between: Unforgettable Encounters During Life's Final Moments" published by Ballantine/PRH.
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Driven by her passion to make a difference, Hadley is currently working on establishing a nonprofit respite hospice house: hadleyhouse.org/
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[@cvent8454]

I can't believe this showed up in my feed because I just read this chapter in your beautifully written book. I love it because the same thing happened with my mom. My dad had passed 15 years earlier. My mom was in hospice for about four months and had a really difficult few days (she had congestive heart failure and was on oxygen). I slept for days on the couch next to her hospital bed thinking this was it, she was going to pass any day because she was in a coma. I had this strange dream one night that awakened me. I heard my father talking to me, telling me how proud he was of me for taking such good care of mom as I had promised him I would before he passed. I checked on my mom in the darkness and she was sleeping peacefully. The next morning she came out of her coma and I told her about my dream. She smiled and told me it wasn't a dream. She said that daddy had visited her that night and told her everything was going to be okay and that it wasn't yet her time. He told her that when it was her time, he'd be back to take her to heaven. I can't tell you how much peace that gave my mom and me. To know that my dad was waiting for her and they'd be together again soon. I love your book. It is so amazing, everyone needs to read it.

[@addylea2863]

This comment underrated. I am honestly amazed. Something similar happed to my grandparents…my Aunt was in the hospital, and she wasn’t doing well and could pass any day then. My grandparents were visiting her, my mother too, and they all prayed together…shortly after my mother left, my Aunt had passed away peacefully with my grandparents…

[@loriijanee]

rest in peace so sorru ops

[@loriijanee]

prayint reysbwiss

[@loriijanee]

prayint rest in pewce so sorru ops

[@JohnsonWildlife]

I just purchased your book on Amazon I can’t wait

[@kathleenherron594]

My Grandpa died almost 34 years ago, and he was in my dream this week. Best gift ever!

[@Paloma-Aster-Matrix-Hub]

I experienced the same thing with my husband. I’d like to believe that it’s more than just coincidence, that they are letting us know they are alright

[@RioGirl16]

I lost my mom this week. The day after Christmas 😢 I’m heartbroken knowing that I’ll never see her again on this earth but I’m so relieved she’s no longer suffering with bone cancer. I’m comforted that she’s with her departed loved ones and the Good Lord ❤

[@home_everlasting]

I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious mother 💔

[@Aliiiiiiisssssooooonnnnnnn]

I’m so very sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.

[@rowdyways4228]

This life is so short when compared to all eternity. This time is nothing. You will be together again with no pain and so much love. ❤ she’s in the best place, where we all want and hope to be. Be happy for her and know she’s in no pain and you will be with her again one day

[@RioGirl16]

@@rowdyways4228 thank you for your kind words. That’s the only thing giving me solace right now. The hope that we’ll be reunited again ❤️

[@lifewithkrissie4010]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom on New Year’s Day. I know the pain will never fully go away (it feels like she took a piece of my soul with her) but we will get through this together. Prayers and much love to you. ❤

[@kristencobb230]

As a former hospice nurse, I’m looking forward to reading your book. I still occasionally have hospice patients come to me in my dreams. No one will ever convince me there isn’t an afterlife. ❤

[@spacelinx]

May I ask, without getting too personal, what your hospice patients say or do in your dreams? I’m genuinely curious, cuz I had something similar happen to me several years ago involving my long deceased dad. About 2 or 3 years after my dad passed away, when I had just moved into my first home, I began seeing him in my dreams for a short while; a few days, maybe a week. He didn’t say anything in them; they were just of him looking at me. They freaked me out because I wasn’t sure if it meant my time was coming, if he was trying to tell me something, or just visiting, or if it was really him at all.

[@SS-mc2ed]

I am a nurse and I have seen every thing nurse Hadley saying first handed. This is real people.

[@zx1906]

Way to leave it on a cliffhanger Hadley 😉 From one nurse to another, you’re amazing. You’re actually making me reconsider my specialty (ICU)

[@NurseHadley]

Haha thank you!!

[@What_if_i_dont]

@@NurseHadleywell what happened??

[@iamlucy2308]

​@luckily_im_chaotic You are supposed to get the book to find out.

[@DamiMami]

Same! Except I'm not in nursing school yet but I always thought I would go into emergency medicine but now I'm hooked on hospice!

[@Cheyf97]

I’m an ED nurse thinking of hospice !

[@cbragg923]

Hi Hadley! I work for the Milwaukee Public Library and I process the incoming books the library has purchased. I was so excited to see multiple copies of your book and that a TON of people already had it on hold before they even hit the shelves!! Lots of love from all of us in Wisconsin! ❤🧀

So glad to hear this book will be at my hometown library 😊

[@tammyschneider4702]

After seeing your comment, I went online to check at my local library. 15 copies but a 14 week wait. 97 people in line ahead of me. 😮

[@laurariggs9060]

Thank you for mentioning the public library. All e books and physical books in my library are checked out, but I am now on the waiting list. I often forget to use my public library as a resource for free reading material.

[@winterswan7893]

My mom was always scared and sad when she battled her cancer the second time... It was hard for me as a 17 year old watching all of it. I was so tired when she pased away that I felt relieved.......

[@karenpederson1735]

I totally know what what u mean! It is so hard, the suffering and sometimes it is drawn out. The relieve they are out of pain is enormous.

[@sheilarichards122]

and do NOT feel guilty about feeling that way either. For she was relieved more..and is very happy that it's over. She'srejoicing with her family reunion in Heaven. It is the way we return home to heaven[our Cross-ing over]

[@susanfurlong4048]

Your Mom knew you loved & cared for her. Blessings.

[@itsme-mt2fo]

I'm not crying....my eyes r just raining

[@Jai-s2t]

I’m not crying either, you are nt me nope… something’s just in my eyes!

[@sarabyrd3374]

same

[@anastasiagirl1342]

My grandmother died two days ago. That same night, we went outside and saw for the first time: The Northern Lights. I personally believe it was her and my other family members who have passed ♥️

[@dumbphonemom]

So sorry for your loss. This reminds me when my mother in law passed away. A minute after she passed, I looked up the sky and right on my eyes, exactly where I looked at, a shooting star appeared and vanished. I immediately knew it was her.

[@ellesversion13]

Of course it was love. She's watching over you, and I bet she will be so happy to see you in Heaven one day.💗🌷

[@carlynolan9604]

Oh Hadley, I just finished your book. As a nurse who occasionally cares for hospice patients, your book has given me a different outlook on how I will care for the next hospice patient and their family. Beautifully written book, many tears and emotions. Thank you for writing this book, I would love to meet you someday. You’re truly an inspiration❤️

[@anneclark1664]

You’re book is upside down!!?

[@guestguest2030]

@@anneclark1664 I noticed that too.

[@loriijanee]

prayers

[@TreesieParadisArt]

Hadley, I have sat here ALL DAY watching each one of your videos and have cried and laughed with each one! I just lost me Mom last November and your explanation of grief really hit home to me! The day I believed in the afterlife was one night, after sitting by my Mom’s bedside for days on end, she opened her eyes for the first time in 5 days!! It scared me at first because of not knowing what was going to happen next but I just held her hand and said, “Hey Mama.” She looked me dead in the eyes and said, “I love you Honey but I’m going to go join your Daddy and Jesus.” I responded by asking her, “How do you know you’re going to be with Jesus?” She smiled her beautiful smile and very confidently said, “Because He just invited me!” I miss her terribly but I have comfort in knowing that she watches over me and I’ll see her again one day! I can’t wait to read your book! You have such a comforting beautiful soul! Much love!! 🤗💕🙏🏼

[@karenjordan5731]

I bought your book and loved it. I am 68 and take care of my 93 year old mom. She can't read anymore, so I got your book for her on library audio. Mom is not afraid to die, but your book was amazing for her to listen to and just added to her secure feeling. I am so happy to have found you on KZbin!!! Thank you for the book, your stories and for the dedication you have to helping people ❤❤❤❤❤

[@loriijanee]

prayers

[@offlinealyssa]

My great grandpa just passed on 12/17. He was 96 years old and always said he was going to live until 100. (his mom lived to 106). Unfortunately, his wife aka my great grandma passed on Thanksgiving 2021. Ever since then, he went down hill, which is normal. They were married 78 years. Although he was sick multiple times and placed on hospice back in 2022, he fought through everything. He was such a fighter. Unfortunately the day of thanksgiving this year, he got sick. Just a regular stomach bug, but then he had a heart attack. then another one. He fought for 2 weeks and was placed back on hospice. I’ve been Watching Nurse Hadley videos for awhile now, and it really helped me. I knew what to expect and how to try and be positive about everything. We spent 2 nights with him in the nursing home. His hospice nurse took vitals that night, everything was still normal, and she said it will most likely be a few days for the body to slowly start shutting down. We left and got home and received the call he passed… His last words to me that day were “I’m looking for somebody”. He kept looking around. I asked him who? He said “i don’t know quite yet”. i truly believe my great grandma was making her way there for him. i know they missed each other so much. Sorry for this long post. Everything is still fresh and it hurts. I still can’t believe he’s gone. It was so fast. 😔💔

[@SueCarey9]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@teresamcmurrin8672]

Thank you. I'd really, really love to know what happened... I lost my husband two days ago. It was sudden and totally unexpected. Napping on his back, he apparently regurgitated and aspirated. I found him gone. We were older when we met (I'm 67, he was 64), so we knew this was coming sooner rather than later...We only had 5 years together, but they were the best 5 years of my life. He loved me so intensely, so purely--the kind of love everyone wants but too few find. I believe in God. I believe life is Eternal. I believe I'll see him again. But times like this, I can also doubt everything I believe. ("Lord I believe, help Thou my unbelief.") I need to hear confirmation right now. I'm facing a long, rough road, trying to rebuild a world that's crumbled around me. I **NEED** to know that my beloved soulmate will come for me, that I'll see his smile and hear his voice again.

[@smileycricket1]

I believe you'll see him again. ❤️🫂 Are you doing ok?

[@teresamcmurrin8672]

@@smileycricket1 I am...His loss meant losing my home, so our cat and I are currently homeless--but I've been planning for some time to advocate for our elderly and disabled homeless (a rapidly-growing part of the homeless population), so this has been an education, a blessing. So I have a purpose to focus on, that helps. I've also met some wonderful people and have made many good friends, that also helps. And I understand and can better comfort others going through the same loss. He loved my optimism and free spirit... I want to show Steve that having had him in my life--for however long--has improved my life. If I fall apart and stay in misery (I've met many people widowed for years that say they are still just a shadow of themselves, going through the motions but not really living), it would grieve him that being with him ultimately made my life worse. I ache for him always, and sometimes the knife lodged in my heart twists horribly and all I can do is sob. But his love healed and strengthened me, and I'm so grateful to have experienced intense, unconditional love--the kind so many long for. My memories of him make me smile even while crying. When we meet again, I want his first words to be, "I'm so proud of you, my darlin'." So I'm doing ok, moving forward and still finding moments of joy in life. But truthfully, I'd burn the world just to be in his arms, to laugh with him and hear his voice just one more time.

[@yvonnecarothers3310]

I am so very sorry. I know how you feel. It sounds so much like me. I also lost my husband 6 months ago. It was April 14 th this year. It was also completely unexpected! I also found him in our home. I found him when he was already dead, ( they told me later) for between 6 to 12 hours and starting to decompose. We had been married and together for 20 years. He was my best fiend, soulmate, my entire world! I'm still in shock and disbelieve this " EVER " happened!! It doesn't seem real! I LOVE my Heavenly Father. But like you. I also have many moments of dout. I pray we will find some kind of peace, and just trust in our Father and make the most of the time we have left here on earth the best we can for others and ourselves. Make our husband's proud! We both always used to say to each other.. God's Will Be Done! No matter what it looks like!. Now, I guess it's time for me to have faith in those words like I always said I did. We will see them again soon! Time flies! Let's make our husband's and ourselves proud! God bless you.❤

[@times461]

By any chance was he on a drug called Lisinopril? I ask cause that drug almost killed my hubby by stopping his breathing....it's poison and should be off market

[@teresamcmurrin8672]

@@times461 No, he was on an opioid. But due to the incompetence of the staff at his pain management clinic, his pre-authorization was not called in. He went through nearly a week's withdrawal, the last few days he was in too much pain to sleep. Since he'd withdrawn from the meds (and had gone without sleep for so long) their side effects of sedation and nausea were intensified. He basically passed out. I was relieved he was finally getting some rest and relief, and went to the other room. I put off fixing dinner, partly because I wanted to give him a bit more time to rest (and partly because I was feeling tired). But then my cat came in from the bedroom all agitated, I went in and found my world had ended...I still beat myself up for not going in when I first thought about fixing supper, maybe he'd still be alive if I hadn't put it off "just a few more minutes".

[@dennisrobinson1930]

These types of nurses deserve our love.

[@ameliaperdomo6449]

I'm halfway through your book that I preordered, and I love every minute of it! I'm an organ transplant nurse, and your stories are making me think about writing about my transplant unit experiences, even if it never reaches a publisher... Thank you for the tears and laughs ❤ I'll probably finish the book by tonight

[@bananabicycleseat6796]

Go for it! I really think you should write the book and I believe you can even self publish nowadays. You never know whose life you might change in more ways than one! I would read it for sure

[@MIP54321]

Please write a book. I'm an organ donor and would like to get the perspective of the transplant team.

[@emmathepaperquiller4263]

My 1 year old is a transplant kid, our family would love to read your stories❤

[@ChronicReader]

I would love to read this! I received a triple organ transplant 7 years ago.

[@ameliaperdomo6449]

@@ChronicReader A multi-organ transplant? :O What organs did you get, if you don't mind me asking?

[@irishka_zolotse]

When my father in law died, I did not know the time. But I was outside in my garden that day and there was that cute little brown-orange butterfly circling over me, trying to land on my face and for at least a couple of minutes... never has happened to me b4... and then I learned he passed at that same time miles and miles away from me... What was that? I think it was him saying his last good bye, we always respected each other very much. RIP Joseph! 🙏

[@lucyray829]

Reading your book just finished with Mr. Carl’s story made me cry like a baby. It’s so wonderful you’re able to touch people’s lives like this. You’re an amazing writer. Thank you for the book you’ve shared with us and for helping those in their most vulnerable moments.

[@chrissyhalliday3810]

Thank you for this video! I've sat at a few deathbeds and have held my father and his mother while they crossed over... people who have never seen this happen or experience it will never understand. Both that I held they knew and I knew there were others in the room with us and both waited till I told them it was OK and fave them messages for themselves and the people who came to greet them. I'm honored I was the person they chose to pass with but it gave me the knowledge that there is another place after this.

[@kristyb5821]

Hadley thank you so much for what you do! Any hospice nurse out there thank you for what you do. Watching the hospice nurses care for my brother in his last weeks showed me so much about how hard your job is. From the bottom of my heart thank you for everything

[@kl4888]

No fair to leave us hanging! 😊 In all honesty, please don’t give us very many cliffhangers, I don’t think we could handle it. I appreciate all your content and hope to get your book soon. Blessings to you and your family!🌸💖

[@wms72]

It's an advertisement for her book

[@lindsaybc2192]

She wants you to read her book to find out. I don't think she'd do a bunch of cliff hangers bc then people would stop watching her videos 😉

[@cindybeernink4203]

I got your book this week! About a quarter of the way in already. What a gift you and your mission are, Hadley!

[@NurseHadley]

Oh wow!! Thank you so much!!

[@lightning_elextra]

I finished this video and immediately added your book to my Amazon cart. I haven’t been watching for long, but your videos have really been helping my grief. ❤️

[@Chiffawndue]

When I was 11-12, I was having a horrible asthma attack in the middle of the night. We lived in a 2 story house at the time, and something woke my mom up. She just HAD to check on me. When she found me, my lips were blue, I couldn’t breathe. She immediately made me sit up and stay awake while giving me my nebulizer. She’s in the medical field so after she made sure my lungs were doing their job, she let me go back to sleep, and we went to the hospital a couple hours later just to make sure. We then went to a Veteran Memorial. I told my mom and grandma that I saw someone at the foot of my bed telling me I was going to be okay. I described her and both mom and mamaw immediately said that was my great grandma. A lady that had passed 5 years before I was born. I don’t remember and I wish I did, but I do believe she was there. I believe she woke up my mom, and I believe she was there to comfort me.

[@StephaniePereaGarcia]

I’m on Chapter 6 and I’ve cried more than I’ve ever cried with any book 😭 Hadley thank you for sharing your experiences and for making a difference in the world. You’ve inspired me and given me hope as a single momma myself. Thank you for reassuring me that there’s good still here in our world and there’s something to look forward to after passing ❤

[@QueenOfDarkness93]

I didn't know she had a book!! What's it called?

[@StephaniePereaGarcia]

@@QueenOfDarkness93 it’s called The In-Between and it’s one of the best books I’ve ever read so far! This clip is from her book. She reads some of it at 1:19 I highly recommended it but make sure you have tissues because it’s a tear jerker!

[@Rosierose832]

as someone that can see people that are stuck on earth it is so loving to see people checking up on there loved ones

[@foodlover8078]

This chapter made me cry. I couldn’t believe it. I’m still reading it and so far is such a wonderful book. I hope you consider writing another one ❤

[@annasala957]

I just ordered your book; I can’t wait to read it. Thank you for your work. The hospice nurse who took care of my grandfather was a true god send.

[@grumpyoldlady_rants]

I was scared of death. I never wanted to be around someone dying. Then I read the book “Final Gifts” and it erased any fear I had of death and an afterlife. I read it when my uncle was dying. We were very close and I was struggling with it. Reading that book gave me insights that allowed me to be present up until the day he passed.

[@RonPaul-x1v]

I’m so thankful that you are doing this my sister was in hospice she was in a vegetation state for Five years her last days were hard but the nurses made it easier

[@Tommy.McLean]

I'm almost done reading your book and it is so good. So very well written and truly inspirational. Thank you so much for that gem

[@southboundpookoderm9802]

I’ve been hooked on listening to your book on Audible! It’s made me tear up multiple times. I also got pregnant at 19, but I did make the choice that you did not make. Your story really resonates with me and you are an amazing person! I absolutely love your stories of your patients. You are a great storyteller. I’m listening about Albert right now and laughed with them when you asked for the ID and bank statements since I work with the homeless population as well 💖

[@dmgrosas]

Hadley, I just got home from visiting my mom in another state and your book had arrived. My mom is on Hospice. I love the videos you have posted. They have helped educate me so much. Thank you and thank you for your persistence in getting your book published. I look forward to starting it today.

[@loriijanee]

prayint

[@karenpierson360]

I knew this came on my feed for a reason. My mother in law who was like my mother in every way passed away on 10/19/18. The night before, her husband came to get her my sister in law was with me and we actually heard him walking through the house towards her room. Tomorrow will be 5 years, I miss her every single day but glad she is back with her husband.

[@bbb8182]

I'm afraid I may not make it much longer and so your videos are do soothing and moving to me. A friend was a hospice nurse and she saw many wonders.

[@miabarber1635]

Loved the book. Listened to it in 1 sitting on Audible. Just couldn't pause it. You are beautiful and compassionate Hadley.

[@martialartsmomma1847]

I appreciate your channel. I am a believer in the afterlife and in Christ(heaven).

[@caramiajen8]

I just ordered your book and I absolutely cannot wait to read it. You are amazing and what you do is such a gift

[@JenFunPants]

Just received your new book today! Thank you for all the comfort you provide.

[@persee-q7o]

I listened to your audiobook and it was so nice that you narrated it. Your voice is so soothing.❤ You're so beautiful and ur husband is so beautiful too 😅 You guys are so cute together! Love ur book!

[@yourlocalmarvelfan6211]

Oh my gosh Hadley!!!!!!!!!! I just finished your book and its amazing!!!! Thank you for sharing your stories about working in hospice care.

[@leahsims641]

Aweee ❤ your videos are heartwarming and so inspirational! I’ve thought my whole life that I want to be a NICU nurse but you’re slowly changing my mind, convincing me to me a hospice nurse. Love your videos ❤

[@NurseHadley]

Thank you so much! NICU nurses are so amazing too!

[@giraffeNana2023]

@watermelon, WOW! What a tough decision. Helping those just entering life, or those leave this earth. My daughter, was my miracle, after losing 3 through various stages of pregnancy, and being told I would not be able to carry a baby, and even though I went through a VIOLENT separation from her father/my husband, she was about 8 wks early and spent 17 days in NICU(they thought it would be several months) I've had several family members in Hospice Care, and thank The Lord for the Love and Care they were given. I KNOW where they are because of their Faith in Jesus as Lord. Whichever you choose, I wish you the best 🤗❤️🙏🏻

[@leahsims641]

@@NurseHadley OMG!!! YOU REPLIED!!!

[@leahsims641]

@@giraffeNana2023 ❤️❤️💕

[@just_me45]

I just purchased your book and it was so good I finished the book in 1 day and I teared up SEVERAL times. You are truly an inspiration and thanks to you I think I have finally found my purpose.

[@lalaprice4254]

I can just imagine the "long line of people" fighting for first spot for that hug. It'll end up as a group hug, I bet! Touchy feely tears here.

[@lifewithkrissie4010]

I had never heard of you before Hadley but I just lost my mom on New Year’s Day. Her passing was unexpected but the strange thing is she had sent me some of your videos exactly 2 months before she left us so I think maybe she knew somehow. Watching your videos has brought me some comfort and hope that I’ll see her again one day. Thank you. ❤️ I’ll definitely be reading your book.

[@Jumperchick11]

I haven’t ever really considered becoming a nurse. You are making me reconsider and going into hospice care!

[@4EverWolfLover]

Bought your book last month and am eagerly waiting for it to arrive, I can't wait!! I'm going into nursing in the fall and found your videos earlier this year, I didn't know what specialty I wanted to do but after watching you the most obvious choice for me is hospice!! Thank you so much for everything you do, you're truly an inspiration 💕💕💕💕

[@whathappened1284]

Hadley, you got me. I love your videos, I end up with tears in my eyes so often. I just bought your book and I can’t wait to read it. ❤

[@jeanettehurley2437]

Hadley, Thank you for writing such a beautiful book and sharing your experiences with us. I am grateful for the hospice care givers who have touched my life. have shared the video you did explaining grief and time with many friends. ❤

[@444_Spiders_n_Swans]

Hadley, It NEVER ends.

[@franciannecollson7427]

I'm reading your beautiful book. I think I'll give a copy to each of my children. I share these views on life and death and hope it gives them comfort when my turn comes. Thank you so much for writing the book and sharing these videos ❣️

[@tickley42]

I bought this book for my mom and myself to read together for her birthday this year. We both tore through it at record speed. I absolutely loved every chapter, but this was probably my favorite. 💜

[@andromeda7758]

I just finished your book (audible) and it was absolutely amazing

[@ghiansudelo2590]

My grandma died 1.5 years before my mom and I know my grandma visited my mom because when I tried to tell her what happened, she already knew. I hope both of them are taking care of me now.

[@EofBrokenSilence]

Just read this chapter in your book! Just started reading your book today and i want to say, you are someone special. Im almost 60 and have met many, many people in my life, and people like you are extremely rare. Just know, there is a God and heaven and hell are real. The patients you write about know this for sure 😊😊

[@guestguest2030]

I just finished your book last night. I enjoyed it a great deal. I am thinking of purchasing copies to give as gifts. I hope there will be a sequel. If so, I'd buy it. Wishing you and your family the best.

[@christineschexnayder9582]

Your book came in last week. Gave it to my volunteer fireman husband for Father’s Day yesterday and he’s already started reading. I’ll patiently wait for my turn to read the end of this story.

[@Ivaana3110]

Every single video of yours makes me cry❤

[@melanie_meanders]

just purchased the audiobook after finding out you narrated it!!! you should make a short about the fact it’s narrated by you. that makes audiobooks better than physical ones for me!

[@beckykay9178]

As a Christian, I just can’t imagine facing death without faith. Though nobody knows for sure what happens after death, we can trust God that it will make this life pale in comparison. ❤ I am not afraid!

[@mix0nix]

Peaceful unconscious nothingness sounds very promising to me. You can say I don't have religious faith but i do have faith in that.

[@angelkittygurl7122]

These video always almost make me cry but also make me less scared for the forever sleep 😊

[@moviemogul83]

Listened to your book in a day and a half. Was riveting. Amazing work!

[@NurseHadley]

Oh wow!! Thank you so much! That means the world to me

[@quasimodo614]

Well done with this video, so much time to do this ❤

[@janedewarray3970]

I worked long-term care for almost 40 years, the last 32 as à nurse. I read your book and loved it. People would ask me "can't you get a job in the hospital". I told them I wanted to make their last days the best they could be. There were people over the years that I just wasn't done talking with.

[@loriijanee]

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[@Sunchybunch]

This is how a healthy mind protects us from fearing death. It is a beautiful story, but the brain is a remarkable thing, something that can trigger memories, hallucinations, emotions. It's also something we can study and quantify. Everything else is just a story without evidence. I was a hospice nurse also. There has never been divine intervention but rather a physiological process that prepares minds to leave this world with as little upset as possible. When death comes at the end of a natural life, seeing long lost relatives and feeling love make passing easier for those leaving and those around them who must cope with the loss. Our brains are capable of doing this for us.

[@melissanycca]

Who would so lovingly design our brains to do something so kind to us?

[@fate7418]

This makes me tear up, every story like this just gives me so much hope! I already believe there is a heaven and that I will go there when I die… I don’t know when and I’m still scared, but it’ll be a day when I will be overjoyed to leave the earth

[@susanstetson3435]

Just ordered my copy can’t wait to read it. As a parent whose lost an adult child I’m so hopeful.

[@NurseHadley]

Thank you so much! I hope it helps. I am so sorry mama

[@susanstetson3435]

@@NurseHadley Thank you, I truly believe he is in a far better place.

[@Skittles101487]

Well now you got me crying I've gotta go order this book!

[@KH-nt7ej]

Nurse here. Most of my palliative patients that pass at home talk about going home. Their loved ones are confused telling them they are at home. I am convinced they mean their spiritual home.

[@BrianRollman]

The book is amazing I could not put it down. Cried laughed learned but more than anything grew In my acceptance of death. I feel everyone should take a second and read this book.

[@kelliquinn1342]

Your approach to it all is so authentic❤

[@amydecker6207]

Please keep posting your videos. They are a blessing.

[@5Gburn]

Today is the ten-year anniversary of my father's celestial birthday. I didn't get to see him at the end, but I know he had more faith in his pinky finger than most people have in their whole bodies. He called death "the end of the beginning." I know he would've appreciated a hospice nurse like you.

[@storytimewithemily]

Just got your audiobook Hadley you are a beautiful person and I always love these stories they give me hope and peace thank you Hadley bless you !💗

[@NurseHadley]

Thank you so so much!

[@RedCherry-kv5pm]

This video showed up on the day of a celebration of life ... ❤️ Thank you

[@unloader1]

Just got your book, absolutely amazing i couldn't put it down. Thank you for sharing your experiences!

[@Ajg97]

I'm waiting for your audiobook from my library. And I just discovered your channel mb a week ago. I was amazed at the waiting list for it! I've seen very few books with such long waits.

[@Boxytoast]

I've wanted to be a nurse for a long while and a hospise nurse for quite some time but I'm scared and your videos help show what it would be like thank you

[@robertlong3561]

I was out of town when your book arrived. So I just started reading it two days ago. You should know that I’ve bought books and never opened the cover. But I find it difficult to put yours down. I’ve been limiting myself to a chapter per day (to make it last, I suppose). I am so invested in your patients’ stories, as well as yours.

[@Godhealsnatureheals]

I’m soo happy It’s on audible!! Is it narrated by you? You have such a calming voice and I’ve been going through another of severe fear of death and pain and I’d love to hear it

[@jesst9473]

Just got my book in the mail today!!!💖💖💖 Can't wait to start reading it!🤗❤❤❤

[@NurseHadley]

Yay!! Thank you! I hope you love it 🩵

[@laurfred2742]

I am loving your book so far!

[@NurseHadley]

I'm so glad! Thank you for reading and buying!

[@susanfurlong4048]

My sister passed in July 2021. Several days later I was waking from General Anesthesia. She appeared to me saying "Susan, it so beautiful here, you will love it". I saw tge beauty & felt the Peace. I asked if I could stay. Was disappointed when told "No".

[@morningdove8397]

I loved your book. Couldn't put it down. :)

[@DarthStardust89]

I lost my daughter to cancer. When she was actively dying, I was trying to keep her focusing on me and she kept refusing and pointing to something past me and saying "I want to go over there." I have had multiple supernatural experiences since then that have confirmed that it is not a matter of "if" there is an afterlife. There "is" and there "is" a higher power.

[@stephenp.5377]

These are such lovely videos. Thank you. It was just a bit tough to hear the voices on this one, unfortunately. But again, really lovely.

[@gilliankingston8259]

Your book sounds beautiful.

[@toddbailey570]

Your book just arrived today, can't wait to dive in!

[@NurseHadley]

Yay!! Thank you so much for buying and reading- means the world to me!

[@ursamajor7468]

I'm going to believe the book cover and not the entire book was upside down at the end. I love these videos and I will buy the book even if I hear all of the stories in the videos. I started Nursing School when I was 48 years old because I had run into dozens of people who had died with unfinished business, or not having a chance to unload before crossing. It was amazing and strange and wonderful helping these "dead" people but I wanted to be able to help people to die well so they didn't have difficulties in death. Unfortunately my health took a turn so i didn't become a Hospice Nurse and I have only helped a few "dead" people since that time.

[@lilianamendive6222]

My husband died 5 years ago at 50. If he comes to get me I will go happily!

[@JamesCappleman]

I worked as a hospice social worker and after some experience, I was able to tell when people were seeing things in the room that I couldn't see. Most of them were not in a state of deliriousness at the time, and so once I acknowledged that I believed them, the patients would often talk about seeing dead people near the ceiling and also outside the window. I also noticed they were often hesitant to say anything to their family members because they didn't want to scare them. What finally convinced me was a neighbor whose father had died. Afterwards, her aunt with dementia (her father's sister) asked my friend about her brother (my friend's father). My friend explained to her aunt that her dad had passed away a few months before, but the aunt said that couldn't be true because she frequently got visits from him when he appeared outside her window. She never knew he had died, yet she was getting visits from him.

[@linn.nahlen]

hey! my grandmother died a few months ago, she was my lifesaver, I really do miss her! She was the one I could call in the middle of the night when I had my panic attacks, she always sang songs to me and told me abt things she saw of the afterlife, a few years ago I randomly looked outside and saw someone outside the window floating, but I was not scared, it was my grandmothers dad I belive, I had never seen him before but it was like he somehow told me it was him.👼 I just started watching ur videos but they really helps, I have hope that I will maybe see her someday as a spirit of in the after-life!🤍🤍 A few weeks after she passed I saw a orb, a little energy ball that came right infront of me, I was alone and first I got a little scared but it just felt like all my problems, pain, bad memories and more just flew away, and at that moment I knew it was her!🤎🤎 She passed peacefully and just a few seconds after we ended the call w our mom who was with our grandmother, she passed. But we got to tell her everything we wanted, and when we told her I had got autism, she got so peacefull and she let go, do u think I will ever see her again?🤗

[@smileycricket1]

Yes, I believe you will see her again. ❤️❤️🫂 She's still your grandmother and she loves you. ❤️🫂

[@loreman7267]

That bit about wanting to be first in line to hug her - really got to me.

[@tati_ko147]

Now I have to get your book!

[@Lashlove16]

I never thought hospice was a good idea . Recently my grandmother past away at home with hospice. I was there with all her kids . It’s a very respectful way with loved ones . You are doing gods work

[@brendasaunders4956]

My Granma passed in 1986 and I had a dream of her.. she had her weight back on and the house dresses she used to wear.. there were two people.. one on each side of her gently holding her elbows in her hand was a purse she gave to me in my dream.. amazing, though.. because I have the purse in my dresser.. she told me to go on.. and that she’d see me when I got home. I will never forget the dream.. and I guessed the HOME part meant Heaven I am still touched by this moment

[@SusanLu59]

My mom passed three years ago, and near the end she told one of her nurses that Gerry, (my deceased dad) was there to make sure they left together. A couple of days layer she passed.

[@MohaAsmr]

omg this was the fastest i ever downloaded an ebook ever

[@ajsmama18]

I JUST read this story in your book YESTERDAY.