Older female dating expert begs women to not be so picky when it comes to men and dating

[@redneckroy8947]

I am not "intimidated" by 'strong' women. I find women who think they are "strong" are insufferable.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

daddy issues always come from strong independent women, look at African American women and see how single they are compared to any other race, anytime the women calls herself strong or queen etc, they are telling you they have problems in their life and that you should take the red flag.

[@randyjones3050]

It's not that we find them intimidating...we just think they are unattractive.

[@deanchur]

@@mjgII Amen. If you have to tell someone you're something, you're not.

[@SoulTouchMusic93]

Strong women only are "strong" when nothing of consequence happens. They're just being in your face giving you an attitude because nothing is gonna happen to them. When something bad really happens all their strength is out the window.

[@davester1970]

If you have to tell the world that you are strong and independent, there is an excellent chance you are not!

[@rockeroller]

In 2023, a woman with a University degree is not a measure of intelligence. It is a measure of indoctrination.

[@ma3stro681]

Bingo!

[@Juan-os4hs]

And an indication of poor financial decision making.

[@marcmeinzer8859]

If you add up the numbers when you get 62% attending college that includes substantial numbers of people who are of below average intelligence. College was originally meant for the intellectually gifted who are only 5% of the population, or not the majority. That’s how you get all of these women doing 2 year nursing degrees then eventually refusing to work once they realize what a shitty dogsbody job nursing can be. And that’s not even the bottom of the pile. The real bottom feeders are the ones who go onto social work where they’ve got some ridiculous civil service position dealing with dysfunctional losers all day long.

[@TheFredmac]

Hoop jumpers.

[@k.chriscaldwell4141]

You are wise. Very wise. Marriage, men?! Don't do it. It's a trap.

[@MrBiggles53]

A LOT of college indoctrinated women NEVER consider blue collar men as … anything but drones.

[@robertstanley980]

The irony is they are the drones.

[@jayare2583]

I'm a custodian in schools, so I'm surrounded by them. They think they are perfect yet they lack common sense, are slobs and have mental problems. It's funny they think they are better than everyone.

[@DuncanL7979]

Imagine thinking the people actually producing real things and providing real services in the economy are expendable, while also being so blind to their own lack of utility.

[@meganm9600]

I'm a college graduate, university drop out entrepreneur business owner and I am drawn to manly men doing manly jobs. I'm not attracted to a guy in a suit.

[@Powerhaus88]

@@meganm9600 and even if you're being completely honest you might either change your mind one day based on how you're feeling, and even if you stay true, you're in an incredibly small minority

[@TheMightyDevilLuis]

Remember, women are not looking for love, they are looking for help. Time to wake up to reality.

[@danielledavis8580]

women are definitely looking for love.

[@captaintony1227]

​@@danielledavis8580love with stipulations! you might get a good one here or there. i was lucky to find my wife but most women say they want love but they mostly just want to find someone who fits the mold they are looking for.

[@maximebegin1454]

@theformidabletruth ?what... oh got it for an hand job

[@maximebegin1454]

@@danielledavis8580 bs... so why they ask so much questions? look for love lol

[@markthomas6436]

While going through divorce in 2008, I read Dr. Laura Schlessinger's book, "The Care and Feeding of Husbands." Among other wise observations, she said men are simple creatures. Not stupid, but not complicated. She told women that if they wanted a happy marriage, they should do three things. First, greet your husband with a big hug and kiss, like he's the best guy ever. Second, cook the foods he likes. Third, screw his socks off! Never have a headache and never reject him! Schlessinger said that if women treated their husbands like this, they would crawl through broken glass for their wives. But as we know, women don't want to appear subservient. They don't care about happy marriages.

[@John_Wood_]

100

[@joaocosta3374]

Imagine a woman doing that because she wants to?

[@HankChang]

lol, it took a book to understand that and they call us complicated?

[@danielledavis8580]

where's your evidence that women don't care about happy marriages? and how does all of that make a woman feel subservient? all of that sounds fine with me. i love to greet my man that way, and it's a huge thrill to see him enjoy the food that i love cooking for him. i can't screw when i have a headache, though. and my man wouldn't want me to. it's more fun when we both enjoy it, which is pretty much every day. respectfully, danielle

[@markthomas6436]

@@danielledavis8580 Your husband is truly blessed! My own marriage was the opposite. My wife fixed my mom's spaghetti sauce once in 25 years. No sex since 1995. Refused joint counseling when our priest urged it. Said I was 95% responsible for all the problems in our marriage.

[@mgtowbylogic5592]

No one cares about female problems anymore. Setting your life up to try to solve female problems is a Sisyphean task. She’s a bottomless pit of ever increasing expectations. Focus on yourself, gents.

[@thelasthourgetready]

And ever increasing problems

[@dpstrial]

Agree. This is why I don't care about transgenders stealing the trophies in women's sports. Let them fight their own causes.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

🎯

[@rick2591]

Funny you mention the bottomless pit. That is not a pleasant place.

[@redshark9537]

I have found that women don't want their problems solved. They want to whine. Solve their problem and they just replace it with a fresh one. What they're looking for is a pair of ears. Just nod and say, "That's tough" or "I'm sorry." That's easier, safer, and more likely to work.

[@babblingalong7689]

This message from the dating expert is cute & all, but as long as it's dangerous to be around women and the divorce laws don't change, it's not going to help.

[@paugasolina5048]

exactly. but then again. if divorce law changed i doubt women would be willing to bond with men at all.

[@Kevin-qj7fp]

Messages spoken to warn Are all in vain if society doesn't change If it doesn't change Then all the words women speak will fall on deaf ears You might as well speak words filled with sweet nectar but as sharp enough to cut the heart

[@tiefblau2780]

*This* *is* *what* *I* *faced,* dont have regrets its the worse you can do to yourself. ​ @highroller-jq3ix : Really? Enslaved women were free? @tiefblau2780 : Oh so what you going to bring 1000 years of *Sorrow?* *of* *history* *that* *a* *Handful* *of* *Men* *made?* What about the Men that protected Women through history? *What* *about* *the* *Men* *that* *Advocate* *for* *Women?* Tbh its a *Mistake* *that* *Men* *Protected,* *From* *now* *on* *it* *will* *be* *FairFree.* Dw that Ability of your is not hard to replicate.

[@Kevin-qj7fp]

Women might as well be the devil trying to get men to sacrifice their livelihood And no man wants that fear Your words do nothing to prevent the inevitable

[@MrOgyny]

Came to say just that.

[@richardjohnson4052]

I have walked out on a number of dates: 1) she spent all the time on her phone so I left the table, paid for the drinks and cancelled my dinner, leaving her to pay for her own dinner or face whatever punishment the restaurant imposes. 2) She never stopped taking about how evil men were so I went to the 'restroom', called the waitress over, cancelled my dinner and left her to deal with the bill. 3) She treated the waitress like shit. I left the table, paid for the drinks, tipped the waitress well and apologized, then left. In both cases I explained to the waitress that I did not come here to be attacked and ignored and she could tell my 'date' that. Entitles bitches never understand why they are abandoned.

[@philmullins136]

I giv

[@philmullins136]

I give you my respect. Best wishes to you.

[@michaelsix9684]

great job, last date I had in 2001, all the girl did was complain for 45 min. -- this was just lunch! wish I'd never asked her out, she is married now, age 60 and looks old, glad she passed me up

[@holdfast7182]

What this female "dating expert" is not taking into consideration is that any degreed woman who marries a guy without a degree will end up resenting her husband.

[@donventura2116]

That's only if she continues thinking in the paradigm of "only quality men have a degree". In which case she would never marry the guy if she thought such things. An educated woman willing to marry a non-educated man would be prioritizing intelligence over a degree and wouldn't necessarily resent him for not excelling in academia.

[@kevinjcallahan3438]

Then no degreed woman should marry. I've heard that Anita Hill, the founder of coercive office sexual harassment training, bemoans the statistic that so many black degreed women are single. Shocking

[@holdfast7182]

@@kevinjcallahan3438 You're probably right. 90% of divorces among women with college degrees are instigated by the woman with the degree. They're always monkey branching.

[@danielledavis8580]

negative. i have a degree and i'm with a blue collar worker who is a real man, and i have total respect for him. he's just as smart as i am, and we both respect each other for our different skills.

[@holdfast7182]

@@danielledavis8580 Good for you, seriously. You're very much an exception to what I've encountered.

[@octaviusmoonfire7355]

The funny thing is that feminism is actually making women more equal. They now have learn to date down, like men, learn to provide for themselves, like men, and ultimately they are going to find nobody cares about them, like men.

[@Juan-os4hs]

And know that they now have to work at a minimum to age 55 (private job relatedretirement) , and possibly to 65,66,67,68 (SSI), depending on when you were born.

[@TheFredmac]

​@@Juan-os4hs assuming she has some financial discipline.

[@Juan-os4hs]

@@TheFredmac 😃😄😆😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@Brentaaron300]

😅😅😅

[@k.chriscaldwell4141]

Yeah, but there ain't no feminists in divorce court. Marriage, men?! Don't do it. It's a trap.

[@savvy1221]

I love how women can be doing better than ever before in history and still complain about a patriarchy

[@SoloRenegade]

if patriarchy existed, Women wouldn't be able to vote, hold public office, own a business outside the home, sleep around, join the military, etc.

[@michaelsorensen7567]

I mean, they're actually NOT doing better than ever, as evidenced by still being unhappy. They're just scoring higher on metrics that feminists have told them they should value.

[@rambomoore381]

No, they are actually worse off than ever but not due to the patriarchy, but due to themselves and feminism.

[@driiifter]

@@michaelsorensen7567 If you bring this up it's almost always met with "mind your own business" or mansplaining or whatever deflection, because they think it's an attack, rather than an offering.

[@michaelsorensen7567]

@@driiifter 100%. Just wanted to point it out for anyone who's forgotten, I know sometimes I get so caught up in propagandist framing that I forget to look at reality from the outside view. How can anyone say women are doing the best ever when over half are on psychiatric meds?

[@eQuariuz]

They aren't "picky", they're spoiled and ruined. Calling them and letting them call themselves "picky" is just another way to let them excuse their behavior.

[@Josh-py9rq]

@The Formidable Truth calm down the adults are in the room

[@joshk942]

What u say is so true, they'll put themselves in the same category as picky eaters and say I'm just special

[@TheGr8-1]

Exactly. ‘Picky’ gimme a break.

[@garyz5456]

They deserve to be picky. They have to give birth and carry your baby for nine months. That baby will have your genetics, IQ, looks etc. Thats 90% of their concern.

[@eQuariuz]

@@garyz5456 You missed the whole point, simp.

[@mikepasserotti4262]

37 years ago, a fantastic woman chose to join me on a journey when I wasn't rich, had no big career path, had no fantastic car. Through all our work together, college studies, raising kids, learning financial self-control, vacations tent camping on the cheap, romantic dates at the local park because it was free, you bet she earned my loyalty year after year. Women need to learn how to identify potential instead of looking for finished product. Our house and car let's

[@Fuckyoutubecensorship1]

If you weren't good enough for her in her prime, don't save her in her decline.

[@scottevans2685]

T-shirt meme, bro!

[@jyeshta8357]

amazing comment, i totally agree

[@donaldhenderson1870]

She wouldn't want you in her decline. It is very hard to go from riches to rags.

[@williamlevy6964]

@@donaldhenderson1870 They want that marriage as an insurance policy though. Alpha fux beta bux. That's what girl gossip is. Now no man wants to marry them. Big surprise. Guess what else? No man wants to commit to an employer. Another big surprise.

[@sieman78]

@@donaldhenderson1870 In ''the decline''....those ''riches'' don't have the same appeal/value it did before.

[@Administrator7]

even 4 foot tall, overweight, tatted, single moms have high standards.

[@playthegame7445]

To many simps around, giving free attention.

[@johnpopoff7950]

She deserves it in her mind.

[@JJJ115583]

her body shows that she's got tremendous, humungous, ginormous, giant.......NEEDS

[@TrollX-cg5lf]

4 foot tall, overweight, tatted, single moms are low value to most 'non simp' men & are delusional to think otherwise.. their 'high standards' are their deluded internal assessments of themselves to validate themselves.. only women do this, ask a real man for the truth he sees.. sure, they'll bang her but then they're gone, no wife up for her..

[@ryant282a]

"You better be at least 6'4", have at least a 9" long member, make $100k bare minimum, and take care of me and all my kids! Not settling!!"

[@dg271]

A degree in something bogus isn't really "high achieving", it's a participation trophy. Neither are the diversity quota jobs.

[@espada9]

Agreed, I'm a senior engineer and project manager in the biotech industry and I don't even have a STEM degree. I manage large projects staffed with engineers with masters degrees (mechanical and chemical engineers). I worked with a guy from Guatemala who looks like a fat gardener who now owns a contract engineering firm and he's worth millions, no college degree at all but his firm provides engineering and regulatory services for top biotech and pharmaceutical companies. A BA in sociology or gender studies is laughable.

[@1notgilty]

What? You don't think an advanced degree in Underwater Basket Weaving or Lesbian Dance Theory are "high achieving"? You obviously aren't "woke" enough. No university or government jobs for you!

[@andrewrees6618]

So true. I postulated 30 years ago that this would be where we have gone and I was, as expected, denigrated for it.

[@DTraiN5795]

Yup exactly and as a college graduate myself in engineering I dated serval women in that time. I could do their homework at times bc I was a simp and get them at least a B without even going to class. It was easy af and took very little time comparatively to mine. They would complain about it. I would laugh and be like try mine. Maybe I wasn’t a simp to the max degree looking back but definitely bluepilled way before this term was around. The first movie came out around the time I finished school

[@ianswift3521]

@@espada9 "I worked with a guy from Guatemala who looks like a fat gardener" lol there's not many other kinds. Oscar Isaac maybe Lol.

[@augustodelerme7233]

Men Guarding Their Own Wallets ✊

[@paulcarmi8130]

I just blow through it all so there’s nothing left. Problem…solved? This is a joke.

[@mr.awesome6011]

​@@paulcarmi8130 Better you than them

[@tiefblau2780]

*This* *is* *what* *I* *faced,* dont have regrets its the worse you can do to yourself. ​ @highroller-jq3ix : Really? Enslaved women were free? @tiefblau2780 : Oh so what you going to bring 1000 years of *Sorrow?* *of* *history* *that* *a* *Handful* *of* *Men* *made?* What about the Men that protected Women through history? *What* *about* *the* *Men* *that* *Advocate* *for* *Women?* Tbh its a *Mistake* *that* *Men* *Protected,* *From* *now* *on* *it* *will* *be* *FairFree.* Dw that Ability of your is not hard to replicate.

[@doshutokeshi3877]

If this was a Tshirt I would buy it

[@OrwellsHousecat]

🎯

[@solrosenberg4529]

I love how “high achieving women” was used instead of “old woman with baggage and a bad attitude”

[@tobydulanski3000]

I spent 27 years with my wife and we were a team. When she was diagnosed with fatal cancer we were still a team. We have had plenty, we have struggled. We valued each other. We did all aspects of life together. The real relationships start with FRIENDSHIP!!!! For Better, Or Worse, In Sickness, and In Health.

[@nathanielalderson9111]

If I had money I'd bet you the same would not have been applied to you if you lost your job or got a fatal disease. All due respect to your love.

[@CV-br1eu]

What we are all looking for your were blessed to have found, you won the lotto brother. Our young women are misguided, in the end they wanted none of this, its a shame, we need to teach our daughters better.

[@TheSanityMachine33]

27 years is a long time. Things have changed drastically since then.

[@silverdale3207]

Sorry to here that mate, also lost mine to that horrible bloody disease , as you say we were a good team because we were friends for ten years before we started dating. I always thought she was gorgeous and wondered how the hell I managed to end up with her. Losing her was the hardest thing I've ever dealt with. Hope you're doing ok now.

[@a226sig]

Imagine battling men at work all day only to have to come home to battle your boss girl wife. You young men are lucky to have this info we didn't 20 years ago.

[@balleraap007]

For real

[@kylel7158]

For sure, but we should be sticking together as brothers not fighting each other; unless I'm taking that too literally lol

[@ignatiusreilly8280]

This hits home. All I wanted to do was to love and take care of my ex g/f, but she wanted to run things like a little dictator. Also I think her voice is deafening because her skull is shaped a little like a loud speaker. I was so miserable that I stopped wanting to return home after work and we eventually split. Did she just need someone to shriek at and also pay the bills? Sorry, I'm not putting up with that.

[@GTA2SWcity]

Reminds me of the cop car footage and the guy who was arrested started singing and shit. The cop who was driving was all like "what are you so happy for?" "I get to GET AWAY from my WIFE for 24 hours!"

[@bradhenderson3452]

After my divorce and before I found a good wife, I went to a dating event as moral support for a friend of mine. We got split up and I got assigned to a table with 2 middle management pukes and three 30ish women. I was dressed fairly casual, the other 2 guys had their best suits on. They were both taller than me (I'm 5'8") and I was basically ignored completely by the women. I was fine with that since I didn't really want to be there in the first place. By the time dessert was being served, the conversation had died down as the two simps had taken their shot and failed miserably. At this point one of the chicks graced me with her attention and asked what I did for a living. I happily admitted that I was in my 3rd year of a 5 year Union Electrician's Apprenticeship. INSTANTLY 3 pairs of eyes focused on me with the interest of a starving vulture. One of the harpy's broke down my entire wage and benefit package to the letter. I made an obvious assumption and asked if she had a dad or brother in the trade? Her answer hit me like a bucket of cold water. "No, when you are my age (31) you find the careers that will support the life you want and then you find a guy with that career". I could literally see them making the calculations on how they'd have to adjust their desires to fit me in, in order to take advantage of my future income and benefits. I noped out of there as fast as I could. One of them actually followed me to the door asking for my number. Oh, HELL no!

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

I should be shocked at women's vulgar predatory behavior but I'm not. Evil Beings.

[@TheFrmx]

Tell me you don't learn lessons with out saying. You don't have a good wife, you have a well behaved one for now. Men are sad af, in a few years you will be doing it all again.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Former IBEW union worker here. Did the IT thing for a few years as well Now in the solar trades. The wages and benefits are not comparable to union wages unless prevailing rate jobs which I get a lot of. Looking to get out but not without an exit plan. Divorced as well. As far as the women? I've gotten that calculated 21 questions about counting my income. I shut that $hit down real fast now that I know better.

[@mowtivatedmechanic1172]

Thanks for the reminder brother. I straight up lie about my profession otherwise I’d get pounced on by those hyena’s.

[@tino5735]

At least she's honest about what she's after I guess. More than most of them can say anymore

[@spidalack]

What really gets me is how they have all those "standards", but if men talk about our preferences, we're sexist!

[@hairymotter5455]

it's to distract us from their ridiculous demands

[@BrianOblivionB]

Hypocrisy is painful.

[@copcuffs9973]

No LTR 🚩, 🏳️‍🌈, 👿, 🤰,👩‍👧‍👦, 🐖 pregnant/ single moms, 304's ♀️😰🤯🙍🏻‍♀️ What! You don't want another man's leftovers ⁉️

[@francisdhomer5910]

I can hold my peace any longer as my dad would have said. the part where she said, "Men for some reason don't put in the work they need to heal themselves, women often will." I have to strongly disagree. I ended my marriage of 25 years because I couldn't take it anymore. For 15 years I tried to fix our marriage. I got her to go to counseling twice. The last time the first two appointments went great. She got to say everything that was wrong with me. I admit I'm not perfect. The third time the therapist wanted to talk about her, and what he was seeing the problem was. That was it. Afterwards she said he was going to blame her for everything. I continued trying to fix me, correct what I thought was wrong and what I was doing wrong. And yes, I did do some things wrong. But I wanted to much. What did I want? Affection. Feeling like I was wanted. To be held. To feel like we were two who were one. She did not think she was doing anything wrong. I started to see I was being mentally abused. I decided we were done. But I'm not the only one. How many of you men can tell the same story? As a Medic on an ambulance, I have seen a lot. If I had stayed married, I would have celebrated 32 years this year. Been fighting cancer for the past 3 years so it has given me time to think and look inside. I'm doing better. The men i met while being a medic and what Joker has said is true, most of us are looking for a partner we can do things with sit back and enjoy the small things in life and just care for each other. Us men are finding out, except possibly for the affection part, that we don't need women. We can go out with our male friends and do things. Women have shown us that, Thanks gal, enjoy what you have created.

[@LisaMarie-eh7up]

Hello Francis, I’m sorry you went through such a difficult time. Reading this made me sad. I hope you’re able to find some people who you can truly connect with. Much love.

[@John_Wood_]

Couldn't agree more - they are cold blooded. All a man want is a bit of warmth, a hot dinner and the odd lay.

[@BeamRider100]

You could be kind, attractive, good sense of humour, have a good job, and she will still think of something they don't like.

[@danielledavis8580]

every human being on this earth can think of something they don't like about every other human being. it's better not to focus on what we don't like about a person, and try to focus on their strengths and beauty and bring that out more, rather than try to change the person's "bad" attributes. it's interesting to me how much hypocrisy there is within these comments. so many men saying they want this or that in a woman (or don't want this or that), nitpicking things about women (like wanting only women with no kids or "baggage." everyone has baggage, literally everyone. even children). i wish more of you would go out into the world with an open mind, and get off the internet. there are so many wonderful women who are lonely and would happily love you. respectfully, danielle

[@psychoholicslag4801]

Their hypergamous nature and misandric tendencies combined with narcissism and BPD make for one messed up societal milieu.

[@veng3r663]

Can't thank Eve enough for 'setting the pattern' for all her daughters TO follow...

[@civilizationmeansdomestica929]

You forgot "histrionic" on your ACCURATE list.

[@Kevin-qj7fp]

Men are designed to spread the seed Women are designed to birth the baby So in retrospect men are designed to sow the seeds to many While women are designed to birth the babies for humanity to flourish

[@thelasthourgetready]

Lol total chaos

[@derikuk2967]

Brutal demographics will see to it that the *societal milieu* is replaced with one that values children and families. The future belongs to those who show up for it.

[@Felale]

She presented it completely incorrectly by claiming the women have to stoop to the low achieving men. A woman's value is not from a career at all.

[@gorkyd7912]

I think the perspective is purely focused on the perceived social class that comes with the "high-achieving" label. As in a "high-achieving" lady will have to accept a "low-achieving" man. It's phrased that way because the message is for high achieving women because that's how they see it. In reality a lot of the "low-achieving" men are just people who didn't waste years of their lives getting degrees that they don't need. Sometimes they even earn more, but the work is considered lowly by the standards established by intellectuals.

[@kaizerk4321]

the hubris and ego levels are too high

[@whenpigsfly8178]

They're the men that they were afraid of relying upon. Hope it works out for you, ladies.

[@kengaroo5170]

Their careers are narcissistic supply.

[@josmclove4426]

@@kengaroo5170 true that!

[@theman7187]

Dated an intelligent, high- earning lady for a couple weeks. The physical attraction was intense, however her attitude and tendency to express her “superiority” over me (snide comments) killed it quick. Two years later I get a voicemail out of the blue. She hadn’t settled down yet and although she would never admit it, was very interested in what I was up to. Nope.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

You look like a goat 🐐

[@cavemantero]

good HARD pass. All she would've done is cheated on you and then left you and take half after she got caught.

[@benyamin7363]

Had that as well with my ex. Pumped and dumped

[@BURGERLAND-od2bz]

Dated a doctor. Same experience

[@Enochrry6024]

Two years later hu?..must have been one ruff ride for her=They always come back around on the hoover.

[@andrewcruz1931]

These women aren’t going to listen to anyone . It’s been over , it’s over, and it ain’t coming back.

[@edwardsanchez3708]

For a thousands of years we have been told it's all men's fault now with social media we can see that that was a lie all along and it's the women who are the problem

[@blackpanther67]

That's really the basis for mens red pill rage.

[@threadtapwhisperer5136]

That's what I've been saying/seeing too.

[@sandwich-breath]

Your statement isn’t accurate. The current state of disharmony is a product of state and Marxism interference with the family in a concentrated effort to break up the family unit and our communities. There are many unwitting soldiers crusading for identity rights that at the root benefits no one but elites and their program to centralize political power.

[@sandwich-breath]

Your statement isn’t accurate. The current state of disharmony is a product of state and Marxism interference with the family in a concentrated effort to break up the family unit and our communities. There are many unwitting soldiers crusading for identity rights that at the root benefits no one but elites and their program to centralize political power.

[@shmoofgang]

I agree w/ this statement 80% lol, there's still pos men out there for sure, that creep on/assault/do crazy things to women, but yeah for the most part women are their own worst enemy/more problematic

[@trex860]

Interviewer: Wow, you went from a net worth of $15 million to having only $1700 in your pocket, what happened? Steve Harvey: it’s called “divorce”.

[@QED_]

Bad . . . but not as bad as John Cleese's last divorce, which is the worst I've ever heard of.

[@Channel-is-deleted]

My only standard in the UK is "not too fat". Im 38 so that rules out 70% of women already. If i add in "not mentally ill" im looking for the 1 in a million.

[@John_Wood_]

100

[@kevincockburn7805]

The UK land whale is a mythical creature that has now taken the country over. Just incredible.

[@John_Wood_]

@@kevincockburn7805 and it just makes the few that are within 5kg of healthy weight even more arrogant...

[@tino5735]

It makes me roll my eyes every time "intimidated" gets confused with "just don't want"

[@rjbz554]

not confused, just self -lies

[@krel7160]

@@rjbz554 Conflated :)

[@danielledavis8580]

i don't understand this comment, but i want to. can you give me an example or some context from the video to help me figure out what you're trying to communicate? i mean it. i won't yell at you. i am genuinely curious.

[@donaldhenderson1870]

I am 60 years old, had a highly successful career, have a PhD, am physically fit, and about a "6" in looks. But I am 5'7" and I don't have a dangerous persona that every inner teenage woman wants. Only a small fraction of the old wrinkly women my age will even humor me with an online dating response. When I was younger things were better and I got married and had 4 kids. Now woman are super entitled, looking for their heart throb when they are wrinkly. Nuts! I am ready to give up.

[@alaron5698]

Eh, no offence, but you're 60 years old. What do you expect? You want the same dating value you had when you were 30 in your 60s? The 60 year old women might just want a hot stud for a fling, and if they're not looking for a relationship, then what are you even complaining about? Dating isn't really a 60-year-olds game. Not saying you can't try, but it is a bit deluded to expect people to swarm you with attention at that age, be you a man or a woman.

[@jaygordon4053]

An 70 year old dude I knew, who used a walker and oxygen and did sevurity work, got married to a 30yo Asian woman from the Phillipines. She pursued him and did her best to have kids with him, eventually succeeding. Of course many of her relatives immigrated over not much later, but he seemed pretty happy with his final years.

[@zacatkinson3926]

It’s not your height it’s your face

[@coolgamer2135]

Became I mean

[@coolgamer2135]

@@jaygordon4053 so uh she a gold digger

[@KimMilvang]

It seems almost cruel that we do not teach young women this: Being a high achiever is closely linked with being a provider. And being provider means having a partner who appreciates being provided for. If you are not happy being a provider, and you are not attracted to partners who want to be provided for, then being an achiever is probably not your best path to happiness.

[@joepharmasst]

How is a woman an "expert" at dating? That's like me saying I'm an expert at eating food. It's just something that's easy to do.

[@jffry890]

Let me know when she becomes a marriage expert. "Dating" experts only teach you how to meet and attract people or have sex. They can't tell you how to have a successful relationship because they've never done it. It's in their best interest to keep you single. Like a therapist never solving your problems.

[@ss_whole]

I'm an expert at breathing

[@clownworld4655]

Certified expert at pissing while standing here 👋

[@maninthehills7134]

It means 304

[@sci-fi.tsunami]

An expert at manipulation is more like it.

[@ww21943]

I’m turning 38 next week. Still single. Women get angry/disgusted when I tell them I’m not interested in their friends who are in their early 40s with a divorce and kid(s). 1. I’m not second prize and I don’t want someone that is bitter and past their prime. 2. I want to experience things for the first time with someone else experiencing them for the first time. If I can’t find it, then I remain single. People, especially women, can’t seem to understand that mindset. Maybe that’s because when women reach my age they are desperate to settle and can’t understand or want to understand how a man doesn’t feel the same way. Believe me, I know several people my age that have settled and settled with bottom of the barrel. It’s a fear of being alone. I’ve already grieved the relationship and kids I didn’t have. I’m past it. I’ve accepted reality. I don’t want to be with someone that leaves me worse off than when I was single. Life is too short.

[@cheeseburgersuperior1874]

real men challenges the world alone. fear of being alone, is fear of reality. you're ALWAYS alone in the end. if you're already being alone and strong, then you've already won.

[@ww21943]

@@cheeseburgersuperior1874well said!

[@GreenDayRules92]

Women can't be alone. I love solitude to be honest. Once men stop being controlled by a woman's box, they find an unparalleled level of freedom

[@cheeseburgersuperior1874]

@@ww21943 "I stand alone." - Godsmack

[@theduder1981]

41 and in the same exact boat you are.

[@timothyblazer1749]

They are NOT BEING PICKY. Picky implies you can actually choose the things you are choosing. They are being delusional.

[@realjcoop182]

Yup they aren't picking or choosing. It's the men.

[@dpeagles]

Our whole society is delusional at this point

[@timothyblazer1749]

@@realjcoop182 that's not what I'm referring to...if you aren't rich, you can't choose to buy a jet. You can rent one from time to time, but you can't buy it. This is similar. They think because they can rent, they then are able to buy. That's what "the list" is. It's the Dude they think they can buy, but they can't.

[@mark7362]

@@dpeagles that's right, why I find peace & comfort being around animals, where things are simple, they have hope & are spontaneous, their hearts aren't cold, they live in the moment. I'd get a pet myself but my latest reservation is that I don't like the people it would attract and I don't want the attention, i.e. that stupid phrase "I just like you for your dog" 🤢 life would be like an episode of curb your enthusiasm for me every single day if I got a dog

[@rleon8183]

Sadly, those in charge have been brainwashing us that girls can do everything a boy can and better are: DE-LUDED!!! The TRUTH comes out. Women don't work long and hard like men do - and thusly - not make as much money. In addition, women are responsible for approx 75% of divorces thinking they can do "better." WRONG!!!!

[@MarkW321]

You have to fall head over heels in love, without that, we don’t buy a ring and pop the question. Please do not fall for it. Men we have the power! No ring, no proposal, no cohabitation, no wedding, no kids! The family court system is corrupt. Do you want to lose half of everything? Think about it, long and hard. Marriage is not worth the mental, emotional and financial risk. Spread the message. Tell every man you know. Stay safe!

[@moonie9000]

I genuinely love how her "must haves" started with "kindness". Most women will never do that.

[@toweypat]

Oh, they'll say that's a "must have" but they don't mean it.

[@avenger4027]

By "kindness", they mean that peculiar sort of spinelessness, the one you see in really desperate men or something.

[@moonie9000]

@@avenger4027 Probably! They likely don't mean somebody who helps the homeless, animals, and the elderly.

[@avenger4027]

@@moonie9000 Of course they don't mean that, because the men who do so aren't "bad boys". These women who want "kindness" are emulating masculine traits and so, they (likely from experience) know that real men won't be controllable. As such, what such women want is a paradox - they need guys without confidence (for the relationship to actually work, because only a doormat would willingly be with most modern Western women - but guys without confidence are usually bums without a career and/or ugly-looking), but these women also want good-looking and/or successful guys (who are NEVER gonna lack confidence and spine).

[@izzykazoo7569]

Almost ANY interaction with a female is a potential criminal liability nowadays. Until the courts/laws change here in the west, expect this to get even worse.

[@botelucian]

Sometimes even the lack of interaction is ofensive to them

[@ashleysanford8645]

I've seen that complaint more than once. F****** ridiculous. Oh it's a problem at work because he won't talk to me! B**** I don't need to talk to you about anything! I don't like you , you're 15 years older than my girlfriend. Get away from me you stupid skank!! And no I'm not making that s*** up. Thank God they fired her for being dumb , she literally couldn't learn anything , before she got me in trouble with HR!

[@chalsfo]

​@botelucian and a crime - so don't risk it - don't be freinds with herkind

[@molonlabe9602]

No man, in the west, should be marrying nor procreating until laws regarding such significantly change.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Bunch of grown men sounding like kids talking about avoiding women like they are bullies lmao so soft.

[@goaway3717]

Go right ahead ladies and raise your standards as your choices dwindle. That sounds just about a perfect match for every cat mommy drinking boxed wine ever, congrats.

[@TheFrmx]

They need to cause , pet food stonks and wine stonks are my retirement investments. Need more cat ladies and dog mummas

[@Pharozos]

Its just natural selection playing out. I feel bad for all the brainwashed youngsters but it will solve it self.

[@ma3stro681]

Spinster Winter ...

[@DavidGarcia-kw4sf]

"The Wine Aunt" is now an entry in The Uban Dictionary. 😎

[@taras3702]

You forgot the battery operated boyfriend and head meds.

[@benprins8240]

Dire warning for single women for sure. Definitely look outside the box. Here are my top things for them: - Actually open up and have a conversation - stop being so picky and demanding - lower your expectations a lot - watch the attitude and bs - STOP the fake crying and being immature. Then things will change, maybe. Thanks Joker 😊

[@Mister-Six]

So you're asking women to not be women.

[@benprins8240]

@@Mister-Six no they can keep that femininity, just stop acting like immature queens with a major attitude problem. Quiet complaining too.

[@BWatskins]

You're asking the a Hound to not eat meat. Some probably will try but always will resent Beta Bob and Plain John. She'll be daydreaming of Chad Thundersword and Thad Thunderhammer. Then they cheat whenever they can

[@benprins8240]

@@BWatskins yep they need to change their ways.

[@KoinzellGaming]

Actually it's a lot easier: 1. Be submissive to your man. 2. Be aware of your attitude and make sure that you follow point nr.1. 3. Take care of yourself and don't look horrible. 4. Be appreciative of life and your husband.

[@grandillusion4258]

Ever since they were little, I've taught all of my sons that almost all women think they are entitled to be a princess and that they're all deceptive little manipulators. Yes, ALL. I taught them every sign to look for and to not offer the benefit of the doubt when something looks out of place. They're all looking for a free meal and will use the only currency they've been taught to bargain with.

[@jeffreytorres2539]

No no women don't need to change a thing men need to do everything and women shouldn't ever have to do ANYTHING.

[@posest]

We've been following these sickening dating trends for years. Women will NOT budge. This will not change no matter how much this is exposed. The ONLY thing that will reduce (not eliminate) the female dating snobbery is men need to STOP simping! Period!

[@rambomoore381]

Which we know will never happen.

[@Greg-yu4ij]

You’re right, men need to take charge and lead. It’s not about power it’s just the natural dynamic. Find a loving, nurturing, feminine woman. That’s all you need. She can make more money. She doesn’t have to be respectful because a mans job is to put her in her place and maintain discipline. Any man who can’t or won’t do that will suffer infidelity and divorce. A woman is evolved to annoy her boyfriend with meaningless fights. He must not lose his cool or become violent. She is simulating children’s behavior and once her subconscious is satisfied that he can consistently handle it without yeeting the kids the fights will stop. My girlfriend and I fought like crazy, broke up, slept with other people, got back together several times. She was loving, nurturing, and effeminate and no other girl came close. During breakup I would sleep with prettier girls but she was the one. We got married, had 3 beautiful boys, and were together for 32 years until cancer took her. We had only one fight that lasted past sundown. I turned from alpha to simping especially towards the end when I would do anything to make her comfortable. By then it’s ok because after 32 years I had nothing to prove.

[@ThermicLight]

Lovely isn't it? That men since forever have always shared what they bring to the table. While women rarely share that same reciprocity and have rather got more greedy.

[@RespectMyAuthoritaah]

Lot of weak men out there being raised by single mothers.

[@jimdavis8391]

​@Rambo Moore I don't know the bigger picture but I do know that a lot of guys I know, both younger and older are avoiding women entirely. Others like me play hardball with them, I have no feels for them anymore, they're just meat.

[@AvyScottandFlower]

Modern Feminist women will NEVER settle for anyone but the guy they want (who isn't even real)

[@BWatskins]

He's real, problem is he already had her for fun and moved on to the next conquest. She just deluded herself into thinking she deserved Chad

[@AvyScottandFlower]

@@BWatskins But I wasn't referring to a physical person I'm talking about the INSANE, unrealistic and contradictory concoction of a fantasy they have, of a mashing of all the men they've slept with, the fairy tales Hollywood sells them, and a totally subservient cuck slave, who can simultaneously also, somehow, be a man in charge, for instance.

[@bonbon4016]

Can we stop all this Chad bullshit lol. Chad is not real it's a meme.

[@TheHylianJuggalo]

@@bonbon4016 K, Virg.

[@markmccullough5873]

She will settle but she will resent whoever she settled for.

[@davecasey4341]

You said that for many women, men are optional. What the women are starting to realize and squeal about is, to many men, women are optional. They don't like that and they say men are broken.

[@ordinaryhuman5645]

Optional at best. Most women seem detrimental enough for opting out to be the most reasonable thing to do.

[@ma3stro681]

Certainly very optional for me. By the hour, actually ... 😂

[@martindixon54]

"to many men, women are optional." Another way of saying that men aren't giving women the attention and validation their shallow and narcissistic selves need to survive, hence why they're crying about it.

[@alaron5698]

Aren't you saying women are broken for viewing men as optional?

[@captainz9]

"many men are doing the bare minimum" - no, they're just not doing what you think is "success"... Whereas a man thinks if he can eat well and stay fit and enjoy some time fishing or whatever his hobbies are he's just a "successful" as he needs to be. He doesn't need all the "trappings" of modern "success" - the 4500sqft house with 3 cars in the garage, etc... He knows that in the long run those things don't make you happy.

[@Guildofarcanelore]

I have a degree. My boss at the highest paying job I ever had said he almost didn’t hire me because of it. It was the 12 years in the Infantry that made up his mind.

[@sarge-T.O.]

The dating coach describes a based, realistic observation but surprisingly misses one big point; it's not all the single women and all the single men hooking up, it's all the women and a few of the men. Her audience should hear that point as well.

[@HCforLife1]

Not going to happen. Women are wired biologically to seek best mate. The issue is technology. The tech is changing exponentially while we as species haven't changed even in one percent

[@michaeldavid6832]

@@HCforLife1 They're changing exponentially as well. The 45% of "permanently single and childless" by 2030 is a selection pressure nature hardly ever sees. Half the human genome gone in a blip. That's exponential decay of hypergamous genes.

[@jonpro9637]

​@@michaeldavid6832great point

[@knotengajin7359]

@@HCforLife1 Women are wired to seek traits that signaled a good mate for the hundreds of thousands of years humans were hunter gatherer’s barely more evolved than chimpanzees. Some of those traits don’t equate to success in modern societies and some are actually predictive of failure. Which is why for thousands of years of developing societies, fathers around the world paired their daughters up with responsible men and ignored the ones that tickled her bean.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

See how animals' mate in nature and see how humans' mate when given choice and options, it's the same, get over it, either better yourself or die sexless and lonely, complaining, blaming all your problems on the opposite sex wont get you anywhere and women will look at you crying like someone who is even worse than a beta male.

[@casualcausalityy]

Between the arrogance that comes with a woman having a college degree, and the 90% odds they'll initiate divorce. Why would any man want to commit to these harpies?

[@Mister-Six]

To quote Emperor Palpatine: "Only now, at the end, do you understand."

[@broderickhunt6872]

Love the vid! Gotta tell you I just finished my 4 year plumbing apprenticeship and I am super proud of it. Since those 4 years began I moved out of my parents house, bought my first car, and bought a house. I did all of this before I was 25. There is so much money in the trades it is stupid. If you are reading this and you dont know what you want to do with your life or feel direction less please consider a mechanical trade, now is the time to do it

[@kenmcateer8980]

welder and steamfitter here you made a great choice am retired now,. Women want that six figure income, but it takes a lot of time away from home to earn it..then you get the "you are never home"

[@davidwelday3276]

Here's the big difference between a house husband and a house wife: the husband will get a lot more done and not complain about it, and look for a project to do, because men are task driven and enjoy a sense of purpose. Women will get the bare minimum done, sleep in, and complain they had such a bad day

[@andjusticeforall2893]

Biggest difference between the two genders, period, end of paragraph.

[@ELcoyote576]

We cannot ask people to be who they are not. These Individuals are free to keep their high standards, No one Is obligated to pay them any mind. Stay golden fam.

[@redneckroy8947]

Stay gold, Ponyboy. Stay gold

[@whenpigsfly8178]

Extremely sensible. There's no point railing at them, because they love drama.

[@moxigen]

also letz face it... women 30-35 are not worth much. statistics dont care. men dont care.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Lazy, weak men shouldnt expect women to give them any time of day just like "educated" and "strong" women who are way past their reproductive use shouldnt expect men to want anything more from them than casual sex, its nature.

[@cavemantero]

lol 'high standards' lol

[@josephbenjamin6426]

The OTHER thing about “feminism” ironically is that they want to eradicate the qualities, traits and motivations that men try to hold for themselves as being “masculine”. Feminists want to paint this gender perception as nothing but a “social construct” and even goes so far as demonizing the notion of “masculinity” as synonymous with “toxicity”.

[@albinogator6221]

Preaching to choir ... good is bad and bad is good.. biology is the TRUTH...

[@sahaynam6470]

They want to eradicate these things but only select mates that have them. It's bizarre.

[@shentsaceve5642]

All panned by the eugenisists in their illuminasty think-tanks. "Black people and women are the easiest to manipulate." - Marx

[@TaysonPlaysGuitar]

Yeah feminists paint masculinity as bad yet cut their hair short and try to be just like men. That should say everything about their motivations. It's not about masculinity being bad, it's about power for men is bad and power for women is good.

[@kristinadospoy7347]

It doesn't matter what a man does for a living, so long as he's not sitting on his rear all day watching TV and be lazy. He has to be smart too

[@stevec3526]

High achieving men want high achieving women? She clearly has that backwards.

[@NeoN-PeoN]

She's projecting. High achieving women want high achieving men, so she assumes the reverse is true. It couldn't be more the opposite.

[@stevec3526]

@@NeoN-PeoN Absolutely correct!

[@sandspurpatch]

Change everything. I will never humble/humiliate myself as a man of high honor by asking out someone I come to learn has been rode hard and put away wet.

[@narcoleptic8938]

Just started my apprenticeship as a machinist last year. 4 years I'll have my papers. Not quite cracking 6 figures as a journeyman but it's still incredibly comfortable money. See a lot of old guys in the shop and almost no younger guys getting into the work. maybe 5:1 old-young. Labor is about to be a premium, while college degrees are increasing in cost and depreciating the wages. Despite the recession, on the other side of this storm things are looking GREAT. I've accepted the fact as a mid-20's Zoomer I'll probably end up working until the day I die. But if I can make it so my wife doesn't have to and my kids are taken care of so be it. Make no mistake, I plan on HEAVILY investing in Cat food, toys, litter and vibrators. At least out here in the boonies the kool-aid isn't so strong. But, these gals in the cities are in for a world of shock when the welfare state falls apart and they don't have kids or a hubby to take care of them into their golden years. Sad..

[@ceoelektronika8604]

When things go South, women will be standing on street corners.

[@ma8839]

A woman may readjust their expectations for a man, and may “settle”, but she’s not going to stay in that mindset. She may even love her husband, but society and womanism will hammer her for the rest of her life with the messaging that she isn’t “living her best life”, and she’ll leave. Then you’re now getting a divorce, and she gets to take the cash and prizes on your dime, and live it up while she “finds herself” ( in Chads bed).

[@toddjohnson271]

Its all temporary for them.....

[@lagneuk702]

And get a Chadspawn she will be responsible for just so Chad can get a few moments of Ejaculatory relief...😅

[@Greenyt1234]

Yup thats why I agree they shouldnt "lower their standards". They are gonna be miserable regardless dont drag some poor dude down with you.

[@jfkst1]

They all settle because they have the Frankenchad in their dreams.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

😂😂😂 so you know my ex-wife? And my girlfriend's after my ex-wife? LOL

[@heroldjaras9909]

i couldnt care less about wmens dating standards. they priced themselves out of the dating marked, good luck

[@dpstrial]

My thoughts exactly, Herold. I am happy for women to be very selective and remove themselves from the gene pool. I feel better not treating women as a 'protected species' anymore. Let them take care of themselves.

[@GidarGaming]

@@dpstrial In that case, I just wish they did it sooner so I wouldn't have to suffer the crossfire.

[@AlexanderEVtrainer]

The speed with which other women will drag down one of their own who starts to touch on the truth is always amazing to watch

[@jgcelliott1]

Wise man once said to me "if you think they are being tough on men, you ought to see how they treat each other". Popcorn? .

[@knotengajin7359]

Women, being much more invested in social hierarchy, generally take the easiest method of advancement: undermining and tearing down the competition. You work around women enough and they retch and moan to you about the women they were all lovey dovey with five minutes prior. They’ll even sabotage the relationships of their BFF’s if the other women looks to come out ahead.

[@ashleysanford8645]

It's like that bucket of crabs story! One crab in a bucket it'll get out. two crabs and a bucket, one might get out. Three or more crabs in a bucket? They'll never get out! You could have 15 crabs in a bucket and they'll just keep pulling each other back down!

[@tino5735]

Crabs in a bucket

[@madterps]

LMFAO, note to women, like someone said before. A degree in communication, social studies, women studies and art history is not high achieving, it is called wasting your money and getting an useless degree.

[@HR_8035_YEA]

The problem is that even if they're less picky they will resent you for it later. Believing that they really did deserve an uber Chad billionaire after all. Then they'll divorce grape you and hold your kids hostage with the full backing of the state. You'd have to be out of your mind to marry or co-habitate in the current legal environment.

[@Saphire_Throated_Carpenter_Ant]

Up until about a year ago I was an accountant making $47 an hour as AR at a hospital. One day I hit mid life crisis mode and realized not only did I hate my job but the only reason I was even doing it was to make myself more attractive to a woman and be able to provide a family everything they could need. Now I make $17 an hour at McDonalds. It's a MUCH less stressful job with A LOT less drama and provides me with as much money as I need to pay the bills and have some spending cash leftover. No shortage of 18-22 year old girls, especially with the high turnover rate. I'm living the McDream!

[@TheFredmac]

At the end of the day work stays at work. That alone has value. I tell my son, find a job you really like or one you can tolerate so you can do what you like.

[@tajayi78]

AR in UK will be paid £17 an hour Max. Tells you how underpaid people are paid in England.

[@FischerFan]

You could've been making $470 an hour and it still wouldn't have made a difference.

[@tonyngo9200]

100% right! I was married for over 4 years. My purpose (I thought) bring home the big cheque and in the near future look for a bigger one. I got a wife, bills, food and kids in the future plans...then she told me one day via text she wasn't happy anymore and done. One day you have purpose and a role then next you have nothing. Today im not chasing anything. I work to achieve a lifestyle for myself and only myself.

[@brandonreyes2417]

Where do you live where $17 is enough?

[@thelasthourgetready]

Let them be picky. Why would you want to be with a woman who doesn't want to be with you. I think it makes men look bad when they complain about women and dating. I.e dinner dates, body count etc. Let them do what they want. When it all goes wrong and they are all alone and need rescuing it's your turn to say no or get them to make a substantial offer thats worth your while. Stop pleading with these women you are giving them power over you.

[@Mister-Six]

Exactly. They'll "settle", won't be happy, and resent and despise the man they settled for even if he's a great guy.

[@ShaunHensley]

Well, in fairness we mostly aren't talking to them when we say these things, we are talking to each other and they are barging into the conversation

[@abecochran4251]

I agree with the spirit of this comment, but look at it another way: the discourse also serves as a warning. When it all goes to shit, it won't be on our collective conscience if we spoke out. We tried to warn the culture. We can justifiably wash our hands of everything, and do whatever we need to do with a clear conscience.

[@tiefblau2780]

*This* *is* *what* *I* *faced,* dont have regrets its the worse you can do to yourself. ​ @highroller-jq3ix : Really? Enslaved women were free? @tiefblau2780 : Oh so what you going to bring 1000 years of *Sorrow?* *of* *history* *that* *a* *Handful* *of* *Men* *made?* What about the Men that protected Women through history? *What* *about* *the* *Men* *that* *Advocate* *for* *Women?* Tbh its a *Mistake* *that* *Men* *Protected,* *From* *now* *on* *it* *will* *be* *FairFree.* Dw that Ability of your is not hard to replicate.

[@juci6491]

⁠@@abecochran4251 this part bro I’ve tired to have big and small convos with the people in my life and in passing for years cause when they sing the tune I don’t plan to listen they can solve that problem themselves cause it took me years to come to some peace with it all and I’m not going to stress over the people who disregarded my words when I was trying to help or just give information

[@ericneo2]

A dating coach where I live was posting on Facebook about about the problems she keeps seeing over and over with women, and how they need to lower their standards and give average guys a chance. At speed dating events all the women gravitate to the 1-2 guys and ignore the rest and she sees this over and over at each event. What you said about the scholarships is right on point too, STEM scholarships for men are only available for the highest achiever but because of gender quotas the STEM scholarships for women only require they be female and attend.

[@jwarrior9986]

And then they are surprised when men don't even bother showing up to these events. If these women acted any more monolithic, they would be the freaking Borg.

[@randyjones3050]

Dating events function just like dating apps, but in real life. Normally a complete wast of time for 90% of men because women are so picky.

[@rjbz554]

SO " identify" as a woman....whose to say your not?

[@michaelsix9684]

speed dating is rare now, they can't find enough men to show up

[@michaelsix9684]

@@randyjones3050 the women who show up aren't prizes either

[@johnrew5713]

It's hard to imagine having a successful relationship if you don't consider loyalty to be important.

[@julianblack3390]

Men make money to support a family. Women make money to support themselves.

[@LiberPater777]

And this is why for countless generations they were kept under control and weren't allowed to make decisions. For this, is always what happens to societies when they do. Chaos and collapse.

[@MF_DOOMer]

Most Religions are correct about Women.

[@HammarPwnsYourFace]

Sad but true. To save ourselves we need to go back to the old ways. They worked for how long? Feminism is destroyed the entire world in less than a century. Humans have been around for how long? Clearly we had it working just fine until this shit

[@martindixon54]

Yep. It took approximately 50 years for the Roman Empire to go from the most powerful Empire on Earth to a smoking ruin once women were allowed to take up senior roles in government. It's a complete coincidence that, exactly as is happening today, during those last 50 years huge swathes of tax money were diverted from maintaining and upgrading vital Imperial infrastructure (and the military) into welfare programs which almost exclusively benefitted women.

[@HammarPwnsYourFace]

@@martindixon54 dark days indeed. Those that ignore history are doomed to repeat it. Stay strong 💪

[@AlexDeLarge77]

So they’ve priced themselves out of the market… And?

[@nonamebleach]

Back in college I knew a guy. He was from a rich family. In school to make a ton of money too. Type of euro dude that got all the girls he wanted. Married some hot girl. Had a kid. Girl was working at one of the hottest clubs, cheated on him with the club owner. Took the kid and divorced him. Now he’s poor and screwed over with no house, wife or kid and has to pay a ton of money while she ran off with an even richer guy.

[@arnoldasbucys7786]

Sounds like a college boi was stepping stone for her

[@michaelsix9684]

wow, I'm not surprised

[@misanthropicattackhelicopt4148]

Damm I bet hes bitter as hell.

[@nonamebleach]

@@arnoldasbucys7786 he was. It’s fucked.

[@PSYCHIC_PSYCHO]

He should hire a contract-killer 😂

[@matthewroth1]

For me, just finished college, the main issue is general education requirements for graduation. By the time I went to college, I knew exactly what I wanted to do but every university requires 25-28 credits or so of random “gen ed courses.” These range from religion, language, the humanities, social sciences, politics etc. I literally wasted almost half my time in college taking these courses and it wasn’t until my 3rd and 4th years when I was actually taking advanced courses specific to my degree where I felt like I was learning beneficial stuff at a high level.

[@matthewroth1]

I will stand by college as a good thing, but only if you really know what you want to do. Too many stupid kids are thrown into college by societal institutions and social pressure and don’t even know what to major in and waste tons of time and money. College imo is for those going into STEM, law, medicine, or similar majors with applicable SKILLS to real jobs. American universities are so screwed up.

[@TheWealthOfNationz]

@matthewroth5715, as an engineering graduate, college is beaureaucratic bloat meant to sustain the college-industrial complex. Most engineering degrees should be 2-3 year programs as I only used 5-10 percent of what I learned in engineering school while in industry. With the advanced science classes I took in high school, I had enough knowledge to work in my engineering jobs. I never used any of the two years of college calculus in industry. In addition, the idea that forced liberal arts courses given by professors detached from reality will round us out as people is a fallacy. Life will round out a person, not college. College tends to make people think in simplistic, idealistic terms and they get smacked in the face with reality when they get out. If a person wants to become well rounded and wise, study the book of Proverbs!

[@LogicalOtaku-vj5ln]

Young women are not team players. You cannot count on them to have anyone's back but themselves.

[@Christmas-dg5xc]

Please don't hide your "pickiness." The less-than-perfects will appreciate the heads up. Everywhere you go, just keep repeating out loud, "I am a princess, and expect only the best." Trust me, you'll attract exactly what you deserve.

[@jeffkoehne4852]

The disdain used to be hurtful......now I find it helpful in decisions

[@Christmas-dg5xc]

@@jeffkoehne4852 I never saw the value in so-called "trophies," or understand why anyone should be attracted to them, but they sure make for entertaining Dateline, NBC episodes.

[@snidecommenter7117]

"Be proud of being a plumber".. YES. Good honest work. Dirty hands, CLEAN money!

[@Tim_the_Enchanter]

The other thing about that plumber is that AI isn't gonna take his job.

[@shawn576]

@williambraddell8052 That kind of machinery is only used for new construction. There's no practical way to use some fully automated robot in a reno or repair. Cars are made by robots, but cars are fixed by humans.

[@ianmaluk1]

This is why my sister stopped being a dating coach, so many women she tried to coach were so picky and obnoxious that she just couldn't take it anymore and left. (If you're replying to my comment, you're shadow banned. I can't see them)

[@GidarGaming]

You know it's really bad when it's not just the men, but even other women who can't tolerate the stupidity.

[@danmyshrall]

I've been married to 3 professional high achievers in my life. If all you want is to hear what they think, about them, the world, and about what you should do... buckle up boys. As for me, I'm sticking with my hound dogs.

[@geckobrah4201]

As a successful professional, I’d be happy with a woman who is a barista at Starbucks but is loving, supportive and loyal.

[@andi8489]

so... a unicorn.

[@msimon6808]

@@andi8489 I had an ugly girlfriend who was like that. Sweetest heart you could imagine.

[@coolgamer2135]

@@msimon6808 what happened

[@msimon6808]

@@coolgamer2135 It was '67. She wanted to try other guys. It was '67. I wasn't opposed. We reconnected again once.

[@DefeatedElite]

​@@msimon6808what a mistake

[@richardlbowles]

"Women need to start looking outside the box." Blimey! These women expect their perfect men to be delivered in boxes. I bet they want it all tied up with a pretty pink ribbon as well.

[@davidbolha]

There was an anime like that ("Living 5ex Toy Delivery" ?)...

[@devilgames2217]

Soon they have their Chadbot and we'll have our waifubots. Somehow, they will still not be happy. As for us.... Pure heaven.

[@richardlbowles]

@@devilgames2217 Yes, the women will still complain, but as long as they complain to Chadbot (nice name, by the way - kudos for thinking of that one) and we don't have to listen to it, it won't bother me too much.

[@richardlbowles]

@@davidbolha This I have to see! Thanks for letting me know about it.

[@kransencrates]

The only box they Will get is filled with wine.

[@Wordgoblin]

From the article: "Being a high-achieving woman doesn't have to come with a price tag." The quintessential modern female delusion. Everything has a price tag.

[@joshuasterling2144]

There are no solutions only tradeoffs.- Thomas Sowell

[@martindixon54]

"The quintessential modern female delusion" funded via men's taxes by the government whilst women cheer about all the "free" money their votes have given them in welfare payments.

[@palnagok1720]

I told a strong independent woman some home truths and she went into little girly mode and said I was shouting at her...I was just being direct...lol...naturally , I was canceled, lmao

[@gallendugall8913]

I really don't want to be in a relationship where I have to pretend my partner is successful in a meaningful way.

[@ErikDeMann]

It's really weird how the more rights and freedom women obtain, the harder it gets for them to put a lid on how much they actually detest men, in words and actions both. The male suicide stats are at 8-out-of-10 in some Western nations today, most of them the outcome of divorces, and meanwhile women complain about the lack of suitable hosts to latch on to. Go figure out them priorities.. 🤔

[@tonydiesel3444]

They move backwards

[@doubtingthomas6752]

Women deserve less. Say it loud, say it proud. Happy rainbow month, gents! 😜

[@scottevans2685]

"Happy Rainbow Month, Gents." Imagine the hilarity if some lesbian organization started evangelizing the gay lifestyle to post-wall single women, the message basically being "no men want you, but your sisters do."

[@Strive1324L]

Single women today are waaaayyyy too picky and demanding. They don't want to build a man up and work with him, they want to walk into a windfall of success.

[@ScumDogMF]

Let's just call it what it is. Power corrupting women's minds. They achieve their own level of status and still want a man that is of a HIGHER status because to her it means he's better than her and worthy to dominate her. Problem is that's not how men view women and relationships. And they're consistently fighting for "power" while the man isn't trying to be in her position at all. It's such a weird perspective.

[@wolfgang548]

They respond by saying they want the best of the best yet they are the worst of the worst.

[@xtnuser5338]

Telling them, "Don't wait until it's too late," will change nothing. Even if they agreed with it, they think "too late" is a long long way away, or even that it will never come.

[@anotherperspective6247]

^this. Too many people live in the moment and pretend tomorrow will never come, especially pre-wall women. Pre-wall women believe that post-wall women are some crazy alien species that they have nothing in common and nothing to do with until they wake up one day and they are post-wall. It's a complete inability to see and understand that time affects us all and there are consequences for one's choices in life. Pre-wall women see the world through a childlike lens of naiveity and can't make the connection that one day they will be post-wall so make better decisions in their youth if they want a life partner. Perhaps the reality is if their fertility clock wasn't shorter than men's they would ride the carousel forever.

[@dasshaker2372]

Hiring a pro once a month, twice on your bday month, is cheaper than divorce, and probably averages out to the same amount of booty over the average marriage length anyway.

[@latinumbavariae]

Facts!

[@gorkyd7912]

I think sex is pretty near the bottom of the list for why most men want to marry most women. Sex with a woman isn't actually a physical need.

[@Majora141]

​@@gorkyd7912that's not even remotely true, Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a great example.

[@dekaywill4572]

Married for 45 years and it's down to once a week.....arrrrrrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

[@matejfele9971]

Once a month? How about once week and you're still better off than divorcing from a western gold digger.

[@bigdaddyd7674]

She's missing the part you hit 30 you have by far less men to choose from to begin with

[@morriahmcdonald4040]

30 ??? 😆 🤣 😂 23

[@flpser_ppwer]

Not every woman in her prime is a "magnet" for men.

[@77missconduct]

My boyfriend is a welder. A very sought-after skill. It's sad a lot of women are still caught up in the whole "doctors, lawyers, and Indian chiefs" model as the only image fit to be husband material. Thank you for sharing this insight.

[@whattheflimflam]

Woman here also. My perspective: why can't they make their own money? They're such Boss Babes or whatever the term is, so why can't they look at a man as a teammate instead of being a mooch?

[@BosunM8James]

I was talking with a woman about the dating apps and the culture it's created over the years. She made a remarkable statement that I don't think some have taken into consideration. She said, "you know, those dating apps are designed to keep people single". I asked, "what brought you to that conclusion?" Her rebuttal, "The apps are designed to tap into the part of the brain that always wonders, what's next, and this is specifically targeting women who are more prone to this compulsion." This resonated with me greatly because if we look at what is being discussed in the dating community it's all about women wanting to find the next best thing, or in this case the next best man. This cycle just keeps going on and on until they are, as the Joker lamented, enter their midlife crisis. I don't see this changing until women become so desperate they decide to change their own outlook. We are nowhere near that point because, let's face it, women will always have an endless supply of men to choose from. They might now be who they want but they will always be there waiting. Most of us call them simps today.

[@latt.qcd9221]

The problem isn't really women being hypergamous; the problem is women thinking that having a career, making money, etc. is them "bringing something to the table" and thinking that they're "high value women" for it when they're not.

[@ordinaryhuman5645]

The problem isn't her hypergamy, but how government enables her to exercise it risk-free. Too many safety nets and diversity handouts means that she never has any consequences for poor choices until she's post wall and it's too late for her to benefit from learning from her mistakes.

[@marcmeinzer8859]

What they don’t get is that loyalty is everything but if they’re that self-seeking then they plainly are not going to be loyal and hence are useless.

[@kutlumzrak2689]

They are high value. In the most literal sense, if they make more, they value more in financial sense. Brothers... I understand y'all are very angry and prone to misogyny but apply the same standard you apply to men to women as well. High value men /women are equally rare. The problem y'all are dealing with is in the averages. Leave the high value men / women alone, they worked hard to get over this bullshit.

[@cavemantero]

@@ordinaryhuman5645 They don't ever learn from their mistakes. They either learned how to treat men when they were young, or they never learn because they become spoiled rotten selfish damaged kuntz.

[@AndrewFosterSheff69]

When a woman says she is the table, counter with "flat up top and incapable of putting your legs together"

[@rdptll]

Gents- stay physically strong and healthy, keep obesity at bay and in your 40s and 50s, you’ll be a King while they wither on the corporate vine.

[@DuncanL7979]

Divorced women will throw themselves at you and you will potentially reap the benefit of the man's toil.

[@HammarPwnsYourFace]

If you make it to 40-50. Why do you want to deal w that shit in the first place? Fuck all that noise and pain

[@PSYCHIC_PSYCHO]

Premature death from obesity is a price well worth paying for IMMENSELY pleasurable food; trust me there are some foods that will give you considerably more pleasure than a girlfriend or a wife

[@juliantheapostate8295]

​@@PSYCHIC_PSYCHO true, but food tastes better when you're hungry, so makes sense to eat it less often

[@HammarPwnsYourFace]

@@PSYCHIC_PSYCHO fat and happy is better than skinny and miserable. Im just chunky and content. Love my. Fresh water eel rolls. Goddamn they are so good. At least to me they are. And good smokes and medium-rare top sirloin and taters w asparagus is a very close 2nd.

[@brianwaller7383]

I gave up dating because I was never good enough for anyone so it became just a never ending rejection mine field that was destroying my psychological well being

[@gorkyd7912]

Young women are not good at choosing partners. That's why for centuries in most cultures, partnerships were chosen by older people who know better. If you want to be valued more true to your actual worth try talking to older people who know you, tell them you're in the market. Any women who will follow the advice of their elders and date men chosen by their elders also happen to be some of the most intelligent and reasonable women. Not being too arrogant or self-important to take advice from others is a huge green flag.

[@1594simonsays]

@@gorkyd7912phuck your green and red flags also

[@jwarrior9986]

Better advice...update your passport.

[@Greenyt1234]

​​@@gorkyd7912 or....your elders are stupid as hell about the dynamics today and try to set guys up with single moms and the desperate women they know. "Oh I will setup johnny with my niece jane. Nevermind the fact that I don't know that my niece got run through in college" - some "elder" Go on and continue telling the comments your shitty advice for these days

[@offworlder1]

@@jwarrior9986 This, western men just need to go over seas to a patriarchal country and find a loyal woman there, I did as have many other men.

[@pirateracingnz9846]

I got my two trades out of high school. Went and got my three degrees at 35. Am now 50 with no debt, only work part time to pay for my cars, bikes, boats and machinery. I have been dating the same woman for five years now once or twice a week. Will it progress from there? Hell no, not giving up my lifestyle or what I have. Most and probably 99% of women when I was dating different women, weren’t interested and it’s their bad luck. I earn well and have traveled the world in my career and certainly don’t go without anything I want. Am 6’ 200lbs and not hideous. If this dating comes to an end, I won’t bother again. Being able to fly or sail myself around the world, why would I have more inconveniences. Great channel.

[@alexander0076969]

I googled it again - no plumber, electrician, concrete worker makes 100$ per hour in your area, nor anywhere in the States. ( be careful, them hillbillies will fleece you).

[@andrjsh]

Women in the end want relationships, connections with others, & the chance to nurture, but feminism has turned them into competitive tax-payers & disposable sex toys.

[@radmcbad1576]

I think most women are incapable of nurturing. Men are usually better at the role, specially when it comes their own kids. Dads keep their kids out of jail and off of the pole. Lots of moms would rather sit their children in front of the tv all day than take their kids out to the park. Just the way I have seen it.

[@andrjsh]

@@radmcbad1576 I hear what you are saying. I would argue that fathers lay down the law, set boundaries on moral points, enact justice, etc. , while mothers do those "little things" that get us through (tending us when we're sick, making a favorite food, reminding us to do XYZ).

[@simpbeforeusleep]

Is it feminisms fault or is it just female nature unbound?

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

Very well and concisely said!

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

​@@simpbeforeusleep both! One Dogma facilitated the other