on healing & the power of perspective 🤍

Sharing my thoughts on healing, perspective, forgiveness and acceptance after a journaling session. How is your healing journey going? Heal your energy & emotions in our upcoming Energy Healing Workshop with Master Healer Michelle Moon ⭐️ lavendaire.com/DLC
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Thank you Aileen! This is so comforting. I am gonna be 26 this year and still fighting with the burden of bitterness from the past, which makes me questioning and feel ashamed of myself, my life, also my future. And this video just speak to me "it's okay and it might has to be like this." I feel so relieved at the moment

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I feel i'm somewhere in the middle, and I'm having to make a really hard decision that could impact my mental health for the better if i let go - but also, there is an immense amount of guilt and longing to not go through with it. I feel that, although painful, i need to accept my situation for what it is an do what best for me and my family

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[@hnnhml]

Perspective is such a powerful thing and i used to underestimate it so much

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I feel like I'm still in the hurting & crying stage 😭 I still have anxiety/panic attacks every now and then but I'm trying my very best to heal. Thank you for this video!! 🤍🤍🤍

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I feel like at this point in my life, I am so content and proud of who I am authentically. Free, joyful, at peace! I am currently single, but when I was in a relationship(s), I am completely different - insecure, judged, overly worried. So moving onto the next phase of my healing, I know there's a lot of work I need to do to heal those within a relationship and find a partner to go through the healing journey with. So if that is in the cards for me, I'm ready to go through the trenches to heal those deepest emotional triggers and trauma.

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The universe literally sent this video in perfect timing. I've been struggling a lot with past regrets and mistakes that I've made so it helps to remind myself that hardships shouldn't be seen so negatively but in a slightly more positive perspective and also for some reason after watching your video it's like you've somehow given me some of the energy that aligns with yours. Anyways you're such an inspiration. Tysm Aileen! ❤

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I'm at the beginning of my healing journey & your videos always help me to see things from a different perspective ❤

[@jacquelinecyr390]

Its amazing that this came out. I just had a breakthrough last night where I was able to let go of a friend that was bad for me. I broke up with a "best friend" after two years and kicked them out of my apartment because things were becoming intense. While I was not perfect, I realized that I had been a good friend that gave until I could give not more. In doing so, I lost myself and now I am realizing that I deserve so much more.

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I struggle with feeling content. I always want to be happy, and succeeding. When I stop to think of everything I have in life, what I have experienced, only then do I realize how fortunate I am, that gives me gratitude. Love your videos and meditation. Thank you

[@anjalip]

Thank you Aileen for all your advices in this video, it made me smile and feel good :) Personally, I don’t really know where I am in the “healing journey” but I can say that I’m working on it and will pursue what I am doing ! Have a good day ☺

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Today was a overthink and stressful day but I learned a lot in this video thanks alieen and I'm on my first steps of healing

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you're my hero ❤

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I love how conversational this is ❤

[@HIKharyne]

Still on the journey... slowly but steadily. Have had some setbacks but trying to give myself grace and remind myself that small progress is still progress. ❤ this video really made my day. Thank you for all you do!

[@angelinemarsland]

This video was sorely needed. After waking up stressed, alone, confused I needed these words to remind me how I feel. I’m in a stage of healing that requires radical accountability and forgiveness. There’s a lot of healing work I’ve already done, and the next stage is putting that healing into the world, into practice even in the face of loss and pain. Like for example, not always being supported or acknowledged in the way I wish I was by people who are dear to me. Or sometimes it’s just radical accountability in the face of what would be easier and more comfortable. There’s a deep, profound grief in crystallizing the change within myself, letting go of all the old, and yet that is the only way to really feel at peace and at home with myself. And like you said, that journey of accepting loss, letting go of the past, and being here and now is catalyzing of so much peace, wisdom and perspective I never would’ve thought could be available to me.

[@sheilaJGJ]

i feel like i'm in the middle of my healing journey now. The most intense part was when I got pregnant to my first born, and then to my second born. I was experiencing unknown emotions and feelings, turns out it was my inner child that hurt and not ready to see me being a mother. After many therapy session, I came to a conclusion that she was there to help me become a better mom to my sons. the healing part was not easy at all, it hurts, uncomfortable, exhausting, but i'll do it at any cost so I could embrace my motherhood journey ❤ Thank you Aileen for sharing so many helpful videos, it triggers my own reflections and changed how i feels. bless you 🦋

[@ayishahassan9116]

For me.. Healing is just been done by my life... Thanks to all those bad events happened.. I learned to believe' better days are coming'.. Thanks to all those stressful environments around.. I learned to handle everything.. Thanks to all my life experiences.. I learned to sort it out all by myself.. I healed through my life.. Yeah indeed it is a great giver!

[@niarawilcox2371]

I started my healing journey when I realized I was running from myself. I would busy myself with other things to avoid looking internally. I've come a long way since then. Continuing to do the work of self-love and self-acceptance, and just letting myself simply be. To observe with curiosity, instead of judgment. I've been journaling for about 5 years now and it's one of my favorite ways to spend quality time with myself. Yay to the journey! ☺

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This is so amazing! Yay to the journey, love that 🙌🏻

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@@hnnhml thank you! 😁

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[@oamahana]

I need this Aileen, I'm actually alone at school right now, grandpa at the hospital. I just want to cry since a few days, I'm trying to accept what I feel, I think everything is a question of perception, so thank you for this video💗

[@zoemills242]

After having a bad attitude and poor me perspective for years, i nearly died in 2022 and it changed my mindset and perspective completely. Its ridiculous that it took that for me to change, but its been a blessing. I know this is an older video, been binging these ❤

[@DebarpitaDuttaPurkayastha]

I have started to accept my mistakes in a more positive manner rather than holding people associated to me accountable for my sorrow. I feel really free and heavy at the same time. I think I'm somewhere in between healing and letting go.

[@strawberry9497]

You can’t change how other thinks of you, you can also don’t care what other talk because it’s not true. We cannot change other, but we can change how we think and look at ourselves, love ourself ❤Thank you, more encourage and understand and less scolded self

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I love how you openly share your thoughts and feeling with us, I like the cool chill calm comfortable vibes you show in this and all your other videos ♡ Thank you so much this is very neatly presented and I can tell you have made this video with love and care ♡

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[@wuyeen2589]

A lot of things happened when I turned into a teenager, I cried a lot of times and my school grades were also got affected. But whenever I feel happier or better, I appreciate everything that happened and understand more about myself. Things are still happening right now but I know it takes time, it is great that toxic ppl finally leave my life, it takes time for me to forget about them. I want to tell you that even though things are still going on with your life right now, it takes time to heal, this is only a chapter, not a whole book

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aileen from the very beginning you helped me during a hard time, and just today, when i was feeling overwhelmed and stressed with a new sudden change in life, i broke down in the car crying, trying to meditate myself through it and figure things out. Your video came up and i even told me boyfriend, “big sis aileen :”) just who i need rn to see a new perspective” thank you aileen!

[@hollyalvarado2983]

I’ve been on my healing journey for almost six months and I’m finally coming into the light of internal peace for the first time. I have a long way to go, and there’s still many things to release, but one thing I know for sure is that my perspectives on people, trauma and the pain I’ve experienced are changing for the better. I’m now looking at my past as the ticket for my growth and the pain I’ve experienced as lessons. When that perspective light switch goes on, I swear it’s like your whole world changes. It’s not easy and it does take TIME, but the journey is the whole point of hiking this mountain called life. Thank you for this! 💘

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Love to hear your thoughts, sis Aileen! 💌

[@MeditationWithAmber]

I think you said it all 🤍. I experienced anxiety and stress for a long time and when I started my healing journey with mindfulness and meditation I immediately wanted to turn around and share what I had learned with others. You’re so right that the darkness helps us appreciate the light.

[@nombulelomaseso6520]

Healing is not linear but I'm grateful for the seasons of isolation I have grown so much and I'm now intentional about focusing on what I can control instead of what I cant control .

[@happiestgirl8620]

I'm from Vietnam and I love the way you use simple words but still can express your ideas, thoughts, feelings rather than complex words. That's why I enjoy watching your videos

[@klaustasya]

Thank you Aileen for this video. It literally popped out at the right moment, i don't know how is it possible but i consider it a blessing ❤ my healing journey...it was going pretty good, but now i'm experiencing a major sitback that i didn't expect and realized i'm feeling a lot of rage, sorrow, pain and holding a huge grudge. I'm grateful for this awareness ❤ i wish everyone fo feel better soon ❤

[@tsedi6634]

I am on the letting go stage🙌🏾being grateful and living each day with a purpose is keeping me grounded.

[@estrellasyfrases]

I just finished a 30 minute angel meditation about cutting cords with past hurts and present worry and fear. When I returned to the present moment from the meditation, I had the thought pop up that I want to watch one of your videos. This was perfect. I'm going to do some journaling now, in my notebook and my Artist of Life workbook 💕

[@lorrainetrujillo986]

Exactly what I needed to hear! 🙏🏼 Thank You ❤

[@gabrielnicholls2000]

I'm currently on that journey of peace. This was great thank you .

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perfect timing as per usual, thanks Aileen!

[@mashoolya]

This video literally helped me to accept the most difficult situation in my life, thank you.

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i was been through hardest days of life but i was able to heal a lot after seeing this it helped e a lot

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I burst into a little tears. That's amazing ...

[@ikigai_ingbymanjima8999]

Hey Aileen! Sending you so much love and light. You were one of the earliest youtubers I had subscribed during university and though I somewhere stopped regularly watching your videos, I watched this now and realised why exactly you calm and soothe millions of people. It's the vulnerable stories that you have the courage to share. On that note, this year I started my very intense healing journey, including therapy, crying, and yes, like you said, I do feel an intense sense of inner peace. I'm still on and off the path, but so grateful that I am releasing so much of generational sadness and trauma, and bringing in light into my life and for the future generation. And you girl, you are a lot of inspiration behind this healing journey of mine!

[@nidhijoshi7631]

Healing was a very alien word for me, never heard of it, until I saw your healing video approximately around 2 years back. Got myself reiki healed and have been a Reiki healer practitioner since then. Somethings are beyond words , but i am grateful to you for introducing me to the concept of healing. I love healing others , i love making a positive shift in people's life. 🌈🙏😇

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Everything that you go through life, only helps you GROW, helps you EVOLVE into a more stronger and more intellectual person. ✨

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Thank you Aileen ❤. Going through your channel is also a blessing 😇.

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I'm thrilled to be one of the 2 million people that make this wonderful community, congrats Aileen, love you so much ♥️.

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Your words are really powerful! I am finally letting things go to things I don't have control

[@glowinfebruary4548]

recently i found myself that i am the person who afraid to hurt people. few times when i accidently said something might be harsh to some people or make others uncomfortable, i feel very bad about myself. like why i do that, and it lead me to overthinking, and blame myself. fortunately i realized it, and now i'm at the point of discover why i'm so afraid if others dislike me, then after i found the answers i've forgive myself for doing that, and release that emotion of feel bad about myself, and blame myself about others emotions. Now i know that others' emotions is their problem, not my problem. how they react with what i said or what i do, is their responsibility, not mine. thank you for asking this question

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❤ your messages. Release to feel inner peace & joy

[@allthingsauz]

I feel like I'm entering the breakthrough, I've been deep into the journey for almost 2 years and I feel I'm near releasing and reaching freedom🥰 Very happy! The person I was 6 months is not the person I am today!

[@sharonmpofu6910]

Thank you so much I was struggling at my job with so much change and some of it was not right, now it’s going to help me to understand other people.

[@chocolatepinkfins]

I needed to hear this. My healing journey has definitely been a challenge. I feel like I still have a long way to go. Thank you for sharing this perspective with us 😊

[@sreylinmeng5074]

I have learn about the process of healing. your video is so right! I've been healing almost 2 years. I can see the different world when I am jump into this darkness. This darkness taught me a lot how to accept the reality. I can see myself change so much, I can have less pressure for myself when I can let thing go. Yes we are not happy all the same time, we were confused sometime that we have to happy all the time, and it turn out that it is normal to be sad and happy.

[@Prince_ee]

Thank you. Beautiful speech! ♥️ Please do more talks like this. I love your channel 🤍

[@roselandalex]

Thanks for this video!! ❤ This is the prompt I needed to go on a mini-healing and self-reflection journey of my own :)

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Hey I didn't get to you that day.....u really made my day with that comment about starting my youtube channel❤️❤️❤️.....would love to know the name of your channel alex😊😊😊

[@LBlupsy]

recently i‘ve been struggling feeling full from within and worthy of joyful experiences. all in all i‘ve embraced so much peace these past 2 years but i tend to be so hard on myself! i often feel like the hardships that i‘m going through are solely my fault. i‘m currently working on being soft with all my experiences. before i go out with people i always affirm that i am open for new experiences, it honestly works wonders. thank you for your words 💖

[@niveditamenon6045]

Thank you so much for this video 😭😭😭. I am hearing this entire video on repeat because I want to reassure myself that it's okay to feel like this because I always cry when I think that I am evolving from the past me. It's because I also loved the past me, but the past me is sometimes not helping me empathize. But healing has helped me embrace every growth. Thank you so much ❤️

[@erinconner6515]

I am in the beginning of my healing journey. My therapist had me to listen to one of your meditations and it opened me up in a way I did not expect. I am just ready to heal and live my life.

[@itzeltrejo2274]

I believe i'm at the point where i'm becoming more free within myself and at inner peace ❤

[@Aquariusmoon_lover]

I just love her videos the way my heart and mind get relaxed from her videos is just awesome peace

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You're my favorite channel on KZbin these days💕Ur videos have motivated me and helped me change my life around for the better part🥰Thanks so much Aileen !

[@gardenofdeb]

It’s crazy how bad I needed every word you gave.. thank you

[@katbroughtsomelegos]

Healing has been the most difficult and most rewarding journey.

[@crystalrao7922]

Thank you so much for the video, this came right on time. I just had a breakdown and was crying a lot over this weekend. I loved your words about the healing strength

[@Rabiayendrembam]

I am still healing ✨ I always choose strong no matter what 🌼Life is all about the ups and down 🌹 Spreading love and positive 💐

[@lildavis5803]

This video was so well timed. I had been thinking I was at the end of a particularly rough chapter, and the new chapter is on the horizon. Then last night I had a total breakdown, couldn’t stop crying for hours, and just overall feeling like the torment was never going to stop, that I was stuck. Thank you for this. I know I feel better the day after breakdowns, but seeing your video and a few other signs… I’m feeling like I’m where I’m supposed to be, and what I’ve always seen as negative breakdowns are actually releases. ❤

[@esmaraldaceciliarose]

Healing is never linear. Some days are great and some are a little rocky, but you start trending upwards. The lows get higher if that makes sense. Stick with it.

[@esmaraldaceciliarose]

❤️

[@princegeraldofdubai]

I've learned so much to your point of view about healing. Sending love.

[@oliverlocke6644]

This video is ever so helpful to me on my healing journey through trauma, thank you, and I’m still on my healing journey, and I’ve learnt a lot this year about life ☺️ and about myself as well, and your videos are so helpful to me so thank you again ☺️🧡

[@latishaoakes0921]

im in the beginning of my journey. about a couple months. I use and love your videos. thank you for your openness and wisdom.

[@johngomes4278]

Thank you for making this , your channel is so therapeutic lovely Aileen

[@LovepreetKaur-yq7fn]

In my healing journey, I am unable to feel anything. Like nothing is giving me peace and deep satisfaction that I am craving for. I will find my way soon out from this deep darkness. Sending so much Love and strength to all the beautiful souls who are on this journey❤

[@anjalisinha4696]

No... It's a constant journey for me. Like healing... I've been struggling a lot lately....... And this video made me feel am not alone. Thankyou Aileen.❤

[@hmklegend2791]

Yes, this video was on time, thank u Aileen❤

[@janani5811]

Hi aileen your such a great inspiration

[@jaquigeee]

Awwee this is so nice to hear. Thanks 💖

[@annaugcitaly]

I have loved this video so much ❤❤❤

[@abbiecharm]

This is so helpful, Aileen. Thanks for a better perspective at a time when I really need it ❤

[@TheHerrRossi]

Exactly, thank you so much. ❤❤❤

[@drdevyanimathur1355]

Thank you for this! ❤ I needed this😢

[@michaelwspivey35]

You have so much wisdom for such a young lady. I'm 57 and empowering through a breakup with a wonderful person. This video inspired me to share that. Thank you!

[@reginebee2054]

I'm still at the stage of releasing and it came in various ways so my emotions are a good balance of happiness and sadness. But comparing my last year to now, I'm feeling much better to let go of things! Despite not getting there yet, I am ready to experience new roads of my life. :)