One Punch Murder | Jamie Denyer | TEDxHolyhead

When Murder comes to your door - 1 thing changes... EVERYTHING!
What you thought was important isn't anymore. Dreams, goals and ambition disappear. Laughter stops and life becomes a war..
You have to make a choice: Will the perpetrator take YOUR life as well?
Or will you LIVE for the one who had their life stolen?
1 punch can kill
April 14th 2012 changed Jamie’s life forever-this was the date his 19 year old nephew was murdered by a 14 year old boy, after seeing how much destruction it caused his family, he made a decision to tell young people how their actions can have serious consequences.
“The talk from beginning to end just hit me full on. I was gripped through the entire presentation. Incredible, moving, inspiring & emotional is how I would describe it. It’s definitely something every young person needs to hear..." • One Punch Murder | Jam...
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

[@king.brugal9633]

The tone of his voice makes you feel his pain, very impressive and powerful speech thank you for sharing

[@ianvischansky9039]

Transfixed from the first word, what a powerful speaker. Message received.

[@garethmitchell7723]

On occasion anger, righteous anger can create positive change, I think this is one of those times.

[@garethmitchell7723]

let me further define things being angry at a situation isn't the same as anger at a person, the person who murdered your nephew probably didn't mean to, a flash of anger isn't the same as intent.

[@soniagutierrezquiroz5596]

@@garethmitchell7723 Absolutely. I agree 100%. I wonder though if that 14 year old thug was sentenced to life in prison without parole. I know he was sentenced to prison for his murder but how long?

[@MaxStrongman]

@@soniagutierrezquiroz5596not guilty in court

[@thestrays815]

I know I'm 3 years late but this really is one of the best Ted Talks. Trully inspiring Man.

[@kalenjifly]

No constructive comment is to late buddy. ;) Just stay motivated.

[@wenchangeljac6343]

i'm really surprised that this clip hasn't yet hit over 100,000 views?? the passion in his lecture is unreal...... thank you for sharing what happened to you all. really sorry....

[@martinj9647]

Wenchangel Jac I was thinking the same thing... millions of people will *watch* a cat play or something, but somehow only tens of thousands have seen this?

[@dhr.neuteboom4536]

People want to see videos of kids kicking on their bullied schoolmates heads.... not even joking.

[@MeleeStormbringer]

"Everyone of us has a photograph of a moment we wish we could go back and live again and again" you are so right, sir.

[@rachelmcinnes]

Talk about goosebumps and shivers. So powerful xx

[@matthassard6212]

I lost my brother due to murder and this made me think and realize... Thank you so much you sure told a beautiful story n very sorry for your loss, I hope you know how much this has helped me realize so much

[@darrison5984]

Blessington Brother. sometimes we think we're being buried, when really we are actually being planted x

[@griefpreacher5507]

Then we blossom into something beautiful!! Blessings to you D- my brother from another mother ✌🏻️out ☝🏼️love 💙

[@melissastapleton1403]

Wonderful!!! I really love this!!

[@frankday1234]

When you fall foul of the lefties, you could end up suffering both.

[@americaneaglescout1057]

God The Lord is making diamonds out of dust, He's making diamonds out of us.

[@sharmillajowaheer313]

Wow! Deep

[@angleramirez3204]

I've never commented on a KZbin video but this video is incredible ! You Jamie are an amazing speaker, very personable, I felt the passion behind every word and it moved me to tears. I can relate 100% to what your saying and I thank you for - as you say - blossoming from the planting you received. You are exactly what this world needs more of, hope your good ✨

[@SaintNarcissa]

I cried, tears actually fell down my face. I could have used this harsh, raw, life altering talk years ago, but I'm so glad I found it now. Thank you Jamie Denyer and thank you Conner.

[@borobri1980]

This guys is amazing, saw him speak at a conference in Darlington, came out of the seminar with more energy than ever before. Absolutely inspirational.

[@ananimity7332]

Thank you for this..it's like you're passing on Connor's love of helping people. You've opened my eyes and touched my heart. This should be shown in schools.

[@TimElliottuk]

this guy .... this guy people .....everyone need to see this man and this talk !

[@griefpreacher5507]

Thankyou my friend... THANKYOU!!! ✌🏻️💙

[@peterlanghorn8123]

Beautiful dedication to Connor , our loved ones never ever leave us xxx

[@griefpreacher5507]

I couldn't of said it better myself Peter! I was one of the honoured 6 that carried Connor to his final resting place.. I carried him on my shoulder that day, and carry him in my heart forever more! NEVER EVER LEAVE US xxx

[@lknapp081]

So sorry for your loss. Thank you for such a passionate and inspirational speech. God bless you!

[@steffir.f.7200]

I commented before I finished the video... And it just kept getting better and better. You're such a strong soul, so giving and very motivating. Thank you! #weareallone

[@griefpreacher5507]

I'm very humbled by your kind words. It truly does mean more to me than you know! THANKYOU for stopping by and taking up your valuable time to comment. Stay blessed.💙

[@andrewpain_speaker]

It's a great talk - powerful, grounded, honest and humble - one of the best ted talks you'll see

[@marliesajohnson5789]

Jamie, so brave of you to share your experiences and allowing ppl to learn from your journey. I can only imagine the countless ppl you've inspired. Thank You 😊

[@derailleurmind0454]

the most I ever got out of a ted talk, absolutely amazing and truly resonated with me and my life experience. had me in tears. so heartfelt and true. your changing paradigms and its a blessing to all who can receive the message your putting out there. stay blessed.

[@Ethan-te2wb]

Jaimie came to my college today at around 11:30 am and gave us a 2 hour talk. he was very inspirational and had a few of my classmates in tear or on the verge. he’s very motivational with his words and a highly respected man. big ups to you jaimie, thank you

[@carladee3844]

So glad I was told about this and got to see it, truly inspirational. Keep on your life’s mission! I’m with you every step of the way 🙌

[@ThursdayChild420]

Truly worth the time to watch. I often say Time is our Most Precious Resource, hoping to remind myself of that as much as others. More people should see this talk.

[@chloet182]

I’m so glad he’s doing something so beautifully POSITIVE and life changing with his grief and pain! His nephew the encourager would be exceptionally proud of your work 👏

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

What an incredible guy! Thank you for such a transparent, powerful and inspiring talk. Pain,when used properly, can be a powerful force for transformation

[@christoal6418]

glad I watched this, makes you realize you've been worrying about the wrong things all along.

[@DrTempesta]

This is an incredible talk, extraordinary.

[@griefpreacher5507]

Thank you so much for your comment! It means more to me than you know Stay blessed

[@dco5181]

literally lifechanging

[@jameshoughtaling2460]

Extremely powerful speaker... I had a lump in my throat the entire time he spoke.. Sorry for his loss you can tell he truly loves his people..

[@denisedelashmitt329]

I originally watched this a couple of months ago and this morning the message weighed heavily on me. This is of value and needs to be heard as lives will be touched.

[@griefpreacher5507]

THANKYOU so much Dede my lovely... Sending you best wishes and blessings across the water 💙✌🏻️

[@lornafeeney430]

So brave, but such an amazing thing to do, in love of your nephew and everyone who needs to hear this. Thank you.

[@kp___kp69]

alot of respect to the man on stage...

[@jennifermartin6296]

hdhd jdjd *a lot

[@reds17riggs20]

brother that was deep!! and very true. idk how i got to this video but it was ment for me. Your words just make so much more sense when you speak it. sorry for the loss! keep doing the thing you were blessed to do!! much love

[@shalupatel9155]

Amazing!! Your way of conveying your message almost gave me Goosebumps... Thank you for reminding the basics to live life..Connor really was a very inspiring person and taught us a lot about living life..😊

[@griefpreacher5507]

Shalu.. I'm so humbled by your words!! Thankyou for taking the time to stop by and leave your amazing comment. Connor was, is, and always will be an extraordinary inspiration! Blessings

[@san.j594]

Sorry for your loss. I am very moved. It was a reality check for me. We all have a purpose in life that money can’t buy. A beautiful legacy I hope for me. ❤️. Thank you! 🙏🏾

[@jadayoung329]

POWERFUL AND SIMPLY AMAZING. THANK YOU I NEEDED THAT.

[@rls831]

Was scrolling through Instagram and saw a comment on Ronda Rousey latest post about GRUMPTION and a post by GriefPreacher using the word Grumption to forgive a murder and then telling people to search KZbin for "One Punch Murder". I stopped and reread the comment because I normally don't go check out product or talks people suggest but for some reason I did and Absolutely Powerful. Not only did your words resonate with me, touch me and empower me I also have requested to follow on Instagram. I lost my father ti Cancer and he never smoked, drank or did anything to cause him to become sick; he's been "sleep" for almost two years now and I've carried so much pain, suffering and hate with me about his lost because I never understood why...why my father was dealt such a crappy hand. But listening to you preach about forgiveness, that time is so precious and family that today at this moment I forgive my father for leaving me. Forgive him for being in so much pain and suffering the last few years of his life. Forgive him for being so brave and strong for me and my family on his last day before going to sleep. Forgive him for leaving me because he left because it was his tine and it's now my time to grow, be stronger and be brave for what life has to throw at me. So thank you GriefPreacher for giving me the greatest gift I could have asked for...my life back. God Bless you, your family and Connor.

[@griefpreacher5507]

Your comment has inspired me more than you'll ever know!!! I'm here for you if needed 💙

[@ronaldsouza5230]

Man thank you so very very much for setting off so many emotions. I can't even come up with the words on the way I feel, all I know is it's what I needed to hear!!!! Thanx again!!

[@JohnJohnson-id7vr]

My favourite ted talk ever . What a legend. Your compassion and genuine belief in your words has made me reconnect with me foundation

[@TaraLaFonGooch]

Such a profound and moving story, it brought me to tears and touched me deeply. I am so sorry for the loss of your nephew, may his name live on forever.

[@jwildonger2158]

TED talk the only thing that comes to mind is POWERFUL!! YOU DEFINITLY HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD . I'M SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY YOU RIP CONNOR

[@suesuex4123]

Nothing short of amazing this guy. He's always making changes in all that he does x

[@JamesCaldecott]

Absolutely incredible! What an inspiring speaker! Jamie your words would have helped many people just know that!

[@Bobs2cents]

A very wise address, indeed! We should all aspire to be a better person, a better human being. Thank you so much!

[@22lbsboost]

having had many fellow students pass in high school this hits home, I can't imagine the feeling of my best friend when he had to sit through the trial of his dead brother...deep stuff, awesome lecture! couldn't agree more about the basics

[@chetrok1]

On a serious note, Im am sincerely sorry for youre loss, thank you for sharing Conners story and youre strength as well

[@peterwhent66]

The man just takes the air from the room. Totally inspirational.

[@damonbervoets1435]

This is a real eye opener, a very inspiring and thought provoking talk, and a sad loss to hear about the death of Connor. Its nice to know that something positive came out of the terrible situation.

[@docsio]

Thank you for this. Your message is universal.

[@user-pk2wg5vc2r]

When I watched this talk in person at my school, I think half of my year group cried, and I was one of them. I really admire this man for putting all of the arrogant boys in my year in their place and I think they realized they can't keep acting like idiots for the rest of their lives. Powerful message

[@user-mi3df3ms8v]

Yh he talked at my school yesterday 😂

[@live4christ295]

This video should have 40 million views. Such an inspiration to me this morning I had to leave this message even if it's 2 years later. God bless this man and his family. Everyday is a blessing and a opportunity to better than we were yesterday.

[@griefpreacher5507]

Live 4Christ thank you my BROTHER. Blessings ✌🏼💙

[@ThoughtswithFelix]

I know this is years later but this is the most inspiring speech I’ve ever heard, should have millions of views.

[@angelinasecatero7507]

I didn't know this is what i needed to hear. Glad i watched and listened. Time to re-evaluate things in my life.

[@mchelwor8126]

I feel like this needs a dope beat

[@IndicaDreaming]

I seriously thought he was going to bust into a grime freestyle just because of his passion and urgency to deliver a message.

[@someoneontheinternet6378]

@@IndicaDreaming AND His clothes

[@adriennestjohn4383]

@@someoneontheinternet6378 It's not about the dressage it's about the message.

[@smilercr7737]

He came to my school and is absolutely amazing changed my life ♥️

[@melissastapleton1403]

This is extraordinary, truly important. God bless you sir, thank you for your message❤

[@alfox2730]

Powerful message. It touched my heart profoundly. I'm very confused as to how this video could possibly have any thumbs down.👎

[@JimmyNaraineOfficial]

very important message and such a strong delivery, thanks man!

[@huskvarsm]

Wow that really was powerful it’s made me look at parts of my life that need to change.

[@mariocox5376]

very inspirational talk Jamie, you've obviously not let hatred and bitterness get the better of you, and turned the tables on a very sad situation. you describe eloquently in your own style what life certainly does have in store for us, and a noble philosophy of how to transcend the inevitable grief. it sounds like you are a man on a mission, keep up the good work ;)

[@dtx7462]

It was a blessing to experience a talk from the Grief Preacher today in Brecon Theatre as part of a student conference with NPTC Group. Such an eye opening, inspiring and motivating experience to say the least! I will be bringing my R-GAME to every obstacle I encounter in life from now on! Peace and love 👏🏻

[@douglasschneider3012]

Amazing beyond words...

[@mrPauljacob]

wow this was a very intense ted talks.. Great stuff. r.i.p

[@robpoehlman1817]

Thank you for your passion, very powerful and thought provoking.

[@lp.shakur]

I literally picked up my phone called my Gran and told her I love her more than anything in this world 😭

[@foxglove1268]

This was beautiful. Thank you.

[@jimmyv2003]

I got the chills! Thank you! Very motivational.

[@christophermotte7532]

instantly one of my favs, going into my playlist.

[@delusional_lucidity4545]

OMG, what an intensely, powerful talk and man. R.I.P. MR. Conor

[@tornadod23]

This was speaking right to me at this time in my life when I need it the most. I believe the Lord led me here today! First let me say I am so sorry for your loss... ❤Connor was a beautiful boy and he would be so honored and proud for what you have done for him, helping his death not be in vain. Thank you for sharing Connors helping hand with me, I hope to carry this lesson with me always! Powerful, life changing inspiration. Thank you!

[@PJToxophilus]

Strong and beautiful. Thank you

[@cameronthomas865]

He spoke to my college today. Such a great man

[@yogcast133]

Cameron Thomas ACT?

[@aidanhumes6407]

This video is so powerful. Life changing

[@user-no8qq4he9w]

Ive met Jamie in person he talka about wht he believes and his nephew didnt deserve wht happened i love jamies talks ❤

[@anacondaadultlearningcente4522]

For some of us the thing we have to let go of is the wish that our family is not toxic and is not poisoning us. For some of us being faithful to the monster we have had to live with is the thing that we have to shut away--forever.

[@allisonthomas721]

powerful voice made me cry the same thing happened to my brother from behind coward punch miss him so much my heart breaks our family will never be the same . god bless you conner rip sweetheart x

[@carolyndamico2924]

My condolences to you. So sorry this happened to you. This speaker was so real. Life is so precious ❤️

[@song9119]

This speech is a keeper! RIP Conner! U have some amazing advocates down here!

[@TheStar798]

@GriefPreacher - not only did you make me reevaluate how I spend my time - my minutes, you introduced me to a phenomenal young man this morning - Connor. (I heard about you via LordanArts). Thank you for tearing back the veil to show us all what really matters. My thoughts and prayers for healing, and peace, are with your whole family 💐

[@griefpreacher5507]

I’m truly honoured that you watched, and then commented. Thank you for your “time”. Stay blessed 🙏🏻💙

[@success4global841]

Incredible Ted Talk, Great Delivery

[@Quazi-moto]

This was one of the most powerful talks I've heard. Needs more views. Share, people. He speaks nothing but truth.

[@michaeldigiovanni5381]

This is an amazing speaker. Extremely captivating

[@conormellin3900]

This guy came to my school he is extremely nice and motivating

[@zovi123]

Never cried listening to a TEDx like I did now.

[@zachdancy5828]

Conor Was a Wonderful Human Being!! 7 people Saved and counting! Great Speech! What a Fantastic Uncle!

[@thomasmorgan1574]

Came into my school today and talked to us🙏🏻

[@CameronEarlyMusic]

amazing.

[@ashalon8729]

And some sink in the storm....R.I.P. Chris we miss and love you

[@waltercummings9911]

You can just feel the pain message received jaime

[@toby2409]

In my view THE BEST INSPIRATIONAL SPEAKER for young and old alike. Well done Jamie. 💙💙💙💙

[@gnarlywagner8171]

In all honesty this changed my life

[@VMorales923]

Preach it brother.... by this everyone will know that u are my disciples if u love one another. John 13:35 And I love how u say Conner is forever asleep! Praise god! We do not die we go to sleep until the coming of Jesus Christ!! We will see our brothers & sisters in heaven I truly truly believe that

[@ticcerz1790]

one if the best ted talks ive seen

[@BradBurton]

Powerful stuff.

[@priyankasharma-xd7wh]

Very very impressive.and motivational !!

[@scoresound7115]

powerful

[@Adam-bm1ty]

I was in school with Jamie… what a moving speech bro x

[@korissasilver4381]

I’m bawling 😭

[@cvawter44]

This one is amazing !

[@freyastaples2702]

Amazing talk

[@bigben2833]

Rare I watch these things but this guy had me focused from the start.such a shame what happened to his nephew the saying that the good die young is so true.i send blessing to the family

[@sherylrichards5858]

So inspirational!