OnlyFans Model Murder Trial | Christian Obumseli's Family to Sue Security Guards

[@CourtTV]

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[@wildchook745]

Don't make excuses for her. She's aware of what she's doing and don't give a sht! Put her in jail.

[@IvyElizabeth918]

She’s already there.. been there for about a year now awaiting trial

[@melodyblanchard2017]

totally agree shes crazy and a murderer

[@debeenanderson6834]

Agreed..it is what it is.why sugar coat her behaviour

[@queenkeeekeee]

It’s that simple Boooooooooom

[@kellybealer5763]

Agreed

[@mariahcraft5230]

Breaks my heart when he was dying she didn’t even know her own address & he had to use his last breathes telling her? This is so heartbreaking.

[@nicolewade160]

Seriously!!!! Like, WHAT!?!??

[@carolinegallegos_]

Everyone keeps saying the abuse was mutual but I haven’t seen a shred of evidence of Christian abusing Courtney. Only her abusing him.

[@Dark_WolFeather]

Exactly 💯

[@yaaraadrianavardi4163]

Facts

[@starttheconvopod]

He was her enabler. He knew about her abusive ways, drug use etc and decided to stay with her no matter what. He loved the idea of being with someone like her. However, nobody deserves or foresees that outcome.

[@Chop2016]

He should have left. Why stay with someone so brutal

[@bettywillbrowse]

​@@starttheconvopodthat doesn't define abusive tho

[@mixedupmargie]

🙏please don't let her get away with murder, he deserves justice.

[@michellearroyo816]

Period 😢

[@nicolewade160]

Seriously, but they let her go in less than 24 hrs!!! Miami-dade police are definitely racists

[@Fighterforjustice-l6y]

He got his justice.

[@FLOATERS-w1o]

​@@nicolewade160 PLEASE, GOD PLEASE!! YEA, RIGHT!!! AT THAT POINT..SHE KNEW SHE WAS IN DEEP TROUBLE AND GONE TO FAR.

[@FLOATERS-w1o]

​@@Fighterforjustice-l6yWHAT ARE YOU SAYING?

[@danahsutton101]

Courtney murdered him not the apartment building.

[@peachespage2923]

He stayed for the money and he paid for the luxury with his life. He chose, his family knew.

[@2FRESH-4U]

@@peachespage2923the love of money is the root of all evil

[@gillmiller3702]

@@peachespage2923victim blaming

[@josimpson7999]

@@peachespage2923You knew him and his family?? Otherwise it’s pure speculation isn’t it?

[@peachespage2923]

@@gillmiller3702 she stabbed him previously. He got elevator smirking at her.

[@LivsTanks]

BPD is no excuse and I’m sick and tired of that being said. She’s a murderer and it’s not because of the BPD. Scared to share my diagnosis now because of this constant blaming actions on a disorder

[@Belle_Ndebeledoll]

I couldn’t agree with you more. All these excuses of BPD, for those of us on the Dissociative Disorder spectrum, as soon as there is a high profile case and BPD gets thrown around we get painted with the same brush. None of the experts point out that there are patients who have spent years and lots of money in appropriate therapy (DBT), practice mindfulness techniques daily, and take mood stabilizer medication daily and religiously, not just relying on a quick fix. As we mature and age the symptoms also lessen. Another thing to consider is on average the majority of BPD patients commit su**ide and do not harm others. The only thing that these types of cases do is stigmatize all of us, which is really unfair to those of us who have put in the work to be better and heal.

[@juliaw107]

100% agree. This woman is throwing around BPD. Not everyone with BPD is violent. This is severely damaging for those who have gotten treatment for BPD. They need to keep these diagnoses out of the equation when talking about a high profile case like this. They attach a very negative stigma to this diagnosis. The problem was Courtney klenney and NOT the disorder. Majority of people who have BPD do NOT act this way. It is troubling to me why no one can correct this woman when she is saying these things that are so damaging. Something that I live by/something that is always in the back of my mind day to day is this: “I am in control of how I react. I can only control my actions.” Learning to regulate emotions and learning to take responsibility for your own actions is so important. BPD didn’t make klenney throw a knife and kill that man. Klenney did that and she knew what she had done.

[@charghhhmaine1423]

I have BPD and anti social personality disorder and my god when I was told my diagnosis I was sectioned for referring to myself as a bit** concerned it means I was psycho I would never do what this girl has done so why is this woman throwing personality disorders under the bus so publicly this should be removed , personally I'm reporting it for misinformation

[@staceys2711]

Well, are you aggressive? Do u beat on your boyfriends? Cuz if you do then maybe it is linked. However, if you don't then your point is made. I think females in general need to start learning that just as it's not ok for a man to hit a woman, it's also not ever OK for a woman to hit a man either. Alot of females think it's OK for them to beat on their male partners, and he's just supposed to keep taking those beatings. Like no. Abuse is abuse no matter the gender. The females of our generation and younger generations need to be raised to learn that it's never ok to hit anyone. Go flipping punch a pillow if you have anger or aggression to get out! Everyone needs to stop with the "woman is always the victim" mentality. Many men are in abusive relationships as well.

[@teshaortiz1764]

Yes girl me too.. this made me want to cry with anger but I withheld because we know the truth ❤ this diagnosis is not our fault but we still have hearts of gold and could never will never commit murder… I’ve been in a domestic violence situation and he beat me til no end and I never could do what he did to me… if I ever hurt him scratched him in a tussle I would cry !!!!! Ugh

[@mystockroom]

"How dangerious this relationship was"...You mean how dangerous she is. She is a psycho and he was desperate. I think if a girl stabs you once that's a big red flag she'll do it again.

[@kateashby3066]

Seriously!! Those words would never have been uttered if she were the victim. HE would have been blamed for her death, not the relationship. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@NileGoddess]

He was desperate to be with a white chick.

[@jacquelinesento425]

And that's how people end up dead in domestic violence they continue to stay in that relationship sadly. You here about this all the time on the news usually its the woman abused but in this case it's the man. He was probably too embarrassed to ask for help or tell anybody seems like more and more women in the news killing their partners

[@SMALLDANE]

Once is a pattern

[@nosiphongwenya7413]

She was too dangerous; a ticking time bomb

[@Jaded368]

If he was an abuser he woulda slammed her back in that elevator😂 she is such a liar

[@AnnaClusker]

No he wouldn't if he was aware of the video recorder....

[@deneenogbeide5087]

Regardless of her diagnosis she killed someone. She needs to pay for her actions her violent behavior took a man’s life.

[@chelly2468]

And he is also responsible for staying with her after she had already stabbed him before. He is a grown man. No one can make him leave.

[@MandyAltamirano]

​@@chelly2468He is stupid.

[@kateashby3066]

@@chelly2468he’s responsible for staying. He’s NOT responsible for being dead. Get it right.

[@kateashby3066]

BPD here and correct- we don’t get to use a diagnosis to excuse actions. Only the criminally insane can do that and they are too far gone to even string those words together. I know the difference between right and wrong. Today I can pause and make non-impulsive choices. But before I got help that was very hard. Regardless it’s MY responsibility.

[@shaun5047]

@@chelly2468 lol Wonder if you keep the same energy when a woman is killed by an abusive boyfriend. “She’s a grown woman. She already got beaten bloody before. No one can make her leave.”

[@janlefebvre932]

Those 2 were grown adults that are and were responsible for their own actions. They had a well documented volatile relationship. Security guards probably figured it was just another one of their fights. Security guards are not babysitters. I'm deeply sorry for the loss of that innocent young man and I pray he gets justice.

[@fuzzyspirals]

Evicting them would not have prevented the murder. It just won’t happen there or have happened sooner. You can’t blame others for the behavior of others. What apartment complex is responsible for her taking her meds?

[@LisaSimpsonRules]

The elevator video shows how intelligent she was: she pretended to be calm and collected until they were out of everybody else's sight. And then she would start physically and verbally abusing it. Security would hear the mayhem, but they wouldn't even be able to understand that it was HER, not HIM, the one doing the abuse.

[@taxiuniversum]

Yea. It’s ridiculous and pathetic. But randomly suing every possible person in the vicinity is an industry in Murica.

[@LisaSimpsonRules]

That's sad. Now it is too late. The family should have insisted that he leave the relationship, maybe coming back to the parents' home for a while until he is back on his keep. Or make him disappear to some friend or faraway relative for a while. I don't know if they offered this or not: maybe he refused to go, which is quite typical from abused people at relationships. To me, now it seems a little too late to try and finding guilty parties. @@taxiuniversum

[@malcriadamedina5358]

no this is an important lawsuit that could set a precedent. Whether it was a man or a woman, security companies must intervene in serious domestic violence occurring within their property. they're liable not for not doing nothing once, but due to the history of violence.

[@wolfpecker5710]

Yeah and there is NO medication for Borderline Personality Disorder either. The only thing that can be done is work on yourself through things like Dialectal Behavior Therapy… and you have to REALLY want to change. Those videos and this story are triggering as hell. Like I’m reliving my nightmare. My ex has BPD and she was extremely abusive too. She used to get upset and punch me or throw things at me or tell me she was going to slit my throat in my sleep. I’d always retreat from her and either leave or lock myself in the bathroom. Next thing I know she’d be gas lighting the hell out of me telling she never hit me and the reason my eye is black was from tripping and bumping it. But just like that guy, I just wanted to appreciate when she was in a good mood so I’d let it go. Truth be told, even though she was abusive i just felt so low about myself that I became co-dependent as hell. It took a lot for me to leave and even more for me to cut off contact completely regardless of how lonely I was feeling. Now looking back I’m eternally grateful that I was able to leave and move on cause I totally could have been him.

[@menjiii01]

He died knowing she killed him. How horrible. Evil woman.

[@StacysSoCalledLife]

As much as I believe she is fully guilty of his murder, I don’t think the security should be held accountable by it. They can only do so much unfortunately.

[@spiderweb5539]

Had the security made entry to the apartment they’d be suing them for that too.

[@Leaveit_alone]

Security can call police. They are liable along with the building owner for allowing this behavior to continue.

[@spiderweb5539]

@@Leaveit_alone they did call the police.

[@Leaveit_alone]

​@@spiderweb5539Yet they still ALLOWED this behavior to continue.

[@Alex_1995]

​@@Leaveit_aloneyou might as well sue the parents and friends too bc they all knew this kind of stuff happened too. Stupid logic. How is the security supposed to know that he got stabbed? They argued all the time

[@Whet-wb9jt]

When you hate yourself, you will latch onto anyone that validates you SMH

[@jmo123DT]

Exactly he's responsible also because he stayed in the relationship

[@Petra-R]

@@jmo123DT whats wrong with y‘all? Do you say the same to a woman who is stuck in an abusive relationship? Maybe he 5ought he can „safe“ her, help her get better, or didnt see the severity of her abuse. Like most people dont see in such situations (i didnt see it for 6yrs). To fault the victim for getting abused and killed is so fucked up!!

[@jmo123DT]

@Petra-R @Petra-R Those are all valid excuses for sure. Hes still responsible to some degree for making a conscius CHOICE TO STAY in a volatile situation. I think its true that 'you don't know what you don't know so how can you be expected to do any different' but also 'when you know better you do better'.

[@jmo123DT]

@Petra-R if everyone around you is warning you about the situation you're in but you decide to ignore it instead of actually considering it, then yes you are responsible on some level because youve been made aware of the consequences. now you know better

[@CarmenHughes-ox1cm]

@@jmo123DT He's responsible?? Honey, you slow? If it was the other way round would you have said the same thing? I doubt it. Silly woman

[@Lbeenk]

Geezus this chick is crazy. Glass, knife and then supposedly threw a knife that was fatal. Attacks him the elevator…!!! Looks like a lot of domestic violence from her.

[@Youreallylooked]

NO knife was THROWN 🙄 she STABBED him. NO ONE throws a knife that lands so deep in someone’s neck they die 🙄 2:29 of the video on the 911 call, she SAYS “my boyfriend is dying of a stab wound” BECAUSE SHE STABBED HIM

[@alexanderalexander6134]

Right! If the roles where reversed this wouldn’t even be a question! Nothing would be questioned! Guilty until proven innocent!!

[@misstbull]

What's crazy us he was there after so much rough stuff to finally get stabbed to death

[@wolfpecker5710]

@@misstbullmakes me so grateful i got out of mine after 2.5 years cause these videos remind me so much of what i went through. My ex had BPD and was abusive as hell! She’d hit me, throw things at me, tell me she was going slit my throat in my sleep. Her mom told my mom after we broke up that she was scared of her daughter once she got to be a teenager and would lock her bedrooms door every night cause she was scared she’d do something.

[@elaineisabelle427]

It takes two to tango, he's no innocent little angel.

[@passionpourelegance]

Victim blaming and defending the abuser and coming up with excuses for the abuser? WOW!!! I'm glad she is not my psychologist. She should NOT be, because she is absolutely terrible at it smh.

[@veronicascott8012]

Absolutely agree.. smug. Like it's so easy, 'just leave'.. wth!

[@jeanniepiller3421]

Totally agree. Has she not studied the relationship between abusers and their victims? It's not as easy as just leave. She's saying he liked the abuse. This is infuriating. She is horrible.

[@teshaortiz1764]

It’s not that easy to leave !!!!! A lot of people on here have no fucknnn idea what it’s like even the people on this here screen ! Have no life experience have been sheltered their whole life ! Stay in your damn lane !!!!!! We need professionals who have lived it instead of reading about it !

[@paigeanguish6216]

nobody did that tho. watch the whole video instead of stopping to complain when it continues on w the complete opposite being said

[@walliegoolsby5389]

Bottom line she is guilty.

[@nanoir28]

She's psychotic... poor guy. Male abuse is real😢

[@nasaifashiontv9947]

Ohh yeah!

[@nasaifashiontv9947]

Ohh yeah!

[@leilaglissom8012]

He signed up for it and came back for a big heaping dose and he got it. I feel no empathy for him at all. He was pathetic and they're making so many excuses for that animal Courtney and that is pathetic. If he so much as gave her a mean look in Florida, his blk ass would've been locked up since she is yt and racism rules the amerikkkan system..

[@babsoneverything3060]

So apartment complexes are now responsible for enforcing the law? This is a ridiculous lawsuit.

[@maliroa6113]

It really is. Even if they had gotten in or even evicted them, if the couple stayed together this was going to happen eventually elsewhere.

[@heididimuzio76]

And he was a grown man who decided to stay with a volatile woman, who he engaged with. His fault for staying.

[@AriKhuu]

@@heididimuzio76victim blaming is never ok.

[@kavitadeva]

Are you sure you understand that this is a murder trial? NOT a trial if the building security were active appropriately.

[@babsoneverything3060]

If you had watched the video, you would have understood what I'm referring to. The lawyer is suing the apartment complex security for not doing anything when the couple was fighting, as if it's the security personnel's fault that he was murdered. Try to pay attention.@@kavitadeva

[@mermaid-n-a-wineglass3689]

This is a horrific case of domestic violence. Unfortunately I don’t see how the security of the apartment complex could of saved his life. Her history of domestic violence towards Christian as well as her exes just shows that a tragedy like this was bound to happen. No one ever held her accountable until now.

[@jamiebrumant8512]

I was thinking the same thing " how come she was never held accountable for her bad behaviour

[@DoncasterLass]

security guards are to secure a building not interfere with peoples personal lives. they were probably used to them arguing constantly and just thought it as another occasion. just sounds like a money grab to me. a water leak or fire is not the same. this lawsuit is shameful. an eviction would not have saved him. disgraceful.

[@tonybrownox]

🎯💯

[@Leaveit_alone]

Wrong Security is there to protect the building AND tenants.

[@redxfingernails]

@@Leaveit_alonewrong. Police are to protect people. Security guards are for buildings. This is definitely a money grab.

[@Leaveit_alone]

​@redxfingernails I live in a building with security. You are wrong. They are there to protect tenants also. That is the main reason for security. Security of the tenants. Security then gets police involved. Seen it happen many times.

[@redxfingernails]

@@Leaveit_alone as do I. But exactly as you said …Security calls the police. These are two separate and different entities with different job descriptions, training and rules.

[@grandmasadvice3012]

The videos of her violent attack in the lift is terrifying.ripping out his hair I have never seen someone in a lift being so violent . Then to see her in the integration by the police, even more disturbing. I have made my grandsons watch the video, telling them just how horrific the violence was & to leave DV when to walk away & report it immediately . When Watching her pulling out his hair, & her interview she was so deceptive. Mental health is an issue, but she was supposed to take medication. Then to see her after the crime going out to a bar with her father, no accountability only leaving when people called her out she’s . Amber Heard .20 Men are also victims of DV but don’t report it because of shame.

[@youtubeuser5683]

That man was already dead inside when he let her call him a ethnic slur and stuck around with her afterwards.

[@mariaseidi4023]

Its because She had Money ,and She is white ...

[@lavish_rayne5730]

He was a typical bum that thought white was right, he obviously loved how he was treated because he stayed stayed..

[@nomudnolotus4410]

The trauma bond is real af. Its a horrible push and pull game they play. The abusive push part stands out because its so obvious for others to see but what others rarely see is the pull part of the dynamic. The guilt trips and self serving affection they heap of you after a period of abuse is why men stay and its hard to describe to someone thats never experienced it.

[@MandyAltamirano]

​@@nomudnolotus4410It's because of codependency. They have no self esteem to walk away. I'm not racist but I hate seeing a white girl with a black man. To me, it by itself, is a huge red flag of a bunch of insecurities being met in unhealthy ways. Date within your own race.

[@pbj0815]

Exactly!!

[@christinebaker6987]

She was not right. I feel so sorry for that poor man!

[@rullvox5912]

Hotel security can't just break into someone's apt because they are yelling at one another. That lawsuit is frivolous and will fail.

[@user-nj9db2tg9w]

But the jurors will be scared to be accused of being racist if they don’t find them guilty so I’m sure they will effect their verdict

[@queenie.lawyergirl.pittymom]

Right? It's seems desperate and I empathize but unless they violated terms or procedures, I don't see the suit going very far. If there was a policy that they ignored or something, they may have a case. Let's see

[@jendee1260]

not in 2023. lol

[@miaribishop3545]

This wasn’t a hotel . Also yes they can because it was in their lease !

[@bestdjaf7499]

​​@@miaribishop3545 Dude, you obviously have never worked in security. Every organization would tell you not to get involved & call the cops. They are just building security. They have no guns or tasers... They are not some kind of professionals in hand combat ... You want them to risk there life for $15 an hour!? Btw, What if she would stab/shoot the security guards? * So the security guards just followed the standard procedure & called the cops & waited by the door. There is nothing else they could do.

[@xPROGNOSISx]

Looks like he should’ve chose better. She was yelling slurs at him and he insisted on being mistreated for three meals and a cot. Suing the apartments is ridiculous.

[@kristinmarra7005]

Domestic disputes are the most dangerous assignments for cops. The security guards were probably untrained for such a situation. And why should the building owners be held responsible? Something’s off here

[@bipolartyranttroller]

Who told you that? Cops are killed by their bad driving and by pulling over speeders causing themselves to be traffic obstacles which has been proven to be more dangerous than speeding. Not to mention that they use this garbage to break the 4th Wall oops the 4th Amendment! All to look for weed! lol SUPERHEROES!

[@LinTrueCrimeProject]

My friend was an officer who died at one. He was the only casualty, not the animals who started it.

[@Lisa-hc3uq]

@truecrimeproject2023 My ex was a police officer for 34 years. He said that domestic calls were the most dangerous calls because police have no idea what they're walking into. It's a risk they took every time they arrived at a domestic disturbance. Diffusing what's taking place upon arrival is the hardest. He'd say you don't know if anyone is armed with a weapon, what the circumstances are, etc. The call itself gave them insight / little information until you're there, in person to witness it. I'm sorry for your friends loss. My condolences to you.

[@bipolartyranttroller]

@@LinTrueCrimeProject well that makes one more good cop in my opinion! You want to talk about animals? Look up WALWORTH COUNTY CASE 2003CM000155 and get back to me with the name on that case!

[@bipolartyranttroller]

@@LinTrueCrimeProject apparently you still back the blue because it hasn’t happened to you……yet or you are like the other 97.5% of the people in this country that do not understand the law!

[@theeradiantgoddess]

I wish he didn't put her on a pedestal. He clearly thought she was better than women of his own race. It's not about race but character, and she is deplorable. Why didn't he get a restraining order and leave? I wish they would have got him out of there though.

[@vevrvivnv]

This attorney is full of it. What a b.s. lawsuit.

[@jnnlis]

Yeah. She’s stretching

[@feebee1451]

Exactly

[@sserpentchic1342]

Ridiculous lawsuit. I lose alot if respect and sympathy for families of victims when they pull this crap. Hope this frivolous lawsuit gets thrown out and they have to cough up legal fees on behalf of the innocent security guards they are dragging into this toxic mess...

[@bquietsouhear]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@judistocker1811]

She is and will continue to be a very toxic person. She needs to remain in custody and found responsible for his death

[@CPS24.7]

manslaughter

[@mzalchemy9236]

@@CPS24.7No, manslaughter suggests it was an accident….this was NOT!

[@skiff51]

To all my brothers: So you say you want a snow bunny, eh

[@LegalMuva]

She was 2 min into speaking when I became ill. The stretch & lack of accountability is sickening. “The security owed Christian more”… NO SHE, WHO Murdered HIM OWED CHRISTIAN MORE! This is an apt building. They cannot discriminate against the mental ill. They’re not Miami police. They collect rent & provide security for the premises. Not inside ppls domestic dwelling. Rent is high as hell these days. Law suits like this don’t help! Sue her in a civil trial period.

[@oluwaseyia8548]

The fact that she wasn't providing the info for EMS while pretending to be distraught as he was dying was beyond comprehension

[@lyndaczika6327]

She may have also been high. She made one of her “Only Fans” or “TikTok” videos just before this happened. She said at the end “I’m going to go smoke my puff”..so, it’s possible.

[@whoopsydaisy6389]

I'm sorry but this is ridiculous. What kind of lawyer advocates for security busting into your apartment under threat of litigation if they hear yelling? Can you inagine the violations of privacy? Imagine that creepy security guy letting himself in to your place on a whim because they can claim they heard a ruckus. This lawsuit is not only preposterous, but also very dangerous if it's successful.

[@justdandy4209]

Agreed lol.. I see a lot of people in the comments who have no idea what security are there to do and what their limitations are. Security guards are not the police. They can not just break down people's doors.

[@gingerhickerson5792]

So if they heard him screaming, stop, stabbing me put the knife down with the enter then I think if I heard that outside of an apartment door, I might try something banging on the door pulling a fire alarm or something

[@loz6795]

I don’t see how the building security is responsible. Even if they evicted them they would have gone to live somewhere else and the same thing would have happened. And saying they can break the door down if they hear noises is preposterous. I know ppl who scream while playing around and laughing but standing on the other side of a door it could sound like something else. How would you like your door busted in bcz you were having an argument even. It’s crazy and I can’t help think the family are doing this for money. Just sayin’ 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@tamimoncrief2264]

Blaming the security guards is ridiculous. They dint intervene for this very reason of bring sued. Their arguments were so common , they didnt know Courtney was stabbing him. Ciurtney is acciuntable for her actions.

[@reneegardner2286]

she actually asked for a protection order on camera and nothing was done. this could've been prevented imo

[@peachespage2923]

What a load of crap. This is no one’s fault but psycho that killed him and him for staying. If the building owner went in the occupants would have sued them. Maybe the family should have intervened instead of blaming others.

[@Mina.15]

He never told his family what's going on with his relationship.

[@peachespage2923]

@@Mina.15 the authorities have texts.

[@mzalchemy9236]

@Peach His family had NOTHING to do with the death of their relative. Courtney had EVERYTHING to do with it. This suspension of facts & common sense when it comes to certain individuals…I wonder where this comes from?🤷🏾‍♀️😏 (“/s”)

[@pudda33]

Courtney can act for the camera when needed to be, saying she's scared. When she have always been the aggressive one, she is off the rails 20:21

[@w.i.t.c.h.1330]

I hate that this family has to go through this, but security would not have saved their son's life. They did right by calling PD immediately imo.

[@mekahuggins6801]

It amazes me how they try to blame the victim and act like the killer is some how a victim. But, I am truly not surprised.

[@meganj4366]

Not evicting them is also nothing to do with a security guard personnel that has to do with the ownership of the property in which they are renting from.

[@SMALLDANE]

The most dangerous time with these kind of people is when the abused tries to leave. Loosing control is their absolute biggest fear and they lash out. Be very, very careful.

[@wolfpecker5710]

I went through a very similar situation and got out after 2.5 years 😔 My ex has BPD and she was EXTREMELY abusive too. Beyond hitting and choking me all the time she would say stuff like “I’ll just slit your throat while you’re asleep” or completely gas light me into thinking I was crazy and that she didn’t hit me(even though I’d have a black eye). I would always retreat to locking myself in the bathroom or leaving the residence in entirety. I never fought back, I really did love her and the last thing I ever wanted to do was hurt her. I never understood how someone could stay in abusive relationships until I seemingly found myself in one. The extreme manipulation that comes with it makes everything so conflated and it’s hard to really see everything when it’s so close to your face. Not only that but most abusers are good at isolating their victims your family and friends too. My respects to anyone who has ever experienced domestic violence 🙏 BTW there is NO medication for Borderline Personality Disorder. The only way to truly treat it is though therapy(specifically Dialectical Behavioral Therapy). There is a book on it called “I hate you, don’t leave me” that explains BPD really well. Thank you for shining light on this!

[@gingerhickerson5792]

And they say it comes from an abusive parent in my case. It was an abusive mother towards her daughter, and then I let her be my roommate I couldn’t take it after, but it was horrible.

[@_NLA_]

Happy to hear that you were able to get out of the situation.

[@Whet-wb9jt]

Yes wolfpecker, there are no medications for this. I'm glad you got away because most people just age out of it in their 50s and 60s.

[@reneegardner2286]

Just having BPD also doesn't mean a person is physically abusive also.

[@save2rave61]

I too suffered at the hands of a very partner with bdp. After we divorced. She went through many many relationships and failed. My kids have now had to live with it too.

[@rosiew777]

The other lady is just as bad. Holy moley !! Not all people with BPD are bad people. Thanks for the stigma & making it out like they are incompetent of having any relationship

[@claricelyles8398]

Its important to note that toxic relationships are a feature of BPD. That doesn't mean they're incapable of healthy relationships but most times due to the disorder they will not be having those.

[@coolkidd151]

What was security supposed to do?

[@Haarschmuckfachgeschafttadpole]

Seems like you just don't understand. Security was supposed to be police and also supposed to be psychic and supposed to be perfect people with zero flaws 100% of the time.

[@coolkidd151]

@@Haarschmuckfachgeschafttadpole lol right. And the lawyer is acting as if evicting them would have prevented the murder. It’s an apartment complex not a hospital, or Doctors who are to be treating mental patients. SMH what a joke

[@Leaveit_alone]

Security is responsible for calling police.

[@coolkidd151]

@@Leaveit_alone which occurred the notified the front desk and they called the police

[@Leaveit_alone]

​@coolkidd151 Based on psycho woman's lies.

[@starttheconvopod]

The sad part is that he truly loved her. It sounds like he had multiple chances to leave but he had faith that she would change for the better. Can’t blame him, but sad about the outcome. You love who you love.

[@moriA503]

Give me a break!!!! He’s a male so he feeds off the chaos?? This infuriates me😡 this is so wrong in so many levels!! She’s stabbed him before gaslighting him on video? It goes to show men apparently can’t be abused however this woman is a violent predator who apparently wasn’t taking her medication if true? She’s definitely on something other than her meds!! Look how thin she was then and now? Ridiculous sad situation!!!

[@ohheylovely]

Many of his friends talked about not saying anything bc they both did drugs and they both were seen hitting each other. They were both toxic. People around them need to think about their accountability. The social media of all the friends shows more than what’s here. He didn’t deserve to die. He also should have not been in a toxic relationship where they both were mentally disturbed and on drugs.

[@freespiritchristina]

@@ohheylovely Can you share where you’ve read this? It’s difficult to leave a toxic relationship, especially when one is an addict/alcoholic. I was neither and it took me years to leave my abus-r… & I obviously had insecure attachments from childhood trauma. From all my research, I think it’s pretty clear they both had issues with substances, but Courtney had an obvious personality disorder and was the clear aggressor. At least most of the time. I think they both had some unresolved childhood trauma, and the truth is, you don’t know what you don’t know… until you do! Trauma therapy and my dog saved me! Reactive abuse is a real thing. As you said, no matter what, Christian absolutely never deserved to die. He was a victim. 💔

[@YmgBandz]

@@ohheylovely you got no proof of him hitting her you just running ya damn dirty mouth 😂

[@lisabrightly]

If he didn't feed off the abuse, why did he keep going back?

[@moriA503]

@@lisabrightly Really??? Educate yourself with abuse regardless male female 😠

[@jendine1663]

I don't think he was abusive. I think he was codependent and in a trauma bond.

[@cynthiah.3015]

C.C. stabbed him on purpose, she Did 🚫 Not throw the 🔪 knife, she stabbed him with all her might to the hilt! Lock 🔐 her up.

[@Nihilinstar]

This is ridiculous. It isn't the responsibility of the landlord to prevent a murder they had no way of predicting it would happen. They aren't respknsible for her mental health. And EVEN IF THEY HAD evicted them, the murder would just have happened somewhere else. This is a frivolous lawsuit. A tragic matter, but completely out of line to sue the security/ landlord. They were on top of it calling the police.

[@robyn874]

No security team, LE - No One could of prevented this! Her anger was out of control & unfortunately this murder was bound to happen. Hopefully Christian & his Family will get justice 🙏💙

[@JWildberry]

What the hell? You can't hold building owners or building security responsible for domestic violence!

[@pipermccool]

Lawsuits like this only make the people filing them look like opportunists.

[@AB-et1ug]

Absolutely not they saw her abusing him in the lift and did nothing

[@taraji_b]

@@AB-et1ugwhat are they going to do other than call the cops

[@cuccicucci4480]

@@taraji_b Call the cops happened over and over. These security folks are not babysitters barging in everytime they hear an argument behind closed doors. It's her fault and nobody else involved. When something happens call the cops. His family should've done something to get him out of there after the 1st stabbing.

[@jenerin905]

Yes, this feels very much like a grasping at straws. Courtney absolutely is 100% responsible for killing Christian. But the security company is not responsible for Christian's decision to be with Courtney, especially after she stabbed him! She's insane and she absolutely will do this again if freed. BPD is nothing to mess with.

[@spettie98]

Opportunist is a stretch, I think they just want to hold everyone that could be responsible accountable. I don’t believe the apartments are accountable but if they do, you can’t tell them how to feel..

[@ang_ro]

"Why would he stay if she was abusing him like this?" Trauma Bonds, lady. Look it up 🙄🙄

[@inavanzyl8322]

IMO she is guilty of murder. She was uncontrollable. She was going to abuse him till he died. Its NOT SELF DEFENCE! I hope the jury sees that

[@teresamicco6073]

Blaming security? Why didn’t Christian leave? He was the one being abused apparently. He’s a grown adult and could have avoided his own murder. Such a shame.

[@shaunareid3513]

You don't blame the victim he just wanted her to calm down but you don't see women saying it's both when the male is the abuser she is the abuser and there is no excuse.

[@candicewells8736]

I feel the same way!!

[@torifoxx1579]

I really appreciated that the host of this show asked these professionals how someone might get out of a bad situation. 3 years ago that was me & they’re right. After the first time get out & never look back!

[@chrysanthe1297]

Acknowledgement he was in denial. He probably didn’t think he was being abused and that he could handle her. Sadly he met his demise.

[@starttheconvopod]

I think he truly loved her. He had faith that with meds, she would eventually change. He was never going to leave her.

[@vleestar7283]

Lawyers are the worst! Blaming the security guards and expecting them to break down the door and possibly get stabbed themselves wtf? She's a bad lawyer, too, because this is also not a good look for the family during a jury trial

[@pistolvania412typeshyt]

This girl is out of control and public threat.. keep her locked up like an animal

[@nadedjadannevik6272]

She doesn't even know her own address and is asking the man that she stabbed to give the police the address 🤦🏽‍♀

[@aaronrenaud6261]

Can't wait to see all the evidence in this trial

[@w.i.t.c.h.1330]

No way she's getting off for this. I'd be shocked.

[@peanut_butter_falcon]

I think she is guilty and should be held accountable, but the manager saying he was the aggressor in one of the foyer videos I saw with the police present could cast doubt with the jury 😢(Just a thought of mine) @@w.i.t.c.h.1330

[@Miadolph427]

She wasn’t a model, she spread her legs for a living and people paid for it. She is a murderer and the fact that the attorney is trying to get the evidence that she abused him thrown out is all you need to know about his character. He should be ashamed of himself.

[@taxiuniversum]

I find it a bit ridiculous and pathetic how America is addicted to suing the sht out of one another from any imaginable angle. I get it: It makes lawyers a boat load of money. But the government should limit this nonsense to some reasonable levels. This psycho girl could have murdered her spouse ANYWHERE. Had they been evicted, the murder would have taken place somewhere else.

[@snicole042]

It’s the government doing it, Portland for example uses law firms to sue the city (citizens)for trying to clean up. What they don’t tell you is the government through(NGOs and non profits) steal our tax dollars to hire these firms to screw us over. It’s the liberal way.

[@bquietsouhear]

👏👏👏👏👏👏 100% 👏👏👏👏👏💪

[@maxx8942]

She should go to prison and the Apartment security should be accountable also. Violence is violence. Led to murder.

[@andrewDaMack]

This is the second time I've heard this so called expert said the same BS "why did he keep going back if he was being abused". I called out Court TV for allowing her to say this without challenging her but here she is again saying the same BS!

[@veronicascott8012]

Exactly! Would they have asked that question if SHE was the victim?! I don't think so ☹️

[@dawnsmith7209]

She’s Amber Heard to the extreme! Been in a domestic violence relationship and he was not the perpetrator- she was!!

[@Victoria.Verde51]

Im not sure a landlord is responsible for the behavior of tenents. They perhaps could have evicted both of them...but it really was incombant on the victim to get help/leave the relationship😮

[@millana100]

She was clearly a violent and unsafe tenant. They should have been evicted. It wouldn't have changed his fate, but that is what a landlord is supposed to do; keep their property safe and quiet for other tenants.

[@Leaveit_alone]

​@@millana100💯

[@gingerhickerson5792]

If that was a friend of mine, I would advise him to either have a taser on him or mace anything to stop her because she is out of control, and I have seen it before with a roommate of mine, and I don’t wanna go there again never buy towards me just outto lunch, no matter what you say or do they listen and pretend to keep advice, and then they just turn around and do the same thing psychosis upon them as a child caregiver, mother or father or both

[@DanielleGarcia-qi2si]

The only thing eviction would have changed was where this murder took place wth

[@mirandaajames]

Yep, Amber Heard Jr. Johnny was lucky the only thing he lost in that relationship was the tip of his finger. If he stayed there would have likely been a murder trial instead of a defamation lawsuit.

[@shrutefarms4741]

100%. He is lucky he had security and millions to run away from her. Amber will find herself accused again trust me.

[@honeylicious9546]

Johnny was far from innocent

[@susancuello4073]

She sure is able to behave while in custody. Shouldn't she be losing her temper every now and then if she has that diagnosis?

[@eentun9340]

My heart aches for the victims mother. I wish you healing I wish you peace sending you healing angels 💙💙💙

[@chattahuffman5117]

While i believe 100% she should be held accountable in court, this is a frivilous and far reaching lawsuit.

[@hernandezb2178]

Ummmm Dr. Sue is off regarding BPD 😅 there’s not such thing as “severe BPD” there’s only BPD and yes what makes this personality disorder so dangerous is the poor impulse control, highly volatile interpersonal relationships, and highly suicide attempts due to the impulsive behavior. Medications help treat the impulses not that “cures” the disorder but when combined with talk therapy mainly DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy) help the person suffering to learn how to observe the emotions rather than acting on the emotions. I’ll be your guest next time 😅 I can talk about personality disorders all day long. While I may appreciate her contributions, she’s not a licensed clinician and does not provide psychotherapy. You need to work with this population and by work I mean treating the whole person with their personality disorders. And DV happens to men that’s right but it’s not something new Dr. Sue we are just now talking more about it.

[@sueannwashere]

Dr. Sue's explanation of what borderline personality disorder is was extremely cringeworthy, you can tell seh has no idea what she's talking about.

[@Iamwatching823]

Security is to observe and report. Blame the girl not the building.

[@cabralliliveth11]

Omg that was chilling hearing him say “I can’t feel my arms am dying,am gonna die” smh wow that heartbreaking .😢

[@usagilennon89]

Just because someone has a smirk on their face during an argument does not mean they are an abuser. You can't always just leave the first time you get hit. It's not that simple...

[@Absent-being_]

This lawsuit is ridiculous. Get a grip, América!

[@sabineliebehenz4492]

If the genders would be exchanged, much more would have been done to help the victim. This society still doesn’t get the idea, that men can be victims too.

[@amanda2525]

I completely agree. Seems people make it the mans fault no matter what.

[@candicewells8736]

Completely agree! I am a DV advocate in VA and it makes me mad when dealing with feminist advocates that believe women are always the abused, don’t have a clue about BPD and don’t ever think women lie quite frequently about DV and that is also a part of BPD.

[@dawnatkinson7704]

That's not true. Years ago, maybe, but police have much better training now. But the fact of the matter is that the majority of victims are female and perpetrators male. Around 90%. Not to mention that guns aside, physically men have the advantage (in general). There are of course outliers but the majority of abusers are male.

[@candicewells8736]

@@dawnatkinson7704 That is the narrative that society wants us to believe.. statistics are based on what is reported…we know more men do not report than non reported women…I personally have dealt with many false reports and all from women…..in general incidents where men are the victims are not taken as serious… and women know how to lie on the male and know they will be believed, I have had a few women say this to me, they only called the cops to get the guy to leave because they were mad and they would make sure they did…then they admit to lying or they don’t want to testify because they know they lied…

[@MandyAltamirano]

Oh they CAN be victims. But he had a history of fighting with her and he's twice her size and probably 3 X stronger.

[@creampuffwar4457]

This lawsuit is so clearly frivolous - ridiculous to make the security company responsible for crazy tenants behaviour - only in America

[@concertvip6221]

She’s insane for taking this to trial. This girl is going to prison guaranteed. The only question being how long. I would beg for a plea deal. Her biggest issue is that she’s simply not likable and although jury’s aren’t supposed to take that into consideration at the end of the day we all know they do. She thinks she can get away with this because she’s privileged in her mind i simply doesn’t matter whether she’s guilty or not.

[@XxDyneXxFreeEnergyx]

Courtney clenney is currently facing 35 years in state prison

[@beck1365]

I can’t believe that psychologist questions why HE didn’t leave the relationship. That is textbook victim blaming.

[@lisabrightly]

So he was completely helpless and incapable of making decisions for his safety?

[@kristinmarra7005]

I’m worried about the poor dog. Hope it’s okay.

[@Derpherppington]

a chinese man adopted it couple days later and took it for a wok

[@TruCrimeQueen]

There were 2 dogs I believe and the parents have them. There was another video, where these two got into a fight in the car with the dogs with them, they got out, left the car running and took off several blocks away and left those poor dogs behind. They endangered everyone in their lives. Both of them are to blame for their recklessness.

[@Bonnie62563]

How does this lady know he came from a violent home?

[@grumpymrpug9282]

Only fans to only jail

[@kassandraahuero7962]

She is guilty this family didn't do anything to help their son suing security is crazy it seems like they only care about money!

[@shayshaymann113]

Nobody chooses to have mental illnesses, but treating it and maintaining it IS their responsibility!!

[@dove5729]

Christian wasn’t a kid, he could have left at any moment, but he chose to stay with her,he could have SIMPLY WALK AWAY,and stay alive! Rest in peace! 😢

[@rachelwhitaker5244]

It the same question of why didn’t women that was abuse leave the man abuser? Men who were or even are abuse would not admit about being abused because no one would believe them due to their strength. Other would say their tough and fight back. Respectful men don’t hurt women because they learn from their parent not to hurt them. Also who would believe them? They may be mocked or even hurt for it. Pluse once you leave they will find a way to hurt the men even more by stalking, horrassing them every where and worse even finding a way to get them back into their couch to hurt even more. Women abuser are a lot worse than men abuser.

[@kateashby3066]

Recovering BPD here. At the beginning of this video you said that she had a mental illness and I immediately suspected BPD because uncontrollable violence is a common symptom. I went to google it then you told us it is in fact BPD. It’s a HELL of a mental issue. It’s never ever an excuse for violence though. Those in treatment should not be in a relationship. It’s nearly impossible to have a healthy relationship with an untreated BPD and abuse is a guarantee (emotional and/ or physical)

[@Beyatchenator]

Those *not* in treatment should not be in a relationship

[@JackieOlantern]

It’s such a difficult disorder to deal with . I’m sorry you have to deal with it and I’m glad you’re doing well. My husband’s ex wife has it but there is no recovery... even after decades of psychiatric care and tons of meds. She would come up to us and start a fight and try to punch me and my husband at my step kid’s sporting events… 😵‍💫🫣 even multiple arrests and losing custody of her kids didn’t stop her behavior. 😣I hope you continue to do well.

[@anneg8162]

For him to continue to allow her to abuse him so thoroughly means he should have known how she would end him. He more or less asked for it.

[@honeylicious9546]

My ex always played innocent ent when other were involved...., when they weren't he was the devvillllll

[@leilaglissom8012]

Exactly

[@leilaglissom8012]

​@honeylicious9546 oh please, no blk guy in Florida is physically harming a yt girl and not serving time in jail....he was never touching her like that. We know, it's never yt peoples fault...smdh

[@HockeyBros100]

Not for nothing but I think for the “experts” to say “get out and surround yourself with good people “ is simplistic and harmful. The reporter thank goodness brought up important points that lead to productive conversation

[@Makeup_and_Me]

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DON'T THINK EVERY PERSON WITH BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER IS LIKE THIS! We aren't all like this woman and Amber Heard.

[@azrobbins01]

They keep saying "stabbed him to death", but I thought her story was that the knife slipped out of her hand and flew across the room and hit him accidentally?

[@elsaling5431]

They had a history of domestic violence and he had a choice to leave for months but he chose not to. Since she has a borderline personality disorder, his family attorney is trying to go after the apartment complex for a payout.

[@SenseiChanel96]

She didn’t want to kill him but she did. She stabbed him because she couldn’t control her anger. She definitely wanted to hurt him, she just took it too far. At the very least this is manslaughter.

[@VanessaMancini-yk4fw]

Toxic relationships can push people the a level. A dangerous one . I saw many videos of them fighting about cheating. She said he was constantly cheating . And he was said to be gaslighting her and sending her down a mental health spiral. . They both abused each other apparently. Very sad.

[@safuratu]

This is a bogus lawsuit, Christian did nothing to protect himself from her. Cuz he keeps forgiving her. The only person responsible for this is the woman who is already being charged.

[@mraereed]

Dang it! I just promised my husband I would not let myself get wrapped up in another trial, after the Dan Markel murder trials! But hold my beer on this one!

[@Dark_WolFeather]

😅😅right.

[@bquietsouhear]

You better clarify, to that man, that the Dan Markel trials are not over!🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 And ? IDK...... specifically & simultaniously add this to the mix, (say it like, super speedy fast), w/a cough, (cover your mouth😂), "Andtheonlyfansmodelone"! Let him hold your beer, (&drink it🍺🍻🥃🍻😂), BEFORE submitting the updated info to him. 🤣😂🤣😂😎😎😎 If that don't work? Just admit that you have a problem & tell him that you are going to counseling & the therapist recommends that you decrease your dosages of court trials slowly, over time, (insert only fans trial date here), because stopping cold turkey can cause you to uncontrollably, 'act out' & develop a resentment which can lead you to criminal behaviors because you were compressed in your marriage by a partner who ignorantly intervened by controlling your trials & threw your defense arguments in the trash! He gotta leave that therapy to the pros! (Remind him that court t.v. has them on the panel too)! 💪💪💪💪💃💃💃💃😂🤣😂🤣😂😏