I Want to Live Like A Millionaire | Spendaholics | Only Human

[@jenniferm1293]

I understand what her sister is saying about not bailing her out but she shouldn't have encouraged her shopping habits. If you know that a friend/family member is hugely in debt don't go shopping or out to expensive dinners with them. Invite them to other activities that don't involve spending.

[@merdekaagussaputra1504]

This is nice. Thanks for your advice.

[@pastaaaaaaaaoo3796]

I agree. All the people she knows are very well off so they look down on her habits despite having the same ones. They can't expect a person who's never been taught how to handle money to just know how to handle money when they've grown up around people who have the means to splurge. I just felt the bad for her the whole video with the general lack of understanding that came from the people around her with exception to her mother.

[@latonyawatts0801]

That's right if u no a person's in debt don't have them going shopping with u. Because that's incurred them to do so. Include them in to doing Free in pressed thing.

[@Laoriginal718]

She didn’t encourage anything. Her sister is a grown woman.

[@Laoriginal718]

@@pastaaaaaaaaoo3796 they can afford to have the habits they have.

[@kittymervine6115]

the point is, "I spend money to stop feeling bad." So many things aren't to feel GOOD, it's to stop from feeling BAD.

[@MelissaRae1975]

That was Gold

[@Pretty_Boy_Proud_Fil-Am]

I feel this.

[@abigaelrarts2257]

big part of drug addiction too unfortunately

[@Dulnaivi]

From the title, I really thought this was going to be 55 minutes of a brat being a brat but this girl is the absolute sweetest and she seems like she has a really good heart. The team really came together and it seemed like the help they gave her was not just for views, it looked like real change happened and she got her life back.

[@KP-fl7hr]

I was expecting the same and was pleasantly surprised. I hope things work out for her :)

[@davisholman8149]

She looks 45, not 32.😳

[@padmasalam5267]

Agreed!

[@padmasalam5267]

@@davisholman8149 she is 28.

[@dewidavies9161]

@@padmasalam5267 if she looked like that at 28 then wow that was one tough paper round in mordor

[@sophy_lophy]

I really feel for Shannon, and I think maybe the people she’s surrounded with (successful family, high earners in the work place) make her feel inadequate and ‘not good enough’ which may lead her to overspend to boost her sense of self worth. Hope she’s doing well!

[@christinegraham7693]

Sophie Taylor yeah, look for some poor friends.

[@The_torero]

Clearly she is an insecure person if she feels the need to "keep up" with those around her. Her type is prone to jealousy of others too.

[@jenniferhcsmith-5586]

@@christinegraham7693 not poor but within reason.

[@nativeamericanfeather9948]

Get friends that live life doing more than spending money

[@LeeAnneRMT]

Ironically people are always telling poor people to surround themselves with wealthy people to "level up".

[@lisadonavan6133]

I truly wish they’d do a “where are they now?” follow up. So curious to see if these lessons stuck with folks like this sweet woman.

[@Hamzak786]

Same

[@georginacat7667]

Shes married to a rich Cypriot with 2 kids .

[@chellybaby]

Really?

[@georginacat7667]

@@chellybaby yes honestly I found her on Facebook

[@leila4150]

@@georginacat7667 what's her surname?

[@ethannkyle9858]

Man... she's actually a normal person, her personality is surprisingly humble. I actually feel concerned for her.

[@ethannkyle9858]

@@MakroTranslations damn, you're probably right. She even fooled me....

[@31oise]

It's her enviroment. I mean look at her sister. Invites her out yet doesn't want to help her pay some off the debt

[@31oise]

@@MakroTranslations Psychopath? How'd you get to that conclusion? You do know what a psychopath is right?

[@thomasfristmd1876]

@@ethannkyle9858 don't be so quick to believe a prejudice person like MGTOW Stacker.

[@yeetheet1869]

@@thomasfristmd1876 Agreed. His username screams out incel and misogynist, I would take anything the person says with a pinch of salt

[@jansolostar]

Poor girl, she just doesnt want to lose face. Shes got to change her environment.

[@Rat_Queen86]

No she needs a reality check.

[@tygafhgf]

Poor girl? Yes exactly she's poor cuz she cant be responsible adult. No sympathy

[@user-qp6lj6gu7s]

@@benedictjoseph3832 Her problem is that she is running from her emotions and erasing herself and her needs, the real long term solution will never be to run away even more even if it sounds good on paper to travel and meditate.

[@user-qp6lj6gu7s]

@@tygafhgf Did you watch the show before commenting? She clearly has childhood trauma and she's running away from her emotions by distracting herself with bulimia and self destructive spending and giving, watch these timestamps if you don't have time for the whole thing: 17:10 she is clearly shut off and can't see the connections between her current actions and past trauma 19:15 rehearsed lines about it all being fine and great when it's obviously not 20:46 therapist talking with the mother 34:23 visually confronting the trauma she couldn't even acknowledge before, this might help you or other viewers see the pattern as well 37:48 eating disorder connection among other things

[@foxayfox]

I feel bad for her. She obviously feels not as good as her family and friends.If I was her Id move out of that house and get new friends.

[@hurrem5927]

Victoria Louise same here.. if that were my sister and she was struggling I would bail her out, I feel sad for her as she clearly hasn’t got a great support network.. she’s the least rich and yet the most giving.

[@zoesbookchat1050]

Her sister had bailed her out before. Just because others have money, it doesn't mean they are obligated to get a person or people out of the financial debt they put themselves in. If relief is made easy for them, they'll never learn. She needs to grow up and amend her mindset. When (maybe she did because this is an old video) gets a better salary, then she can spend to match that. It just pays to be a very good steward of your finances though.

[@TimothyRichard12345]

@@zoesbookchat1050 I completely understand but her sister needs to stop taking her shopping then. She knows she’s in debt and complains about it but continues to worsen her habit.

[@hairproducts7637]

@@TimothyRichard12345 True

[@nildabridgeman8104]

@@hurrem5927 don't know why, but in my experience many who have the least to give the most

[@gberia1]

She seems to be a really nice person. And this show makes me evaluate my spending habits too and the potential causes behind them.

[@tomsheils1096]

Me too

[@nes4348]

Same

[@endeavouringit]

ditto

[@sherriginter5792]

Wow I thought of the same thing.

[@nuchzara97]

Same ...it is good to find out.

[@johngablesmith4671]

Her teeth look GREAT - so natural looking. Not artificially white and square,

[@dantexventa3695]

10 grand baby

[@kathleenking47]

Some people have square teeth, and small ;)

[@francesgillotti1378]

@@dantexventa3695 I got an implant for broken front tooth . Cost me $8000 and took two years .

[@annieradosevich]

They look like average American teeth :)

[@thegreenmanofnorwich]

She probably started dental treatments when a check up started showing damage from bulimia.

[@cocodakilla]

City life is the same. They expect you to drink and go out nearly all the time to stay in the "in" crowd and others are looked at as weirdos. These people aren't friends!

[@daisychain3007]

I hardly ever go out and I don't feel bad about it. Stuff other people's reactions. It is their lookout, not mine.

[@solidstate9451]

I live in a city, before covid we met at my house, eating breakfast together or watching movies in the evening.

[@bhuvaneshwarij1326]

Ya one of my ex friends called us to a posh restaurant to treat us on her birthday and then she split the bill..it was so embarrassing

[@whyme7996]

@@bhuvaneshwarij1326 why didn't you do something to treat HER on HER birthday? that's embarrassing.

[@bhuvaneshwarij1326]

@@whyme7996 lol v already threw her a party at office

[@elizah9917]

Does everyone else love the early 2000s music and fashion throwbacks.. Sophie Ellie’s Bexter, Rachel Stevens, Calvin Harris when he was still Scottish..

[@imalrockme]

Every episode is a trip.

[@strawkat]

"when he was still scottish" hahaha

[@daisychain3007]

The fashion of the early 2000's is much better than that of any year in the 1970's.

[@superpuppy321]

@@daisychain3007 the fashion of the early 2000s was a meth crazed disaster..

[@exxology1]

The excessive tanning is definitely an early 2000’s throwback!

[@Christian-xb6no]

It's really horrid how the milionaire sister will go shopping with her and then complain how she can't afford it and how she can't bail her out. -_-" Well if you invite a fried or sibling to a fun activity together... obviously you must both be doing it for it to be fun... she feels she has to keep up... What is she to do? Just sit there and look at what the sister buys? Very toxic environment...

[@4Runneradventures]

Agreed

[@tomsheils1096]

My wife used to have a so called friend called and this girl would buy stuff and eat in front of her and talked down to her like she was garbage. This girl acted and dressed like she was rich and put on all sorts of airs

[@mechellewinslow65]

My thoughts exactly! sis should help out or treat! I would treat my sisters!

[@tahiraj.2456]

I've been around so called friends and family like this I don't go out with them any more.

[@ufaalvaro]

Exactly!

[@romac9516]

If you really want something, wait two weeks and after that, if you still want it, get it. The result for me is that I hardly ever buy anything, we're more in love with the idea of things than the things themselves. After two weeks of choosing something you lose interest but still benefit from the intrigue and excitement of having something new.

[@wenchen8173]

Well said!

[@geronimo5537]

The irony being that most millionaires live more cheaply than she does.

[@btwimawesome101]

its funny most rich people are frugal... can never get rich when ur constantly living beyond your means lol

[@beccaj8094]

I don’t think you’ve met a millionaire ?

[@Valecto]

@@beccaj8094 I know at least one... I'm even wearing his shoes right now! 😎 The difference is to spend within your means and for things you actually need.

[@btwimawesome101]

@@beccaj8094 Frugal is relative to their income.. Spending with in your means is also relative. Im not saying theyre cheap they just make smart decisions.

[@ivythai9644]

Becca J have you ever watched Graham Stephan on KZbin

[@HangNguyen-ih8rf]

I stoped having friend when I got too poor to afford it....those fancy girls didn’t want to hang out at bookstore or coffee or the park with me so I call it quit.

[@user-jy3zl2vp4b]

Exactly! There is fun to be had that is free!

[@mariasalas3888]

Same here! They did not want to go for a jogging evening or a walk with our dogs, just activities that includes alcohol and money.

[@a697ag]

These are "good time friends" not real friends. She's old enough to know the difference

[@starrjohnson1327]

When me and my ex broke up I went crazy spending. I had an older work friend(10 years older) who was ready to party 🎉 lol. Long story short- I was spending $1000 a month on going out, staying up late and got behind on my bills. I couldn't afford my apt anymore so I moved back home. I had to walk away from that work friend! I found out she was behind on her bills too😑. Now I save and have my own place😊

[@mackinacisland3825]

@@starrjohnson1327 my guess most of her friends r in the same shape. It takes a lot of courage to step away from this type of lifestyle. U did great. U should be very proud of yourself.

[@monomiracle1]

She matured during the programme from being the immature, giggly 15 year old to a mature, taking responsibility for her behaviour 30+ Yr old. Great viewing. & wish her all the best for her future!

[@katemiller7874]

Some people are just happy. I’m a happy, giggly 55 year old. It’s my personality.

[@lauriegani8136]

Three Words: Thrift Store Shopping. I cannot tell you the quality stuff that gets donated, especially in wealthier areas. Just found some Jimmy Choo’s for less than $20 this week

[@latonyawatts0801]

Where that's store at City Town Country State.

[@rianamomo6597]

Woah such a steal! Love that.

[@deannaw9128]

Yup

[@simpleton2090]

That made me choke up. Like, I have heard you can find good stuff but Jimmy Choo’s? I really got caught off guard lol

[@JehanineMelmoth]

In the 80s I found a Chanel blouse in a charity shop. It looked amazing and I wore it for many years. It cost £5.

[@PigSty1985]

She's really receptive to the help she's receiving and seems like a genuinely sweet person. If i could I'd want to be there for her too. I'm not even surprised she's so popular. Really hoping her friends have embraced the new her and accepted her for who she is regardless of spending habits.

[@dariawells7438]

The riskiest thing about this episode is the male host's red and black leather Michael Jackson jacket

[@cityhawk]

Daria Wells No one is going to mistaken him for a fashionista.

[@cherieroatz4233]

I though i was the only one who noticed this!!!!! Lols

[@jasha7579]

where? time?

[@jasha7579]

@@sssssxnnnnn oh yea right damn😂 hella smexy😋😎

[@aprilblossoms4]

Eeeks! Just saw it 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@emusaurus]

I used to spend a lot too, but never went into debt. Then one day my older brother asked me “do you really need all that junk? What does it do for you?” And then I watched the story of stuff. And just like that, I stopped buying stuff and started saving astronomical amounts of money. I’m happier knowing I have money in the bank incase something happens. I don’t think everyone who spends has deep seeded emotional issues, but have rather just been had by the millions of advertisements we’re subjected to daily.

[@cityhawk]

I get what he’s saying about her walking away from a stable relationship, but not everyone wants marriage. There is a chance that she saw qualities in her longtime boyfriend, that made her see that he wasn’t marriage material. Not everything is a matter of “cold feet”, which is sloppy and lazy analysis. Sometimes people have a good way of leaving out clues as to why they shouldn’t get married. There’s probably more to that story than what was mentioned here. Although she lives in mountains of debt, she could lead a satisfying life once she is able to find her way out of her financial issues. Being married doesn’t necessarily mean your life is complete, there can be a litany of unwanted entanglements for both parties. Marriage doesn’t necessarily mean stability. If she wants to live the life of a single woman and be happy with it, she shouldn’t be forced to marriage just because of social constructs.

[@mandymaeK1]

I agree, but she spoke about how much she wanted those things until she had them. Whether it was something internal to her or something about the partner that led her to end her relationship, I don’t believe she’s being forced to marriage. She expressed a desire for that.

[@whyme7996]

@Glockiana17 running and fear...party girls are all about running away and fear of reality. It's a 13 year old girl pretending to be an adult.

[@tiamelancholyjeoncockity]

Can’t believe I’m actually watching a documentary because of a tik tok audio, I’d have to thank that one. I relate so much to her it’s scary, I hope I never become this bad or get into debt cuz I’m a college student having a lot of tuition to pay off 💀

[@lakeshasmith4401]

Consumerism and materism are all symptoms. She needs to sit down with herself and find out why she "needs" to shop/ fit in/ fixate on on appearence, ect. Lovely girl, I wish her the best.

[@MelissaRae1975]

Omg that was a bombshell I was not expecting to hear that from her. That is a huge step and I am so proud of her for making that breakthrough. I hope she gets some help to guide her thru this. My heart breaks for her and want the world for her. She is a sweet person you can see that

[@darkladyofthemoon4444]

The mom definitely seemed uncomfortable when Shannon opened up to her. She was leaning away from Shannon.

[@nativeamericanfeather9948]

I seen that too. Like she didn't even want to hug her. She was far from sincere or sentimental..or caring..concerned. I would be asking how I could help,ask her to see a dr. To check her health,& go with her to get help or counseling. That mom didnt even comfort her:/

[@kimwarner1681]

yeah..there is definitely something more to the relationship with these two.

[@dangsood4945]

Tbh in the early 2000s, people in the UK didn't talk. To an extent its still the same way - you don't tell others about your problems because you don't want to worry people or it's all bit too emotional. It's getting better but my American friend who's living in the UK says British people still squirm when she talks about bad stuff, and as a Brit I totally get it. There's a culture here of not making a fuss about things. That interaction she had with her mum was fairly standard for the UK tbh.

[@dangsood4945]

@@michellecd4722 lol do whatever ya want

[@lmusima3275]

If that’s how her mum reacted then this why she took long to tell her

[@babycakes8434]

They gave her great tools, and tips and tricks to turn her life around🎉🎉🎉Well done everyone.

[@zarahills801]

Her mum's body language is so off. Didn't reach out to hug her, leaning back.... is it just me or she came across angry at her daughter? That was a huge moment her daughter shared with her and she gave nothing back to the poor girl x

[@MakroTranslations]

Her daughter is crazy, big spender and left a good man because crazy. She gets what she earned. The documentation is a snapshot, her mother knows better.

[@31oise]

@@MakroTranslations what if the man left her? Also it's her enviroment. Her family are millionares who spend a lot the habit is passed down. Don't come up with such silly statements

[@henrique5231]

@@pcatma How insightful! Does it comes just with your personal experience or are you trained in some kind of behavioral reading?

[@stellagyan541]

@@MakroTranslations I think you're the ex-fiance

[@stellagyan541]

@@31oise Ignore it. That thing is a troll with no purpose in life. Also, I think that's the ex-fiance

[@yukisuperstylish]

When a couple of my coworker who ALWAYS are wearing expensive shoes and clothes sais they were broke I didn't believe them now I do. Looking rich doesn't make you one...

[@solidstate9451]

I wear expensive shoes, too. I have two pair of sandals (one for outside, one for inside) that I wear all the time. They costed 100 Euros and 50 Euros. They are the only shoes I can walk in due to a heel spur. Normal shoes with orthopedic insoles aren't as good as these sandals. Yes, I wear them during the winter months, too. I love walking and the spur really really hurts! Good shoes are worth the money.

[@nildabridgeman8104]

@@solidstate9451 Absolutely. My mother was the cheapest woman in the world even going so far as to eat ketchup packets, but she always made sure we NEVER wore cheep shoes. She aggravated a bunion from from wearing such shoes. She always said take care of your feet

[@samswoman2009]

I buy my clothes at the Goodwill but we always buy quality shoes. I can usually find good deals online by searching the clearance items.

[@emusaurus]

Two of the things you want to spend money on are a quality pair of shoes and a good mattress. One you spend all day walking around in, one you spend a third of your life lying on.

[@AnnaCN78456]

@@emusaurus i buy at Massimo Dutti 80 to 100 euro shoes but buy then during sales at 35 euro 🙏

[@ethannkyle9858]

Bruhh I sometimes even walk out of a thrift store buying nothing 😂😂😂

[@thomasfristmd1876]

That's common. Thrift stores are hit or miss.

[@effytraveler6155]

I used to buy nothing until I bought a dvd player. I check out the movie selections. They can have seasons for cheap.

[@ethannkyle9858]

@@thomasfristmd1876 yeah... depends on what kind of thrift shopper you are 😪

[@Kristalya]

Yeah ofc if there is nothing that you like ☺️

[@kristinar385]

It´s like treasurehunting. Love it.

[@CherieDeDieu]

Love this show. It has really helped me to look into my spending in a deep way ..... the real psychological reasons of why I overspend. It will go a long way in me correcting and improving my financial status. BTW I love Shannon's style and we seem to have a lot in common; in another world we would be best friends. 😊

[@dariawells7438]

Good luck on your journey 💕

[@kittymervine6115]

the "You spend to keep from feeling bad." Not you spend to feel good, really resonated with me, and I heard something like that years ago that helped me stop the social NEED, rather than spending time with friends enjoying them... it was a fabulous change.

[@rinitea9094]

This documentary uses my early 2000's mp3 player's tracklist for the soundtrack...

[@BlackChewGum]

Same 😂😂

[@noireknight3013]

It kinda reminds me of Carrie Bradshaw lifestyle. It was normalized to live like that. I hope her future will be brighter now

[@emmaphilo4049]

So true

[@Hannah4007]

Shes a lovely person and so genuine. Glad she getting the help before it ruined her. Hope she doing well now 😊

[@Survivor-mf1nm]

Not understanding how she can still shop, when she's maxed out on all her credit cards, declined on loans, and her income has to pay already incurred bills. What in the world does she use for currency???

[@iia5559]

I suspect the 15,000 pound loan was within the family

[@DavidEVogel]

@@iia5559 Agree. Her family is feeding her spending obsession.

[@ElderGod4]

Same I mean if I dont have the exact sum of money I need to buy something im 100% not getting it like how does one get a debt of 15k?? I need a barrow of 10 pounds 🤣🥲

[@vtech920]

I was $30k in debt 15 years ago. I am now in my late 30s, have zero debt, own everything, and now have tens of thousands of dollars saved.

[@Kiwiwanderer]

Shannon is lovely. Her mother doesn’t seem upset. Not particularly loving. A 16yo girl doesn’t want to leave home if there are no problems. Very sad. I’m so glad she’s getting help. Her rich family should pay off the debt, consolidate with no interest and make her pay them it back in total , sign a contract to pay it off . No more credit cards. Get a gym membership, cook and make your own lunch. Low alcohol drinks. I like her and wish her the very best.

[@maryoleary5044]

Fantastic comment! X

[@beejereeno2]

I got the feeling they re-enacted that for the show because it did not feel at all like she told her for the first time.

[@Kiwiwanderer]

I completely agree. The mothers reaction was quite cold and dismissive. Shannon is lovely. I hope she’s doing well.

[@brisa2004]

I thought her mother really came off as cold. I watched the body language and Shannon approached her for the hug but the mother stepped out of it first. There was also her lack of response to Shannon admitting that she has struggled with bulimia and this space between them. I don't know if it was reenacted for the show or not but I can't imagine if it was the first time that the mother was told such deep things that she could have such a distant response. I wish Shannon the best; she is really a lovely person.

[@re7416]

​@brisa2004 Just a thought.... ● Since Shannon was such a daddy's girl.. it could be that when her mother & father's marriage broke down...her mother's...(subliminally)...directed some of her pain and resentment onto Shannon. ● Almost along the...(internal dialogue)...lines of "Why did Jim (eg) love u more than me?" 😠 Ur his daughter...but I'm his wife. ● Consciously...Shannon's mum knows their divorce wasn't Shannon's fault. But b/c her hubbie would most have likely critisised her all the time...but praised Shannon all the time...(b/c she was his Princess)...Shannon's mum is only human. ● So, some of that resentment manifests as coldness 2wards Shannon.

[@helenblakeley7627]

She seems like a really nice lady and trying to keep up with everybody I do hope shes doing well now and debt free.

[@felicejones6751]

Monkey see, monkey do

[@Thatgurlamg]

this guy convinces everyone they were ignored as a child

[@WeLoveChouBJu]

Lol, she's wearing the new skirt that she blew her budget for at 30:20. At least she actually wears her purchases!

[@endeavouringit]

What a lovely woman, I wish you so much peace, love, luck and happiness Shannon 💖

[@Swampzoid]

Tanning has put 20 years on her looks

[@miss.apprehended]

regular & excessive alcohol consumption also ages a person considerably-- bulimia + stress from suppressing emotions also contributing factors.

[@ethannkyle9858]

Hold up she looks 30 to me. How old is she?!,!

[@mochasoqrimey]

Ethann Kyle 32

[@bluecat3103]

swampzoid Just like that GREY beard ages YOU!!

[@Swampzoid]

@@bluecat3103 I'm 58 years old. I've earned my gray. LOL

[@LazyDaisyDay88]

32.....going on 17 🙂 Honestly, the best advice is to build a life you don't need to escape from.

[@sposo]

"I like proving fake things to people I don't know" Oh how great is that!

[@kaycollins7684]

Shannon is beautiful inside and out, she is with or without all of the stuff she buys, I wish her love and happiness and peace!!💚💚💚

[@jcspider7259]

Adjusted for inflation, that £26,000 debt in 2007 (year shown at 55:39) is equal to £34,291 in June 2020 ($42,572 US dollars).

[@TheXdarkfairy]

Don't forget about compounding interest.

[@mimimogura4440]

But it’s ok now seems like she is working at Goldman Sacks, easy to pay off.

[@yeetheet1869]

Doing Gods work, thank you!

[@LunakieCherrie]

Lol and I’m in 340 pound debt but it’s not bad, I can pay that back easy lol

[@Hannah-ur3pt]

Woah

[@SunFrame]

This programme is from 2005, in today's money her wages would be around £37K and her debt from two years spending £44K, that's a lot of money. Shannon would now be around 50 years old. Would be interesting to see a follow up 18 years later to see if this intervention worked in the long term.

[@juliablakeney1829]

Super true

[@briannab9007]

It's a form of escapism and low self esteem... I know because I've been there! Coping by shopping, more common than you'd think. Hope you can find your way Shannon, you can do this!

[@barryhossin2000]

She needs Love, i have also been their, shopping is an escape the feel good factor, it only lasts for a short time.

[@97I30T]

Yup. Retail therapy is a real thing.

[@ratioetscientia]

I’m very thankful that “the party lifestyle” would be more of a punishment for me than a temptation 😅

[@jafaralijaffery636]

I love the way she talks, she speaks so beautifully:)

[@momof2momof2]

That red Michael Jackson jacket is so not him !

[@twincherry4958]

Hes not wearing it...its some effects

[@SuperPurpleleopard]

It wears him rather than him wearing it 😂

[@twincherry4958]

@@SuperPurpleleopard perfect description!

[@Zeequencha]

he's a creep

[@aam3361]

He has it in blue in another video as well, made me cringe the first time

[@shaz2868]

She feels the need to keep up with her rich family which is sad. They are family, they shouldn't make you feel like that way. She's a grown woman that got herself into debt and it's not up to them to pay things for her, (they already are helping her, her rent is only £200 to stay in that mansion). However they are not a very supportive bunch.

[@btsarmyforever3816]

She wants to live a rich lifestyle while not being rich. Why should her family support her for her ridiculous fantasy? A lot of families are like this. Some members r rich, some r not so rich. Do you see them all trying to become rich like them and land in massive debts? Nah.

[@MesheherKim]

Exactly. They don’t have to support her but if I’m doing well selling cars and real estate you better believe I’m putting my sister on. If I’m in sales and going well I’m putting in my family so they can be on too. Her family is ridiculous. Her sister especially

[@BJKage]

This was the last episode ever. She has find herself, her inner strength and she´s on the way. It´s great.

[@SummeRain783]

So proud of her

[@allisonford8559]

Do u know her Instagram?

[@lalakuma9]

I don't understand how these people even managed to get their credit card & loan applications approved to begin with.

[@emmacat3202]

Those companies get easy money from suckers.

[@differenttakethanmost]

An absolute f-ing nightmare to be surrounded by wealth-family , friends, ex’s and coworkers-and have it seemingly just beyond and out of your reach ...

[@bearfruitstyle3152]

I love this show. It reveals the underlying issues that cause us to cope in extreme ways.

[@katiejohnston988]

Awww, Shannon actually seems like a nice person. She’s one of the few people in severe debt whom I’ve seen on these shows that I actually feel kinda bad for. She’s not your typical selfish little Paris Hilton shopaholic, she actually cares about others & tries to just keep up with everyone around her. She seems to lack confidence and have a poor self-esteem about herself. She’s constantly comparing herself to those around her and never feels as good as them no matter what. I know it is to feel like the odd one out like this and just try to fit in with people. I used to feel insecure like this growing up and like I was always “keeping up with the Joneses.” Still feel that way from time to time even now. But I’ve learned that it’s important to be proud of who you are, be mindful of what you can or cannot afford, and not focus so much on what others are doing with their lives. Plus, the truth others around you most likely are struggling a lot more than you may think even if they make it seem like their life is perfect compacted to yours.

[@katiejohnston988]

Compared to yours.

[@mmp495]

Hoping Shannon has understood herself and found a sense of happiness. She's a sweetheart. 💕

[@ismt9390]

I think it's a bit cringe how the psychologist tried multiple times to pin all her problems on the fact that her dad "left" her, even though she said that she wasn't upset about that and she has a great relationship with her dad and she saw him often. It's like he just decided that she's got daddy issues and is now trying to brainwash her into believing that.

[@SummeRain783]

I see your point but the fact that she started wetting her bed when her father left strongly indicates it was a traumatic event for her. Some people say they are fine with things they are not. Which can be worse because people only do that if the experience was too painful to cope so they just block it out entirely. It’s not unusual. I think it helped to discuss that event because clearly she’s doing a lot better now

[@kellyotoole5957]

I feel sorry for her I'm not surprised she loved the dad so much her mother is so COLD!! To be just told that she has had bulimia for 15 years and her mother didn't even hug her she had to eventually hug her mother is just awfull....no wonder she felt she could never talk to her mother....that woman doesn't care about her 😠

[@donnadurant4000]

She was probably uncomfortable at being filmed in what was essentially a private moment.

[@kellyotoole5957]

@@donnadurant4000 you could be right! I know if my daughter or sons told me information like that infront of a million people I wouldn't care who was watching I would hug them and show them that I was there for them no matter what.

[@donnadurant4000]

@@kellyotoole5957 She's English. Pretty reserved compared to us N. Americans.

[@maryoleary5044]

What a pathetic cowardly reaction from the mother! That's your child!

[@gomoestas]

She was giving her space to talk. If I was opening up about something important, I would want my personal space. The mother looked supportive, probably it is cultural differences

[@rachraves4734]

They should reboot this show! I love it

[@psychattack3381]

This show is so awesome. Love how it combines professional therapy and behavior management strategies. Well done!

[@Helga-fe5xl]

He's not qualified, they explain it in another episode

[@raaaaaaarr]

This. Guy. Gets. On. My. Nerves!!! He's doesn't explore their traumas, he demands that their traumas are what he thinks they are.

[@Nadiesalevivo]

Like most people do unfortunately but if he is a therapist, poor patients then.

[@Helga-fe5xl]

He's not qualified

[@shaunhagan1610]

The lady going through the expenditure on paper is a very good idea. Showing the numbers on paper makes it more real. I hope Shannon is okay now or at least in a better place.

[@janesayers897]

She's really such a lovely girl

[@AP86777]

She really needs sense in her life. The world is full with people like her.

[@patmon1293]

why do british shows love that Gwen Stefani song

[@Metallex]

45:39 Solid life advice, definitely the best nugget of knowledge I've seen from these clips so far.

[@miaowmail]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@smacrossing4201]

It's not just her. Most people in the world is catching up with the trend, trying to keep up with people they call friends. This is also the downside of Social Media. Living a fake life.

[@daisychain3007]

Not necessarily. The desire to keep up with the Joneses has always existed.

[@jasha7579]

I've noticed a pattern, that many would probably label as obvious, but important to be aware of. The vast majority of extreme/excessive behaviour is result from some underlying issue. We try and cover up the problem that we don't want to face with eating or in this case spending, because it keeps us distracted from what we really should focus on and face. It's good to be aware of this, so if anyone feels like they're developing obsessive behaviour, maybe it's time to take a step back and ask why you're doing what you're doing and what are you trying to compensate with the behaviour.

[@DavidEVogel]

True. Little point is working on a budget. A budget is silly until the underly issues are fixed,

[@ellenorbjornsdottir1166]

This isn't Reddit. Also... does my name ring any bells to you? I'm worried about a 30s aged woman from Massachusetts.

[@jasha7579]

@@ellenorbjornsdottir1166 what do you mean about reddit, and who are you? I don't recognise your name.

[@TCTCTCTCTC]

Absolutely love Shannon, what a strong woman to ask for help, and show it all on TV. Really hope she’s finding her happiness and giving herself the love she deserves. (And love the unfiltered Marbella video footage, ‘up the… no babies’ 🤣)

[@beejereeno2]

This episode actually had me tearing up when the breakthrough happened for Shannon after the parachute jump. Good for her.

[@fannyslam]

*video starts by playing Sweetest Escape by Gwen Stefani* Bruh, not Rich Girl? I mean, she could be escaping reality. edit: i take it back, they eventually played it

[@sarbenjy]

Benjamin's red & black leather jacket 😂🤣😂 OK but onto the serious side the problem with this lady is that she's trying so hard to keep up with the people around her. Her sister who goes shopping with her should really teach her how to make money rather than spend it. :teach a man yo fish and he can eat forever"

[@emmalouise9776]

Bless her poor soul. Pretending she is fine to the outside world instead of opening up in a private non camera therapy session. It would be hard to be vulnerable on international TV.

[@donnyreiss1180]

$10 000 on teeth is a good investment. i would if i could.

[@framclean7910]

Toothpaste and toothbrush is a better investment

[@lelexoxo303]

@@framclean7910 I'd argue floss belongs on that list as well.

[@_tardigrade]

She had bulimia for 15 years. Her teeth were probably in horrible condition. I had bulimia for many years myself and I spent a lot to fix them up. That was probably the best thing she spent money on.

[@risk_taker4117]

Omg his voice, just want to shake some life into him. Benjamin sounds like a fun sponge.

[@createone100]

I agree!

[@wendi2819]

I feel like they took me along for an hour's therapy too! Really really helpful. I can't believe rich people need for assistant's to buy a date, flowers and a gift...and next morning breakfast----thats so tacky and impersonal!! RICH PEOPLE (BANKER, FINACIER) PROBLEMS FROM CENTRAL LONDON. HA!

[@nachtegaelw5389]

I agree! But it’s possible some of those people work crazy hours.

[@Pretty_Boy_Proud_Fil-Am]

This is an eye opener to me, honestly.

[@camrenwick]

I can't relate to this at all. I'm an old veteran. I've been used and never given anything. Now I'm quite happy living a simple life and looking after myself.

[@JehanineMelmoth]

We need to show compassion towards people who have problems we can’t relate to as well as those we can.

[@lup6974]

I hope she will be happy and strong. She deserves it ❤️

[@mamabear6960]

What every woman wants her date to think of her. “She’s just a typical woman.”

[@JehanineMelmoth]

And him preparing the next day’s breakfast - assuming she’s staying over.

[@sylviacheal5925]

What a lovely girl. I hope she's sorted out and happy.

[@mygranmathinksimcool]

£100 a month on clothes in the new budget? Surely she has enough clothes to do her and reduce the payback time on the loan by 50%

[@kimwarner1681]

She could even sell some of the clothing and use the money to pay down her cards.

[@aam3361]

She has an addiction, if they cut her off cold turkey and gave her nothing to play around with she could go back to her old ways quicker so I think that was sensible

[@corinaspfx]

Dear @onlyhuman the word "champaign" in the video description is actually spelled Champagne. x

[@angelwings4804]

I’m surprised her liver hasn’t shut down from all the champagne and wine 🥂

[@jisoo1571]

If you’re surrounded by people in high paid jobs, why not just draw on those connections? Ask to work personally for them, get them to put good words in for you, take opportunities whenever you can etc. Connections and experience are very important.

[@jenjones90]

She's a chav...not bright enough to figure out how to use her connections!

[@dewidavies9161]

She worked for goldman sachs

[@carikabester6310]

When you really look at " going out" to drink it actually looks so lame. Couldn't pay me to do it.

[@natashasbathgate4188]

First time watching about shopping. I freak out occasionally getting takeaway under £40. If I do want something, I usually buy the Item for sale. Never the full price. Today everyone is on a budget. If you want something really nice to save up. But she seems like a really lovely girl.

[@dommyzee2483]

The majority of people I know are more or less like her. We all growing up surrounded by trends and idea of fancy lifestyle we've seen on Hollywood movies. Many people want to live a higher life standard than they can actually afford. It's social pressure, not even a jealousy of better situated family members, friends or neighbours, but internal fear you'll be socially excluded if you won't keep up with them.

[@MakingDisciples4Jesus]

I'm the extreme opposite! I'm not materialistic at all and I love saving money. I try to owe the least amount of stuff too cuz I'm also a bit of a minimalist.

[@nihilisticbarbie]

Okay.

[@AndreyaWryght]

I've learned to be like this, after having the same sort of lifestyle, the going out drinking, eating lunch with friends, shopping,etc. Got in debt. Now I'm paying it all back, I don't spend anything unless I need to, going very minimalist, dont drink at all and never really go out,and feeling better for it 💪👌

[@SummeRain783]

Yes but you’re probably not dealing with what she’s dealing with. Shopping addiction is a real problem and it seems she suffered some trauma or mental health related problems in the past. Her behaviour is abnormal so it means she had to get treated. I think it’s good to have some compassion.

[@SummeRain783]

@@AndreyaWryght minimalism and keeping a budget definitely helps. In fact you end up seeing you can actually buy better things and have a better quality life. Less becomes more and you save money too.

[@kimscott9580]

I like having a lot of stuff but I also make sure I can afford it

[@vickylau3631]

For someone that spends a lot of money on clothes and shoes, the outfit she was wearing does not look fancy or expensive at all.

[@miaomiaou_]

She’s so sweet, I hope she can get it together. She needs to make more money, I hope she was able to do it!

[@belindaferreira7445]

When you get addicted to something you better ask for help. Living like a millionaire doesn't mean you are one of them. You are just incrising your debt. I'm so happy that this lovely woman get the help she needs. I wish her a bright future.

[@whythoidk]

She actually seems like a nice, gentle person. I feel like she didn't get enough emotional connection from her family, hope she's doing better now

[@summer_leaf823]

bless her, the thing i do not understand is why her sister who is a millionaire will not help her with her debt, i mean like the programme said she will happily go shopping because she can afford to splash out on the cash yet her sister is in debt and is trying to keep up with the lifestyle of the family

[@danskdna8550]

That would be enabling an addict. No consequences=keep on with the behaviour.

[@stephaniehansen5162]

I was thinking the same thing. Why doesn’t her sister help her out with making extra money? If I was rich I would absolutely give away all my secrets to my family and friends.

[@Sean-fj9pn]

Why would you be obligated to fix your loser sisters money problems, she did it to herself, she is a materialistic idiot.

[@MichelleBlessing]

Such a lovely person ❤️

[@anyquezada2990]

Those girls should come to US and buy all these shoes and closes at ROSS for 10 dollars each 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@melflo4651]

Even though it is less than an hour show, I still say the counselors are very effective and kind.

[@cynthiacarolina5508]

She looks way older than 32

[@whiterabbit3618]

45+. That’s what sunbeds will do to you

[@sexysilversurfer]

Party lifestyle! LOL

[@RayneBubble.]

mean AF