When I reported it, it was known. I wasn’t the only one, and the carer witnessed it. A blind woman and son bullying her mercilessly! No one stops it once it’s reported. That needs to change.
@nathanhaines1721 Жыл бұрын
Why nothing is done: son gets in trouble. Blames mom and leaves or gets prosecuted. Mom has no one to care of her, or she gets some third worlder working 90 hours a week @ $7.25 an hour to "care" for her. She still gets abused and maybe bankrupted by financial abuse. Or she goes to nursing home and loses everything, then she still gets abused.
@marymcmullen5150 Жыл бұрын
A good video. I don't live in Ireland but grew up there. Elderly abuse happens all over the world. This video made well brings it home to you and gives the red flags where care and training is necessary. Thia abuse can happen in care homes and rehabilitation centres. Also on the streets. Care givers are heavily burdened due to the all around clock care they give. Help them as some care givers start at a very young age, even school going youth. The youth are often approached with a parental attitude and are seldom praised for the good work they do at home. 'How do you help at home?' should be a topic at school.
@tanyasmith7123 Жыл бұрын
This has nothing to do with being heavily burdened if you can't handle it you don't deserve the job. People with a mentality like that deserve nothing in life. Elder abuse is ignored like child abuse. What should be common sense some make it stupidity. There is no excuse for abuse.
@nathanhaines1721 Жыл бұрын
@@tanyasmith7123there's no excuse for abuse. However, the reality is that caregivers themselves often make sub survival wages, work until exhaustion and have their own problems. It is very difficult to attract quality employees under these conditions. It's an industry that desperately needs to be subsidized and regulated. Compensating family members would help. Increased surveillance, and auditing will keep as well.
@debbieobryan5607 Жыл бұрын
This is a great training video. Thankyou.
@bridgetlovedfrankgeddes8352 Жыл бұрын
Excellent Thankyou
@sisswift8423 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!! USA
@pattymelt-go3fv3 ай бұрын
Recommend this video to your friends and family....very important information. Not all carers intend to be abusive......It is often unintentional. Reach out for help.
@annmarks3231 Жыл бұрын
I'm looking for an assisted living apartment. A lot says they will weigh you every day and one said they won't allow food hoarding aka any snacks or not approved snacks. I'm 80 and dont care so much about my health any more, just want to be happy and live as I want. So what if I die tomorrow.
@pattymelt-go3fv3 ай бұрын
HI...You are 80 and here on KZbin...that's pretty good! Hope you find a good place!
@BethSloan-u9r11 ай бұрын
Am I seeing things or did Grainne have a little bit of a black eye, when the nurse visited?
@YolandaGuevarra-d9t2 ай бұрын
❤😮
@LawrenceBishton4 ай бұрын
Were irish dad was in thier pub with old cartwright other day we was also in H block
@Eleanor-ec8qp3 ай бұрын
I’m disillusioned with the quality of service from the health service after a recent experience I’ve had with a community nurse instead of helping and giving the service that I was expecting I was left extremely upset and traumatised fearful that i hope that I will never again need any of their services I was eleft traumatic and very upset during and after the visit he called himself a community nurse he had no people skills no respect for me as a human being his focus was on quickly completing a form and he had no respect for me in any way
@lindatullos9430 Жыл бұрын
When the caregiver is old also and can't cope anymore , it is time for another person to help with the care load. There are disability waivers available in all states for old couples..
@jennawalden85473 ай бұрын
This is true and even if the couple have children they are not always willing or able to help out. This will sound harsh, but we don’t bring children into the world to look after us on a regular basis when we become unable to care for ourselves. I’m 58 and certainly want my children to have their own lives and careers. I certainly would not expect them to put their lives on hold because of me.
@sr2291 Жыл бұрын
You should care about their animals too.
@sr2291 Жыл бұрын
So who protects them?
@nathanhaines1721 Жыл бұрын
No one really. That's why it's common.
@helenewebster-sisk2407 Жыл бұрын
This is Interpersonal Domestic Violence and Abuses😢😅
@Eleanor-ec8qp3 ай бұрын
I’m very disillusioned with the hse recently I’ve had a visit from a community nurse his title I discovered recently I was horrified at his attitude his one purpose wa😅s to quickest get through the questionnaire he had no respect for me as a person had no manners didn’t respect boundaries I felt bullied And upset
@jennawalden85473 ай бұрын
I’m sorry that happened to you. The same thing happened to my Dad. The social worker just did a tick box exercise. She was rude , no empathy or compassion. Shouldn’t have been in the job. My Dad too was extremely upset 😢
@paulcain535011 ай бұрын
There Is No Where To Get Help.
@joshhourigan567 Жыл бұрын
Sean needs to realize that him pulling the wool over Lily's eyes by signing that stupid contract from that house estate and hiring someone that is sexually attracted to her is a criminal act! Sean should NEVER use Lily to sign something without approval or hire a carer that is a sexual offender. And #2, Mary should've never been hot under the collar at Grainne or violently smacked her wrist like that all because she has trouble consuming her meal! Mary should've sat down with her to help her out and none of this would happen.
@prameelayoganandan-gd6bm9 ай бұрын
It is great and all even a child knows to recognize abuse . Yet the law enforcement and Aps , are agencies who are there to warm their seat . No body gives a damn .
@yesican2012 Жыл бұрын
Was difficult to watch.😢 Had to stop the video several times.
@andrewjamesfoley38252 жыл бұрын
31:44 just acting as if nothing happened and actually thinking she would get away with it. I'd have reported her to the police.
@Anchoress1 Жыл бұрын
There are about 35 ways to commit elder abuse…
@user-e7h9f Жыл бұрын
Only in Ireland💀
@Eleanor-ec8qp3 ай бұрын
I’m disollo
@KassandraFuria13 Жыл бұрын
Painful to look at.
@janetdavidson6181 Жыл бұрын
Get on with it
@jennawalden85473 ай бұрын
It’s just paying lip service, so they can be seen to being doing something 😢