Oppositional Defiant, Conduct and Intermittent Explosive Disorder |a Trauma Informed Perspective

[@DocSnipes]

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[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

Lady, You are so compassionate, warm, empathic, caring. It feels so soothing. We all learn from you. You explane so much, so we understand more, in a sensitive way. Full of insight. I can not even believe, that a person like you even exist. I cry inside, because you are so wise, sensitive, caring and warm. All things i never experienced before. I am glad and so thankfull, to just met you on youtube. I am really aware, you are such a blessing. To listen to you is just lifesaving. Thank you so much.

[@MahasTreasurebox]

[@sidecardude]

I have gone years without an incident, meditate, keep stress down, walk away from things when they start getting to intense, don't respond to other drivers, stay away from conflict, but to no avail, always comes back to haunt me and I just explode. Always feel guilty about what's done and said, have been involved in therapy, and tried everything, i KNOW its gonna happen, nothing to be done because eventually, I explode.

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

[@elizabethscott3048]

Have you tried EMDR or Brainspotting?

[@mamajedijaws4938]

As a man thinks in his heart, so is he. You have a choice, sir. I know it can be frustrating. Don't give up. You are loved and you are loveable. You really are. I'm am praying for you and will be praying for you from here on out.

[@sidecardude]

@@elizabethscott3048 My problems stem from tourette's, not necessarily trauma, thanks for the suggestion though.

[@sidecardude]

@@mamajedijaws4938 Nope, no choice, I have tourette's, can't completely control what I say or or do, my best course of action is to recognize the escalating situation and retreat, once its out of control choice is no longer an option.

[@zeddeka]

Listening to this was an epiphany. It's absolutely, completely how my sister was when she was younger. Sadly now in middle age, she's a walking checklist for NPD.

[@FloppedASF]

I had conduct disorder and oppositional untreated and it turned into BPD npd and aspd

[@FloppedASF]

I had conduct disorder and oppositional untreated and it turned into BPD npd and aspd

[@FloppedASF]

I had conduct disorder and oppositional untreated and it turned into BPD npd and aspd

[@theCommentDevil]

I was diagnosed odd at 13 in 1993. But what only realized recently is my therapists and psychs treated me as if I was just a bad person. I feel my diagnosis biased therapists against me, and made their advice to my parents incredibly rough on me. It was all about learning through "tough love" to respect authority. Tough love meaning locking me in a room for a week with only a mattress, no sheets. Looking back it's no wonder I haven't worked through my issues

[@DocSnipes]

That sounds awful and traumatic and I am sorry it happened to you.

[@yvonnekiogora9942]

Big hugs Jack. There is time to work them out through personal therapy with a therapist of your choice. Supporting you all the way

[@madisonohare4012]

The fact you are here reading this and want to heal means there is hope for you.. Please stay in therapy and on your meds. God bless you

[@eavedrops]

As someone who meets the criteria of IED I cannot help but chuckle at how unbelievably apt the abbreviation is.

[@DocSnipes]

Thank you for sharing. It's good to see you finding a bit of humor in the situation. Understanding and recognizing these patterns is an important step, and it’s great that you’re engaging with this openly. If you ever need support, don’t hesitate to reach out or to ask my AI at: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes

[@giulianacr2638]

Dear Doctor Snipes, I want to thank you for all of these presentations you are hosting. 🙏 It has helped me on a personal and professional level. May you keep guiding and informing people with relevant information. Thank you so much ❤

[@carolg6045]

Thank you Dr. Snipes. I have understood more about my childhood by looking at 6 of your videos than any therapy experience I've ever had. I am an LMHC, and I consider myself lucky to be alive, and I'm not talking about suicidal ideation. When the DSM 6 includes CPTSD I will finally be vindicated. I do not suffer from a personality disorder but was treated as such in the late 1960s. The ideology of disorders/behaviors needs to be included in the DSM. You have helped me to shed a lot of distress over certain criteria that I have felt so fearful, shameful and resentful about. My mother suffered from RAD and Borderline PD. I am lucky to have survived that. No one removed children from their parents as long as they were fed, clothed and sheltered back then.

[@DocSnipes]

Carol, I am so sorry to hear about your traumatic childhood and agree that the DSM needs to add CPTSD and depathologize trauma reactions. Unfortunately I I think the best we can hope for is that it is included in the section on conditions for further study at the back of the book in the dsm-6 in 5 or 6 years

[@kyliemcknight1206]

My 8yr old was diagnosed w/ ADHD & ODD roughly a yr ago… she has awful angry outburst over little things & it’s so exhausting!! All last wk she refused to get ready for school, was yelling, screaming, crying, bagging me to pick her out an outfit then would throw it across the room & refuse to wear what I picked out, so eventually I’d walk away & refuse to help her get ready & w/in an hr she’d get ready & id take her to school late! It’s a rough & extremely exhausting daily battle w/ her behavior & outburst! She even refused to get ready for church once & I had my mom come watch her so my other daughter & I could go to church & she ended up locking my mom out of the house cause she was mad I left w/out her, despite my mom offering to take her to church! It’s been so awful I had an appt w/ her psychiatrist & she put her on clonidine. She’s also been suffering from restless leg at night, keeping her up & miserable for hours during the night despite 10mg of melatonin being given at bedtime! Idk how much more I can handle, we’ve looked into military schools etc to get her on track! Odd thing is the fact that she’s a perfect angel at school & her teacher always says “she takes pride in her work!” She’s very artistic & intelligent & does well in school & w/ her peers!

[@DocSnipes]

I am sorry you are going through this and I appreciate you watching.

[@annak29]

It is a world that not many understand. I walked this walk through those years, and it requires a totally different kind of parenting. If your child rec'd an ADHD+ ODD dx you should have been recommended for "parent behavior training" , it's the only thing "proven to help mitigate" the issues for the child and family even with medication. Excellent resource is CHADD, ADDitude magazine & webinars, and specialist PhD psychologists specific to ADHD, usually with special qualifications. The best docs specifically for ADHD is Dr. Greenblatt, Dr. Russell Barkley, Dr. Thomas Brown. Have the child's hair tested for heavy metals. Dr. Greenblatt has tens of thousands of patients in his care, he has data showing high copper levels in the most defiant, oppositional, impulsive, anti-social behaviors, and this group also has the most side effects from typical stimulant meds. Kids with Neuro issues often have metabolic differences in which their body absorbs metals and cannot get rid, also have different or lacking enzymes so cannot break down food molecules to absorb, gut damage due to lack of digestive and blood enzymes, etc. Biomolecular medicine docs will test for the blood enzymes, fecal & urine tests for many different kinds of normal/abnormal markers including metals, metabolites, candida, gut flora, etc. Genetic tests also help for certain things to rule out underlying causes, thyroid levels, hormone & vitamin levels, etc. It is extremely hard work and requires diligence and adaptability, observation skills, consistency, stamina, emotional control, maturity, and unconditional love. You will have to find different more effective ways to communicate that your child better responds to, usually with ADHD & ODD has a "pragmatic language" deficit. The behavior you describe is exactly what I experienced with my child from 2nd grade through 5th grade. It is so challenging to maintain a positive outlook when the simplest things are so difficult. It requires so much reading and research to understand what it is and develop a framework for your own understanding. But you will benefit yourself and find some peace and effective approaches that may improve quality of life and self care for everyone in the family.

[@torreycat7716]

@@annak29 what happened at 5th grade? Did you do all of that and then find the answers?

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

Church is no place for someone with ODD Take it from someone with ODD. Melatonin should also be avoided as it makes us even more restless

[@gSWG3R]

You should consider the possibility of ASD. Some autistic children display pathological demand avoidance (PDA) - I work with kids like this as a psychologist. I'm definitely thinking there's more to your child's case than what's known currently.

[@Azarzicki]

I absolutely love the way you teach and explain and your emphasis on neural networks and trauma and environment. Thank you for the very comprehensive and compassionate education about these "disorders"

[@DocSnipes]

You are so welcome!

[@magentapilot4576]

Thank you for posting this! I'm working with a child who exhibits these behaviours. Very helpful xo

[@DocSnipes]

Glad it was helpful!

[@billthelen6524]

Thank you Dr Snipes for sharing this in-depth and informative video. I don't like diagnosing myself. I have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, yet I see myself in many of the things that you said. I still struggle with that type of anger, being touchy and irritated to being explosive basically towards my wife. At times, I still blame others for my feelings and/or my behavior. At times, I just don't want to own up to my behavior. I relate to the disruptive mood dis-regulation. I can clearly see how the criteria that you mention here has existed in my early life.

[@DocSnipes]

You’re so welcome , Bill. I appreciate you watching the video

[@gummi3are]

I just started your video but I really appreciate the part at 4:52 when you explained how we all should be approaching patients in a more empathetic and compassionate way. Not to see them as a person labeled with this disorder but to seek to understand when and how might this behavior have developed to protect this person.

[@DocSnipes]

Thank you.

[@marilynmallender4866]

Working with schools for over a year now. She refuses to go to school. She was supposed to start highschool this year. My daughter won't see Drs or therapists. She rarely comes out of her room. Steals from me and always gets angry. Having trouble with consequences because of her anger. No one seems to be able to help. Thank you for your video to help me understand her.

[@DocSnipes]

I appreciate you watching.

[@TranscendingTrauma]

It’s really sad that they will only diagnose it outside of a sibling relation. Just like when dementia was mentioned and they can look at the criteria above and beyond why cannot they do that with siblings? Like for example it’s just like an automated expectation of sibling rivalry or sibling conflict. When in fact sometimes it is beyond that where one sibling is being abused and not only does society minimize it apparently so does the DSM. I grew up with a siblings that has ODD/ASPD and the abuse I suffered in childhood was greatly minimized. I think there should be some change there. Where we can note that there is often normal sibling conflict and then there is behavior that is above and beyond that.

[@madisonohare4012]

You probably have PTSD and need therapy if you live in family violence. It's traumatizing to all siblings and parents.

[@EdotsThoughts]

Hey Doc!! Your videos have been so helpful and insightful! 🤗 I was an adopted, only child, and VERY close with my Grandfather, he was my main attachment and go to as a child. He went to a store one day when I was 10, he had an aneurysm in his brain, it ruptured and he passed away. This trauma absolutely destroyed my family, as everyone was grieving deeply. So many other things are at play from my childhood I am just not sure how to navigate where I need to heal. Thank you. 💜

[@DocSnipes]

You’re welcome! Thanks for watching! Wishing you peace, health, and happiness

[@Martiniiiiiiiiii]

Can you talk about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), the subtype within Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) in future lists like this? I’ve seen patients with ASD have a hard time following the directions of others not because they don’t want to follow orders but because they want the orders to be made by themselves. It’s not possible of course to always be “right” in your self-direction when you have ASD (i.e. why this subtype is found under ASD). This behavior can be seen as “defiant” and “oppositional” when the person giving the orders holds some form of position of authority but the root of the behavior is very different.

[@DocSnipes]

That is a great topic. I will add it to my list. Thank you for asking.

[@dee0731]

Great teaching Doc Snipes! I am so thankful to be able to learn from you here on You Tube 🙌🏻🌞

[@DocSnipes]

I am grateful to be able to be able to help people through this medium

[@yvonnekiogora9942]

Thank you Doc Snipes you have broken down the DSM5 TR for ease understanding

[@alexishill3342]

I have a brother like this. He displayed these symptoms from the age of 4 and my parents overlooked it. My dad has a masters degree in psychology, I can't understand how he allowed my mom to convince him nothing was wrong with "her son". Fast forward 30 years later and he's homeless and schizophrenic. Why do so many people slip through the cracks?

[@jaybrown2849]

They such a shame

[@krisholden5365]

I wonder if your father was just in denial about it? Or if he realized that the battle he was going to face in attempting to get your mother to acknowledge the issue was going to cause more trouble for more people than would ignoring the problems that your brother was facing. After all, even a subject matter expert could never predict what the ultimate outcome would be for your brother if this went untreated. Sad situation for sure. I wish you all as much happiness as possible.

[@zeddeka]

I think sometimes parents are in total denial about their own kids. Particularly with that generation, there was also a lot of shame. My parents really overlooked a lot of my sister's problems and my mother was a mental nurse herself.

[@alexishill3342]

@th8257 it's so interesting that you would say your mother was a mental health nurse and overlooked it because of shame. My mom told me about her days in nursing school clinicals where they had to be on the psych ward/mental institution to learn and how she would never go back there to work. It baffled me that she knew exactly what my brother was exhibiting, and she simply looked away. Thank you for sharing that with me. I thought I was the only one with a parent I thought was so negligent.

[@zeddeka]

@@alexishill3342 no problem! Sadly, I think it's only really recently that society has started to understand these issues. There was a huge stigma about any kind of mental health issue or condition and for so many people it was a source of shame. So many people were quick just to say that it was due to bad parenting and lack of discipline - the family often got blamed for it. It wasn't helped by the fact that our medical understanding of the conditions was pretty primitive too. Kids who had things like ADHD / ODD were just viewed as bad kids from bad families.

[@HannahGraceTea]

I have a child who has not been diagnosed odd, but has been displaying all of the signs since school started in September. They’re 4-5. It’s been extremely exhausting. I’ve been bitten and slapped, kicked and spit on. I’ve been groped inappropriately by this child. What are the supports for teachers? Stick one teacher alone in a room with them, while the other teacher removes the other children… great idea… I’ve asked how we are to document these behaviors and have been ignored…

[@DocSnipes]

I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video

[@HannahGraceTea]

@@DocSnipes I really appreciate you taking time to read and reply. Your video has been very eye opening and has given me many ideas as to how to approach the child differently. I’ve been trying to make a deeper connection with them and talk about emotions and coping strategies. (We’ve always done this with all of our students but I think that this student needs extra supports in place.) I do know that for every negative interaction, there needs to be 5-10 or so positive interactions but it’s been incredibly difficult because of the frequency of the meltdowns. They typically happen during transitions to new activities.

[@dee0731]

Thanks!

[@DocSnipes]

Thank you for your support Dee. You are a blessing

[@dee0731]

You are welcome Doc Snipes you are a great blessing too, to me and society 🙌🏻🌞

[@triciagaunt8452]

Your my favorite teacher ❤️ you are an awesome person . Thank you for what you do . I appreciate you much .

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for being here!

[@miss.conduct8083]

Oh, how I would have loved to have caught your live!! I'm such a fan as well as an eager student.

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching.

[@daveysodyssey9990]

My son has OOD. And it’s exhausting. We’ve went to parental behavioral therapy. He also has ADHD. His behavior can be similar to my son who has autism.

[@Dogtraining1784]

Did the therapy work? The problem with therapy is how do I force my son to go when he refuses everything I ask? . My son has ADHD, ODD and autism and it's really difficult with him. He threatens me and hopes I die in car crash and keeps telling me he wishes I would die. I feel so alone as a single mom

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

​@@Dogtraining1784 a tip that resonated with me was to say "Do it or don't do it" The issue is to make sure they feel they have agency, it's feeling cornered or in the spotlight that triggers us

[@DanniBby]

PDA AUTISM gets misdiagnosed as ODD, if he displays traits of autism then he probably was misdiagnosed

[@prisonerohope6970]

This is just so good.💛💛💛

[@shelb.yyyy.]

i am so grateful for your videos- wow thank you 💜

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching.

[@SoleSolSoul]

Appreciate you, your work, how you showing up!

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching.

[@AJ22-80]

Would you treat PTSD or CPTSD with stimulants or atypical antipsychotics? If not, why would you treat children exhibiting symptoms of trauma with them then? I suspect the reason there is so little literature about effective treatment is that to effectively treat many of these children they would first have to admit it is trauma and not create and develop "treatments" for made up "syndroms" that blame the child for maladaptive adaptations to overwhelming life experiences and trauma

[@madisonohare4012]

Stimulants reduce violence by 50% for those diagnosed ADHD with ODD. Therapy for PTSD, not Stimulants but need to see psychiatrist to see if any meds help suffering

[@RikterSRH]

I struggle with O.D.D. and I.E.D. as well as Aspergers. It's getting worse the older I get, I'm reverting to how I was when I was younger, I wish there were more tools in my area for my issues but no therapist knows much around here about O.D.D. and I.E.D.

[@sk8razer]

I wonder how often CD and ASPD develop primarily as a result of how ODD kids are stereotyped and "handled" beginning as early as preschool? Especially in "school to prison pipeline" areas?

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

Apparently it's what the research shows, look up Prisoners with ADHD

[@madisonohare4012]

40% with CD will be diagnosed with ASD after 18 yrs old.

[@lavenderangel2655]

Thank you for all of these easy to understand and helpful videos. I would like to offer another video idea if you can please, Moral Injury.

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

[@lavenderangel2655]

@@DocSnipes thank you, to you as well. 😊

[@Xcoolydiego]

This only occurs to me when I get responded in a sarcastic/condescending way (verbal,written, all kinds of delivery etc, ads, music, shows). Other than that Im fine, Im just tired of being treated if I was dumb constantly. Through lots of bullying even to this day. May be related to autism/aspergers. I stopped going outside because everytime I interact with someone I always get a sarcastic remark thrown in my way

[@DocSnipes]

I appreciate you watching

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

It's a spectrum, but you're describing symptoms of ODD

[@frankG335]

It is SO FRUSTRATING that there is ABSOLUTELY NO RESOURCE for adults. No books, nothing. Even you are using children as your example. How do ADULTS cope with a partner who has ODD? How do you help the person, show love to them, be in a deep, loving relationship with them? Their fear of abandonment or betrayal makes them say hurtful things or distance themselves when they're getting too close (so there's attachment issues). If the person was oppositional from early childhood, how does their partner reach them in a meaningful way? All the talk and literature is about children as if it magically disappears upon reaching adulthood. It never occurs in adults? I'm SO FRUSTRATED! Please recommend resources for adults.

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

Dr Greenblatt Dr Russell Barkley Dr Thomas Brown You've already done most of the heavy lifting, you understand them. Try pushing through some boundaries with love and commitment, they'll appreciate it

[@madisonohare4012]

Therapy for your self. Learn to set boundaries so you don't become codependent trying to fix him. You can only fix you if you are talking about adult.

[@janflower4068]

Dr Snipes love and appreciate your show one thing I noticed is that countdown free video countdown has become popular or is getting popular I've seen it several times and it is so freaking annoying well therein lies the problem I guess this is supposed to be meditated or coming because it's not please excuse my negativity I'm going to be quiet and tune in cuz I very much appreciate yourself just can't stand that countdown

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching.

[@andreamoore4595]

What is the treatment for ied? Is there medication the doctor can give you to resolve? Please!?

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

You need a psychiatric diagnosis first

[@Xcoolydiego]

This only occurs to me when I get responded in a sarcastic/condescending matter. Other than that Im fine, Im just tired of being treated if I was dumb constantly. Through lots of bullying even to this day. May be related to autism/aspergers. I stopped going outside because everytime I interact with someone I always get a sarcastic remark thrown in my way

[@krisholden5365]

The following observations are not meant to be funny or rude in any way. I’m not attempting to bully you or make you feel bad or anything like that. My hope is that the issues that you’re experiencing can be resolved and that you are able to lead a less stressful existence. When I read your comment, I had a very difficult time understanding it and had to go back over it a few times before I was able to understand what I think you were attempting to say. The very first “sentence” is a perfect example. “This only occurs to me when I get responded in a sarcastic/condescending matter.” What I think you meant was: I only experience the symptoms that she is describing when someone speaks to me in a sarcastic/condescending manner. It may sound like those two sentences are very similar, but their meanings are vastly different. When you say something “occurs to me”, it’s usually means that you had a sudden thought that answered a question that you previously hadn’t had a clear answer for. The next part is “when I get responded in…”. You can’t get “responded in”. You could say “when someone responds to me in a certain manner” and that would make sense but that’s not what you said. I’m not simply trying to pick apart your grammar, trust me, I am by no means an authority on grammar. But the bulk of your comment seemed to revolve around you feeling like you’re not well understood and that you’re often frustrated by people because you feel like they’re being rude and/or sarcastic to you. This could simply be rooted in you struggling to clearly articulate your feelings or your opinions and then misinterpreting someone asking for clarification as them being rude or condescending. I hope I was able to make my point without sounding like a jerk and I also hope that you are able to overcome whatever you’re going through. God bless.

[@remnant.watchman]

Thanks

[@DocSnipes]

You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most helpful from it?

[@chriscohlmeyer4735]

Thanks for the trauma informed perspective of ODD. My question is if there was no bond/connection with the mother but the bond developed with a sibling would not ODD behaviour be targeted at that sibling? After three boys my mother was expecting me to be a daughter, apparently I bonded with my second oldest brother (8 years older) - when he was around he was who I went to for comfort, protection, learning to navigate the world along with whom I took out my anger out on, once finished he would let me climb/jump up into his arms. To her "I was the independent one" - then again at age four pulling my wagon to the local grocery store with an envelope with cash and a list or the drug store to get dad's prescription... so as a young adult she had no concern about me even if I had been out of contact for over a year while my brothers had to maintain at least biweekly contact (long distance calls were expensive then). Then no questions if I didn't want to return to a boarding school, bandage your own thumb (still scared) at seven, three classmates dead in high school that I was going to spend the night with - you figure out what to do, no questions about silent screaming behaviour (drinking, drugs, smoking, curfew?? on school nights, petty theft).

[@DocSnipes]

It is a good question. There are so many different factors that go into the bonding. Ultimately, in many cases the child is aware of who the parent was even if they bonded with a sibling and may have been trying to get the parent to give a damn.

[@amylewis8514]

Can you speak to adoptive children and how this effects mental health

[@kristinchristopherson4878]

What about when your child has these behaviors and diagnosis but has not experienced trauma?

[@DocSnipes]

It is possible, but it is also possible they experienced trauma like lack of secure attachment or something else that you do not consider trauma. It comes back to when the behaviors occur, what is the child trying to communicate and what triggered the outburst.

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

Hi DocSnipes, the person who did this to me told me that he does not show his anger or rage disorder to anyone else but just me and into his ex-wife why would he only target partners and why does he keep the real version of him secret from even his close friends ? 😢

[@DocSnipes]

Thank you for sharing your experience-it’s a difficult situation to navigate, and I can understand why you’d be searching for answers. When someone exhibits anger or rage only toward their partner or ex, it can be because intimate relationships often bring out their deepest vulnerabilities, insecurities, or unresolved emotions. Partners are typically seen as “safe” targets because of the closeness of the relationship, but that doesn’t make their behavior acceptable or justified. The decision to hide this side of themselves from others, like friends or colleagues, may stem from a desire to maintain a certain image or avoid accountability. This behavior can be manipulative, as it isolates the partner and makes it harder for them to seek support. It may also indicate a lack of emotional regulation skills-they release their frustration in the spaces where they feel least judged or where they perceive they can get away with it. If you found this video helpful, please consider sharing it-it might help others recognize unhealthy patterns in their relationships and encourage them to seek support. How are you currently taking care of yourself in this situation? Your well-being matters, and setting boundaries or seeking support from a therapist could be valuable steps forward. You don’t have to face this alone!

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

@ thank you Doc Snipes. I really really appreciate your thorough response. It’s been about two years since I left him after he told me that he wasn’t going to marry me after three years of our relationship two years of that telling me that he will buy a ring and we were already living together, but I couldn’t imagine a future where I have to jump whenever he has a tantrum for me that is kind of embarrassing specially when he humiliated me in public I haven’t actually seen a therapist for this, but I’m thinking of looking into better help.

[@vasantipunchoo3699]

Can trauma be before birth ?

[@andreacr1826]

I've heard yes, it can be.

[@Conrad772]

ODD = modern day drapetomania. it's that simple. used to pathologize largely poor, Black, or already traumatized young people for objecting to treatment that further harms or traumatizes them. like yes it's in the DSM, but the DSM is a document created within current hierarchies to maintain current hierarchies, and treating diagnoses like this as legitimate further maintains them

[@shinedelanoire7515]

BWRI= brain-washed with rainbow ideology

[@BBeeblebrox]

I'm from India, psychiatric disorders are under diagnosed and under treated in my country, my family is not poor, and yet I have an adolescent brother diagnosed with ODD. Lying, stealing, threatening, throwing tantrums, sexual misconduct, runaway from home ...he does it all. I'm 12 years older than he is and yet he had the nerve to ask me for sexual favours. In my eyes he is just a monster.

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

I'm white 43, have the same issue, poverty leads to these outcomes, but it's not a political trick to typecast people by race. That is a strawman that ignores the science and data. A straw man fallacy is the informal fallacy of refuting an argument different from the one actually under discussion, while not recognizing or acknowledging the distinction. One who engages in this fallacy is said to be "attacking a straw man".

[@zeddeka]

Stop trying to transpose American social problems onto the rest of the world. Many other countries recognise ODD and do not use the DSM. Believe it or not, there is a world outside of America.

[@ponponpatapon9670]

@@Uncanny_Mountain they said "or", not "and". that is to say, they acknowledge poverty is a factor alongside race. people discriminating against the poor and discriminating against black people can co-occur

[@misspea1913]

Everyday a New disorder is born. That's crazy. I wonder if people with bordeline personality disorder also suffer from the disorders you explained in the video

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching.

[@misspea1913]

@@DocSnipes thanks for responding. Unsubscribed

[@jl1695]

These disorders arent new , they been out for decades wtf r u talking about?

[@shekinaloves3123]

@@misspea1913 lololol

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

Yes, it does appear that ODD is a contemporary interpretation of what was previously called BPD. Much like Asperger's is no longer considered a diagnosis, rather the patient is seen as on the Autistic spectrum

[@mikejarrells431]

Thanks & good job. What if the parents are toxic (narcissistic)? I once read that there are no bad followers (kids), just bad leaders (parents). Isn't psychology fun?

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching.

[@FrancesHart99]

Why refer to developmentally typical children when discussing children with ODD? Can we just focus on strategies, skills and planning we can use with children who do have ODD please.

[@SeanArthur-fr5be]

I would love to hear psychiatric professionals defend the underlying social judgements and the underlying values that support their judgements before they apply their analysis. Why? Because the DSM 5 and the Profession fail miserably to understand how human epigenetics work. The truth is Outliers are SUPPOSED to behave as they do. They are supposed to create disorder; they are not dysfunctional. The DSM 5 operates in a vacuum, BUT NOTHING happens in a vacuum. Outlier people exists because our human epigenetic function is a survival mechanism that responds to environmental threats to our survival (including those we create ourselves) and turns on genes that create people whose larger social function is to force change (in everyone else). This might be people who think differently, who choose not to reproduce or behave differently (among many options). The argument is that the greater their number and the more extreme Outlier differences, the more urgent the social change (for our survival) we need to make. This means that despite the emotional suffering these people experience and the disruption and suffering they cause, they are not dysfunctional. WE ARE. In fact WE MADE THEM ON PURPOSE to function as they do for our “society's” greater survival. Their “job” in our society is to show us that we are behaving “wrong” and for our survival, we need to change. To suggest outliers with anti-social behaviour need to be fixed without at the same time identifying what is wrong with the "culture" that made them, and then making changes to that society, is shaming the victim, ignorant and hypocritical, as well as dangerous. After eliminating those who have a medical problem at root, (like a tumour or brain injury, or neglect or abuse they cannot tolerate), the DSM 5 and psychiatry overall fail to judge (then offer solutions) for the wrong behaviours of those who (in part) created the environment that made the Outliers in the first place. It is wrong to judge and then “fix” the symptoms (of “dysfunctional” people) without at the same time judging and fixing the root of the social dysfunction that made them in the first place.

[@DocSnipes]

SOmetimes it is impossible to fix the social dysfunction because those people and institutions do not want to change and the only thing left is to change what you can to survive in a dysfunctional environment. I have argued for years that most personality disorders are actually behavioral manifestations of complex post traumatic stress, but the APA is unwilling to accept CPTSD as a diagnosis and add it to the DSM 5 TR

[@ahobimo732]

I would love to have 1000 psychologists assess me. I know there is something very wrong with me, but I've never been able to pin down exactly what. I feel like i have at least a dozen different disorders. I'm not even entirely convinced that anyone fully understands what makes us crazies so crazy. But if there was a strong consensus among the 1000 therapists, I'd be sure that this was objective and reliable. That's a totally unrealistic scenario, of course. But it's fun to dream.

[@DocSnipes]

Thank you for watching the video. Why do you say you know there’s something wrong with you?

[@ahobimo732]

@@DocSnipes The answer to that question is basically my whole life story. 😂 I honestly wouldn't know where to begin. .

[@roseannabeeks8737]

Where the hell did she get this information!?!??!!

[@DocSnipes]

The DMS 5 TR, the American Association of Family Physicians as well as other resources that are available in the course at AllCEUS.com

[@AndyGuild-e1j]

I don’t understand why I was never diagnosed with CD. I met all of this criteria.

[@DocSnipes]

CD is not a diagnosis to be taken lightly as it often foreshadows an adult diagnosis of antisocial personality and it overlaps with PTSD and CPTSD in many cases. I am wondering if your providers thought a different diagnosis better explained the behavior

[@AndyGuild-e1j]

@ I went through a lot as a child. And now my mind is very scattered and I can’t sleep I’m battling with withdrawal symptoms I can’t eat and it’s killing me. Literally

[@lorihodge9927]

Hello!

[@DocSnipes]

Morning!

[@tommyselbe1999]

My Life is full of disorder ODD🧬 I’m the. Poster Child For Pro Choice ☮️

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

[@tommyselbe1999]

I just want to find a good book to live in, so I never have to see, What the narcissist have done to my world! Ma

[@tommyselbe1999]

@@DocSnipes I needed this today!

[@derekpmoore]

33% increase in diagnosis among blacks could be due to prevalence of poverty, racism and other factors in society?

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching.

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

Yes, Right wing media is rooted in Gaslighting, so is MSM tbh, there's not much difference. They're also targeting education and healthcare. This is conducive to a plan to make society as a whole ODD, so they can rule unopposed

[@luvqraft6024]

Also autism before a proper DX when the kid is put into a conduct disorder class. Very damaging

[@DocSnipes]

Sadly, it is. Thank you for watching and for sharing

[@Sir_MaxD]

Treated like a monster every time im provoked.

[@DocSnipes]

Thank you for sharing this-it sounds incredibly painful to feel misunderstood and judged whenever you’re provoked. When people react to you in a way that makes you feel “monstrous,” it can lead to feelings of isolation and resentment, which can, in turn, make it even harder to manage the underlying emotions. Often, people don’t understand how conditions like Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) or Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED) work, and they may react out of fear or misunderstanding rather than compassion. Developing skills to recognize triggers and express emotions in a safe way can be empowering, and it may also help others see you for who you really are. Seeking out a therapist who specializes in emotional regulation and trauma can be incredibly helpful, as they can support you in building these skills and help you process the emotions that come up in those moments. Remember, you’re not defined by these reactions-you deserve understanding and support on your journey. Are there any strategies or activities that help you manage emotions when you feel provoked? Sharing what works for you might give others in similar situations some helpful ideas.

[@Sir_MaxD]

@DocSnipes Being comforted by an uninvolved party, someone understanding my point of view. Most of my opinions are viewed as vile or insensitive, and that is a trigger. When it feels like the whole world stands against me, I feel cornered.

[@dadsonworldwide3238]

It's no issue identifying problematic troubled ppl..but, Distinguishing between bad behavior and mental deformity results in America beg the question are you sure we are advancing and following proper practices? If you put the effort in you get better results.if you shout out your biases instead of using them to articulate questions to then widdle down the proper and just conclusions. We are witnessing youth who isn't being taught how the process of limiting blind biases. It's clearly educational failures both in the individual and the American Psychological Association just read the mission statements.

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching!

[@edgreen8140]

Seem children w odd as adults present w npd.

[@DocSnipes]

Thank you for watching. Not necessarily

[@dmix2263]

Hmm.. lots to chew on. I don’t think I’ve ever talked to a therapist about my childhood - the youngest of three. I understand the on line bickering.

[@skykennedy3574]

The ODD part is interesting to me. Sounds like parents were incapable of correcting defiant and oppositional behaviors. In the old days, these ODDs would have been pounced on and course corrected by society at large. Today, these ODDs are launched on a society that is a pitiful helpless giant, neither capable of rectifying the cause of ODD nor dealing with its malevolent symptoms.

[@zeddeka]

I think you're really looking at the past through very rose tinted spectacles. ODD has always existed - and in many cases it wasn't "corrected" by anyone. In every era there have been people like that, hence the large amount of violent crime in the past.

[@Uncanny_Mountain]

False Assumption Fallacy

[@DanniBby]

Yea because discipline by spanking would help a kid feel less defiant.. sarcasm

[@madisonohare4012]

I don't think you understand. It's not about them winning, it's about them defeating you. Punishment does not work at all and children with this disorder respond to reward therapy. They get nothing, no privileges on a daily basis unless they cooperate.

[@j.b.4340]

XYY/Jacobs Syndrome

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching and for sharing

[@jl1695]

Your cute

[@DocSnipes]

:) Thanks!

[@jl1695]

@@DocSnipes lets hangout

[@CanadianBear47]

Can u be sensitive to emotions? Or lack there of or suppressed and I feel them

[@psychshell4644]

Thanks!

[@DocSnipes]

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