Understanding Adult Attachment: Healing Abandonment Trauma

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@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
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@tammy6452
@tammy6452 3 жыл бұрын
I was raised by two different people that were opposites to each other for the first five years of my life. I chose to look at it through a positive lense. My mother left me with a friend of hers for the first two years and then we moved. I stayed in contact with that woman I called grandma until she passed when I was in sixth grade. I never looked at my mother as being the one that raised me, she tried to be a mother sometimes but it was never consistent and I had someone to measure it by. I became avoidant of most people, my family is far from safe physically or emotionally. I am only dealing with it as I approach 60 and have found a community of loving friends. They brought me to realize I was pushing away and might get help. Now at least I am here. It will be a start on a journey but I am traveling a better path.
@barnerix
@barnerix 3 жыл бұрын
That is soo needed. There are so many traumatized (CPTSD etc.) people out there that didn't learn what a healthy relationship and attachment looks like. This gives us a good guideline what to look out for instead or learn/strive for to heal. Thank you so much!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@kurt6410
@kurt6410 3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos on attachment. Attachment theory is so fascinating to me. It's really more of a culture shock. I never had any idea that parents were supposed to talk to their kids and connect with them emotionally. My parents were there but not there. They made nice pieces of furniture
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@oscardaniel8087
@oscardaniel8087 5 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 5 ай бұрын
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@chinami6534
@chinami6534 3 жыл бұрын
Your channel is amazing! I am conpletely hooked. The way you actually go in depth on subjects is so refreshing because I want to REALLY KNOW what is going on with human psyche.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, Thanks so much!
@marvellpower
@marvellpower 3 жыл бұрын
I am one of those, i am so glad i found you! Content is amazing!❤️❤️
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@mlynneth
@mlynneth 3 жыл бұрын
Im so glad i found your channel! Appreciate the hardwork. 🥰
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@angelika7424
@angelika7424 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot! The information provided on this channel is very important for me in the process of healing and slowly learning how healthy relationships look like.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@michaelfrench1105
@michaelfrench1105 3 жыл бұрын
I love the way you explain everything and I have learned a lot from these videos. Great job 🎓
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@MyDeztination
@MyDeztination 3 жыл бұрын
This is a great video! But often this topic is discussed about how past relationships effect the current. What if boundaries are set and violated in a current relationship + you have bits of avoidant/anxious attachment styles? How to navigate who is the problem (the boundary violator or the anxious/avoidant partner, or both), what to forgive, and when walking away is justified? Also would love a video on genuine forgiveness that is different from most on KZbin. A common theme in forgiveness is “just let it go”, “don’t let people rent free space”, etc. This feels invalidating. Love to hear your wisdom and education on this topic sometime.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Great question. I will do a video on that next week. "Insecure Attachment in Love"
@copperheadroad567
@copperheadroad567 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how you gave lots of really excellent questions to put into practice! Thank you!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome.
@Yoga-my6fv
@Yoga-my6fv 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏. Your amazing with all the knowledge and The way you elaborate🥰🙏
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@bettydavis9025
@bettydavis9025 3 жыл бұрын
I've found your videos SO helpful! I realized I have abandonment and anxious (and some avoidant) attachment fears which have sadly shaped many decisions and relationships. It's a blessing just to know myself better and get ideas on how to cope. Do you suggest discussing abandonment fears with friends as well as partners?
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Depends on the situation. It can be helpful.
@Blasianpower2
@Blasianpower2 3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys we will get better
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@stephaniefortney22
@stephaniefortney22 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you .Wonderful insight
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome. Thanks for watching.
@Apexpurrfection
@Apexpurrfection 3 жыл бұрын
I'm anxious AND avoidant!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@andreamagyar5541
@andreamagyar5541 3 жыл бұрын
2 type of avoidant exists, fearful and dismissive
@skywalker847
@skywalker847 3 жыл бұрын
Think I have both anxious and avoidant.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@l4w0f3lixir
@l4w0f3lixir 3 жыл бұрын
BREUH i got autism im both 🤣🤣🤣👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼we got this guys man this was a crazy discovery I had 🤧🤧🤧
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@ralandaz
@ralandaz Жыл бұрын
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching the video. What did you find most useful from it. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at kzbin.infosearch?query=secure
@ralandaz
@ralandaz Жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes Finding out that I actually carry trauma from feelings of abandonment was the most useful. It explains my behaviors in new relationships. Thank you Dr.
@USMARSHALL2011
@USMARSHALL2011 3 жыл бұрын
Cool
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@the_mulattos
@the_mulattos 3 жыл бұрын
"Science"
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
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