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@tammy64523 жыл бұрын
I was raised by two different people that were opposites to each other for the first five years of my life. I chose to look at it through a positive lense. My mother left me with a friend of hers for the first two years and then we moved. I stayed in contact with that woman I called grandma until she passed when I was in sixth grade. I never looked at my mother as being the one that raised me, she tried to be a mother sometimes but it was never consistent and I had someone to measure it by. I became avoidant of most people, my family is far from safe physically or emotionally. I am only dealing with it as I approach 60 and have found a community of loving friends. They brought me to realize I was pushing away and might get help. Now at least I am here. It will be a start on a journey but I am traveling a better path.
@barnerix3 жыл бұрын
That is soo needed. There are so many traumatized (CPTSD etc.) people out there that didn't learn what a healthy relationship and attachment looks like. This gives us a good guideline what to look out for instead or learn/strive for to heal. Thank you so much!
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@kurt64103 жыл бұрын
I love your videos on attachment. Attachment theory is so fascinating to me. It's really more of a culture shock. I never had any idea that parents were supposed to talk to their kids and connect with them emotionally. My parents were there but not there. They made nice pieces of furniture
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
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@oscardaniel80875 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@DocSnipes5 ай бұрын
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@chinami65343 жыл бұрын
Your channel is amazing! I am conpletely hooked. The way you actually go in depth on subjects is so refreshing because I want to REALLY KNOW what is going on with human psyche.
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Wow, Thanks so much!
@marvellpower3 жыл бұрын
I am one of those, i am so glad i found you! Content is amazing!❤️❤️
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@mlynneth3 жыл бұрын
Im so glad i found your channel! Appreciate the hardwork. 🥰
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@angelika74243 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot! The information provided on this channel is very important for me in the process of healing and slowly learning how healthy relationships look like.
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@michaelfrench11053 жыл бұрын
I love the way you explain everything and I have learned a lot from these videos. Great job 🎓
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@MyDeztination3 жыл бұрын
This is a great video! But often this topic is discussed about how past relationships effect the current. What if boundaries are set and violated in a current relationship + you have bits of avoidant/anxious attachment styles? How to navigate who is the problem (the boundary violator or the anxious/avoidant partner, or both), what to forgive, and when walking away is justified? Also would love a video on genuine forgiveness that is different from most on KZbin. A common theme in forgiveness is “just let it go”, “don’t let people rent free space”, etc. This feels invalidating. Love to hear your wisdom and education on this topic sometime.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Great question. I will do a video on that next week. "Insecure Attachment in Love"
@copperheadroad5673 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate how you gave lots of really excellent questions to put into practice! Thank you!
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Welcome.
@Yoga-my6fv3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏. Your amazing with all the knowledge and The way you elaborate🥰🙏
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@bettydavis90253 жыл бұрын
I've found your videos SO helpful! I realized I have abandonment and anxious (and some avoidant) attachment fears which have sadly shaped many decisions and relationships. It's a blessing just to know myself better and get ideas on how to cope. Do you suggest discussing abandonment fears with friends as well as partners?
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Depends on the situation. It can be helpful.
@Blasianpower23 жыл бұрын
Love you guys we will get better
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@stephaniefortney223 жыл бұрын
Thank you .Wonderful insight
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Welcome. Thanks for watching.
@Apexpurrfection3 жыл бұрын
I'm anxious AND avoidant!
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@andreamagyar55413 жыл бұрын
2 type of avoidant exists, fearful and dismissive
@skywalker8473 жыл бұрын
Think I have both anxious and avoidant.
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@l4w0f3lixir3 жыл бұрын
BREUH i got autism im both 🤣🤣🤣👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼we got this guys man this was a crazy discovery I had 🤧🤧🤧
@DocSnipes3 жыл бұрын
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@ralandaz Жыл бұрын
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@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching the video. What did you find most useful from it. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at kzbin.infosearch?query=secure
@ralandaz Жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes Finding out that I actually carry trauma from feelings of abandonment was the most useful. It explains my behaviors in new relationships. Thank you Dr.