Very normal French things that would NEVER work in the USA

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@thibault973
@thibault973 3 жыл бұрын
Just a side note, the 5 weeks paid vacations a year is the MINIMUM required by law ! Most companies offer more than that. At my corporate job, we get 7 weeks a year + RTT, which are paid days off given to employees that work more than 35 hours a week. Most corporate job will have you work 37 hrs a week, so that's 7 weeks of paid vacations + 13 days of RTT = 48 days/10 weeks of paid vacations a year. Thanks French unions ;)
@aurelien1241
@aurelien1241 3 жыл бұрын
J'ai plus que 5 semaines de congés, car j'ai aussi des RTT, mais dire que la plupart des entreprises offrent plus, honnêtement, je ne crois pas. Dans mon entourage, beaucoup de gens n'ont aucun RTT et 5 semaines de congés payé, pas plus.
@thibault973
@thibault973 3 жыл бұрын
@@aurelien1241 La moyenne en France c'est 33 jours de congés + RTT, soit 6 semaines 1/2. Par ailleurs je parle de corporate job, en gros d'encadrement dans une grosse boite ou administration et là tu as le plus souvent un accord de branche ou d'entreprise qui prévoit plus que le minimum légal :)
@johnkean6852
@johnkean6852 3 жыл бұрын
@@aurelien1241 Anglais s'il vous plâit
@johnkean6852
@johnkean6852 3 жыл бұрын
@@thibault973 Anglais s'il vous plâit
@towaritch
@towaritch 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly that's what I had ( former employee in. the public sector here). I took a month vacation in winter and even had 2 days added. Traveled to Canary Islands, Tulum or Thailand.And the best : a 5 $ 3 course quality meal for lunch.
@telloutellou5434
@telloutellou5434 3 жыл бұрын
Speedos for men: yes it's public hygiene. They noticed that in summer, men tend to stay all day long in their swimming shorts and go to the pool that way without changing! In terms of hygiene, I also never understood why in the US, doctors and nurses would wear their scrubs in the streets (back from work, or going to work!). And washing their scrubs at home! In France, in hospitals you change yourself into your scrubs at the hospital, and you leave your scrub at the end of the day at the hospital. The hospital laundry will wash it (very high degree, heavy detergent to kill properly bacterias and viruses). I never understood why a country who is so scared of bacterias like the US, would let their doctors and nurses go back home and be in contact with loads of persons in between, in their dirty scrubs....
@michaelmarcus2318
@michaelmarcus2318 3 жыл бұрын
When I lived in Paris a decade ago the public pools required for men "maillots" - best translated as "Speedos". There was no similar minimum fabric requirement for women and women at public pools used all sorts of styles from minimal bikinis to styles older women in US wear.
@peggiescraftcafe7117
@peggiescraftcafe7117 3 жыл бұрын
Why is it more hygienic to wear a tiny, tight speedo than American style swim trunks? Swim all day in a speedo or trunks - what's the difference?
@MelaniDakely
@MelaniDakely 3 жыл бұрын
@@peggiescraftcafe7117 as said in the comment, the difference is that men could spend their entire day in the swim trunk and not just the time they are at the pool. For example, they could walk in the streets in it etc and then go in the pool without changing it. Also, because of that they used to be people who kept their underwear underneath the swim shorts which is not very hygenic. Hope that was clear
@telloutellou5434
@telloutellou5434 3 жыл бұрын
@@peggiescraftcafe7117 Because it's not about swimming all day in them, or it's not about comfort. It's about going to the pool in an outfit in which you have traces of body fluids and excrement because you wore it all day....Hence the fact that people are required to change before going to the pool. Also, in shorts, sometimes people forget their tissues, papers, money and it ends up in the pool....I find it very funny from a cultural point of view, that one of clichés about french people is being dirty and yet, there's definitely something going on about the hygienic perception of these swimming shorts ...ah ah ah
@ravanpee1325
@ravanpee1325 3 жыл бұрын
The speedo is also weird from a German perspective too, because you can see everything in public. Although I would be totally naked in the Sauna :) (which is more more tit for tat naked )
@lanaereinertsen9981
@lanaereinertsen9981 3 жыл бұрын
Cashiers sitting. It shocked me when I went there that the cashiers at the grocery store had stools. Why do they have to stand in the US? It just never occurred to me.
@tulipwindmill
@tulipwindmill 3 жыл бұрын
I thought all cashiers sat down, they do in UK too, unless its at the cigarette counter for example.
@tulipwindmill
@tulipwindmill 3 жыл бұрын
@Ember Rhapsody REALLY! Far from it,they still do their job,plus,its much more comfortable.
@tulipwindmill
@tulipwindmill 3 жыл бұрын
@Ember Rhapsody I dont blame you. Its really bad for you.
@carlinemoon2484
@carlinemoon2484 3 жыл бұрын
In the United States if you are not standing then you are being lazy. This is the view of anyone. If you even look as if you are relaxing for a moment at work you are wasting the company's time, which means their profits are declining. "If you have time to lean you have time to clean" is not just a funny saying, it is very concretely true in the minds of American companies.
@tulipwindmill
@tulipwindmill 3 жыл бұрын
@@carlinemoon2484 That is shocking!
@loussaille1
@loussaille1 3 жыл бұрын
Striking is a fundamental right for all workers. It is illegal to fire someone for having been on a strike in France
@mturynP
@mturynP 3 жыл бұрын
Do employers find ways around that? People in the U.S. get fired all the time for reasons different to the official reasons….
@tommytube268
@tommytube268 3 жыл бұрын
If you have a personal contract, a union one is the only way to protect your employment. You can get fired for having cancer! Freedom goes both ways
@davenwin1973
@davenwin1973 3 жыл бұрын
This is why Walmart failed in both France and Germany. Walmart is antiunion, and tried to force their way of business on the 2 countries, and it didn't work for them.
@tommytube268
@tommytube268 3 жыл бұрын
@@davenwin1973 Good, Walmart sucks, Amazon sucks, both anti union trillion dollar companies not wanting to share!
@carom6005
@carom6005 3 жыл бұрын
@@mturynP Companies must have a serious reason that could stand on court to fire an employee in France otherwise they’ll get sued. The only reason you can fire someone in France, other than serious economic reasons, is if their actions/behavior really damaged the company (and going on strike is a legal right that can’t be considered as damaging for the company).
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
@lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 3 жыл бұрын
Hanging clothing outside on a rack or line is no longer acceptable in some parts of the US. I have a small folding rack, and often put a few items on it, on my own balcony. This apparently offends some people. If clean clothing bothers you, I say, don’t look. I frequently saw items drying outside in France, Germany and Italy. Energy conscious too!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, many people still dry their clothes outdoors here. Totally normal
@hanavanek1379
@hanavanek1379 2 жыл бұрын
@@OuiInFrance There are laws specifying where you are not allowed to hang your laundry. I know about regulations and restrictions concerning balconies. For example when you live in an apartment building of a "résidence" type, you are not allowed to dry your clothes on a line, you can only use a rack that is less visible. It seems to me that some 20 years ago or even less it was still possible to hang your laundry outside even in tiny streets in cities like Nice. Or am I confusing it with Italy? Locals will know better. Today people feel offended, it's not esthetic enough.
@AveCaesar2025
@AveCaesar2025 Жыл бұрын
That's how I dry all my washing in the summer, we have 3 clothes horses that I put outside my door on the little paved ''patio'' area. The heat coming up from the stone helps and they normally dry in a few hours. [Winter is different obviously]. I used to have a washing line but there isn't one where I'm currently renting. Radiators also get covered in winter, great for drying undies and socks.
@Urbanmoon
@Urbanmoon Жыл бұрын
​@@hanavanek1379 In Canada, each municipality has their own bylaws that may prevent hanging laundry outside, but that has changed over the years since we are all being encouraged to conserve energy. I've always hung my own clothes and especially my darks because the dryer is very hard on clothes and ages them more quickly. But for years now our dryer has been broken and I really don't care, I just hang everything now, and hang inside in winter.
@evaarnaud8454
@evaarnaud8454 Жыл бұрын
@@hanavanek1379 I live in an appartment un the south of France and we dry our clothes on the outside line
@v.bourdeix
@v.bourdeix Жыл бұрын
The main utility of volets / shutters is to avoid being disturbed by sun light when sleeping. The other uses you mentioned are secondary.
@gastonjourtau951
@gastonjourtau951 Жыл бұрын
In the summer, shutting them during the day is not secondary at all
@Victor-uj8kz
@Victor-uj8kz 8 ай бұрын
In Britanny we use them to protect the windows from outside weather...
@j.m.3038
@j.m.3038 4 ай бұрын
Privacy is a big part for me. I hate being seen/spied on by my neighbors at night so I won't turn lights on till my volets/shutters are closed.
@lehoff
@lehoff 3 жыл бұрын
I've always worked in Europe where I've had a minimum of 30 days holiday (excluding bank holidays) - I always took time off, as much as possible. There's a lot of data out there that productivity and time off is correlated, and even that working shorter but sharper times actually is better than spending 10+ hours in the office (which is pointlesS).
@IRACEMABABU
@IRACEMABABU 3 жыл бұрын
So true. French worker's productivity is the best in Europe. Not surprising.
@faithlesshound5621
@faithlesshound5621 3 жыл бұрын
Working conditions are better where the voters get to decide them. In the US, legislators are selected, paid and fired by big business.
@cosmedelustrac5842
@cosmedelustrac5842 3 жыл бұрын
Speaking of the difference in time off, I am still amazed that you don't have paid parental leave in the US.
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Even more shocking is that there is no maternity leave across the board! Good employers offer both but it should be a no-brainer for everyone.
@SharonMcCue
@SharonMcCue 3 жыл бұрын
We have to use our vacation time.
@marydavis5234
@marydavis5234 3 жыл бұрын
@@OuiInFrance the companies We work for has maternity leave for up to 9 months, it's up to the company you work for
@bropoke6799
@bropoke6799 3 жыл бұрын
U think thats bad? Fathers only get 3 or 4 days tops, so moms are forced to recoup from birth while taking care of a newborn by themselves while the father is at work
@heathertaylor-willockx3632
@heathertaylor-willockx3632 3 жыл бұрын
Most places here do not offer any maternity leave at all. And if they do, its often unpaid. Paternity leave is almost unheard of. I have known many women who either quit or who have to go back to work within days of giving birth. I was lucky enough to be self employed when I had each of mine, but that did mean no income at all for that period. We saved up ahead of time.
@repr0bate1
@repr0bate1 3 жыл бұрын
What she has inadvertently managed to do is to show how dreadful work conditions and employment terms are in the USA. While the rich get richer,the American worker works his/her life away.
@nobodyknows3180
@nobodyknows3180 3 жыл бұрын
In Russia 5 weeks per year. AND, they have 25 public holidays per year too.... :D
@lynnenash5209
@lynnenash5209 3 жыл бұрын
I felt this way when I was in my early and mid 20's then I realized I didn't have to sit there working the same dead end job my whole life. What an idea!
@fredrika27
@fredrika27 3 жыл бұрын
This is why so many Americans leave for better pastures abroad with 5,000 to 10,000 giving up their American passports!
@josephwalsh7546
@josephwalsh7546 3 жыл бұрын
@@fredrika27 Apparently it's SO bad that millions of foreigners both legal and illegal flood into the country each year. Your statement was a stupid JOKE !
@archangele1
@archangele1 3 жыл бұрын
Other thing is the horrible American health care system. My friend and his wife moved to a home just north of Lyon. They became French citizens and not long after that his wife had appendicitis. She was rushed to the hospital and they removed her appendix and had her in hospital for almost 4 days for observation. OK, guess what her total out of pocket was? Yep, 32 Euros. If she had this with American health insurance in the USA, her copays would probably have somewhere between $4,000 - $8,000.
@zzanatos2001
@zzanatos2001 3 жыл бұрын
France has more favorable customs when it comes to employment, health insurance, vacation, family leave, and a focus on minimizing stress and taking care of one's health.
@maryrosed8475
@maryrosed8475 3 жыл бұрын
US is very backward on Health Care.
@pietekoo5559
@pietekoo5559 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing to be proud of not giving sufficient leave to employees.
@SurfCityBill
@SurfCityBill 3 жыл бұрын
And you are taxed to death
@pietekoo5559
@pietekoo5559 3 жыл бұрын
@@SurfCityBill There are so many Americans working two or three jobs just to keep head above water and then to have the possibility of getting bankrupted by medical bills. I would rather earn less, pay tax and live carefree knowing whether I get a heart attack or cancer, it will not add extra burden or concern.
@georgevavoulis4758
@georgevavoulis4758 3 жыл бұрын
In the USA and Canada you're live to work ,in Europe you work to live
@noicetoit5853
@noicetoit5853 3 жыл бұрын
Just to clarify the school topic, most schools only give you half the day off on Wednesday and some schools have school on Saturday mornings. Also school days usually last from 8 AM to 5 PM (although we have gaps in our schedules on some days), which also makes up for any hours lost. Since it’s guaranteed that we don’t have school on Wednesday afternoons, many after school activities take place at that time (or at least one of the sessions offered is on that day)
@davedoes7467
@davedoes7467 9 ай бұрын
I moved to France from the uk last year and have just bought my first pair of speedos. It has been a tough transition but the wine has helped a little.
@Kazar2020
@Kazar2020 3 жыл бұрын
Windows shutters because of the highest sleeping quality achievable: The best thing to sleep correctly: total darkness, dry, cool and quite => Blackout Shutters, no LED from TV or whatever device, sleeping room door closed, no interstice under the door, and if not in a very quite place, closed windows.. Perfect sleep
@zootsootful
@zootsootful 3 жыл бұрын
It's spelled "quiet"!...
@Kazar2020
@Kazar2020 3 жыл бұрын
@@zootsootful sorry i mixed it up
@josiahtheblacksmith467
@josiahtheblacksmith467 3 жыл бұрын
I actually really like the idea of window shutters. What is crazy here in the USA some houses have fake shutters that are not functional on the sides of the windows outside.
@corentinm.105
@corentinm.105 3 жыл бұрын
I'm french, living in an appartment, and I sleep all nights without shutting my windows, that means in the public lights and with quite much sound from partying students. However, I'm still sleeping well, I get used to it
@beckypetersen2680
@beckypetersen2680 3 жыл бұрын
I think we'd suffocate it if were hot as we leave things open at night for ventilation (in the summer).
@claudiohuttick9425
@claudiohuttick9425 3 жыл бұрын
You mentioned full month vacations, I was in Paris in August and was shocked at how many businesses completely shut down for the entire summer. Especially an ice cream shop. I was pretty shocked.
@True_tomato_soup
@True_tomato_soup 3 жыл бұрын
It is because if the store remain open, then the people in the store do not have a life. We want people to have a life. And me being able to get some random shit on a sunday morning is less important than that. It probably can wait an extra day, or I can plan ahead. That is also why most shops are closed on sunday and mondays. ( in some areas it is by law )
@Kate-qq3ez
@Kate-qq3ez 2 жыл бұрын
August is also part of summer holidays for school. So if you want to spend time with your kids and you have an independent shop, you close your shop and enjoy your holidays with family. Of course it will be different for chain stores.
@egyphon
@egyphon 2 жыл бұрын
August in Paris, parisians get away from the city to avoid road work and whatnot, it's completely deserted of parisians.
@1m2rich
@1m2rich 2 жыл бұрын
Few are air conditioned.
@flotristval
@flotristval Жыл бұрын
Vacations 🇫🇷😁
@ruthslone2992
@ruthslone2992 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 61. I’ve had four vacations in my entire life, the longest one was ten days total. Altogether, they don’t add up to what the French enjoy annually. In the USA, we work until we drop dead. No choice, unless you’re born into luxury to begin with.
@Dragantraces
@Dragantraces 3 жыл бұрын
I am now in forced retirement at 65 (health issues, which will probably bankrupt me except that medical debt is exempted from bankruptcy proceedings so those guys will get their figurative pound of flesh along with the literal ones.) I have taken one week-long vacation in my adult life. In October of 2019. All the rest of my vacation time got paid out to me when the jobs ended, not when I took time off. (Lots of reasons for jobs to end, including COVID 19. My job at that firm is the only one that hasn't be reopened.) USA's attitude toward workers and unions went down the drain with the Movement Republicans and firing all of the air traffic controllers. That and what followed frightened too many workers.
@cepahreinholt8710
@cepahreinholt8710 3 жыл бұрын
When I see american work conditions I think french strikes are not that bad. Lots of quality if life improvement happened because of them.
@johnp139
@johnp139 3 жыл бұрын
Not if you get a decent job.
@True_tomato_soup
@True_tomato_soup 3 жыл бұрын
This comment made me really really sad. For humanity I mean.
@IRACEMABABU
@IRACEMABABU 3 жыл бұрын
@@cepahreinholt8710 An old american lady, who had lived many years in France once told : In USA people is afraid of government, in France the government is afraid of the people. Don't mess with people in France when it come to civil, healthcare, social laws things. Don't touch our "art de vivre"...
@oscur_destal
@oscur_destal Жыл бұрын
In France we call our payment cards "cartes de crédit" but they should be called "cartes de débit", because as you said it is very rare that such a card actually allows people to pay above the amount of money they have on their bank account.
@GafftheHorse
@GafftheHorse Жыл бұрын
In the UK, when you pay with a Debit card, the payment comes direct out of the linked Bank account. While with Credit cards, the payment is added to a separate account which has to then be settled with a payment, usually per month. I've avoided Credit cards as many in the UK also require an additional fee.
@gregft1979
@gregft1979 Жыл бұрын
? The carte de crédit allows to go a lot higher than what you have in your bank account. That's why it's called credit card. Unless you have such poor track record that your card is not allowing anything, but thats rare and such people would only be offered debit card anyway.
@nmolodiets6274
@nmolodiets6274 7 ай бұрын
What most of the french have actually are credit cards. Your account is not debited of your purchases until the end of the month. That means there is actually a "free" credit.
@jean-philipperottiers614
@jean-philipperottiers614 5 ай бұрын
You guys have both types of cards, eh.
@Fuk_Zat_Tek
@Fuk_Zat_Tek 4 ай бұрын
@@nmolodiets6274 Wrong , most people have instant debit cards ... not monthly debit. Both exists , example my mother always had a credit card with monthly payment ... i always had an instant one , and it's not because i'm poor ( cause i'm not ) , it's just my choice to see instantly what is on my account and what did i spent recently.
@guitello100
@guitello100 3 жыл бұрын
Really love your channel! Also about the volets, in France very few homes have screens for insect protection mainly because I've noticed there are a lot less bugs in France then in the US., whereas most volets will provide sufficient protection against wandering insects that might try to enter your home. The problem with having screens as we have them in the US is that it makes it impossible to open or shut traditional volets without removing the screens and that would be a real pain!
@johnkean6852
@johnkean6852 3 жыл бұрын
An opening there for a new design! Come on you young Designers *get your thinking caps on*
@icitlalistardust9060
@icitlalistardust9060 3 жыл бұрын
Actually, in the southern part of France, where there is quite a lot of flies in summer, many houses have both screens and shutters in their doors and windows. Screens have magnets or can be slipped, to open or close the shutters easily.
@guitello100
@guitello100 3 жыл бұрын
Very true. My family lives in Brittany so of course I was using that area as an example. Yes in the south it's a different story
@francocanuck9435
@francocanuck9435 3 жыл бұрын
i feel very sorry for your hard times in France
@icitlalistardust9060
@icitlalistardust9060 3 жыл бұрын
@@francocanuck9435 - What can I say… living in a “socialist “ country is a trial!
@shirleypeters
@shirleypeters 3 жыл бұрын
Terrific! Thank you for those interesting observations. I think Australia sits halfway between the two cultures: work conditions are more like France. We have mandated holidays and sick pay for all employees, and the employee can choose when to take them. (within reason). Schools have uniforms and are definitely Monday to Friday. Houses are shown to buyers without the owners present. Business lunch is less than an hour, and alcohol is discouraged, even cause for sacking. Striking is a right, but rarely used nowadays, as the union membership is no longer compulsory, and therefore they have less power than before.
@janicevass4551
@janicevass4551 3 жыл бұрын
Lingoda is a great way to learn French - I took Diane’s advice and am now in my second month of the Super Sprint program! Great platform and easy to sign up for classes at times that are convenient for you. Never thought I could do the Zoom class thing, but the teachers are great and the the students are all over the world. Maximum class size that I’ve had is 5 people, so you get to do a lot of speaking. Thanks again, Diane!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful to hear, Janice. Thanks for the update!! Bonne continuation!
@SergeCeyral
@SergeCeyral 3 ай бұрын
I'd like to moderate your talk about french strike culture: yes, we go on strike more often in France than in the US... But the US also have strikes (now and in the past): remember the extreme (and violent) strikes in Steel mills (Carnegie),railroad Companies, road transportation (Teamsters), and recently at Boeing, Gibson Guitars.... All Unions have been heavily fought (and have fought) in the past (and today as well) in the US...
@chrisc9558
@chrisc9558 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love your comments and videos! I am french and have lived in the UK for 30 years now so can relate to your observations on different cultures.
@nco1970
@nco1970 3 жыл бұрын
Regarding vacation in France, there are rules in the law which define modalities to take them. For exemple, once a year you have to take a period of at least 12 days. You also have to take vacation during the May-October period. Your employer can also define your vacation period. There are companies which are closed in august so there is no choice (less than before but it tends to be the case in factories). My employer, for exemple, requests that I take at least 3 weeks during the summer. You can also have additional vacation. My contract is based on worked days not on worked hours (it is clearly indicated that I must work the hours necessary to complete the tasks entrusted to me). In compensation, I have 2 weeks off on top of my 5 weeks of vacation.
@trishayamada807
@trishayamada807 3 жыл бұрын
My first year I got ZERO vacation unless you consider Christmas Day off and that fell on a weekend which I always had off anyway. After one year I got a “week” of vacation. And by week, that’s 5 days and I couldn’t take them all in a row. Second year I got two weeks (10 days) and once again you can’t take them all at one time. If I had stayed their six years, I could have gotten 3 weeks (15) days of vacation, but as usual, you can’t take them all off in a row and you do not increase time off after those six years. It’s just 15 days for the rest of your years there.
@annesikaddour7225
@annesikaddour7225 3 жыл бұрын
I like your videos, not only because you are culturally sensitive and educated, but because you put out there simple truths that must be very helpful to expats on one side or the other. I have fun mirroring your comments the other way around!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that so much, Anne!! Thank you for being here ;-)
@hjeffwallace
@hjeffwallace 3 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: healthcare in the US is structured for shareholders. I have saved for retirement, but cannot quit until Medicare kicks in at age 65.
@matthewjay660
@matthewjay660 3 жыл бұрын
🙋🏻‍♂️ Bonjour, Diane. When I taught in France from 1999-2001, my high school students went to school from 8 AM to 12 PM on Wednesdays. They did a half day. 👨🏻‍🏫
@southpaw487
@southpaw487 3 жыл бұрын
When I was in Catholic school in Brooklyn in the 60s, we took off from 1pm every Wednesday so public school kids could come into our school for religious education. The public schools totally accommodated this. As far as I knew, this was city-wide. From the perspective of those getting out early, we called it “released time.” I don’t know when this ended. I found it interesting that it is the same day in France. Maybe immigrants took that practice here to the US back when we had a lot of immigration from Europe?
@jeffdittrich6778
@jeffdittrich6778 3 жыл бұрын
It is very useful when you explain why a particular french custom exist. You did a good job with this in this video.
@smenor
@smenor 3 жыл бұрын
I miss those shutters - they do such a better job of blocking sunlight than anything we do here
@BobbyMadhu
@BobbyMadhu 2 жыл бұрын
Gosh Dianne, you really have made an adjustment from US to France. Really challenging. Stay blessed.
@mariamessina1475
@mariamessina1475 3 жыл бұрын
In Australia full time employees are by law required to take 4 weeks holidays.... it seems terrible that in the USA this is not law... where is work life balance?
@briangpz
@briangpz 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in the USA. 55 years old, and I can barely remember a time when I had less than 4 weeks of paid time off. Even in my early 20's it was always 3 weeks. I started a new job about 8 years ago, and got 4 weeks. All you have to do is ask. Most people don't, and they end up with 2. I am not a professional, just a lowly, non-union, tradesman. Also, I have never had a problem getting 2 consecutive weeks off in the summer. My previous employers, as well as my current employer wouldn't bat an eye at that. I don't know where this woman worked, but I can tell you, her experience seems to be outside the norm. The reality is that many Americans voluntarily forfeit their vacation time, in exchange for the money. Yes, you can take the money instead of the time off.
@susan8823
@susan8823 3 жыл бұрын
There isn’t any. And if you try why you’re a slacker. You should “be lucky you still have a job” and I kid you not.
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Great question and wish I had the answer!
@zachotoole2354
@zachotoole2354 3 жыл бұрын
Work-life balance is a luxury benefit many people just don’t get from their jobs.
@mariamessina1475
@mariamessina1475 3 жыл бұрын
@@susan8823 that’s sad. It would have to mess with mental health 😢
@susanmion3611
@susanmion3611 2 жыл бұрын
I’m also from the USA .. both children now live in France. So …. These videos are WONDERFUL! Thank you so much for your respectful insight.
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome, Susan! So happy you enjoy my videos.
@JColeJohnson
@JColeJohnson 3 жыл бұрын
I’m looking forward to a big move from Berkeley, California to Amigny, Sancerre, France on the 26th of June! Our stuff and our two cars have already set sail. We purchased the house six months ago and I’m anxious to see it in person...not on Google Maps.
@robertbrainerd5919
@robertbrainerd5919 3 жыл бұрын
How much does it cost to ship a car (from Arizona) to France ? How long does it take ? What about duty ?
@francocanuck9435
@francocanuck9435 3 жыл бұрын
i am very happy for you ,i wish you the best
@zariaswell
@zariaswell 3 жыл бұрын
Bienvenue \o/
@towaritch
@towaritch 3 жыл бұрын
Don't do it, you'll regret it .France is deep in shit right now and the upcoming presidential election will make things even worse. " Conseil d ami".
@Leila2023_
@Leila2023_ 3 жыл бұрын
can i add something about credit law... they have laws about interest. it's totally different in the uk. you simply cannot be charged high interest in france. France does not encourage people to get into debt.
@sandie157
@sandie157 3 жыл бұрын
That's good. Usury should be illegal
@DrewNorthup
@DrewNorthup 3 жыл бұрын
@@sandie157 Usury is defined differently in different places.
@ta192utube
@ta192utube 3 жыл бұрын
We USED to have laws against usury in the U.S. as well, but now we have legal loan sharking...score one for France.
@cepahreinholt8710
@cepahreinholt8710 3 жыл бұрын
If I have one piece of advice as a french person it's: don't buy non essentials things with money you don't have yet. Just wait a little. It's always cheaper.
@towaritch
@towaritch 3 жыл бұрын
Totally false. The French loan sharks ( Cofidis for instance) propose 17% interest loans.This is usury in my book.
@FelinaFaerlaingal
@FelinaFaerlaingal Жыл бұрын
For the school thing, it's because Wednesday is encouraged as the day for extra-scholar activities. Almost every single club, be they tied to the school or independent companies, have their classes on Wednesday because it's the day without school for the kids.
@denisewingham2856
@denisewingham2856 3 жыл бұрын
Hello. I just started viewing Oui in France. I love it so much. I am learning french presently. Thank you for the journey. God bless you...sincerely Denise⚘
@zitronentee
@zitronentee 3 жыл бұрын
When I was in Germany, I also do payments with debit card, that I always aware of my money situation, yet I don't feel burdened with carrying cash or debt from credit card.
@augth
@augth 3 жыл бұрын
About the primary school week : when I entered primary school I had the whole Wednesday off and course on some Saturday mornings, but Saturday courses ended more than ten years ago. Also, now children have school on Wednesday mornings.
@donnabennett4799
@donnabennett4799 3 жыл бұрын
I loved the Volets when I was stationed in Germany! I would love them here back in the states!
@evelinholmes6401
@evelinholmes6401 3 жыл бұрын
I live in Canada,ex German, and I installed them in my house.
@bobmirror7164
@bobmirror7164 3 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head on all items you talked about.
@magdastar2249
@magdastar2249 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Diane 👍🌈 Hit the nail on the head. So ready to move back to Europe, for more reasons than you even mentioned. Thank you for all your work ❤
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome, thank you for taking the time to watch!
@2Hearts3
@2Hearts3 3 жыл бұрын
Diane-- love your videos! Informative, interesting, so well written and presented in a relaxed and straight to the point manner, no wasted time. I enjoy hearing you tell about French culture-- 'next best thing to being there.' Thanks again! ⚜️
@Revzinator
@Revzinator 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Diane. French people take 4 weeks in Summer because it’s the law. Those weeks have to be taken between May 1st and Oct 31st unless the company authorizes the employees to take some of those vacation days outside of that period. Companies may to have to compensate with extra vacation days in that case. Historically, the industry used to close their manufacturing plants in August for preventive maintenance so people had to take those 4 weeks in August. Companies are more flexible nowadays. Credit cards as they are in the US are not authorized actually in France. They are as you said debit card with immediate charges or differed charges (end of the month). You can find credit cards but payment are generally scheduled in total or partially (revolving). So, it may be not a cultural thing. Thank you for the video.
@stoicmonk01
@stoicmonk01 3 жыл бұрын
deferred charges.
@luvzfrance24
@luvzfrance24 Жыл бұрын
I fell in love with the shutters in France! I wish I could have them installed for my house.
@beatrixpastoors1104
@beatrixpastoors1104 3 жыл бұрын
I'm German and prefer it the French way. A lot more similar to my own country. I learned the word Speedo only a few weeks ago on another channel and had to look it up. It didn't exist in my school time nor did boys or men wear shorts instead when swimming. But it's getting more common in Germany in the younger generation because we have so many migrants and they seem to be more prudish. But not as prudish as Americans are what always amuses me, but what I also find very weird. Living and working conditions seem to be much better in Europe as well as sexual freedom and other forms of freedom.
@chriswatson1698
@chriswatson1698 Жыл бұрын
Speedo was the brand name of swimwear designed for swimming races. In the 1950s and 60s, in Australia, the words 'racing bathers' and 'Speedos' meant the same thing. They were made of an opaque nylon knit fabric (no elastane) and came in women's and girl's styles as well as men's.
@beatrixpastoors1104
@beatrixpastoors1104 Жыл бұрын
@Chris Watson thx for the explanation. We have the same thing here, e.g.if paper handkerchiefs are called Tempo or (American brands) diapers are just called pampers or household paper Kleenex. But is constantly changing as there are so many different brands now available that the first ones are not so popular any more. Btw the male swimming trousers I am used to don't fit your speedo description. They cover a bit more. Still, prudery is on the rise here, too. A pity.
@chriswatson1698
@chriswatson1698 Жыл бұрын
@@beatrixpastoors1104 Having the brand name used as a generic word for similar products, is a marketer's dream.
@enjoyslearningandtravel7957
@enjoyslearningandtravel7957 Жыл бұрын
@@beatrixpastoors1104 not all Americans are prudish. . I happily used the saunas when I was in Germany but if I knew Americans would be in a hotel I noticed they would wear their swimsuits in the sauna, even though there was a rule against
@iknow2145
@iknow2145 Жыл бұрын
@@beatrixpastoors1104 the word "prude" is so abusive. there is nothing wrong with having a different standard than others. i knew a florida state trooper years ago, he would tell me about tourists in florida. one time he said that germans would get naked for anything which is funny but it would be unfair to make a negative judgement about germans just because they do this and americans don't.
@joseeallyn9950
@joseeallyn9950 3 жыл бұрын
In France My neighbours close their shutters with loud bangs at 7.30. Curfew time 25 minutes after The Angelus bell from the village church. Some habits die hard even after 500 years! The shutters keep out the very hot weather but let air through and in winter save on fuel bills.
@benjaminlamey3591
@benjaminlamey3591 3 жыл бұрын
regarding strike. Actually, there are no that much strikes. However, we are professionnal at striking. it is about communication, hit hard and strong and you will get something. what´s the point of striking if nobody heards of it, not even the guy you are trying to get on the negotiating table ?
@maryhaucke-davis6695
@maryhaucke-davis6695 3 жыл бұрын
I spent some time in Montpellier and les volets are essential! Keep them closed during the day and voilà! Comfortable bedroom later. Vive la France!
@cepahreinholt8710
@cepahreinholt8710 3 жыл бұрын
And it's eco friendly
@gilar002
@gilar002 3 жыл бұрын
good list and entertaining video as always! Well done! We seem so cliché sometimes but what you are listing is all very true
@gengis737
@gengis737 Жыл бұрын
Shutters are great at avoiding air conditioning. On hot summer you close or half close them, to protect from direct sun light, and refresh the air at night. You save 90% of the energy and noise of an AC. Same in Italy or Spain.
@juliebrooke6099
@juliebrooke6099 3 жыл бұрын
The US really is backward in some respects. In the U.K. we’ve had paid holidays (initially it was only a week) since 1938. I think nowadays the minimum is generally twenty days.
@jpbaley2016
@jpbaley2016 3 жыл бұрын
It all depends on where you work and for how long. After 15 years, I received 6 weeks, + 12 sick days and 11 holidays. And I prefer to split it up over the year. I can bank up to 240 hrs, which because I already maxed the bank, I have to use all 6 weeks. When I was in France on a 3-week business trip, the students were striking against the govt decision to allow business to pay students at a lower wage. Their strikes involved burning cars, which I noticed happens a lot in France, whenever there’s a protest.
@Lori79Butterfly
@Lori79Butterfly 3 жыл бұрын
That’s because the capitalists in the US fear socialism of any kind, including social democracy!
@marydavis5234
@marydavis5234 3 жыл бұрын
When I retired in 2017, I had 8 week of paid vacation, with a 5 year bonus check, every 5 years I got a bonus of 70% of the 5 years pay, plus I sold my company stock back to the company at 100%, plus I have a 401k for retirement ,I got 5 check less than 2 weeks after I retired, in 2023, I will be at my full retirement age and get another check from my 401k, as my 401k was in 3 different accounts which I didn't know about, my brother gets the last 401k check to pay my final bills after I pass away
@JimmyD9765
@JimmyD9765 3 жыл бұрын
the us is a backwater shit hole compared to the rest of the developed world
@markusfederico8732
@markusfederico8732 3 жыл бұрын
@@marydavis5234 German worker: „hold my beer…“
@szk4023
@szk4023 3 жыл бұрын
Wednesdays are generally a half-day for French high school students. Generally, only younger students get the full day off. What I've always found strange is that sometimes French people continue to go to high school AFTER their graduation. If they do a "prépa" or pursue a technical degree like a "BTS", those courses are taught in high schools. I do know some BTS programs are sometimes taught in specialized, dedicated high schools but in other cases the same high school will cater to both nongraduates and graduates! I don't know if regular students ever cross paths with high school graduates? In the US, you'd attend a community or technical college. No going back to high school.
@irina-ty1336
@irina-ty1336 3 жыл бұрын
Hey ! As someone who have done a prepa or CPGE (Classe Préparatoire aux Grandes Ecoles - Preparation course for Bigs schools, a same for the most pretigious and the one who give the higher qualification), we are more or less in the same building than high schooler, but we got our own classroom/corridor/wings and our own professor most of the time. We will meet nongraduate in the corridor or at the canteen. As a prepa student, we got the last floor for us (around 4 rooms) ; and were sharing the lab on the floor bellow with highschoolers. I think the logic for having class prepa in high school is : 1) You are not yet in the true school that will teach you your job, you are still in a mostly general course (for prepa) 2) Prepa/BTS are in big city, so we don't have a lot of space. It's easier just to build an extra wing or to reassigne a few classrooms to Prepa students than to build a whole new school, which who also meens fewer prepa/BTS schools globaly, if all the classes were concentrate on one school. 3) It allow to attract more student, as somebody who came in high school will probably find it easier to get into a Prepa/BTS in his own high school (don"t know if it's really work, but that something we all have more or less conscienly in mind when we choose) ; or at least, be more prepared to the exigence of that Prepa/BTS, because we got professor on hand to ask question, and to prepare ourself.
@nosequenombreponerme6717
@nosequenombreponerme6717 3 жыл бұрын
I miss the whole day off tbh
@bradaltemeyer4472
@bradaltemeyer4472 2 жыл бұрын
we have started to have "dual enrollment" for the actual high school classes to take the college level courses (many types, not just technical), In many cases the college faculty travel to the high school to teach the class/ and in some cases we hire the high school faculty (if credentials match course demands), and in some cases High School students are bused to one of our campus locations for the college. (this is in many places in the USA, not just at South Texas College)
@603storm
@603storm 3 жыл бұрын
The US is draconian with vacation time. I’m a DoD contractor which is double draconian. Want to know why people go postal, look no further.
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's really a shame that we don't have federally mandated vacation time in the US! Seems nuts.
@603storm
@603storm 3 жыл бұрын
@@OuiInFrance Switzerland is even better. Start out with 5 weeks and if you are over 55, I think you get another week. In the states when you turn 55 the best you can hope for is 10 cents off your McDonald’s coffee.
@amybagnall6097
@amybagnall6097 3 жыл бұрын
Another issue is paid maternity leave. And yes, paternity leave, as well. Although truly, when my sister felt as though she was pressured to return to work 3 weeks after her C-section birth; that seemed brutal to me. Here she was nursing her 3 week old infant and having to go back to work full time. She was a chemist then. She said the men who ran the company never looked at her the same when she came back from that brief maternity leave. Her stellar performance reviews prior to this, took a 180 and she was demoted so fast, she was forced to seek another job.
@karozans
@karozans 3 жыл бұрын
Strange how all of you love to cry and want the government to force your employer to give you time off, but none of you have the balls to open your own company and run it the way you want too despite the fact absolutely no one is stopping you.
@karozans
@karozans 3 жыл бұрын
@@603storm Yeah. Switzerland is so much better. That's why corporations that were based in Switzerland flee the nation any time they can. My buddy works for Roche here in the US. Imagine having to flee to the USA because Switzerland is so bad to do business in.
@GiseleAzerad-l4t
@GiseleAzerad-l4t 2 ай бұрын
Was born and raised in France ,had Wednesday afternoon off but had to go to school on Saturday morning!
@julieparker8176
@julieparker8176 3 жыл бұрын
My first business trip to France was an eye opener for me, copious amounts of wine at lunch (in a private managers dining room) followed by mid afternoon beverages including beer. 😀. Only one Frenchman overindulged at lunch and at break and the next time I was there for a meeting he was no longer with the company. Not sure what happened to him!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Julie, yes I can definitely see how that might have surprised you! I feel like certain industries in the US might be more open to midday wine, but in France I know people in all types of jobs who have wine midday. Love it!!
@julieparker8176
@julieparker8176 3 жыл бұрын
I learned to enjoy a glass at lunch with that group after that. They also had beer in the soft drink machines.
@lockman004
@lockman004 3 жыл бұрын
I used to work at a large manufacturing facility in the US and they had a history of firing long term well respected employees because they accepted a bottle of wine or spirits from a supplier given as a Christmas gift. One time they fired six maintenance employees because they drank a bottle of beer in the parking lot after working an optional Saturday moving heavy equipment in oppressive summer heat. Interestingly I worked in a engine manufacturing factory owned in part by the same corporation and most employees brought a thermos to work filled with a mix of coffee and whiskey or brandy. Then they had a staggered lunch break so the employees could cross the road in front of the factory to spend 30 minutes slamming shots and 8 ounce glasses of beer at the bars that surround the factory. And most of the employees ran heavy dangerous machinery while intoxicated. So at two factories (in different states) owned by the same parent company the view of drinking was 180 degrees different. At one everyone was drunk and at the other having an unopened bottle of wine could end your career. Welcome to America!
@guillll
@guillll 2 жыл бұрын
So yes, here in France we get a lot of paid vacation, and we also go on strike a lot. I wonder if there is a cause and effect relationship between these two things ? :o)
@SometimesPerplexed
@SometimesPerplexed 3 жыл бұрын
When I was a child in the US in 1950s and 1960, I recall two sales of my family homes along with purchases of the next homes. I went to showings and was home for showings. Showings were typically over weekends and it was quite normal for families to be at home, so clearly the expectation changed at some point. In my adult life, I have not been involved in a lot of showings but the owner has never been on site that I can recall.
@loloverlord1664
@loloverlord1664 Жыл бұрын
Before engaging a debate about culture and the vacations, I'd like to ad something about tourism in France: it's a huge business. The government knows it's a huge business and income source, so they favor tourism in France. Including domestic tourism: this is why our vacations are so important.Because our government knows we're gonna use vacations to visit France and spend money in several business, putting money into this economy. It can be seen as a virtous cycle. And this is why we have the annual french debate about "are school vacations too long?" yes they are for the kids, they forget a lot of what they learned and get bored, but we're not going to have shorter vacations, because tourism has a lobby and will push the government not to shorten or reschedule any holyday. This is also why France has a complicated official school vacations schedule. Not every kid in France has their school holidays at the same time, it depends on their location. Different regions have differents holidays, so tourism can have clients basically all year long. And this is why poverty is seen as a huge problem: people have less and less money to spend for their vacations, it's not a light subjet, in France it's a political debate, because a big part of our economy is at stake.
@Fuk_Zat_Tek
@Fuk_Zat_Tek 4 ай бұрын
" Big part " ... ouai , bon , 7.5 % du PIB , c'est pas mal mais on survivrait même sans tourisme, c'est pas la Thaïlande ou Bali quoi ;)
@michaelcase8574
@michaelcase8574 4 ай бұрын
Paris is the most visited city in the world.
@rosieoutlook905
@rosieoutlook905 3 жыл бұрын
It was common practice in much of southern Europe (France, Spain, Italy) to close up shop from mid July through mid August as working in enclosed spaces was unhealthy (no air conditioning, poor ventilation, hot and humid air) and this became law in a lot of places. It does not apply to all industries (bakeries in France must remain open for certain hours since they had themselves declared a national necessity) such as hospitality or entertainment or tourism. Same thing as the Spanish siesta which breaks the day into two parts - the cooler morning and the cooler evening.
@Leila2023_
@Leila2023_ 3 жыл бұрын
we were told to get out of our apartment when there were viewings. that was ile de france. one thing... if you view in paris, especially the luxury end, you need to wait about a week to actually view because the owners need time to arrange thier lives, and the agents won't have the keys. they have to atrange to collect the keys every time there's a request to view. i viewed places in paris for aboit 2 years and it was really difficult.
@GoPatriots
@GoPatriots 3 жыл бұрын
Again, a fascinating and extremely interesting video!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Gigi-fv9ky
@Gigi-fv9ky 3 жыл бұрын
I think I am about 15 years older than you, probably. When I was young, striking was a lot more common here in the USA, too. Unfortunately, as the labor unions were systematically weakened and , in large part, eliminated, striking has gone away, too, as you say because American workers have very little job security. Not only can we be easily replaced with other American workers, but employers, even those who claim to have high social values, are very willing to fire American workers and move jobs overseas to places like India and the Philippines. It sucks and voters, and nonvoters, here have allowed this to happen as they have been manipulated. This is also why we have less vacation, are more overworked, most no longer have retirement, and have fewer other benefits. The average American worker had it a lot better when I was young than what I now face as a single late middle aged American woman. On a more pleasant note, the working shutters on French windows are a great idea and I wish they would gain popularity here.
@joysjourney3212
@joysjourney3212 3 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel tonight, I'm very impressed! Excellent content :)
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome aboard! Merci!
@iallso1
@iallso1 3 жыл бұрын
When I was 16 and travelled to Paris with college we stayed in an international youth hostel. We were given meal vouchers to breakfast and dinner, these vouchers included wine, even at breakfast if you wished. Also there was a bar in the hostel and nobody asking for proof of age when I was buying beer. Vive la France.
@towaritch
@towaritch 3 жыл бұрын
It has changed, rules are tougher now.
@iallso1
@iallso1 3 жыл бұрын
@@towaritch no surprise there, it was 36 years ago. Personally I think a kid/teen having a drink with their parents can teach them how to drink responsibly, that was the case for myself. But I guess some parents would be poor role models and that governments need to make rules to protect those that are vulnerable.
@oscillatine
@oscillatine 3 жыл бұрын
So true. + I love the wood sculpture just behind the flowers.
@christinem3598
@christinem3598 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow what a great promotion with Lingoda. I will definitely take a look at them. Over the years I’ve tried so many ways of learning French and was not successful. From books, cd’s, to even a course at a local college. Lingoda looks great. Thanks for another informative video Diane! Love your channel!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, please do! Such a great promo if you're committed to it. I know it takes a bit of motivation to learn but once you make some progress, you'll be addicted to getting better and better. ;-)
@smartladylr
@smartladylr 2 жыл бұрын
when I was a kid in the day off school was on Thursday - later it became on wednesday - What you have to take into account is a shool day in France starts at 8:30 am a lunch break from 12:00 till 13.30 and then untill 04:30 pm - the Wednesday break is meant for kids to have a shool break but mostly to be able to practice on sports -musik - dance - or anything cultural linked to their taste, and family culture - Most parents do work on wednesday in France, but on that day they do organise themselves withe either family ( grand parents) or relations, friends etc... and also there is on wednesday what's called " centre aéré" for children playground activities, most cities do have this offer for a litte " abonnement annuel" like if your child would go regularly to a " bibliothèque" to borow books for reading - As you know in France no one has to " choose " the classes they want to go to, here everone has to follow the programm ( French litt - writing /grammar - math - geography, history, gym, sciences etc !) it's called " culture generale - nowadays it tends to be much more " loose" but still no choice at school while you're under 10 or 11 - then starting " le second degré" you have to chose 1 or 2 foreign languages added to the rest - and then when you reached 14 years you can even add a third foreign language or more math and sciences if that is what you're good at ! and the two last year before the " baccalaureat" you have to add phylosophie ( if you're on litterature track) and if you're on the scientific track you add more math, physics, and chemistry. I happened to go to school in the states, and I can tell you, for me it was like " holliday" !
@truckerdaddy-akajohninqueb4793
@truckerdaddy-akajohninqueb4793 3 жыл бұрын
Stopping for lunch from 12h to 13h30 👍😅
@moniquehuchet3646
@moniquehuchet3646 3 жыл бұрын
When I was growing up Thursday was the day off school, but in school on Saturday . That was the 50’s. And yes leaving France it was a shock to adjust to reduced Canadian holidays.
@jackienaiditch7965
@jackienaiditch7965 3 жыл бұрын
When I lived in France in the '60s, I noticed the following difference between French and American cultures: in France. there were a lot of discussions about politics and religion. In Aix, people would sit in cafes and discuss politics by the hour. In the states, the common rule was no talk about politics or religion, to avoid any unpleasantness. Well, I guess that's gone by the wayside now.
@viviannedonnelly233
@viviannedonnelly233 3 жыл бұрын
My mother was french I grew up in Massachusetts.. At the dinner table there was always discussion and debate about politics and social issues. Now the trend in the US is to personally attack and insult anyone who doesn't agree to one's opinions instead of having a lively conversation, even argument.
@jackienaiditch7965
@jackienaiditch7965 3 жыл бұрын
@@viviannedonnelly233 Yes. Political conversations in the U.S. can get very ugly, very fast. The political conversations I had in France many years ago were a very lively, fun exchange of ideas and opinions. Never acrimonious. And always over wonderful coffee and food.
@towaritch
@towaritch 3 жыл бұрын
French here. Never talk politics or religion with people I don't know.
@paulchapoy992
@paulchapoy992 3 жыл бұрын
I'm french and Yes, you're right, even in Europe the french are an exception for that, they love politics! They love it so much that most of the time they don't even réalise they can be rude because the other people don't agree. But that's the way the french are, they argue very actively about politics and then they go out together very best friends because to speak about politics is considered as part of the democracy, and we hope the other one will defend his opinions very actively with arguments! They love politics so much that they didn't hesitate to change the regime, to do a revolution, to kill their own king, to adopt Napoléon as an emperor, to put kings back again, to put an emperor again, and finally to adopt the Republic. They even tried socialism with Mitterand. Part of the politics, strikes are in France an institution and you can't hire somebody because he went on strike. In fact you can't hire very easily at all and the french got lot's of rights thanks to their strikes, including for example the paid vacations, 35 hours of work per week and free medical care..., what they are very proud about! and they vote! , and you have all kind of parties, from the right to the left. You're right, it makes such a contrast with the americans who are usually not very fond of politics. In fact, the french always want to change the world. For example, they helped the US to get their indépendance from England, they created the European Union, the Olympic games... This is one of their particularity, they always want to be an active part of it! Which is not the case of most European countries. For example, Germany is much more found of business and compromise, as France loves the confrontation of ideas. And France can go very far to defend its values Liberté, Égalité, Fraternité, Laïcité. We had problems of terorism because Charlie hebdo defended the values of Laïcité (meaning that religion mustn't interfere with politics). You find these values on all the townhalls. France is the oldest Allied of the US, and has always been the Allied of the US, but a turbulent allied that doesn't hesitate to say no when she doesn't agree! It can be felt as arrogance, because we are a medium country that behave like a big country. I think It is due to the fact that, like the British, we used to have lots of colonies around the world, and that, even if we don't have them anymore, we still behave as if we still had them. Contrary to the British, we accepted the situation, that's why France did every thing possible to create the EU to stay strong, as the UK still thinks she can stay alone and rely on its ex-empire the common wealth, so did the Brexit. Even in the EU, France tends to be considered as arrogant because, as the other countries have no much vues, she tends to impose her vues, and wants to go fast because she knows what she wants, as the other countries don't all feel as European. In reality, France would like to make a political Union, as most european countries just want to confortably stay in a common market. The french can be a bit tiring with all their politics but don't worry, they also have very good qualities!!!
@homestead1890
@homestead1890 3 жыл бұрын
@@viviannedonnelly233 Sad but true
@iii_royalann5232
@iii_royalann5232 3 жыл бұрын
Bonjoúr! Hello! This is so cool! I just found ur channel and I love it already!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome!!
@minefune3242
@minefune3242 3 жыл бұрын
For the public pool, the speedos are a bit outdated too. Many wear swimming boxers. But it's true that loose bathing shorts are not allowed for hygienic reasons.
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Right, Speedo style (maybe older swimmers lean toward them these days) and the tight swim boxers, but same style.
@briangpz
@briangpz 3 жыл бұрын
So if you're a dirty person, and you slip on a banana hammock, you're good to go? I fail to see how one piece of clothing is more hygienic than another. Makes absolutely zero sense.
@kimc555
@kimc555 3 жыл бұрын
Ya I don’t understand the hygiene issue?!
@Theo-uk8wv
@Theo-uk8wv 3 жыл бұрын
Loose swimwears can be used as outdoor clothes, thus unhygienic, that's why it's not allowed.
@MarcusVinicius116
@MarcusVinicius116 3 жыл бұрын
@@briangpz ridiculous, like so many odd rules in my country...
@jde3212
@jde3212 3 жыл бұрын
I live in the US and my kids go to school Monday through Thursday. Every other Friday they do a virtual learning. They have 2 1/2 months off for summer break.
@loreemackay9960
@loreemackay9960 2 жыл бұрын
I went to France for the job for 15 months. At our 1st team lunch I just did not believe them about the wine they that the proj mgr ordered. I had to call my French boss and he assured me they weren't pulling anything over on me. My boss learned something too. He was shocked to learn the American counter culture. 😂
@lunarsma8446
@lunarsma8446 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for another great vid. I hope your trip here to N.America has not too challenging. xo
@sandrad3346
@sandrad3346 3 жыл бұрын
I'm guessing, but I could be wrong, that you are doing this video in the US because I see wall-to-wall carpet behind you (more common in the US than in France) :)
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in the US, yes!
@jackienaiditch7965
@jackienaiditch7965 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Pretty astute observation.
@noelvanwilgenburg
@noelvanwilgenburg 3 жыл бұрын
The small sockets on the wall, it's also a clue that you are in the United States!
@davidsavage6227
@davidsavage6227 3 жыл бұрын
Your content is wonderful! I’m brand-new to your channel and look forward to seeing your informative, direct and humorous videos.
@astapuppy1
@astapuppy1 3 жыл бұрын
1) Sellers are not home due to a possible conflict with the fair housing laws! If the sellers do not see their prospective buyers they are less likely to discriminate against protected classes. I love the 3 payment option in stores for large purchases! At one of my jobs in the U.S., I was counseled for having a sangria with Mexican food at a business lunch....crazy!
@DrewNorthup
@DrewNorthup 3 жыл бұрын
My experience as a tenant of a landlord that was selling (and yes, that's uncomfortable) was that it had much more to do with the ease and comfort of the Realtor than any law. (My landlord's Realtor actually preferred that I be there, as the house was being sold "As-is" and therefore the buyers needed to be made aware of what they'd be agreeing to. I've also shown an adjacent unit to potential renters for my _previous_ landlord before.) Realtors in some jurisdictions have also been taken to court for making comments about the seller's race and for trying to convince buyers to make lower offers due to the race or ethnicity of the seller. Therefore, I strongly suspect that not all is as it appears.
@markbernier8434
@markbernier8434 3 жыл бұрын
Varies by country of course, however one other reason to not have the owners present is to avoid them answering questions they should not answer as the information can, and will, be relied upon by the purchasers and if it is insufficient or in error may result in liability by the vendor and/or the realtor.
@yourfavoritefrog
@yourfavoritefrog 3 жыл бұрын
Well , that doesn't sound real good if your country has to " protect classes" against discrimination . I suppose we don"t share the same history though. What do I care if the prospective buyer is a black disabled lesbian ?
@astapuppy1
@astapuppy1 3 жыл бұрын
@@yourfavoritefrog every culture has bias. Ethnicity, age, weight, sex, income level, education, accent, appearance. No culture is excluded.
@AstralAu
@AstralAu 3 жыл бұрын
Bonjour Diane! Merci pour le link to Lingoda! Je me joins avec ton code. I am a little bit excited :)
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Yay so glad!
@mffmoniz2948
@mffmoniz2948 3 жыл бұрын
In Belgium, at least the Flemish part, kids have no school on Wednesday afternoon. But the entire system is organized to work with that. There's day-care attached to school, there's grandparents that come forward, there's special work contracts that allow Wednesday off. It works very well. I'm from Portugal. Shutters on the windows are awesome. I miss them. For example in warm summer nights you can open you window but leave the shutters closed for privacy and security. If you have money, you buy. If you don't have money... you don't buy. The american style of credit is crazy because everyone is broke. America, the greatest country in the world according to them. Oh, no paid vacation? Thank you, but no thank you. I'll remain in Europe.
@gchecosse
@gchecosse 3 ай бұрын
From a UK perspective most of these are particularly French: we have similar amounts of paid leave but people rarely take such a big block all at once. At least here in Scotland, homeowners often show potential buyers round themselves.
@mamaahu
@mamaahu 3 жыл бұрын
I went to a private Catholic school for grammar school and high school in California in the 1950’s. We had Wednesday off and school on Saturday. Major pain for our parents even though usually moms didn’t work then. We had no one to play with and on Saturday missed the fun our friends who went to public school were having. Mostly we figured it was to keep us away from boys!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow, I didn't know that's how it was in the 50s!
@jow.2450
@jow.2450 3 жыл бұрын
I never heard of this.
@mamaahu
@mamaahu 3 жыл бұрын
@@OuiInFrance They don’t do it any more. It definitely had a European history to it. But by our time, the Catholic day students didn’t have to study religion but did go to concerts and other cultural things. On Saturdays, we didn’t have regular classes. The biggest thing I remember is that we had “Courtesy” where we were taught how to be caring and polite in all kinds of situations plus etiquette! The thing I remember most though was we had 2 hours of penmanship every Saturday where we wrote letters to loved ones and copied poetry and other texts. Seems like the 18th century now!
@mamaahu
@mamaahu 3 жыл бұрын
@@jow.2450 It was pretty unusual. None of the other private schools around us did it. But our school was very old and I think actually founded by French sisters. So....
@irina-ty1336
@irina-ty1336 3 жыл бұрын
@@florencecousin5577 I am 25. I got school on Saturday when I was 7-9, but only one of two, that was the beginning of having school only 4 days week. The government try 5 years ago to get back to an half-day either Wednesday or Saturday, but it was really strange, as they wanted for the children to have school an half-day more, but without adding any hours of school ???? and without a national coordination ... That was anarchy ... After two years, they got back to 4days par week for children in elementary school.
@alexayala4519
@alexayala4519 3 жыл бұрын
Really enjoy your channel. I had the opportunity to visit France quite often; I was stationed in Germany twice (9 years total). Good content; great channel!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, Alex!
@xyz987123abc
@xyz987123abc 3 жыл бұрын
Diane did you ever do a video on "work contracts"? My British friends have them and they are astounded I have no idea what it is...
@Laurent69ftm
@Laurent69ftm 3 жыл бұрын
They don't have work contracts in the US ?
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Hi there, I've never done a video on that. Thank you for the idea!
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Some jobs/industries do but it's not across the board like it is in France. Most employment is "at will" meaning the employer basically has the upper hand and can let the employee go at any time. In France, it's much harder to get fired.
@Leila2023_
@Leila2023_ 3 жыл бұрын
also a video on different freelance status please. I've been a freelancer in franxe for about 5 years and i don't understand my status. i just realises that I've been paying too much tax.
@evelinholmes6401
@evelinholmes6401 3 жыл бұрын
@@OuiInFrance not been able to fire someone can cause bullying. I seen and experienced it.
@Jiphoune
@Jiphoune Жыл бұрын
I remember working in an automotive factory in France and taking august off was mandatory ! Because it was an annual 3-week shutdown for maintenance so production stopped completely.
@katebg1089
@katebg1089 3 жыл бұрын
French are less in debt because banks aren't allowed to lend you money if it represents more than 30% of your total incomes. The gouvernment is very protective over his citizens compared to USA or Canada (where I am from)
@Jiphoune
@Jiphoune Жыл бұрын
What many foreigners tend to forget about strike culture in France is that it is only true in the public/state-owned sector. You'll see a lot of strikes in education, transportation etc. But when did you last see a strike in the automotive industry or the banking sector? Never ever! In fact, French unions are very strong in the public sector but very weak in the private sector.
@jeangreenfield5993
@jeangreenfield5993 3 жыл бұрын
Well done - you have a T shirt with my suggested phrase "Bonjour tout la monde " ! 💗 so sweet. (Think I spelled that correctly 😄). The Male/Female part of the sentence is rather problematic to Brits (& others no doubt). Fancy improving my French, and also learning German 🇩🇪 Badly want to go on holiday to Germany 🙃
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, i figured since i say it often enough, it would be good on a t-shirt ;-) You were so close, monde is masculine so le monde. Hope you go on holiday this summer!
@eriqmav
@eriqmav 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 and my generation was the last one to have school on saturday mornings in France. I still remember how happy I was when my mom told me that I wouldn't have to go anymore
@chloegm1101
@chloegm1101 3 жыл бұрын
Wine at lunch is not so common anymore. In the past companies i have worked at there would be no alcohol at lunch during team meetings at restaurants
@simonnicholls5619
@simonnicholls5619 Жыл бұрын
You AMAZE me that you omitted the uniquely French style for toilets....the on the street pissoir, or the unisex rest rooms with open urinals in the communal area. I felt VERY uncomfortable in a McDonald's toilet recently where there were two urinals in the general area next to the had washers, which I elected to use because the private stalls were busy. Not an issue until a young (12 year old?) Girl came in, and for the same reason had to wait for a stall to become free...right next to me😮😮😮😮
@A3aan1959
@A3aan1959 3 жыл бұрын
In the Netherlands most employees have 5 weeks vacation a year. And a bunch of holidays like Christmas, Newyear, Easter, Kings Day and some other Christian days
@IRACEMABABU
@IRACEMABABU 3 жыл бұрын
Nice country
@jwestfalldavis3574
@jwestfalldavis3574 3 жыл бұрын
I love the shutters! I also had them on my windows in Italy and Egypt.
@annesikaddour7225
@annesikaddour7225 3 жыл бұрын
As a buyer, I prefer to visit a house without the owner. However when I had to sell my houses and was forced to leave the premises with 2 young children, and everything straightened "model home" style, I didn't like it a bit! Also as you mentioned I would have liked to answer questions or explain a few things I'm not sure my Realtor did well.
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, Anne, I think it can be more relaxed without the seller home but as you said, if the realtor isn't really on top of things, the seller might have good info to add.
@rocketmom60
@rocketmom60 3 жыл бұрын
We've sold houses both ways. But I have to say that when we returned home after a showing, we were disappointed to find doors unlocked and even windows open. The realtor should have closed returned the house to the condition they found it in.
@artguti1551
@artguti1551 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in Southern California (Southbay area) and as a kid, wore shorts at the beach. But I switched to speedo type swim suits in my late teens because I didn't like the constant cold drip of board shorts. And I got a better tan.
@TheEmmaLucille
@TheEmmaLucille 3 жыл бұрын
I'm French but I live in Canada now and I DREAM of real vacations: 3 weeks off in one set. I have 3 weeks off per year but am not allowed to take more then 2 at a time... :-(
@RebelRhiannon
@RebelRhiannon 3 жыл бұрын
You guys have vacation?!? Lol.
@ShaYa21
@ShaYa21 3 жыл бұрын
Hi! I'm new to this channel, just saw your vid on the French bakery that I really enjoyed watching and it made me feel like seeing more. Now, re credit cards, I'm not so sure that French people don't live above their means. I am Belgian, living in Belgium and sometimes, I have to order things from France. Well, for many years I couldn't buy things online from France because they would only accept credit cards, the concept of bank transfer is not something that's very common and Belgium stopped accepting chèques 22 years ago. Even today, I struggle sometimes with online orders as I gave up my Mastercard and Paypal is not always possible. A French friend of mine explained to me that their debit card somehow doubled with a credit card (Visa) so it's like having extra money onto your account. I don't really understand how that works because it's different than the Mastercard or Visa credit card system we use in Belgium but I think that since its Visa-based, you have to pay off your credit in one instalment. Which can be tricky when your mortgage or rent eats up most of your salary. Anyway, interesting video, love hearing how expats live in other countries and how life is different for them. Thanks for sharing :-)
@madamnicknack
@madamnicknack 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Diane, it's not really the best place, but I wanted to thank you for mentioning the Nuxe huile prodigieuse. I found it here in the Netherlands, received it today and it's great. Smells and feels wonderful. 💕
@OuiInFrance
@OuiInFrance 3 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! So glad you love it too. Did you get the one with the sparkle? So great for summer.
@madamnicknack
@madamnicknack 3 жыл бұрын
@@OuiInFrance Yes, together with a small bottle Florale. Sun is shining, the weather finally got better and with this summer has started. 🌞
@louvaniste
@louvaniste 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, the shutters (les volets) are very common in France, and not so much in Belgium, the country just next door.
@sct4040
@sct4040 3 жыл бұрын
For the first 5 years of employment, I had only 2 weeks of vacation per year. It was hell. I now get 5 weeks, horrah!
@TheQuenth
@TheQuenth 2 ай бұрын
About no school on wednesday, this is currently evolving into something great for the families thanks to the evolution of some job with work from home. First it allows the parents to stay home while still be working on wednesdays alowing them to still see more their childs, and share the lunch in familly. On top of that, families have less spending on caretaker for that day, allowing them to same more for vacations or week-end, or sport activities for the childs
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