Our Biggest Fight.... *specific details*

Who else is taking notes even though they're single? Can apply this to my relationship with my family!🙏❤☺ thanks for sharing guys😍

[@estaault2450]

Yes! That’s so good!

[@worldwanderingwhittakers]

“Do you want me to help with a solution or do you need me to just listen?” Wow! I love that.

[@jenniferlitt4500]

Right?! This is so good

[@weimhugger7]

I'm encouraged that there are men that are following Jesus and strive to truly love their wives enough to tell her what she longs to hear even in the midst of conflict!

[@AG-tq9gh]

Only Christ can do that in a man. Without him it’s impossible 🙏🏽 Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

[@jenniferlitt4500]

Amen

[@ajosebabafemi8290]

💯

[@terrellbyron6593]

instablaster

[@elexysrose7070]

I truly feel marriage is one of the greatest tools God uses to build Christ like character, that becomes super clear when you realize how much personal sacrifice it requires!

[@Sophrosyne96]

🙏

[@YAHheistheWEH777]

I love the way he looks at you, Kian! Truly, you see the love in his eyes! ❤️ Thank Our Lord Jesus that He gave this man to you. 😍

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Aw thank you so much! 🥰

[@rmbladle6193]

It’s reassuring that other christian also experiended those emotional struggles. I thought I was possessive to feel like that

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Yes struggles are real! But we have power and authority to grow from them through Jesus 💛

[@Goat.Cheese]

Actually that is really possessive and unhealthy. I would suggest therapy to deal with the root issues of why you feel the need to control others

[@EazyE_]

⁠@@Goat.CheeseI think it’s different for males than it is for women. I don’t think he’s trying to control in anyway. I just think he wants to be/feel like the hero in her life. Which there is nothing wrong with that, it’s in male nature to wanna be the hero to somebody. It’s sad to think how if it was the other way around it’d be totally fine but because it’s coming from a male it’s automatically assumed that he’s possessive/unhealthy

[@mridul7639]

It's good that you share how you deal with issues and have patience, grace, faith and work through it. But I have to say that it's not a good thing for him to be jealous and he wasn't right in that situation. He was upset with you and now in the future you wouldn't pray with (maybe slowly even talk to) other guys, even though you did nothing wrong. This slowly changes/molds you and there becomes a sense of control from the other person. So I hope that he recognises that he wasn't right and needs to work on his jealousy, insecurity and give you the freedom and respect. I only have good intentions as I share this perspective.

[@maceylynn6344]

I feel like the point of this was not to focus on what he was going through during church but how they came back together later and the tools they used to move passed it TOGETHER! actually really enjoyed hearing your story

[@Sophrosyne96]

I agree

[@cm-yu6gu]

In my experience if you're truly in love you wouldn't get jealous over something like that because you feel secure in the relationship and of eachother's feelings

[@estradavalerie77]

The root of the problem is insecurity. Meaning we need to pray for them to see themselves in Gods eyes. That they will deepen their relationship with God so much that they will learn to love themselves in return bc they'll see themselves the way God sees them. Therefore making them confident and never in an insecure place.

[@AbbyEmbro]

I have never in my life heard such maturity about relationships. You have both opened my eyes to something I want in my relationship one day, so thank you for obeying God and loving each other like this as an example.

[@jenniferlitt4500]

This video truly shows: If you want to know God more, stay single. If you want to love like God, get married. I believe that marriage is one of the most refining processes we can go through as Christians because it challenges us to lay down our life for another person each day and that is so so beautiful.

[@trustjesus9881]

Amen!!! Jesus was the most selfless man to walk on this earth. Strong characteristics of Christ are loving one another and selflessness.

[@jissymendex526]

It's nice to see your man willing to put his flaws out in the open for the world to see. God bless you!

[@jessefoster2832]

FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE JOHN 3:16

[@valerielinares2068]

It's so true - the enemy will use your own negative thoughts and emotions against you. You gotta stay in prayer to stay on guard.

[@jenniferlitt4500]

Amen sista!

[@Goat.Cheese]

I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but if you get insanely jealous because someone else prayed for your girl, in a public setting, you may have some personal issues do deal with. That level of jealousy isnt healthy. Not trying to diss, just being real. I cant imagine if she had a Male friend or something, how you'd react.

[@christsroyalty2811]

That’s what I was thinking 🤔

[@Goat.Cheese]

@@christsroyalty2811 i'm glad I'm not the only one. I didnt want to sound like a jerk, but that story just totally threw me. It smelled strongly of insecurity and a controlling nature on his part. I hope they are both aware of that

[@whitneyrose871]

Remember you do not own your spouse or your children - u lose them when u try to possess each other

[@whitneyrose871]

Develop a stronger relationship with Christ for your sense of security - because what at some time during your marriage one of u started to stray- u need Christ to heal the marriage again - rather than stay in offense to the point where u are too hurt to mend what became broken

[@itzcyanni123able]

Y’all are so quick to judge .

[@oceanpierson]

Background music was a whole vibe

[@annaschwerzel9834]

Kian, you are a beautiful example of how to live as a daughter of the king and your channel has consistently blessed me beyond words. Thankyou for your humility, honesty, and authenticity. Your videos are so refreshing and reflect Gods presence in the most beautiful way. Praying that God will continue to use your life in this way!!

[@dariarichards104]

It’s so encouraging to see how the two of you use this relationship to draw nearer to God and allow him to refine your hearts in the process-that’s the whole reason God gave us relationships-to see and experience more of Jesus through them! Appreciate y’all!

[@marissad7455]

Your transparency is so encouraging! I love the 20 min timer ⏲. You guys are truly a bless and really helping me even in my single season

[@harleighstringer]

it is seriously so amazing to see relationships with Christ in the center. thank you for this video.

[@christsroyalty2811]

Kian, you’re so patient and I admire that!

[@jarie9689]

So many helpful tips! Really liked the term “intense fellowship.” Remembering you guys are on the same team is so important. Thanks for sharing, ily both! 🤗

[@christinealiciamusic]

You guys are so cute! You’re so sweet together you’d think it was just puppy love, but you have such mature conflict resolution in real disagreements, a genuine love that is more than just a feeling. I’m so impressed!!!

[@user-mv2tg8hc8c]

Prayer is powerful and helpful, but there can also be unresolved issues that can create misunderstandings or unreasonable expectations. There's nothing wrong with what she did. It seems to me that Kyle needs healing from something.

[@Goat.Cheese]

Kyle needs individual therapy for sure to figure out his personal issues with jealousy and control

[@hannahjoy4843]

many Christians have a relationship with God but they do not get the deep healing they need. For instance, I ended a horrible controlling relationship, I have been receiving healing since then but I still have the pain sometimes, but I know when I feel that pain it is because God is bringing that up for me to get healing. I also have multiple personalities, many people do. And I know that some parts get brought up and I know that that part needs healing from it

[@djvn229]

Many people don't have multiple personalities. Many have fragments. Do you mean alternate personalities through traumas cuz same. Hope didn't sound rude. When this happens does it get worse if you think your acting immature which only makes you shut down more thinking your are being even more imature? never found someone to talk to about this! bless you. I pray Shalom upon you.

[@hannahjoy4843]

Djv N yes alternate personalities is basically the same as multiple personalities, I have just always called mine that. And yes many people think I am acting like a kid too much, or I am acting weird, but those are just some of my personalities... and definitely when I get comments like those by people I shut down and start to feel like an outcast because I dealt with many bullies in junior high who would call me names and I was always the weird girl. They would say that I was pretty but really weird. Honestly looks aren’t everything and I don’t look like my profile photo right now either. I did not know I had multiple personalities until about 8 months ago when I started going to church and Christian counselling from my wonderful pastors. I have always been the outsider in every situation because my different personalities would be up and act different. Sorry if this doesn’t make complete sense. I can definitely say that I can have one personality up and I will say something and then that personality will go away and then I won’t remember what I said. This is what happened In that toxic relationship, he would interrogate me and I would answer with one thing and then my multiple personalities would switch and then answer again with something else, not remembering what I said before that. He would always say I was lying or cheating on him but in reality my parts are switching places and I as in “Hannah” do not remember what my other parts said. Especially under pressure and when he yelled at me everyday causing more emotional trauma to me... And multiple personalities have names too, I didn’t name them, they are already named

[@hannahjoy4843]

And yes the multiple personalities are caused by trauma. Here’s an example, we are made whole but then a trauma happens and one part of us breaks off and leaves. And then another part breaks off due to more trauma. And that cycle of trauma continues, which isn’t good but it is the truth. They can be hidden so deep inside that you as a person, do not even know , but your multiple personalities do know and they know all the trauma that happened. They are there to take the pain away but also they are there because they have now put up a wall to not let anyone in or out due to the trauma, until they receive deep inner healing

[@oandreax3145]

Same!! I was diagnosed multiple personalities as well and I’ve struggled as a Christian in my relationship with that.

[@Njmnz4]

God has been really speaking to me on changing the way that me & my husband disagree. This was EXTREMELY helpful... as a woman’s role in the disagreement. But it also helps elaborate from a mans perspective of the situation as well. All people are different, so I think by me getting a better understanding of my husbands personality during these disagreements. Im more so Like Kyle, where I am not able to just bounce back.. I appreciate you two being obedient and opening up.. this is something all couples go through! Powerful stuff!

[@lexidavis8250]

I just stumbled upon your channel and I have been watching all of your relationship videos with Kyle. My boyfriend and I have been having arguments lately over silly things and I never know why I’m so angry. Tonight we were arguing and he wanted to pray and I just couldn’t and I felt awful about. Now I’m understanding why I wasn’t able to and why I always get so angry and focus on my negative emotions too much. Thank y’all so much for sharing this video! It has really helped me.

[@qreua_3075]

Gems on Gems on Gems. God is working in you guys so much, because all of this is so in line with God without you guys sugar coating thing is sunshine and rainbows. Call it what it is. The enemy gets in your ear sometimes and brings out the worst in us, but you work through it 🙌🏾 I admire the God in you both 💛

[@emmafenton3873]

I am very encouraged by this! Thank you for being so vulnerable, it has really helped me understand conflict better :) praying for y’all

[@djvn229]

I really appreciate this transparency. But please be careful and keep safe boundaries in place, the devil would love to get in and destroy this relationship. I declare the blood of christ upon this relationship and marridge in JESUS mighty glorious name! love you guys.

[@NapiNeRDz]

Kian: "LOVE ME!!! GEEEZ!!!" That was soo cute, I love you guys.

[@jenniferlitt4500]

It’s so encouraging to know the details and know that I’m not alone in the conflict I face in my relationship and that it truly is spiritual warfare and the enemy can use our own emotions against us if we let him. What powerful words from the both of you! Thank you so much for sharing this

[@mikaelavalete870]

This is going to take courage for me to write. I can relate to Kyle with this example. The enemy attacks me through jealousy and insecurity. I’ve overcome so much and I owe it to God. I learned in my own relationship that establishing boundaries is very important and knowing what you are comfortable with :) Said boundaries are unique in every relationship. My partner and I had to learn this the hard way and I totally forgive our naivety looking back. I was uncomfortable for something that he didn’t know would make me jealous, until we talked about it! I’ve always trusted him and he respected me to change behavior I wasn’t comfortable with since it did make me upset. But, for months after, I ended up bring up the same argument over and over to try and resolve my feelings. The conflict should have been resolved, but I didn’t know how to solve my insecurity that was there before my boyfriend came along. It was difficult because I kept becoming tempted to take out my emotions on my partner and myself and not let things go and of course that hurt him! I wasn’t trusting in God TO let go. I wanted to believe I could, but my unhealthy thought patterns felt too overpowering. So i went to therapy, and developed a closer relationship with Christ, and it took some time and patience to improve how I handle my emotions. But I have learned to let myself move on from my past hurt and sensitivities, and I am so much better at moving forward in my relationship! And it’s truly worth it to build a loving relationship that feels even stronger than the puppy love of when you first met ;) I am lucky to have such a trustworthy and honest man, too, and we always strive to respect each other’s feelings and have healthy communication - and to show forgiveness by moving on and choosing love!

[@Crystal-ge9gh]

Mikaela-Thank you for your testimony. I'm a bit older than you, I've experienced the same thing. There were things that only Jesus could heal (and love) in me. That was a big struggle in my marriage. Difficult for me and for my husband (who could not do what Jesus can do). Jesus is the healer, and I PRAISE HIM! He has changed this in me. His love never fails. Keep your eyes on Jesus girlfriend!

[@mikaelavalete870]

Crystal thank you so much god bless 💜

[@polkadot9249]

I struggle with this too, did you figure out the root? I’m trying to give this over to God but if I get triggered those emotions come over me intensely and I feel powerless and frustrated at the situation causing it and myself for feeling that way. I haven’t had that aha moment where it clicks in my soul why I get this way and how to move past it.

[@PatriciaEspiritu]

Same 🥺 but thanks to Jesus 😊💛

[@PatriciaEspiritu]

@@polkadot9249 It helps sitting down in prayer with God like asking Him to help you discover why you do the things you do and act the ways you act. It helped me figuring out that I was then filled with so much pride and insecurity with myself. Then I've surrendered it all to the Lord, and by His grace I've learned to love my now bf with purity and trust.

[@theonegrateful-leper]

I am still watching this.. Gosh you two are adorable.Kian how you have grown spiritually still amaze me. Praying God send me a Godly man. Am just learning how it is important to get a Godly spouse. The fact that Kian you were praying for Kyle while the enemy was attacking him is breath taking. Love you guys and know you have faithful follower from Kenya

[@jessimitchell2051]

Thank you for sharing details. It is so helpful to see how a Christian couple handles feelings, emotions, doubts, and lies from the enemy in arguments.

[@madisonprincinsky182]

Wow, knowing what it looks like to see your significant other struggle with the enemy is crazy. And so so valuable! (If you have tips for this and also how you figured out what helps you both then it's happening that would be a great topic!) Also, a lesson I took from this was adjusting your behavior for the people you love. It's not bad to accept prayer from a man, but because it was hurtful to Kyle it was right for you to act differently. Everyone has their own triggers and sensitive spots that might seem unimportant or irrational to others, but a person who loves you will understand your struggles and pain and do all they can to not use them against you.

[@Asian.in.Africa]

This is one of the most beautiful relationships I’ve ever seen. Shows us how a godly relationship centered around God is the only way to do it

[@aprilbentley8195]

Honestly we need our emotions. God has emotions. I think we are very complex as people. Sounds like you're definitely learning how to walk together and learn each others needs. One of my shortcomings is lack of patience at the end of the day. Ive learned to warn people of that or to simply say, "im going to bed now. Now, not a half hour later, or you wont get the best answer/response from me as you would in the morning. Thanks for such honesty.

[@lindyavelar7624]

I love how much truth they speak and how boldly they speak it! Amen!

[@user-vt6ob4ux4s]

Your story reminds me of the. Book of Galatians chapter 5 in particular and the battle between our flesh and the spirit.❤

[@elmerbaez6784]

It sounds like Jealously crept in. I'm glad you guys sorted it out.

[@Hersheychocolate12]

Hmm maybe he needs therapy (this may be rooted deeper and maybe show later in the relationship) also to help get over jealousy especially concerning this exact situations. It does take me aback that this fight arose over a church setting and at the altar because it was a male. That makes me sad but I’m glad you guys are taking the steps to work this out.

[@Chloeyboey217]

This is soooo interesting! Im so similar to Kyle when me and my husband are in intense Fellowship situations 😂 it takes me a long time to get back to relaxed and cuddling but my husband is so ready to move on! Im getting better at it but it’s definitely taken a couple of years, and many more to get better!

[@AnjelSpeaks]

I love the perspective of conflict being spiritual warfare instead of calling it a fight. Being on the same team and fighting the spirit. Love it. 💞

[@stefanieglatts1800]

Thanks for being so vulnerable. Love your relationship grounded in the Lord amen !!

[@katerinas4788]

This video was amazing. Honestly connected with it so much. My hubby and I have been married for almost 7 years and our key word when we are frustrated is "im getting attacked" and we instantly know to get on the same side and we understand not to get emotional. So it was nice hearing this. 💞💞

[@Awayyybbcare]

a couple that prays together stays together

[@sugarbuzzsmb77]

I would love to see a video on how you resolve conflict/ tips on that!! Thank you for this video, very encouraging!

[@LadyPizzaCrust]

She’s such a wife bro! So she could be strong for the both of you!😭

[@tellyannpr]

The moment at 17:00 was so sweet 😭❤️😂

[@tatianandreaa]

Wow this is super helpful. Sometimes my boyfriend and I feel like the only Christian couple who has horrible fights, thank you so much 😭

[@angelavanoosten1]

This is SOOO powerful!! I love this so much, I can relate to the spirtitual warfare so much and these tips are so good, give more if you have

[@Aviebaybe]

this is so comforting to see a beautiful young christian couple striving to serve God. :) new subscriber here!

[@ecorceparfumee8848]

Awesome video! I think it is the first video I see explaining conflit with specific examples ! Thank you for that! I am encouraged and impressed! ^^

[@javennoriega4270]

This video is so real and beautiful! God bless you both.

[@Derriann9705]

The spiritual maturity you guys display in this video is such a blessing! Thank you guys for sharing this. Love your videos they are so helpful even though I'm single :)

[@kimi315]

love how genuine and sincere you guys are. I'm so glad I found this channel! May God bless your relationship and your marriage!!

[@Jocelynjmeza]

Thank you for sharing. I can see how God is using y’all’s lives to reach people who are seeking that extra push of couple advice.

[@monicacsaucedo]

Thanks for being so open about your relationship. I love that you two are raw and honest when it comes to difficult topics. It really does make everything relatable and helps to know that other married couples go through very similar scenarios. And the biggest thing to me is that you guys put Jesus in the center of it all. I love to see more KZbinrs that put Jesus in the forefront.

[@kmwilkerson04]

I am so glad this just came up in my feed. I literally just told someone if they weren't working with God then they are working with the 👿...i most likely upset him (I can see him respond similar to you hubby). Time to pray. 🥰🙏💞 Thank you for always being open and honest about everything in your videos. They are very helpful

[@daneilleblake8567]

I love that you don't fake flipping the switch and pretending to be okay to make her feel that she is forgiven. You still do the work to be right with God in your heart and that's when you can truly exude forgiveness.

[@alibyebaby2064]

I like that this started off with Kian saying something about how she hurt him. I see a long of channels where I feel like the female in the relationship doesn’t talk about anything they’ve done wrong or any way they have ever hurt their S/O

[@ArianaKevelier]

I love this ! I never really comment on peoples channel. But this is a prayer answered. I was looking for godly relationships channel and how they work out real life conflicts. I needed your transparency. Thank you. Please keep up the relationship content, singles need it ! Some of us struggle with how a godly relationship should look like and how it works and we never get to learn unless we get into the relationship. I’m learning a lot from you two !

[@DeniSoars]

Wow. Thank you so much Kian & Kyle for your vulnerability, transparency and this very needed God-inspired conversation. May God continue to bless your marriage!

[@cassandracolangelo7608]

Thanks for sharing and being so candid about these aspects of your relationship! A book that helped me so much in navigating and understanding Gods design for our emotions as women is called “True Feelings: God's Gracious and Glorious Purpose for Our Emotions” by Carolyn Mahaney. Such a helpful biblically based book to understand that God created us with the faculty of emotions to glorify Him, yet in our sinful nature those emotions can do the opposite of honouring Christ. Thought I’d share that resource to anyone who wants to grow in this area!!

[@ChaoticPeace357]

I am taking notes and I have been married eleven years. It’s so nice to see a young couple making a stand for God and not being ashamed or worrying about who the enemy might send to try and shame them into silence or go the opposite way and dangle greed and followers for silence. Good luck to you both I hope you continue to grow and prosper in all ways and God loves y’all-He loves us all. It’s amazing to know that God loved us so much even as sinners that He sent His only begotten Son, Jesus, to die for us, and that Jesus in all His love and mercy willingly suffered atrocities and humiliation and pain and much more to bleed and die for us,to save us from the enemy,from the flesh,from ourselves and our sin and the power of death.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you so much for your encouragement! I really appreciate it!

[@kjohnson4556]

I feel the spirit so strong watching all of your videos. Thank you for being so willing to share. Y’all are so awesome

[@autumnholcomb5062]

I love how transparent you both are. ❤️

[@karen_hockaday]

I love watching Pastor Steven Furtick's message's from Elevation Church! That's how I found you guys!!

[@ashleybrady2010]

Love this! I really appreciate how vulnerable you two were in sharing.🤗

[@Mariaannallen]

im happy that you guys seem happy but it seems like a lot of red flags just dismissed? be careful loves

[@Goat.Cheese]

A lot of Christian's do that I've noticed. They just pray and move on without actually addressing some major red flags like deep seeded jealousy and control issues. Not healthy.

[@rosecloud]

It takes time to figure out the other person in a relationship...especially in the beginning stages when so much is still not known. Just be patient, it gets easier. It gets easier to know when the other person needs more space, extra comforting, etc. Relationships are work, but when it's worth it - it's WORTH IT.

[@lullu860]

Preach!!!!!!! Our emotions r actually a tool for the enemy to fuel lies

[@IsaacThomas344]

I'm glad y'all are showing the good and the struggles of your relationship! The world likes to only show the relationships as sunshine and rainbows without the selflessness or conflict. I thank Jesus that he's teaching me through you guys :)

[@arbretree5463]

This video is such a breath of fresh air! Thank you so much for posting it!

[@tallyakuzmin6390]

Man, you guys are babies 😍 so sweet... but babies. I do hope you stay this way during conflicts as you mature in your relationship and marriage

[@kaitlynianni5027]

Your videos are literally my favourite lately. Conflict is so important to talk about and I think the bible can save us.

[@ellielin9082]

I really admire how you go about your relationships, and although I am not dating, the techniques and how you went about your conflicts is really great. I am going to use it to try to use it in my relationships with my family and friends

[@faceitmovement5187]

You are so special! God bless your marriage ♥️💎🕊 thank you for your content!

[@cristinahuerta7339]

You guys are wonderful together. ♥️

[@marielopez8166]

You guys are awesome!! keep spreading Jesus! Love this and we are using this in our relationship. Praying has been the big solution

[@kar3n35]

I know my self and best thing is for me not to talk the momen am mad or angry i will say i dont want to talk until im not mad. I just need time to calm down every time i have try to work it out mad is a disaster. Better take a break and then talk it over later.

[@andrewgadson89]

Please, kian and Kyle. Keep fighting the good fight of faith. Your testimonies and relationship advice is holy spirit filled. I can feel the holy spirit leaping for joy in me when u guys were speaking. The holy spirit always confirms the truth. Thank god for using you guys!💯🙏🙌👍

[@emjoy7847]

You guys are awesome and full of Jesus. I Recently gave my heart fully to Christ after watching some videos from your channel Kian. I was teetering around it for a while. Thank you for being so open and honest on here! I want to mention my experience with emotions and how although we can’t depend on our emotions for clarity we have to be careful not to demonize them. Since they are a such a gift from God and a tool used by God to guide us and renew us here. Even strong ones and tough emotions like anger and sadness. They indicate our heart cares deeeeply about something. And also that we may need to release or grieve an old perspective/wound we’ve had for a long time that is not supportive of the new life getting ready to come in. Kind of how forest fires burns out all the old decaying trees to provide more nutrients for the forest floor to rebirth the new seeds. Or how rain and thunder storms help to keep the Earth in electrical balance and release built up energy in the atmosphere. God can use our emotions to keep us balanced and regularly renewed. You’re so right though when you said that the enemy can use them against us!! Since they are also intense, chaotic, and/or disorienting we are often in survival mode compared to feeling calm and at ease with Gods presence. So we are more likely to cling to fearful, angry, depressing thoughts because they suddenly make more sense than Gods broader perspective. Which then we act in alignment with our anger and not truth. Emotions are a gift but not a stable place to build truth on. Im trying to get into the habit of bringing all my emotions good and bad to Christ and laying them down. To ask to see through his eyes and ask for his strength to process them without getting blown away. He endured it and walked it out here so that we may all have a better chance at finding the way. God is so good. Much love to everyone on here!

[@bongiwemdaka533]

Guys your transparency is sooo needed so helpful to us. Thank you so much. Keep it up

[@marissahynes1050]

I just wanted to say thank you. Gods using you for incredible things. This video came out right in the middle of attacks from the enemy in my God honoring relationship. It’s so crazy how much my boyfriend and I relate to everything you and Kyle said in this video. You’ve given us so many ideas to try and I can’t thank you enough. Satan has NO hold. (Also I highly recommend making another video addressing conflict!!! You both are SO wise!)

[@Ristijl]

I found your channel today and I watched a lot of your video's already. Your video's are really encouraging and helpful, they openend up my eyes in a lot of different ways 💗 I've been feeling a little bit lost lately, like God wasn't there to listen and comfort me when I was struggling. But that wasn't true because God is and always will be there for me. I just felt like I had to live up to a high standard to be loved by God. I felt like I needed to be perfect, to be worthy of His love and grace. But I've come to learn that I can live my life, not just for God, but with God💕 Thank you so much for sharing your story on this channel. I really want to encourage you with this words: "She is clothed in strength and dignity and laughs without fear of the future - Proverbs 31: 25"

[@followmemove]

This is gold! Thanks fo sharing those details, its vurnable for you both, but also very helpfull to relly understand how you can work things out!

[@michelesminis]

This was extremelyyyyy helpful!! thank you guys for being so transparent !!

[@kenanaokotokwe4599]

I love you guys, your authentic journey and transparency!!! Thank you for sharing with us

[@user-vn7rn7gj4k]

I love your videos guys, you are awesome! God works through your family. You’re helping people

[@graceengelbert2554]

Hey! Have either of y'all ever gone through deliverance? Like spiritual or demonic oppression?

[@yeshuaislord3872]

This is very important

[@trumpofqueens10]

This is a great suggestion!

[@xoxotoriya]

wow this was the most REAL conflict discussion and I appreciate your vulnerability to share this!! my love and I have similar behaviors when we argue so this is really helpful

[@mysterygirl30011]

Hey guys. Thanks for sharing. Would like to quickly react to the first example. Dont want to judge what it's like but due to what Kyle says about past relationships/ having been cheated on, comes to mind this all has probably not been handed over to the Lord. It's one thing to forgive but we need to lay everything at Jesus' feet otherwise we are carrying past burdens and are walking around with open wounds. Don't think it should be an issue, think it shows something is still there from those past experiences. Same thing with getting back in the right state od mind afterwards and needing time with God before you can flip the switch back: All about handing things over from what has happened. God bless

[@blossomallotey3162]

Thank you Kian & Kyle!!! For sharing this with us:)) I have learned so much for your videos. I also really appreciate that I have a big sister in Christ to gain wisdom from. So much love💕💕💕 God bless

[@adelepenguin13]

Thank you so much for your honesty and transparency, Kian and Kyle!! You both gave a lot of great advice =)

[@DearGodSheIs]

This was so good!! Love the breakdown of both of the examples. Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️

[@deniseflores2948]

Wow thank you so much for being so vulnerable

[@hannahsnyder8748]

Thank you so much for sharing!! It is so helpful to hear the whole story and how you guys handled it. Props for being open and honest!!