Preparing For Marriage ⎮The Single Diaries

[@JemimaRose]

maybe the relationship we're craving is our relationship with God, not a significant other right now :')

[@acm9759]

AMEN

[@risadaley655]

I agree

[@risadaley655]

Then maybe we need to ask ourselves why do we feel that way ? What's causing us to feel lonely or thirsty for a partner ?

[@andreavalle3987]

YES

[@ZhaiiYou]

I did because I didn’t hand it over

[@gracemorganspeaks]

I love the messsage about marriage. Whoever is reading this and being haunted by your past, mistakes and regrets. Your past cannot define who you are. You are stronger in mind and will overcome. Focus on what's ahead of you. Peace

[@CynthiaChumo]

Wow Amen Amen

[@Absmagail129]

Thank you. My past is a rough one and I feel like it would keep me from being married one day

[@72percent83]

"Being single is easy...wow." This is what I realized when I stepped out of my first and only relationship almost a year ago (I'm in my twenties) after years of seeking one. I still didn't know God/didn't want to but walking away was an absolute relief, like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. Nothing wrong with the person, and we're still friendly! But relationships require effort from both parts, and marriage lasts beyond the wedding day. Now I'm saved and I LOVE being single! I already have the love of my life to meet me every morning when I open my Bible. His definition of love is unparalleled.

[@benjiman7]

Yeah that’s so cool!!

[@kamahorodaphnepatra]

Woow this is exactly what I am going through

[@alondramendez-acosta7330]

Bro are you me? Lol that described me to a T

[@sophies8573]

I didn't think I needed to see this video but your message hit me like a ton of bricks. I'm single and honestly all I want is to get married. But now that I think about it, I'm probably not ready. I'm still so new to faith and maybe I have to build up my relationship with God first and commit to Him first. I never thought of it like that. Just realised this, so thank you SO much!

[@shefindshim1151]

Good for you, Sophie! I was very fortunate that I found God and my man at the same time. He was actually the one who motivated me to get close to God. I feel so blessed to have found God and my now-fiance. Life is getting much better. I still have a lot of work to do, but little by little, I am improving. I also wish you a great journey with God full of great growth!

[@sophies8573]

She Finds Him that's awesome! Thank you😊

[@Progamerjay100]

I would be very careful about getting married if I were you. As a woman, you are making yourself subject to your husband and once you are married, you cannot divorce. And if you do, you cannot get married again. Unless you are a widow, you only get one shot. The man you marry must be a godly man with an active relationship with God and mature in the faith otherwise I guarantee you, you will be very unhappy and feel stuck for a very long time. Marriage isn't what you think it is. It is not that cutesy partner in crime tv relationship. You are literally trading in your freedom to serve a man for the rest of your life. Which can be fine if the one you serve, loves and respects you. Since you never really know someone until you have seen their ugly side, it is better to stay single and focus on the Lord to fulfill you. Not another man. And if you want children, there are so many in the fostercare system praying for a forever home.

[@BethThereseReacts]

GIRL good for you for realizing that! Just wanted to encourage you. It's very mature to have that sort of epiphany.

[@kylewolfgang]

SO GOOD BABY! I love you 😍

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Love you too honey 🥰

[@valerielinares2068]

LOL! You guys are too adorable!

[@shirleyroth660]

Girll! The Holy Spirit was speaking right through you! I will pray that your marriage will glorify God in every aspect! I love this video!

[@nancymcphee4793]

God is speaking to me right,left,center 😭😭Thank you ❤️

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

So good to hear He is using this! Praise Jesus 🙏🏼

[@Progamerjay100]

It is better to stay single and pursue God for the fulfillment you crave. If you desire children? There are so many children in the Foster care system praying for a family.

[@GregChacon]

Don't rush the process, guys. If you settle for less, you'll live with great regret.

[@kimberlymercado177]

You are completely right! I've been married for two years and didn't realize how much sacrifice it entails. What a blessing that you are learning these things before the wedding so you are mentally prepared. Enjoy this season in your life! And congratulations on the engagement!

[@akvilesabulyte4161]

Your channel has encouraged me to recreate the relationship with God, I feel now why spreading His word is one of your life purposes! Love from Lithuania

[@Kammiilla]

Kaip smagu rasti lietuvę❤️❤️😍😍

[@tapywp]

I've finally come to love my season of singleness and now I don't want to leave this season! I don't want anything to come between me and Jesus!

[@miaserenavega]

As someone in a loving relationship on the path to marriage, I so second all of this! Praise God for you Kian! 💛

[@GregChacon]

Amen. I have been married for going on four years now and it is difficult. I'm not saying that isn't worth it, but it was so much easier and "fun" when I was single (not fun in the bad way). Marriage is a path of death to yourself.

[@jada.uhlexis]

“Marriage is walking the narrow path, not the easy one.” Wow i love that, well said girl 💕

[@amandafortin2270]

It’s so cool to see the Holy Spirit so evident in your life! Thank you for your faithfulness to God and for being willing to share everything that you’re learning. You’re amazing Kian!💗

[@blossomallotey3162]

Kian, thank you for taking your time & making these videos. I have learned so much through u. I have been a Christian but I am gaining so much wisdom through u and u helped me encourage myself to read the word more in the Bible. & helping me be grateful for being single now but also helping me prepare for marriage if that is God’s will for me.❤️❤️ lots of love💕 & I pray God blesses u and Kyle.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

AMEN! God is working in your life in powerful ways. Thank you for the kind words!

[@jennifermejia8193]

Sis, this is the best video you’ve made thus far ! Bless your soul! Thank you for being transparent and being obedient to the Lord. Being raw and honest about this.

[@unfading_beauty]

This is such an amazing message that the church needs to hear more!! So many sad singles out there are thinking that they’re missing out on an all fun, no stress thing called marriage. That’s not what Godly marriage is at all!! It’s Christ’s sacrificial love on display 💕

[@Jasminem91099]

Thank you for a raw and honest video! I have never dated anyone or even been asked out so it is hard when everyone else around you has. Sometimes it is tough because there are people my age getting married next year and I feel so behind or like there is something wrong with me. Sometimes I'm afraid that God wont allow me to get married until 10 years from now. Needless to say this made me feel a lot better about myself lol.

[@freedominchrist9595]

That word “Selflessness” is so powerful 🌱

[@jillianschroeder]

I was up at 4:30 this morning and was thinking about this! I felt like I was mourning my singleness (like you said, the ease of singleness) but am still so excited to marry my Jesus-loving fiancé! I have to pray the fear of the unknowns of marriage away. I have really appreciated journeying with you as an engaged woman. Thank you!

[@esthermosher697]

"if you're single saying to yourself, 'my life would just be better if a man came into my life' don't think of a relationship as something you will get out of it, but rather, what you will give." Conviction coming in hot. So good and challenging. I realize now why some of my relationships haven't worked out, I was only expecting. Now I'm working on my relationship with God firstly and finding my fulfillment in Him so that when God brings my man to me, ill be ready to give and serve. Lets be real here, no PERSON can satisfy you, you have to find CONTENTMENT in God.

[@christinawatkinsyoutube]

Well done for talking on this Kian! all I hear the last few years is ‘marriage is hard but it’s worth it’ it’s not wonder the divorce rate is up, If you don’t have Christ (which so many people don’t!) then it cannot work! Christ is our model!

[@EvinNazya]

This is the most least generic video ever. This was HELPFUL. You are extremely wise. Thank you so much Ki💛💛

[@nyalibamusa2613]

So encouraging! I love that you said something along the lines of the reason we crave marriage so much is because we think more of what we will get out of it rather than what we will give. I never thought of it that way...thank you for your insight 💗

[@alexac1887]

Thank you for sharing truth, even when it’s not popular, that’s true discipleship. What your saying God has shown me through quarantine but it’s so good to hear it over and over and to truly set in motion servant hood ❤️🙌🏻

[@nancynavas9354]

Omg yes! I can relate with you! Being single is easy compared to being in a relationship.

[@EternityNMind]

Literally what I needed😭. Only 7 mins in God bless you sis, be a light for our generation by the Grace of God🥺🙌🏾!

[@feavenweldemichael3392]

I love this video! This was very well said! And i totally agree I think when we crave or want a relationship/marriage it’s really out craving/wanting a closer relationship with God! Because if we crave a relationship then that’s truly a relationship with God. If we are fulfilled with Him then that’s all we need and He will provide on His will! Just like you said we much die to ourselves in relationship with another person, we must die to ourselves with God and give it all to Him and let His will be done! Ive realized this a while ago and I’m just happy to see a video about it! This is so beautiful and May God bless you!

[@pilviwilde3624]

Kian, thankyou for being obedient to God and shining Christ’s light in this generation💛

[@AshleyMarie-qs6xq]

Wow this is definitely one of the most wise relationship advice type videos I’ve ever seen. Kian you really killed it!!

[@aari8350]

This video was really amazing. As a follower of Christ in my single season, it feels nice to have the true nature of marriage honestly and gently explained. It was like a big sister was talking to me.

[@amberstonespeaks]

Just wanna say...red is your color!!! Thanks for always being transparent. ❤️

[@CH-ej3yx]

This was so enlightening, wow Kian the Holy Spirit speaks so strongly through you! Love your vids and congrats on the marriage!!

[@RaizelDELB]

This makes me realise all the more how I thought I wanted to live independently but this covid19 situation and not having friends to look after and feed the meals I love to make--for at least 3-5people....(I’ve grown used to doing whenever I cooked in the past)....-all this has made me realise that no matter what I’m doing now or how I’m living for God....I just want someone to share it with. Someone to serve and look up to for the rest of my life. Someone who’ll just be there to hold me when I wish to come home and cry so that I can continue to face the day with a smile, knowing that I can hold in the cry for when I come home-and it won’t be an empty pillow. I spent my whole life taking care of kids and looking after my family.... when I started living on my own -I realised ...I may not want to rush into having kids of my own just yet ...there are so many kids out there... but... I’d just like to share life with someone and take care of at least one person -to love them more than myself (because that motivates me to be a better person)....and look after them for the rest of my life...and my only condition or wish is that they choose to stay with me no matter what and trust that God will get us through and keep us together through all things. Yeah, that poured out. Thank you for helping me realise this. A friend sent me this and now I’m grateful for this bit of clarity 🙏 bless your hearts 💕 and relationship for all you’re doing for Jesus 🥰

[@RaizelDELB]

@Tyler Lee Yes, actually. We got married at the beginning of this year. And I'm travelling with my husband now - heading to our new home- after the miracle of finally receiving my residency permit just a few days ago!!! Thank you sooo much for your prayers 🥹🙏🏼

[@RaizelDELB]

@Tyler Lee and you too!- may you be so blessed as you grow in your prayer life & walk with the Lord! No doubt, a mightily praying man like yourself would soon receive the answers to his prayers and be such a blessing to whomever he's around wherever you may go! Shalom 🕊️

[@demidalton9555]

KIAN!!! Yesss!!! 👏 Bringing more raw honest truth! Girl I’m so proud of you for being bold. You’re right- marriage is suppose to shape us and mold us more into the image of Christ. Going on 3 years of marriage and I couldn’t agree more to everything you said. It’s so worth it but not easy for sure.

[@sobiii15]

Kian, I'm so happy that I've found your channel! Your speaking wonderful things, I can feel that this is from God :) I've been single all my life and I have always thought marriage would be the way you say - romantic and easy. Now, I came to realisation that it is hard work but 100% worth it and it would help those two people to become saint by fighting for each other and helping to grow. Well... the best is yet to come. Thank you Kian, lots of love and God bless you

[@ashleymartin7280]

I really respect the realness and rawness of this video. I am in a season of singleness and this is helpful to shift my focus. Thank you! More people need to talk about things like this.

[@yalitzalyramos9886]

I’m in a relationship and starting to realize everything that implies having a relationship under divine order. This video is great. Thanks for all of your content 💓✝️🙌🏼

[@abstract1126]

So insightful. Really wish I had heard this back when I was younger. I could have saved myself from so much heartache!

[@luciostherpos7997]

Thank you! As a soon to be 33 year old woman. Recently single. This is great. Thank you.😊

[@valerielinares2068]

Very, very powerful message. I have added this video to my "marriage/relationship advice" playlist. Also, as I was listening to what you were saying, another scripture popped into my mind regarding love. It reminds us that love is not a mere feeling, but an action: "My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth" (1 John 3:8). Though, I think words are important too since even our actions alone can be misunderstood and misinterpreted. I think of how James teaches that words are powerful (James 3:1-12). Another thing I thought of as you were talking is how extremely important it is to be equally yoked with a believer in relationships. If one of you was not a believer, and you have to practice servant-hood and unconditional love towards one another, imagine how much more difficult that would be. The unbelieving partner would not share the same convictions of unconditional love, servant-hood, obedience, submission, etc. So, they would have no issue with taking advantage of the believing spouse. There are many reasons why being equally yoked in a relationship is important - but, this is definitely one of consideration. DO NOT be unequally yoked with unbelievers. If any believer is tempted to be unequally yoked with another believer, don't do it. God isn't trying to impede your fun. He isn't trying to punish you with singleness. He's trying to protect you from the negative repercussions of being unequally yoked - whether those repercussions are practical, emotional, physical, or spiritual. Just don't do it. It isn't worth the price you would pay in the long run.

[@BethThereseReacts]

Girl I'm crying over a boy that I really liked ghosting me right now and I stumbled onto your channel. It is getting me THROUGH. This video in particular really encouraged me and spoke to me. Thank you for speaking such truth in a gracious way.

[@isabellachristner811]

This was SUCH a blessing for me right now! You have already influenced me in my season of singleness, but this just helped me put things into perspective even more! God is doing so much through you and this! Whoo. God bless you gal!

[@novanleon]

Denying yourself isn't something you just need to do for marriage, it's a fundamental part of walking in righteousness and obedience to Christ. Being single, it's easier to live your life without being forced to face your own fleshly nature but marriage puts you in a situation where you're forced to confront it. Your partner is like a mirror. You can see your own flaws by the effect your fleshly nature has on them. This is true for any type of relationship but the husband and wife relationship is very intimate so even the smallest things can become big issues and the effect you have on one another is easier to see.

[@TheLordismyshepherd...]

To be honest with you, I feel like your my friend. And you don't even know me😆😆 When I need to communicate to a friend, I search for you! GOD BLESS you and your family 🙏

[@NatashaOSR]

Everything that you shared in this video blessed me so much today. I could actually cry. I don’t recall if I’ve ever heard someone share on the joys & realities of both marriage and singleness in this way. It was very refreshing and timely for me to watch today 💛 thank you

[@user-dr7bx3uo6z]

I am embracing singleness for life. I don't want to be married. Yes I'll miss certain aspects of the married life, but overall I prefer to live by myself. I like being me not blended with someone else.

[@leadbyfaith7]

This blessed me sooooo much. Seriously Kian, thank you for helping me shift my perspective of my singleness. I really needed this. God bless you. Thank you for being so real, and for speaking the truth in love as we are called to.

[@suzannacaporale7944]

GIRL this video is SUCH an answered prayer. i literally asked my stepdad and mom last night what they miss about their single years. this is no coincidence. thank you so much.

[@aaqeelahdekock9898]

Thank you so much for your obedience in starting this channel! It's like God spoke RIGHT THROUGH YOU. So so grateful - thank you !

[@alexandraxmartinez7]

Yes Kian!! So true, I once heard focus on what you can give, not what you can get. Out serve one another 🙌🏻

[@Tina-zo3wf]

Very true indeed

[@racheljess4548]

lol I need to re-watch this everyday till it really sticks in my head!! Great video :)

[@laurenmiller4205]

I'm craving marriage because two is better than one. When one is down, the other can lift the other up and your Harvest will be double, more souls for the Kingdom so if you are obeying the Lord, you will get a lot of good stuff out of marriage. But I'm not craving to marry a child that wants to argue about the sun being a darker yellow than I believe when there's souls that need to know the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

[@taylorpitman6838]

God bless you, friends! This truly was an eye-opener from God through you to me! I pray He blesses your marriage and your life. May you have a great day!

[@gracelattz2279]

I absolutely loved this! I did not expect it to speak to me as much as it did. Love your enthusiasm to spread more of God’s Word and truth! Thank you, thank you! Praying for you and Kyle to have a relationship, through all the hills and valleys, that withstands the test of time and is an outward example of God’s love, too all who get to know you guys! 🙏🏻💙

[@lisar5349]

This gives me so much encouragement for my faith in God's timing as I was starting to question His knowing or seeing me at all because I felt for sure I was ready for my husband, but now... I see He definitely knows me better than I know myself 😅

[@destineecrossland2211]

I love this so much, it is so real and raw. This is what people need to hear about marriage and a committed loving, God-centered relationship. Being with someone is hard work, it takes time, it takes someone telling you everything that you need to work on, its forgiving time and time again, its being sacrificial when you want the opposite of what you want to do. But, it is the most incredible journey you can ever endure. Being with my best friend has taught me the best and worst things about myself. It is the hardest thing you will ever do (if you do it well) but it will be the best decision you ever make. Do not be discouraged, seek God first and it will make this chapter of life a lot easier.

[@ChelseaHejny]

Kian, this video is such a gift! You are so well spoken. What you said perfectly falls in line with belief that marriage isn’t supposed to make you happy or whole, it’s to make you holy. I can't speak for myself quite yet, but being marriage I imagine gives us all the ultimate opportunity to purify our hearts and souls. All the best to you and your eventual nuptials!

[@jubileethao20]

First I want to say Give Praise and Glory to God! Yes HALLELUJAH! And thank you for your insight on singleness, marriage, and just being prepared. God bless you Kian, and Kyle.

[@Romantictravelerr]

Thanks so much this! Super helpful, and love that we can look at Marriage as a way to serve and Glorify Our awesome God xo

[@trackstar6466]

Thank you so much for sharing this Kian ❤️ I needed to hear this in my season of singleness.

[@ohyeah2269]

Thank you Kian. The Lord is answering me. What's crazy is a few hours ago i felt i should ask my future spouse whilst courting or before to define what he believes marriage to be for him. I then decided i would seek out what Abba says about it because i would then also answer him obviously. I just felt to discover practically what it is in holiness. This video answers a lot praise God. Also I just kept doubting now that my time is near. I kept seeing many divorces and wondered if it's too soon for me to marry or i may want to be "free" some more while knowing time is nearing. But i know my destiny. Got so much Truth and Life in this thanks.

[@sabriahh4529]

I have been binge watching your videos for a week now and have gained more than I ever have with another channel! Thank you for being a faithful servant 🤍

[@montanabuck]

Really makes me think more....Makes me want to be very cautious as to who I marry. One of the biggest decisions of our lives! Thank you Kian!💜🙏🏻

[@nathaliemora7012]

What has me worried now is that I don't know if we will ever be able go meet others in the regular way. With coronavirus the world is virtual and meeting someone like that is not common. I have been waiting for 6 years now, being completely single and the wait gets a bit harder as time goes by.

[@ashleighwalker9278]

Oh girl this is soo good! It’s clear God has anointed you to share this word. Praise God 🙌🏼So beautiful to see your growth. Praying for your relationship and future marriage ❤️

[@silasfitzgerald4159]

Thank you for making this video and sharing these important truths with those who watch and listen. Even though I know these truths, it's always good to hear them again. I'm currently engaged myself, and I continue to learn how Christ calls me to be more like himself and how I can serve my fiancée more.

[@kailacook9398]

Kian I see so much of Jesus in you! Your transparency is so refreshing and I'm so thankful God led me to your channel! Praise Him for your faithfulness 💕 keep speaking truth sis

[@lelaratumudu]

Wow ! Amazing encouragement! Just what ive been going through with my partner and im the one thats always saying those exact words ...that its so hard... but bottom line is that we still love each other despite our fights ... i guess its when we love God first we will have the love for our partner despite our imperfections ! Thanks sis for this 😍😍😍

[@eliseduvall]

Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas is one of the best books about this topic. I finished it recently and it was so humbling and really put a new perspective on how marriage can transform us. It definitely confronted how much I was idolizing marriage in an improper way. Definitely recommend for single and married people!

[@ruhamaardelean9931]

Wow! Thank you sososo much for this video! I`m in a relationship now and I had the same thoughts about marriage. This really showed me that I`m not the only one going through this! God bless you!

[@GregChacon]

Not saying you are, but don't rush, sis. After having been married for almost four years now, I wish I could go back and change somethings. Singleness and marriage are two different cups of poison--either way you're going to experience pain, but just different kinds.

[@Grace8381]

So real. So wise.

[@cassie274]

Kian, God has blessed you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with all of us! I am thankful to God for bringing you into my life. His timing is truly divine.

[@missrd395]

Thank you for the honesty! It's not always about Roses. Very helpful.

[@amandabear328]

Yesss Kian omg!!! You were one of, if not, the first Christian youtuber I followed when I began my journey with Jesus and I’m so so proud and happy for you!!! You’re married!! Thank you so so much for this video and all of your other extremely relatable and helpful videos! Love you so much and wish you and your husband(!!!) all the best🙏🏾♥️

[@hannahdavis698]

I just stumbled upon your channel about a week ago and have just been bingeing all of your videos because you speak so deeply into my heart. This video especially spoke to me. Thank you for being so vulnerable and transparent!

[@lindalogan8460]

You are so special Kian ♥️ God bless you and Kyle. It's so funny, tonight I posted that I was hurting being single and didn't know why God had not sent me a companion in my life. I've had major setbacks and been engaged twice. I'm not young anymore and I just feel like its over-cadovers for me. There is this saying ..➡️"Love makes the world go round"....For me Kian, life without Love is meaningless. I'm hurting. 💔 I don't want to post my age. Lovey, just want you to know that you are not only speaking to the youth. (I was the only girl who sat in the back-row of marriage seminars who was actually single ) 💔 ....and still am.

[@mirembesarah9840]

Wow wow wow! You need to peach a sermon about this in all the single groups & conferences. So needed! I'm re watching & re sending! Thx Kian & congratulations!

[@lalajenjeni1511]

You are beautiful by the grace of God😊😊. Keep going girl. Always stay faithful to him. Always speak the truth and never give up!😘

[@kikodicaffe4187]

❤yess! This video is for me even tho im single 😂

[@kristel3135]

I just wanted to say, i'm so glad i stumbled upon your channel, i love it and your videos have opened my eyes to a lot of things, keep doing what you are doing and spreading the Gospel.

[@becomingtheone5356]

Kian, please pray and discern if you really want to get married already, I just have a feeling that maybe it’s too early! ❤️ Love your videos

[@MsMadmax1]

I've been married a very long time (almost 30 years) and here's some advice I gave to my nieces and nephews about what to do before walking down the aisle. 1) Get to know who you're marrying-I mean really know them and their family because you're not just marrying your partner, you marry their family too and ask yourself, "Can I live with this person & family the rest of my life?" 2) While it may add an extra cost, get a blood test and genetic screen. Most couples plan on having a family so it might be helpful to know if you can even get pregnant before you start trying. If one of you is RH-negative and the other RH-positive, you may have trouble conceiving and sustaining a pregnancy. The genetic screening will also save you a ton of heartbreak in the long run-genetic disabilities can result in the early death of a child or worse, passing the condition on to another generation. While you may still want to take your chances, it's helpful to know ahead of time so you can both make informed decisions. 3) Your wedding is only one day in your life but you have the whole rest of your life to be married. Whether you marry in Church with all the trimmings, run off to Las Vegas or get married in an alternative location, you're just as married and that's the important part. Don't ruin relationships over little details because you're hell bent on making your wedding perfect.

[@noursqushair]

Although our ideas on faith don’t align, I always give your videos a view and almost always love the message behind them. This one however was so impactful, it had me pausing in the middle to call my bf and let him know I want to make sure I’m being the best for him vs viewing a relationship selfishly. Great video, loved it

[@j0yc3lynp]

You are so sweet! Thank you for sharing so much truth and not sugar coating it! This is stuff I’m learning as well (although not in a relationship) and being content with my Lord and seeing how He can use me to help and serve others and not hyper focusing on a relationship that I may be dreaming up in my head! Thank you again, keep doing the good work☺️🙏🏼❣️

[@venturesintoglory5353]

Thank you for sharing your journey, Kian, as you progress from living a single lifestyle to learning to have a godly relationship with your future husband. You are a blessing! Steve from Guelph, Canada.

[@sofiaavolio7429]

This is the best video about singleness that I have seen so far! Thank you Kian, I really needed to hear this

[@aurelietoutsimplement404]

Thank you SO much for all the things you are sharing with us and especially in this video, I've never heard this point of view of marriage explains like that. I am very happy to heard that the single diaries are comming back! Merci! God bless you

[@yeshuaischrist9951]

I NEVER THOUGHT BEING SINGLE WAS DIFFICULT. NO ONE I KNOW THOUGHT IT WAS.

[@CARLECREATES]

God def brought me here (: It blew my mind when you said that your fiancés name is kyle , made it even more personal for me 🙈

[@aubrey4895]

wow this video was SO on time! Lately I’ve been really romanticizing marriage and thinking about it over and over again but this was like a wake up call lol 😂 I’m gonna enjoy my time while I have it easy and draw closer to the Lord and just prepare myself for my future husband and just myself right now instead of idolizing the thoughts of being with him in the future!

[@Ruffles729]

Yeah I’m struggling with this right now as well. I do need to just give it to God & focus on Him.

[@domoniquestar]

This is really good. Love all the different perspectives

[@tayybrowning]

This message is so needed! Good job Kian! Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty.

[@uplift5863]

Peace and blessings to you Kian. You have some great points! I know something that helps me too is reading good books on relationships and how to best be successful in them, most people don't do any pre prep and get so frustrated afterwards. John Gottman has some good relationship info. Keep up the fantastic work! Congrats to you and Kyle!

[@taylorzenno6226]

Kian, your videos are always so uplifting and inspiring! You have inspired me to share more about my faith and record my testimony too. Thank you for sharing your heart and for sharing about what God is doing in your life as you prepare for marriage. Praying for you!

[@ashleybrady2010]

Well said! I do believe we get something though, companionship that challenges is us yes, but the truth is having a mirror is one of the best things ever! Also , acting on sexual desires in an appropriate context (which is okay as we're sexual beings and while that honours GOD in marriage, the pleasure is something we enjoy).

[@hey_its_abs]

Love everything you spoke about in this video Kian!!!

[@lauren-jenaykelley4628]

Thank you so much for this video! So well explained and biblically sound!

[@refilwelauren]

Love your honesty sooo much!! It's very uncommon for people to talk about this and it's sooo helpful and refreshing. 💜